JustPearlyThings - August 10, 2023


Woman Gets CHEATED On In The Worst Way Possible

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Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

177.29

Word count

1,671

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

5

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

3

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Summary

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In this episode, we are joined by a very special guest who has a very interesting story to tell. We talk about what it's like being in a threesome with a man who wants to have sex in front of you, cheating on your partner, and how to deal with a partner who wants you to have threesomes with them.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
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00:00:00.000 um everyone rate themselves one to ten can't use seven right yeah um one to ten go around
00:00:09.220 can't use seven i'll start i think i'm a five why five six six okay it's very common for females to 1.00
00:00:20.000 say seven that's why really yeah really i don't know why she's right that's usually everyone
00:00:26.800 thinks they're seven typically so it's like eight eight is your model six is your you're cute
00:00:32.500 sevens in between so most people think they're sevens okay but you said six
00:00:38.620 oh five okay you think you're five okay six guys i've become a ten
00:00:46.120 so are you joking or are you serious i'm serious you think you're a ten yeah who what what
00:00:56.340 celebrity would you put as a ten what other one that's a girl um i don't really care for
00:01:02.360 celebrities um who would i put as a ten oh sanna layton so you have the same looks as her 1.00
00:01:08.160 i don't think looks like rating one to ten oh that's what we're waiting for i was talking
00:01:12.180 about my holes um even if it's your whole self you don't think there's any room for improvement
00:01:18.100 of course i think there's room for improvement but i feel like i love myself 100 every stage
00:01:24.240 that i'm at so that's how i always call myself a 10 even though i can improve that makes sense
00:01:30.060 9.5 then 9.5 what about in the eyes of men would you think that generally speaking typically
00:01:35.740 the majority of men would rate you uh maybe majority of men majority of men is not my type
00:01:43.580 um six maybe six five six point five i'd give myself a eight uh based on feedback i would say
00:01:57.080 faces are eight bodies are eight based on reality and who i am and the fact that i have a child i
00:02:04.900 didn't even go beyond five i'd say four because how i am as a person i'm not looking for a man
00:02:10.580 i'm not interested in a guy and that's where i'm at as a person i'd say four if you had a
00:02:15.400 conversation with me you'd know i'm not interested in a guy
00:02:18.320 if you guys had to pick two of the three looks money and loyalty what would you pick
00:02:24.820 looks and loyalty looks and loyalty
00:02:29.900 i i based on your answers earlier that's what what do you think um looks and money money
00:02:39.260 loyalty and money
00:02:43.080 looks and money loyalty and money loyalty and money loyalty and money so for the people that
00:02:55.120 says they they give up loyalty why i think you said that and you said that because loyalty is
00:03:00.380 measured under the benefit of the doubt and to be honest every single human that is raised in a
00:03:06.200 modern society put them in a right scenario they would basically be not loyal to you
00:03:14.060 you think the same yeah i think the same i mean i feel like at some point someone's probably going
00:03:24.340 to cheat on you so i'd rather cry in a ferrari than a fiesta to be honest
00:03:29.560 have um have you ever been cheated on no no never have you ever been cheated on i have yeah
00:03:37.160 how'd you find out
00:03:38.160 i'm very good at identifying red flags
00:03:43.200 very good so what happened but you found out yourself was it was it it was it a phone phone
00:03:52.220 looker um no there was actually very quite brave about it okay okay a story um my partner at the
00:04:00.060 time actually cheated right in front of my face and i thought they were joking wait what yeah okay was
00:04:07.280 it at a bar or something so they basically kept on requesting for a threesome and i declined a couple
00:04:14.280 times but then i thought i mean the second time i actually got really mad like physically mad with
00:04:20.360 that person but they asked me the third time i thought is this a joke like we went into a big
00:04:24.680 argument the first time physical argument the second time and i asked me again the third time
00:04:28.680 thought okay cool this is a joke i said yeah no problem sarcastic yeah no no problem he's like yeah
00:04:33.900 i said yeah no problem he actually picked up the female and booked a hotel i honestly thought
00:04:39.100 he was joking and i didn't realize okay i realized he wasn't joking when he picked her up but then he
00:04:46.740 started to kiss her in the car and at that point i was shocked and i thought to myself let me actually
00:04:52.360 see if he's gonna actually have sex in front of me but you agreed to it though how is he supposed to
00:04:58.300 no but it wasn't no if you said yes you said it man very very honest i was being very very sarcastic 0.99
00:05:07.500 you can tell in my voice that i was really joking especially if you had a physical you're wicked 0.52
00:05:13.500 you run with it no i'm in common after the third time and i'm now saying yes after when we had an
00:05:19.660 argument and a physical maybe you just thought he was persuasive he was trying to see how how you
00:05:27.740 would yeah yeah how much he could get yeah he was testing your boundaries 100 percent i don't know
00:05:33.660 how far did they how far did they go with this oh they went all out i had to sit there and watch you
00:05:39.580 watch oh my god my things oh i hope you threw him in the bin of course yeah of course good of course
00:05:48.300 oh lord yo wow wait wait wait wait so what they done the full shaman in front of you in front of me
00:05:58.620 and you didn't do nothing how could you sit there and watch that yeah why would you do nothing did you
00:06:04.060 did you say at any point that you weren't okay with it during this no i mean you could tell by my body
00:06:08.940 i don't know if you're dealing with your face it's like it's like someone saying that they're
00:06:17.500 going to do a threesome sarcastically and you're having sex with someone and they're literally just
00:06:21.740 in one corner of the room you say that sarcastically though then yeah how can you say you're going to 0.87
00:06:27.420 have a threesome sarcastically i want to know this guy this guy just thought this was his chance
00:06:34.620 what did he say when you broke up with him did he say that he thought you were serious 0.80
00:06:39.820 he he he literally just took the piss i don't think he respected you at all for him to do that
00:06:45.420 yeah i've just honestly feel like he just know it depends how it went because obviously if you're
00:06:49.500 in a relationship and you agree to it yeah but obviously yeah but she sarcastically if he thought 0.99
00:06:55.660 she was sarcastic she really thinks a man's going to be so brazen she's his girlfriend when you're in 0.90
00:07:00.140 a relationship she's agreed to from the back of your head when you started like if i wasn't okay with it
00:07:07.740 i'd be like what the hell are you doing yeah from the beginning yeah sorry so if you're saying 0.55
00:07:12.140 nothing like you don't think that's confusing to the guy no no because your partner knows you like
00:07:17.580 my partner knows me i don't even have to talk and he knows i'm in a bad mood like your partner should 0.99
00:07:22.860 know you and you said what you said he should have been like oh i'm in trouble no guys are not stupid
00:07:30.140 men should read minds and not listen to the words that come out of our mouth 0.91
00:07:33.740 no men just need to know they should they should just know you yeah men should just stop gaslighting 0.97
00:07:39.100 us and pretending that they're dumb because you're not dumb you know what you're doing you're testing 0.88
00:07:43.980 her boundaries no but if you're in a relationship right i'm not saying i've done this because i haven't 0.97
00:07:49.900 and say a guy is generally interested in that kind of aspect of intimacy okay then you have
00:07:55.420 a conversation if he feels that way no no but yeah i get that there's obviously a miscommunication
00:08:01.340 breakdown yeah if he's gone all the way like something's wrong something's not right there
00:08:06.220 or he's just sorry to say just doesn't respect her like at all yeah but he does though because he
00:08:12.780 must have respected that to ask her in the first place but he probably didn't even ask because you
00:08:17.100 were not men in this three times he asked me three times three times he got married twice three times
00:08:23.340 i mean how many times do girls ask for a ring and they get it a lot of the times but if you had 1.00
00:08:28.060 an argument i know that your name was more than three times they'll ask for girls girls and guys have
00:08:32.540 arguments about getting married all the time women are always nagging on men to get married and they give 1.00
00:08:36.860 in but no one second guesses that yeah i think that he was persistent but this is extreme like you
00:08:44.140 know three times so is signing a contract that could ruin your life men commit suicide over divorce yeah
00:08:51.580 that's one of the number one predictors of suicide if a guy gets divorced so that's pretty serious
00:08:59.180 yeah well i mean they can always say no and so could she yeah but i feel like she was just too
00:09:05.580 traumatized to even talk yeah honestly when it was happening in shock but she's learned from it
00:09:11.660 probably in shock she was i wasn't shocked how is your brain even processed that i wanted to test
00:09:16.300 is that why you couldn't leave yeah you were trying to finish that just she just said she wanted to
00:09:20.540 test his boundaries at the same time so obviously it was a game set him up man you don't do that