JustPearlyThings - Woman Uses Beta Male For A Free Meal

00:00:00.000 ever gone on a date with a guy that you did not find attractive because you wanted a free meal

00:00:04.760 yeah and the second one is have you ever had a friend that was the whale in this situation that

00:00:11.940 they're all describing and did you tell her the truth about what was going on okay uh first

00:00:16.780 question um i may have been out with a guy that i didn't find attractive initially but it wasn't

00:00:21.880 for the meal um basically i think that like looks aren't everything in a relationship if

00:00:28.480 if someone has personality integrity like has a brain then that could take you places you don't

00:00:34.960 necessarily have to look like a hundred million dollars for me to kind of like there's other

00:00:39.440 there's other factors other ingredients that would make a man my type um in terms of the second

00:00:47.280 question um i'd say no because all my girls are paying like nah there's never been a situation 1.00

00:00:52.220 that's my best friend all your girls are paying hey beautiful all my friends are

00:00:59.820 oh is that okay i don't know that oh my god oh i'm with that i'm with the slang now

00:01:08.700 okay there's always the ugly one in the group yeah like yeah i mean yeah i mean your friend can be pretty

00:01:15.900 but she could still punch out of her league yeah exactly like like she could be a solid seven punching 1.00

00:01:20.780 a ten but my girls are smarter than that they would never put themselves in a situation where like 1.00

00:01:24.860 they're just kind of like okay a hole i'm sorry like no i disagree single i disagree i've i've gone

00:01:31.660 out with a guy yeah just for a meal i mean the guy i knew what his intentions were but for me it was

00:01:37.900 never going past friendship because i wasn't attracted to him and you just didn't tickle my

00:01:46.220 fancy i mean you were short you was like nearly just a bit taller than me on the rankings now

00:01:55.820 if i'm wearing heels and i'm and i'm like a skyscraper over you

00:01:59.420 how tall are you how tall are you i'm five foot two you're five foot two so maximum you're going

00:02:05.260 to be five foot five yeah was the guy taller than you in heels though no how tall was round about

00:02:10.940 i don't know how tall he was but he was short and yeah i went out for a meal i was like do you know

00:02:16.300 what he was a persistent guy as well he kept on like responding to my stories and stuff like that

00:02:21.420 so i was like you know what that's it okay it's really easy to swipe up yeah that's persistent

00:02:30.700 you thought yeah let me use man for a free meal because i just want to eat yeah after work that's

00:02:35.340 deep fair enough it gets like that it gets like that it gets like that it wasn't a waste of time

00:02:48.540 because for me like i said i never saw it past anything being a friendship you're a cool guy

00:02:54.060 but me and you will never did you express that to him like we are not going anywhere past a friendship

00:02:59.820 yeah we can go out and eat no i didn't but so what so so basically you let him believe that okay boom

00:03:06.540 there's a opportunity there's a chance but in your head you know there is no chance but like you're not

00:03:11.740 going anywhere with me yeah yeah i didn't so basically you used him yeah i did oh okay

00:03:21.420 yes hello can we admit that like this dating thing is transactional because the man will take you on

00:03:26.700 loads of dates these fancy restaurants to smash and this is why i say like as a man you have to

00:03:32.860 set your standards like some guys in the beginning they'll take them to the shard yeah you can't

00:03:37.820 you can't blame a woman after that to be expecting fancy wine and dining and stuff like that you've 0.67

00:03:42.380 got a you've got a you know feel it out first build it up a bit a bit a bit and then see if she's 0.99

00:03:47.500 actually you know worth this you know what it is yeah sorry sorry to cut you off my guy a lot of men

00:03:51.820 are simps innit they they see bum breast and face and they lose themselves in them a lot of men forget

00:03:57.740 that what a woman's personality is like will make me take her to the shard i personally i don't take 1.00

00:04:02.540 girls on dates unless i know they're serious on my girlfriend level but these simps they see your 1.00

00:04:06.700 pretty face your bum your breast whatever it is i don't know what it is and i'm not saying that you 0.87

00:04:10.380 ain't going but i'm trying to say men in general and they'll take you to these places to try and have 0.98

00:04:13.980 a transactional experience and try to smash you yeah and now for you you're looking at the experience

00:04:18.140 in itself in general right yeah so even though you don't rate him you don't seem any potential

00:04:22.220 you're saying it's just a free meal right yeah so i think it's a fair game i don't know what are you

00:04:26.300 saying can i ask your question though can i ask your question did you see that guy ever again after

00:04:34.140 that um no wait wait wait wait wait no no no no let me learn i did i don't want to bait out how i

00:04:42.940 saw him how i saw him but he basically came and gave me like a birthday present after that but i never

00:04:48.700 saw him so basically he bought you food you enjoyed it you went home no kiss no hug no nothing or maybe

00:04:56.380 the church did he get a did he get a side hug at least i don't even remember that's how that's how

00:05:07.980 guys guys guys guys guys i probably did i probably okay okay okay but yeah anyway so what was the

00:05:14.380 question again um the first one was have you ever taken a date from a guy you don't find attractive

00:05:20.220 and the second one was has your friend ever been in a situation that they were describing and did you

00:05:26.700 tell her oh yeah i also wanted to mention as well based upon what you said because you said

00:05:31.660 you don't go out with guys you go out with guys based on their personality but the first thing you

00:05:37.100 see of a guy with anybody is their looks yeah so the looks is what's going to attract you your

00:05:41.340 personality comes along with it after and that develops and stuff yeah so you wouldn't talk to

00:05:45.660 a guy that does it is not aesthetically pleasing to you and you wouldn't know that he's a good

00:05:50.220 guy if if he wasn't a state aesthetically pleasing to you just because he's aesthetically pleasing

00:05:55.900 doesn't make him a good guy but that's the start though no but listen listen that's the start

00:06:03.180 why would you accept a date with a guy you don't find attractive because to me it's like if you don't

00:06:09.340 find him attractive in the beginning that's what you're supposed to like maybe i found him

00:06:12.860 attractive based on our conversation that we had maybe i found him attractive based on his warmth you 0.93

00:06:18.140 wouldn't give him the time of day based on yeah he's a warm person because at first you're ugly you got

00:06:27.020 money whatever cool so then we talk to you and then no i'm just talking about less because more time when

00:06:32.620 you see pretty girls with ugly guys they've got money if they've got something something of value to them 1.00

00:06:37.420 right so obviously right right now let's talk about money because more time that's what girls go for 1.00

00:06:41.580 right and then when you start going out with him over time you start thinking oh do you know what

00:06:46.940 he's actually all right like he's got some substance to him he can hold conversations 0.90

00:06:51.180 and as for the whale question there's always an ugly person an ugly girl in the group no matter how 1.00

00:07:07.580 pretty the group is there's always ugly girl have i ever told my whale friends maybe not and maybe i 0.61

00:07:13.980 should but at the same time those friends deal within their league they know they're not the best

00:07:19.500 so they go for like ugly guys sorry so women always try to date up they never date down never 1.00

00:07:26.140 tell me something tell me something 0.92

JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023

Woman Uses Beta Male For A Free Meal

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