Why Post Wall Women Are Single And Childless
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss whether or not a woman should get married at 39 years old, and why it's a bad idea. We also discuss why a woman shouldn't get married until she's 30 years old if she doesn't want to have kids.
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I think I've actually been subject to doing that, to actually thinking that I deserve
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more than what I can give to you, or exactly that, what I bring to the table, which is
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different for both traditionally men and women.
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Because the thing is, because you're a really successful musician, because you've been on
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X Factor or whatever, right? So it's like if you put yourself in the top 10% of talent,
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right? And that's great, but you have to know what comes with it, and it doesn't make you
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more attractive to men. Men don't care. It's nothing. And so it's like women will treat
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their career and act like it's an asset to men when it's nothing. You're still an average
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No, no, no ring. And it's true to me too. It comes with, like, I could tell you because
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I'm in that situation. It comes with a lot of problems. You can't look like you're better
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Yeah, I just think the preference thing and, like, everyone's entitled to what they think
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they desire and deserve, yeah, and the standard that they want for their life. I don't agree
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with shitting on people. Like, I don't agree with that. I'm so against that, actually.
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Like, I don't, I wouldn't say she really shat on the bus driver. She just answered the
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Oh, did she? I haven't watched the whole thing.
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Oh, did she? If she does, then, yeah, okay. Ignore what I said.
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But it's more like she doesn't ask him about his character. She doesn't ask about his values.
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It's just, bus driver, he's out the door without asking any other questions. And I'm saying,
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Also, I think if she was younger, maybe, but you're so old, like,
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respectfully, you can't, what are you going to, if I was a man, I'd be like, what can
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you provide for me? You can't even make babies.
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Yeah, but what if she doesn't want babies? And what if he doesn't want babies?
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She can find somebody on the same level as her.
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Yeah, no, but why would a man, why would a man marry a 39-year-old that can't offer him
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Because he might have had his kids. Like, surely if she's 39, she can probably go for
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someone that's about 50, 55. He's probably had his kids.
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Right, but then why would he get married at all?
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I think as a woman, yeah, I think you're a loser if you don't get married and have kids.
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I think the equivalent of not getting married and having kids, I think the equivalent of
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But that's another thing as well that I think you have to consider, because you said that
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she might want to date someone that's like maybe 55. 55-year-old bus driver, but a 39-year-old
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TV presenter, I feel like is not the same. I feel like realistically, the bus driver is
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not going to be like 20 years old. He's probably going to be older. So it's slightly more embarrassing
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that within your life, you didn't build a better career.
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Right, but why does it matter if you have money? So she has money. Why does she need him?
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Because naturally women, like naturally, like natural selection or whatever, like naturally
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women feel more secure with a guy who has more money.
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But this is the problem. It's like, she's not a traditional woman. How many bodies she
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Oh, come on. 30. You're telling me 20 years in the dating market.
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But even if she does, even if she does, like I don't think that now.
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That lowers your value to men. It makes you less valuable. So the whole point is she wants
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a traditional outcome, but she's not a traditional woman.
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Actually, also, another thing a lot of people don't, and I noticed it, everyone just ignored
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the fact that she's this quote unquote high value woman that earns this amount of money
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and this and that. And she's around a lot of high value men. So why haven't any of them
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And I only say that because I grew up with my brother and I can think like a man. So
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with my brother, what I understood how men think is the older you get, how men think,
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the more experience you have, whether you do or don't, only you and God knows, it doesn't
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matter. But the older you get, the way a man can view you is like you have a lot of experience.
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Why are you single? Why are you so old? The older you get, you have more experience.
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It's harder to change you, the older that you get. So a man will go for a younger woman
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We can view it in a bad way or we can view it as they're able to, because I know that
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if I was a man, I'd get someone younger so that I can mold them to what I want them to
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be. Now you lot can sit there and be like, oh, you know, he's manipulating, he's grooming.
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All right, cool. But actually, I know that if I go for a 30 year old woman, they're going
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to be stuck in their ways. If you both smoke, I've got a 20 year old woman there, 30 year old
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women there, both of you smoke. I can actually probably change a 20 year old woman, but
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a 30 year old, I don't think there's going to be much to it.
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And two are supposed to become one flesh anyways.
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So, and that's like, that's how they used to view it.
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I think the main question here is if she was to date a bus driver, will the relationship
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work? No, it won't work because he's not providing for her. He's not being the superior
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person in the relationship. So what's the point of her going for a bus driver? What for the
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sake of saying she has babies? I think she knows it's just not going to work. Like a
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bus driver probably doesn't know as much as her, probably hasn't had as much experience
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as her. They probably do not have the same thing in common in terms of medium success.
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What experience does she have? She talks for a living.
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Yeah, but she probably has experience of like, she's probably in big rooms with people.
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They have like really serious conversations. She probably can't have them conversations
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with a bus driver. So I think the reason why she's saying that is because she knows
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with a bus driver, the relationship is just not going to work. I'm sure you can agree
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that a man's role is to provide, right? So if you can't provide, the relationship is
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just, it's not going to work. I think his role is to provide if you're a traditional
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woman, if you deserve to be provided for. So what is a traditional woman? Could it be
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like state, like what is that? I mean, I think, I think you can, in general, like what our great
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grandmothers were. Our grandmothers and great grandmothers. Okay, so what, like virgin?
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More so, yeah. I mean, I really don't think they exist anymore, to be honest, but like
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virgin, usually like submissive to their husband, cooks, cleans, good with children, has experience
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with children, knows sewing. I think we know in general what a traditional woman is. Like
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we're not, we're not dumb, you know? So I think it's entitled to ask for something you
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don't deserve. And that's why I think this is crazy because she's asking for something
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she doesn't deserve. She's asking for traditional treatment when she doesn't deserve it.
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I think that's a bit harsh to say that she's entitled only because, obviously when you compare
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it to like traditional women, the grandmothers and stuff like that, they didn't have an option
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to become a TV presenter. Their whole life goal was to be a housewife and raise kids.
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Yes, they did. Women have been able to work since like the 20s.
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No, but this is what I'm saying is that like work and TV presenters, two different things.
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Like this woman is on TV every day. She's having fun. She's living her dream. She's kicking
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back. Like I personally, if I'm on TV having fun, I don't really know if at 39, I'd want
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to come back to a however year old bus driver, but he's probably riding his bus and he's going
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to be so happy to see, you know, his pretty wife on the TV and he comes home and he sees
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Like to breathe. Um, what? Air or like nothing, nothing.
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No, no. So you come home, right? And you lay in bed and there's air.
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And there's, or, or there's a bus driver or the equivalent of an average job because
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I'd rather air if he's irking me. Like if, like if he's getting on my nerves, I'd rather
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But I feel like bus drivers work long hours anyway. So 90% of the time is probably going to be
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air in that bed. But I just feel like it's harsh for her to be entitled just because men like-
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So she's 40, right? What does life look like for her at 60, 70? Like we're supposed to live
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I don't know, but what is she going to do the last 40 years of her life? Her looks are
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She's invisible to men because like men aren't really checking for women over the age of like
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45, 50, you know, 50 if you're lucky. Um, so now what does the second half of her life
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The thing is, is obviously personally, like, I don't know, but obviously she says she just
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doesn't want to spend it with a bus driver. So if that's what sis doesn't want, then that's
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what sis doesn't want. And maybe like, who knows, maybe that debate actually sparked up and woke up
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a bus driver and he's thinking, do you know what? I'm really going to work harder. Or maybe,
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do you know what? They're like, fuck it. She's 40. I can't relate. I'm going to keep driving my bus.
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Like, but my point, my point isn't even really her. Like, I don't, I don't really give a shit
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about this girl. Right. My point is like average women still feel entitled to above average men.
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And we're so delusional to think that we are going to get them when, what does she bring to
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the table as a 39 year old news presenter? So would you say the bus driver's above average
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and she's average? No, I'm saying she's average, maybe even below average at 40 as into what she
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can bring to a guy. And a bus driver is an average man. So they're like equals kind of. Yeah. And
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she thinks she's above it. So what about men in, go on, go on. So Paul, would you marry a Tina?
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Yeah. Do you guys think you guys would have a lot in common? You know what's funny? I actually want
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to date someone. I like prefer it when we have nothing in common. So how would the relationship
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survive? Like, what would you guys discuss if you guys, I don't, I don't really think you
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need to talk. Yeah. So then that'll basically be like dating air. Exactly.