Why Women Look For Top 1% Men
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Summary
In this episode we talk about cheating, purity and why women are attracted to younger men. We also talk about why women don t cheat and why men cheat. We talk about our experiences with cheating in our relationships and why we don't cheat.
Transcript
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Someone's unfaithful in their relationship has everything to do with their character
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It has nothing to do with, there's some men that like, so I can't get behind that.
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So if it meant, so this is, but this is, this is my point.
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So now you want a top 2% guy that also won't cheat on you.
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Like this isn't, and so even you, you're a nice woman, right?
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And I don't think you're asking these men to be spend crazy amounts of money on you,
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That's, that has, that's asking for a top 1% man.
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And this is, this is kind of like encompassing the problem.
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And again, I understand when you break it down in that way.
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Like I can understand like your line of logic, but again, I'm going to push back on, say,
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Like for my partner, wherever he is in this world, like all those things, like I'm going
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to fit all those, all those like boxes like that are against him as well.
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Like there's someone like, I, and again, like maybe I am being delusional, like, and
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that's fine because like, I'm happy to be delusional.
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I'm happy to be delusional, but like I, there's no doubt in my mind that I'm going to be married
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and there's no doubt in my mind that my partner won't, you know, like I believe.
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And I prayed that like, I'll have it like healthy with marriage.
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So, so if they looked at, okay, Cupid, like what, when do men swipe right the most?
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I don't know what that 18, that like, okay, Cupid, it's a dating app, dating app, men swipe
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I know that's, I know that ain't fun and it slowly goes.
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So men like youth, they like purity and it's like, it gives control.
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It gives it, they want someone they can, wait, wait, wait, but see, this is an example.
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We remember we said, who are these women that are shaming these men when men say they don't
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want a girl that slept around, you say, oh, it's because they want to control them.
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But like, there are 40 year olds who are swiping on 18 year olds.
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Like, I didn't say, I didn't say like aggressive, like, I mean, like if you're saying, okay, most
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men, so like men that are on dating apps, let's say they're between like what, 25 and 45, or
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like in their mid thirties, like swiping on 18 year olds, that girl doesn't have, she
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Wait, wait, wait, I think, I think, okay, okay, but, but the point, that's not the point
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The point is that men are attracted to youth and purity and the problem is, and, and
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And like thin, thinner women are curvy, you know, you know, slim, you know, and so the, like
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the point is there's a million women that are pretty and youthful.
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There's a new girl turning, doesn't have to be 18.
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Yeah, we can, we can, there's some studies that have said 21, 22, I'm just giving you
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And so the, the point I'm making is there's a lot of women that want the top 1% of men.
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And like, that's why most women are going to be single and childless is because we all
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And it's like, I mean, I understand that, but I think another part of that is just
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like, women are like our, which, I mean, the other side to that coin is like, why are women's
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It's because we've seen what happens again, like being children of divorce, like we've
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seen how bad it can be when you don't have high standards.
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So like, again, I, I understand, like when we talk about like quality of life.
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Well, I mean, all these men, I mean, you're also like, that's the thing that's in the back
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You're like, oh, all these women are childless and dah, dah, dah, dah.
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Well then also there's a large percentage of men that are also great.
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So like there's, who are these women potentially going to marry?
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Like there's like not, so, I mean, that's also another side to that.
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And I don't, I can't like, I don't have the statistics or the computer in front of you.
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I don't, but I remember like having conversation with someone about this actually on a date.
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And he told me that like men between the ages of like single men, between the ages of like
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32 and like 45 who are single are more, are like, there's a specific demographic of men
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that are most likely, unfortunately, to like unalive themselves, whereas women are not like
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Like most of, throughout most of history, men have not reproduced.
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Only 40% of men have reproduced historically, but that's, that's always been the way where
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80% of women have reproduced historically or 90, 80 to 90% depends on who you look at.
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So it's odd now that 50% of women will not reproduce and, and now, and you said, what
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will that mean for relationships moving forward as women raise and raise their standards?
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How do, how do relationships, no, think about it.
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I mean, you, you've probably been a side chick at some point.
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And I know this is, this is crazy, but I'm going to explain it.
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So every person you've ever slept with, the relationship came first.
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Like situationship or like, this is your, my boyfriend, girlfriend, I would say it's like
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So, so in the situationships, typically that's a man you find attractive, right?
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So you're probably not the only one he's sleeping with.
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And if you, if you do good, you might get promoted to girlfriend.
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No, because, because the number one way people are meeting.
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Because the number one way people are meeting nowadays are dating apps online.
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And, and, and again, women only swipe right 5% of the time.
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If you're on a date, if you're on a date with a guy.
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I mean, but we're all, but like the inverse is also true.
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Like we're also, women are also being courted by multiple men at the same time.
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It's actually a hundred percent, but 80% of women share 20% of men.
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So yeah, I was going back to that, the, what you were saying before, like what standard
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is it you expect or you're insinuating that women should have then?
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But I don't think it's wrong to say, I don't want a man that doesn't, I don't want a man
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I want a man who earns a certain amount of money.
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That's, you know, realistic to whatever standard that woman is at.
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And obviously just a good, I just don't see what is wrong with that expectation.
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I don't think it's wrong to want a man that doesn't G again.
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Again, I, again, I was raised by a dad that never cheated.
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I mean, I like having a big, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Um, four, four, but they adopted, it's a long story.
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But, but I don't think it's wrong to want that.
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But the, the problem is if you're going to go for a guy, if you want him to be handsome,
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I don't expect you to know it, but women rate 80% of men is unattractive.
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But like, how many times have you heard a girl from like, Oh, but he's cute to me.
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Like we, we are like, you're going to lower our standards for men.
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But remember, remember eight women rate 80% of men is unattractive.
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So, so top 20% of men, 10% women might be like, Oh, he's hot.
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Women are going for the most attractive guy though.
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That's what I'm, that's what I'm talking about.
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You're less likely to get cheated on if you date a less attractive guy.
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Guys, but this is like, guys, guys, guys, guys, again, you don't think, okay.
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You don't think a good guy with character would have a hard time saying no to a model.
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Sometimes when you date an unattractive guy, the second that somebody else starts giving him attention,
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like, Oh, two people are giving me attention at the same time.
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His sexual rating goes higher depending on the woman that he has on his arm.
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So like, yeah, he could, he could be this, he could be a two, but he's with an eight.
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But usually when girls say this, they're not ugly guys.
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Like if you could show me him and I won't show it on screen, but if you show me the picture,
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no, usually cause I've done this on the show, it's always guys that I would rank a six or a seven.
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And typically like girls will say, Oh, I'm dating medium ugly.
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I've been there, but, but, but it's, it's just honest.
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No, they, that's, that's, so again, what the men swipe, right?
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Like the data just doesn't indicate that because men find about half of women attracted.
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When I started talking to men, there'd be a girl that I'd think is a woman.
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There'd be a girl that I think is like kind of chunky or like unattractive.
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