Why Boss Babes Make Horrible Wives
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss abuse in the home, abuse in relationships, and why women should be held accountable for their actions. We also talk about why women need to be more assertive when it comes to sexual assault.
Transcript
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I do. I do. I do understand what you're saying. In the perfect world, if we have all these high
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value men walking around, we should be a certain way. Okay, great. No, we unfortunately don't.
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Well, I'm sorry. I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you. So my mom did not raise me to
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be a wife. She raised me to be an independent, independent woman because she had dated such
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terrible men that acted like they were going to be this provider. This person got married to them
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or end up having a kid and then all of a sudden they were abusive, alcoholics. She's lying.
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This whole thing. She's lying. You know, this is my mom's experience and I know my mom is
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not a liar. She's probably lying. They usually lie. But no, it's like, because it's like,
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but they're really not your mom right now. No, no, she'll say that. Well, I'm not saying
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it's your mom. But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story. It's like,
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oh. I understand what you're saying. But I'm saying if it's more than one guy, she's the
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common denominator. It's like her picker is like fucked up or something. No, I don't
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think it's picker. She's probably abusive. Like, because it's like, what, what do the
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women do to bring this out of the men? If it's multiple men, that means she's probably
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doing something. But why, why is it that like you, if you feel that we're doing something
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to, it's almost like, it's almost like, oh, no, no, no, no. What you're saying to me
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is like, I walked down the street just looking like this and I got raped. Well, what is
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your fault? Because I look at, I'll tell you, I'll tell you why. Because when women, when
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women get power, we're not benevolent. When men get power, they are. If, if men wanted
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to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages. That's what happens when men
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get power. When women get power, we tend to abuse men. We would destroy you. Has anyone
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How are you going to make more men? Because we have the pussy where you're just going to
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rape us and like just take him? We'll fucking, I would rather kill a fucking baby than you
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make me fucking have a baby without my fucking. Really? Okay, let me get this straight.
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You think you would beat him in a fight? Really? Yeah, he's gonna, he's gonna impregnate
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me. When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker. Really? No, no, no, no, no,
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she's not talking about that. It's not coming out. So how are you going to have babies without
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women? How are you going to have babies without women? We're not talking about, we're not talking
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about that. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Men will over dominate women no matter
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what time. Hello, hello, hello, hello. Everybody over here is agreeing. Yelling. Hold on, hold
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on. What she was saying is who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman? We
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can overpower women physically. We can dominate if we wanted to. So if we had, if we wanted
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to, we could take control. If there was, if there was physically, right? Yes. Not mentally.
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So what ever. So go back, go back to your statement about it. But man, yeah, because men,
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when men get power, we're naturally benevolent. When women get power, they're not. And the problem
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is we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their dads were
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the bad guy. And usually they're not. And I understand that. I do actually agree with
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that. It's happened. My mom was actually really good at like not instilling negative thoughts
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about my father and allowing me to understand who he was. I think what Pearl was saying, and
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not to, not to attack you or your mom, but if, if you, in any situation, even a man, if, if
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a guy's like, Oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive. It's like, okay,
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whoa, what did you do? There's an exception to the rule, but I've seen ladies that have
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been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically abused. And I'm
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like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that. But that particular woman,
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she's doing something. I'm not agreeing. And I'm not justifying that the guy should be
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physical, but so hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me finish 10 relationships. What the fuck
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are you doing to cause these men to get violent with you? Well, I'm not doing anything. I'm not
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doing anything. No, you are the problem. No, I don't think so. No, no, no. Well, I'm just
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thinking like what? Okay. So he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you. There was
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no argument. You weren't trying to control him because I believe the natural order of
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the world is God, men and women. And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal
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to men and that we have an ability, like that we should be able to control men. That's when
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evil happens. I mean, I don't think there's equality with men and women at all. Right,
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right. But I think, I think we're supposed to, I think we're supposed to submit to men's
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authority. And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens. And so typically when, when
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there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying to impose her will on
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the man. Look, I understand what you're saying. Cause I've, I've been red pilled like, and
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I, I'm 100% not a feminist. I do believe in the red pill. I think you're a little bit
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more extreme in the mentality of it. Hell yeah. And I will say this, my first, my first,
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so I dated a guy, five foot four. He did have a really nice body, great in bed. Five
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four. Five four. No job. Wow. I was making a lot of money. So I paid for him. But after
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school, everything, I wanted to be better. I did submit to him. He didn't deserve it,
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but I did. And I did start getting the disrespect. I started to disrespect him because he was not
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like giving you security. He wasn't doing it. He wasn't trying to level up. He didn't
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have any job. He didn't have no job. Girl. Yeah. It happened. Well, he had a job and I
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met him, but that's what, go ahead. But listen, so this is my first, my first thought when I
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was laying in bed and I lost my job and going under and I was like, fuck, like I have no
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money to take care of this person next to me and me. If this house is burning down, I'm
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gonna have to put him on my back, my dog in my hand and save us both. I was like, it was
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the biggest pressure I've ever had. And then I thought to myself, if I have to
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make this person my long-term partner and get married, what if I, what if I need to
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be bedridden with a, with a child? He cannot take care of us. And he doesn't
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have that mentality of, you know what? I'm going to go shovel shit on the corner
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just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head. So I was like, this
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is the most stressful I've ever been. I will never do this again every day in my
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life. So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I
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do want a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very
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dominant. But the, the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of
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our lifestyle means. So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in
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lifestyle. Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was
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making $45,000 a year and she relied on solely one income. They only had, I know you
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see, she's like, Oh my God, how would I do that?
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But the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want to go down in lifestyle
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for a family. And that was expected before they knew you'd have to work harder to have
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like women would work jobs, even like with kids. And they knew they would, they would
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get it. They would get married and they would like work harder and still have less because
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they had kids. But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle
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expectations because we've been living by ourselves for so long.
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And I agree. Cause it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it? You're being the
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man that you want in your life. So you're providing for yourself and stuff. And I, I do agree with
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that. And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine
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of a woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way. Like I really
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am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be like, and I
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think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like, you'll date
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a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying
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to like beat the odds. So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think. And
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then you have potential. Yeah. And then you're like, damn it. I fucked in my ass for this.