Why Modern Women Aren't Marriageable
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of Paternity fraud and paternity fraud in the Jamaican legal system. Is it a problem? Should men have the right to sign off on the rights of their children when it comes to paternity fraud?
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jamaica is the number one in the world for paternity fraud for my jamaican friend big
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up pearl you're doing god's work keep preaching the gospel um slender scoot if women have the
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right okay i've read that one so if women have the right to choose to be mothers do you think
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men should have the right to choose to be to choose not to be fathers sorry sorry if women
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have the right to choose not to be mothers do you think men should have the right to choose not to
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be fathers they have that choice anyway agreed here yeah here they have that choice okay so
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do you do you think that's right yes or no and why that a man can sign off on his rights and not pay
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child support and not pay child support and the baby's there yeah because if a girl has the right
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to get an abortion then shouldn't he have the right to sign off do you mean in the circumstances that
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say a woman was pregnant and she said she's keeping it and the guy's saying oh i don't want the baby
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do you mean in that circumstance or you mean in general right yeah so if um yeah if if there's a
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baby and i don't if i don't want to be a mother i can get an abortion so he should be able to sign
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off on the rights yeah and not have any they'll have to get a contract in that time where he says
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i don't want to be um the father and you're still having a child and then i don't think you should have
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to pay child support you're basically saying cool i'm okay with being a single mom then i think it's kind of
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hard to answer them because like you said before a woman has a choice um to take contraception but
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so does a man have a choice to wrap up so he doesn't get her pregnant so i feel like you both have a
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responsibility if you're having unprotected sex as a man you know what can happen so i just think some
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women they get pregnant like on purpose like to break a family or whatever so i think in cases like
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that she should deal with it and be responsible at the fact that you've both done it so he didn't want a
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kid you know he didn't want a kid like some women use it to entrap men so i think she should deal
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with it like if it's like that then he has a right well and we're the only ones that can consent um and
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know all of the circumstances because we know when we're ovulating and we would know if we have birth
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control or not so i mean girls as she was saying i have an iud yeah um what do you guys think yes no
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yeah i feel like you know they both have the responsibility and i don't know i don't i don't
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really know how i feel about that um i would say yeah like if it's like a one night stand and like
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certain women they they want to have a child by whatever they're not really concerned who their dad
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is yeah i think you should be able to have the freedom to say you know what i'm not saying it's right
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either like yeah i'm not saying it's right in a sense of doing it like the same way for abortion
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i think each circumstance is going to be unique to its own you know it's interesting we'll call a
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guy a deadbeat dad but a girl that has an abortion isn't a deadbeat mom yeah i would never call anyone
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a deadbeat dad like that's like people won't say that because the child isn't here yet whereas when
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the child is here and they expect a dad to look at that child and see how beautiful it is and just
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want to help i mean but you'd expect a mom to not want to kill her child but i feel like people are
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visual i realize when a woman's pregnant well how it depends if she doesn't do it six months you can't
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see that baby you can just see a little bump whereas you can see a little beautiful little baby
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sitting before you yeah but you can get an ultrasound yeah i mean like and you could feel the baby yeah you
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can definitely feel it 100 but i just feel like from outside of looking in people will judge a man
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more because they think oh the child is here you're and you're still not being active i just think as
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women we're more judgmental like and harsh on men in general like i think women judge men too much
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and are ungrateful for certain things and fail to look at ourselves as women but i feel like men do
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judge men as well for example if there was a person that's a father and he saw someone else not being
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active i mean as individuals like i think women i think we're very selfish naturally like all we
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think about is ourselves and unless you like block out society and start taking reflection and thinking
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about who you are as a person like i've i've been in like with my partner and like i've moaned and moaned
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and when you come to the conclusion but you know what i'm just moaning too much like give him a break
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do you get it yeah i disagree females are not selfish naturally that's not a natural trait i don't
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mean i feel like in society now i think women are very selfish like she's saying a deadbeat dad i hear
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so many women say that and i just think so disrespectful to the child let alone the man well
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why is it disrespectful to the child because in a lot of the cases the man isn't a deadbeat dad like so
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many dads want to be a dad and they can't be one so like how is he a deadbeat dad because he's not
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giving you money it's all based from what i said in the beginning it's all based on money but you
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shouldn't want to give money for to raise a child to raise a child though i'm sorry it takes money
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to raise a child though i don't believe that it does because like i understand we've got to survive
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which is what i say money is important but like i think women expectations are far too high like
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they want too much like a household and a family foundation isn't built on money like we had less
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years ago and we did more with families like now we've got everything so if i have 50 pound a week
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i can survive on 50 pound a week if you have 500 pounds you know it is i feel like it depends on
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what type of lifestyle you want to live and what type of lifestyle you want to give your child is
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women like i think modern women are tend to be selfish yeah because they pick a lifestyle over a
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family yeah yeah yeah yeah they would rather have a certain quality of living rather than multiple
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children i just think women are waking up a little bit i personally feel like women are waking up and
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smelling the coffee and realizing we want more like we want more brainwashed to believe that we should
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be that way to be honest i don't think so like for example i look at my parents marriage for example and
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i see so many flaws in that marriage and i look at my mum even to this day now you know my dad passed
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away three years ago and i look at my mum and she still complains about the things that my dad did not
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do in that marriage even to this day now how long were they married oh god like 30 years i think
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that doesn't even exist now like it's so rare but i look at that still stuck stuck stuck together yeah
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but i look at that and i think to myself you know what i don't want that life it's because i don't
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want to be with a man my mum does the same thing she makes me believe that i deserve better like you
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you get your career but there is a new modern society there is nothing wrong with wanting a
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life for yourself i agree i completely agree there's nothing wrong with wanting it but can
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you get it yeah that's right yeah you can get it you can is if that's true then you'd have it
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like women women would have it yeah in general 50 of women wouldn't be going on the path of being
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single and childless in the future like by 2030 like they wouldn't be on that path if they could all
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get it and so a lot of times like especially on like tick tock and shit i see all these girls that
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are like raise your standards raise your standards like da da da da da da and it's just like yeah
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but a lot of those girls aren't going to get what you're saying how do you know that though i think
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it's a mindset because what one percent of women get to be housewives one in five that means four
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don't i think it's so the majority of women aren't going to get that yeah but it doesn't just mean
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that they want to be housewives maybe they just want to live a comfortable life and it's not about
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marrying a rich man average it's about marrying a man with a provider mentality the average salary
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is 41 000 a year and you guys even said yourself like you how many people here wanted to pay 20
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or less of the bills but what percent of us are in the top 20 of women and so the men are looking up
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and asking what do they get out of it they don't get purity they don't get youth or none of us are
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virgins anymore and they get in the uk they get a 31 year old wife so she's on the brink of geriatric
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pregnancy why on earth would they have a provider mindset for a non-traditional wife