Woman Gets Clowned For Saying This...
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Summary
In this episode we talk about toxic women and how to deal with them. We also talk about how women can be just as bad as men when it comes to being a narcissist and trap men in relationships. We talk about the dangers of getting pregnant with someone you don t want to get pregnant with and why it s important to be careful with who you have sex with.
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Have you ever promised to go on a date and not get, not went?
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I'm pretty sure all girls have entertained guys like plenty of times in their lifetime.
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I want to go on to the Friday night entertainment.
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You can say like a rotation entertainment, ha, ha, ha.
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I do think women can be just as bad as men, though.
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No, I've just like seen how like some women treat men and like, you know,
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I think social media especially has like become a breeding ground for narcissism
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But I do also think the term's thrown around very loosely.
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And a lot of people are accused of being a narcissist when they're actually not.
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You said you could think of a narcissistic girl.
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I've heard lots of stories and it's actually like heartbreaking because a lot of the time
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these men really care for these women and they're trapped in this abusive relationship.
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And then they have all this baby mum and dad job, but it's like, it's mad.
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When it comes to like trapping a man with a baby, you need to be careful who you sleep
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If you're sleeping with people loosely and you run the risk of getting that person pregnant.
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So you have to, you have to sit, like you dug your grave.
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Do you remember what we said earlier about if you only go into a relationship with that
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person, you date that person if you want to be with them and you get into a relationship
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And then you'd only sleep with that person if you're like, do you know what I mean?
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Yeah, but at the same time, at the same time, if you don't want a baby, then you need
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to wrap up because as much as it takes two to tango, you need to protect yourself for
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Like, yeah, the woman can say she's on the pill, she's on this, she's on that.
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You said you've, you've heard of a girl trapping a guy.
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We're just baiting people's business out today.
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But obviously, someone in the music industry, I'm going to put out who it is.
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Obviously, yeah, he was obviously dating, I think this like, girl, OnlyFans girl.
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And, yeah, and then obviously his energy kind of switched, right?
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I know she's toxic because she used to, I heard from other girls, that she used to block,
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she used to go on his phone and block certain goals.
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And he used to go, and she'd go through people's like, Insta stories and stuff.
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And then afterwards, obviously, who knows how she got pregnant.
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And then, but obviously, again, it was, it was, it wasn't serious.
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He was doing it mainly for pleasure because of her body, right?
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You know, we've got beautiful lady panelists and stuff.
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But obviously, in that case of obviously trapping him, it's crazy because now it's messed up
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And he's kind of like hiding away from everyone, almost.
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And obviously, that can impact the man mentally as well.
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And I think a lot of people don't focus on a man's mental health as well.
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And I think females are all like, oh, we're emotional.
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But obviously, men are taught to obviously keep that away.
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But also, what I would say is like once a woman, like when a woman actually falls pregnant,
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it's a very, very, very difficult decision to make whether to keep it or to get rid of it.
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Because you get an emotional attachment to that baby.
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You might tell yourself, oh, I don't want a baby.
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You guys don't think about the consequences of your actions.
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I feel like this generation likes so much awareness.
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Are you aware of, like, what you're doing and the consequences?
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I would say we use it as a form of birth control.
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I mean, I know people might have different views,
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Yeah, I think if you don't want to get pregnant,
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then you need to, like, take the precautions to not get pregnant.
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Obviously, if you need to have an abortion, then, like, you get an abortion.
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Because there's women out there that can't have children.
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it can actually stop you from having kids in the future.
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Unfortunately, I haven't seen my period for four years,
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but recently I got my period through some prophet that prayed for me.
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And did you know that was a possible side effect?
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This was actually what the polycystic ovarian syndrome,
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Inside of me, and then I would notice that I wasn't, like, getting pregnant,
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and I was gaining so much weight really quickly,
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and I started growing excess hair in certain places.
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So those are all the side effects of getting polycystic ovarian syndromes.
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And then I went to the doctors, found out I had it, and, yeah.
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but I knew that in due time, things will work out in my favor,
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It's not impossible not to have kids, but it's harder, ten times harder.
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Do you wish they told you about that before you took it?
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Because I feel like a lot of girls really don't know about the side effects.
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I've never really been on it because when I heard about birth control,
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I was like, you're going to stop me from getting pregnant.
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I want that education in that aspect when it comes to contraception methods.
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They teach you a little bit at school, but not completely, like, the full deal.
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But even when you go and, like, get it prescribed,
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There's so many women that go on contraception,
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and then they struggle to get pregnant afterwards.
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Like, they're like, oh, your fertility goes back to normal straight away.
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and three years down the line, they still can't have a child
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because they've been on contraception for so long.
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Do you guys believe that the label toxic is overused in relationships today?
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And then I hear in their stories that, you know, there's different,
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like I said, there's different heights of toxic, levels of toxicness.
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And again, it's what you perceive the word toxic to mean.
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But I do think that toxic relationships and, like, just with anyone,
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it's, like, really, like, promoted on social media.
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Like, toxic love, like, everyone wants to be a part of it.
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Yeah, like, with Krishon and, and what's his name, Blueface?
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That's why I don't understand why they get so much,
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They're probably so, both so depressed and unhappy in that situation.
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I feel like, for them to be toxic, you have to have a very strong head.
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Like, for them to be toxic, they know what they're doing.
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It's like, they don't, it's not like they don't know what they're doing.
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From what I've seen, that's what it looks like.
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Yeah, I mean, to be honest, I feel like with toxic relationships, you get that adrenaline rush from, like, when things are good.
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And then when it goes, like, really bad, you just think about the good times, which is why you stay with that person rather than the negative.
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You feel like you're making excuses for yourself to stay.
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Yeah, and obviously it's so up and down, like, once it goes down, you're like, oh my God, I can't wait for it to, like, go back up again, like, and everything to be good.
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Because you guys go through, like, really good phases and it's, like, really bad.
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You cling on to that little bit of hope, almost, that good part.
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And the cons will eventually outweigh the pros.
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No, but some people have grown up in, even, like, a toxic household, like, with toxic families.
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Like, also, like, how someone's been raised has a big impact on, like, the type of men they go for.
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She's going to be, me and her are going to be, I'm telling you now.
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Me and her are going to be opposite each other, working on, you know, Skims, X.
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As far as you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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