JustPearlyThings - Why Modern Women SEEK ATTENTION Badly @ModernLifeDating

00:00:00.000 women oh there's one more super chat women cheat emotionally men cheat physically posting

00:00:04.400 provocative photos of yourself is obviously for attention driven by emotion with that being said

00:00:10.640 how often do women cheat yeah if we if we consider women accepting attention from other men cheating

00:00:18.560 how often do women cheat all the time daily most women a lot of women so i i agree with that 1.00

00:00:27.200 statement it's true women women love attention this is what i'm saying i can't stand women that 1.00

00:00:31.040 does five of attention all the time like it just does something to attention these days is like

00:00:35.360 crack like they i've seen some women do the maddest things for attention i'm just thinking what is it 1.00

00:00:39.360 about like what clothes a hell of a drug film no no tell me tell me what i've just seen like

00:00:45.200 i've seen like um friends missus is like they just want to go out so bad but they've got not got money

00:00:51.040 so then they're stealing stuff out of the jaws to try and sell it so they can get money to go out and

00:00:55.040 they just post like they're just just the stuff they post and the things they do and i just think

00:00:59.200 why are you so you try you do anything you can to go out just so you can get attention from men

00:01:04.640 try and dress the women away and less and less and less and less because they want attention 1.00

00:01:08.720 so like some women wear something and right well she's getting attention let me take off even more

00:01:12.560 clothes and it's not even good attention because these men would let me tell you something women 1.00

00:01:16.320 just so you can get it into your head you will get a lot of attention off men if you dress like

00:01:20.400 cause because we see you like that so we might sleep with you but we're not going to marry you 1.00

00:01:24.560 get this into your head you they don't understand it they think yeah all these men want me yeah they

00:01:27.760 do but are they going to marry you is anyone does anyone look at a woman yeah half naked and think 1.00

00:01:31.920 oh i bet she's going to be a good mom you want to you're going to marry you want to marry someone

00:01:37.360 you want to marry someone that you if your daughter wants to be like if you want happy for your daughter

00:01:41.360 to be like them then you know why would i want my daughter just like that so if you just like that

00:01:46.000 i want to add on to that and i think it's because and pearl i want you to add if you think i'm wrong or right

00:01:51.840 but i think it's because a lot of these girls they were never really loved by their dad because

00:01:56.880 when you have that love from your father at a young age you feel so secure in yourself that you don't

00:02:04.560 need to like post half naked photos on instagram because all the girls that i know came from like 1.00

00:02:09.440 well-adjusted households which are very rare well-adjusted households where they respect their

00:02:13.280 father their father was always there because remember a woman's first masculine love in her life

00:02:18.400 is her father and if that love is tainted you know so is she so true and i think right now when

00:02:23.760 you have women initiating 78 of all divorces in america kicking the father out and does the wife 0.63

00:02:29.600 sit around like you know what your dad was so great but i had to kick him out she's like no your dad was 1.00

00:02:34.480 an asshole your dad abandoned you and she from a young age is being trauma dumped on by her mother 0.99

00:02:42.640 and then she has this negative outlook about males for the rest of her life which leads her 1.00

00:02:47.360 to be this insufferable cat lady that kevin samuels was dunking on you know i mean and that's the 1.00

00:02:52.560 thing right now when you have all these modern women who hate modern men who are the majority of

00:02:59.040 modern men being raised by men or women when the majority of households are single in the households

00:03:04.080 right you know do you do you disagree that like a woman because you know you love your dad and

00:03:09.120 everything do you feel like you still need to go out there and get attention and take off your clothes and

00:03:14.880 all that um i no i don't i don't like wearing crazy stuff but no i mean i just think like i think

00:03:25.600 a lot of children have not really been raised by either of their parents because even if they have

00:03:31.840 a mother in the house she is working and daycare and the state spends more time with children than 0.99

00:03:39.280 the parents do the average parent spends 30 minutes a day how often does the kid spend on their phone

00:03:46.880 how often does the kid at school so the school and tick tock is having more influence on their your

00:03:54.160 kid than you are so now we have all these children that are being raised by the culture and not the 0.99

00:03:59.200 family nature that is very true yeah and that's what they want when you and then if you really want to

00:04:05.280 get into it the rockefellers wanted that from the get-go i know what you're going to say they don't

00:04:13.440 the the the do these things and promote it to make a single break up the families because then they can

00:04:19.120 raise their kids to be to the slaves that they need them to be you can't put your worldview on them now 0.99

00:04:23.600 you're going to teach a kid that you can chop off your dick and you can be a girl and this and that 1.00

00:04:27.520 because you're not because the moms are not there your dads are not there now then who's raising their 1.00

00:04:32.000 kids the state's raising the kids and then they're putting in their filthy dirty ideology into your

00:04:36.960 children and you don't have no say over it not in not not in my house but no chance and let me add

00:04:41.200 out to this so how do i agree with kit yesterday never met that man and now ty here never met this

00:04:48.000 man before in my life we have some base men on the show what are we like we have like a patriarchy

00:04:52.400 conspiracy network that we're all like hey bro you ready to oppress these women bro you're ready to

00:04:56.960 like shame them you know what kind of you know what kind of red-pilled me i was reading the writings

00:05:01.360 of women like 150 years ago about marriage and like what they looked for in a husband and they 0.86

00:05:06.560 literally were writing about how like you can't trust your feelings like that won't be a really

00:05:11.520 fulfilling long-term relationship and they were talking they were like always listen to your husband

00:05:17.040 he is the head of the household like um they basically said that arguing is the woman's fault because

00:05:23.840 if you tell your employee if you think of it as an employee boss relationship if you tell your

00:05:28.160 employee something and they start arguing with you that's the employee's fault not the boss but i was

00:05:32.720 like we don't that's not normal it's always like you got to compromise but it's not you're not supposed

00:05:37.840 to do that that's not what it's like it's not what a real traditional like marriage is if you look back

00:05:44.240 at it the problem is that marriage is uh it's not fit for purpose in the current state of things in the

00:05:50.640 culture you know because the cult the the state of the culture now means that marriage as it was is

00:05:56.880 is fatally challenged because people just don't want to behave in that way anymore and it's a real

00:06:01.120 insolvable problem unless either we go back to the 1950s or we try i don't know we try and find another

00:06:07.200 way through but it's very difficult i think women these days think that they have a big thing about

00:06:11.920 no one can't tell me what to do i do it because i want it but really if a man's telling you something if

00:06:16.800 it's your husband is only going to tell you for your own good now that doesn't mean you're his slave

00:06:20.640 it just means you're his wife and you respect him you think this is the man that i want to lead

00:06:24.640 our family and raise my kids and help me raise my kids if he tells you something he's not going

00:06:30.480 to be saying he only has your best interest at heart and i think like now women are like you can't 0.99

00:06:34.080 tell him like do you know how many of my friends are like ah um my missus is going to go to

00:06:39.200 marbetta or ib4 i says what yeah well i can't really say nothing because i said what my my i was

00:06:44.560 with my ex on and off and i said she wouldn't even ask she wouldn't even enter it wouldn't even

00:06:47.840 enter her head your missus shouldn't even want to go to them places first of all and that's not 1.00

00:06:52.400 me being controlling i just have standards you mean going with her girlfriend you mean yeah

00:06:56.080 going with her girlfriend yeah yeah going with her friends on a girl's holiday it would never 0.92

00:06:59.600 happen and it's not even haram haram is like oh you're controlling you can't tell her what to do

00:07:06.720 well like i don't tell her what to do if you want to go go but i'm not going to be you're not going

00:07:09.680 back to my house yeah we have wives that don't see a problem with that like we have full-grown 1.00

00:07:16.080 wives that do not see a problem with going out to the bar with their friends with going out to the 1.00

00:07:21.440 club where they think it's normal yeah and i've been crazy thing i've been saying this for a while set

00:07:26.560 the standards yeah i've been saying this for a while now and it's kind of like it's a little bit of a

00:07:30.160 dark position but you're having a generation of women who don't know how to lead and maintain 1.00

00:07:39.680 and keep a relationship raising women with those same break broken standards so it's kind of like

00:07:46.160 what the church says like the generational curse you know you have the blind leading the blind at this

00:07:51.120 point and if there's not a big thing to step in because if you look at the direct

00:07:57.440 statistics whatever whatever fancy name you want to put on it of the single mother household it is

00:08:04.640 detrimental to society single mother households it's not a dig on women right but i was raised in 0.99

00:08:12.800 a single mother household and i had to do so much work and so much therapy and so much self-development i

00:08:20.160 paid hundreds of thousand dollars in self-development stuff to get to where i am and i had to

00:08:27.360 have the discipline and desire to go through this stuff and realize like hey you're not doing things

00:08:35.280 the way you should be doing them and you need to change a lot of people don't want to confront

00:08:38.400 themselves a lot of people don't want to accept the fact that you're incompetent at this time and you

00:08:43.440 need to become more competent and you're having this situation right now in the west exclusively and

00:08:51.760 look at the state of the west you can say all this like all these conservative values or blah blah blah and

00:08:55.920 this and that but are you happy with the society you're living in or do you think the society that

00:09:01.520 you're living with right now is trending in the right direction is it do you guys western society

00:09:11.600 do you know what's crazy though what they think is that modern developments that they think that

00:09:16.800 modern developments and technology is more important than family yeah and if you talk to

00:09:21.520 people on the left they literally think this they're like well we're living longer than ever before

00:09:26.320 well you know we have a higher you know standard of living than ever before but it's like we have

00:09:30.880 the most broken families that we have ever had absolutely society of like like we have a bunch of

00:09:39.360 women that were not raised by wives yeah because to add to your point right because i'm another one of

00:09:45.440 those raised by a single mother situations right and if it wasn't for the fact that i i took the

00:09:51.120 time to understand psychology of myself psychology of people psychology of just human beings in general

00:09:56.000 i majored in psychology to figure out why i was so fucked up i did i didn't major in psychology but 0.96

00:10:00.160 i went through the same route of like you have to go through these things to try and figure out 0.92

00:10:04.240 why you're so fucked up so like now that i have an understanding of myself and why 0.99

00:10:08.320 some of the ticks that i have i have them it's hard not to see the beginning stage you know what 0.99

00:10:14.480 i mean so it's hard not to like look at the situation that you're in and understand why that

00:10:19.520 you do this thing and then not once you understand why you do it that not be the thing that pops up in

00:10:24.880 your head all the time so it's like to put it in context your mom comes home in the single parent

00:10:30.720 household and she's always angry when she gets home every single day right from from work she comes back 1.00

00:10:35.520 and she's angry and she's pissed off and she screams and she shouts at everyone now when you get to that 1.00

00:10:40.720 age you subconsciously start doing the same things you come home you're upset at work you start screaming

00:10:47.440 at everyone else you start doing the same way your mom did it and it only takes of you realizing that

00:10:52.320 probably the reason that you're doing it the same way your mom did is because that is what you're used

00:10:55.680 to seeing and understanding that part of your psychology and getting away from that is the number one step

00:11:02.320 but that also is the hardest step because people don't want to take it because you have to do

00:11:06.720 some self self-like reflection and you have to look at the dark sides of yourself that you don't want to

00:11:11.440 see

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JustPearlyThings - June 22, 2023

Why Modern Women SEEK ATTENTION Badly @ModernLifeDating

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