JustPearlyThings - Woman Left SPEECHLESS After This

00:00:00.000 I hear your concern and I'm sure a lot of people have the same concerns as you

00:00:04.380 but what I'm trying to get you to understand is somehow in some way as much as you have your

00:00:09.540 opinion it is a little bit prejudiced you know and I get that your prejudice may come from

00:00:16.040 your personal concerns but it is still prejudice and I think that you know you have to understand

00:00:21.160 that when you've got these viewpoints yeah sometimes it's hypocritical because and that's

00:00:25.280 why I'm using sexuality that's why I'm saying there's probably women in your bathroom that

00:00:30.440 are checking you out if they're gay if they're lesbians so for you can be pretty aggressive

00:00:35.480 dismiss them and then jump on transit but there's no policy that we can push but you can't do that

00:00:46.100 because there's again he was saying there's no sign on their head saying that they're gay and they

00:00:49.340 don't have to they don't have and I'm not saying they're trans yeah but it is so obvious oh my

00:00:55.820 gosh it is so obvious especially especially men like men that become women it's so obvious you can

00:01:02.180 tell not always no but when you say not always that's like a very small percentage I think the

00:01:08.060 vast majority you can because of the access to care no it's so the access to surgery how many people

00:01:13.480 like trans people have you guys but not everyone has access to surgery it's so expensive exactly it's

00:01:18.620 so expensive to make somebody acceptably trans for you for society they have to go through all

00:01:24.500 these surgeries is that what you're saying it's crazy I'm not saying I'm not I'm saying by identifying

00:01:29.660 I'm not talking about except no I mean I just don't think was why if they're stealth then they can go

00:01:34.160 into the toilet right so if you don't if you don't realize that there's not about I just don't

00:01:38.780 think it's like because you're not because you're not you're not on edge because they don't have an

00:01:41.920 Adam's apple no I just think it's like why do I have to agree to the delusion like you're not it

00:01:48.020 doesn't make you the opposite gender because you dress like it and get some surgery some people

00:01:52.340 aren't necessarily even trying to access that they're not even trying to be cisgender some

00:01:56.700 people are not trying to be like their cis counterparts some people are just trying to

00:02:02.600 make the outside match the inside and that doesn't necessarily mean that they will claim that they

00:02:07.820 are cisgender it doesn't it doesn't mean that they want to necessarily be cisgender it just means that

00:02:13.220 they actually feels mad uncomfortable with a beard they feel mad uncomfortable with the fact that they've

00:02:17.700 got you know leg hair they've got they're uncomfortable with their genitalia and they

00:02:22.040 don't like it then it doesn't match them but then if they decide to to to alter their outside or to

00:02:28.360 start you know changing how they look and making themselves feel pretty the way that they feel that

00:02:33.660 they should then they can't go into a men's toilet safely I kind of want to steal man pearl a little bit

00:02:38.520 because I I want to say the majority of trans women don't think they're cis women but there are some

00:02:44.100 people that are delusional and they push it to a point so it's like we can't just but I'm saying

00:02:48.440 it's like it was but I'm saying when when you're forcing us to accept them as women and treat them

00:02:57.100 as women then it's like you're forcing me to live in the delusion when I can see you're clearly not so

00:03:02.480 like when I'm forced to play with them now I have to you know and I didn't even get a choice in this

00:03:06.780 like now I have to succumb to their delusion I'm guessing in sports it's more obvious

00:03:11.120 even in the locker room because I go into the locker room now I have to

00:03:14.740 now I have to pretend that they're supposed to be there now I have to go to the

00:03:18.780 bathrooms and pretend people have been pretending like trans people don't exist

00:03:22.380 where I didn't say they don't they clearly exist but trans people have been a part of society for

00:03:26.920 for like well since time again but the issue the issue but the issue we get to is that if we

00:03:32.840 don't if we don't give a hard line then later there will be consequences and that's what you

00:03:36.980 see with that with the the men going into female prisons and they and they get raped there's a

00:03:42.460 couple cases in California that just happened in we already some ending but we've already prepped for

00:03:48.060 that so we have a transgender wing to but we have the same problem we did have a transgender woman

00:03:53.060 rape a woman because that was really stupid because she wasn't like she wasn't post-op or anything

00:03:59.220 was really dumb I feel like there are some situations where people just turn their brains off

00:04:04.040 but my problem is like if that's why I just think we make it simple biological men biological women

00:04:09.360 because when you start when you start getting into all these when you get into all these exceptions

00:04:14.040 like then there are people that are faced consequences and usually it's not you it's someone else

00:04:18.760 yeah I do think the transgender wing was important because it's obviously it's keeping trans women

00:04:23.020 safe from men but it's also keeping you know cis women safe so I think that was a good but that is

00:04:30.100 an example of a compromise right we didn't just know the trans women in with the men no but I would

00:04:35.020 I would I would just keep it men women there would be no trans you're a black and white thinker this

00:04:43.140 this makes your brain smooth I like black and white thinking too so I understand can I just say

00:04:48.740 sometimes it's not about thinking black and white it's just you know how some people well I was

00:04:53.860 raised to think that if I'm a woman I go into the woman's bathroom I have brothers when they go

00:04:59.300 toilet they go to the men's bathroom but at home you use the same toilet right at home we use the

00:05:03.440 same toilet because we are family because we are family and because we are friends because we are

00:05:08.740 family and because we are friends what was the last thing you said when you go to a house party when

00:05:11.480 you're meeting people that you don't know but you're still using the same toilet right yes 100%

00:05:14.820 you survive the party yeah but you don't but at a house party I would go at a house party I would

00:05:22.980 go with the girls and you talk in the bathroom I would not bring a guy to do that and you know it's

00:05:28.660 different like we go we go into it it is an experience you know that you know the I'm enjoying

00:05:35.160 this because I'm not the most most woke person here I'm kind of in the middle it's great it's great I

00:05:40.200 enjoy it but um when it comes to some bathrooms specifically um I don't want to disregard how

00:05:48.420 anxious and scared women often feel in general like if you don't know somewhere where you're

00:05:52.680 going in your art in public you're always kind of on edge and society kind of pushes you to be this

00:05:57.980 way because if you're not on edge and constantly have your guard up you're often blamed for things

00:06:02.340 that are bad that happen to you so you're either constantly anxious or constantly not paying

00:06:08.200 attention and then blamed for the bad things that happen to you and that's not trans women's fault

00:06:13.880 but it's something we should take into consideration just the experience of being a cis woman again

00:06:18.440 women both both women we are protected classes and whilst we have some similarities we are also

00:06:24.200 different we're like two circles that partly overlap that don't completely overlap and it's important

00:06:28.680 not to just completely discredit these differences

00:06:33.560 um okay so where do we land on bathrooms so you guys bathrooms i think it should be fine

00:06:40.360 i really just want to get it all right who says no i'm gonna i just want hands they have to get

00:06:45.080 their own unit okay half and half i mean own units is good like i just keep everything unisex

00:06:50.360 put a camera outside the cubicle everyone's gonna be there it's like a unisex cubicle you can just

00:06:56.040 have cubicle cubicle cubicle cubicle camera it's not that deep like i just don't understand why

00:07:00.120 it's that i don't want to see no old ladies i'm sorry i'm sorry you can still have your chat in front of

00:07:06.680 the mirror the mirror will still be there for you there will just be a camera watching you have your

00:07:10.760 chat doing your makeup so that everyone is safe when you walk in how about that no because then again it's

00:07:15.400 like we have to make all these exceptions for like one percent of the population everyone should like

00:07:20.600 it so if it's only one percent of the population like i just think that we're where these people

00:07:25.480 um you know we are a what's the words uh when something's like a small amount of you know i'm

00:07:34.280 saying that it's such a small percentage i just don't see how like it's it's gonna be an issue you

00:07:40.200 know for these these type of people because it's not an issue till it becomes an issue they're so

00:07:44.600 there's such a small percentage you said just one percent like if there was there's one percent of

00:07:49.880 millionaires okay if there was yeah but that's different because you know that's that's not a

00:07:54.040 league that's not like a league that's just people's successes and stuff but if you're trying to put

00:07:57.560 people together in terms of like leagues of sports and things like that it's going to be difficult

00:08:03.960 with just one percent to form a whole league of just one gender of people and the more we're

00:08:09.720 speaking about it the more i'm starting to see that it wouldn't be a bad thing you know it

00:08:14.360 genuinely would not be a bad thing to have a separate but then there would need to be a more

00:08:20.200 uh neat like more more amounts of people like let's say for example female football female football

00:08:26.040 you know 30 years ago didn't really exist i i don't know how correct that is but i'm just kind

00:08:31.400 of giving an estimate but as time progresses it's getting more watched it's getting more appreciated

00:08:36.840 more people are going towards it but initially there wasn't enough women playing football for there to be a

00:08:42.680 league and i think with transgender people the more transgender people that come forward and say

00:08:47.480 you know what i'd like to play a sport and and face these type of difficulties of prejudice and

00:08:53.240 whether it's prejudice or just you know technical whatever it is i just think they can create this

00:08:57.320 league you know i think in life you know we've kind of said that we shouldn't be excluded from

00:09:01.720 anything and i think some things yeah people should be excluded from like for example i don't really think

00:09:07.400 women um like we don't play football i mean not not really it's not really it's like it's a very

00:09:13.400 fringe right so we can but we can talk about like in the normal school the normal college you're not

00:09:18.680 going to go on and find a football team right and you know maybe there's special colleges that do that

00:09:24.520 on occasion when there's a high population of women that want to play but the rule is there's no football

00:09:29.480 league when it comes to sports i think it's rather than no but i'm saying the same thing with the

00:09:33.640 bathrooms like okay if there's a ton in one area fine but like demanding that there's bathrooms in

00:09:40.200 all these locations when we could just go by biological sex it's easier yeah but you don't okay

00:09:45.160 so biological sex when you see someone walking into the women's toilet with a beard yeah you can't give

00:09:49.240 them a little side eye yeah it's gonna be if i walk into the women's if you walk into the women's toilet

00:09:54.040 and you see somebody walking behind you walking with a beard and a penis you can't give them side eye

00:10:00.600 because there will be i mean if we're gonna be honest i'd rather neither i'd rather neither but

00:10:06.040 you know but we we got to go to biology yes people exist and i think biologically it wouldn't work that

00:10:11.320 way unless unless people continue to use the the bathrooms of the gender that they've that they are

00:10:18.520 claiming yeah or that they were assigned at birth or that they were assigned at birth it's either that or

00:10:23.720 like you say you know they they make a special bathroom for transgender people because this idea of

00:10:31.160 a transgender woman with a beard going into a woman's toilet or a transgender man with breasts

00:10:37.160 going into men's toilet is just absolutely crazy i mean it doesn't make any sense i think it's

00:10:41.880 crazier than someone with male parts going into a woman's bathroom i think that's way crazier i would

00:10:48.600 take someone with a beard over like females i would take a beard over a dick but you don't know what that

00:10:56.680 beard comes with yeah so if someone was assigned female at birth they've transitioned to male

00:11:01.560 yeah and you're saying that they need to go with their biological sex yeah or their gender assigned at

00:11:06.760 birth yeah so they could have gone through every single process to have bottom surgery have top surgery

00:11:14.360 they've been through hormone therapy they've been on hormones for like 10 years they look like a

00:11:20.040 they look like a cisgender man but they've just followed you into a women's toilet because you said

00:11:25.000 that biological women should go into women's toilet women's toilets already completely separate

00:11:30.440 cubicles am i missing something like i've never seen a transgender person's pp like ever

00:11:38.440 but the whole point i do think changing rooms is a bit different but bathrooms is just like

00:11:43.000 i mean yeah i just i don't i don't think we should be forced to share a bathroom with men

00:11:48.120 like that i'm just trying to figure out how you'd know like unless like someone is obviously close to

00:11:52.200 their trying it's close to the beginning of their transition i mean we already have a lot of units

00:11:55.800 then i don't know i don't know how you would know i mean it's it's pretty i mean i'm not even trying

00:12:01.960 to be rude it's pretty it's pretty obvious like you can you can usually tell like even in this room

00:12:06.760 it was pretty easy for me to tell but does it really matter unless they do something really bad

00:12:11.880 does it matter like if you just see them coming in or out like you're forcing me to pretend that

00:12:17.960 there's something that they're not and i don't think that you can still think that what they are you just

00:12:21.800 yeah everyone's entitled to their own opinion but we're supposed to have the it's supposed to be

00:12:26.680 women the women's locker room the women's bathroom and so it's like when we have to be okay with them

00:12:32.600 coming in again it's like you're asking me to accept that there's something that they're not

00:12:37.480 no i don't do you know what it's not because your put your opinion at that point would have to be

00:12:41.800 relevant to the person using the bathroom so like for example if a transgender person came into the

00:12:46.760 bathroom and had to put up with your negative prejudice negativity yes then it's up to that

00:12:53.720 person if they give you air time if if they think that you're just i would go i'm actually like a

00:13:00.600 karen so i would go to the like manager and i would say hey there's a man in the bathroom and they'd

00:13:06.040 probably ask you to leave so who who would they probably ask you to well and this woke culture yes

00:13:11.720 but i'm trying to stop they really look completely like a man or are they a transgender woman they're

00:13:16.600 trying the best see i get really confused all the words like the trans cis it just confuses me a bit

00:13:22.920 but if we're gonna go to the men that become women i i would say it's very easy to tell like at that

00:13:28.840 tournament i could say that one that one that one i would say the other way around it's a little harder

00:13:35.080 but it's still pretty easy to tell the trans women that you've met would all of them bother you or

00:13:40.120 some bother you more than others or just your feelings all of them bother you about the same

00:13:45.320 all of them i would not want in the bathroom with me yeah i feel like we should base being sort of

00:13:53.400 wary of people on when they actually do something bad no but again the policies again the poli because

00:14:00.760 the issue is if we let allow them in the bathrooms then what's next then it's the prisons then it's the

00:14:06.840 sports like it just never stops so i mean there's always something they're going to be fighting for

00:14:11.960 i get what you guys are trying to say in terms of my mindset i definitely believe that what you think

00:14:16.200 is what will manifest but what i'm trying to understand is are you guys trying to say that

00:14:20.360 racism does not exist at all and it's just this fantasy not as much as we're talking about it right

00:14:25.240 now and not as much as the oppression of women and as much as feminists believe that feminists like are

00:14:31.160 held back and that we need to be empowered to ask like what how do we empower women oh motherhood

00:14:36.040 okay mothers have always been respected so it's a lot of this people like to have and this is what

00:14:41.480 wokeness does we like to have reasons to justify our existence and where our place in the world

00:14:47.240 like we're held back because of white oppression i'm a feminist i'm an immigrant and this is why i'm

00:14:52.280 where i'm at it makes us feel better about our position in life but if you let go of those attachments

00:14:56.680 and just understand that the world is what you make it you will succeed and you will be better

00:15:00.520 these ways so like racism it's all garbage it's all meant to keep us like down and at the bottom

00:15:06.040 the black lives matter movement for example was all garbage all psyop all that was a scam same with

00:15:10.760 the feminist movement any of these ideologies that people grasp on to feel better same thing with all

00:15:14.920 these people talking about ukraine and russia like you're not going to change it just go get some money

00:15:19.240 and start a family and just stop attaching yourself to stuff that you have no control over and that and

00:15:23.480 that's the point and he's dead on because like for example people get all up flustered about who wins

00:15:30.360 a presidency oh trump's president dude i don't give a who wins president you could be president

00:15:34.280 tomorrow i'm still gonna win bet your ass i don't care what the condition is i don't care who's in

00:15:39.320 the office you do any of you could be president tomorrow and i'm still gonna get up and go to

00:15:42.600 work the next day can i tell you something very interesting do you know why racism actually exists

00:15:47.160 because nobody said it didn't exist it's not a way to lead your identity it's actually very annoying

00:15:51.640 because what people don't understand is that sometimes you're walking amongst black people

00:15:56.200 or even sometimes a black person will go into a shop and the security guard will look at them and

00:15:59.640 follow them they don't even know they're looking at prints because that's pattern recognition

00:16:04.280 no this the only problem pattern recognition no no no listen listen yeah the problem is that

00:16:09.720 with this whole idea of racism what people talk about for me i find racism to be an insult because

00:16:14.360 people look at the skin the color of my skin and they assume i'm lower than what i am actually but

00:16:19.000 no they don't no they actually they do they actually do but but but coming from the two

00:16:24.040 girls that brought up race though that's the thing you bring up race immediately the show

00:16:28.680 been going on five minutes of course because you both bring up black i never never in my mind was

00:16:33.560 i like can i ask you a question um you said it like they who is they uh just overall the general

00:16:41.080 population in this country at least so would you say like everyone would you say like everyone in this

00:16:45.960 room i don't think that's true i don't think that's true in london no i'll explain to you why

00:16:50.440 in london i'll explain to you why they hear my accent a lot of the time they see my my skin i just

00:16:55.400 want to know who wait wait who is people just people in general i guess so i met you in london so

00:17:00.200 i'm asking you like they is that this this room is that like everyone here just met you today

00:17:04.920 they i mean this is this is the people that don't matter to me i don't need to know their names this is

00:17:09.240 and i'm just saying this is a good sample size of people these are all random people like okay you

00:17:13.560 know and i know we know each other but of course outside of that of course i relate to a lot of

00:17:17.960 these girls could you be projecting insecurities onto other people though making assumptions about

00:17:22.040 what people think about you because when i met you i didn't think i didn't think oh she's lower

00:17:25.480 or she's anything else you know whatever i mean i just thought yeah cool girl nice nice

00:17:29.160 i thought good tv you know i'll explain to you why and this is the same thing with then that goes

00:17:36.840 perhaps that links more into feminism is that i just don't like the fact that people assume less of my

00:17:43.160 capabilities based on something i don't know that they do no and this is the thing i'll tell you

00:17:47.800 who her she's the one that put it out in the universe let me tell you let me tell you let me

00:17:51.640 tell you it's not this is victor mike said literally what she said my biggest comments yeah guys you

00:17:58.280 guys are troublesome then my biggest comments is like look at this stupid girl what does she know

00:18:02.520 i told mr king riches that i could fix a bentley and he laughed well how could you be why because i'm

00:18:07.960 a girl that's the thing so feminism what i think feminism so it's king riches then why not

00:18:13.000 say why not say but why not respond to king rich and say because i have the skill set yes and that's

00:18:18.840 the whole point doesn't that's why feminism as well what the girls are trying to say what is the

00:18:23.320 point listen listen what i believe girls are trying to say is that listen don't look at the fact that

00:18:27.080 i'm a girl i've got the skill set so respect me for my skill set then lead with it that's it and i

00:18:32.200 lead with that i have the skills of course and the only reason why i measure my race is to separate

00:18:37.320 myself from the most women don't have the skill set to fix a car can we just call a spade a spade

00:18:42.920 it's not it's not feminism holding us back it's us choosing not to get that skill so people assume

00:18:48.760 that but i don't know how you can link that to me saying that feminism is holding this no you

00:18:52.680 because you were you were saying that like people assume that you couldn't fix a bm or so people

00:18:57.080 assume that you couldn't fix a bmw yeah and somehow that's tied to who cares no it doesn't matter

00:19:02.600 that's what i'm saying feminism doesn't matter girls just want credit for what they can do

00:19:07.720 i will give you 200 pounds if you can fix a bmw we can do a video let's do it oh my god stay tuned

00:19:14.280 watch it i'll teach you i'll match it i'll match it because i love that and if you can no i'll match

00:19:19.960 it yeah i'm actually doing a series guys make sure that you subscribe to my channel i'll double

00:19:24.120 i love that and watch me fix the car i fix the change batteries change tires fix the electric

00:19:30.040 system why because i know how to use google very well and i practiced and i did it love it

00:19:34.600 love it i think anyone who hasn't experienced racism shouldn't say anything about it full stop

00:19:40.840 well okay cool so i grew up quite a while five years five years in a black neighborhood i got in a

00:19:45.880 fight every other day for it okay because i had red hair they called me rooster i literally got in fights

00:19:49.880 every day so you got bullied that's not racism exactly exactly what racism is it's not racism

00:19:59.240 he wasn't oppressed we were the ones that oppressed so you can't call that how are you oppressed in

00:20:03.320 2023 how are you oppressed because i got news for you honey if you had a skill set that was worth

00:20:08.200 something to somebody you would be the richest in here so slavery didn't exist that slavery exists

00:20:12.680 slavery exists yeah it also it also existed for the iris i'm not trying to belittle what happened to

00:20:17.080 why i would never no i'm not why are people in the uk talking about slavery no no no no here's why

00:20:23.320 there was no slaves here here's why no this is very important can we stop this is very important

00:20:28.280 to me i have a lot of young black men that follow me there's no way on earth i'm

00:20:33.000 gonna let them believe that they have a lesser chance than anybody else if they just work their ass off

00:20:38.040 there's no way i'm not sitting on their dreams like that i'll be damned you call me a racist if you

00:20:42.040 want you call me a racist all day i'm not i don't care there's no way i'm letting those young men

00:20:46.200 believe that shit 100 because i know plenty of black guys the king rich is here right now he's

00:20:49.880 a fucking winner all day long because he didn't let that happen 100 but we have to work hard and

00:20:54.040 that's what about what about all of our friends that are black that are very very successful

00:21:00.520 looking at racism is for broke people

00:21:02.280 it's just an insult i just find insulting don't tell it's not it's not insulting you lead with it

00:21:10.760 get a new identity especially as a black woman we are at the bottom i'm a black girl what you're so

00:21:17.400 much more than that you're so much more than that oh yeah i know i am then don't lead with it it's

00:21:21.000 bullshit it's bullshit and i didn't lead with it i use it as a comparison for me to explain why i'm not

00:21:25.400 the same as every girl that puts themselves in one thing then why not tell us the skills you have

00:21:29.480 and the person you are that that why don't you lead with that because they think someone can't speak

00:21:34.440 four languages lead with the person you are it's given that you guys hate women that's that's the vibes right now

00:21:39.400 no no no no no no no no let me be clear i just ah wait wait wait we have to do one at a time stop

00:21:48.040 stop stop stop stop can i say something it's not a thing where they hate women if anything they love

00:21:52.600 women for a man to tell you to think positively how is that hatred the people are literally telling us

00:21:57.880 that what we think is what's going to manifest so therefore think positive thoughts and positive

00:22:02.440 things will happen to you you guys on this table who are talking about feminists you're all negative

00:22:06.440 because why would you focus so much on comments why would you focus so much on who's looking at

00:22:10.680 your hairstyle your accent or whatever and then someone comes to tell you actually focus on the

00:22:14.760 positive and you guys are saying they hate you no you can focus on it because just the other day

00:22:19.720 just the other day a man applied for a job and they told him he can't get the job because of his

00:22:23.640 afro so you can't tell us to not focus on it when it is the focus yeah but he could get a job and watch

00:22:28.200 the news it literally happened the other day yeah but that's his experience but if he was smart he's

00:22:32.440 not going to let that hold him back that's the whole point you can't tell us to not focus on

00:22:39.320 it no but if i walk into a certain place of my afro the first thing people are going to do is stare

00:22:42.520 at me and certain places won't want to give me the job just because i have you want me to tell you

00:22:45.480 something but that's your mindset you can't tell me my mindset if they have told me i am not giving you

00:22:50.920 the job because of my afro you can't tell me that's my manager

00:22:54.840 my point is my point is that shouldn't happen point black period that is my point

00:22:57.800 yeah but the world is evil guys guys guys guys guys wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait stop

00:23:10.040 wait thank you do you know why you saw that in the news because they want you to believe that racism

00:23:15.000 is a real problem it wasn't even on the news so you're lying she just said that it was in the news

00:23:18.920 it was not only on the news it went viral on twitter let's fact check though i said it was on

00:23:23.640 the news so you're just adding to it no but you're saying only why you saw it on the news yeah that's

00:23:28.280 where i saw it so you're adding to it they share these stories like george floyd and like that afro

00:23:32.760 nonsense that you saw on the news in order for you to believe that there's a system that's holding you

00:23:36.600 back it's not and you saw here we're talking about race hold on so the man went online and was like i

00:23:41.320 didn't get the job sat there and didn't have it at this point when they pick and chose to run that

00:23:45.720 story because it gives people like you a reason to feel people like me exactly people like you

00:23:50.280 they used to want to give my mom free food in the market because they didn't believe that white

00:23:54.120 woman could have three little kids with afros they used to give her food because they used to think

00:23:58.920 that were little african children that suffer these times we were quite wealthy so for example okay my

00:24:05.480 overall point is that people like to have a victim mindset especially it's not a victimization i'm just

00:24:09.880 saying it exists okay that's it that's my point is that we hear this victimized mindset right now in

00:24:14.760 order to give you a way to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs

00:24:18.920 we're talking about race and you're like it's giving misogyny what is calling out the victimization

00:24:27.160 of the race vibration you feel the vibrations of misogyny of yeah of your mentality your mentality

00:24:33.880 is one of you're a type of man that's what what type of man no sister they just here trying to make you

00:24:39.160 look stupid that's what their job is it's not that hard it's not that hard don't take it personal

00:24:45.240 they literally just want to catch you out i'm asking i'm trying to get to what she really believes

00:24:50.120 king riches changed me for this all right what what are the vibrations that i'm giving you that

00:24:53.880 just give them misogynist why what did we say you i'm not being funny if what what value do you see and

00:24:59.960 what what how do you value women do you see the value of women like are you four i explained it five

00:25:04.280 minutes ago you didn't i said that i'm against feminism and i said that yeah but if you're gonna

00:25:08.440 call him a misogynist if she asked me a question i'm finished like i said the value of a woman is

00:25:12.920 motherhood is in raising children i said that we respect mothers i opened the show by saying that okay

00:25:17.800 so what did i say that makes you think that i'm a misogynist that's a serious allegation

00:25:22.040 i said it's given misogyny what is giving misogyny your vibration my vibrations you're vibrating

00:25:27.640 misogyny right now so are you vibrating with racism too like what what goes on and we're moving a

00:25:34.280 little bit mean that's why i'm moving me a little bit no you're trying to put your masculinity yeah you

00:25:38.920 come a bit aggressive and i don't like that that's a bit misogynist right yeah it's just be gonna be

00:25:43.960 like oh it's the last video yeah i can feel it and it's like you're trying to suppress my feminine

00:25:48.520 it's it's no no he's not he needs to be a bit more specific he's trying to suppress your dickhead

00:25:55.240 like come on bro y'all look y'all are all smart pretty young women you can do anything you want

00:26:00.200 to in this fucking world and my message is this oprah listen here's the thing i'm not

00:26:08.120 i do a lot i'm sorry i do i know i do i'm gonna keep doing that so here's the thing i just there's

00:26:14.520 no planet where i'm gonna allow particularly a young black man to think that he can't go out

00:26:20.200 young white man yeah go on because i don't know basically don't worry because no no no no it's

00:26:25.080 because saying that white and black we didn't know because we're talking about race particularly right

00:26:30.760 now and i like no planet do i want to ever put out into the universe or allowed to be put out in the

00:26:38.040 universe that a young black man is going to not be able to be successful in his life because of his skin

00:26:43.160 color there's no chance and i will sit here and and you can call me whatever you want but i just

00:26:49.400 know too many of them and i know too many that have been successful yeah but you're one of a few you're

00:26:53.240 not like the majority but you have to understand how many people watch this show can i how many people

00:26:57.640 watch your channel it's important no you're not can i challenge you guys but in general it does it

00:27:03.320 doesn't stop you but it does make a little challenge bit harder just a little bit can i he's like he's like

00:27:09.640 you're one of the first white men that i've met who have this mentality maybe it's no no no no no

00:27:15.000 you know you know what i honestly i think most white men

00:27:20.120 prejudice exists maybe not racism let's adjust the word not racism prejudice is something different

00:27:25.960 i do i believe that and i think there's prejudice all over the world there you go then

00:27:29.960 in addition a little bit stronger negative countries like lowly sure and in countries like japan that are

00:27:35.880 very you know homogenous homogenous they won't even let you in the restaurant unless you're japanese

00:27:43.000 like you guys you think you've seen racism bro there's some places in this world i've been that are

00:27:48.360 turbo racist outwardly and get away with it i think a black person today has a better chance than they've

00:27:55.320 ever had is it completely fair no i don't think so but i don't think life is completely fair at all and

00:28:00.920 there's no way i'm going to let somebody mentally handicap themselves from the jump and you know

00:28:05.080 it's true about me making that contact i don't i don't think it's an impairment to me i know it made

00:28:09.640 me it made me a bit stronger but i know it exists and it actually was an obstacle then for you it's a

00:28:13.800 superpower yeah right i just want to reframe it thank you and have a different relationship with it

00:28:19.080 at first but for me well because she led with it independent woman is a superwoman because she

00:28:22.760 because she led with it my superpower what do you want me to do yeah she said she's leaving yeah but it didn't

00:28:26.440 sound like a superpower then did it no because you didn't allow me to finish you start saying you're leading

00:28:30.120 with that what does that have to do you became challenging and this is the problem this is why

00:28:33.800 she said you guys are feeling a little bit like misogyny but that's not what she means no no you're

00:28:37.800 going to be very aggressive and very challenging they're just talking with passion because it's

00:28:42.120 important it's important it's important because you have to go out into the world with the absolute

00:28:47.640 mindset that regardless of your circumstances regardless of your background or your racial um

00:28:52.360 ethnicity or anything that you can go out and you can make a success of your life we all have to do

00:28:57.320 that 100 and that's why they're getting so passionate about it you know what really it's

00:29:00.280 really important exactly no he's dead on you know what real love looks like in my opinion real love

00:29:06.600 is dark and real love takes risk so let's say you're up and let's just say it was racism i'm willing

00:29:13.080 to step in front of you and have you be angry with me so i can somehow change where you're up and you

00:29:18.840 can be mad at me if you want because most people people don't give a about you will let you leave

00:29:22.840 and be like that bitch is up i would much rather get into a heated argument with you and have the

00:29:27.320 courage to sit in front of you and tell you my truth and have the thought of somebody thinking

00:29:31.080 that i'm racist on the internet i'd rather do that than let the young men that follow me believe they

00:29:36.360 don't have a shot i'd much rather sit in that and to me that's the only kind of friends i want it's

00:29:41.480 people that are going to tell me the truth when i'm up so you get mad at me but i just hate to see it

00:29:45.960 led that way i'd much rather hear about the skills you have and and i'm with you pearl i'll i'll triple

00:29:50.680 and then are you going to say well done to my skills are you going to say go back in the kitchen

00:29:54.120 yeah all right any anything else ladies

00:30:02.040 okay that's a queen all right this is a good i think most i think the guys oh wait i'll add one

00:30:06.520 more sorry go ahead go ahead healthy healthy oh yeah no fat no they're not healthy internally with

00:30:14.360 everything like then they're not sicky sicky they don't have any like diseases she's not wrong to

00:30:18.600 be fair yeah yeah we get it i'm i'm i can't fit it but you know okay um all right if a girl has a kid

00:30:26.440 how many letters does she go down d c i don't really want to talk about this

00:30:32.920 she's off the charts okay okay okay i'm gonna personally say a kid puts you

00:30:45.160 down to a c or a d i'm my gut is telling me d it's d wow yeah that's real sad that's really sad

00:30:52.520 who thinks that's all right all right so so i'm not thinking it i'm just saying a and you have a kid

00:30:57.320 are you down to a b raise your hand you're down to a c raise your hand a c or raise it all right d

00:31:05.400 raise your hand all right i say d three d's okay okay sorry i think it's gonna be easy i think it's

00:31:17.800 gonna be easier now we have the ideal and we're gonna say like what if everything brings you down

00:31:22.360 you okay so what how how much does being 20 pounds overweight bring you down

00:31:31.880 an a goes down to uh with 20 pounds 20 pounds overweight that's not that much

00:31:38.040 it's actually a lot but modern women think it's not a lot but yeah you would have been considered

00:31:42.760 like 20 pounds would have been considered crazy 50 years ago but so we live in this delusion but what

00:31:47.640 if some people are like like like they go to the gym and they like they build muscle muscle and they

00:31:52.920 should eat less no but like you know like we weigh more if we have muscle and we like we're talking

00:31:57.880 about overweight we're not talking about yeah but you could be a bmi overweight yeah that's not

00:32:01.960 factual no but that's what they say like if if you if you go to the gym that's not true because i

00:32:07.480 ever since i got back in the gym i've actually weighed less but not everyone will i look bigger

00:32:12.360 but those are exceptions muscle doesn't weigh as much as fat yeah but what if you

00:32:20.280 build and bulk and it's literally science right it's just no they they this is propaganda yeah

00:32:26.680 actually all you have to do is look up okay um we're gonna we're gonna go through this because

00:32:31.880 i really um you guys do the metric scale is that here all right do you guys do centimeters yeah

00:32:42.360 all right so okay wait i'm trying to pull this up so centimeters and this is the thing kevin

00:32:50.920 because a lot of we live in delusion because the men accept it from us because we're so bad

00:32:57.080 but like um it doesn't make it like not reality but yeah so um it looks like um if you're four

00:33:05.640 if you're five three 160 centimeters as a chick a healthy bmi is i think you have to be it looks like

00:33:19.800 under 70 kgs does that sound right how much is that in pounds i only know pounds um 70 kg i'm trying to

00:33:26.760 see wait wait i will fight wait five seven 160 maybe that's doable if you're the green the normal

00:33:33.000 weight is green so five seven is yeah one fit you have to be under 150 yeah to be in shape so 20 pounds

00:33:43.880 overweight i think honestly i think 20 pounds brings you down depends on how you carry it but i'm gonna say

00:33:51.160 one maybe two that's my gut what do you what do you guys think who thinks it brings you down to a b

00:33:59.320 probably yeah b yeah all right we'll do b we can do b okay we can do b

00:34:07.160 all right 40 pounds where does that bring you to a c or a d

00:34:12.040 see see see i'm just gonna go in 20s

00:34:21.800 see it's like funny are you guys uncomfortable i feel so uncomfortable right i don't want to talk

00:34:25.720 about yeah i just think it's i hate it but we could do this with men and it would be so easy

00:34:32.440 just degrading men as well why is that any better just because you're gonna

00:34:35.960 degrade men i just don't like body shaming anyone that doesn't mean you need to degrade

00:34:40.520 them score them on a board okay you don't think we should shame bad choices no i think it's rude as

00:34:45.640 for you to sit and put things on everything should we shame already what you wrote is

00:34:49.240 should we shame men from being criminals you're not writing that on the ball though are you that's

00:34:54.680 the thing we do them you've already put these as a kid yet when you had get married to someone so

00:34:59.240 the minute you have a kid with someone you're married to now you're a d are you are you trying to

00:35:02.840 misunderstand or are you dumb no it's just rude what so you're telling me you're not degrading

00:35:06.920 women you've literally got grades on a board degrading them degrading and you are though let's let's

00:35:11.240 live in reality um we're talking about a kid bringing it into a marriage not one that you create

00:35:17.960 all right so we got 20 40 pounds a kid 100 pounds would be e obviously i think that would be a u

00:35:26.200 that's also a grading system here but yes unmarkable yeah and not every man's even gonna

00:35:34.280 agree with what you're writing on the board because everyone's got a preference we're gonna ask them

00:35:38.200 we're gonna ask them in a second they're gonna come in that's the whole world in this room isn't it

00:35:42.920 well i mean no it's not there's well many why are you so upset what's because it's horrible you're

00:35:49.400 literally degrading women on a board what what's nice about that what's this gonna do for anyone

00:35:54.920 what is degrading make them make better choices putting them next to grades and bringing them

00:35:58.840 it'll hold them it'll hold them accountable it'll hold them accountable so they make better choices

00:36:02.920 we'll show them that actions have consequences because if you're going to someone on your level

00:36:06.280 like that you're all preaching or fucking podcasts they're not gonna matter about this

00:36:09.320 are they i have a question is it better that the world tells them through their through the

00:36:13.720 outcomes but they're not gonna because if you're settling for people on your level they're not

00:36:17.160 going to start grading you on a board are they they don't think they're prestige they'll do it

00:36:21.240 mentally they won't do it on a board mentally you can whine about it all you want it's not whining

00:36:25.400 it's rude it's actually rude it's reality no but it's funny because you're on a relationship podcast

00:36:31.800 like with it doesn't mean you need to degrade women i'm saying like what else would we be talking

00:36:35.560 about not putting nets to grades you can say what things bring them down and what your preference

00:36:39.160 is you don't need to start grading women because all the women watching this are now thinking

00:36:42.680 what grade am i because if someone's working on a board but this is how it happens this is

00:36:46.600 reality like men and women we've tried to have the conversation we've had conversations about

00:36:54.440 this does it mean you need to grade people can i make my point we've tried to have a conversation

00:36:58.680 and you still didn't get the point this is called a visual exercise this is not gonna make me understand

00:37:02.680 your point degrading women then then that just means that you're you know you're all just against

00:37:07.000 like it's horrible horrible to be a part of i'm not gonna lie i'm just gonna be real what you're

00:37:12.520 doing right now you're just trying to be emotional to derail the conversation if you're emotional

00:37:16.280 because you're degrading women if you don't want to be part of it you can get up and leave you don't

00:37:20.280 have to like no i said i wouldn't you ask no one is forcing you to sit here but what you know but you

00:37:26.360 asked for my opinion did you not yes and then you could say you don't have anything to say but if you

00:37:30.360 don't if you and i did then i would still ask my opinion but you're still trying to derail the

00:37:33.560 conversation you can just say well i'm not gonna i'm not the only one who said it's horrible so yeah that's

00:37:38.440 fine but you you keep trying to you keep trying to do my point is you keep trying to derail the

00:37:43.000 conversation why don't you just go if you don't like it just go it's as simple as that all right

00:37:48.040 um so next we're gonna do or is it what were we gonna do it was kids oh no

00:37:57.800 all right how if a girl isn't submissive how much does that bring her down probably to like a d

00:38:02.600 a d yeah like that that attitude how much i'm over this like i'm just wondering d d d she's

00:38:12.120 starting to get it what do you guys think i think it's a c because it's an average of i mean based

00:38:18.920 on man preference so it's a c i can't wait but this is all but this is all men this is all through

00:38:24.920 preference so it's like we can think that but some guys won't think we're gonna ask the guys what they

00:38:29.800 think in a second so we're just we're just trying to make it simple who thinks c raise your hand

00:38:34.200 a bad attitude brings you down to a c are you asking girls yeah girls girls raise your hand i'm

00:38:38.680 i'm actually gonna say like a c because apparently if you're hot it's fine it's not what we said i don't

00:38:44.760 i don't know if you're listening but all right i say d i said occasionally not by and large but they

00:38:50.360 get divorced later anyway because they just make their husband's life miserable and then they get yeah so

00:38:54.600 i'm gonna pick c all right c what do you think c or d a d d d c c if i compare her attitude to this

00:39:02.200 board i would say e to be very honest i like you all right we're gonna go down to d just i think it's

00:39:10.680 like an average if you picked an yeah this is an f actually i got rid of the e yeah i think it's crazy

00:39:18.120 um all right bad attitude all right no no domestic skills where does that bring her down to

00:39:29.240 no i'm gonna say a b yeah me too yeah she can learn that's what i don't know i feel like this

00:39:36.040 that's a big thing for someone i could be wrong i'd say like a again a cd cd okay yeah if you can't cook

00:39:43.080 or do you all look after a house or some of those kind of domestic things good point it's just not

00:39:47.880 gonna what do you think hmm yeah i agree see yeah okay what do you think can you define it

00:39:54.760 cooking cleaning looking after a home domestic skills like are you neat are you tidy

00:40:00.360 can you can you can't do that then you're definitely in the e that's like

00:40:05.480 basic stuff you have really changed all right no she's been absorbing everything trust me i like the

00:40:12.200 growth she's like church the men are proud she said b she said c you say you say uh i think that's an

00:40:23.720 average of a c right would you yeah okay oh that's been way too nice that's way too nice way too nice

00:40:29.640 they're not going to agree with us pal no but that's what you like i say we're going to get our

00:40:33.160 chances yeah i think it's we're going to we're going to do for men after yeah yeah we're going to

00:40:38.440 raise the men but it's going to be a lot quicker because i think we'll all be brutal let me get it

00:40:46.120 is there anything else we gotta what do we forget anything that we need to that subtracts from women guys

00:40:51.400 like that we're like don't tell me where you would put it just if you think about career

00:40:57.240 no because i don't care about that yeah but what if they do no they don't that's if she's involved

00:41:03.560 in sex work yeah depending on the career that will take you down if she has social media yeah that's

00:41:10.440 that's a big thing for some guys okay we're gonna put i'm just gonna we all say sex work is enough

00:41:14.840 right yeah please thank you i didn't think i did it i might have got pushed back 10 minutes ago

00:41:21.400 um sex work what did you someone else someone else said something uh what about two-parent

00:41:33.960 households i mean oh yeah single mother home where does that they grew up in a single home i mean

00:41:40.040 don't don't don't don't tell me they may get educated i'd say like a i'd still say like

00:41:46.200 a b or a c because then a mother will really teach you i'll say i'm gonna say c you say b c what do

00:41:54.680 you say like a b c oh c let's say c c c or d because they would carry like trauma and issues

00:42:04.600 i'm stuck between a c and a d i would only say c if they learn from the mistake if they haven't then

00:42:09.640 it's a d we're gonna i think we've had more keys um okay i think this is fairly oh and she's cheated

00:42:19.960 before yeah also not loyal i took yeah okay so if she's cheated before that's an f f yes okay anyone

00:42:27.400 say d f f okay um all right guys it's your turn um all right so first let's talk about what is your a

00:42:44.760 give me like what is your a woman fit feminine friendly i think yeah don't look at the list do

00:42:50.200 with what you think just they will yeah but what the thing is though most of the things on there is

00:42:56.440 what we've said during the yeah is there anything you disagree with on the a list were the women hot

00:43:02.600 enough to be an a that we showed you guys yeah of course yeah yeah uh i i think a big one for a is

00:43:08.360 respectful that's huge yeah loyalty it's a massive one relationship with her father yeah that is

00:43:17.800 absolutely foundational does she have to love her mom i was going to say that as i yeah because

00:43:26.120 the way the whole kind of relationship with parents thing right it's kind of like i think i don't think

00:43:35.000 that's like just their background because it's because if she is still a a woman in herself

00:43:40.200 regardless of her parents then she's an a woman i don't think that should bring it up

00:43:43.320 i mean i think i think the key no but when it comes to parents when it comes to parents it's

00:43:48.520 about when it comes to parents it's about role models ideally it's does she have a strong masculine

00:43:53.320 father figure that she sees and understands from a young age okay so i just want to establish like

00:44:00.200 are we talking about she has a strong male role model i mean yeah we could we could say that more

00:44:04.920 specifically but in the vast majority of cases it would be a father yeah it's kind of like you know a guy with

00:44:09.880 a criminal record you know could have overcome it yeah but he's he's he's a criminal because of the

00:44:15.320 decisions he's made as opposed to like that's okay we can even say masculinity like a guy with no dad

00:44:20.680 in the home is probably going to be kind of feminine yeah yeah and so he probably won't get an a in

00:44:24.840 masculinity he could overcome it right that doesn't mean for sure all right fair enough i think that's

00:44:29.000 one thing i'm like i'm on the fed i think so my parents is important oh it's absolutely when i say not

00:44:33.800 important what i mean is i don't think if if you just met a girl and you're like you found out she didn't

00:44:38.520 have a good relationship with her dad right and you immediately mark her down just purely on that

00:44:42.840 i disagree with that but the thing is the thing is telltale signs will begin to show in most cases

00:44:48.600 if those telltale signs aren't there generalizing if those aren't there because if they're not then

00:44:55.480 i understand obviously there are exceptions but by and large because there are plenty of because we

00:44:59.560 know that there are plenty of boys who come up in single parent households and they're very masculine

00:45:05.000 they just don't control it it's the same yeah but but but but they don't control it because

00:45:09.560 they don't control their emotions i know but we would we would say that a man has to be a one to

00:45:13.800 have mass he would have to have masculinity to be a one yeah but part of masculinity is controlling your

00:45:18.600 emotions so if he is no no no i didn't say emotions i say controlling his masculinity but you said he

00:45:24.440 he will end up doing criminal activity because he can't control his masculinity but that's really

00:45:28.920 him not being able to control your emotions so would you say so would you say a lot of guys because would you

00:45:34.280 say like a lot of drug dealers or people like the roadman life would you say they're not masculine

00:45:38.280 well they can't control their emotions which is a feminine trait no i know but i'm asking no i'm

00:45:43.080 not saying that i'm asking would you say that they're not masculine they're masculine in the sense

00:45:47.480 that they're capable of showing violence but they're not masculine in the sense that they're not capable of

00:45:51.960 controlling their emotions and therefore actions as far as saying they are not masculine because just

00:45:57.480 because you you the fact that they can show violence has nothing to do with masculinity it's

00:46:01.480 just but i didn't i'm not the one that i'm no it's their genetic makeup they have the ability to show

00:46:06.280 sure but i'm not i'm not the one i wasn't the one that hits that sat here and said that because

00:46:09.720 they show violence that makes them masculine yeah i'm just saying but what i'm saying is i would say

00:46:13.320 that a lot of rude men are not as masculine as they claim to be wow i think i think now i what i'm

00:46:20.360 trying to say is we would label masculinity as an a1 characteristic right and what i'm trying to say is how you use that

00:46:27.480 you talk about stosis and that's a different conversation but like a lot of quote-unquote road

00:46:31.400 men right they are very masculine because they dominant the environment that they're in they're

00:46:34.840 the alpha in their environment right they're definitely more masculine than the private school

00:46:39.320 kids i went to right because i came from that kind of ilk but it's how they use it right which is a

00:46:45.080 different conversation they're using it in feminine ways i guess but yeah i don't i don't think that's

00:46:48.920 masculine i think we're conflating the issue because what they are doing is they have the capacity for

00:46:54.680 violence and that's what they used to dominate their environment not because they are masculine

00:46:58.600 that's true that's true yeah okay but we can say by and large like general mom and dad a yeah that's

00:47:05.480 the one anything else we should add to the a oh give me a give me an example submissive oh yeah

00:47:11.320 can i have an example of a chick that you think of immediately when you hear an a uh what's lebron

00:47:16.680 james's wife yeah okay that's an example i meant i meant looks wise look lebron james's wife

00:47:28.680 yeah i don't even know what she looks like as well oh megan that's a green

00:47:31.160 all right all right so megan good gains 20 pounds what is she now you she's still megan good but is

00:47:38.120 she uh like well how far does 20 pounds i'd say i think she's uh do you agree with this i would say a

00:47:44.920 lot lower down like health is wealth literally how much foundations uh uh in kilograms 20 pound

00:47:51.480 weight loss yeah i feel like it's less than five kg you know yeah it's not that much when you think

00:47:59.480 it's not oh maybe i was thinking of 20 kilograms oh yeah you're losing a leg and an arm for 20

00:48:07.320 kilograms yeah yeah yeah 20 pounds how much is that in how much is he's gonna show you guys a

00:48:14.040 20 pound weight loss just so you can kind of see okay all right all right all right i mean

00:48:20.040 this is what i mean there's so many different factors okay so no no this one this one this one

00:48:47.560 does that like what does she go from she ain't gonna go down that much i'd say i mean i'd agree

00:48:52.120 it looks like she just lost a bit of her kind of belly yeah okay i thought it was more but but i

00:48:57.080 would say i would say a c or d all right all right so all right i think help as well i want all the

00:49:04.760 guys i think so i want all the guys in here to raise your hands who says it brings you down to a b

00:49:10.520 here stop it okay help as well guys all right all right so there's one out of the guys who says it

00:49:15.560 brings you down to a c i'll say a c yeah okay uh who says d okay are you guys not going to raise

00:49:26.520 hey i thought you guys weren't so hard no i you didn't say a i think she's still in a okay okay

00:49:33.720 sorry so kit says there's no difference not no difference i just don't think it's qualified for

00:49:39.800 a change category so no difference okay i really like that so that's good all right uh let's change

00:49:46.520 oh my gosh guys listen who says a raise your hand okay who says b raise your hand

00:49:54.200 okay who says c raise your hand i'll say 20 pounds all right so the majority said c wow

00:50:00.760 yeah help as well like i'm scared of you guys no but i think you know this is so good because we see how

00:50:06.360 men think do you know what it is i think i think it's terrifying no but it's true i think it's

00:50:10.680 because especially if you're a dude and you've put in the work to get fit the absolute last thing

00:50:14.680 you want is someone who doesn't prioritize health because health is the foundation of world hold on

00:50:19.080 but the thing is the thing is i like this is the thing if you'd listen and make a change maybe you'd be

00:50:28.040 a better benefit we're not talking about oh she's slim now she's overweight we're about 20 pounds bro

00:50:35.240 like she's not she's not she's not changing categories like a woman would actually put that

00:50:39.480 on yeah preparing i hear that i hear that but also a c is a pass you know in the woman's nature

00:50:44.840 because the moment you let that 20 pounds slide then she's going to move to 40.

00:50:53.640 this isn't to argue over all i want is hands yeah okay this isn't this isn't what you like is what you

00:51:00.440 like so all right 40 pounds so another 20. that'll bring you down so is is does it bring you down to

00:51:08.120 a f then could you show a 40 pound weight loss king i know that's going to be a lot i know that's

00:51:15.400 going to be a lot oh wait well 40. but what if you

00:51:20.200 no no no guys ladies ladies this isn't for us to give our opinion oh yeah you see just ask the men

00:51:25.720 you see yeah you see that's that's that's 40 that's 40 pounds so imagine she goes from the right

00:51:31.480 to the left all right so is she a d now or not probably demon okay i would say a d that definitely

00:51:39.880 takes you down the grade all right i'd say okay well i think the majority right all right raise your hand

00:51:49.560 d here's your hand d does anyone say f no okay does anyone say c okay it's by himself

00:52:00.440 all right we know okay so next so i'm just going to assume 60 is an f right yeah that's a you

00:52:08.840 all right all right okay now domestic skills she's an a but she has no domestic skills what is she

00:52:14.600 no domestic skills recreational use skills so raise of hands is a b raise your hand

00:52:21.320 she doesn't have any domestic skills no zero but she's still got the good attitude you can teach her

00:52:27.000 you know oh you can teach that's a b no see that's not fair because that's not what we were talking

00:52:32.840 about wasn't we not we were just grading domestic skills not if she's nice or if she's got a nice

00:52:38.440 attitude she has everything else that's on the list but she has she can't cook b if she's open to

00:52:44.280 learn b bb yeah okay that's good i like that that's fair i can't believe this women are you mad she can't

00:52:53.720 wait wait if she can learn if she can learn the women to stop whining stop whining about the men's

00:52:58.760 preferences these are the men's preferences the only they don't know they didn't whine when we picked

00:53:03.960 this out so wait what's your kids eating this is the okay but let's be honest like most most most

00:53:09.400 people like know how to take care of themselves like i have my own place so i look after my own

00:53:13.880 place so she's moving in and she doesn't know how to look after it it's calm i'm doing it anyway

00:53:20.200 i would think not about being a housewife but i was learned right when when in the household i was

00:53:24.280 growing up me and my siblings were responsible for taking care of the house right because he just

00:53:28.360 disciplined all of that that's just how i am so if she if if she has everything else but that's the

00:53:33.320 only thing she doesn't bring that's calm but the thing is if she's submissive and agreeable and you

00:53:38.200 and you ask her to learn how to cook she'd cook it's a robot for not exactly yeah if she's if she's

00:53:42.280 submissive yeah but you're adding all this stuff all we said is that she doesn't have any domestic

00:53:47.800 you're like if she doesn't have domestic then this this this that's different no no what i'm

00:53:51.320 agreeing with you i'm saying oh if she if she doesn't know how to cook and you don't have domestic

00:53:55.560 skills but she's submissive and all of that yeah okay because that's what they're saying

00:53:59.640 well yeah there you go okay so next um all right she a but she's got a kid

00:54:07.640 all right so we're going to raise of hands we're going to raise of hands who says this one is

00:54:11.800 controversial who says a b okay now who says a c oh damn now who says a d

00:54:17.720 okay one d okay one d who says an f

00:54:23.240 oh okay okay this is scary no guys ladies this is important ladies watching this is what happens

00:54:32.680 if you become a single mother if you're going to leave your home the grass is not greener on the

00:54:37.160 other side you will go from an a to an f yep you become like it's like i don't like no guy who

00:54:49.880 doesn't have a kid wants to choose a woman to marry have kids which yeah exactly like it got we just

00:54:54.760 it's it's such a major thing for us i don't know why and it's harsh but it's practically it's just all

00:55:00.840 the responsibility without the authority it's like if things go wrong it's your fault but you have no

00:55:05.880 control over the situation that's a scapegoat okay next all right i want a bad attitude so a woman has

00:55:17.400 is an a but she's got a bad attitude is she a b raise your hand c raise your hand right she says d

00:55:27.080 raise your hand f raise your hand okay this is this is the the most common answer i'm not going to agree

00:55:35.560 i'm not going to disagree yeah yeah so so guys i mean this is a lesson for the chicks you can look

00:55:40.520 hot you can be amazing you can look great i just want to say if you got a bad attitude you go from

00:55:45.080 an a to an f i'm guessing most of the men in this room in nigerian respect is very important in our

00:55:49.960 culture yeah i'm just saying that and i think after you deal with a lot of a lot of women you just don't

00:55:58.040 tolerate yeah but like there's a level of respect in african culture that is different to like the

00:56:02.360 only a ball coach okay now she's got all this right but she's cheated before oh no okay we're

00:56:14.280 gonna wait let me just let me just rank it okay is she uh b c d she cheated she cheated one ah all right

00:56:25.240 he says d all right all right all right again important important lesson oh we forgot body count

00:56:35.080 we didn't say that but it goes no ladies we're gonna ask the ladies first and then we're gonna

00:56:38.920 ask the guy so ladies you're back in the game all right a b has slept with how many people

00:56:45.800 let's let's let's break down actual numbers all right three to five is a b

00:56:50.760 all right raise your hand ladies if you think three to five is a b i would say that's fine three

00:56:57.400 to five years in modern times historically it's all horrors but you know

00:57:04.280 all right i just don't like that

00:57:09.720 yeah but you're gonna be you're gonna be you're gonna get this is how men think guys this is how

00:57:13.320 meant that we think anyway all right 10 10 bodies brings you down to a what a c what's that 10 10 10

00:57:21.080 bodies is that a c raise your hand women if you i would say d d is 10 i would say d okay 10 is a d

00:57:31.160 okay all right how many is an f 15 yeah 15 who's above all right we're gonna go 20 20 above

00:57:39.400 you say about 15. all right what's your number 15 15. what's your 15 what's your number yeah it's

00:57:44.840 just like 15. that's all i'm saying okay yeah higher higher than the age okay so we're just gonna

00:57:50.280 say roughly that does make sense you say i have this one tiny before i got here okay we'll go we'll go

00:57:59.320 20. we'll do 20 because i think averaging that out it'd be like we're just gonna for for shits and

00:58:04.840 giggles okay men all right men let's go body count let's break it down i'm just gonna what is an a

00:58:11.480 guys how many bodies does she get to still be in it before can i just ask you is it now

00:58:20.520 okay okay i'm asking your opinion it should be what they ideally want right now i'm asking what the

00:58:29.480 men i'm asking what we want to know what you want all right who says only a virgin gets an a yeah

00:58:37.080 all the guys no no why are you saying all right so zero with an a all right for a b um all right let's

00:58:46.920 i'm gonna i want you to raise your hand when it becomes a b okay one two three four five six seven

00:58:59.560 eight eight nine no okay i need you to keep it up we're gonna try it again so so raise your hand

00:59:07.240 guys when it becomes a b so we start at zero one two three four five six seven eight nine okay i would

00:59:22.760 say the average most people said three or four i think okay so we're kind of three to five was the

00:59:29.160 women yeah yeah okay so we we kind of match so now we're gonna i want you to raise your hand when

00:59:34.200 it becomes a c now all right one two three four five six seven eight nine ten eleven okay okay so

00:59:51.240 seven seven seven seven seven seven to ten seven seven to ten ish

00:59:59.320 is a c okay now we're gonna go see what a d is ten eleven twelve thirteen fourteen fifteen sixteen

01:00:10.360 okay so like sixteen so long ten to fifteen roughly we're just gonna go is a d now the now let's go to

01:00:21.400 f all right sixteen seven okay yeah anything yeah anything so no and this is important for us ladies to

01:00:29.560 know what percent of women are getting f's right now no seriously and you know men might not tell us this to

01:00:37.320 our face but this is how guys think you can't say it and this is what i mean when i say the majority of

01:00:43.480 women are getting f's are getting d's we don't really have a plus women anymore oh i forgot one

01:00:51.160 all right ladies how what does an abortion bring you down to listen now okay okay so i'm gonna i'm gonna

01:00:58.840 i'm gonna go down from a to f and i want you guys to raise your hand when you think

01:01:02.600 an abortion so one abortion who says b who says c who says d who says that i would say an abortion

01:01:11.800 you guys didn't even raise your hand yeah i'm just not really oh it's okay it's all right all right

01:01:16.440 what do you yeah i kind of i don't mess with that at all well the men do so okay you don't have to vote

01:01:23.720 it's fine yeah it's really hard like it's a hard topic i say f you say that's such a weird i say yeah

01:01:30.120 c maybe c okay yeah i don't know what do you say um it's part of the mentality i would say f to be

01:01:38.920 honest okay so that averages out at like a d so we'll do it here all right men one abortion it brings

01:01:46.200 you down all right so you're still an a you're saying everything counts yeah so just raise your hand

01:01:54.440 when you think it's one abortion where she's at okay so a b c d f wow this was a mix yeah oh wow

01:02:08.920 what would you guys say the average of that was i think i think i feel like c c was average all

01:02:14.680 right if she's everything else then yeah i'd say all right so one abortion would that mean two abortions

01:02:20.440 brings you down another yeah yeah because like one is a mistake two is just like negligence

01:02:27.160 negligence thank you isn't one negligence what is the thing we're looking at it as as if the

01:02:34.200 abortion is separate from the woman once a woman gets an abortion that damages something in her

01:02:40.040 yeah and we're talking about that i'm not well versed i don't know no think about it because they

01:02:44.920 always make abortion seem as if it's this thing where it saves the woman and this and i yeah we get it

01:02:49.400 women go through things and they might have they might think they want to get an abortion

01:02:53.000 but people never talk about the effects abortions have on women so if we're talking about the woman

01:02:58.680 it doesn't make you less valuable it's not about being valuable what i'm talking about is if i'm

01:03:01.960 talking about the woman i want to pick to be my wife who i want to have a family with and she's had

01:03:07.000 an abortion there is a trauma that comes with that that she's going to pass on to my to my kids

01:03:12.200 can i can i ask a question what to you women a woman b would you rather take the woman who had an

01:03:17.720 abortion because she doesn't want to have children out of wedlock or the woman who chose to not have

01:03:21.400 an abortion but now she's a single mother which one's more valuable in your eyes i'll pick neither

01:03:25.400 no but if you had if you had to choose no but choose like to choose yeah i wouldn't pick a woman

01:03:30.200 that's had an abortion hold on but i'm giving hold on i'm giving you i wouldn't pick a woman that's had

01:03:33.880 so you choose a single mother so you you would rather choose a single mother yeah right over a woman who's

01:03:38.680 had an abortion because she understands the importance of human life exactly yeah and she could

01:03:44.040 have bought your kid i just think you're gonna vote mine as well brother to pick the single mom

01:03:47.560 over a chick who's had an abortion she'd kill her kid what's she gonna do to you exactly i just think

01:03:51.720 she's gonna abort your kid the one thing we're supposed to do love our kids well i think if she

01:03:58.840 i mean one more thing i thought of one more thing stds a woman that has had an std before but we get

01:04:06.200 that when people get that from from it's both parties it's not just yeah but i know but you're

01:04:11.720 to the new party and he's picking like this is how men think all right ladies first you think

01:04:16.040 she's had an std before is she now uh b raise your hand c raise your hand d raise your hand no we got

01:04:25.960 it we got a f raise your hand all right so the the guys aren't yeah i don't know i would say b all

01:04:32.600 right you would say b you would say f you would say what what would you say do you have an answer

01:04:39.080 and b all right b b yeah she's cured no she's fine actually wait can we define is you got std you

01:04:48.280 got you know we're gonna do we're gonna do yeah i would say sti is a b std is

01:04:54.120 it's just a complete one's just an infection you have a disease okay you know fine we're

01:05:00.200 gonna say curable std and non-curable we're gonna break it up but we're gonna break it up

01:05:05.480 but there's a big difference between the infection and then an actual dis-ease yeah

01:05:10.360 talking about okay lack of ease i do not know what's going on i don't know what this stuff

01:05:15.640 i'm gonna do all right so curable std she's had before who says b i'll say b you'd say all right who

01:05:21.720 says c b you'd say b b you would say what would you two say c what would you say f f all right

01:05:30.280 this averages at like what a c because you two said b i don't know all right non-curable std or sti

01:05:39.240 either or f would you guys agree okay okay now to the men non-curable std is she uh b raise your hand

01:05:50.200 c non-curable non-curable oh anyone anyone say anything other than an answer nope okay all right

01:05:58.440 curable she's had an std before but it's curable is she a b yeah all right he says b is she a c

01:06:07.080 is she a d okay is she enough oh okay what would you guys say the average that's like a d average i'd

01:06:15.000 say you gotta be okay all right again this is how this is how men think so if you want to rate

01:06:21.720 yourself ladies this is what we can look at we can look at what the men said you've slept with more

01:06:26.840 than five people you're at least to see um if you have or 20 pounds overweight you're at least to see

01:06:33.880 if you've slept with over 10 to 15 people or had an std and now you can know that when we say we're

01:06:39.960 settling for a man we're not really we're actually lucky to get one thank you everybody women are

01:06:46.280 being sexualized and social media is programming our young women as far as i'm concerned and that

01:06:53.800 programming they think that if they put their bottom out and their breasts out they're gonna get more

01:07:00.920 what is it likes and views money and they do right you can have um somebody who maybe is dressed a

01:07:07.960 certain way and it's not going to get the sort of traction as someone who might put their nipples

01:07:13.400 out that's just facts so then therefore young people's minds think okay well i'll show a little

01:07:20.440 bit of this and i'll go like that and it works so we have to remember that society also there are

01:07:28.120 influences and unless people are brought up by certain types of parenting that doesn't always work

01:07:34.040 because i mean you can do your own thing but when you look at even netflix or streaming excuse me

01:07:40.360 maybe i shouldn't talk about any particular streamer but you understand my point so and going back to

01:07:47.560 your point in terms of education how are our children being educated can i just say something

01:07:52.920 you're saying that women are being sexualized more than that's not true because if you look at stars

01:07:57.000 like marilyn monroe cleopatra all these you're 60 so you should know marilyn monroe i didn't say that she

01:08:02.920 wasn't i'm just saying that women are being sexual it's not just but with the own set of

01:08:08.280 social media it is so much more and 100 years ago 85 percent of women were virgins or at least that's

01:08:16.840 what they claimed but let's let's say let's say let's say they're lying and we double it that's still

01:08:20.760 too through but that's yeah we've moved on from that this is 2023 babe so what should happen then

01:08:26.280 in 2023 i just just i just disproved your point because you said that this is a like this time

01:08:32.600 it's this isn't new and i'm saying yes it is it's actually super new at this time in history to be

01:08:37.400 this promiscuous like there's always been there's always been a class of concubines yeah there's always

01:08:41.640 been a class of concubines but it's been really small in in compared to the rest of the population

01:08:48.120 but then could it be argued that men are the issue there because who's sexualizing so i actually

01:08:52.760 have thought about this a little bit and i kind of i kind of go but i i used to think that too but

01:08:57.160 then i thought about it i think women take off their clothes first before the men ask for sex and the

01:09:02.360 reason i think this is because i go to vegas and there's literally women walking around with stickers

01:09:07.160 on their boobs but um wait sorry i need to i need to draw attention to something so it's funny how

01:09:12.520 like you keep saying the language we use is very important language is a is a tool of communication

01:09:17.480 and if we don't use it properly we tend to pass on the wrong information now you said women have

01:09:21.800 been sexualized now maybe that was true in the past but today i actually think women sexualize

01:09:27.000 themselves yeah i don't disagree that's one in two my point was was the programming yeah no but but but

01:09:36.680 that's what i want to come to now so the point is you said there's a programming that's now making

01:09:40.600 women sexualize themselves more so and then on this the whole reason only fans existed one second

01:09:46.200 please one second please yes i agree but on the parallel you say that now and then on the parallel

01:09:52.120 some women will also come out and and try to argue pearl's point that women are just as smart as men

01:09:58.040 okay if that were true and if we were to put in accountability into this equation now let's put an

01:10:05.240 analogy there is a push to make young men go into the street and sell drugs now do we come out and

01:10:13.000 say oh yeah but the society is trying to make men go out and sell drugs so now we should feel sorry for

01:10:18.280 the men that go out and do it but we do do we not i actually believe we don't and i believe men don't so

01:10:29.720 and if women are doing that you are contributing to the problem no i'm telling you but you see that's

01:10:37.160 the thing that this is this is what you call virtue signaling when you say women are more empathetic

01:10:41.320 how is it more empathetic how is that virtue signaling can you let me make my point how is

01:10:46.120 it more empathetic for you to think that tackling a problem is by trying to cuddle it how does that

01:10:54.520 make any sense that's not that is that is the female it is it really is you wouldn't see that

01:10:59.080 way because you're a woman and i understand men treat things completely different a man is not going

01:11:03.480 to come out and see a boy selling drugs and she's like come and tell him oh i'm sorry i think it's

01:11:07.000 because of your upbringing no i'm going to point out the facts of the matter i'm going to point out

01:11:11.480 where he's heading to which is probably going to be jail me too i never said that the way i would

01:11:16.200 just but you see only fans yeah the the owners are only fans actually wanted to wanted to shut it down

01:11:21.560 they wanted to clean it up and then there was a campaign by women to stop it so because they're

01:11:26.360 the ones making money out of it because of the banks that was nothing to do with them wanting to

01:11:32.440 be like oh we don't agree with this anymore okay okay okay but what i'm trying to say to you it wasn't

01:11:37.000 it was women that went marching saying that you're taking away right it was women it's the money you're

01:11:42.120 taking no i'm saying i'm saying but i'm saying i'm saying men own hey mcdonald's is hiring men own

01:11:48.280 only fans right so what should i homeschool my daughter on a mcdonald's wage maybe just don't

01:11:53.560 have kids outside of wedlock but you know this is like it's like oh no the consequences of my own

01:12:00.760 actions the thing about only fans girls is like you always at there's so many jobs like i i don't know

01:12:05.320 what everybody else does here but i take it there's only one only fans person here i take it you're at

01:12:09.160 university studying because you're not going to do only fans so i take it that whatever you're studying

01:12:13.320 i've actually thought of doing only fans though okay that's fine that's fine but but i take it

01:12:17.800 but i take it you're not in university studying to be only fans girls yeah no okay so whatever

01:12:22.760 you're studying is worth it's good it's a work it's worthy of studying it's gonna pay for your life

01:12:26.760 right but only fans is a business no no no okay i'm studying business right now okay okay you know

01:12:33.880 sometimes as women we don't want to make it if only fans is a business yeah and then the same with men

01:12:38.280 it's about sacrifice are you willing to sacrifice or you're going to go the easy road but sometimes

01:12:44.520 you are willing to then you might realize that i'm not i'm not i'm not condemning it i'm just saying

01:12:50.120 that let's deal with you sometimes we decide that i'm going to do this because it will reap me a reward

01:12:57.480 hopefully in a given amount of time right that's it so it's you gotta respect people they want they

01:13:03.320 want the rewards they want the rewards without the consequence of the backlash that's what usually

01:13:07.240 happens so that's why when you pull up receipts or you try to to question their logic on why they do

01:13:13.800 it then it's always like oh you're attacking me no no one is attacking you it's just life comes

01:13:18.200 with consequences i'm not i'm not speaking i'm not even speaking to you i'm just saying in general yeah

01:13:21.960 i'm saying like as an only fans person i attack myself every day for what i do i don't like to do

01:13:26.440 that babe don't let these people think that what are you saying

01:13:41.000 people who you man you're pressure you came in here i don't think i don't let people think that

01:13:44.600 you're pressure because you are pressure but we can talk about we can talk about better and

01:13:50.520 worse choices i'm not talking about you as a yeah exactly like okay okay if i had a drug dealer in

01:13:56.200 here and we said why do you do that you have a kid nobody would have the same backlash

01:14:00.440 but what about what if the man was on only fans and he had a door

01:14:18.600 imagine a man having a door and being on only fans and you take that door away from him man

01:14:21.960 i talked about adam 22 for like two weeks it's selfish selfish it's absolutely and i need you to

01:14:34.120 not respond when i talk i need you to shh thank you thank you so it's selfish because it's not

01:14:40.200 supposed to be about you like what what is money kids want good parents it is absolutely selfish to

01:14:46.760 put your kid in a position where now they're going to have to see their parents having sex on the

01:14:50.840 internet i cannot because one day because because wait wait see don't do that because because kids

01:14:57.000 you know because the truth comes out eventually and one day kids grow up and people talk

01:15:02.840 and there's been there have been wait wait there have been there wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

01:15:08.120 thank you and there have been there have been so many accounts of kids that are getting bullied

01:15:13.000 because of their mother or their father is on only fans and it's and it's wrong and it's and it's

01:15:20.840 and it's no no no no you don't nobody for being black so i'm not getting bullied by not having

01:15:26.200 enough people that don't have enough money you can't you can't make comparisons you know it's

01:15:31.400 so interesting come on you can't make comparisons about when you see your mom or your dad out there

01:15:37.080 compared to being bullied for being black that's not a comparison yeah no it is because at the end of

01:15:41.560 the day it's being bullied i don't i don't have a choice i can't be black today and then not black

01:15:45.800 tomorrow exactly it's biological what are you saying that's a choice can i ask you a question

01:15:55.160 are you black by choice no that's what i just said but are you can you actually become a prostitute by

01:16:00.840 choice no no no hold on hold on hold on yes or no yes or no yes or no no no don't call don't call

01:16:07.160 a prostitute no no no no i wasn't calling her he's generalizing he's just no no no i wasn't

01:16:14.920 listen listen for all the man that did pe and stuff that went to school that did sports yeah

01:16:18.840 you guys remember what it was like in the pe room yeah all right i'm gonna ask everyone because you

01:16:21.960 know how us guys how did how do boys violate each other in football when we go ahead what happens in

01:16:28.440 the changing rooms now the reason i say this year is because that a man would just say oh your mom

01:16:33.080 before or your mom's a whole that would be enough to make you stop beefing and scrapping just in the

01:16:36.920 playground yeah let alone someone be able to come and show oh my god you have no idea what that's

01:16:43.880 going to do to a man no no no no no it's not hypothetical no because it's all here no no it's

01:16:50.440 not here this is reality i'm not guessing and the thing is the thing is you guys want to do

01:16:59.080 everything and you guys want to live in a world where there's going to be no consequences but i'm

01:17:02.840 telling you something they are consequences particularly when you have young men i'm

01:17:07.480 like it's it's see a lot of women so we speak about so you you you spoke you said i always speak about

01:17:13.160 single mothers and the reason why i do is because is because we have a lot of stats for single parent

01:17:17.560 homes and what they produce and upbringings of it it doesn't mean all it's never all it's never all

01:17:21.960 it's majority but it's never all so some people were raised by single mother and they were going to

01:17:26.520 be amazing they're going to be like marcus rashford and feed the kids but for every marcus rashford

01:17:31.400 on the estate there's loads of people that are not going to make it out to be marcus rashford so

01:17:34.760 all i'm trying to say is sometimes when we speak as well you take it so literally it's not always

01:17:39.480 all that's not always all that's all it is and i've from and the reason i want to go back to what

01:17:43.800 i was saying to you jem earlier on the reason i'm trying to talk about protection is because

01:17:47.240 you don't understand that sometimes us men will do protection in different ways you didn't see what

01:17:50.920 i was doing in the lifters protection just hold on a second but she didn't she was talking about

01:17:55.800 a gun but i was trying to say the type of character that you meet a man he does not know you he's

01:18:00.120 witnessed you kissing another man yeah saying goodbye to him so i'm not trying to move to you

01:18:04.200 he's going to sit in the lift with you and i should be very nice no no he's making an example

01:18:09.480 get the point get the point i've got the point i've got no no but as women we need to get the point

01:18:14.840 that men are trying to give us you should be grateful and i said thank you that's not the

01:18:21.640 point that's not the point that's not the point because i want you to acknowledge what men do

01:18:27.400 because you said that we did by saying no no she said she men wouldn't do anything so i said to you

01:18:33.640 what did i do in the lift and what i'm trying to do is bring you my character you've never said men

01:18:37.080 wouldn't do anything oh you know what you know i said men wouldn't do anything if a woman was in

01:18:41.000 danger yeah of being hurt please let me tell the story she was in the list that she's about to

01:18:45.720 have okay okay okay guys guys guys guys guys wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

01:18:51.320 how okay this is your last warning stop i've told you to stop i've still okay then get out go go bye

01:19:02.680 all right you had a story yeah um with regards to i have a son and he's an adult male now and he's

01:19:09.720 coming back from wherever and he's walking and he saw a man hold a woman and punch her in her face

01:19:18.600 now he was with another friend and he said he moved so fast and he went to that man and he held that man

01:19:26.520 and he said don't you ever in your life pick up your hand to another woman again ever and the woman was

01:19:36.520 scared he wasn't gonna hit the man he just let him know he didn't know who this woman was he didn't

01:19:42.600 know who the man was but it was his natural instinct he didn't think he said he moved so fast

01:19:48.520 to that guy to let him know that he could not put his hand on that woman again now that's what you

01:19:54.520 call protection and that's respect towards the other person okay so sometimes i think we're not

01:20:00.600 seeing sometimes we take men's language their words and their demeanor as aggression

01:20:10.760 and it's not aggression actually if we would allow them to speak allow them to make their point

01:20:16.920 and for us to stop being pseudo masculine because that's what i call it we've become so masculine

01:20:23.000 ourselves that we're not realizing that sometimes men are just being protective we need to understand

01:20:30.360 the nature of a man i think just listening to what's been going on here i've seen it back and forth

01:20:38.760 like some of the answers we are you know how we are violent as women with our mouths and our tongues

01:20:44.840 facts we are so disrespectful i never said just women i'm talking about specifically what women do

01:20:54.280 on this in this i'm not she's 60 like she's old enough to be your mom she's seen life so can you

01:20:59.720 actually listen to her parents have stayed in marriages that are not beneficial i don't care

01:21:03.800 can you can you just listen to her you don't care about age cool that's fine but can you listen to

01:21:08.200 that what country are you from i'm nigerian wow i'm nigerian too like if you are actually nigerian

01:21:13.960 yeah if you're actually nigerian you'll be a little bit more traditional in the way you see

01:21:18.600 things i've seen the detriment so what you're disrespecting an elder six-year-old woman you

01:21:23.080 don't know wow no she keeps on talking and then you're talking over her let her speak she's not

01:21:27.800 represented of nigerian culture and women she's not she's not okay do you well i was raised in the

01:21:31.800 western world all right so was i i have a question i have a question you don't yeah you don't think there's

01:21:36.680 some level of respect you just give someone because they're a bit older yeah i get that okay

01:21:40.920 okay so okay okay okay so i'm not talking about your ethnicity so shh jesus christ go ahead basically

01:21:47.960 i mean this is the thing as as you know men and women we have our natures and often we're not trying

01:21:54.920 to understand each other's natures women are trying to change men and men do try to change women

01:22:00.760 i must i must say that but the thing is why do we as women have to get aggressive get defensive

01:22:08.440 and then not listen and then become personal why the reason why is because like like so i want to

01:22:16.760 get back to what i was trying to say because she kept on interrupting it so you guys will you guys make

01:22:20.840 a lot of um like brass statements that's fine you can say what you want to say but when we try to

01:22:25.320 actually challenge it or give information about you check you want to start over speaking us and then

01:22:29.000 making it personal um she wants to start speaking about pearl's legs and you want to start asking

01:22:33.240 what people do what you're doing you're derailing the conversation like it really is not going to

01:22:36.840 get us anywhere like and the reason i'm saying is because we can have real conversations about

01:22:40.920 things that we don't like necessarily agree on we don't have to start making it personal like but

01:22:45.560 when you come here with an agenda as you came with an agenda the girl in the corner you want to say

01:22:49.240 you've seen me before you've seen me on social media so you're whatever you've seen of me in the

01:22:52.920 clips you've come with that vim but you haven't seen the full clip you haven't seen what's the full

01:22:56.840 episodes you have to understand sure you match that energy you matched how you received you came

01:23:01.080 in your vibe was very aggressive you was very is it is is it ever question is it possible that you

01:23:07.160 just miss miss like you you just took it the wrong way no i mean i agree of course this is is it is it

01:23:13.960 possible as women sometimes we take things the wrong way it's not even a woman and and i'll tell you

01:23:20.520 i'll tell you something i've learned from interviewing a lot of guys interviewing hundreds of people

01:23:26.840 a lot of times men feel like they cannot talk to us because they speak more direct and they're a

01:23:33.160 little bit harsher and they're a little bit more to the point so when they speak to us like they talk

01:23:38.200 to other men then we get offended and prissy and it's not an aggressive thing it's not they're trying

01:23:43.960 to come at you they just speak directly and you're so used to most women are so used to having men cater

01:23:49.800 to them and a lot of simp guys around them speaking generally yeah mostly it's simp guys talking

01:23:56.680 to you like a woman and so when you say oh it's how you say it it's your tone you're saying hey

01:24:00.760 communicate to me like a woman men do not talk like that if i do if i was to talk direct to a guy

01:24:07.400 or be very serious then you would say oh she's masculine you're very masculine you've been doing

01:24:11.800 that well and and i don't care i don't give a fuck but let's see you're swearing wow so can i can i

01:24:18.200 correct this is how your nigerian parents raise you can i just correct are you insane let me correct

01:24:23.080 something a woman a woman cannot be masculine she can be pseudo masculine a man can be masculine

01:24:31.480 you're insane of course you can't be masculine because when she said what you're gonna do if i

01:24:34.920 actually got up and then she said oh what you can and the reason i'm just trying to say is no man

01:24:38.680 would do that because i would get up and do something sure and and the thing about this is

01:24:43.240 this is what i'm trying to say whoever raised her disgusting upbringing because you mad disgusting

01:24:47.880 not bringing i'm a podcaster i'm a podcaster no money i ain't got no money oh he's not he's not

01:25:00.360 only fans though oh no but i'm talking i'm talking more money than him that's that's the problem

01:25:09.480 i can i can attest after after wait wait wait wait i can wait i can i can attest watching the

01:25:15.080 life span of only fans models none of them are good with money they're broke out they're like

01:25:19.800 it's only like only like uh i don't remember the exact number but like five to ten percent make it

01:25:24.280 after 40. they age out and then but it's not even that it's just even when someone's like oh you got

01:25:29.800 more like what who what it's always um so i wanted to show you guys a video because um we said that like

01:25:36.200 men don't know it's always the dead things that always move like that i've realized that

01:25:39.560 pretty guys good looking girls never do that good looking good looking girls never do that

01:25:45.240 it's always the dead things

01:25:47.880 don't say that it's always i don't understand it it's always the dead and the overweight things

01:25:51.640 their man always got attitude pretty women don't do that do you know why because they're secure

01:25:55.480 women don't have attitude no they have pretty women attitude but that's disgusting what's the

01:25:58.680 difference what's the difference that one's there i don't get no man attitude just just disgusting

01:26:02.120 at you you know it's so interesting it's like you guys you know what sorry no but i just want to

01:26:06.120 wait wait wait i just want to i want to i want to just say something it's kind of interesting when

01:26:09.800 she was insulting him about his money that nobody really had that reaction but if he goes for her

01:26:14.680 looks like she she can't she can't yeah he she came at him first like and this is this is

01:26:20.440 another thing i actually have money and she's ugly so oh my oh my you're the one talking about

01:26:32.760 you getting bullied in school for your looks get out of here girl that thing that's what to do all

01:26:37.080 right situation number one she goes out meets a nice man they do the dirty you know you know he's

01:26:46.840 very nice you know is he rich let's just say he's a nice i don't know what the a musician bartender

01:26:56.280 whatever okay now now what are you saying you you can say okay i don't i don't know let's not talk

01:27:03.160 about okay okay okay i don't know so first night she sleeps with him they never talk again is she a

01:27:09.720 whore a slut a hoe and an or a nice lady how often does she do that though it depends on her intention

01:27:15.160 doesn't it no but it depends on how often she does it okay if she does it once is she a whore

01:27:21.400 a slut or a hoe for life or can she still be a nice lady is she is she i hope it's romantic like we

01:27:27.960 need a little bit of a background no no background okay decision between both of them what what it's

01:27:35.000 a mutual decision between yeah yeah it's a mutual decision they meet sleep together don't speak oh

01:27:40.120 she's nice she's nice it depends what part she goes down she could still be nice yeah yeah

01:27:45.480 she could go she could go on to be a slut and continue to do it i'm saying i'm saying once one

01:27:50.600 time oh she's nice is she still a nice lady or is she one of the three she's a nice lady leave her

01:27:55.880 alone she's a nice lady i just think every lady is a nice lady more more often than not if you're

01:28:01.720 after the you know meeting some some guy on a night out you're a slut more often than not i would say 90

01:28:08.280 at the time well yeah it depends on how many times you've done it if you if you go out and you

01:28:12.440 are continuously guys with no intention of actually doing anything oh my gosh there's so many men in

01:28:19.160 here oh my gosh okay guys raise your hand i want to know what the guys think raise of hands one time

01:28:26.440 is she a is she a whore raise your hand no no okay is she a slut raise your hand yeah it's no if there's

01:28:33.320 no there's no attempt for like anything else okay is she a hoe one time all right does anyone think

01:28:41.080 she's a nice lady yeah i think she's a nice lady she sounds really sweet it's only sex okay yeah yeah

01:28:47.400 it's just sex and do these like twins like guys as well all right you know i i'm gonna i'm gonna

01:28:54.360 okay raise of hands who says nice lady we're gonna go all right five rigged election

01:29:00.440 okay i just feel like the man wait wait the man's slut who says slide yeah i'd say slot oh

01:29:08.200 oh jesus christ all right i'm gonna you guys are getting your dicks out too you know that yeah

01:29:12.680 exactly right that's my point so i would say that she's a slap don't say that she's a nice lady but

01:29:18.680 she has slutty tendencies yeah and that's perfectly fine so i think it is remember you're not giving me any

01:29:25.240 context none of this means bad person no it doesn't don't confuse this with bad person

01:29:30.280 it just means it means yeah maybe a worse person no yeah the bloke has good game yeah

01:29:39.800 he's sitting there telling her that he's gonna you're gonna they're gonna live their lives together

01:29:43.560 okay okay so it's still her decision to open her legs it's always her decision in the end

01:29:49.480 so it depends on what that's taken away or not but that's a different story for the guys

01:29:54.280 is it different if she thinks it'll be like a multiple night stand 100 100 100 yeah i would

01:30:00.280 agree with that totally totally agree yeah if a guy gives off the impression because there are so

01:30:04.680 many vulnerable women out there who who literally no but it's what like that sounds awful it sounds

01:30:11.720 awful but they are so stupid that they think that they're gonna have more than one night with one guy

01:30:17.800 and they'll sit there eating up all the that they're given they're like chris brown didn't call

01:30:21.640 me back oh my god it's like watching it's like watching an episode of mtv catfish and you're

01:30:29.160 just sitting there like girl you are stupid like you are dumb and that's okay okay so we got strippers

01:30:35.480 here all right now ladies only fans with with sex on it i'm gonna say my best friends what do you what

01:30:45.240 do you mean with sex on it like like she's banging a dude yeah like what is she banging her boyfriend

01:30:51.000 okay so is it no i want to know i want to know so it's different if it's her boyfriend or a different

01:30:57.480 like just another i would start over there i still say slut okay if it's her boyfriend all right only

01:31:03.560 fans banging her boyfriend slut yeah how it just work give me all three pearl give me horse slut and

01:31:10.920 ho i just i just don't like the word i don't like the word ho i think it's stupid it sounds like

01:31:17.400 childish all right for out of out of the kindness of my heart i'll just put it under whore and slut

01:31:25.400 ho is in every single piece of music that's on yeah but that's why it's so

01:31:29.640 i think hip-hop so i think people are kind of used to it if you want what's what you want to

01:31:33.000 define a ho Kanye said he loved it you're such a funny stupid yeah what's a ho what is i'll tell

01:31:39.000 you i'll tell you i'll tell you exactly i'll tell you exactly i'll go back to my original definition

01:31:43.000 it's a rake that goes into the ground my original right because a hoard is hoard is it for money

01:31:48.120 slut does it for sex or it's pure pure sexual gratification yeah right ho is a pretension nice ladies

01:31:53.640 for love the ho the reason why i said the ho is the one i i ranked the lowest is because she's

01:32:00.200 putting her in her body and everything out there purely for the attention and validation of men yeah

01:32:07.560 not to create a loving bond with a partner not for even i would respect a a genuine prostitute more

01:32:14.920 than a hawk because usually she's doing it for a financial gain at least she's buying some business

01:32:19.720 sense to it right but the ho the ho who's like oh yeah i'll go and chris brown's boat all over the

01:32:25.880 yeah and shake and twerk my ass and get my tits out and run around like how do i respect that well

01:32:30.600 to that point i think only fans girls can be in either of those categories like you said they could

01:32:36.200 be a ho yeah they could be a boy they could be a slut well no i i the earth has to lean more towards

01:32:40.840 the the the whole and the spectrum well yeah because there's money because there's money

01:32:44.040 because most people aren't just doing it for the pure validation for the love of being an only

01:32:49.400 fans girl and not for the money you guys you guys do it for the love of your profession hold on i

01:32:54.360 actually i have a way i do for the one really passionate about being an only fans girl here

01:33:00.360 me you love your job i love it like some people like a nine to five you know like some people

01:33:06.040 really love finance i love chatting to new people i love some parts of it but not everything yeah

01:33:12.200 there's there's certain things there's so you i think i wouldn't post my content so what do you

01:33:17.960 it what do you guys what do you guys think the average only fans model makes in a year 140

01:33:34.600 it's 180 a month for the average of the number yeah the number i have is 2400 a year yeah that's

01:33:41.640 yeah that's literally so so knowing that then aren't they really not doing it for money

01:33:47.960 it's because well i think i think the majority i think the majority is is that a lot of people

01:33:54.360 have found out about this referral scheme in america they use it a lot and it's a pyramid scheme

01:33:59.000 so all it is is other girls telling how much girls and how much money they make which in reality

01:34:04.680 you're not going to make money off of people trying to make money because if you don't want

01:34:07.640 to work for it you won't get it so that's just the way it works and a lot of girls think they

01:34:12.440 can just come into the industry make loads of money and then when they don't they kick off

01:34:16.920 and quit only fans because they and then what like it online and then they like it it's like

01:34:21.640 because you couldn't do it that's all okay they've been diluted into yeah the trick of oh it's easy

01:34:27.960 money exactly i mean you guys you know you make big money you make money all you do like it ain't

01:34:33.960 it's a job it still requires some degree motivation and it's a full-time job uh you're talking about a

01:34:41.880 a bit too much there sterling it's it's it's the easy job no no no it's definitely not easy okay

01:34:46.600 you do it exactly you do it i actually wouldn't say give it a go i could do it i think the average

01:34:50.600 person could do it i don't know you tell me the average person the average person could make could

01:34:55.080 make a couple hundred bucks a month yeah maybe if you want to if you want to maybe save a little bit

01:34:58.360 of pennies for a rainy day that would be great if you could do that to make their kind of money

01:35:02.520 the average person couldn't do it without some degree of business systems exactly and like help like

01:35:08.360 help support i'm just like i'm just trying to be as objective as i can about this like having

01:35:22.680 having been in in but i think that's the thing sterling you don't think it's easier than other

01:35:27.880 jobs like go go oh wait yeah get on an oil rig i've worked on it i love bringing up the oil rig

01:35:37.400 i've worked on it it's so good would you find that would you find this the of harder than that way

01:35:42.520 harder oh yeah i've been on an oil rig you think only fans is harder than an oil rig definitely having

01:35:49.480 sex on camera is harder than being because you're not thinking it's not it's not yeah but you've got

01:35:54.600 to think right how the are people going to see you having sex on camera unless you promote it

01:35:58.120 exactly so it's the same as you do in youtube and the same as you promoting stuff online is

01:36:01.960 harder than being in the oil rig i think i need you i need you to go one at a time yeah i'm not

01:36:08.520 talking about the oil rig i'm talking about so obviously you do sports content i also do some

01:36:12.600 sports content so how the are people going to see you on only fans unless they actually see your normal

01:36:17.480 content so the majority of people who do only fans have to do some sort of normal content in order to

01:36:22.200 exchange for money i understand that obviously if you're doing stuff on youtube and that it's hard

01:36:25.800 to make money in it i'm sorry no being a content creator is not that hard i would say when you say

01:36:33.880 controversial all the time like yeah obviously it's very easy to get views look look oh my god

01:36:41.000 oh come on you couldn't build this i feel like that's the there's the mental side of it as well

01:36:46.040 like there's a lot of stigma and there's a lot of people that give you hate every single day

01:36:50.760 i don't care about that like i love being degraded you do have to deal with the mental battle of it

01:36:56.840 as well all right i need to go back to this so only fans whore only fans okay so only fans with um

01:37:03.960 with random men where does that go is that like the lowest tier of only fans yeah yeah if you're

01:37:09.240 if you're just picking up random men off the street to them on only well maybe maybe maybe

01:37:13.480 maybe like other porn star i don't know how it works i don't know you can't you can't have sex with

01:37:19.320 random people on only fans okay but you can do collaborations yeah yeah okay you do collabs so

01:37:25.400 um where does that fall whore slut or hoe i would say you're a hoe oh i don't like that word but i'm

01:37:32.440 gonna put you there oh it can fit in all three it doesn't matter it's only business yeah like it's

01:37:37.960 literally there's no mutual i mean they're still trying to earn money from it as well but there it's

01:37:43.720 also slutty and it's also been i think you could really put it in any category you know what i'd

01:37:48.920 agree with that part because like if she's doing it not just for money but she also like like she's

01:37:53.080 going after the thrill of just multiple multiple sexual experiences yeah how many how many bodies

01:37:59.320 does it take how much all right so what let's i would love to just break this down little by little

01:38:07.560 so all right and i need i need the men to answer this this is like the misconception though so so

01:38:13.560 wait i need i need to do so five all right two bodies as a woman is still a nice lady yeah definitely

01:38:21.480 so you would call me a nice lady then because i've literally slept with two people even though i do of

01:38:27.320 no i think the of would cancel it out it's like think of a venn diagram like it's like circles

01:38:36.360 aren't overlapping probably depends who you ask if you're a christian like if you take it from a

01:38:41.480 christian lens i'm a catholic a catholic sorry if you're a catholic if you're looking at from a

01:38:45.640 catholic lens then anyone that has sex before marriage is being careless and that's kind of

01:38:50.600 slutty almost okay okay so you would put are you christian oh yeah i'm catholic as well oh nice

01:38:56.200 i'm catholic too but me too i'm irish catholic all right but i'm just trying to get a general

01:39:01.160 consensus because if we go by historical point of view you know you're right actually only five

01:39:07.240 percent of women would not be classified as whores because virginity was a prerequisite for marriage

01:39:13.240 but i want to know in the modern times with modern people right i'm not saying this is right but i want

01:39:19.480 to know when is a woman clarified so two bodies still a nice lady okay we're gonna do yeah um five

01:39:29.880 bodies i'd say under five yeah getting up there with five i reckon pearl five like in a lifetime or

01:39:36.680 what are we yeah yeah before i meet her okay oh my god okay 10 bodies that's getting excessive i mean

01:39:46.200 that's a lot of bodies it's not even that much 10 is not that much no it's not what's it

01:39:57.160 so the average age of first marriage in the uk is 30 31 for ladies a 31 year old woman

01:40:04.840 10 bodies nice lady yes or no i want hands yes nice lady nice 10 and she's married yeah nice lady no

01:40:12.680 no he thinks she's a nice no not a nice lady at 31 yeah 31 10 bodies come on yeah i mean it's that

01:40:19.160 the age is a big thing to consider didn't it it's like no she might have been trying to be the nice

01:40:24.440 lady for the whole what was your when you when you guys from 18 to 31 you're trying to say she's a

01:40:30.440 whore yeah i wouldn't i'd love to see the women you're with i wouldn't call that a whore oh at 31

01:40:35.880 and 10. i'd say just i'd say it's miserable i'm doing it like stats 31 and 10. i'd say she's lacking

01:40:42.440 should we add in another characterization yeah we need another one yeah we need desperate i think we

01:40:49.720 need desperate on there because there is like i think there's a big differentiation between all of

01:40:55.160 them we need someone who's desperate because it does come down to that i don't know you mean like

01:40:59.560 pastor prime yeah not pastor prime but i think there's just gen genu generally just people who

01:41:05.320 are just desperate like someone who tries too hard there are some girls that genuinely try they do too

01:41:18.200 much they do too much and you're like what and they're not even in a category they are just above

01:41:22.680 and beyond okay so i put lady so nice lady lady ho slut whore that makes sense so so 10 bodies

01:41:33.000 bitch where is she she's a lady lady she's giving me five to ten everyone's nodding five to ten is the

01:41:43.320 lady she's the lady of the night all right all right what is the average like amount of sexual

01:41:50.040 partners so i've actually researched the average is like seven isn't it no okay i'll tell you so it's

01:41:54.600 very confusing when you look at the numbers because you know women were so honest yeah it's self-reported

01:42:03.480 it says five to eight however there are women in college that report sleeping with seven sexual

01:42:09.080 partners in a year and 70 of women admit to lying about their body count

01:42:14.360 okay so you'll never know good girls yeah but why do you think that is because they're categorizing

01:42:20.200 people into into slut ho ho lady and nice lady that's not why it's because women women understand

01:42:26.520 fundamentally that the the male species will value her less as a long-term potential partner

01:42:34.920 if she has people when you did only fans yeah but yeah but men and women are very very different honey

01:42:39.080 100 very very different yeah they're so different that man's a stud because he's

01:42:42.760 what's a chick because it takes him effort it takes me effort effort and energy you can literally

01:42:48.280 you can literally walk out the door right now and be like want to fuck me want to get a blowjob

01:42:53.960 99 of dudes are like uh yeah oh yeah that's easy i couldn't that's why men are so easy

01:42:58.600 i couldn't do that he couldn't do that he couldn't do that don't care how big his dick is he couldn't

01:43:04.280 walk up to any random lady outside and make it happen instantly because we value what takes effort

01:43:13.080 but then if you did that then you'd be sorry even though it's very different

01:43:16.120 men and women are very different like i don't get it i don't i'll tell you what i never got invited

01:43:20.760 on any boats between the ages of like 16 to 25. i was never invited a boat because i'm but now you

01:43:28.840 are because you have money because i'm paying for the boat now it's my boat i love that for you

01:43:34.520 i love that for you and i would love to suck your dick and you went by all the hoes yeah that's the

01:43:38.600 difference it would be so great it's simple it'd be so really simple but i agree with this point guys

01:43:43.720 will look at girls with a high body can and say okay but probably they're still willing to

01:43:47.800 fuck anyone else probably not as high value some guys don't i wouldn't care i don't like i don't

01:43:53.720 like i don't like i don't know why i'm surprised kings need concubines yeah literally they've always

01:43:58.120 had them in history yeah as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized

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JustPearlyThings - October 17, 2023

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