JustPearlyThings - October 05, 2023


Wife CHEATS And Allows Her Husband To CHEAT


Episode Stats


Length

5 minutes

Words per minute

190.05244

Word count

1,075

Sentence count

88

Harmful content

Misogyny

13

sentences flagged

Hate speech

13

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Summary

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A woman is going viral for giving her spouse a hall pass to cheat after she cheats on her husband. What is the point of this? Shouldn t cheating be seen as cheating? And why is it so hard for women to admit to cheating?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 There is a woman that is going viral right now for giving her spouse a hall pass to cheat after 1.00
00:00:05.420 she cheated. Let's pull it up. So after I cheated on my husband, I gave him a hall pass. But here's
00:00:11.420 the reason why I did that is because I didn't want to take the responsibility of getting rid of all 0.82
00:00:16.860 demons that I opened up my marriage to. And usually this is what people do when they cheat.
00:00:23.180 They want their of their spouse to cheat on them back. So it would give them a reason to feel 0.97
00:00:29.000 better in some way. But let me tell you, that's the wrong way to do it. It's the wrong way to go
00:00:34.960 about it because at the end of the day, you make matters worse. And even though I knew that that
00:00:39.220 option was put forth in front of me, I knew that wasn't the right choice. That's not the way that
00:00:44.100 we try to rebuild a marriage. If you want to stay in a marriage that's still on a downfall and just
00:00:48.920 ride it out downhill, that's up to you if you want to make that choice. But I was not about to make
00:00:54.940 that same choice if I know I also have another option of getting back in the face of God,
00:01:00.120 praying for my marriage, praying for my wife, and trying to do the things and correct the wrongs
00:01:04.560 that we had that led us into that position. Okay, let's look at the comment section. This was done
00:01:10.020 by our producer King. Ew. We all know whose idea it was to do this video. Take the pants back,
00:01:15.640 bro. The skirt doesn't fit you. And he's absolutely right. Women, please stop talking about 1.00
00:01:21.380 your relationship problems on social media. This is a bad idea. I would not recommend zero out of
00:01:27.380 10. Rocky on acid. You couldn't pay me to embarrass my man like this girl. Keep your relationship off 1.00
00:01:32.920 the internet. No one cares. Yes, exactly. I'm all for couples working out problems, but typically this
00:01:39.900 should be done privately. Now, and really ladies, publicly saying that you cheated on your husband,
00:01:47.240 many men will work through it. As you see, look at the women does the wrong thing. The man does 0.93
00:01:52.180 the more right thing, right? I mean, he's still letting his chick do all this crazy shit. 0.98
00:01:57.700 But this idea that it's a good idea to just talk about your relationship issues on social media is
00:02:02.620 bad. And I'd like to say the man really needs to take control here. What you see is a guy allowing his
00:02:08.840 chick to do whatever she wants in a relationship. She can cheat and get away with it. And now she can brag 1.00
00:02:14.340 about her cheating on social media. And there is zero consequence because he's supporting her doing
00:02:19.400 it. The simping is off the chains. All of the people on the comments probably are single and making fun
00:02:26.480 of this guy. At least he has a girl. First get a girl, then complain. Such incels. And this is the
00:02:31.700 other thing. It's so funny because you see this double entendre. The crowd will say, oh, it's so wrong
00:02:37.660 for these men to sleep around. But then if they don't sleep around, then they're incels. It's like a lose, 0.93
00:02:43.080 lose, lose, gotcha moment. But this is craziness. And this is the level of Christian wives. 1.00
00:02:49.960 As they always would tell me, go to a church and find a Christian wife. Well, this is a problem
00:02:54.860 everywhere. And until we switch the incentive structure and have actual consequences for women, 1.00
00:03:01.500 we will see no change. This woman is coming on social media and talking about her cheating. 1.00
00:03:07.060 Imagine the level of disrespect. So I always get asked about what do I think about
00:03:12.040 passport bros? I do think that women are better in other countries. Yes, I do. I think that they're 1.00
00:03:19.320 a bit thinner. I think they're a bit more feminine. However, I do think that social media is going to
00:03:25.580 change women forever. I don't say this in a happy way, but you can't uninvent this technology. And we 0.99
00:03:32.420 have to adapt to survive. What I see in other countries is they are 20 years behind. A lot of
00:03:38.900 the cultural trends that we see in the West. However, I do see certain clips that make me
00:03:45.040 think, huh, maybe there are certain things that will never be socially acceptable in non-Western
00:03:50.680 countries. There is a clip that I think is quite old, but I thought it was hilarious of them asking
00:03:56.160 about gay marriage in Africa. Let's pull it up. We equally reject attempts to prescribe new rights
00:04:03.920 that are contrary to our values, norms, traditions, and beliefs. We are not gays. 0.73
00:04:13.380 Do you hear that? We are not gays. And the comments, they say, we are not gays. Say it louder.
00:04:23.960 I love these African countries that don't give a shit what these liberal white countries think good 0.96
00:04:28.700 for them. And this is amazing. I've seen clips of people talking about how in Nigeria, it's illegal
00:04:35.380 to be gay. I say that's amazing. Now, what do you guys mean? What do you mean, Pearl? I don't think we 0.67
00:04:41.460 should be pushing to make gay marriage a normal thing. I don't think we should be celebrating gay 1.00
00:04:46.820 weddings. Look, I don't think the police are dying to waste a bunch of police resources about what
00:04:53.560 people are doing in their bedroom. This used to be a private thing, but now it is public and celebrated
00:05:00.360 and we have an entire month dedicated to this. I don't, you know, if someone is gay, everybody has a
00:05:06.120 different sin. I'm not, I'm not planning on spending my day thinking about it. And in most places in the
00:05:12.220 world, I would imagine there are some gay people, but they keep it quiet and hush hush and do not wear 1.00
00:05:17.900 it on their sleeve. That is where I have a problem. I think this is amazing. And if you guys want to see
00:05:24.020 more clips of non-Western countries talking about gay marriage, send them to me. Also guys like the video 0.93
00:05:31.620 on your way out, make sure you get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt. The link to that 1.00
00:05:36.040 should be in the description, like the video, and I'll talk to you next time.