JustPearlyThings - When Men Pay For Pr0n

00:00:00.000 Only fans can be it can be used in different ways though

00:00:03.000 Can there's people that do only fans that don't you don't need to fully do the whole does he wait?

00:00:07.800 He subscribed to one right. That's what you're saying. He's subscribed to hers 0.93

00:00:10.820 I think that's like sad like I'd almost I'd almost rather he cheat than subscribe

00:00:15.980 Yeah, because I'm like nobody wants you to the point you have to get with it

00:00:23.480 You have to pay just to see pictures

00:00:25.460 And then I would wonder I'm like did I do something wrong?

00:00:28.340 I've had this conversation though. It's the same with like like maybe escorts and stuff in it

00:00:34.720 So let's say for instance with only fans. It makes it more personal

00:00:36.880 So let's say you can have only fans and you don't probably but if you do and someone really wanted

00:00:41.620 They couldn't really bother to wine and daniel or talked with you like that, but they really were like

00:00:45.400 Sexually attracted to you. They could just go through the only fans pay that little subscription

00:00:50.860 See everything in in their head

00:00:52.840 You're a boy now

00:00:54.280 Yeah, they've you know, I mean you've done whatever and then they can go on with their life

00:00:58.320 Do you know I'm saying same thing with like escorts or whatever instead of doing a whole day in situation?

00:01:03.580 They paid for escort

00:01:04.700 They've got out the system and they've moved on so it's like I think with only fans

00:01:09.000 The only difference between only fans and Pornhub

00:01:10.760 Pornhub is that they have

00:01:14.160 They might know the person they might know who the person is it's within reach

00:01:18.880 That's why I think only fans is growing because it's more personal

00:01:21.480 You ain't got to do nothing though, you know, you know, there's people like there's female escorts 1.00

00:01:26.740 Yeah, the guy with like all the guys

00:01:28.740 No, I hate you

00:01:29.860 They won't do nothing

00:01:30.700 Same thing with only fans like you haven't got to sexually do anything

00:01:34.240 There is a super chat

00:01:35.200 Never go through a girl's phone if you believe that you need to go through her phone 0.99

00:01:38.740 All you're doing is looking for anything to confirm what you already believe is happening

00:01:42.200 Sorry, but

00:01:45.220 That is true

00:01:46.140 Only that's a violation

00:01:47.400 I would

00:01:47.800 Okay, because I would genuinely look at myself and say what did I do

00:01:53.140 Like that he has to pay

00:01:58.920 He can't just go online

00:02:00.400 Paying someone else

00:02:00.860 Because paying for porn in 2020

00:02:03.860 Corn

00:02:04.480 So for 20 in 2023 is wild in and of itself

00:02:07.540 But it's the same as a

00:02:08.480 I agree

00:02:09.360 I'm just saying it's the same as a date

00:02:11.120 Remember this

00:02:11.940 Remember this

00:02:12.440 A lot of people

00:02:13.560 It's the fault of having something that they can't have

00:02:16.040 And it's an attraction

00:02:17.280 Where

00:02:18.240 Everyone can have it for $5.99

00:02:20.380 For $5.99

00:02:21.340 But I mean

00:02:22.440 That's a sexual 0.55

00:02:23.440 That's a sexual drive

00:02:24.460 Because I can't

00:02:25.140 I'm not physically having you

00:02:26.560 You're just someone that's on a computer screen

00:02:28.540 It's the same thing like we're an affair

00:02:30.120 A lot of people

00:02:30.880 An affair is

00:02:31.900 Sexy and

00:02:32.900 And they love it and it's an attraction

00:02:34.280 Until it becomes something that's like

00:02:36.680 Allowed

00:02:37.280 You know like people leave their wives

00:02:39.260 For their mistress 0.96

00:02:40.280 And they get with the mistress

00:02:41.580 And they get with the mistress

00:02:42.340 And they're like all of a sudden

00:02:43.400 It's like

00:02:43.960 It's not as fun anymore

00:02:45.120 It's not the same

00:02:46.060 We all want something that we can't have

00:02:48.320 It doesn't really happen often

00:02:49.180 Leaving wives for mistress 0.99

00:02:50.600 And those people are still tough

00:02:51.520 You might get left by the wife 0.99

00:02:52.640 And end up with the mistress

00:02:53.600 But you don't leave the wife for the mistress 0.59

00:02:55.580 You're a dummy in that situation

00:02:57.140 Come on

00:02:57.660 You're a dumbass

00:03:00.020 Dumbass

00:03:01.520 Has social media ever caused an argument

00:03:04.620 In a relationship

00:03:05.700 Yeah

00:03:06.140 Oh my god yeah

00:03:07.480 What have women argued with you 1.00

00:03:09.600 Or men

00:03:10.040 About

00:03:10.680 The liking game

00:03:12.180 Back when that was a feature

00:03:14.220 When I used to get me in

00:03:15.640 Heating discussions

00:03:16.760 All the time

00:03:17.540 But I would

00:03:18.900 I was like

00:03:19.660 I would do it for like

00:03:20.560 Algorithm things

00:03:21.300 So if I know I'm about to post

00:03:22.780 I'll just like anything

00:03:23.800 On my timeline

00:03:24.420 Because I know they're going to look

00:03:25.600 And they're going to go and like

00:03:26.620 My thing back

00:03:27.260 That was that

00:03:28.340 That was the vibe

00:03:29.060 I would like pictures of your gran

00:03:30.580 Your ankle

00:03:31.720 Whatever

00:03:32.220 Dogs

00:03:32.880 Anything on that timeline

00:03:34.320 At that time

00:03:34.860 I would just think

00:03:35.860 And they'll be next to me

00:03:36.880 When I do it

00:03:37.320 It's not like I have to do it in secret

00:03:38.740 But I understand it looks crazy

00:03:40.800 Yeah

00:03:41.300 It looks crazy

00:03:42.260 Anything you pop

00:03:42.960 Because as well

00:03:43.460 It puts it onto their news feed

00:03:44.980 As well

00:03:45.300 Remember when you can see

00:03:46.200 What other people are like

00:03:46.580 That's what I'm talking about

00:03:47.320 That's when it was an issue

00:03:48.340 That's when it was an issue

00:03:49.300 Yeah

00:03:49.540 So I used to get into

00:03:51.500 Into situations about that

00:03:52.940 But I think on the flip side

00:03:53.940 If your girl only follows 0.95

00:03:55.160 90 people

00:03:56.480 Let's say for instance

00:03:57.220 And then

00:03:57.620 You know what I mean

00:03:58.720 And then she follows

00:03:59.340 That one guy

00:04:00.340 You might be

00:04:01.040 You see 91

00:04:01.880 Who's that

00:04:03.860 Who's that 91

00:04:05.480 I haven't been there

00:04:06.940 You know what I mean

00:04:07.460 So I think it works both ways though

00:04:08.980 What have you gotten into arguments

00:04:10.520 My situation was different

00:04:11.800 Where

00:04:12.420 A girl slid into my DMs on Facebook 1.00

00:04:15.440 I like

00:04:16.820 Went the extra mile on Facebook

00:04:18.500 To find out that she went to college

00:04:19.800 With my girl

00:04:20.420 And then

00:04:21.680 How that went was

00:04:23.100 Facebook

00:04:23.800 You know like

00:04:24.260 When you're in a relationship

00:04:24.940 It says you're in a relationship

00:04:25.740 With this person

00:04:26.480 I wasn't that smart

00:04:28.180 When I was below 25

00:04:29.740 Like I said

00:04:30.660 So what happened was

00:04:33.360 She was like

00:04:34.780 Oh

00:04:35.140 When we started having a conversation

00:04:36.940 She was like

00:04:37.400 Oh but you're in a relationship

00:04:38.500 With this person

00:04:39.100 Hold on a minute

00:04:39.760 I think I went to the same college

00:04:41.340 Oh I did go to the same college

00:04:42.900 She screenshotted

00:04:44.460 My whole conversation

00:04:45.980 With the girl

00:04:46.480 And sent it to my

00:04:47.480 My then girlfriend man

00:04:49.520 And that obviously caused

00:04:50.620 Oh that argument

00:04:51.580 Is because you were cheating

00:04:52.640 Yeah

00:04:53.280 I was below 25

00:04:56.620 I was below 25

00:04:58.660 I was below 25

00:05:00.620 It was a thing seriously

00:05:01.960 That's a fair enough argument

00:05:03.200 What did you get in an argument about

00:05:06.560 It's essentially

00:05:07.700 Like you said

00:05:08.500 It's one of those like

00:05:09.800 Back when you can see

00:05:11.640 Who you liked

00:05:12.500 And what you liked

00:05:13.820 Back when there was a thing

00:05:15.420 Back then

00:05:18.160 Again we were young

00:05:19.220 We were dumb

00:05:20.140 We didn't know

00:05:20.880 Where the social media was

00:05:21.860 We grew up

00:05:22.420 With social media

00:05:23.400 Essentially at the same time

00:05:24.600 So you would see

00:05:25.740 Your partner

00:05:26.680 Liking all these things

00:05:28.160 And then that would be

00:05:28.780 An argument

00:05:29.220 Because

00:05:29.700 For those who don't know

00:05:31.640 Who are too young

00:05:32.360 To know

00:05:32.660 Instagram is to show people

00:05:33.940 Who you liked

00:05:35.200 Like the pictures you liked

00:05:37.100 On like his own separate feed

00:05:38.560 So that feed

00:05:39.640 All the girls know this 0.97

00:05:40.680 Yeah that feed

00:05:41.380 Will get you in trouble

00:05:42.380 Did you know that

00:05:43.800 I'm not sure if it's the same now

00:05:45.400 But before

00:05:46.120 On Instagram

00:05:46.880 If you were following

00:05:47.900 Under 200 people

00:05:49.640 It wouldn't show

00:05:50.960 What order you followed people in

00:05:52.600 Did you know that

00:05:53.480 So like

00:05:54.680 Let's say your man goes out

00:05:55.860 On a night out

00:05:56.440 And he starts following

00:05:57.360 Someone new

00:05:58.000 Then you know

00:05:59.020 You might click on their page

00:06:00.800 And you'll be like

00:06:01.540 Alright cool

00:06:01.920 She was at the same party

00:06:02.800 He obviously had an interaction

00:06:04.040 However

00:06:04.900 However

00:06:05.900 If he was following

00:06:07.020 If he's following

00:06:07.640 If they're following

00:06:08.520 Under 200

00:06:09.200 I don't know

00:06:10.540 If it's still the same feature

00:06:11.700 And I don't know

00:06:12.180 Updates and stuff

00:06:13.240 But yeah man

00:06:14.240 Those kind of things

00:06:15.220 Get into

00:06:15.600 You get into arguments

00:06:16.520 Over that

00:06:16.980 Well wait

00:06:17.380 Let me ask you something

00:06:18.140 Right

00:06:18.440 Because

00:06:18.940 What you just said

00:06:20.060 Bro I weren't cheating

00:06:21.000 It was a conversation

00:06:21.900 Through Facebook

00:06:22.540 Bro I don't want to hear anything

00:06:23.260 Bro

00:06:23.740 I don't want to hear anything

00:06:23.860 I don't want to hear anything

00:06:25.760 I don't want to hear it

00:06:26.520 I don't want to hear it

00:06:27.760 I don't want to hear it

00:06:28.660 I don't want to hear it

00:06:29.500 I don't want to hear it

00:06:29.520 I don't want to hear it

00:06:30.780 Wait is a toxic

00:06:31.860 Like I think cheating

00:06:33.160 It's like a physical situation

00:06:35.020 It's not physical

00:06:35.960 No I don't agree

00:06:37.100 No

00:06:37.540 It can be emotional

00:06:38.400 You can emotionally cheat

00:06:39.760 Alright let me ask you this

00:06:41.060 Let me ask you this

00:06:41.640 Because I don't know

00:06:42.200 I like to hear that

00:06:42.820 Coming from women 1.00

00:06:43.400 Can I ask you something

00:06:44.200 Devil's advocate

00:06:45.080 Is it really the end of the world

00:06:46.560 If he's messaging another girl

00:06:47.920 Thank you

00:06:48.800 Oh

00:06:49.120 Like I

00:06:49.720 I agree

00:06:50.460 It's not the end of the world

00:06:51.780 Because I just don't think

00:06:52.680 But it's not the start of the Ivo

00:06:53.420 I just think like

00:06:56.240 I just think like

00:06:58.300 If we have open social media profiles

00:07:00.700 Can we really like

00:07:02.000 Get off our high horse sometime

00:07:03.420 Like because I think

00:07:04.280 That attention is

00:07:05.120 To women

00:07:07.320 As sex is to men 0.91

00:07:08.340 Do you guys agree with that

00:07:09.440 Yeah

00:07:09.660 Okay so I'm like

00:07:11.160 If we

00:07:11.520 Most of us have open

00:07:12.800 Instagrams and relationships

00:07:14.180 Meaning we can get attention

00:07:15.680 From high status men

00:07:16.780 And that's always on the table

00:07:18.460 But if he sends a message

00:07:19.880 Like it's the end of the world

00:07:21.180 No

00:07:22.120 But if he does what

00:07:23.420 He was

00:07:24.240 She messaged me first

00:07:27.040 I was just responding

00:07:27.860 It's rude not to respond

00:07:28.820 What kind of message we talking about

00:07:30.060 If it's like

00:07:31.320 You know

00:07:31.960 Emojis and stuff like that

00:07:33.420 Then it's a bit mad

00:07:34.140 And I mean

00:07:34.700 If it's general conversation

00:07:35.740 Then you know

00:07:37.080 You might be able to bus case

00:07:38.700 It's crazy

00:07:39.700 I think I just

00:07:40.280 Look at things like differently

00:07:41.700 I just

00:07:42.460 No I'm with you

00:07:43.100 You pick the problems

00:07:43.820 Isn't it

00:07:44.180 You pick like

00:07:45.040 Battles and wars

00:07:45.860 I guess

00:07:46.200 Yeah you gotta pick battles

00:07:46.980 Because

00:07:47.260 If you're the type of person

00:07:48.920 To like date

00:07:49.640 For like a long term

00:07:50.860 Relationship

00:07:51.700 Or marriage

00:07:52.340 Right

00:07:52.660 Then it's like

00:07:55.020 In the grand scheme of things

00:07:57.060 Is a message

00:07:58.000 Gonna make or break your life

00:07:59.560 Yeah exactly

00:08:00.240 It's the intention about

00:08:01.900 Do you know

00:08:02.360 I think most of it

00:08:03.160 Becomes that great area

00:08:04.100 Of the unknown

00:08:04.720 So it's the attention

00:08:05.560 Behind the message

00:08:06.480 Alright let me ask you a question

00:08:07.800 Because I don't feel like

00:08:08.520 You're on my side

00:08:09.240 I'm not

00:08:09.720 Okay

00:08:10.680 Alright cool

00:08:12.220 You're with your girl

00:08:13.880 You've been with her a little while

00:08:14.800 You're on a break yeah

00:08:15.920 Break

00:08:16.400 You mean she's single

00:08:17.300 Okay but

00:08:18.740 Okay she's single

00:08:20.700 She's single

00:08:21.140 Okay so you might agree with me

00:08:22.240 In this

00:08:22.580 Yeah

00:08:22.920 You've been with each other

00:08:23.740 For a while

00:08:24.180 Now I was in a situation

00:08:25.520 Okay you have a girl

00:08:27.160 She's not your girl 1.00

00:08:28.620 But you know like

00:08:29.320 You have not

00:08:29.940 It sounds bad

00:08:30.860 Like a backup

00:08:31.500 Not a backup

00:08:32.140 You have people on your phone

00:08:33.340 That you know like you

00:08:34.280 Right

00:08:34.720 Now I was in a situation

00:08:36.600 Where I was always with someone

00:08:38.440 From like 16

00:08:39.220 So when I wasn't with someone

00:08:40.400 I used to just

00:08:41.220 Grab a girl 1.00

00:08:42.220 That I knew liked me

00:08:43.320 Because I wanted to feel

00:08:44.720 Like it was a fulfilled thing

00:08:45.940 Right

00:08:46.160 So if I'm not with

00:08:47.840 So if I'm not with you

00:08:48.940 And we've broken up

00:08:49.600 For like a week

00:08:50.220 And we have a

00:08:51.020 Sexual situation

00:08:52.340 I didn't cheat on you

00:08:53.920 Because we were on a break

00:08:55.620 And you'll mind them fingers bro

00:08:57.000 I hear you

00:09:01.020 What I was saying

00:09:01.760 Were you agreeing with me

00:09:02.080 On this one though

00:09:02.840 No I hear you

00:09:03.440 What I was saying here

00:09:04.180 Is the moment you are

00:09:06.040 On a break

00:09:07.440 You've fed her to the wolves bro

00:09:09.020 You can't

00:09:10.000 And vice versa bro

00:09:11.200 You're single

00:09:11.680 You're two single people

00:09:12.680 It's no longer

00:09:13.720 I know it may feel like

00:09:15.340 You know

00:09:15.760 Okay cool

00:09:16.520 We were in a relationship

00:09:17.560 But

00:09:17.940 Boy you're not under that covenant

00:09:20.380 You're not under that contract

00:09:21.640 That obligation

00:09:22.420 That verbal commitment

00:09:23.480 Anymore

00:09:24.160 So whatever you do

00:09:25.500 It might be frowned upon

00:09:26.680 It might be whatever

00:09:27.540 But some people just move on

00:09:28.500 Quicker than others

00:09:29.100 That's all

00:09:29.440 I feel like you're like

00:09:30.200 20% on my side now

00:09:31.540 There we go

00:09:32.380 There we go

JustPearlyThings - August 12, 2023

When Men Pay For Pr0n

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