JustPearlyThings - July 06, 2023


Why We Don't Have TRADITIONAL WOMEN in the Society

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
King
Pearl EXPOSES This Fact About Women In The 17th Century Non Traditional Women Want A Traditional Man

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8 minutes

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1,515

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25

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In this episode, I sit down with a man who is a pastor at a local church in London, and we talk about what it means to be a traditional woman in the 21st century. We talk about the lack of traditional women in our culture, and why it's a problem.

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00:00:00.000 where do you think guys can find traditional women because that's a 1.00
00:00:04.240 complaint is I always hear is that there's no traditional women left like 1.00
00:00:07.680 where do guys find traditional women or do you think they have to make someone
00:00:14.040 into a traditional woman that's another thing I've heard that like you can't 1.00
00:00:18.240 like find the perfect wife you have to make the perfect wife and that's a good 0.99
00:00:25.820 question yeah talking I was talking to King about this the other day I was
00:00:33.500 like what percent we've had hunch like how many guests have we logged here say
00:00:37.580 like because we started logging guests like a couple months ago so three four
00:00:41.540 months ago we've maybe had what 600 700 in the system and this doesn't even
00:00:46.280 count we just started like logging them like we I probably had way more come
00:00:52.400 through here and we're thinking like how many traditional women out of all
00:00:56.900 these hundreds of women that have been here and I was thinking I don't even 0.85
00:01:00.500 think ten like I think I would I would say maybe five I could think maybe yeah
00:01:06.380 yeah you know and I don't say this to be insulting right I'm not saying they're
00:01:09.740 bad people I'm not saying this is like but I was thinking about it I'm like can
00:01:13.700 you really have a traditional woman over the age of 25 because like traditional 1.00
00:01:19.160 women get like that means you think the family comes first so if you make it to 1.00
00:01:23.680 25 and you're not married like in a way you can't be traditional and I'm 26 so I
00:01:29.060 would include myself in this right like I was playing volleyball in my early 20s
00:01:32.440 that's not what traditional women do they get married in their early 20s you 1.00
00:01:37.700 know so I was thinking about this the other day so like if a guy wanted to get
00:01:43.100 married to a traditional woman like where where would he go especially in this
00:01:47.480 culture you know as a man who's been in the game and a man who's now married I
00:01:54.440 would say one thing that I would think is it makes a good woman is when she 1.00
00:02:00.020 talks about her father not to say a woman is not good if she doesn't talk well 0.99
00:02:06.720 about her father but if a woman talks well about her father and her and their
00:02:11.180 relationship that tells me at the bare minimum she had a good role model and 0.99
00:02:17.540 probably at the bare minimum she's not gonna permit me to disrespect her the 0.96
00:02:23.660 likelihood is probably much smaller than if she had a bad relationship that was 1.00
00:02:28.520 one thing I saw firsthand repeatedly am I like about a decade of working with
00:02:34.280 fashion models in New York City nightclubs the ones that behave like 1.00
00:02:37.880 whores maybe nine out of ten occasions yeah but again it all goes back to the 0.90
00:02:44.900 family dynamic right because even you you were saying that like a lot of when 0.95
00:02:49.380 you were sleeping around it was because you had mommy issues and you see the same
00:02:55.460 thing with daddy issues and it's so interesting because we have a higher
00:02:58.880 standard of living than ever before but we have so many mental problems because
00:03:04.620 the family unit is not intact anymore and it's like even if people grew up with
00:03:09.920 married parents how many were arguing all the time couldn't get along it's like I
00:03:14.000 genuinely think my generation is afraid of traditional outcomes and marriage
00:03:18.280 because of what we've seen from previous generations yeah yeah I mean in that
00:03:25.040 ten years I mean I it was startling to me but I remember that a lot of the girls
00:03:32.120 that I felt were the most conservative that were the most traditional in the 0.94
00:03:37.460 sense of they're not gonna be act like whores they had good relationships with 1.00
00:03:45.140 their dad I'm not saying it then oh I'm not saying every single situation but more
00:03:50.540 often than not if a girl had a good relationship with her dad he was checking in 0.98
00:03:54.680 with her you know while she's in New York he cared gave a fuck she was much 0.86
00:04:00.300 less likely and also many of those girls I think were also probably much less 0.94
00:04:04.820 likely to even go out to a lot of nightclubs yeah so I was probably seeing
00:04:09.560 the women who were already in that way broken you know that I would like to 1.00
00:04:14.420 party the party girls are the ones I generally met yeah we're the party girls so
00:04:18.860 that was the pool yeah I mean it's also like modern men and modern women kind of
00:04:22.760 find each other right where it's like cuz I I do know cuz when I think of like the
00:04:27.740 stereotypical traditional woman I think of a girl that's a virgin on her wedding 1.00
00:04:31.640 day right yeah and it's kind of crazy cuz I was curious I'm like what percent of
00:04:35.360 women actually wait only five percent so that means I'm like there's only five 1.00
00:04:41.660 percent of women that I would say like true like actual traditional right and I 0.96
00:04:46.840 was thinking of the women I know that did that and I was like they got married at
00:04:51.760 like 21 22 like two traditional men in churches yeah it's a very small like
00:05:00.760 subset obviously like I've had hundreds of women here I think there is one girl 1.00
00:05:05.260 that I believe was a virgin you know yeah the other ones kind of just lie it's
00:05:12.520 like very obvious well what do you see what do you see in your experience what
00:05:19.600 do you mean like just in general like for traditional women and men like here in
00:05:23.980 London how do you see it I don't think they really exist traditional women not in 1.00
00:05:27.580 the cities anyway I'd say like in small like church subsets I'll see more
00:05:33.160 traditional but it's really interesting because a lot of women still don't have 0.99
00:05:36.820 like the traditional mindset like if I said do you do you obey your husband it's
00:05:42.940 still like oh well maybe and so that's how like I can kind of test where a girl's 1.00
00:05:47.860 mindset is if she believes in like true biblical submission which is like you're
00:05:53.080 supposed to obey your husband yeah you know yeah my wife is pretty pretty 1.00
00:06:01.300 traditional yeah but I don't abuse it right I don't abuse it it's it's it's it sounds crazy
00:06:07.120 to people when you talk like this yeah but it's it's not it there are many people who have
00:06:14.160 like my wife is free she's a liberal you know she's actually a liberal yeah you know and she's a 0.99
00:06:19.580 college graduate and she lives in a wealthy country yeah Germany yeah and her father's a CEO
00:06:24.820 in the auto sector but she's also traditional and she's happy being a housewife yeah you know it's
00:06:30.020 like this is it's it's like a myth of like and so it's like a it's like a myth almost like we're
00:06:37.100 talking about the Stone Age we're talking about women that are from like you know this third world 1.00
00:06:42.500 country where you know they're not able to talk that's not the case yeah well we've had like a
00:06:46.920 hundred years of propaganda yeah so it's like we've had a hundred years of propaganda saying
00:06:52.400 if if you submit to like one you always have to have a backup plan so like I've even had girls come
00:06:58.340 on and say they want backup houses you imagine like a backup house like just in case the man goes
00:07:05.240 wrong and starts abusing you one day like this is like think about how the gut reaction to whenever
00:07:11.420 we talk about a lot of hot button topics it's always the man's an abuser or a great this like
00:07:16.940 it's always those two things like this is the propaganda in the culture that you see where they 1.00
00:07:22.400 just paint men as either one idiots and the woman's the smart one or two they paint them out as abusers 0.99
00:07:29.000 that will which I honestly think that women abuse men more than men abuse women yes yeah yes I do I 1.00
00:07:36.500 think it just the men are like they don't want to go to the police and say and say this is just anecdotal
00:07:42.680 just my just my opinion right but in my opinion I just think like we have a hundred years of propaganda 0.99
00:07:50.700 saying you can't trust men saying men are idiots saying if you give all your the authority to men 1.00
00:07:57.920 they will abuse it yes yeah even though they really run the whole infrastructure of society they really 1.00
00:08:06.020 do you know society we could not survive without men yet yet the women will say oh oh the men just 1.00
00:08:14.700 will abuse me oh oh submitting to it the crazy thing is they'll submit to a boss but not a husband that's 0.96
00:08:21.320 what baffles me that's what blows my mind they'll listen to their boss but if I say would you listen
00:08:26.020 to your husband it's crazy