Why Modern Women SEEK ATTENTION Badly @ModernLifeDating
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about women cheating and why they do it. Women cheat, women cheat emotionally, men cheat physically, posting provocative photos of yourself is obviously for attention and driven by emotion. Why do women cheat? Why do they cheat so often and why do they do so many things for attention?
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women oh there's one more super chat women cheat emotionally men cheat physically posting
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provocative photos of yourself is obviously for attention driven by emotion with that being said
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how often do women cheat yeah if we if we consider women accepting attention from other men cheating
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how often do women cheat all the time daily most women a lot of women so i i agree with that
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statement it's true women women love attention this is what i'm saying i can't stand women that
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does five of attention all the time like it just does something to attention these days is like
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crack like they i've seen some women do the maddest things for attention i'm just thinking what is it
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about like what clothes a hell of a drug film no no tell me tell me what i've just seen like
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i've seen like um friends missus is like they just want to go out so bad but they've got not got money
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so then they're stealing stuff out of the jaws to try and sell it so they can get money to go out and
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they just post like they're just just the stuff they post and the things they do and i just think
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why are you so you try you do anything you can to go out just so you can get attention from men
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try and dress the women away and less and less and less and less because they want attention
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so like some women wear something and right well she's getting attention let me take off even more
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clothes and it's not even good attention because these men would let me tell you something women
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just so you can get it into your head you will get a lot of attention off men if you dress like
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cause because we see you like that so we might sleep with you but we're not going to marry you
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get this into your head you they don't understand it they think yeah all these men want me yeah they
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do but are they going to marry you is anyone does anyone look at a woman yeah half naked and think
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oh i bet she's going to be a good mom you want to you're going to marry you want to marry someone
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you want to marry someone that you if your daughter wants to be like if you want happy for your daughter
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to be like them then you know why would i want my daughter just like that so if you just like that
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i want to add on to that and i think it's because and pearl i want you to add if you think i'm wrong or right
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but i think it's because a lot of these girls they were never really loved by their dad because
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when you have that love from your father at a young age you feel so secure in yourself that you don't
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need to like post half naked photos on instagram because all the girls that i know came from like
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well-adjusted households which are very rare well-adjusted households where they respect their
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father their father was always there because remember a woman's first masculine love in her life
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is her father and if that love is tainted you know so is she so true and i think right now when
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you have women initiating 78 of all divorces in america kicking the father out and does the wife
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sit around like you know what your dad was so great but i had to kick him out she's like no your dad was
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an asshole your dad abandoned you and she from a young age is being trauma dumped on by her mother
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and then she has this negative outlook about males for the rest of her life which leads her
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to be this insufferable cat lady that kevin samuels was dunking on you know i mean and that's the
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thing right now when you have all these modern women who hate modern men who are the majority of
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modern men being raised by men or women when the majority of households are single in the households
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right you know do you do you disagree that like a woman because you know you love your dad and
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everything do you feel like you still need to go out there and get attention and take off your clothes and
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all that um i no i don't i don't like wearing crazy stuff but no i mean i just think like i think
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a lot of children have not really been raised by either of their parents because even if they have
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a mother in the house she is working and daycare and the state spends more time with children than
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the parents do the average parent spends 30 minutes a day how often does the kid spend on their phone
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how often does the kid at school so the school and tick tock is having more influence on their your
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kid than you are so now we have all these children that are being raised by the culture and not the
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family nature that is very true yeah and that's what they want when you and then if you really want to
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get into it the rockefellers wanted that from the get-go i know what you're going to say they don't
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the the the do these things and promote it to make a single break up the families because then they can
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raise their kids to be to the slaves that they need them to be you can't put your worldview on them now
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you're going to teach a kid that you can chop off your dick and you can be a girl and this and that
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because you're not because the moms are not there your dads are not there now then who's raising their
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kids the state's raising the kids and then they're putting in their filthy dirty ideology into your
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children and you don't have no say over it not in not not in my house but no chance and let me add
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out to this so how do i agree with kit yesterday never met that man and now ty here never met this
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man before in my life we have some base men on the show what are we like we have like a patriarchy
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conspiracy network that we're all like hey bro you ready to oppress these women bro you're ready to
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like shame them you know what kind of you know what kind of red-pilled me i was reading the writings
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of women like 150 years ago about marriage and like what they looked for in a husband and they
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literally were writing about how like you can't trust your feelings like that won't be a really
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fulfilling long-term relationship and they were talking they were like always listen to your husband
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he is the head of the household like um they basically said that arguing is the woman's fault because
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if you tell your employee if you think of it as an employee boss relationship if you tell your
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employee something and they start arguing with you that's the employee's fault not the boss but i was
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like we don't that's not normal it's always like you got to compromise but it's not you're not supposed
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to do that that's not what it's like it's not what a real traditional like marriage is if you look back
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at it the problem is that marriage is uh it's not fit for purpose in the current state of things in the
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culture you know because the cult the the state of the culture now means that marriage as it was is
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is fatally challenged because people just don't want to behave in that way anymore and it's a real
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insolvable problem unless either we go back to the 1950s or we try i don't know we try and find another
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way through but it's very difficult i think women these days think that they have a big thing about
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no one can't tell me what to do i do it because i want it but really if a man's telling you something if
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it's your husband is only going to tell you for your own good now that doesn't mean you're his slave
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it just means you're his wife and you respect him you think this is the man that i want to lead
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our family and raise my kids and help me raise my kids if he tells you something he's not going
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to be saying he only has your best interest at heart and i think like now women are like you can't
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tell him like do you know how many of my friends are like ah um my missus is going to go to
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marbetta or ib4 i says what yeah well i can't really say nothing because i said what my my i was
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with my ex on and off and i said she wouldn't even ask she wouldn't even enter it wouldn't even
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enter her head your missus shouldn't even want to go to them places first of all and that's not
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me being controlling i just have standards you mean going with her girlfriend you mean yeah
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going with her girlfriend yeah yeah going with her friends on a girl's holiday it would never
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happen and it's not even haram haram is like oh you're controlling you can't tell her what to do
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well like i don't tell her what to do if you want to go go but i'm not going to be you're not going
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back to my house yeah we have wives that don't see a problem with that like we have full-grown
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wives that do not see a problem with going out to the bar with their friends with going out to the
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club where they think it's normal yeah and i've been crazy thing i've been saying this for a while set
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the standards yeah i've been saying this for a while now and it's kind of like it's a little bit of a
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dark position but you're having a generation of women who don't know how to lead and maintain
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and keep a relationship raising women with those same break broken standards so it's kind of like
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what the church says like the generational curse you know you have the blind leading the blind at this
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point and if there's not a big thing to step in because if you look at the direct
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statistics whatever whatever fancy name you want to put on it of the single mother household it is
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detrimental to society single mother households it's not a dig on women right but i was raised in
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a single mother household and i had to do so much work and so much therapy and so much self-development i
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paid hundreds of thousand dollars in self-development stuff to get to where i am and i had to
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have the discipline and desire to go through this stuff and realize like hey you're not doing things
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the way you should be doing them and you need to change a lot of people don't want to confront
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themselves a lot of people don't want to accept the fact that you're incompetent at this time and you
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need to become more competent and you're having this situation right now in the west exclusively and
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look at the state of the west you can say all this like all these conservative values or blah blah blah and
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this and that but are you happy with the society you're living in or do you think the society that
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you're living with right now is trending in the right direction is it do you guys western society
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do you know what's crazy though what they think is that modern developments that they think that
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modern developments and technology is more important than family yeah and if you talk to
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people on the left they literally think this they're like well we're living longer than ever before
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well you know we have a higher you know standard of living than ever before but it's like we have
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the most broken families that we have ever had absolutely society of like like we have a bunch of
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women that were not raised by wives yeah because to add to your point right because i'm another one of
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those raised by a single mother situations right and if it wasn't for the fact that i i took the
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time to understand psychology of myself psychology of people psychology of just human beings in general
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i majored in psychology to figure out why i was so fucked up i did i didn't major in psychology but
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i went through the same route of like you have to go through these things to try and figure out
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why you're so fucked up so like now that i have an understanding of myself and why
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some of the ticks that i have i have them it's hard not to see the beginning stage you know what
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i mean so it's hard not to like look at the situation that you're in and understand why that
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you do this thing and then not once you understand why you do it that not be the thing that pops up in
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your head all the time so it's like to put it in context your mom comes home in the single parent
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household and she's always angry when she gets home every single day right from from work she comes back
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and she's angry and she's pissed off and she screams and she shouts at everyone now when you get to that
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age you subconsciously start doing the same things you come home you're upset at work you start screaming
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at everyone else you start doing the same way your mom did it and it only takes of you realizing that
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probably the reason that you're doing it the same way your mom did is because that is what you're used
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to seeing and understanding that part of your psychology and getting away from that is the number one step
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but that also is the hardest step because people don't want to take it because you have to do
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some self self-like reflection and you have to look at the dark sides of yourself that you don't want to