JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


Why Boss Babes Make Horrible Wives


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

228.29335

Word Count

1,681

Sentence Count

142

Misogynist Sentences

19

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I do. I do. I do understand what you're saying. In the perfect world, if we have all these high
00:00:04.140 value men walking around, we should be a certain way. Okay, great. No, we unfortunately don't.
00:00:09.520 Well, I'm sorry. I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you. So my mom did not raise me to
00:00:15.780 be a wife. She raised me to be an independent, independent woman because she had dated such
00:00:20.420 terrible men that acted like they were going to be this provider. This person got married to them
00:00:25.300 or end up having a kid and then all of a sudden they were abusive, alcoholics. She's lying.
00:00:31.140 This whole thing. She's lying. You know, this is my mom's experience and I know my mom is
00:00:34.960 not a liar. She's probably lying. They usually lie. But no, it's like, because it's like,
00:00:41.620 but they're really not your mom right now. No, no, she'll say that. Well, I'm not saying
00:00:46.440 it's your mom. But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story. It's like,
00:00:49.760 oh. I understand what you're saying. But I'm saying if it's more than one guy, she's the
00:00:53.060 common denominator. It's like her picker is like fucked up or something. No, I don't
00:00:56.380 think it's picker. She's probably abusive. Like, because it's like, what, what do the
00:00:59.760 women do to bring this out of the men? If it's multiple men, that means she's probably
00:01:03.520 doing something. But why, why is it that like you, if you feel that we're doing something
00:01:07.740 to, it's almost like, it's almost like, oh, no, no, no, no. What you're saying to me
00:01:11.480 is like, I walked down the street just looking like this and I got raped. Well, what is
00:01:15.580 your fault? Because I look at, I'll tell you, I'll tell you why. Because when women, when
00:01:20.960 women get power, we're not benevolent. When men get power, they are. If, if men wanted
00:01:25.560 to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages. That's what happens when men
00:01:29.900 get power. When women get power, we tend to abuse men. We would destroy you. Has anyone
00:01:34.800 How are you going to make more men? Because we have the pussy where you're just going to
00:01:38.480 rape us and like just take him? We'll fucking, I would rather kill a fucking baby than you
00:01:42.620 make me fucking have a baby without my fucking. Really? Okay, let me get this straight.
00:01:46.160 You think you would beat him in a fight? Really? Yeah, he's gonna, he's gonna impregnate
00:01:50.060 me. When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker. Really? No, no, no, no, no,
00:01:54.360 she's not talking about that. It's not coming out. So how are you going to have babies without
00:01:58.400 women? How are you going to have babies without women? We're not talking about, we're not talking
00:02:03.500 about that. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Men will over dominate women no matter
00:02:09.720 what time. Hello, hello, hello, hello. Everybody over here is agreeing. Yelling. Hold on, hold
00:02:15.380 on. What she was saying is who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman? We
00:02:20.720 can overpower women physically. We can dominate if we wanted to. So if we had, if we wanted
00:02:25.880 to, we could take control. If there was, if there was physically, right? Yes. Not mentally.
00:02:30.620 So what ever. So go back, go back to your statement about it. But man, yeah, because men,
00:02:34.860 when men get power, we're naturally benevolent. When women get power, they're not. And the problem
00:02:39.420 is we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their dads were
00:02:44.560 the bad guy. And usually they're not. And I understand that. I do actually agree with
00:02:49.260 that. It's happened. My mom was actually really good at like not instilling negative thoughts
00:02:53.860 about my father and allowing me to understand who he was. I think what Pearl was saying, and
00:02:58.420 not to, not to attack you or your mom, but if, if you, in any situation, even a man, if, if
00:03:04.620 a guy's like, Oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive. It's like, okay,
00:03:08.780 whoa, what did you do? There's an exception to the rule, but I've seen ladies that have
00:03:13.980 been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically abused. And I'm
00:03:18.740 like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that. But that particular woman,
00:03:22.640 she's doing something. I'm not agreeing. And I'm not justifying that the guy should be
00:03:25.920 physical, but so hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me finish 10 relationships. What the fuck
00:03:31.740 are you doing to cause these men to get violent with you? Well, I'm not doing anything. I'm not
00:03:36.640 doing anything. No, you are the problem. No, I don't think so. No, no, no. Well, I'm just
00:03:42.840 thinking like what? Okay. So he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you. There was
00:03:46.680 no argument. You weren't trying to control him because I believe the natural order of
00:03:50.280 the world is God, men and women. And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal
00:03:55.900 to men and that we have an ability, like that we should be able to control men. That's when
00:03:59.640 evil happens. I mean, I don't think there's equality with men and women at all. Right,
00:04:02.600 right. But I think, I think we're supposed to, I think we're supposed to submit to men's
00:04:07.700 authority. And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens. And so typically when, when
00:04:12.560 there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying to impose her will on
00:04:16.180 the man. Look, I understand what you're saying. Cause I've, I've been red pilled like, and
00:04:20.400 I, I'm 100% not a feminist. I do believe in the red pill. I think you're a little bit
00:04:25.060 more extreme in the mentality of it. Hell yeah. And I will say this, my first, my first,
00:04:31.680 so I dated a guy, five foot four. He did have a really nice body, great in bed. Five
00:04:36.660 four. Five four. No job. Wow. I was making a lot of money. So I paid for him. But after
00:04:44.480 school, everything, I wanted to be better. I did submit to him. He didn't deserve it,
00:04:48.140 but I did. And I did start getting the disrespect. I started to disrespect him because he was not
00:04:53.820 like giving you security. He wasn't doing it. He wasn't trying to level up. He didn't
00:04:58.760 have any job. He didn't have no job. Girl. Yeah. It happened. Well, he had a job and I
00:05:04.400 met him, but that's what, go ahead. But listen, so this is my first, my first thought when I
00:05:10.120 was laying in bed and I lost my job and going under and I was like, fuck, like I have no
00:05:15.100 money to take care of this person next to me and me. If this house is burning down, I'm
00:05:18.660 gonna have to put him on my back, my dog in my hand and save us both. I was like, it was
00:05:22.900 the biggest pressure I've ever had. And then I thought to myself, if I have to
00:05:25.900 make this person my long-term partner and get married, what if I, what if I need to
00:05:30.600 be bedridden with a, with a child? He cannot take care of us. And he doesn't
00:05:34.780 have that mentality of, you know what? I'm going to go shovel shit on the corner
00:05:38.200 just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head. So I was like, this
00:05:42.580 is the most stressful I've ever been. I will never do this again every day in my
00:05:45.760 life. So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I
00:05:52.240 do want a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very
00:05:55.240 dominant. But the, the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of
00:05:59.280 our lifestyle means. So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in
00:06:03.240 lifestyle. Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was
00:06:06.440 making $45,000 a year and she relied on solely one income. They only had, I know you
00:06:11.440 see, she's like, Oh my God, how would I do that?
00:06:14.440 But the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want to go down in lifestyle
00:06:21.980 for a family. And that was expected before they knew you'd have to work harder to have
00:06:26.400 like women would work jobs, even like with kids. And they knew they would, they would
00:06:31.020 get it. They would get married and they would like work harder and still have less because
00:06:35.240 they had kids. But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle
00:06:40.480 expectations because we've been living by ourselves for so long.
00:06:44.200 And I agree. Cause it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it? You're being the
00:06:47.260 man that you want in your life. So you're providing for yourself and stuff. And I, I do agree with
00:06:52.200 that. And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine
00:06:57.280 of a woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way. Like I really
00:07:01.520 am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be like, and I
00:07:07.020 think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like, you'll date
00:07:10.960 a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying
00:07:13.620 to like beat the odds. So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think. And
00:07:17.400 then you have potential. Yeah. And then you're like, damn it. I fucked in my ass for this.
00:07:21.300 Cause it's okay.