Why You Should NEVER Listen To Post Wall Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the role of women in society and what it means to be a woman in the modern society. We discuss the challenges of being a female in modern society and how to deal with the pressures that society places on women.
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you feeling that way about the 500 so if he had left you with his card unlimited you probably
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will still spend just that 500 anyway so is it not more i might not i might not even spend the
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exactly but that's why the money isn't the the the figure is not the issue it's the it's the
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not trusting me because it to me what it says is that you don't trust me that's what it says to me
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it has like an underlying feeling of like control so i might spend 100 i might spend 50.
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not control well not for me well i think i think like being feminine is like giving up control
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and it's really hard for most modern women yeah yeah like because we're told to like we operate
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in a masculine society of like go out and get it i would say i disagree i think we operate in a
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gynocentric society that puts women on a pedestal and also bails them out of every bad decision that
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we make ever and tells us we're queens and perfect all the time we are queens and we
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are queens i do i do agree as in when you say in a masculine society as in in order to succeed in
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society yeah you have to manifest and grow the things that are traditionally masculine because
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that's what's going to get the results yeah it's like do do do but women aren't taught how to switch
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that off because especially when you're trying to get into a relationship you have to leave your
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masculinity at the door before you enter the house a lot of women will bring in what they need to
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excel in the workplace and take it into the home and try to excel in the home over their man yeah
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that's true that creates competition and conflict 100 but do you not think part of the issue is
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because this power that we now have is new so we're now learning things so for me if i had a
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daughter and she was really successful part of her her upbringing would also know when to play that
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role when to take power when not to whereas back then the parents didn't even the women didn't have
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that power i don't think so they didn't know they didn't know to tell you their daughters or the
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we like i didn't learn the things i know now from my mum because my mum necessarily didn't become
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the successful woman she was when i was young as i got older so then when i became successful
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and i realized i understood what i really wanted and i realized where the problem was coming then i
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understood that you got a different shape work and but i think the question is though really is
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what does success look like to you because to the traditional woman successful success would look
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like raising a home okay success to women now looks like i want to make money money as the man's
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making success to me as a single woman is being able to give myself the life i would wanted if i was
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married right but that's because i'm single but success to me as a married woman is being in a home where my heart
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my husband i can carry him literally on my head and he is like my prize jewel he's successful i rub
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his back i support him all of that in her dm's no but that's why i'm saying no but that's why i'm
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saying to you that some of us women the way we behave is it's also it's just our circumstances i
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don't want to i don't want to go to work yeah but yeah but no i'm sorry right sorry but i'm saying like
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it's it's our choices okay so what yeah well okay yeah you can't you can't you can't say to the
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circumstances like you can't say any girl in this room couldn't be married at 21 22. yeah i got married
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at 23. yeah yeah yeah but what so without being an ass what would you say to a woman who has okay
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she's gone she's got a marriage she's gone through those mistakes or whatever she's come out of that
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marriage and everything yes you know your children are important blah blah blah but she wants to because
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i believe people make mistakes and you should be given the opportunity to correct them what would you then
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advice that girl or that woman that has accepted all her flaws that knows where she's gone wrong and
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still wants to potentially be in a home where she can be submissive and everything is that not possible
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anymore of course it's possible okay go on you go i mean i i think it's it's possible for sure i just
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think like you're not you're not going to get the same guys you could get at 22 21 23 and you probably
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can't do better than your baby daddy i know you say that right and i don't for a shade at my ex or
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anything but i can but you know why i can not because of not necessary because of oh i've got this
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money i'm wiser yeah i i understand life a lot more yeah but like men don't care um i think some do
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i think the caliber of men that i am not having a child what do you mean like they don't care i
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don't disagree with what you're saying i just think that the type of man that you want you have to be
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quite cognizant of the type of man that you are like that you have to select because i think women
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still have this ideal that you're still going to get this high value like untouchable guy but for most
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women when in reality the type of man you have to accept isn't going to be the type of man maybe he's
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going to have kids maybe he's going to have packages because women operate on possibilities
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not probabilities and there are exceptions that could happen i mean i would tell a girl get in
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the best shape of your life but i was gonna say i think it's i think that what we have to consider
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is i get that like you've come out you're in the right frame of mind to have that's going to be
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conducive to the to that life right and you've made those mistakes whatever that's completely fair i
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completely get that the reality is it's not that you couldn't get a man that maybe you feel worthy
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but the top guy right there are other women out there who maybe had the mindset you have now
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before you made those mistakes so those women who have that mindset 19 21 22 right the mindset you have
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now maybe they know those things because of the way they've grown up whatever reason they are just in
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a higher chance to get that top guy how i have a question yeah go for it how many women at the age
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of 20 to 25 would you say do you think have that mindset now in the modern day times do you honestly
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not many and that's why not many are married but that's why um i don't know they say in like the red
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pill that to date girls between like 25 to like 28 because it's kind of like before they're running out
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of time and they're desperate i mean i don't know i'll be honest i think i think the the the women
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who have that are married by them but who have that mindset if they have the mindset of where their
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priority because here's the thing if your priority when you're younger right is to have a family if
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that's your priority most women who have that priority that young they get married that young
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and they have that now yeah i think what happens is and you know it's just the way it is in the modern
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era more women are choosing to prioritize their career in their 20s but not only that you'll get
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women who are bitter who then advise younger girls to follow along the same path as them so you'll get
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the single mothers women that have been fucked over by men because of the wrong decisions that they've made
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in the type of guys they go for and then when they when they talk to younger women they say oh you
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know live your life just go out there sleep around and when you get older you'll find the right guys
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i've never gotten that advice ever oh listen so the way i i have i no because older older girls like
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lie to you oh yeah but also like again that's just like so toxic like you're acting out of your trauma
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you know what do you mean acting out of your trauma so okay okay um but like acting out your trauma
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is basically like okay so say you went through something bad right like i don't know you got
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with someone and you had a kid with them and and they left you right and then you then usually women
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leave but yeah okay cool in this scenario the man the man left um unless say then that person then
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tells their daughter just go out do what you want blah blah don't get a man blah blah right that's acting
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out of your trauma because something bad happened to you and because of that bad experience that has now
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shaped your advice but that doesn't mean it's okay do you hear how you like tell that story though
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it's like something bad happened to you instead of i made that decision like for some reason with women
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whenever we tell stories like it's we always take the accountability off of us
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what is your submission cost yeah um i would say um
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um he can earn a little bit less than i earn now because of like it will be less responsibility on
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here with less pressure because this is going to be a two-person household i feel like right now i earn
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over a hundred k and that's because it's just me by myself so i have to sustain it like like two people
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so if he earned for like let's say 80 or something and i manage as many of you know i was just banned
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