JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023


Wives ARE NOT Monogamous In Marriages


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

220.48111

Word Count

2,936

Sentence Count

331

Misogynist Sentences

47

Hate Speech Sentences

22


Summary

In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to sex, cheating, and the female perspective on sex. They also discuss why women have a higher body count than men and why it s bad for men to have sex with other women.


Transcript

00:00:00.720 What were you saying about the woman tattered in the room?
00:00:03.220 Say that again.
00:00:04.040 I mean, she could be tatted, she could be not tattered,
00:00:05.380 but I actually know women that are completely gorgeous bodies,
00:00:08.020 beautiful faces, intelligent, bring a lot to the table,
00:00:10.780 and they still are getting mistreated and cheated on
00:00:13.740 and pushed to the side.
00:00:15.020 Look at Halle Berry.
00:00:16.060 Yeah.
00:00:17.780 Here's the stat.
00:00:18.560 Oh, I got no...
00:00:19.760 Let me tell you.
00:00:20.880 Yeah, I met Halle Berry.
00:00:22.460 You want me to tell you about Halle Berry?
00:00:23.720 I went in touch with a 10-foot pole.
00:00:25.720 That woman's like a dude.
00:00:27.360 Masculine, bossy as hell.
00:00:28.580 I love it.
00:00:28.920 And anybody who gets to that, just like Kim Kardashian,
00:00:31.120 oh, she's a boss bitch.
00:00:32.640 Dude, she's been through so many dudes,
00:00:34.760 her body count's higher than, like, the tax returns or something.
00:00:38.780 I used to hang out with Kim back in the day.
00:00:42.860 But regarding those high-value men, yeah, look at Kevin Hart, Jay-Z.
00:00:47.240 They all cheated, right?
00:00:48.380 But guess what?
00:00:50.140 She still stayed with him.
00:00:51.680 She still stayed with him, right?
00:00:53.360 So the question is, if you were in a relationship with Drake
00:00:55.620 and married to Drake and he cheated on you,
00:00:57.060 would you still stay married to him?
00:00:58.860 No.
00:00:59.640 Why do guys get to have such a high body count and women don't?
00:01:04.000 That's my big problem.
00:01:05.240 And, like, I don't really...
00:01:06.360 Let me answer this question.
00:01:07.180 No, no, no.
00:01:08.040 Guys and women are different.
00:01:09.160 Hold on.
00:01:09.680 They get away with everything.
00:01:10.480 Hold on.
00:01:10.860 Or we can't get away with shit.
00:01:11.640 Let me just finish real quick.
00:01:12.220 We get away with everything.
00:01:13.780 We're fat.
00:01:14.440 We're smart.
00:01:14.940 We're fat.
00:01:15.880 We're whores nowadays.
00:01:17.000 We're on birth control.
00:01:18.280 We get away with everything.
00:01:19.380 I don't really...
00:01:19.780 I'm, like...
00:01:20.460 I'm somebody who's been taking advantage of a lot,
00:01:23.540 so I don't really do the whole, like,
00:01:25.520 super-sexual thing.
00:01:26.520 Sure, sure, sure, sure.
00:01:26.940 I don't have a lot of bodies up under me.
00:01:28.860 But I still stand with women,
00:01:31.060 which don't judge a man...
00:01:32.900 Like, don't not judge a man
00:01:34.400 when he has a high body count.
00:01:35.920 But if a woman fucks who the fuck she want
00:01:37.780 because she can,
00:01:38.620 because she's a bad bitch,
00:01:39.920 why the fuck you calling her a huck?
00:01:41.460 Okay, first of all...
00:01:41.880 I don't like that.
00:01:42.440 First of all,
00:01:43.160 you don't have to be a bad bitch
00:01:45.000 to fuck a bunch of guys.
00:01:46.200 Any girls can fuck that.
00:01:46.900 You could be a mid-bitch.
00:01:47.540 Every girl in here can get on the phone.
00:01:49.880 I'm talking about the bad bitches.
00:01:51.340 I'm not saying that you have to be one to do that.
00:01:52.800 Right, but women...
00:01:54.580 All you women right now
00:01:55.600 can get on the phone
00:01:56.220 and have sex tonight.
00:01:57.200 Yes, right.
00:01:57.940 It's very hard for men to do that.
00:01:59.120 You can just walk out down the strip
00:02:00.860 and be like, sex,
00:02:02.160 and then someone will come.
00:02:03.040 It's very hard for...
00:02:04.080 You know what I'm saying?
00:02:07.260 It's very hard for men to...
00:02:08.920 A lot of women don't believe this.
00:02:10.120 It's very hard for men
00:02:10.980 to have sex with women.
00:02:11.880 I've heard men say that.
00:02:12.740 It's very challenging.
00:02:13.460 Let me explain something.
00:02:14.320 For you?
00:02:14.740 No, no.
00:02:15.200 10% of men are actually sexually active.
00:02:18.000 A lot of women think all these dudes.
00:02:19.420 And the 10% that are sexually active,
00:02:21.540 they're the ones having sex with y'all.
00:02:23.660 You see what I'm saying?
00:02:24.920 Yeah.
00:02:25.120 So what happens is for a man
00:02:26.740 to go out and have sex,
00:02:27.580 for him to have access to women
00:02:29.220 and have options,
00:02:30.860 he's got to be on point,
00:02:32.540 high valued,
00:02:33.260 have status,
00:02:33.940 have swag.
00:02:34.680 He's worked hard to get to that level.
00:02:36.300 Now, to answer your question on
00:02:37.340 why is it bad,
00:02:38.360 when a woman gets past six men body count,
00:02:41.340 her pair bonding starts...
00:02:43.680 Her ability to pair bond with a man
00:02:45.480 goes down to 25%.
00:02:46.400 Where did you learn this?
00:02:47.700 I read psychology books on relationships.
00:02:50.060 People have interviewed 10,000 people.
00:02:51.760 You have a specific number.
00:02:53.340 Yeah.
00:02:53.840 Let me explain something.
00:02:55.060 Your oxytocin levels go down.
00:02:56.880 It's hard for you to pair bond with a man.
00:02:58.780 The more men you've been with...
00:03:00.200 Actually, I can speak on this.
00:03:01.240 I'm sorry.
00:03:01.420 Okay, but I'm going to have Pearl talk to you.
00:03:02.920 But that's a good question.
00:03:03.760 I've been fucking for 21 years.
00:03:04.760 You think it ain't...
00:03:05.740 But you're not with a man.
00:03:08.600 You have a choice, right?
00:03:09.500 Yes.
00:03:09.980 But to my point,
00:03:11.640 you'll see women go through guys
00:03:13.440 or go through relationships,
00:03:14.420 have problems.
00:03:15.420 It's hard for them to bond.
00:03:17.100 Well, okay,
00:03:17.900 so I agree that we should be saving ourselves
00:03:21.940 a little bit better than what we do these days.
00:03:23.580 Yes.
00:03:23.860 Okay, whatever.
00:03:24.500 Who cares?
00:03:25.400 But I don't believe in this pair bonding thing.
00:03:28.620 And I only say that is because oxytocin
00:03:31.080 is something that gets regenerated in your body.
00:03:33.380 Sure.
00:03:33.700 And it actually gets regenerated super quick.
00:03:36.160 Like after sex...
00:03:37.180 Okay, do you...
00:03:37.800 I have a question.
00:03:38.520 Do you think that a virgin and a hooker
00:03:40.300 have the same pair bonding abilities?
00:03:42.600 So...
00:03:43.120 Yes or no?
00:03:43.620 Okay, my question also...
00:03:44.700 Yes or no?
00:03:45.980 Do you think it's the same?
00:03:47.460 I do not, but I don't believe...
00:03:48.780 Okay, so you do believe it to some extent.
00:03:50.480 Yes.
00:03:50.980 Okay.
00:03:51.300 But what I'm saying is
00:03:52.180 the science behind actual pair bonding
00:03:54.480 and the six partner thing,
00:03:56.280 I don't think that's actually true science.
00:03:58.040 And I only say this
00:03:58.860 because I tried to read up on it
00:04:00.760 because I was actually curious about it.
00:04:03.160 And they said that they got this information
00:04:05.980 from a mammal called the prairie vole.
00:04:08.820 Have you heard of that?
00:04:09.540 So this whole thing that you're talking about
00:04:11.920 with six partners
00:04:12.920 actually came from a different mammal
00:04:14.440 that was not like...
00:04:16.720 Well, and we could argue it's 10.
00:04:18.720 We could argue it's 15.
00:04:20.060 But we know what's true
00:04:21.600 is the more you sleep with,
00:04:22.800 the harder it is to bond.
00:04:23.800 But I also believe that has...
00:04:25.360 Yes, it's hormones.
00:04:26.740 Yeah.
00:04:26.900 But it's also trauma.
00:04:28.400 It's allowing people in.
00:04:30.640 You can also...
00:04:31.300 But it's like, okay,
00:04:32.260 if I drink every single day of my life,
00:04:34.380 then alcohol is not going to affect me
00:04:35.780 every bunch as much.
00:04:37.200 If you fuck every single person you meet,
00:04:40.100 you're not going to bond as much to each one.
00:04:42.300 Yeah.
00:04:42.640 So I'm not saying six is the number.
00:04:44.840 It could be 10.
00:04:45.580 It could be 15.
00:04:45.780 That's the only thing I'm like,
00:04:46.640 it's the six.
00:04:47.460 It's the oxytocin thing.
00:04:48.580 All right.
00:04:48.700 Because it's like...
00:04:49.120 Even if it's...
00:04:49.720 I mean, women lie anyway.
00:04:50.820 Who knows what those chicks' body counts were?
00:04:52.520 So it's like, all right, let's say...
00:04:53.640 I stopped counting like five, six years ago.
00:04:56.160 So I always used to tell my girlfriends...
00:04:57.580 Don't give a fuck.
00:04:57.860 So I used to be a cocktail waitress at a strip club.
00:05:00.400 Right.
00:05:00.660 And they used to always tell me,
00:05:01.680 why aren't you going to be a dancer?
00:05:03.020 And I said, I don't want to be
00:05:04.020 because I feel like me,
00:05:05.820 this is just a me thing.
00:05:07.640 You have to be an actress.
00:05:09.260 And when a guy comes in,
00:05:10.500 I have to figure out
00:05:11.140 what role am I playing in his life
00:05:12.640 to receive that money.
00:05:14.260 So I was nervous
00:05:15.320 that it was going to mess my mind up
00:05:16.900 when it comes to a man
00:05:18.000 that's coming in my life.
00:05:18.900 And I'm like,
00:05:19.240 am I going to switch myself for this person
00:05:21.580 and not be who I am?
00:05:22.940 And then inevitably,
00:05:23.720 they're going to see the real person
00:05:25.120 and we're going to have an issue.
00:05:26.240 So it's going to mess, I guess,
00:05:28.080 the pair.
00:05:28.880 Right.
00:05:29.360 But the whole point is that
00:05:31.380 less is better.
00:05:32.600 Right.
00:05:32.940 In general.
00:05:33.440 I agree.
00:05:33.940 I think we should save ourselves
00:05:35.640 a little bit more
00:05:36.100 because I think we're just
00:05:36.980 valuable than when we throw around.
00:05:39.240 Honestly,
00:05:39.480 but I just want to put this
00:05:40.540 in a historical point of view.
00:05:42.240 You know,
00:05:42.440 a hundred years ago,
00:05:43.460 what percent of women
00:05:44.220 were virgins on their wedding days
00:05:45.580 a hundred years ago?
00:05:46.660 Yes.
00:05:46.880 Probably almost like 100% of them.
00:05:48.460 Yes.
00:05:48.700 Like 90%, 90%.
00:05:49.840 85% of women were virgins.
00:05:52.760 Now, let's just say,
00:05:53.560 because we all know women lie.
00:05:54.840 So it's like,
00:05:55.200 all right, let's double it.
00:05:55.980 I'd love to be a virgin
00:05:57.280 on my wedding day
00:05:58.100 if I would have been,
00:05:59.480 you know,
00:05:59.760 in a sexual assault as a child.
00:06:01.820 You know,
00:06:02.100 and a lot of women
00:06:02.740 go through that as well.
00:06:03.340 And that's unfortunate.
00:06:04.440 That's an exception.
00:06:05.220 You know, a lot of women
00:06:05.400 go through that as well.
00:06:06.460 I was raised in a very,
00:06:07.560 you know,
00:06:07.820 religious household.
00:06:08.440 I would have loved
00:06:09.400 to get married
00:06:10.120 and be a virgin.
00:06:10.640 And you'd agree
00:06:11.760 that would have been
00:06:12.280 the best outcome.
00:06:12.820 I agree.
00:06:13.480 I agree.
00:06:14.300 But unfortunately,
00:06:15.700 there are people
00:06:16.520 who are monsters out here
00:06:18.020 and they criticize
00:06:19.120 those women that are virgins.
00:06:20.760 They take that innocence
00:06:22.100 from them.
00:06:22.560 No, I don't think
00:06:23.200 that's the majority.
00:06:24.200 I think there are exceptions.
00:06:25.800 I think the majority
00:06:26.840 of us women,
00:06:27.940 we meet a guy
00:06:28.860 that's handsome
00:06:29.640 and we just,
00:06:30.540 yeah, we fuck,
00:06:31.380 I think in general.
00:06:32.340 Like, it's not.
00:06:34.820 That's what I do.
00:06:35.580 And so in a way,
00:06:36.500 in a way,
00:06:37.000 like women,
00:06:37.900 in a way,
00:06:38.540 women,
00:06:39.020 we're the ones
00:06:39.660 picking non-monogamy
00:06:40.840 because when we have
00:06:42.180 the most choice,
00:06:43.160 which is early 20s,
00:06:44.160 we don't pick monogamy.
00:06:45.520 Hey, I'm polyamorous,
00:06:46.660 so you're right.
00:06:47.220 Right, yeah.
00:06:47.940 I pick monogamy.
00:06:48.980 No, you didn't.
00:06:50.300 I will pick monogamy.
00:06:51.580 Well, no, you didn't
00:06:52.700 because how old are you again?
00:06:54.020 I'm 28.
00:06:54.680 Okay, you're 28.
00:06:55.580 So you could have,
00:06:56.280 I know you had
00:06:57.020 that happen to you,
00:06:58.200 but after that,
00:06:58.880 you could have at 18,
00:06:59.920 20, 22,
00:07:01.000 picked a guy,
00:07:01.560 gotten married,
00:07:02.080 stayed with him.
00:07:03.160 And you did it.
00:07:04.240 None of us did.
00:07:05.020 And so.
00:07:05.640 If I picked someone,
00:07:06.840 it would have happened,
00:07:07.700 but it didn't happen.
00:07:08.540 Right, but that's the point.
00:07:09.740 It wasn't a priority to you.
00:07:11.700 So in.
00:07:12.380 Not necessarily.
00:07:13.040 It wasn't a priority.
00:07:14.240 It just wasn't,
00:07:15.580 I didn't meet anyone
00:07:16.660 that's made that happen.
00:07:17.920 Right, right, right.
00:07:18.720 But it's like,
00:07:19.700 but it's like,
00:07:20.300 but it's like,
00:07:20.900 if we put that towards,
00:07:23.140 well, I should have been,
00:07:24.060 and I was chasing college sports.
00:07:25.720 Like, that's what I was doing.
00:07:26.740 I was chasing a priority.
00:07:28.040 And correct.
00:07:29.060 And that's what I'm saying.
00:07:30.100 Like, when we have the choice,
00:07:31.680 we don't do it.
00:07:32.760 And so in a way,
00:07:33.940 it's like,
00:07:34.540 we're the ones picking non-monogamy
00:07:36.780 and we whine
00:07:37.760 because when the men
00:07:39.040 don't pick monogamy later.
00:07:41.000 Go ahead.
00:07:41.020 I got to,
00:07:41.740 Asia, I want to hear from you.
00:07:42.780 You haven't said a lot.
00:07:43.960 What are your thoughts on this?
00:07:45.440 My thoughts,
00:07:46.640 I guess what I can say is,
00:07:49.940 I'm divorced.
00:07:51.300 So I'm 25 and I'm divorced.
00:07:53.660 And I did choose monogamy.
00:07:56.340 Young.
00:07:56.980 We got married when I was 23.
00:08:00.600 And...
00:08:01.120 Why didn't you stay married?
00:08:03.260 Why didn't I?
00:08:04.080 Yeah.
00:08:04.240 I did something.
00:08:09.440 I got divorced
00:08:10.640 because I couldn't compromise
00:08:14.140 because my ex-husband,
00:08:15.980 he was an alcoholic.
00:08:17.580 So he didn't want to stop drinking.
00:08:20.620 He...
00:08:21.220 I tried everything that I could.
00:08:22.460 I tried therapy.
00:08:23.780 I tried offering services,
00:08:27.580 but you can't change what somebody...
00:08:30.200 Did you know he was an alcoholic
00:08:31.380 when you married him?
00:08:32.200 No, I didn't.
00:08:33.580 There's no warning signs?
00:08:35.060 Was he an alcoholic
00:08:35.740 when you married him
00:08:36.440 or did that happen after?
00:08:37.240 So it gradually got worse
00:08:39.120 as we...
00:08:40.520 After...
00:08:40.960 Actually, after we had gotten married.
00:08:41.740 Was it like work-related?
00:08:43.040 Like that he wasn't able
00:08:43.940 to provide like that
00:08:44.940 so it started to get on him?
00:08:46.240 Because I know that about that happened.
00:08:47.500 Well, he's prior military.
00:08:49.700 He was deployed.
00:08:51.060 He was in combat.
00:08:52.980 PTSD.
00:08:53.140 And he had...
00:08:53.680 Yeah, he had a lot of that.
00:08:55.000 Yeah, PTSD.
00:08:55.200 And in the beginning,
00:08:56.200 it was regulated with medication
00:08:58.820 and it was good, you know?
00:09:00.940 But after a while,
00:09:02.600 like sometimes...
00:09:03.800 Definitely.
00:09:04.220 Do you know how he's doing now?
00:09:05.740 Yeah, we still have contact
00:09:07.120 even to this day.
00:09:08.220 He's okay now or better or what?
00:09:09.500 He's right where I left him.
00:09:11.480 Damn.
00:09:11.800 Unfortunately, yeah.
00:09:13.820 Wow.
00:09:14.460 I don't blame you one bit
00:09:15.280 for leaving that type of environment.
00:09:17.760 Yeah, it wasn't something
00:09:18.580 that I could compromise with any longer.
00:09:20.480 And when I tell you
00:09:21.360 I did everything that I could
00:09:22.460 to stay with him,
00:09:23.340 I did.
00:09:23.900 And I would have done anything
00:09:24.920 that he needed to...
00:09:25.820 But you didn't stay with him.
00:09:27.380 So how could you say
00:09:28.060 you did everything you could
00:09:29.180 to stay if you left?
00:09:30.800 I'm not even saying
00:09:31.640 you're wrong for it,
00:09:32.580 but I'm saying like
00:09:33.180 it's kind of not true.
00:09:34.340 Because...
00:09:34.820 You know, women used to date
00:09:35.900 alcoholics for like a decade
00:09:37.600 and then they'd stop.
00:09:39.120 They would just like stick with it.
00:09:40.320 And then they would regret it.
00:09:40.960 And then they would regret it.
00:09:41.520 I'm not...
00:09:42.040 Wasting can't hear it.
00:09:42.920 Look at, look at, look at.
00:09:43.920 I'm not...
00:09:44.400 What I'm not pushing back on
00:09:45.800 is saying,
00:09:46.300 oh, you shouldn't have left that
00:09:47.440 or whatever.
00:09:48.200 What I am saying is
00:09:49.480 like this idea
00:09:50.300 that we did everything
00:09:51.320 and you're there for like what?
00:09:52.300 Two years?
00:09:53.220 You're 25,
00:09:54.020 so it's like two years?
00:09:54.800 Yeah, but what is
00:09:55.720 the timeline for that?
00:09:57.160 Exactly.
00:09:57.740 That's what I want to...
00:09:58.500 That's what I would like to know.
00:09:58.900 You know, I'm Catholic,
00:10:00.280 so I don't believe in divorce.
00:10:01.740 So I actually,
00:10:02.880 I think it's like
00:10:03.540 for richer, for poorer,
00:10:04.820 for better, for worse,
00:10:05.960 in sickness and in health.
00:10:07.060 So I don't believe
00:10:08.360 in divorce at all.
00:10:09.060 So if somebody was
00:10:09.840 manipulating you
00:10:10.820 every single day...
00:10:11.520 Well, women are usually
00:10:12.460 the more manipulative ones anyway.
00:10:14.220 I think your dad...
00:10:15.160 I think we would all
00:10:16.300 be in a better place
00:10:17.080 if our dads
00:10:17.720 helped us pick husbands
00:10:18.740 because we don't pick very well.
00:10:20.760 Clearly.
00:10:21.720 My dad's not here.
00:10:22.640 Yeah, my dad's not here.
00:10:23.360 Yeah, my dad's here, too.
00:10:24.680 My dad's not here, either.
00:10:26.040 No.
00:10:26.580 How are we going to do
00:10:27.480 a playoff
00:10:28.060 because then we can
00:10:28.640 ask our dads?
00:10:29.140 Well, if you want to
00:10:30.080 talk about the dads,
00:10:31.620 then, like,
00:10:31.960 the moms picked the dad.
00:10:33.300 You're you guys' dads,
00:10:34.600 so it's like if they're...
00:10:35.700 I think we need
00:10:36.700 the dads involved.
00:10:37.740 How many of you
00:10:38.200 grew up in a nuclear family,
00:10:39.520 like a mom and dad
00:10:40.360 at home,
00:10:40.880 before they passed away?
00:10:42.120 Before they passed away.
00:10:43.640 Two of you?
00:10:44.120 Okay.
00:10:44.780 All right.
00:10:45.280 That's a lot.
00:10:45.940 I come from a broken home,
00:10:47.080 so there's...
00:10:48.280 I had to pretty much
00:10:49.600 build what I had
00:10:51.680 in regards to
00:10:53.560 what my preferences
00:10:55.320 could be.
00:10:56.660 Yeah, yeah,
00:10:57.300 and that's really...
00:10:57.940 That's sad.
00:10:58.920 And I think, again,
00:11:00.020 because it'll go
00:11:00.860 to our parents, right?
00:11:02.240 And a lot of our parents
00:11:03.400 didn't pick well either.
00:11:04.560 Like, a lot of our moms...
00:11:05.320 Well, I wouldn't say
00:11:05.940 that I didn't have
00:11:07.260 that type of guidance.
00:11:08.160 I mean, I definitely
00:11:08.920 have that relationship
00:11:09.880 with my dad
00:11:10.320 where I could bring him.
00:11:11.440 I did bring my dad to...
00:11:13.720 Or bring my husband
00:11:14.680 to my dad at the time,
00:11:16.380 you know?
00:11:16.660 And your dad was like,
00:11:17.560 this is a great choice.
00:11:18.640 He thought he was great.
00:11:19.800 He thought he was...
00:11:20.880 And he probably was,
00:11:21.580 but it's on the PTSD
00:11:22.620 and everything else.
00:11:23.600 Right.
00:11:24.020 And there's a lot of factors
00:11:24.860 that play into it, you know?
00:11:26.120 Okay, and so he just
00:11:26.920 started drinking
00:11:27.640 and then just became
00:11:28.840 an alcoholic in two years?
00:11:30.900 He was drinking.
00:11:31.840 How long were you married?
00:11:33.240 We were together...
00:11:34.280 We were together for a year.
00:11:36.120 We were married for two years.
00:11:38.540 Okay.
00:11:38.860 So we were together
00:11:39.740 for all in all three years.
00:11:41.340 Okay.
00:11:41.640 And good job
00:11:42.180 for getting the fuck out of there.
00:11:43.760 Thank you.
00:11:44.340 Thank you.
00:11:44.660 You're welcome.
00:11:45.260 You know, at the end of the day,
00:11:46.140 too, he's...
00:11:47.000 He's a great person.
00:11:49.500 Yes.
00:11:49.660 Like, I'm not knocking him
00:11:51.120 on that at all.
00:11:52.040 Like, that's one thing...
00:11:53.240 That's one of the reasons
00:11:54.380 why I loved him.
00:11:56.220 Everyone on this earth
00:11:57.360 needs to put their own happiness
00:11:58.760 first above everything.
00:12:00.080 Wrong.
00:12:00.320 I think you've got to put
00:12:01.120 your happiness last.
00:12:02.520 If you are...
00:12:03.120 I think...
00:12:03.540 How can you pour
00:12:04.200 from an empty cup?
00:12:05.460 I think that's just
00:12:06.560 nonsense feminist garbage.
00:12:08.400 No, it's not.
00:12:08.840 Basically...
00:12:09.420 It's for people.
00:12:09.940 No, no, because...
00:12:11.040 It doesn't matter.
00:12:11.580 You're going to be unhappy
00:12:13.040 in a marriage at some point.
00:12:14.620 You think our great-grandmothers
00:12:16.120 stayed together for 50 years,
00:12:19.020 60 years,
00:12:20.140 thinking about themselves?
00:12:21.740 You know how I could tell
00:12:22.740 the generational switch?
00:12:24.100 You can hear it in the music.
00:12:25.660 We got the Taylor Swift generation,
00:12:27.640 which is,
00:12:27.980 I'm a victim,
00:12:28.900 blah, blah, blah.
00:12:30.100 Where...
00:12:30.460 Do you remember...
00:12:30.900 Do you remember the song,
00:12:31.680 Jolene?
00:12:32.480 Do you remember the song,
00:12:33.140 Jolene?
00:12:33.240 Yeah, I love that song.
00:12:34.360 No, no, but that's how
00:12:35.320 women used to react.
00:12:36.420 Please don't take my man.
00:12:37.420 Please don't take my man
00:12:38.940 because she was worried
00:12:41.220 that her man was cheating
00:12:42.440 and instead of keying his car,
00:12:44.400 which, you know,
00:12:44.780 Carrie Underwood keying his car,
00:12:46.520 she...
00:12:47.240 No, but she stayed with them.
00:12:49.180 I heard her talk about that
00:12:50.760 and it's like it was just
00:12:52.120 a completely different mindset
00:12:53.480 where she's like,
00:12:54.100 I can't live without this guy.
00:12:55.900 Where now it's like women,
00:12:57.300 we just care about ourselves
00:12:58.460 and our happiness
00:12:59.280 and if the outcomes were good,
00:13:01.320 then why aren't families together?
00:13:02.840 As many of you know,
00:13:03.780 I was just banned on TikTok
00:13:05.900 and we are demonetized
00:13:07.620 on a daily basis
00:13:08.860 on this platform.
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