JustPearlyThings - Wives ARE NOT Monogamous In Marriages

00:00:00.720 What were you saying about the woman tattered in the room?

00:00:03.220 Say that again. 0.71

00:00:04.040 I mean, she could be tatted, she could be not tattered,

00:00:05.380 but I actually know women that are completely gorgeous bodies, 1.00

00:00:08.020 beautiful faces, intelligent, bring a lot to the table,

00:00:10.780 and they still are getting mistreated and cheated on

00:00:13.740 and pushed to the side. 0.55

00:00:15.020 Look at Halle Berry. 0.53

00:00:16.060 Yeah.

00:00:17.780 Here's the stat.

00:00:18.560 Oh, I got no...

00:00:19.760 Let me tell you.

00:00:20.880 Yeah, I met Halle Berry.

00:00:22.460 You want me to tell you about Halle Berry?

00:00:23.720 I went in touch with a 10-foot pole.

00:00:25.720 That woman's like a dude. 1.00

00:00:27.360 Masculine, bossy as hell. 0.83

00:00:28.580 I love it.

00:00:28.920 And anybody who gets to that, just like Kim Kardashian, 1.00

00:00:31.120 oh, she's a boss bitch. 1.00

00:00:32.640 Dude, she's been through so many dudes, 1.00

00:00:34.760 her body count's higher than, like, the tax returns or something.

00:00:38.780 I used to hang out with Kim back in the day.

00:00:42.860 But regarding those high-value men, yeah, look at Kevin Hart, Jay-Z.

00:00:47.240 They all cheated, right?

00:00:48.380 But guess what?

00:00:50.140 She still stayed with him.

00:00:51.680 She still stayed with him, right?

00:00:53.360 So the question is, if you were in a relationship with Drake

00:00:55.620 and married to Drake and he cheated on you,

00:00:57.060 would you still stay married to him?

00:00:58.860 No.

00:00:59.640 Why do guys get to have such a high body count and women don't? 1.00

00:01:04.000 That's my big problem.

00:01:05.240 And, like, I don't really...

00:01:06.360 Let me answer this question.

00:01:07.180 No, no, no.

00:01:08.040 Guys and women are different.

00:01:09.160 Hold on.

00:01:09.680 They get away with everything.

00:01:10.480 Hold on. 1.00

00:01:10.860 Or we can't get away with shit. 1.00

00:01:11.640 Let me just finish real quick. 1.00

00:01:12.220 We get away with everything.

00:01:13.780 We're fat.

00:01:14.440 We're smart. 0.99

00:01:14.940 We're fat. 1.00

00:01:15.880 We're whores nowadays. 1.00

00:01:17.000 We're on birth control. 1.00

00:01:18.280 We get away with everything.

00:01:19.380 I don't really...

00:01:19.780 I'm, like...

00:01:20.460 I'm somebody who's been taking advantage of a lot,

00:01:23.540 so I don't really do the whole, like,

00:01:25.520 super-sexual thing.

00:01:26.520 Sure, sure, sure, sure.

00:01:26.940 I don't have a lot of bodies up under me.

00:01:28.860 But I still stand with women, 1.00

00:01:31.060 which don't judge a man...

00:01:32.900 Like, don't not judge a man

00:01:34.400 when he has a high body count. 1.00

00:01:35.920 But if a woman fucks who the fuck she want 1.00

00:01:37.780 because she can, 1.00

00:01:38.620 because she's a bad bitch, 1.00

00:01:39.920 why the fuck you calling her a huck? 1.00

00:01:41.460 Okay, first of all... 1.00

00:01:41.880 I don't like that.

00:01:42.440 First of all, 1.00

00:01:43.160 you don't have to be a bad bitch 1.00

00:01:45.000 to fuck a bunch of guys. 1.00

00:01:46.200 Any girls can fuck that. 1.00

00:01:46.900 You could be a mid-bitch. 1.00

00:01:47.540 Every girl in here can get on the phone. 1.00

00:01:49.880 I'm talking about the bad bitches. 1.00

00:01:51.340 I'm not saying that you have to be one to do that. 1.00

00:01:52.800 Right, but women... 1.00

00:01:54.580 All you women right now 1.00

00:01:55.600 can get on the phone 1.00

00:01:56.220 and have sex tonight. 1.00

00:01:57.200 Yes, right. 0.99

00:01:57.940 It's very hard for men to do that.

00:01:59.120 You can just walk out down the strip 0.98

00:02:00.860 and be like, sex, 0.99

00:02:02.160 and then someone will come. 0.97

00:02:03.040 It's very hard for...

00:02:04.080 You know what I'm saying?

00:02:07.260 It's very hard for men to...

00:02:08.920 A lot of women don't believe this. 1.00

00:02:10.120 It's very hard for men 0.96

00:02:10.980 to have sex with women. 0.99

00:02:11.880 I've heard men say that. 1.00

00:02:12.740 It's very challenging.

00:02:13.460 Let me explain something.

00:02:14.320 For you?

00:02:14.740 No, no.

00:02:15.200 10% of men are actually sexually active.

00:02:18.000 A lot of women think all these dudes.

00:02:19.420 And the 10% that are sexually active, 0.95

00:02:21.540 they're the ones having sex with y'all. 1.00

00:02:23.660 You see what I'm saying? 0.98

00:02:24.920 Yeah.

00:02:25.120 So what happens is for a man 0.97

00:02:26.740 to go out and have sex, 0.99

00:02:27.580 for him to have access to women 0.99

00:02:29.220 and have options,

00:02:30.860 he's got to be on point,

00:02:32.540 high valued,

00:02:33.260 have status,

00:02:33.940 have swag.

00:02:34.680 He's worked hard to get to that level.

00:02:36.300 Now, to answer your question on

00:02:37.340 why is it bad,

00:02:38.360 when a woman gets past six men body count, 1.00

00:02:41.340 her pair bonding starts... 1.00

00:02:43.680 Her ability to pair bond with a man 0.97

00:02:45.480 goes down to 25%.

00:02:46.400 Where did you learn this?

00:02:47.700 I read psychology books on relationships.

00:02:50.060 People have interviewed 10,000 people.

00:02:51.760 You have a specific number.

00:02:53.340 Yeah.

00:02:53.840 Let me explain something.

00:02:55.060 Your oxytocin levels go down.

00:02:56.880 It's hard for you to pair bond with a man.

00:02:58.780 The more men you've been with...

00:03:00.200 Actually, I can speak on this.

00:03:01.240 I'm sorry.

00:03:01.420 Okay, but I'm going to have Pearl talk to you.

00:03:02.920 But that's a good question. 0.99

00:03:03.760 I've been fucking for 21 years. 0.99

00:03:04.760 You think it ain't... 1.00

00:03:05.740 But you're not with a man.

00:03:08.600 You have a choice, right?

00:03:09.500 Yes.

00:03:09.980 But to my point,

00:03:11.640 you'll see women go through guys

00:03:13.440 or go through relationships,

00:03:14.420 have problems.

00:03:15.420 It's hard for them to bond.

00:03:17.100 Well, okay,

00:03:17.900 so I agree that we should be saving ourselves

00:03:21.940 a little bit better than what we do these days.

00:03:23.580 Yes.

00:03:23.860 Okay, whatever.

00:03:24.500 Who cares?

00:03:25.400 But I don't believe in this pair bonding thing.

00:03:28.620 And I only say that is because oxytocin

00:03:31.080 is something that gets regenerated in your body.

00:03:33.380 Sure.

00:03:33.700 And it actually gets regenerated super quick.

00:03:36.160 Like after sex...

00:03:37.180 Okay, do you... 0.94

00:03:37.800 I have a question. 0.99

00:03:38.520 Do you think that a virgin and a hooker 0.99

00:03:40.300 have the same pair bonding abilities? 0.72

00:03:42.600 So...

00:03:43.120 Yes or no?

00:03:43.620 Okay, my question also...

00:03:44.700 Yes or no?

00:03:45.980 Do you think it's the same?

00:03:47.460 I do not, but I don't believe...

00:03:48.780 Okay, so you do believe it to some extent.

00:03:50.480 Yes.

00:03:50.980 Okay.

00:03:51.300 But what I'm saying is

00:03:52.180 the science behind actual pair bonding

00:03:54.480 and the six partner thing,

00:03:56.280 I don't think that's actually true science.

00:03:58.040 And I only say this

00:03:58.860 because I tried to read up on it

00:04:00.760 because I was actually curious about it.

00:04:03.160 And they said that they got this information

00:04:05.980 from a mammal called the prairie vole.

00:04:08.820 Have you heard of that?

00:04:09.540 So this whole thing that you're talking about

00:04:11.920 with six partners

00:04:12.920 actually came from a different mammal

00:04:14.440 that was not like...

00:04:16.720 Well, and we could argue it's 10.

00:04:18.720 We could argue it's 15.

00:04:20.060 But we know what's true

00:04:21.600 is the more you sleep with,

00:04:22.800 the harder it is to bond.

00:04:23.800 But I also believe that has...

00:04:25.360 Yes, it's hormones.

00:04:26.740 Yeah.

00:04:26.900 But it's also trauma.

00:04:28.400 It's allowing people in.

00:04:30.640 You can also...

00:04:31.300 But it's like, okay,

00:04:32.260 if I drink every single day of my life,

00:04:34.380 then alcohol is not going to affect me

00:04:35.780 every bunch as much. 1.00

00:04:37.200 If you fuck every single person you meet, 1.00

00:04:40.100 you're not going to bond as much to each one. 1.00

00:04:42.300 Yeah.

00:04:42.640 So I'm not saying six is the number.

00:04:44.840 It could be 10.

00:04:45.580 It could be 15.

00:04:45.780 That's the only thing I'm like,

00:04:46.640 it's the six.

00:04:47.460 It's the oxytocin thing.

00:04:48.580 All right.

00:04:48.700 Because it's like...

00:04:49.120 Even if it's...

00:04:49.720 I mean, women lie anyway. 1.00

00:04:50.820 Who knows what those chicks' body counts were? 1.00

00:04:52.520 So it's like, all right, let's say...

00:04:53.640 I stopped counting like five, six years ago.

00:04:56.160 So I always used to tell my girlfriends... 1.00

00:04:57.580 Don't give a fuck. 1.00

00:04:57.860 So I used to be a cocktail waitress at a strip club. 1.00

00:05:00.400 Right.

00:05:00.660 And they used to always tell me,

00:05:01.680 why aren't you going to be a dancer? 0.57

00:05:03.020 And I said, I don't want to be

00:05:04.020 because I feel like me,

00:05:05.820 this is just a me thing.

00:05:07.640 You have to be an actress.

00:05:09.260 And when a guy comes in,

00:05:10.500 I have to figure out

00:05:11.140 what role am I playing in his life

00:05:12.640 to receive that money.

00:05:14.260 So I was nervous

00:05:15.320 that it was going to mess my mind up

00:05:16.900 when it comes to a man

00:05:18.000 that's coming in my life.

00:05:18.900 And I'm like,

00:05:19.240 am I going to switch myself for this person

00:05:21.580 and not be who I am?

00:05:22.940 And then inevitably,

00:05:23.720 they're going to see the real person

00:05:25.120 and we're going to have an issue.

00:05:26.240 So it's going to mess, I guess,

00:05:28.080 the pair.

00:05:28.880 Right.

00:05:29.360 But the whole point is that

00:05:31.380 less is better.

00:05:32.600 Right.

00:05:32.940 In general.

00:05:33.440 I agree.

00:05:33.940 I think we should save ourselves

00:05:35.640 a little bit more

00:05:36.100 because I think we're just

00:05:36.980 valuable than when we throw around.

00:05:39.240 Honestly,

00:05:39.480 but I just want to put this

00:05:40.540 in a historical point of view.

00:05:42.240 You know,

00:05:42.440 a hundred years ago,

00:05:43.460 what percent of women 1.00

00:05:44.220 were virgins on their wedding days

00:05:45.580 a hundred years ago?

00:05:46.660 Yes.

00:05:46.880 Probably almost like 100% of them.

00:05:48.460 Yes.

00:05:48.700 Like 90%, 90%.

00:05:49.840 85% of women were virgins.

00:05:52.760 Now, let's just say, 0.80

00:05:53.560 because we all know women lie. 0.98

00:05:54.840 So it's like,

00:05:55.200 all right, let's double it.

00:05:55.980 I'd love to be a virgin

00:05:57.280 on my wedding day

00:05:58.100 if I would have been,

00:05:59.480 you know, 0.83

00:05:59.760 in a sexual assault as a child.

00:06:01.820 You know,

00:06:02.100 and a lot of women 1.00

00:06:02.740 go through that as well.

00:06:03.340 And that's unfortunate.

00:06:04.440 That's an exception.

00:06:05.220 You know, a lot of women 1.00

00:06:05.400 go through that as well.

00:06:06.460 I was raised in a very,

00:06:07.560 you know,

00:06:07.820 religious household.

00:06:08.440 I would have loved

00:06:09.400 to get married

00:06:10.120 and be a virgin.

00:06:10.640 And you'd agree

00:06:11.760 that would have been

00:06:12.280 the best outcome.

00:06:12.820 I agree.

00:06:13.480 I agree.

00:06:14.300 But unfortunately,

00:06:15.700 there are people

00:06:16.520 who are monsters out here

00:06:18.020 and they criticize 0.99

00:06:19.120 those women that are virgins. 0.87

00:06:20.760 They take that innocence

00:06:22.100 from them.

00:06:22.560 No, I don't think

00:06:23.200 that's the majority.

00:06:24.200 I think there are exceptions.

00:06:25.800 I think the majority

00:06:26.840 of us women,

00:06:27.940 we meet a guy

00:06:28.860 that's handsome

00:06:29.640 and we just, 1.00

00:06:30.540 yeah, we fuck, 1.00

00:06:31.380 I think in general. 0.99

00:06:32.340 Like, it's not.

00:06:34.820 That's what I do.

00:06:35.580 And so in a way,

00:06:36.500 in a way,

00:06:37.000 like women, 0.98

00:06:37.900 in a way,

00:06:38.540 women, 1.00

00:06:39.020 we're the ones

00:06:39.660 picking non-monogamy

00:06:40.840 because when we have

00:06:42.180 the most choice,

00:06:43.160 which is early 20s,

00:06:44.160 we don't pick monogamy. 0.99

00:06:45.520 Hey, I'm polyamorous,

00:06:46.660 so you're right.

00:06:47.220 Right, yeah.

00:06:47.940 I pick monogamy. 0.94

00:06:48.980 No, you didn't.

00:06:50.300 I will pick monogamy.

00:06:51.580 Well, no, you didn't

00:06:52.700 because how old are you again?

00:06:54.020 I'm 28.

00:06:54.680 Okay, you're 28.

00:06:55.580 So you could have,

00:06:56.280 I know you had

00:06:57.020 that happen to you,

00:06:58.200 but after that,

00:06:58.880 you could have at 18,

00:06:59.920 20, 22,

00:07:01.000 picked a guy,

00:07:01.560 gotten married,

00:07:02.080 stayed with him.

00:07:03.160 And you did it.

00:07:04.240 None of us did.

00:07:05.020 And so.

00:07:05.640 If I picked someone,

00:07:06.840 it would have happened,

00:07:07.700 but it didn't happen.

00:07:08.540 Right, but that's the point.

00:07:09.740 It wasn't a priority to you.

00:07:11.700 So in.

00:07:12.380 Not necessarily.

00:07:13.040 It wasn't a priority.

00:07:14.240 It just wasn't,

00:07:15.580 I didn't meet anyone

00:07:16.660 that's made that happen.

00:07:17.920 Right, right, right.

00:07:18.720 But it's like,

00:07:19.700 but it's like,

00:07:20.300 but it's like,

00:07:20.900 if we put that towards,

00:07:23.140 well, I should have been,

00:07:24.060 and I was chasing college sports.

00:07:25.720 Like, that's what I was doing.

00:07:26.740 I was chasing a priority.

00:07:28.040 And correct.

00:07:29.060 And that's what I'm saying.

00:07:30.100 Like, when we have the choice,

00:07:31.680 we don't do it.

00:07:32.760 And so in a way,

00:07:33.940 it's like,

00:07:34.540 we're the ones picking non-monogamy

00:07:36.780 and we whine

00:07:37.760 because when the men

00:07:39.040 don't pick monogamy later. 1.00

00:07:41.000 Go ahead.

00:07:41.020 I got to,

00:07:41.740 Asia, I want to hear from you.

00:07:42.780 You haven't said a lot.

00:07:43.960 What are your thoughts on this?

00:07:45.440 My thoughts,

00:07:46.640 I guess what I can say is,

00:07:49.940 I'm divorced.

00:07:51.300 So I'm 25 and I'm divorced.

00:07:53.660 And I did choose monogamy.

00:07:56.340 Young.

00:07:56.980 We got married when I was 23.

00:08:00.600 And...

00:08:01.120 Why didn't you stay married? 1.00

00:08:03.260 Why didn't I?

00:08:04.080 Yeah.

00:08:04.240 I did something.

00:08:09.440 I got divorced

00:08:10.640 because I couldn't compromise

00:08:14.140 because my ex-husband,

00:08:15.980 he was an alcoholic.

00:08:17.580 So he didn't want to stop drinking.

00:08:20.620 He...

00:08:21.220 I tried everything that I could.

00:08:22.460 I tried therapy.

00:08:23.780 I tried offering services,

00:08:27.580 but you can't change what somebody...

00:08:30.200 Did you know he was an alcoholic

00:08:31.380 when you married him?

00:08:32.200 No, I didn't.

00:08:33.580 There's no warning signs?

00:08:35.060 Was he an alcoholic

00:08:35.740 when you married him

00:08:36.440 or did that happen after?

00:08:37.240 So it gradually got worse

00:08:39.120 as we...

00:08:40.520 After...

00:08:40.960 Actually, after we had gotten married.

00:08:41.740 Was it like work-related?

00:08:43.040 Like that he wasn't able

00:08:43.940 to provide like that

00:08:44.940 so it started to get on him?

00:08:46.240 Because I know that about that happened.

00:08:47.500 Well, he's prior military.

00:08:49.700 He was deployed.

00:08:51.060 He was in combat.

00:08:52.980 PTSD.

00:08:53.140 And he had...

00:08:53.680 Yeah, he had a lot of that.

00:08:55.000 Yeah, PTSD.

00:08:55.200 And in the beginning,

00:08:56.200 it was regulated with medication

00:08:58.820 and it was good, you know?

00:09:00.940 But after a while,

00:09:02.600 like sometimes...

00:09:03.800 Definitely.

00:09:04.220 Do you know how he's doing now?

00:09:05.740 Yeah, we still have contact

00:09:07.120 even to this day.

00:09:08.220 He's okay now or better or what?

00:09:09.500 He's right where I left him. 0.99

00:09:11.480 Damn. 1.00

00:09:11.800 Unfortunately, yeah. 1.00

00:09:13.820 Wow.

00:09:14.460 I don't blame you one bit

00:09:15.280 for leaving that type of environment.

00:09:17.760 Yeah, it wasn't something

00:09:18.580 that I could compromise with any longer.

00:09:20.480 And when I tell you

00:09:21.360 I did everything that I could

00:09:22.460 to stay with him,

00:09:23.340 I did.

00:09:23.900 And I would have done anything

00:09:24.920 that he needed to...

00:09:25.820 But you didn't stay with him.

00:09:27.380 So how could you say

00:09:28.060 you did everything you could

00:09:29.180 to stay if you left?

00:09:30.800 I'm not even saying

00:09:31.640 you're wrong for it,

00:09:32.580 but I'm saying like

00:09:33.180 it's kind of not true.

00:09:34.340 Because...

00:09:34.820 You know, women used to date 1.00

00:09:35.900 alcoholics for like a decade

00:09:37.600 and then they'd stop.

00:09:39.120 They would just like stick with it.

00:09:40.320 And then they would regret it.

00:09:40.960 And then they would regret it.

00:09:41.520 I'm not...

00:09:42.040 Wasting can't hear it.

00:09:42.920 Look at, look at, look at.

00:09:43.920 I'm not...

00:09:44.400 What I'm not pushing back on

00:09:45.800 is saying,

00:09:46.300 oh, you shouldn't have left that

00:09:47.440 or whatever.

00:09:48.200 What I am saying is

00:09:49.480 like this idea

00:09:50.300 that we did everything

00:09:51.320 and you're there for like what?

00:09:52.300 Two years?

00:09:53.220 You're 25,

00:09:54.020 so it's like two years?

00:09:54.800 Yeah, but what is

00:09:55.720 the timeline for that?

00:09:57.160 Exactly.

00:09:57.740 That's what I want to...

00:09:58.500 That's what I would like to know.

00:09:58.900 You know, I'm Catholic,

00:10:00.280 so I don't believe in divorce.

00:10:01.740 So I actually,

00:10:02.880 I think it's like

00:10:03.540 for richer, for poorer,

00:10:04.820 for better, for worse,

00:10:05.960 in sickness and in health.

00:10:07.060 So I don't believe

00:10:08.360 in divorce at all.

00:10:09.060 So if somebody was

00:10:09.840 manipulating you

00:10:10.820 every single day...

00:10:11.520 Well, women are usually 1.00

00:10:12.460 the more manipulative ones anyway. 0.98

00:10:14.220 I think your dad...

00:10:15.160 I think we would all

00:10:16.300 be in a better place

00:10:17.080 if our dads

00:10:17.720 helped us pick husbands

00:10:18.740 because we don't pick very well.

00:10:20.760 Clearly.

00:10:21.720 My dad's not here.

00:10:22.640 Yeah, my dad's not here.

00:10:23.360 Yeah, my dad's here, too.

00:10:24.680 My dad's not here, either.

00:10:26.040 No.

00:10:26.580 How are we going to do

00:10:27.480 a playoff

00:10:28.060 because then we can

00:10:28.640 ask our dads?

00:10:29.140 Well, if you want to

00:10:30.080 talk about the dads,

00:10:31.620 then, like,

00:10:31.960 the moms picked the dad. 0.69

00:10:33.300 You're you guys' dads,

00:10:34.600 so it's like if they're...

00:10:35.700 I think we need

00:10:36.700 the dads involved.

00:10:37.740 How many of you

00:10:38.200 grew up in a nuclear family,

00:10:39.520 like a mom and dad

00:10:40.360 at home,

00:10:40.880 before they passed away?

00:10:42.120 Before they passed away.

00:10:43.640 Two of you?

00:10:44.120 Okay.

00:10:44.780 All right.

00:10:45.280 That's a lot.

00:10:45.940 I come from a broken home,

00:10:47.080 so there's...

00:10:48.280 I had to pretty much

00:10:49.600 build what I had

00:10:51.680 in regards to

00:10:53.560 what my preferences

00:10:55.320 could be.

00:10:56.660 Yeah, yeah,

00:10:57.300 and that's really...

00:10:57.940 That's sad.

00:10:58.920 And I think, again,

00:11:00.020 because it'll go

00:11:00.860 to our parents, right?

00:11:02.240 And a lot of our parents

00:11:03.400 didn't pick well either.

00:11:04.560 Like, a lot of our moms...

00:11:05.320 Well, I wouldn't say

00:11:05.940 that I didn't have

00:11:07.260 that type of guidance.

00:11:08.160 I mean, I definitely

00:11:08.920 have that relationship

00:11:09.880 with my dad

00:11:10.320 where I could bring him.

00:11:11.440 I did bring my dad to...

00:11:13.720 Or bring my husband

00:11:14.680 to my dad at the time,

00:11:16.380 you know?

00:11:16.660 And your dad was like,

00:11:17.560 this is a great choice.

00:11:18.640 He thought he was great.

00:11:19.800 He thought he was...

00:11:20.880 And he probably was,

00:11:21.580 but it's on the PTSD

00:11:22.620 and everything else.

00:11:23.600 Right.

00:11:24.020 And there's a lot of factors

00:11:24.860 that play into it, you know?

00:11:26.120 Okay, and so he just

00:11:26.920 started drinking

00:11:27.640 and then just became

00:11:28.840 an alcoholic in two years?

00:11:30.900 He was drinking.

00:11:31.840 How long were you married?

00:11:33.240 We were together...

00:11:34.280 We were together for a year.

00:11:36.120 We were married for two years.

00:11:38.540 Okay.

00:11:38.860 So we were together

00:11:39.740 for all in all three years.

00:11:41.340 Okay.

00:11:41.640 And good job 0.98

00:11:42.180 for getting the fuck out of there. 0.99

00:11:43.760 Thank you. 0.93

00:11:44.340 Thank you.

00:11:44.660 You're welcome.

00:11:45.260 You know, at the end of the day,

00:11:46.140 too, he's...

00:11:47.000 He's a great person.

00:11:49.500 Yes.

00:11:49.660 Like, I'm not knocking him

00:11:51.120 on that at all.

00:11:52.040 Like, that's one thing...

00:11:53.240 That's one of the reasons

00:11:54.380 why I loved him.

00:11:56.220 Everyone on this earth

00:11:57.360 needs to put their own happiness

00:11:58.760 first above everything.

00:12:00.080 Wrong.

00:12:00.320 I think you've got to put

00:12:01.120 your happiness last.

00:12:02.520 If you are...

00:12:03.120 I think...

00:12:03.540 How can you pour

00:12:04.200 from an empty cup?

00:12:05.460 I think that's just 1.00

00:12:06.560 nonsense feminist garbage. 1.00

00:12:08.400 No, it's not. 1.00

00:12:08.840 Basically...

00:12:09.420 It's for people.

00:12:09.940 No, no, because...

00:12:11.040 It doesn't matter.

00:12:11.580 You're going to be unhappy

00:12:13.040 in a marriage at some point.

00:12:14.620 You think our great-grandmothers

00:12:16.120 stayed together for 50 years,

00:12:19.020 60 years,

00:12:20.140 thinking about themselves?

00:12:21.740 You know how I could tell

00:12:22.740 the generational switch?

00:12:24.100 You can hear it in the music.

00:12:25.660 We got the Taylor Swift generation,

00:12:27.640 which is,

00:12:27.980 I'm a victim,

00:12:28.900 blah, blah, blah.

00:12:30.100 Where...

00:12:30.460 Do you remember...

00:12:30.900 Do you remember the song,

00:12:31.680 Jolene?

00:12:32.480 Do you remember the song,

00:12:33.140 Jolene?

00:12:33.240 Yeah, I love that song.

00:12:34.360 No, no, but that's how

00:12:35.320 women used to react. 1.00

00:12:36.420 Please don't take my man.

00:12:37.420 Please don't take my man

00:12:38.940 because she was worried

00:12:41.220 that her man was cheating

00:12:42.440 and instead of keying his car,

00:12:44.400 which, you know,

00:12:44.780 Carrie Underwood keying his car,

00:12:46.520 she... 1.00

00:12:47.240 No, but she stayed with them.

00:12:49.180 I heard her talk about that

00:12:50.760 and it's like it was just

00:12:52.120 a completely different mindset

00:12:53.480 where she's like,

00:12:54.100 I can't live without this guy.

00:12:55.900 Where now it's like women, 1.00

00:12:57.300 we just care about ourselves

00:12:58.460 and our happiness

00:12:59.280 and if the outcomes were good,

00:13:01.320 then why aren't families together?

00:13:02.840 As many of you know,

00:13:03.780 I was just banned on TikTok

00:13:05.900 and we are demonetized

00:13:07.620 on a daily basis

00:13:08.860 on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023

Wives ARE NOT Monogamous In Marriages

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