JustPearlyThings - April 15, 2023


Woman BREAKS DOWN How Celebrities Get LAID


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

208.29483

Word Count

2,029

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

10

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode I am joined by my good friend and long-term partner, to talk about cheating, cheating culture and how to deal with cheating in relationships. We talk about how men cheat, how women cheat and what it means to be bisexual in the modern dating culture.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 like what is a high quality i will tell you like i'm sorry i'm just like people from the parliament
00:00:04.560 people in the in the in the politicians they won't do that they would don't want their names
00:00:10.400 they just keep it low-key but here's the thing the other men they keep it low-key
00:00:16.800 you there's a respect put respect on the name you realize like and put the respect on my name as
00:00:21.860 well nba players have women that like actively pursue them to the point they'll like buy hotel
00:00:27.660 rooms like at the places look to look for where they hang out and also like know everything about
00:00:33.520 like they literally pursue them this is what they do i'll tell you what they do right
00:00:37.900 watch out this info because i okay i know i know about this info because i have personal assist a
00:00:46.880 lot of influencers and some celebs in the uk so i've seen some behind the scenes of what goes on
00:00:53.960 and how it works is that i don't know like an artist or an nba player so i've never worked at
00:01:01.380 nba player but i'm just saying someone of that status will go through someone else and say i'm
00:01:07.520 requesting a girl that's this age this and this they will scout for the girl oh yeah they will say
00:01:12.960 call this person um wants you for the night they require x y and z and that's how it works it's not
00:01:20.700 even always it wouldn't be just drake himself they all do it they all do it contracts and all that
00:01:26.520 right there's so many contracts and that contracts will have nba to not mention their names that's
00:01:30.920 what i'm saying yeah but this is what i'm saying about it sharing about it openly does damage your
00:01:35.720 partner name and their you know quality of who they are now not necessarily it depends on your lane
00:01:42.400 right but if you're going to so many serious i would say um position it will impact you
00:01:49.580 you know i'm not saying men don't cheat women cheat most of the time you don't know about it
00:01:54.120 and just life keep going on and you said you're okay with that right like not not to like use him
00:02:00.020 as an example but like if he were to cheat and you didn't know about it would you be okay with it
00:02:03.060 would i listen logically right i come from a culture when do men do cheat right i would i'll be angry if i knew
00:02:11.180 well you wouldn't know i will accept it i will accept it i have to say there's so much qualities
00:02:16.560 about my partner if he done one mistake in so many years i'll just keep a blind eye i get one pass
00:02:23.320 can i ask you a question do you feel like do you feel like you respect your uh i don't know how long
00:02:30.740 ago your previous girlfriends were when you was living together but did do you think you respect them
00:02:34.860 the same as you do your now girlfriend yeah why no equally her a lot more okay
00:02:39.980 because she's changed she's like everything i'm looking for like in terms of you know like she's
00:02:45.860 very intelligent she's hyper analytical like me so are these other girls just fantasies sorry babe
00:02:50.540 are these other girls just fantasies like you're like like your playground
00:02:55.380 oh the the side girls yeah yeah because i i enjoy going through almost like someone that got good
00:03:01.180 at chess and it sounds i just have one question for you yeah when you was looking for a wife
00:03:05.760 did you want to be with someone that was bisexual to allow those things yes that's a requirement yeah
00:03:12.520 that's that was like your requirement yeah there's like a whole list of like has to come from a good
00:03:16.900 family that's why it works so if you're happy yeah and i was up front with it and she could have left
00:03:21.720 yeah i like the fact that you're up front with it yeah i think i think everyone's relationship is
00:03:27.260 going to work for them i just wonder how it would work sorry i'm curious girls who would sign up for
00:03:33.160 something like that anyone i i personally wouldn't in that exact dynamic but i would like to say i respect
00:03:40.080 you so much because you had to in a way lower your ego to be able to have him happy if he's happy then
00:03:47.160 that's what makes you happy and i feel like in our society now that's women's problem including
00:03:52.380 myself the fact that we don't want to lower our ego in order to make our partner or our boyfriend or
00:03:58.440 husband happy because we're always trying to level level up even be on the same level as them or be
00:04:03.080 even higher and that's ruining our relationship for me it's not like lowering my ego i don't see like
00:04:09.080 that i see like i don't i don't i i'm sorry if i don't understand you properly but i don't see this
00:04:14.900 as lowering my ego whatsoever because it's like i'm seriously okay it's like because i believe
00:04:23.460 that for men that's my concept that's my belief i believe for me like oh no you like to bang go bang
00:04:30.560 that makes it happy so go be happy she's like very selfless as well like she's not something that
00:04:36.140 it's gonna be like oh my god is oh you are talking to no sometimes like like you see a girl like a
00:04:43.600 beautiful girl walking and say oh my god she's so beautiful it's like i think sometimes it it's
00:04:49.620 like uh we miss empathy it's like you know when you go like to nightclubs and like someone is like
00:04:57.040 doing bad like is in a bad moment i always see like something that i like to see i always see like
00:05:02.440 girls coming up to that person say hey dude are you fine yeah hey can i get you something or someone
00:05:07.460 in the bathroom can you know and like you're seeing that environment because people are like
00:05:12.680 relax you know and so when i say like oh go be happy it's not that i'm trying to like
00:05:19.320 me learn my ego but it's like i believe like if you're both like in the same page like what do you
00:05:25.580 like we can like do things together and keep like easy because i think like the world outside is
00:05:32.340 already so hard yeah it's like it's already gonna try to beat you to beat you so much if you cannot
00:05:37.760 get home and like be with a person that like truly like like understands you like have you by your
00:05:44.400 side you know to be like peaceful it's gonna be really hard you know yeah i think you can be like
00:05:50.320 more like empathic like this you know so if he if he was um banging other girls and accidentally he
00:05:58.520 maybe got one impregnated how i have a vasectomy oh okay it's 2014 so almost 10 years okay
00:06:04.820 question answered that solves that problem yeah stds oh i mean i've run you know like most of the guys
00:06:10.960 i know that i've been you know with a lot of girls like usually it's like chlamydia like one to five
00:06:14.440 times or something i'm not like bragging about it but like gone in a week with a pill not that big
00:06:18.800 video i've done videos on stds one in two people get that yeah it's pretty common but like she also gets
00:06:24.440 like turned on like hearing about me with girls and she wants to like what would the girl look like
00:06:28.540 and stuff like that i i think the way you've gone about it i say more power to you you know i think
00:06:33.860 there's a lot of men will be watching this thinking this guy's the luckiest man on planet
00:06:38.400 really the honesty and coming to terms with like the rules and stuff like that like i'm not getting
00:06:44.820 emotionally attached with these other girls yeah i'm not taking them how do you stop that though what if
00:06:48.620 you just meet someone that's incredible and you no but men can easily detach they're not there no but
00:06:53.860 people think that men don't have emotions you do what if you just met someone just thought i just
00:06:57.300 want to spend time with her more and more we've had that we've had that happen a couple times so it
00:07:01.380 has like the argent there was an argentinian girl that was like she was like argentinian polish and
00:07:05.780 ukraine ukrainian so like eastern european with the south american yeah she was like great so you
00:07:10.780 fell in love with her no i didn't fall in love but like i was like seeing her a bunch and like she got
00:07:16.200 jealous of liz because she liked me a lot yeah the thing is usually they get jealous of me not me
00:07:21.320 getting jealous i open my house it's like you wanna come like yeah it's like no not because of this
00:07:27.620 because i believe like dude if they are both cool so okay you're very powerful you've clearly done a
00:07:34.260 hell of work on yourself to be that powerful emotionally emotionally and then like she got there
00:07:39.640 and i was like okay like but she knows at the end of the day like like we have we have like a very
00:07:44.380 loving relationship and like all the stuff that you'd expect like with from a partner and we have
00:07:48.160 all that and there's like this other thing on the side but it's not but it doesn't really detract
00:07:51.800 it's just like something it's a special circumstance it's my job yeah i i am just so curious though what
00:07:57.880 if she said i had a personal trainer started to like him and she did want to engage with him what is
00:08:04.360 it about the rules that would stop you allowing her to be the guy it's just like 100 off limits from
00:08:08.800 my side but why this is how it is i get it as a bloke i tell i tell them i tell them why i don't want
00:08:15.980 some guy banging my chick yeah i get it i tell her i think it's double standards i'd say it's not
00:08:20.040 it's a double standard i'm just wondering okay but even as women like do you want to bang a bunch of
00:08:24.020 dudes no no like that's the thing we don't want sometimes it's like i can say like oh sometimes
00:08:30.980 uh like john arrives and then oh let's you know let's have sex sometimes i'm like so tired and
00:08:37.400 it's like oh can you like you know so i i i i'm fine if i say like oh not tonight you know because i
00:08:44.820 know he's gonna be fine and i'm not like you know cutting him like so you know and it's not like
00:08:50.860 something that's like i feel i need so much because i'm there's so many activities that i want to do
00:08:57.900 that's the truth there's so many things like oh i want to do that i want to do that i want to do
00:09:02.460 that so when he goes and bangs and like come back happy it's like oh this is this is done check so
00:09:09.540 this is fine and i'm not so i can do my stuff so we have like this thing together you know like
00:09:14.660 we want help each other like you know when i say activities i say like stupid shit like painting i
00:09:20.580 love painting every guy wants to be john right now but i do want to know how does he help you so you
00:09:25.260 help a lot yeah yeah yeah you're very awesome he is awesome i was just banned on tiktok and we are
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