Woman EXPOSES Her Gold Digging Tendencies
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In this episode, we are joined by a very special guest who is the founder of a women's empowerment group called and we discuss the benefits of female empowerment. We discuss the importance of women in the workplace, the role of a woman in society and the role a woman should play in society. We also discuss the impact of social media on the dating scene and the impact it can have on men and women.
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we're gonna do one one more question then we're gonna close out the show
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all right if a man were to get a maid a prostitute and a cook
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to listen to him and to speak to him and to be a companion and to grow together that's the
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prostitutes i don't know they do that with prostitutes now i'm sorry i'm not too involved
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in the business yeah what what services is he buying is it the girlfriend experience yeah
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this is a high-end prostitute the bang and the clean this is like this is like the the epitome
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well i don't know i mean like maybe perhaps his wallet is getting a bit heavy so we could get a
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woman in to help him lighten the load a bit oh she like she could work no no she'll spend his money
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like he's actually physically struggling yeah he's obviously rich he's got a maid a prostitute
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on girlfriend experience and she's high class okay so yeah he just needs a woman in there
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what was that phrase you used earlier dispersing the money i love that that is so women like just
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dispersing the money i'm going to the high street i'm gonna help money disperse it's like confetti
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isn't it beautiful so what what would you do to compete so you go you i know this is a
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hypothetical he's got all those things what are you like what are you gonna do to like this is
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your dream guy no i i want to be doing those things for a man i love so if i went and you
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know i loved a man and he had a prostitute and a maid and a cook and he was like i'm happy with them
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if you can add more then come in i'd be like no i want to do those jobs i'll go and find some man who
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wants me only yeah let your man lead he wants his prostitutes i'm challenging him
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what about you um so if a guy has um what what can a woman bring if he has a maid a prostitute and a
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cook yeah i think i answered this all the things to do with the emotion and emotional side and support
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and friendship and companionship and uh actually telling him yes i agree with you or no i disagree
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with you and let's build this path together simple as that but teamwork absolutely everything's to do
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female or male is everything to do with the teamwork a family especially a family i could give you a
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family i can make this house a home i'm also your outlet because men get frustrated who you're gonna turn
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to hey you don't have to pay this to come on my shoulder and cry i'm here for you baby i'm gonna be
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your backbone i think everybody needs a backbone so if i could ask you that as a woman hey let me do it
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and if you get paralyzed i will pay this and i will look after you because this is what family is
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for what do you think listen i know guys that that live like that and um you know but for me it's it's
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you can have these people in your life but it's not authentic the connection is not authentic you
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mentioned companionship it's it's it's chemistry it's open heart relating with someone and and when
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you've got that with a with a woman that that it's amazing you know can i say one thing i do remember
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my rebuttal of women right now let me just say what was that i don't even remember it was about
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society when you were like oh lawyers you know you can't pay a woman to after 30 to stay in the work
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field right yeah and it all comes down to society it's a true point that yes we had this discussion
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that when the older woman is when she has a baby the more likely fertility goes down the baby could come out
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with you know all types of issues and stuff like that so women do leave the workforce at 30 because
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society puts that pressure on them to say you need to be married have your children and all that by at
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least 35 and 35 years old society does not tell you that biology does yeah you're at risk for geriatric
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yeah no society is going like they're doing everything they can to help with this issue but society gives
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you free mother nature's kind of cruel society gives you free birth control and abortions so i i
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don't think society but they're also they're also putting loads of resources into ivf and you know
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facilities to care for like the funny thing is if a woman and it's well and it's also you have less
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sexual market like you you're less um attractive to guys the older you are i mean that just is what it is
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like you're i think women you i think women age uh beautifully i think that's how you look after
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yourself yeah i think like your options the dating app data is really clear it's it's half of your
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options are gone by 30 from the time you're 18 to 30. half of your options i think that that women can
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age beautifully but like you know you don't stay as hot do you and and even and even uh even just
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from a fertility point of view if you're if you're 35 you're hitting geriatric pregnancy most of the
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time ivf fails so even if you do ivf after the age of 35 it's probably gonna fail so this idea that we
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like sell women like we yeah i really don't see i really don't see that they say have all your
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together by 35. if anything they lie to us and say you have all the time in the world when you don't
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if you if you're single by 30 as a woman you are more likely to not ever get married or have children
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than to get married and have children well that's depressing the more we're speaking the more i
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think i'm a man no but i think about i think nowadays the society is letting you like with
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people like janet jackson and who else just had a baby old like they're starting to show us that by 50
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you can still conceive no but celebrity but celebrities are why would you want celebrities are not you
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though or they're not the average person yeah so it's like we'll look at jlo and be like jlo got married
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at 50 but you're not jlo you know what i mean it's like it's like like the average chick is not gonna
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have jlo results right the average chick is not gonna have these ivf you have no idea we we have
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celebrities that come out all the time and say they couldn't have children like jennifer aniston
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yet we still focus on the ones that could when really maybe we should put jennifer aniston as the
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face of the ones that couldn't that couldn't yeah i mean it's one of those things where society is
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trying to tell us now women you can freeze your age you could do this if you really want to have
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you know children society has to pick do you want us to be traditional or do you want us to be no
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the women have to pick because the women have all the power we have the most sexual leverage first
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so we're born with with i don't know what a beauty right we have beauty fertility youth men have to
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become the things that are valuable to us money status looks i mean look i mean looks is but getting
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like a woman can just be thin and have an amazing body a guy has to work years to get a good body
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right lift do all that stuff and so it's like women if we we have to go first because we're
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the ones that have to get married young then we have to stop making women feel bad for whatever
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decision they make if you stop making women feel like you can't make it you can't make anybody feel
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anything like like shame it comes from within like i think shame comes from god i think i think shame comes
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from god i actually don't think nobody can make anybody feel shame you either say things and you
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feel a certain way or you don't but think about it most people don't like to be judged right the average
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person doesn't like to be judged it makes them feel some type of way so to duck judgment what do you do
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you do things that you may not want to do or that you you know feel like you have to do just so you won't
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be judged i am if we if we lived in a judgment free no i actually women women respond really well
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to social shame i actually think we need more judgment not less and i think it would protect
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women in the long run because we see the rate of women on antidepressants over the age of 45 if you
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don't have children it's like one in three are on antidepressants the results of women that like when
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we're we have when we're more promiscuous and we end up alone it's negative for women but the problem
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is we have no social shame or stigma from women sleeping around and making poor choices that result in
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us single and and i actually think women respond very well women have shown that they respond very
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well to social shame but they sit there and they try to make a woman feel like you're not a woman or
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they they give the narrative of you're not a woman you're not good enough of a woman if you don't have
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a kid if you don't have a family that's what you were put here for instead of just being like well
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i choice what's your choice do you want a kid everybody everybody has a choice but i do think over a
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certain age if you don't have children like the world kind of will ask you why and but why is
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that right though it's not about gay couples why don't they have children it's not about right or
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wrong it's about the way like you know we can call it we can say it's not right but the fact of the
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matter is people will look at you a certain way as a woman if you don't have kids by a certain age so
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we gotta stop that we gotta stop no i disagree i because i don't think it's good for society
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for women to not have children and it's not good for women it's not good for us oh i guess if we're
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trying to get back to being feminine yeah but not everybody we could go we could go for two two
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results here we could say what's good for society children replacing the population that's good for
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society or if we want to be or if we want to be completely selfish let's just say okay let's do
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what's good for us as women and it shows that we're more likely to be depressed if we have more
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sexual partners we're more likely to i can't remember all the stats off the top of my head
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but it's like we're more likely to be depressed we're more likely to have all of these issues the
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more sexual partners we have and if we don't have a family over the age of 45 we become very depressed
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and the data is super clear on this now i believe what about men if they have more sexual partners
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they also get the difference the difference well no woman is a slut because man is a hero but there's
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not there's not the same repercussions for men and for women because men care about women's body
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count women don't typically care about men's body you know i actually i saw i saw some interesting
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research that was measuring like different hormones and responses in men and women and they did find
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that when a man and woman like sleep together like first time they've met there is like this oxytocin
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like love response from the woman that isn't from the man where the man's like oxytocin starts to grow
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where love starts to develop is when a woman is in his company getting to know him for weeks on end
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and you know like i think i i yeah shame is absolutely a useful human adaptation and that's
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why we've still got it but actually i think we could start with just giving women proper information
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like i mean you know i think that so many young women are just given this message you know that
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empowerment is slut walks and that there are no consequences and that that's just a clump of cells
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if you want to get rid of it get rid of it and you will never have any second thoughts about it
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definitely i think if we just have like frank and honest conversations we might be able to help women
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to make the right choices for them i don't think there's any shame with like women getting to 50 and not
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having a child if that's their decision like you know there are women who genuinely like they have
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different life goals they cannot have um but when it's the case that actually they've just been
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misguided they've been told that they didn't need to rush they've been told that they should focus on
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their career and they get to 50 and they go oh my god i've made really bad decisions that have
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got me to a place where i've got like half of my life to live regretting the fact that i didn't
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well you know sort out the family you know 80 that's just really sad you know 80 of women that
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don't have kids wish they had them yeah exactly yeah and so it's like i just think you know when
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you when you hear from them they were lied to that is the issue uh king um can you pull up the super
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chat it's my laptop died i don't think my charger how interesting why cannot older women adopt children