JustPearlyThings - Woman EXPOSES Her Gold Digging Tendencies

00:00:00.000 we're gonna do one one more question then we're gonna close out the show

00:00:04.960 all right if a man were to get a maid a prostitute and a cook 0.99

00:00:09.920 what would the man need a woman for 0.98

00:00:14.960 to cuddle

00:00:18.080 to listen to him and to speak to him and to be a companion and to grow together that's the

00:00:25.200 prostitutes i don't know they do that with prostitutes now i'm sorry i'm not too involved

00:00:31.200 in the business yeah what what services is he buying is it the girlfriend experience yeah

00:00:37.440 this is a high-end prostitute the bang and the clean this is like this is like the the epitome 0.99

00:00:43.440 well i don't know i mean like maybe perhaps his wallet is getting a bit heavy so we could get a

00:00:48.000 woman in to help him lighten the load a bit oh she like she could work no no she'll spend his money 1.00

00:00:53.920 like he's actually physically struggling yeah he's obviously rich he's got a maid a prostitute 0.97

00:01:00.560 on girlfriend experience and she's high class okay so yeah he just needs a woman in there 1.00

00:01:06.880 what was that phrase you used earlier dispersing the money i love that that is so women like just 1.00

00:01:11.920 dispersing the money i'm going to the high street i'm gonna help money disperse it's like confetti

00:01:17.120 isn't it beautiful so what what would you do to compete so you go you i know this is a

00:01:23.760 hypothetical he's got all those things what are you like what are you gonna do to like this is

00:01:29.120 your dream guy no i i want to be doing those things for a man i love so if i went and you

00:01:35.680 know i loved a man and he had a prostitute and a maid and a cook and he was like i'm happy with them 0.97

00:01:41.760 if you can add more then come in i'd be like no i want to do those jobs i'll go and find some man who

00:01:47.440 wants me only yeah let your man lead he wants his prostitutes i'm challenging him 0.98

00:01:56.240 what about you um so if a guy has um what what can a woman bring if he has a maid a prostitute and a 1.00

00:02:03.520 cook yeah i think i answered this all the things to do with the emotion and emotional side and support

00:02:08.880 and friendship and companionship and uh actually telling him yes i agree with you or no i disagree

00:02:14.560 with you and let's build this path together simple as that but teamwork absolutely everything's to do

00:02:21.360 female or male is everything to do with the teamwork a family especially a family i could give you a 1.00

00:02:27.440 family i can make this house a home i'm also your outlet because men get frustrated who you're gonna turn

00:02:33.600 to hey you don't have to pay this to come on my shoulder and cry i'm here for you baby i'm gonna be

00:02:38.800 your backbone i think everybody needs a backbone so if i could ask you that as a woman hey let me do it

00:02:43.920 and if you get paralyzed i will pay this and i will look after you because this is what family is

00:02:48.560 for what do you think listen i know guys that that live like that and um you know but for me it's it's

00:02:57.680 you can have these people in your life but it's not authentic the connection is not authentic you

00:03:02.080 mentioned companionship it's it's it's chemistry it's open heart relating with someone and and when

00:03:08.560 you've got that with a with a woman that that it's amazing you know can i say one thing i do remember

00:03:16.160 my rebuttal of women right now let me just say what was that i don't even remember it was about

00:03:21.200 society when you were like oh lawyers you know you can't pay a woman to after 30 to stay in the work 0.99

00:03:26.880 field right yeah and it all comes down to society it's a true point that yes we had this discussion

00:03:33.040 that when the older woman is when she has a baby the more likely fertility goes down the baby could come out 0.99

00:03:37.920 with you know all types of issues and stuff like that so women do leave the workforce at 30 because 1.00

00:03:42.880 society puts that pressure on them to say you need to be married have your children and all that by at

00:03:48.880 least 35 and 35 years old society does not tell you that biology does yeah you're at risk for geriatric

00:03:55.520 yeah no society is going like they're doing everything they can to help with this issue but society gives

00:04:01.360 you free mother nature's kind of cruel society gives you free birth control and abortions so i i 1.00

00:04:07.200 don't think society but they're also they're also putting loads of resources into ivf and you know

00:04:13.680 facilities to care for like the funny thing is if a woman and it's well and it's also you have less 1.00

00:04:20.000 sexual market like you you're less um attractive to guys the older you are i mean that just is what it is

00:04:25.840 like you're i think women you i think women age uh beautifully i think that's how you look after

00:04:31.760 yourself yeah i think like your options the dating app data is really clear it's it's half of your

00:04:37.280 options are gone by 30 from the time you're 18 to 30. half of your options i think that that women can 1.00

00:04:43.600 age beautifully but like you know you don't stay as hot do you and and even and even uh even just

00:04:51.760 from a fertility point of view if you're if you're 35 you're hitting geriatric pregnancy most of the

00:04:57.520 time ivf fails so even if you do ivf after the age of 35 it's probably gonna fail so this idea that we

00:05:04.080 like sell women like we yeah i really don't see i really don't see that they say have all your

00:05:08.400 together by 35. if anything they lie to us and say you have all the time in the world when you don't

00:05:13.280 if you if you're single by 30 as a woman you are more likely to not ever get married or have children

00:05:19.280 than to get married and have children well that's depressing the more we're speaking the more i

00:05:24.960 think i'm a man no but i think about i think nowadays the society is letting you like with

00:05:30.560 people like janet jackson and who else just had a baby old like they're starting to show us that by 50

00:05:35.760 you can still conceive no but celebrity but celebrities are why would you want celebrities are not you

00:05:41.200 though or they're not the average person yeah so it's like we'll look at jlo and be like jlo got married

00:05:46.400 at 50 but you're not jlo you know what i mean it's like it's like like the average chick is not gonna

00:05:52.720 have jlo results right the average chick is not gonna have these ivf you have no idea we we have 1.00

00:06:00.240 celebrities that come out all the time and say they couldn't have children like jennifer aniston 0.84

00:06:04.400 yet we still focus on the ones that could when really maybe we should put jennifer aniston as the 0.98

00:06:09.520 face of the ones that couldn't that couldn't yeah i mean it's one of those things where society is

00:06:13.760 trying to tell us now women you can freeze your age you could do this if you really want to have 1.00

00:06:17.600 you know children society has to pick do you want us to be traditional or do you want us to be no

00:06:22.960 the women have to pick because the women have all the power we have the most sexual leverage first 1.00

00:06:28.640 so we're born with with i don't know what a beauty right we have beauty fertility youth men have to 0.99

00:06:34.560 become the things that are valuable to us money status looks i mean look i mean looks is but getting

00:06:40.800 like a woman can just be thin and have an amazing body a guy has to work years to get a good body 1.00

00:06:45.760 right lift do all that stuff and so it's like women if we we have to go first because we're 1.00

00:06:52.480 the ones that have to get married young then we have to stop making women feel bad for whatever 1.00

00:06:56.160 decision they make if you stop making women feel like you can't make it you can't make anybody feel

00:07:00.880 anything like like shame it comes from within like i think shame comes from god i think i think shame comes

00:07:06.480 from god i actually don't think nobody can make anybody feel shame you either say things and you

00:07:11.120 feel a certain way or you don't but think about it most people don't like to be judged right the average

00:07:15.440 person doesn't like to be judged it makes them feel some type of way so to duck judgment what do you do

00:07:20.320 you do things that you may not want to do or that you you know feel like you have to do just so you won't

00:07:25.120 be judged i am if we if we lived in a judgment free no i actually women women respond really well 1.00

00:07:31.840 to social shame i actually think we need more judgment not less and i think it would protect

00:07:36.640 women in the long run because we see the rate of women on antidepressants over the age of 45 if you

00:07:40.880 don't have children it's like one in three are on antidepressants the results of women that like when

00:07:46.560 we're we have when we're more promiscuous and we end up alone it's negative for women but the problem 1.00

00:07:52.000 is we have no social shame or stigma from women sleeping around and making poor choices that result in 1.00

00:07:57.840 us single and and i actually think women respond very well women have shown that they respond very

00:08:03.440 well to social shame but they sit there and they try to make a woman feel like you're not a woman or 0.98

00:08:09.520 they they give the narrative of you're not a woman you're not good enough of a woman if you don't have

00:08:14.400 a kid if you don't have a family that's what you were put here for instead of just being like well

00:08:18.880 i choice what's your choice do you want a kid everybody everybody has a choice but i do think over a

00:08:23.920 certain age if you don't have children like the world kind of will ask you why and but why is

00:08:29.360 that right though it's not about gay couples why don't they have children it's not about right or

00:08:35.840 wrong it's about the way like you know we can call it we can say it's not right but the fact of the

00:08:41.840 matter is people will look at you a certain way as a woman if you don't have kids by a certain age so 0.99

00:08:47.520 we gotta stop that we gotta stop no i disagree i because i don't think it's good for society

00:08:53.520 for women to not have children and it's not good for women it's not good for us oh i guess if we're

00:08:58.720 trying to get back to being feminine yeah but not everybody we could go we could go for two two

00:09:04.160 results here we could say what's good for society children replacing the population that's good for 0.89

00:09:10.640 society or if we want to be or if we want to be completely selfish let's just say okay let's do

00:09:16.000 what's good for us as women and it shows that we're more likely to be depressed if we have more

00:09:21.040 sexual partners we're more likely to i can't remember all the stats off the top of my head

00:09:26.400 but it's like we're more likely to be depressed we're more likely to have all of these issues the

00:09:29.680 more sexual partners we have and if we don't have a family over the age of 45 we become very depressed

00:09:36.560 and the data is super clear on this now i believe what about men if they have more sexual partners

00:09:42.320 they also get the difference the difference well no woman is a slut because man is a hero but there's 0.93

00:09:48.240 not there's not the same repercussions for men and for women because men care about women's body

00:09:52.560 count women don't typically care about men's body you know i actually i saw i saw some interesting 0.84

00:09:57.440 research that was measuring like different hormones and responses in men and women and they did find

00:10:05.120 that when a man and woman like sleep together like first time they've met there is like this oxytocin

00:10:13.680 like love response from the woman that isn't from the man where the man's like oxytocin starts to grow

00:10:21.040 where love starts to develop is when a woman is in his company getting to know him for weeks on end

00:10:28.400 and you know like i think i i yeah shame is absolutely a useful human adaptation and that's

00:10:35.440 why we've still got it but actually i think we could start with just giving women proper information

00:10:42.400 like i mean you know i think that so many young women are just given this message you know that

00:10:48.720 empowerment is slut walks and that there are no consequences and that that's just a clump of cells 1.00

00:10:55.040 if you want to get rid of it get rid of it and you will never have any second thoughts about it

00:10:59.520 definitely i think if we just have like frank and honest conversations we might be able to help women

00:11:05.120 to make the right choices for them i don't think there's any shame with like women getting to 50 and not 0.81

00:11:10.480 having a child if that's their decision like you know there are women who genuinely like they have

00:11:16.800 different life goals they cannot have um but when it's the case that actually they've just been

00:11:23.280 misguided they've been told that they didn't need to rush they've been told that they should focus on

00:11:27.840 their career and they get to 50 and they go oh my god i've made really bad decisions that have

00:11:33.680 got me to a place where i've got like half of my life to live regretting the fact that i didn't

00:11:40.080 well you know sort out the family you know 80 that's just really sad you know 80 of women that

00:11:44.960 don't have kids wish they had them yeah exactly yeah and so it's like i just think you know when

00:11:50.480 you when you hear from them they were lied to that is the issue uh king um can you pull up the super

00:11:58.080 chat it's my laptop died i don't think my charger how interesting why cannot older women adopt children 1.00

JustPearlyThings - July 10, 2023

Woman EXPOSES Her Gold Digging Tendencies

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