JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Woman Tries to Shame These Men for spitting Facts


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Length

10 minutes

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212.15652

Word count

2,306

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

9

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss geriatric pregnancy, infertile women, and what it takes to have a baby in your 30s. We also talk about the difference between older women and younger women and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 so question question for the men for the men would you marry an older woman knowing what we 1.00
00:00:07.640 know about pregnancy and infertility and older women so would you get into a relationship with
00:00:14.780 a woman that was over the age of 35 that wanted kids and knowing this is a possibility no what 0.99
00:00:22.300 about you no okay tell me why China I feel like you got thoughts because because geriatric pregnancy
00:00:33.940 starts when does it start age is it 30 29 30 you start to leave it I think geriatric starts at 35
00:00:38.880 but you've lost most of you so you lose most eggs by 30 geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 I would like
00:00:45.740 to have three to five kids I don't have any kids so far so I come from a big family so um yeah I would
00:00:51.260 obviously need to be a woman that could that could yeah and you know what it is like I'm just I'm just
00:00:56.540 real man like like I have to put this out there because there seems to be some thing that men don't
00:01:00.820 understand as you get older because I'm in my 30s and that like things just get so much better so
00:01:05.320 it's like my girls and my girls in their 20s and that and I get like I get women all the times in
00:01:09.940 their 20s that have no problems that would move to me so this there's something where so what tends
00:01:14.760 to happen is a lot of women in their 30s because they they spent their 20s chasing off the Chad and 0.80
00:01:19.060 Tyrone and and and getting run through getting high body counts getting trauma getting kids and
00:01:24.560 what have you not so by the time they get to their 30s and then they wake up and they like the girl
00:01:28.440 said before she was having a panic attack or whatever um they start looking at the guys that
00:01:33.180 they didn't look at but the thing is now like these types of guys were not actually looking at you
00:01:37.640 and then if you're out in the club still when you're in the 30s there's a new set of women that are 1.00
00:01:41.440 that out now from their 20s right and and the guys you didn't look at when you were chasing off
00:01:46.500 Chad and Tyrone and now the guys that you're chasing after but they have an access to all
00:01:50.200 types of women so a lot of times you will get women that get in their feelings to start saying 1.00
00:01:53.780 stuff about oh men in their 30s trying to date younger women oh it's because they want to control
00:01:58.220 them and do all this no the reason they're saying that is because it's competition now and they're
00:02:02.020 out in the same exact same place and they're going after the same group of men and so they want to
00:02:06.700 make it fair but life isn't fair when we was younger and I was 18 and 20s and that and they were
00:02:10.740 dating all the older mans and they were popping bottles and jumping in the cars like we had to we had to
00:02:14.880 take the pain it wasn't nice they had the sparklers the uncles were doing their thing
00:02:18.300 but no it's cool it's cool it's a western they're the sparklers and that they were jumping in the
00:02:22.400 whips you know we was watching what was going on you know you know the bottles yeah you know we went
00:02:26.720 to very different high schools yeah no that one was out so so so we've seen all of that so now
00:02:32.760 we're the uncles and we're living a life and some people are not happy but the difference is a lot
00:02:37.340 of the younger women they have seen what you women haven't seen in these men that you've missed and
00:02:41.100 now you're directly in competition with them so what i always put out to people is you need to
00:02:45.000 use your your prime time from 18 to 28 you've had 10 years literally outside like you've had good guys
00:02:50.920 you've had guys in your dms guys stacking shelves guys studying guys that you've aired but you've
00:02:54.920 chosen to go after the top 20 of guys that have access to multiple women guys that can have
00:02:58.880 one baby with one woman and then actually get you to have babies with them again so my thing is this
00:03:03.560 is this you know things get so good and we don't take baby moms around here bro listen yeah 1.00
00:03:09.400 hey let me say something yeah because i'll come in really late yeah
00:03:12.300 listen listen listen listen let me say one thing yeah i do not have sympathy for you chicks yeah 1.00
00:03:23.680 when you get old you hit the wall and then you start complaining oh where has all the good men gone
00:03:28.480 bruv you had the good men they're in your friend zone in your best years bro yeah when you're chasing
00:03:34.920 chad and tyrone like my boy said chad and tyrone yeah yeah you're smashing guys like china and king 0.97
00:03:40.420 riches bruv it's your fault bro yeah and then like at the end of the day bruv it's on you bro
00:03:46.860 you're adult bro do you get what i'm saying you talk you chasing bad boys and and drug dealers and
00:03:52.700 rappers and youtubers and all of these kind of people bruv at the end of the day you only got
00:03:57.480 yourself to blame fam are you both single then what are you both no no no no no i'm active i'm
00:04:07.780 active i'll say i'm active yeah are you single yeah why because i want to be right now okay
00:04:15.280 interesting so anyway as i was saying yeah boom like and then you get old and then boom like your
00:04:21.020 your options have dried up and you've dried up as well that's it bro do you get i'm saying and don't
00:04:26.280 blame no one in it don't cry in it because when you was winning you didn't care about nothing
00:04:31.080 nothing you know what i'm saying you didn't care about the guys in your friend zone you didn't care
00:04:35.340 about the guys that want to treat you right and nothing bro because every man here has had a
00:04:39.560 situation where you liked a girl and you was willing to give that girl the world and everything
00:04:44.380 and it wasn't even a hyper sexual situation you wanted to go on picnics hold hands skip and all of
00:04:50.640 that bruv yeah and she cheated on them with you bruv not even i just cried like rave jake
00:04:57.200 you know it changed the whole dynamic but listen at the end of the day you hurt feelings in it
00:05:05.440 so when the world comes and bites you back bruv is bro you had your chance in it that's all i'm
00:05:11.440 saying in it did someone hurt you i feel like this is personal oh no no no no no no no no no no no no
00:05:18.000 i'm good i'm good i'm good i'm good i'm good i'm good i'm good i'm good trust me you can tell
00:05:28.240 number one that's always the number one comment when someone a man is speaking facts is who hurt you
00:05:33.280 i completely agree because when i sometimes you know i used to sometimes go to mayfair clubs and
00:05:45.640 then you have the people with the tables and the bottles and it's just like yeah the sparklers
00:05:51.040 that's what you just said whatever like i'm just like cool whatever it's always weirdos anyways
00:05:56.380 and you just stand there and then it's true like most girls chase after these guys but you can just
00:06:02.480 tell by the way these guys move like if there's 20 girls they're probably more interested in getting
00:06:08.240 into a gangbang than a relationship you like bad boys as well you like bad boys as well you've never
00:06:14.080 had a bad boy phase i've i've had it before so the answer was yes can i talk yeah of course you can
00:06:21.200 but i've realized that how old was you when you realized like two years ago how many years did you
00:06:29.040 be bad boys for it was only when i came to london like a year ish yeah but then i just realized it
00:06:36.080 wasn't for me because for me personally what i look for in people and in friends and stuff
00:06:41.040 is way deeper than this you know like you had an epiphany i hear that i don't know i feel like i feel
00:06:46.640 like for you it's what you said it's like if you really and truly look inside yourself you want
00:06:53.200 someone that really values you these people that chase after multiple people they're not in this
00:06:59.520 space so if you choose to are you talking about men or women both ways because there's also that's
00:07:05.280 what we that's what we like to do we like to chase after multiple women we like variety no no but i feel
00:07:11.360 like some some girls it's what you say they they have the choice to be with the good guy but they want 1.00
00:07:18.000 to be with with someone that it looks looks more attractive i think i think that i think that all
00:07:22.640 girls want a guy that other women want i don't think there's a single girl that wants a guy that 1.00
00:07:26.560 nobody wants that's true no that's true but what i'm saying is if you if you do the look with if you do
00:07:32.080 the if you look within yourself yeah and if you want someone that only wants you yeah and you chase
00:07:38.880 after people that want multiple people that are valued by multiple people then you make that choice
00:07:44.800 to get hurt because you see the way they move and you don't tell me tell your friends tell your
00:07:50.240 sisters i know this thing but i've i've had this convo with many of my friends where i'm like what
00:07:55.520 did they say when you say this to them oh they don't like it but i don't care because i need to
00:07:59.440 speak the truth right and i'm saying you're actively making the choice to interact with these people
00:08:04.240 and you keep doing it again so you shouldn't so you shouldn't have sympathy the same way i don't
00:08:07.760 have sympathy you shouldn't have sympathy yeah yeah so you see what king richie was saying yeah you was
00:08:11.760 like oh like like who hurt him but you have to understand something yeah like he's just
00:08:15.360 representing all the men that he speaks to no no like it's not i thought it's powerful no but it's
00:08:20.080 not why you said who hurt you he's not like the reason it's something that we commonly get when we
00:08:25.440 start speaking with passion here they're like who hurt you it's not that what hurt it's just that we
00:08:28.720 represent so i recognize her hey do i look hurt hey hey you don't watch it do i look i'm laughing bro i find it funny
00:08:38.320 so so so we have to laugh because it's like okay cool it was supposed to be a laughable moment okay
00:08:42.960 so once so so once we get past that it's like okay we're not hurt but there's a lot of men that we
00:08:47.120 represent it's not it's not just you like like this is just what women always yeah like it's it's it's 0.54
00:08:52.320 you guys say things but you don't know how many times you've heard this on the show just like you
00:08:56.720 said you're representing a lot of men and you're not necessarily hurt yourselves i've been sitting here
00:09:00.960 talking quite passionately about men being delusional and men lying and being manipulative i'm not talking from a
00:09:06.640 place of hurt personally yeah i've had one mess up i'm not even joking like one mess up where with
00:09:12.800 a guy with an idiot guy okay and i like my lesson but well i never said but i never said who hurt you 0.91
00:09:17.680 i know you didn't so i know you didn't but i just want to i just want to clarify that because i felt
00:09:21.280 like i was championing that a lot and i don't want anyone to be confused i am not the idiot girl okay 0.58
00:09:27.680 i'm not deborah with the same old repetitive guy okay but i know a lot of women who have been
00:09:32.480 manipulative and i manipulate manipulated and well that's but i empathize with them is what i'm saying
00:09:38.320 it's literally just because women are dating the same guy again it goes back to only only 20
00:09:44.000 of men really get to pick another 80 or whoever whoever will take them so if you choose to go
00:09:49.920 off you're a top 20 guy and he cheats sorry don't really feel bad you picked you want him to be over
00:09:54.880 six foot you want him to make money you want to be attractive you want him also to be obsessed with you
00:10:00.400 it's like we've been sold a dream a disney fair deal of shit that's not real yeah you're kind of 0.58
00:10:05.200 pulling a tristan thompson on yourself yeah um okay guys i'm gonna read super chats and then i think
00:10:11.920 we're gonna close out the show um so have some final thoughts um ready because we're gonna do that
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