Why We Don't Have TRADITIONAL WOMEN in the Society
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with a man who is a pastor at a local church in London, and we talk about what it means to be a traditional woman in the 21st century. We talk about the lack of traditional women in our culture, and why it's a problem.
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where do you think guys can find traditional women because that's a
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complaint is I always hear is that there's no traditional women left like
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where do guys find traditional women or do you think they have to make someone
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into a traditional woman that's another thing I've heard that like you can't
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like find the perfect wife you have to make the perfect wife and that's a good
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question yeah talking I was talking to King about this the other day I was
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like what percent we've had hunch like how many guests have we logged here say
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like because we started logging guests like a couple months ago so three four
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months ago we've maybe had what 600 700 in the system and this doesn't even
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count we just started like logging them like we I probably had way more come
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through here and we're thinking like how many traditional women out of all
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these hundreds of women that have been here and I was thinking I don't even
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think ten like I think I would I would say maybe five I could think maybe yeah
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yeah you know and I don't say this to be insulting right I'm not saying they're
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bad people I'm not saying this is like but I was thinking about it I'm like can
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you really have a traditional woman over the age of 25 because like traditional
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women get like that means you think the family comes first so if you make it to
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25 and you're not married like in a way you can't be traditional and I'm 26 so I
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would include myself in this right like I was playing volleyball in my early 20s
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that's not what traditional women do they get married in their early 20s you
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know so I was thinking about this the other day so like if a guy wanted to get
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married to a traditional woman like where where would he go especially in this
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culture you know as a man who's been in the game and a man who's now married I
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would say one thing that I would think is it makes a good woman is when she
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talks about her father not to say a woman is not good if she doesn't talk well
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about her father but if a woman talks well about her father and her and their
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relationship that tells me at the bare minimum she had a good role model and
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probably at the bare minimum she's not gonna permit me to disrespect her the
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likelihood is probably much smaller than if she had a bad relationship that was
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one thing I saw firsthand repeatedly am I like about a decade of working with
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fashion models in New York City nightclubs the ones that behave like
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whores maybe nine out of ten occasions yeah but again it all goes back to the
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family dynamic right because even you you were saying that like a lot of when
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you were sleeping around it was because you had mommy issues and you see the same
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thing with daddy issues and it's so interesting because we have a higher
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standard of living than ever before but we have so many mental problems because
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the family unit is not intact anymore and it's like even if people grew up with
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married parents how many were arguing all the time couldn't get along it's like I
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genuinely think my generation is afraid of traditional outcomes and marriage
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because of what we've seen from previous generations yeah yeah I mean in that
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ten years I mean I it was startling to me but I remember that a lot of the girls
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that I felt were the most conservative that were the most traditional in the
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sense of they're not gonna be act like whores they had good relationships with
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their dad I'm not saying it then oh I'm not saying every single situation but more
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often than not if a girl had a good relationship with her dad he was checking in
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with her you know while she's in New York he cared gave a fuck she was much
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less likely and also many of those girls I think were also probably much less
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likely to even go out to a lot of nightclubs yeah so I was probably seeing
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the women who were already in that way broken you know that I would like to
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party the party girls are the ones I generally met yeah we're the party girls so
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that was the pool yeah I mean it's also like modern men and modern women kind of
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find each other right where it's like cuz I I do know cuz when I think of like the
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stereotypical traditional woman I think of a girl that's a virgin on her wedding
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day right yeah and it's kind of crazy cuz I was curious I'm like what percent of
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women actually wait only five percent so that means I'm like there's only five
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percent of women that I would say like true like actual traditional right and I
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was thinking of the women I know that did that and I was like they got married at
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like 21 22 like two traditional men in churches yeah it's a very small like
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subset obviously like I've had hundreds of women here I think there is one girl
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that I believe was a virgin you know yeah the other ones kind of just lie it's
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like very obvious well what do you see what do you see in your experience what
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do you mean like just in general like for traditional women and men like here in
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London how do you see it I don't think they really exist traditional women not in
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the cities anyway I'd say like in small like church subsets I'll see more
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traditional but it's really interesting because a lot of women still don't have
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like the traditional mindset like if I said do you do you obey your husband it's
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still like oh well maybe and so that's how like I can kind of test where a girl's
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mindset is if she believes in like true biblical submission which is like you're
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supposed to obey your husband yeah you know yeah my wife is pretty pretty
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traditional yeah but I don't abuse it right I don't abuse it it's it's it's it sounds crazy
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to people when you talk like this yeah but it's it's not it there are many people who have
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like my wife is free she's a liberal you know she's actually a liberal yeah you know and she's a
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college graduate and she lives in a wealthy country yeah Germany yeah and her father's a CEO
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in the auto sector but she's also traditional and she's happy being a housewife yeah you know it's
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like this is it's it's like a myth of like and so it's like a it's like a myth almost like we're
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talking about the Stone Age we're talking about women that are from like you know this third world
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country where you know they're not able to talk that's not the case yeah well we've had like a
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hundred years of propaganda yeah so it's like we've had a hundred years of propaganda saying
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if if you submit to like one you always have to have a backup plan so like I've even had girls come
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on and say they want backup houses you imagine like a backup house like just in case the man goes
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wrong and starts abusing you one day like this is like think about how the gut reaction to whenever
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we talk about a lot of hot button topics it's always the man's an abuser or a great this like
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it's always those two things like this is the propaganda in the culture that you see where they
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just paint men as either one idiots and the woman's the smart one or two they paint them out as abusers
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that will which I honestly think that women abuse men more than men abuse women yes yeah yes I do I
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think it just the men are like they don't want to go to the police and say and say this is just anecdotal
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just my just my opinion right but in my opinion I just think like we have a hundred years of propaganda
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saying you can't trust men saying men are idiots saying if you give all your the authority to men
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they will abuse it yes yeah even though they really run the whole infrastructure of society they really
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do you know society we could not survive without men yet yet the women will say oh oh the men just
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will abuse me oh oh submitting to it the crazy thing is they'll submit to a boss but not a husband that's
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what baffles me that's what blows my mind they'll listen to their boss but if I say would you listen