JustPearlyThings - Why We Don't Have TRADITIONAL WOMEN in the Society

00:00:00.000 where do you think guys can find traditional women because that's a 1.00

00:00:04.240 complaint is I always hear is that there's no traditional women left like 1.00

00:00:07.680 where do guys find traditional women or do you think they have to make someone

00:00:14.040 into a traditional woman that's another thing I've heard that like you can't 1.00

00:00:18.240 like find the perfect wife you have to make the perfect wife and that's a good 0.99

00:00:25.820 question yeah talking I was talking to King about this the other day I was

00:00:33.500 like what percent we've had hunch like how many guests have we logged here say

00:00:37.580 like because we started logging guests like a couple months ago so three four

00:00:41.540 months ago we've maybe had what 600 700 in the system and this doesn't even

00:00:46.280 count we just started like logging them like we I probably had way more come

00:00:52.400 through here and we're thinking like how many traditional women out of all

00:00:56.900 these hundreds of women that have been here and I was thinking I don't even 0.85

00:01:00.500 think ten like I think I would I would say maybe five I could think maybe yeah

00:01:06.380 yeah you know and I don't say this to be insulting right I'm not saying they're

00:01:09.740 bad people I'm not saying this is like but I was thinking about it I'm like can

00:01:13.700 you really have a traditional woman over the age of 25 because like traditional 1.00

00:01:19.160 women get like that means you think the family comes first so if you make it to 1.00

00:01:23.680 25 and you're not married like in a way you can't be traditional and I'm 26 so I

00:01:29.060 would include myself in this right like I was playing volleyball in my early 20s

00:01:32.440 that's not what traditional women do they get married in their early 20s you 1.00

00:01:37.700 know so I was thinking about this the other day so like if a guy wanted to get

00:01:43.100 married to a traditional woman like where where would he go especially in this

00:01:47.480 culture you know as a man who's been in the game and a man who's now married I

00:01:54.440 would say one thing that I would think is it makes a good woman is when she 1.00

00:02:00.020 talks about her father not to say a woman is not good if she doesn't talk well 0.99

00:02:06.720 about her father but if a woman talks well about her father and her and their

00:02:11.180 relationship that tells me at the bare minimum she had a good role model and 0.99

00:02:17.540 probably at the bare minimum she's not gonna permit me to disrespect her the 0.96

00:02:23.660 likelihood is probably much smaller than if she had a bad relationship that was 1.00

00:02:28.520 one thing I saw firsthand repeatedly am I like about a decade of working with

00:02:34.280 fashion models in New York City nightclubs the ones that behave like 1.00

00:02:37.880 whores maybe nine out of ten occasions yeah but again it all goes back to the 0.90

00:02:44.900 family dynamic right because even you you were saying that like a lot of when 0.95

00:02:49.380 you were sleeping around it was because you had mommy issues and you see the same

00:02:55.460 thing with daddy issues and it's so interesting because we have a higher

00:02:58.880 standard of living than ever before but we have so many mental problems because

00:03:04.620 the family unit is not intact anymore and it's like even if people grew up with

00:03:09.920 married parents how many were arguing all the time couldn't get along it's like I

00:03:14.000 genuinely think my generation is afraid of traditional outcomes and marriage

00:03:18.280 because of what we've seen from previous generations yeah yeah I mean in that

00:03:25.040 ten years I mean I it was startling to me but I remember that a lot of the girls

00:03:32.120 that I felt were the most conservative that were the most traditional in the 0.94

00:03:37.460 sense of they're not gonna be act like whores they had good relationships with 1.00

00:03:45.140 their dad I'm not saying it then oh I'm not saying every single situation but more

00:03:50.540 often than not if a girl had a good relationship with her dad he was checking in 0.98

00:03:54.680 with her you know while she's in New York he cared gave a fuck she was much 0.86

00:04:00.300 less likely and also many of those girls I think were also probably much less 0.94

00:04:04.820 likely to even go out to a lot of nightclubs yeah so I was probably seeing

00:04:09.560 the women who were already in that way broken you know that I would like to 1.00

00:04:14.420 party the party girls are the ones I generally met yeah we're the party girls so

00:04:18.860 that was the pool yeah I mean it's also like modern men and modern women kind of

00:04:22.760 find each other right where it's like cuz I I do know cuz when I think of like the

00:04:27.740 stereotypical traditional woman I think of a girl that's a virgin on her wedding 1.00

00:04:31.640 day right yeah and it's kind of crazy cuz I was curious I'm like what percent of

00:04:35.360 women actually wait only five percent so that means I'm like there's only five 1.00

00:04:41.660 percent of women that I would say like true like actual traditional right and I 0.96

00:04:46.840 was thinking of the women I know that did that and I was like they got married at

00:04:51.760 like 21 22 like two traditional men in churches yeah it's a very small like

00:05:00.760 subset obviously like I've had hundreds of women here I think there is one girl 1.00

00:05:05.260 that I believe was a virgin you know yeah the other ones kind of just lie it's

00:05:12.520 like very obvious well what do you see what do you see in your experience what

00:05:19.600 do you mean like just in general like for traditional women and men like here in

00:05:23.980 London how do you see it I don't think they really exist traditional women not in 1.00

00:05:27.580 the cities anyway I'd say like in small like church subsets I'll see more

00:05:33.160 traditional but it's really interesting because a lot of women still don't have 0.99

00:05:36.820 like the traditional mindset like if I said do you do you obey your husband it's

00:05:42.940 still like oh well maybe and so that's how like I can kind of test where a girl's 1.00

00:05:47.860 mindset is if she believes in like true biblical submission which is like you're

00:05:53.080 supposed to obey your husband yeah you know yeah my wife is pretty pretty 1.00

00:06:01.300 traditional yeah but I don't abuse it right I don't abuse it it's it's it's it sounds crazy

00:06:07.120 to people when you talk like this yeah but it's it's not it there are many people who have

00:06:14.160 like my wife is free she's a liberal you know she's actually a liberal yeah you know and she's a 0.99

00:06:19.580 college graduate and she lives in a wealthy country yeah Germany yeah and her father's a CEO

00:06:24.820 in the auto sector but she's also traditional and she's happy being a housewife yeah you know it's

00:06:30.020 like this is it's it's like a myth of like and so it's like a it's like a myth almost like we're

00:06:37.100 talking about the Stone Age we're talking about women that are from like you know this third world 1.00

00:06:42.500 country where you know they're not able to talk that's not the case yeah well we've had like a

00:06:46.920 hundred years of propaganda yeah so it's like we've had a hundred years of propaganda saying

00:06:52.400 if if you submit to like one you always have to have a backup plan so like I've even had girls come

00:06:58.340 on and say they want backup houses you imagine like a backup house like just in case the man goes

00:07:05.240 wrong and starts abusing you one day like this is like think about how the gut reaction to whenever

00:07:11.420 we talk about a lot of hot button topics it's always the man's an abuser or a great this like

00:07:16.940 it's always those two things like this is the propaganda in the culture that you see where they 1.00

00:07:22.400 just paint men as either one idiots and the woman's the smart one or two they paint them out as abusers 0.99

00:07:29.000 that will which I honestly think that women abuse men more than men abuse women yes yeah yes I do I 1.00

00:07:36.500 think it just the men are like they don't want to go to the police and say and say this is just anecdotal

00:07:42.680 just my just my opinion right but in my opinion I just think like we have a hundred years of propaganda 0.99

00:07:50.700 saying you can't trust men saying men are idiots saying if you give all your the authority to men 1.00

00:07:57.920 they will abuse it yes yeah even though they really run the whole infrastructure of society they really 1.00

00:08:06.020 do you know society we could not survive without men yet yet the women will say oh oh the men just 1.00

00:08:14.700 will abuse me oh oh submitting to it the crazy thing is they'll submit to a boss but not a husband that's 0.96

00:08:21.320 what baffles me that's what blows my mind they'll listen to their boss but if I say would you listen

00:08:26.020 to your husband it's crazy

JustPearlyThings - July 06, 2023

Why We Don't Have TRADITIONAL WOMEN in the Society

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