JustPearlyThings - August 17, 2023


Why Boss Babes Make Horrible Wives

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl
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Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

228.29

Word count

1,681

Sentence count

161

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

sentences flagged

Toxicity

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss abuse in the home, abuse in relationships, and why women should be held accountable for their actions. We also talk about why women need to be more assertive when it comes to sexual assault.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I do. I do. I do understand what you're saying. In the perfect world, if we have all these high
00:00:04.140 value men walking around, we should be a certain way. Okay, great. No, we unfortunately don't.
00:00:09.520 Well, I'm sorry. I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you. So my mom did not raise me to
00:00:15.780 be a wife. She raised me to be an independent, independent woman because she had dated such
00:00:20.420 terrible men that acted like they were going to be this provider. This person got married to them
00:00:25.300 or end up having a kid and then all of a sudden they were abusive, alcoholics. She's lying.
00:00:31.140 This whole thing. She's lying. You know, this is my mom's experience and I know my mom is
00:00:34.960 not a liar. She's probably lying. They usually lie. But no, it's like, because it's like,
00:00:41.620 but they're really not your mom right now. No, no, she'll say that. Well, I'm not saying
00:00:46.440 it's your mom. But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story. It's like, 1.00
00:00:49.760 oh. I understand what you're saying. But I'm saying if it's more than one guy, she's the
00:00:53.060 common denominator. It's like her picker is like fucked up or something. No, I don't 1.00
00:00:56.380 think it's picker. She's probably abusive. Like, because it's like, what, what do the 0.78
00:00:59.760 women do to bring this out of the men? If it's multiple men, that means she's probably 1.00
00:01:03.520 doing something. But why, why is it that like you, if you feel that we're doing something
00:01:07.740 to, it's almost like, it's almost like, oh, no, no, no, no. What you're saying to me
00:01:11.480 is like, I walked down the street just looking like this and I got raped. Well, what is 0.93
00:01:15.580 your fault? Because I look at, I'll tell you, I'll tell you why. Because when women, when 1.00
00:01:20.960 women get power, we're not benevolent. When men get power, they are. If, if men wanted 0.98
00:01:25.560 to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages. That's what happens when men 1.00
00:01:29.900 get power. When women get power, we tend to abuse men. We would destroy you. Has anyone 1.00
00:01:34.800 How are you going to make more men? Because we have the pussy where you're just going to 1.00
00:01:38.480 rape us and like just take him? We'll fucking, I would rather kill a fucking baby than you 1.00
00:01:42.620 make me fucking have a baby without my fucking. Really? Okay, let me get this straight. 1.00
00:01:46.160 You think you would beat him in a fight? Really? Yeah, he's gonna, he's gonna impregnate
00:01:50.060 me. When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker. Really? No, no, no, no, no, 1.00
00:01:54.360 she's not talking about that. It's not coming out. So how are you going to have babies without
00:01:58.400 women? How are you going to have babies without women? We're not talking about, we're not talking 1.00
00:02:03.500 about that. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Men will over dominate women no matter 1.00
00:02:09.720 what time. Hello, hello, hello, hello. Everybody over here is agreeing. Yelling. Hold on, hold
00:02:15.380 on. What she was saying is who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman? We
00:02:20.720 can overpower women physically. We can dominate if we wanted to. So if we had, if we wanted 1.00
00:02:25.880 to, we could take control. If there was, if there was physically, right? Yes. Not mentally.
00:02:30.620 So what ever. So go back, go back to your statement about it. But man, yeah, because men,
00:02:34.860 when men get power, we're naturally benevolent. When women get power, they're not. And the problem 1.00
00:02:39.420 is we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their dads were
00:02:44.560 the bad guy. And usually they're not. And I understand that. I do actually agree with
00:02:49.260 that. It's happened. My mom was actually really good at like not instilling negative thoughts 1.00
00:02:53.860 about my father and allowing me to understand who he was. I think what Pearl was saying, and
00:02:58.420 not to, not to attack you or your mom, but if, if you, in any situation, even a man, if, if
00:03:04.620 a guy's like, Oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive. It's like, okay,
00:03:08.780 whoa, what did you do? There's an exception to the rule, but I've seen ladies that have 1.00
00:03:13.980 been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically abused. And I'm
00:03:18.740 like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that. But that particular woman, 1.00
00:03:22.640 she's doing something. I'm not agreeing. And I'm not justifying that the guy should be
00:03:25.920 physical, but so hold on, hold on, hold on. Let me finish 10 relationships. What the fuck
00:03:31.740 are you doing to cause these men to get violent with you? Well, I'm not doing anything. I'm not 0.99
00:03:36.640 doing anything. No, you are the problem. No, I don't think so. No, no, no. Well, I'm just
00:03:42.840 thinking like what? Okay. So he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you. There was
00:03:46.680 no argument. You weren't trying to control him because I believe the natural order of
00:03:50.280 the world is God, men and women. And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal
00:03:55.900 to men and that we have an ability, like that we should be able to control men. That's when
00:03:59.640 evil happens. I mean, I don't think there's equality with men and women at all. Right, 1.00
00:04:02.600 right. But I think, I think we're supposed to, I think we're supposed to submit to men's 1.00
00:04:07.700 authority. And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens. And so typically when, when
00:04:12.560 there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying to impose her will on 1.00
00:04:16.180 the man. Look, I understand what you're saying. Cause I've, I've been red pilled like, and
00:04:20.400 I, I'm 100% not a feminist. I do believe in the red pill. I think you're a little bit 1.00
00:04:25.060 more extreme in the mentality of it. Hell yeah. And I will say this, my first, my first,
00:04:31.680 so I dated a guy, five foot four. He did have a really nice body, great in bed. Five
00:04:36.660 four. Five four. No job. Wow. I was making a lot of money. So I paid for him. But after
00:04:44.480 school, everything, I wanted to be better. I did submit to him. He didn't deserve it,
00:04:48.140 but I did. And I did start getting the disrespect. I started to disrespect him because he was not
00:04:53.820 like giving you security. He wasn't doing it. He wasn't trying to level up. He didn't
00:04:58.760 have any job. He didn't have no job. Girl. Yeah. It happened. Well, he had a job and I
00:05:04.400 met him, but that's what, go ahead. But listen, so this is my first, my first thought when I
00:05:10.120 was laying in bed and I lost my job and going under and I was like, fuck, like I have no 0.98
00:05:15.100 money to take care of this person next to me and me. If this house is burning down, I'm 0.99
00:05:18.660 gonna have to put him on my back, my dog in my hand and save us both. I was like, it was
00:05:22.900 the biggest pressure I've ever had. And then I thought to myself, if I have to
00:05:25.900 make this person my long-term partner and get married, what if I, what if I need to
00:05:30.600 be bedridden with a, with a child? He cannot take care of us. And he doesn't
00:05:34.780 have that mentality of, you know what? I'm going to go shovel shit on the corner 0.99
00:05:38.200 just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head. So I was like, this 0.99
00:05:42.580 is the most stressful I've ever been. I will never do this again every day in my
00:05:45.760 life. So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I
00:05:52.240 do want a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very
00:05:55.240 dominant. But the, the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of 1.00
00:05:59.280 our lifestyle means. So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in
00:06:03.240 lifestyle. Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was 0.91
00:06:06.440 making $45,000 a year and she relied on solely one income. They only had, I know you
00:06:11.440 see, she's like, Oh my God, how would I do that?
00:06:14.440 But the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want to go down in lifestyle 1.00
00:06:21.980 for a family. And that was expected before they knew you'd have to work harder to have
00:06:26.400 like women would work jobs, even like with kids. And they knew they would, they would 0.99
00:06:31.020 get it. They would get married and they would like work harder and still have less because
00:06:35.240 they had kids. But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle 1.00
00:06:40.480 expectations because we've been living by ourselves for so long.
00:06:44.200 And I agree. Cause it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it? You're being the
00:06:47.260 man that you want in your life. So you're providing for yourself and stuff. And I, I do agree with
00:06:52.200 that. And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine
00:06:57.280 of a woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way. Like I really
00:07:01.520 am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be like, and I
00:07:07.020 think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like, you'll date
00:07:10.960 a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying
00:07:13.620 to like beat the odds. So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think. And
00:07:17.400 then you have potential. Yeah. And then you're like, damn it. I fucked in my ass for this.
00:07:21.300 Cause it's okay. 1.00