JustPearlyThings - August 12, 2023


When Men Pay For Pr0n


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

217.06671

Word Count

2,074

Sentence Count

8

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Only fans can be it can be used in different ways though
00:00:03.000 Can there's people that do only fans that don't you don't need to fully do the whole does he wait?
00:00:07.800 He subscribed to one right. That's what you're saying. He's subscribed to hers
00:00:10.820 I think that's like sad like I'd almost I'd almost rather he cheat than subscribe
00:00:15.980 Yeah, because I'm like nobody wants you to the point you have to get with it
00:00:23.480 You have to pay just to see pictures
00:00:25.460 And then I would wonder I'm like did I do something wrong?
00:00:28.340 I've had this conversation though. It's the same with like like maybe escorts and stuff in it
00:00:34.720 So let's say for instance with only fans. It makes it more personal
00:00:36.880 So let's say you can have only fans and you don't probably but if you do and someone really wanted
00:00:41.620 They couldn't really bother to wine and daniel or talked with you like that, but they really were like
00:00:45.400 Sexually attracted to you. They could just go through the only fans pay that little subscription
00:00:50.860 See everything in in their head
00:00:52.840 You're a boy now
00:00:54.280 Yeah, they've you know, I mean you've done whatever and then they can go on with their life
00:00:58.320 Do you know I'm saying same thing with like escorts or whatever instead of doing a whole day in situation?
00:01:03.580 They paid for escort
00:01:04.700 They've got out the system and they've moved on so it's like I think with only fans
00:01:09.000 The only difference between only fans and Pornhub
00:01:10.760 Pornhub is that they have
00:01:14.160 They might know the person they might know who the person is it's within reach
00:01:18.880 That's why I think only fans is growing because it's more personal
00:01:21.480 You ain't got to do nothing though, you know, you know, there's people like there's female escorts
00:01:26.740 Yeah, the guy with like all the guys
00:01:28.740 No, I hate you
00:01:29.860 They won't do nothing
00:01:30.700 Same thing with only fans like you haven't got to sexually do anything
00:01:34.240 There is a super chat
00:01:35.200 Never go through a girl's phone if you believe that you need to go through her phone
00:01:38.740 All you're doing is looking for anything to confirm what you already believe is happening
00:01:42.200 Sorry, but
00:01:45.220 That is true
00:01:46.140 Only that's a violation
00:01:47.400 I would
00:01:47.800 Okay, because I would genuinely look at myself and say what did I do
00:01:53.140 Like that he has to pay
00:01:58.920 He can't just go online
00:02:00.400 Paying someone else
00:02:00.860 Because paying for porn in 2020
00:02:03.860 Corn
00:02:04.480 So for 20 in 2023 is wild in and of itself
00:02:07.540 But it's the same as a
00:02:08.480 I agree
00:02:09.360 I'm just saying it's the same as a date
00:02:11.120 Remember this
00:02:11.940 Remember this
00:02:12.440 A lot of people
00:02:13.560 It's the fault of having something that they can't have
00:02:16.040 And it's an attraction
00:02:17.280 Where
00:02:18.240 Everyone can have it for $5.99
00:02:20.380 For $5.99
00:02:21.340 But I mean
00:02:22.440 That's a sexual
00:02:23.440 That's a sexual drive
00:02:24.460 Because I can't
00:02:25.140 I'm not physically having you
00:02:26.560 You're just someone that's on a computer screen
00:02:28.540 It's the same thing like we're an affair
00:02:30.120 A lot of people
00:02:30.880 An affair is
00:02:31.900 Sexy and
00:02:32.900 And they love it and it's an attraction
00:02:34.280 Until it becomes something that's like
00:02:36.680 Allowed
00:02:37.280 You know like people leave their wives
00:02:39.260 For their mistress
00:02:40.280 And they get with the mistress
00:02:41.580 And they get with the mistress
00:02:42.340 And they're like all of a sudden
00:02:43.400 It's like
00:02:43.960 It's not as fun anymore
00:02:45.120 It's not the same
00:02:46.060 We all want something that we can't have
00:02:48.320 It doesn't really happen often
00:02:49.180 Leaving wives for mistress
00:02:50.600 And those people are still tough
00:02:51.520 You might get left by the wife
00:02:52.640 And end up with the mistress
00:02:53.600 But you don't leave the wife for the mistress
00:02:55.580 You're a dummy in that situation
00:02:57.140 Come on
00:02:57.660 You're a dumbass
00:03:00.020 Dumbass
00:03:01.520 Has social media ever caused an argument
00:03:04.620 In a relationship
00:03:05.700 Yeah
00:03:06.140 Oh my god yeah
00:03:07.480 What have women argued with you
00:03:09.600 Or men
00:03:10.040 About
00:03:10.680 The liking game
00:03:12.180 Back when that was a feature
00:03:14.220 When I used to get me in
00:03:15.640 Heating discussions
00:03:16.760 All the time
00:03:17.540 But I would
00:03:18.900 I was like
00:03:19.660 I would do it for like
00:03:20.560 Algorithm things
00:03:21.300 So if I know I'm about to post
00:03:22.780 I'll just like anything
00:03:23.800 On my timeline
00:03:24.420 Because I know they're going to look
00:03:25.600 And they're going to go and like
00:03:26.620 My thing back
00:03:27.260 That was that
00:03:28.340 That was the vibe
00:03:29.060 I would like pictures of your gran
00:03:30.580 Your ankle
00:03:31.720 Whatever
00:03:32.220 Dogs
00:03:32.880 Anything on that timeline
00:03:34.320 At that time
00:03:34.860 I would just think
00:03:35.860 And they'll be next to me
00:03:36.880 When I do it
00:03:37.320 It's not like I have to do it in secret
00:03:38.740 But I understand it looks crazy
00:03:40.800 Yeah
00:03:41.300 It looks crazy
00:03:42.260 Anything you pop
00:03:42.960 Because as well
00:03:43.460 It puts it onto their news feed
00:03:44.980 As well
00:03:45.300 Remember when you can see
00:03:46.200 What other people are like
00:03:46.580 That's what I'm talking about
00:03:47.320 That's when it was an issue
00:03:48.340 That's when it was an issue
00:03:49.300 Yeah
00:03:49.540 So I used to get into
00:03:51.500 Into situations about that
00:03:52.940 But I think on the flip side
00:03:53.940 If your girl only follows
00:03:55.160 90 people
00:03:56.480 Let's say for instance
00:03:57.220 And then
00:03:57.620 You know what I mean
00:03:58.720 And then she follows
00:03:59.340 That one guy
00:04:00.340 You might be
00:04:01.040 You see 91
00:04:01.880 Who's that
00:04:03.860 Who's that 91
00:04:05.480 I haven't been there
00:04:06.940 You know what I mean
00:04:07.460 So I think it works both ways though
00:04:08.980 What have you gotten into arguments
00:04:10.520 My situation was different
00:04:11.800 Where
00:04:12.420 A girl slid into my DMs on Facebook
00:04:15.440 I like
00:04:16.820 Went the extra mile on Facebook
00:04:18.500 To find out that she went to college
00:04:19.800 With my girl
00:04:20.420 And then
00:04:21.680 How that went was
00:04:23.100 Facebook
00:04:23.800 You know like
00:04:24.260 When you're in a relationship
00:04:24.940 It says you're in a relationship
00:04:25.740 With this person
00:04:26.480 I wasn't that smart
00:04:28.180 When I was below 25
00:04:29.740 Like I said
00:04:30.660 So what happened was
00:04:33.360 She was like
00:04:34.780 Oh
00:04:35.140 When we started having a conversation
00:04:36.940 She was like
00:04:37.400 Oh but you're in a relationship
00:04:38.500 With this person
00:04:39.100 Hold on a minute
00:04:39.760 I think I went to the same college
00:04:41.340 Oh I did go to the same college
00:04:42.900 She screenshotted
00:04:44.460 My whole conversation
00:04:45.980 With the girl
00:04:46.480 And sent it to my
00:04:47.480 My then girlfriend man
00:04:49.520 And that obviously caused
00:04:50.620 Oh that argument
00:04:51.580 Is because you were cheating
00:04:52.640 Yeah
00:04:53.280 I was below 25
00:04:56.620 I was below 25
00:04:58.660 I was below 25
00:05:00.620 It was a thing seriously
00:05:01.960 That's a fair enough argument
00:05:03.200 What did you get in an argument about
00:05:06.560 It's essentially
00:05:07.700 Like you said
00:05:08.500 It's one of those like
00:05:09.800 Back when you can see
00:05:11.640 Who you liked
00:05:12.500 And what you liked
00:05:13.820 Back when there was a thing
00:05:15.420 Back then
00:05:18.160 Again we were young
00:05:19.220 We were dumb
00:05:20.140 We didn't know
00:05:20.880 Where the social media was
00:05:21.860 We grew up
00:05:22.420 With social media
00:05:23.400 Essentially at the same time
00:05:24.600 So you would see
00:05:25.740 Your partner
00:05:26.680 Liking all these things
00:05:28.160 And then that would be
00:05:28.780 An argument
00:05:29.220 Because
00:05:29.700 For those who don't know
00:05:31.640 Who are too young
00:05:32.360 To know
00:05:32.660 Instagram is to show people
00:05:33.940 Who you liked
00:05:35.200 Like the pictures you liked
00:05:37.100 On like his own separate feed
00:05:38.560 So that feed
00:05:39.640 All the girls know this
00:05:40.680 Yeah that feed
00:05:41.380 Will get you in trouble
00:05:42.380 Did you know that
00:05:43.800 I'm not sure if it's the same now
00:05:45.400 But before
00:05:46.120 On Instagram
00:05:46.880 If you were following
00:05:47.900 Under 200 people
00:05:49.640 It wouldn't show
00:05:50.960 What order you followed people in
00:05:52.600 Did you know that
00:05:53.480 So like
00:05:54.680 Let's say your man goes out
00:05:55.860 On a night out
00:05:56.440 And he starts following
00:05:57.360 Someone new
00:05:58.000 Then you know
00:05:59.020 You might click on their page
00:06:00.800 And you'll be like
00:06:01.540 Alright cool
00:06:01.920 She was at the same party
00:06:02.800 He obviously had an interaction
00:06:04.040 However
00:06:04.900 However
00:06:05.900 If he was following
00:06:07.020 If he's following
00:06:07.640 If they're following
00:06:08.520 Under 200
00:06:09.200 I don't know
00:06:10.540 If it's still the same feature
00:06:11.700 And I don't know
00:06:12.180 Updates and stuff
00:06:13.240 But yeah man
00:06:14.240 Those kind of things
00:06:15.220 Get into
00:06:15.600 You get into arguments
00:06:16.520 Over that
00:06:16.980 Well wait
00:06:17.380 Let me ask you something
00:06:18.140 Right
00:06:18.440 Because
00:06:18.940 What you just said
00:06:20.060 Bro I weren't cheating
00:06:21.000 It was a conversation
00:06:21.900 Through Facebook
00:06:22.540 Bro I don't want to hear anything
00:06:23.260 Bro
00:06:23.740 I don't want to hear anything
00:06:23.860 I don't want to hear anything
00:06:25.760 I don't want to hear it
00:06:26.520 I don't want to hear it
00:06:27.760 I don't want to hear it
00:06:28.660 I don't want to hear it
00:06:29.500 I don't want to hear it
00:06:29.520 I don't want to hear it
00:06:30.780 Wait is a toxic
00:06:31.860 Like I think cheating
00:06:33.160 It's like a physical situation
00:06:35.020 It's not physical
00:06:35.960 No I don't agree
00:06:37.100 No
00:06:37.540 It can be emotional
00:06:38.400 You can emotionally cheat
00:06:39.760 Alright let me ask you this
00:06:41.060 Let me ask you this
00:06:41.640 Because I don't know
00:06:42.200 I like to hear that
00:06:42.820 Coming from women
00:06:43.400 Can I ask you something
00:06:44.200 Devil's advocate
00:06:45.080 Is it really the end of the world
00:06:46.560 If he's messaging another girl
00:06:47.920 Thank you
00:06:48.800 Oh
00:06:49.120 Like I
00:06:49.720 I agree
00:06:50.460 It's not the end of the world
00:06:51.780 Because I just don't think
00:06:52.680 But it's not the start of the Ivo
00:06:53.420 I just think like
00:06:56.240 I just think like
00:06:58.300 If we have open social media profiles
00:07:00.700 Can we really like
00:07:02.000 Get off our high horse sometime
00:07:03.420 Like because I think
00:07:04.280 That attention is
00:07:05.120 To women
00:07:07.320 As sex is to men
00:07:08.340 Do you guys agree with that
00:07:09.440 Yeah
00:07:09.660 Okay so I'm like
00:07:11.160 If we
00:07:11.520 Most of us have open
00:07:12.800 Instagrams and relationships
00:07:14.180 Meaning we can get attention
00:07:15.680 From high status men
00:07:16.780 And that's always on the table
00:07:18.460 But if he sends a message
00:07:19.880 Like it's the end of the world
00:07:21.180 No
00:07:22.120 But if he does what
00:07:23.420 He was
00:07:24.240 She messaged me first
00:07:27.040 I was just responding
00:07:27.860 It's rude not to respond
00:07:28.820 What kind of message we talking about
00:07:30.060 If it's like
00:07:31.320 You know
00:07:31.960 Emojis and stuff like that
00:07:33.420 Then it's a bit mad
00:07:34.140 And I mean
00:07:34.700 If it's general conversation
00:07:35.740 Then you know
00:07:37.080 You might be able to bus case
00:07:38.700 It's crazy
00:07:39.700 I think I just
00:07:40.280 Look at things like differently
00:07:41.700 I just
00:07:42.460 No I'm with you
00:07:43.100 You pick the problems
00:07:43.820 Isn't it
00:07:44.180 You pick like
00:07:45.040 Battles and wars
00:07:45.860 I guess
00:07:46.200 Yeah you gotta pick battles
00:07:46.980 Because
00:07:47.260 If you're the type of person
00:07:48.920 To like date
00:07:49.640 For like a long term
00:07:50.860 Relationship
00:07:51.700 Or marriage
00:07:52.340 Right
00:07:52.660 Then it's like
00:07:55.020 In the grand scheme of things
00:07:57.060 Is a message
00:07:58.000 Gonna make or break your life
00:07:59.560 Yeah exactly
00:08:00.240 It's the intention about
00:08:01.900 Do you know
00:08:02.360 I think most of it
00:08:03.160 Becomes that great area
00:08:04.100 Of the unknown
00:08:04.720 So it's the attention
00:08:05.560 Behind the message
00:08:06.480 Alright let me ask you a question
00:08:07.800 Because I don't feel like
00:08:08.520 You're on my side
00:08:09.240 I'm not
00:08:09.720 Okay
00:08:10.680 Alright cool
00:08:12.220 You're with your girl
00:08:13.880 You've been with her a little while
00:08:14.800 You're on a break yeah
00:08:15.920 Break
00:08:16.400 You mean she's single
00:08:17.300 Okay but
00:08:18.740 Okay she's single
00:08:20.700 She's single
00:08:21.140 Okay so you might agree with me
00:08:22.240 In this
00:08:22.580 Yeah
00:08:22.920 You've been with each other
00:08:23.740 For a while
00:08:24.180 Now I was in a situation
00:08:25.520 Okay you have a girl
00:08:27.160 She's not your girl
00:08:28.620 But you know like
00:08:29.320 You have not
00:08:29.940 It sounds bad
00:08:30.860 Like a backup
00:08:31.500 Not a backup
00:08:32.140 You have people on your phone
00:08:33.340 That you know like you
00:08:34.280 Right
00:08:34.720 Now I was in a situation
00:08:36.600 Where I was always with someone
00:08:38.440 From like 16
00:08:39.220 So when I wasn't with someone
00:08:40.400 I used to just
00:08:41.220 Grab a girl
00:08:42.220 That I knew liked me
00:08:43.320 Because I wanted to feel
00:08:44.720 Like it was a fulfilled thing
00:08:45.940 Right
00:08:46.160 So if I'm not with
00:08:47.840 So if I'm not with you
00:08:48.940 And we've broken up
00:08:49.600 For like a week
00:08:50.220 And we have a
00:08:51.020 Sexual situation
00:08:52.340 I didn't cheat on you
00:08:53.920 Because we were on a break
00:08:55.620 And you'll mind them fingers bro
00:08:57.000 I hear you
00:09:01.020 What I was saying
00:09:01.760 Were you agreeing with me
00:09:02.080 On this one though
00:09:02.840 No I hear you
00:09:03.440 What I was saying here
00:09:04.180 Is the moment you are
00:09:06.040 On a break
00:09:07.440 You've fed her to the wolves bro
00:09:09.020 You can't
00:09:10.000 And vice versa bro
00:09:11.200 You're single
00:09:11.680 You're two single people
00:09:12.680 It's no longer
00:09:13.720 I know it may feel like
00:09:15.340 You know
00:09:15.760 Okay cool
00:09:16.520 We were in a relationship
00:09:17.560 But
00:09:17.940 Boy you're not under that covenant
00:09:20.380 You're not under that contract
00:09:21.640 That obligation
00:09:22.420 That verbal commitment
00:09:23.480 Anymore
00:09:24.160 So whatever you do
00:09:25.500 It might be frowned upon
00:09:26.680 It might be whatever
00:09:27.540 But some people just move on
00:09:28.500 Quicker than others
00:09:29.100 That's all
00:09:29.440 I feel like you're like
00:09:30.200 20% on my side now
00:09:31.540 There we go
00:09:32.380 There we go