JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


Why You Should NEVER Listen To Post Wall Women


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

198.61693

Word count

1,819

Sentence count

4

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and what it means to be a woman in the modern society. We discuss the challenges of being a female in modern society and how to deal with the pressures that society places on women.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 you feeling that way about the 500 so if he had left you with his card unlimited you probably
00:00:09.320 will still spend just that 500 anyway so is it not more i might not i might not even spend the
00:00:13.680 exactly but that's why the money isn't the the the figure is not the issue it's the it's the
00:00:19.560 not trusting me because it to me what it says is that you don't trust me that's what it says to me
00:00:24.680 it has like an underlying feeling of like control so i might spend 100 i might spend 50.
00:00:30.020 not control well not for me well i think i think like being feminine is like giving up control
00:00:37.320 and it's really hard for most modern women yeah yeah like because we're told to like we operate 1.00
00:00:42.060 in a masculine society of like go out and get it i would say i disagree i think we operate in a
00:00:47.500 gynocentric society that puts women on a pedestal and also bails them out of every bad decision that 1.00
00:00:52.040 we make ever and tells us we're queens and perfect all the time we are queens and we
00:00:55.720 are queens i do i do agree as in when you say in a masculine society as in in order to succeed in
00:01:04.320 society yeah you have to manifest and grow the things that are traditionally masculine because
00:01:10.140 that's what's going to get the results yeah it's like do do do but women aren't taught how to switch 1.00
00:01:15.320 that off because especially when you're trying to get into a relationship you have to leave your
00:01:18.580 masculinity at the door before you enter the house a lot of women will bring in what they need to 1.00
00:01:22.740 excel in the workplace and take it into the home and try to excel in the home over their man yeah
00:01:26.260 that's true that creates competition and conflict 100 but do you not think part of the issue is
00:01:31.640 because this power that we now have is new so we're now learning things so for me if i had a
00:01:37.220 daughter and she was really successful part of her her upbringing would also know when to play that 0.80
00:01:42.420 role when to take power when not to whereas back then the parents didn't even the women didn't have 0.93
00:01:47.180 that power i don't think so they didn't know they didn't know to tell you their daughters or the
00:01:52.780 we like i didn't learn the things i know now from my mum because my mum necessarily didn't become
00:01:58.140 the successful woman she was when i was young as i got older so then when i became successful
00:02:03.180 and i realized i understood what i really wanted and i realized where the problem was coming then i
00:02:08.940 understood that you got a different shape work and but i think the question is though really is
00:02:14.620 what does success look like to you because to the traditional woman successful success would look 0.99
00:02:18.780 like raising a home okay success to women now looks like i want to make money money as the man's 1.00
00:02:24.220 making success to me as a single woman is being able to give myself the life i would wanted if i was
00:02:30.620 married right but that's because i'm single but success to me as a married woman is being in a home where my heart
00:02:38.140 my husband i can carry him literally on my head and he is like my prize jewel he's successful i rub
00:02:44.780 his back i support him all of that in her dm's no but that's why i'm saying no but that's why i'm
00:02:50.940 saying to you that some of us women the way we behave is it's also it's just our circumstances i
00:02:56.060 don't want to i don't want to go to work yeah but yeah but no i'm sorry right sorry but i'm saying like
00:03:01.180 it's it's our choices okay so what yeah well okay yeah you can't you can't you can't say to the
00:03:05.820 circumstances like you can't say any girl in this room couldn't be married at 21 22. yeah i got married
00:03:11.020 at 23. yeah yeah yeah but what so without being an ass what would you say to a woman who has okay
00:03:20.300 she's gone she's got a marriage she's gone through those mistakes or whatever she's come out of that 0.99
00:03:24.460 marriage and everything yes you know your children are important blah blah blah but she wants to because
00:03:29.180 i believe people make mistakes and you should be given the opportunity to correct them what would you then
00:03:34.060 advice that girl or that woman that has accepted all her flaws that knows where she's gone wrong and
00:03:38.860 still wants to potentially be in a home where she can be submissive and everything is that not possible 1.00
00:03:44.700 anymore of course it's possible okay go on you go i mean i i think it's it's possible for sure i just
00:03:50.460 think like you're not you're not going to get the same guys you could get at 22 21 23 and you probably
00:03:57.500 can't do better than your baby daddy i know you say that right and i don't for a shade at my ex or
00:04:03.980 anything but i can but you know why i can not because of not necessary because of oh i've got this
00:04:12.140 money i'm wiser yeah i i understand life a lot more yeah but like men don't care um i think some do
00:04:20.220 i think the caliber of men that i am not having a child what do you mean like they don't care i
00:04:24.540 don't disagree with what you're saying i just think that the type of man that you want you have to be
00:04:29.900 quite cognizant of the type of man that you are like that you have to select because i think women 0.97
00:04:34.540 still have this ideal that you're still going to get this high value like untouchable guy but for most
00:04:40.540 women when in reality the type of man you have to accept isn't going to be the type of man maybe he's
00:04:44.860 going to have kids maybe he's going to have packages because women operate on possibilities 1.00
00:04:50.860 not probabilities and there are exceptions that could happen i mean i would tell a girl get in
00:04:55.420 the best shape of your life but i was gonna say i think it's i think that what we have to consider
00:05:03.500 is i get that like you've come out you're in the right frame of mind to have that's going to be
00:05:07.980 conducive to the to that life right and you've made those mistakes whatever that's completely fair i
00:05:12.700 completely get that the reality is it's not that you couldn't get a man that maybe you feel worthy
00:05:18.940 but the top guy right there are other women out there who maybe had the mindset you have now 1.00
00:05:25.900 before you made those mistakes so those women who have that mindset 19 21 22 right the mindset you have 1.00
00:05:34.140 now maybe they know those things because of the way they've grown up whatever reason they are just in
00:05:40.300 a higher chance to get that top guy how i have a question yeah go for it how many women at the age 1.00
00:05:45.820 of 20 to 25 would you say do you think have that mindset now in the modern day times do you honestly
00:05:51.820 not many and that's why not many are married but that's why um i don't know they say in like the red
00:05:56.060 pill that to date girls between like 25 to like 28 because it's kind of like before they're running out
00:06:02.460 of time and they're desperate i mean i don't know i'll be honest i think i think the the the women 0.97
00:06:14.060 who have that are married by them but who have that mindset if they have the mindset of where their
00:06:21.420 priority because here's the thing if your priority when you're younger right is to have a family if
00:06:28.140 that's your priority most women who have that priority that young they get married that young 1.00
00:06:33.100 and they have that now yeah i think what happens is and you know it's just the way it is in the modern
00:06:38.300 era more women are choosing to prioritize their career in their 20s but not only that you'll get
00:06:45.580 women who are bitter who then advise younger girls to follow along the same path as them so you'll get 1.00
00:06:51.980 the single mothers women that have been fucked over by men because of the wrong decisions that they've made 0.95
00:06:55.500 in the type of guys they go for and then when they when they talk to younger women they say oh you
00:06:59.660 know live your life just go out there sleep around and when you get older you'll find the right guys
00:07:03.180 i've never gotten that advice ever oh listen so the way i i have i no because older older girls like
00:07:09.980 lie to you oh yeah but also like again that's just like so toxic like you're acting out of your trauma
00:07:16.540 you know what do you mean acting out of your trauma so okay okay um but like acting out your trauma
00:07:24.460 is basically like okay so say you went through something bad right like i don't know you got
00:07:30.140 with someone and you had a kid with them and and they left you right and then you then usually women 1.00
00:07:35.100 leave but yeah okay cool in this scenario the man the man left um unless say then that person then
00:07:42.860 tells their daughter just go out do what you want blah blah don't get a man blah blah right that's acting
00:07:48.060 out of your trauma because something bad happened to you and because of that bad experience that has now
00:07:53.900 shaped your advice but that doesn't mean it's okay do you hear how you like tell that story though
00:07:59.020 it's like something bad happened to you instead of i made that decision like for some reason with women 0.99
00:08:03.580 whenever we tell stories like it's we always take the accountability off of us
00:08:12.140 what is your submission cost yeah um i would say um
00:08:18.380 um he can earn a little bit less than i earn now because of like it will be less responsibility on
00:08:26.860 here with less pressure because this is going to be a two-person household i feel like right now i earn
00:08:32.220 over a hundred k and that's because it's just me by myself so i have to sustain it like like two people
00:08:39.820 so if he earned for like let's say 80 or something and i manage as many of you know i was just banned
00:08:46.300 on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to help please
00:08:53.580 consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps and it helps make what we do possible