JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Woman Admits This About Modern Women


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

192.30553

Word count

2,271

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

24

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss why women leave in a marriage, why they cheat and why it's a bad thing and how to deal with it. We also talk about why women cheat and what we can do about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 but that's another reason another reason i'm not keen to go into it because for guys it's a bit of
00:00:04.720 a bad deal because you know the women are very keen to get married you know women will try to 1.00
00:00:10.880 push the agenda of like oh you know where are we are we going to get engaged we moving in together
00:00:14.480 we're going to get married but then they get fed up you know 10 15 years like down the line
00:00:19.360 and they initiate divorce and then the guy's screwed so but why is she fed up why is she fed 1.00
00:00:24.640 well i think i mean there's going to be many different reasons for that and we could go
00:00:29.920 into lots of different examples but i think a lot of it is that they lose the this you know the
00:00:34.400 butterflies go and it's inevitably going to go over a longer period of time because we all know you have
00:00:39.440 that honeymoon period and then you know it gets yeah then it gets it gets a bit boring and the
00:00:44.160 problem with that is that if you're then putting that into a legal contract where one of the parties
00:00:48.080 can just say i'll sod that and walk out that's a dangerous ground i think no like i've got i don't
00:00:53.760 know like i've just got a thought like obviously you said women leave in a marriage of course which 1.00
00:01:02.080 i understand but i'm 21 like i know i'm still young but i feel like there's a specific time period to
00:01:10.000 have kids and to marry and settle down and i feel like i don't know like this little pressure because
00:01:18.560 if i put myself in a guy's perspective or shoes like i'm not bearing a child and that changes your
00:01:27.040 body it does it changes yeah we are of course we have the biological clock yeah we're all aware of
00:01:32.080 it as women so yeah it's harder for us i think that's why probably why we want to lock it down so 0.99
00:01:37.440 yeah yeah sure sure yeah yeah and like with women leaving again this is such a broad subject so i'm not
00:01:44.560 i'm not on about just cheating by the way yeah um but yeah one off it's like i get and understand why
00:01:51.840 men do like cheat yeah and leave and go for younger women well one out of it it's actually not such a
00:01:59.360 broad thing though well men don't typically leave for younger women they don't even leave no they're
00:02:03.840 just gonna cheat and stay they want to cheat but women cheat in their own way i mean i think personally i 1.00
00:02:09.520 think that sex is to to men as attention is to women so i think women need attention like like men 0.99
00:02:16.880 need sex but women are never expected to close off their social media yeah yeah but men are expected
00:02:23.120 to stop having sex with other girls how is that fair but women can post ass pics on their instagram 1.00
00:02:27.920 well nobody can touch it why nobody can touch it yeah it's like advertising i mean i was even looking
00:02:37.120 at okay this is can we pull up hayley bieber's instagram can you imagine okay team selena by the way 0.99
00:02:47.840 okay i don't know about the selena hayley whatever i don't i don't care what i was looking at was her
00:02:52.960 instagram i was like she's married to a world famous pop star yeah and i know she's a mom
00:02:57.840 model right but he's a world bad point but he's he's got groupies yeah and he's also very religious
00:03:04.240 apparently so i don't know what's going on there and so it's like you're married to a world famous pop
00:03:09.200 star and you still got look at look at the booty one look at it yeah look at that yeah okay and the
00:03:17.520 funny thing is he comments on it as well so it's bizarre as long as he's okay with it he's like oh my god
00:03:23.280 yeah but would she be okay with it if he was to be commenting under somebody else's post no
00:03:29.040 would she be okay with it i think it works one of two ways that you can't you can't take one side
00:03:34.640 just because one's a female and then yeah back the other side like true pick your own battles all all
00:03:40.960 the same but don't don't come at the man for cheating if she's gonna put it out there as if she's
00:03:47.280 gonna cheat as well well interesting that you say well i just think of it as like like mating strategies
00:03:52.240 like women want to get attention from high status men that's instagram yeah where they need to be 1.00
00:03:56.880 fair i want to screw as many people as possible so like how many i don't know anyone that got married 0.99
00:04:01.360 and closed their instagram i don't know anyone that did it like my age anyway actually i told you're
00:04:06.560 right so yeah so i'm saying modern women are shitty wives why would you close your instagram i don't 1.00
00:04:10.560 i don't understand that because it's advertised you know i was having more you'll beat me
00:04:19.600 pull up pull this up i mean i i think it really depends you can't tell me that's not advertising
00:04:25.280 i mean she is a model i mean yeah she's a model that's her job like you know what you could argue 1.00
00:04:30.080 justin bieber's job is to screw groupies on tour yeah but he's not the model what it's different he's
00:04:38.720 he's not the model right so i do get what you're saying he's a world famous pop star
00:04:44.320 he's a singer what are world famous pop stars to do they screw groupies on the tour bruh this is
00:04:49.440 a tale as old as time that's very i mean i do the job yeah it is what does chris brown do on state come
00:04:57.920 on is that his job yeah yeah and you know you can just tell she would have none of that if he was
00:05:05.600 doing that yeah but it's like we're in this society where men aren't told they can do that
00:05:09.920 they're controlling if they tell a girl to close her instagram but women immediately want you to 1.00
00:05:14.160 stop sleeping with other girls and you can tell like i know so many people in relationships who
00:05:19.120 have told people unfollow her stop liking her photos i know get rid of her if you do it to a man or if
00:05:25.440 you're in a relationship with another girl and you tell her not to do that you're the bad person well you've
00:05:29.680 got to be a bit careful you have to it goes one or two like you have to look at it see i think that's
00:05:34.560 a standard respect thing you've got to be careful now if you're going to do it one way and not accept
00:05:40.000 it backwards yeah but there's different hold on hold on i feel this might be controversial but i feel
00:05:45.280 like there are different um there are different reasons and there's people with different circumstances
00:05:50.960 for example if there was if you was dating someone and she was for example like a content creator or
00:05:56.560 something and she had she was in you know instagram engagement groups so if she was in an engagement
00:06:02.320 group in an engagement group there are rules you have to like everyone's photo to help each other
00:06:06.800 with the algorithm right so would you then turn around to your girlfriend and say to her i don't
00:06:11.920 want you liking pictures of other girls the standard person isn't honest like i'm not i'm not famous
00:06:17.120 on instagram i don't have to i'm just saying but would a good wife argue with him when he asked that 0.97
00:06:22.240 and say well but my instagram group or would she just say okay whatever you say honey
00:06:26.240 yeah in a really traditional setup that she she would give it up probably you know if he's making 0.86
00:06:32.400 six figures well regardless regardless of no regardless if he's making six figures she should
00:06:37.600 be like listen you know we're married now that is the i've made this commitment in the in the eyes
00:06:42.480 of the law and in the eyes of god so that's more important to me than having an instagram account you
00:06:48.240 know that's what she would have said in the back of the day okay so i have a question why does he have
00:06:52.000 to be making six figures to have to be listened to and do you have the same energy if a woman's 1.00
00:06:56.640 mid does she is she if she's average looking does she not is she not able to ask for loyalty 0.82
00:07:02.800 that's a good question like you know she's average looking so why why does she get to ask for that 1.00
00:07:09.280 i don't know i don't i don't really know how to answer that because i just feel like
00:07:13.040 women do definitely look at men's financial status and we can sit here and argue about that all the 1.00
00:07:22.160 time but at the end of the day there is survival and women will always try to go with someone above 1.00
00:07:28.960 her level or at least on her level she will never go low so you said six figures that's
00:07:37.120 that's ten percent of men no i know i i was just trying to be funny there but like
00:07:42.880 um no but i'm just saying like realistically she will always go above or on the same level so
00:07:49.120 she's never going to go low so financial status does get looked at and that is actually how men 0.75
00:07:56.000 earn respect from women i feel like it's one of the ways that if you want to earn respect from a 0.94
00:08:01.040 woman you need to do that you need to be making bank yeah no brokies i'm being real i'm being 0.87
00:08:07.680 absolutely real you know i'm not gonna sugarcoat it you do need to be working hard how much does he
00:08:13.360 have to make what about an average guy um i don't know i don't know what the average salary here is
00:08:18.320 what is it like 40 30 depends on your age so like 25 year olds gonna be earning like 35 000
00:08:26.000 all right um which in london isn't gonna be very much in in the standards of earning six figures
00:08:32.320 and then it's on it's unfair to expect that off someone you've got the average you've got the
00:08:36.880 average uk wage though which is probably like it's going to be weighted higher in london yeah well
00:08:40.560 yeah because you've got extremities you've got you know if you're looking at the mean it's going
00:08:45.200 to be taking both the i mean does the man expect us to be top 10 20 30 percent of beauty
00:08:49.920 no but why should they not if we're expecting them to be in the higher range i think they do want
00:08:56.000 that yeah they might want it but they're not they're not going to hold out for it because
00:08:59.600 most guys are quite thirsty do you know what i mean we were talking about this the other
00:09:02.960 the other night most guys are quite thirsty they're going to take they're going to take what they could
00:09:07.760 get you know oh oh i mean that's a good point it's a good point have you heard the husband's store
00:09:14.080 analogy no oh there's like i hope i say this right there's like a husband store analogy in the
00:09:19.760 manosphere okay and basically every every store or every floor is a different set of husbands okay
00:09:28.080 and you go up a floor um then the only rule is you can't go back down so there's five floors total
00:09:33.440 and you can go up but you can't go down so the first floor is guys that love kids
00:09:39.200 and are and are loyal to you oh sweet and so the women go to the first floor 1.00
00:09:45.440 so they go to the first floor and they say you know what i want more i want to i want to go up so
00:09:50.720 they go to the second floor and then they find a shitty one no no no it gets better it gets better
00:09:55.760 so these guys love kids they're loyal and they're hot oh yeah so but they're like well what's on the
00:10:05.680 next floor okay then they go they're just curious yeah yeah so they go they what's what's what's
00:10:11.200 what's next curiosity and they say they say they say okay the next floor these guys are hot
00:10:16.560 they make 70 000 a year they love kids and they're loyal but she's on the third floor and she's like
00:10:23.280 well what's what's on the next floor and so then then she goes next they make six figures 0.52
00:10:30.880 love kids loyal everything but she wants to go to the fifth floor and on the fifth floor
00:10:39.600 unfaithful all the husbands are sold out
00:10:44.400 and there's dogs because die alone i mean so so so that to make it fair they did a wife score
00:10:51.600 or a wife store right so on the first floor there is women good sex loyal sixes 1.00
00:11:01.120 and they never found out was what was on the second floor
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