Why Men Gets Side-Chicks
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Summary
This week we talk about having a side chick, a mistress, and a sneaky link. What does it mean to be a "side chick" and how does it differ from a "main chick" or a "sneaky link"?
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So, to start, have you guys ever had a side chick or been a side chick?
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No, not an official side chick, but like, I chuckled multiple tings at the same time.
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So, when you guys hear side chick, because when I think of side chick, I think there's like a main chick, and then like, you know.
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Because I don't think it's a side chick if you juggle multiple, wouldn't that be?
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Do you guys think, what's the difference between a side chick, a mistress, and a sneaky link?
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Side chick, mistress, and a sneaky link, you said. What's the difference?
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Side chick is when you've got a girl, and then you've got another girl as well on the side, that doesn't necessarily know about the, yeah.
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If you're married and you've got a side chick, it's a mistress.
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Because when I think of a sneaky link, like that is they're not in a relationship.
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Yeah, that's just somebody you sneak around with late nights.
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So, question for the guys that said yes to having a side chick.
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Because, you know, like if you get into a relationship with a girl, she kind of gives you like a terms and conditions list, like without even saying it really.
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So, you know what you can kind of get from your main girl, because, you know, in return, you know, you're taking her out in public.
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Whereas your side chick, she doesn't really care about being out in public.
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And she might do the things that your main girl might not.
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So, that's kind of how she might have crept into, you know, being my side chick by doing the stuff my main thing wasn't doing.
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Like just accepting something and just being like, all right, cool.
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So, your main girl was always arguing with you.
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So, then you were like, I need to find someone who gives me peace.
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And so, why did you not promote the side chick to main?
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Because being a side chick, you can't really promote.
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I'll be putting them in the side chick friend zone too.
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Once you're in there, you come in that gate, you leave in that gate.
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So, you just won't ever respect them in that way.
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Side chicks, if it's a girl that you don't necessarily respect enough to be your actual wife,
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It's like usually a Walmart version of your girlfriend.
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But if your main girl leaves you and you splurge with your missus,
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the side chick's gonna become your main girl anyway.
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She gets demoted from side chick to sneaky link.
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So being on the other end of that, what was it like being a side chick?
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I think being a side chick, you still class yourself as, even though you know you're side chick,
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you still like to think that you're their main girl or you're the person bringing all the fun to them.
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You're never stepping out of that zone because you let yourself come into that zone.
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And I think a part of you still hopes that you might, they might promote you to their main chick.
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For me, it was, it was fine because I knew what I was getting into.
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I knew I was the side chick and I didn't want nothing else.
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But I think if you understand going in that you're not going to be upgraded and you're not emotionally attached to the person,
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like try not to get emotionally attached, then you can do it successfully.
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I know you're fixing the camera, but I need you to pull the, yeah.
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It's called, um, side chicks have high self esteem.
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And this is for all the women that think that side chicks have low self esteem.
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Or when I talk about the women I've dated and shit and women say, I mean, that's that type of woman.
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I mean, you, you know, those women have low self esteem to fuck with somebody like you and this, that and the other.
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Let me explain this shit so y'all can finally get an understanding and understand that these women have the highest self esteem.
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First of all, a woman that is a quote unquote side chick, she doesn't go into this situation like, oh man, I can't get a man for myself.
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So I might as well latch on to somebody else shit or, you know, you know, I don't deserve a man of my own.
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So I might as well deal with whoever will fuck with me.
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They attitude is like, well, shit, if he talking to me, if he giving me time and attention, if he willing to take me out, if he willing to spend money on me, somebody ain't handling their fucking business at home.
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And that might not be true, but this is how they think.
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He might like his chick, but when he get some of this pussy, you know what I'm saying?
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Or when he get a dose of me, man, he ain't going home.
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So that's the, that's the mentality of a side chick.
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Not no, oh, I can't get a man of my own or, you know, all that kind of dumb shit.
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These women go in like, well, shit, he can't, he can't be too happy if he barking up my tree.
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You know, he calling my phone all the fucking time.
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They damn near start feeling like, man, that can't be serious what they got.
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You know, if he, if he coming at me this hard, they can't be straight.
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It's okay, but what you do, we get on, what the experience.