JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


Women Are NOT DECISIVE


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

223.5233

Word count

2,297

Sentence count

240

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Hate speech

17

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about chasing after men who you don t like and chasing after a guy you don't like. We also talk about how women chase after men they don't even like and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So you're going to use the other guys for attention and then chase after the guy you
00:00:05.220 don't like, because how would you feel if you were in their shoes?
00:00:07.980 I'm a hypocrite.
00:00:08.640 No, no, but I'm saying, because you started the podcast saying that men ain't shit, but
00:00:12.880 you kind of are being ain't shit to men.
00:00:14.600 Yep.
00:00:15.220 I'm a hypocrite.
00:00:16.480 Do you know what it is?
00:00:17.820 At least you own it.
00:00:18.640 I feel like if I'm intentionally airing your message and not responding to you, you know
00:00:24.480 what it is.
00:00:25.360 If a guy is airing my messages and I choose to double or triple message him, I know what
00:00:29.420 it is.
00:00:29.780 And I'm choosing to be that person.
00:00:31.880 If you're messaging me and I air you, you message me again, I air you, you message me again
00:00:35.100 and I air you, but I enjoy the attention you do give me when you're messaging me, bigging
00:00:39.260 me up, but I'm choosing to air you.
00:00:41.300 You know what it is.
00:00:41.960 This is why I tell men. 0.72
00:00:43.120 You know what it is.
00:00:43.940 Hang on.
00:00:44.180 This is why I tell men, just focus on yourself. 0.97
00:00:46.900 A hundred percent.
00:00:48.220 Guys, focus on yourself because you will never, ever, ever be able to understand the psychology
00:00:53.460 of a woman.
00:00:54.020 No.
00:00:54.360 Because as a guy, right?
00:00:56.320 Does that make sense to us?
00:00:57.380 Yeah, it does.
00:00:58.060 Does that make sense?
00:00:58.700 Because as a man, if we say we want X, Y, and Z, that means we want X, Y, and Z, right?
00:01:04.920 And then go for it.
00:01:05.620 Yeah.
00:01:05.920 I mean, a woman will say they want X, Y, and Z, but if you give them X, Y, and Z, they're 1.00
00:01:09.880 like, I don't know if I want that.
00:01:12.860 It's like, but you said you wanted it.
00:01:14.680 I can't lie.
00:01:15.040 That's not me, though, personally.
00:01:16.580 If you give me exactly what I want, you're my man now.
00:01:20.060 You're my man.
00:01:20.460 We're good.
00:01:21.260 You're my man.
00:01:21.800 You're my man.
00:01:21.880 Personally, you're my man.
00:01:22.920 You see the guy that's giving me the attention I didn't ask for.
00:01:25.080 But wait, but why are you chasing the one guy who's not giving you what you want?
00:01:27.800 No, no.
00:01:28.020 You're chasing a man that's not your man.
00:01:29.960 He chases me.
00:01:30.260 He chases me.
00:01:30.940 And I let him stay there.
00:01:32.140 No, hang on.
00:01:32.780 You're actually with a man that's not your man.
00:01:34.540 Do you understand that?
00:01:35.180 You were a side chick. 1.00
00:01:36.040 You just said earlier you were a side chick. 1.00
00:01:37.940 No, not anymore.
00:01:39.240 But you were a side chick. 0.99
00:01:40.840 You used to be a side chick. 1.00
00:01:41.840 Do you know why, though?
00:01:42.680 Do you know why?
00:01:43.340 I didn't go in saying I want to be next.
00:01:46.020 If I knew from the beginning.
00:01:47.400 Bro, sir, I'd rather be single, yeah?
00:01:52.080 Than knowing that I'm a friend with benefit, yeah?
00:01:55.900 Or I'm banging this girl who has a boyfriend already.
00:01:59.360 I don't want that.
00:02:00.200 Let me land.
00:02:00.620 As a man, no.
00:02:01.560 As a man, we don't do that.
00:02:02.960 We don't bang.
00:02:03.900 Let me land.
00:02:04.180 We don't bang girls that have a boyfriend already. 0.96
00:02:06.560 Let me land.
00:02:06.860 But for women, it's fine for them. 1.00
00:02:08.440 Oh, you can't talk for every man.
00:02:09.580 Hang on, let me speak.
00:02:10.440 Let me speak.
00:02:10.800 Go on.
00:02:11.580 No, no, finish, finish, bro.
00:02:12.440 Finish, finish, finish.
00:02:13.040 But for girls, it's fine for them to know damn well in their head that this guy that they're
00:02:21.200 sleeping with are not their man.
00:02:23.680 Right.
00:02:24.460 But you wouldn't do that.
00:02:25.920 Listen, as men, we know if a woman that we're sleeping with is getting penis from somewhere
00:02:31.740 else.
00:02:32.920 No, no, no.
00:02:33.480 We don't want that.
00:02:34.680 We don't want that.
00:02:35.040 I have a question.
00:02:35.460 Do you know what it is, though?
00:02:36.120 Do you know what it is?
00:02:37.940 Sometimes, sometimes sex is just sex.
00:02:42.340 Don't get me wrong.
00:02:43.220 I feel like there's always an end goal to end up with someone.
00:02:45.960 But sometimes, you know, in the time, there's someone you're mad sexually attracted to and
00:02:50.260 they can stay around until you find whatever you need to find.
00:02:54.340 Don't get me wrong.
00:02:54.880 If I met the guy and knew he had a girlfriend in the jump, I wouldn't have entertained it.
00:02:58.540 Sounds like a little bit of addiction to me.
00:03:00.160 But you know what you did from the jump.
00:03:01.480 I mean, come on.
00:03:02.040 I didn't know he had a girlfriend initially.
00:03:03.440 Two weeks.
00:03:03.940 First month, that's the jump.
00:03:05.560 I have a serious question, though.
00:03:07.920 So have you ever asked him, like, what his girlfriend has that you don't?
00:03:11.860 No, no, no.
00:03:12.520 Because, no, I'm just thinking, like, if I was going to be a side chick, shit, I'd compete.
00:03:18.300 If you're going to do it anyway, if you're going to do it anyway.
00:03:20.960 Do you know what it is?
00:03:21.680 I can't like she's Leng. 1.00
00:03:23.480 She's good.
00:03:23.980 She's good looking, right?
00:03:24.780 Oh, yeah.
00:03:25.280 All right.
00:03:25.600 So, oh, my God.
00:03:27.300 Oh, my God.
00:03:28.780 So, hang on.
00:03:29.060 You guys can have those.
00:03:29.940 Let me ask a question with that, then, yeah?
00:03:32.260 If he broke up with his girlfriend.
00:03:35.020 Impossible.
00:03:35.780 Not with me.
00:03:36.340 No, I'm saying.
00:03:36.900 If he broke up with his girlfriend and said, I would just want to be with you.
00:03:39.280 Impossible.
00:03:40.000 Why is that impossible?
00:03:40.940 Because he cheated with me.
00:03:42.520 No, but I'm saying.
00:03:43.240 I don't trust him.
00:03:43.620 No, but if he said, I'm going to break up with my girlfriend and I'm going to be with
00:03:48.060 you, just you and me.
00:03:49.800 Would you be with him?
00:03:51.100 Impossible.
00:03:51.560 Why?
00:03:51.920 Is that a no?
00:03:52.980 You wouldn't be with him?
00:03:53.780 Listen.
00:03:54.380 Karma, why are you wasting your time in anything?
00:03:56.000 Listen.
00:03:56.280 Because you said you love this guy.
00:03:58.200 So, you would be with him, right?
00:03:59.240 Listen.
00:04:00.640 Am I a bit of an idiot for this guy?
00:04:02.720 Absolutely.
00:04:03.600 However, I'm a chosen idiot.
00:04:06.360 As in, I choose to be there.
00:04:08.020 You're a chosen idiot.
00:04:09.100 I feel like the main chick is worse than the side chick. 0.54
00:04:12.260 Do you know why?
00:04:13.580 Because the side chick knows she's a side chick. 1.00
00:04:16.780 She knows what her world is.
00:04:18.360 She knows what happened.
00:04:18.980 The main chick is thinking, that's my man.
00:04:21.240 Oh, I love him.
00:04:23.280 No, we both love him.
00:04:24.340 Yeah, but the main chick gets the commitment. 1.00
00:04:27.380 I probably see her man if she's up.
00:04:30.120 The main chick's who we love. 1.00
00:04:34.040 How often did I see my man?
00:04:36.340 Yeah, but he ain't leaving her for you.
00:04:38.320 Exactly.
00:04:39.620 One at a time, one at a time, one at a time.
00:04:41.220 So, what are you saying?
00:04:41.940 I was saying, he ain't leaving her for you.
00:04:43.660 No, that's fine.
00:04:44.200 So, either way, she is the chosen one.
00:04:46.560 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:47.140 There's no chosen one in this situation.
00:04:48.540 It's because she was there first.
00:04:49.660 There is no chosen one.
00:04:50.360 In this situation, everybody's a twin.
00:04:52.080 Do you know what it is?
00:04:52.860 There is no chosen one.
00:04:53.700 I feel like.
00:04:54.300 One at a time, guys.
00:04:55.100 One at a time, go on.
00:04:55.920 If you're the chosen one, you would be about you.
00:04:58.360 Do you know what I feel like, though?
00:04:59.720 But if you're a side chick, she's a side chick as well. 0.76
00:05:02.620 Because he has two girls.
00:05:02.840 You're both sides.
00:05:03.540 That's not true.
00:05:04.000 That's not true.
00:05:04.900 Because he's not giving you, he's like, neither of you's, what you require in a relationship.
00:05:08.900 He's just playing both of you's.
00:05:10.540 He's telling her, you're my girl.
00:05:12.040 He's telling you, I like you.
00:05:13.360 No.
00:05:13.860 No, no, no.
00:05:14.240 But she's not giving her loyalty.
00:05:18.540 Yes, yes.
00:05:19.040 But she might, you never know.
00:05:20.880 She might know.
00:05:21.680 Throughout all of human history, the top guys have had multiple women.
00:05:24.480 Correct.
00:05:24.700 They've always had a main chick and a concubine. 1.00
00:05:26.620 So, in this situation, no offense, you're a concubine. 0.95
00:05:29.740 From what I know of the situation, she be getting DMs from other girls. 1.00
00:05:34.120 So, she semi-knows.
00:05:35.900 However, I feel like there's a difference between, say, if I'm with a man, let's say I'm with Drake.
00:05:41.160 And then all of a sudden.
00:05:42.240 Drake's not with you.
00:05:44.040 No, let's say I'm officially with Drake.
00:05:47.760 Yeah, but he's not with you.
00:05:48.580 And then all of a sudden, someone richer and more power comes along.
00:05:52.000 Am I necessarily going to leave Drake just because something better is coming?
00:05:55.700 So, we're in this for love and money.
00:05:57.680 But you get what I'm saying.
00:05:58.640 But you get what I'm saying.
00:06:00.140 Can I say his girlfriend looks like me?
00:06:02.460 Okay, so.
00:06:03.000 I don't have a picture.
00:06:03.800 That actually.
00:06:04.340 You know what the difference is?
00:06:05.240 One second, one second, one second.
00:06:06.560 That actually leads me to something that I actually was going to ask.
00:06:09.980 Who's, do you know what monkey branching is?
00:06:12.820 I've never heard of that term.
00:06:13.820 Okay, so monkey branching is when you're in a relationship, right?
00:06:18.640 But you kind of, you've got a, there's a branch somewhere else.
00:06:22.320 That's what I mean, though.
00:06:23.480 You might go somewhere else.
00:06:25.080 You're in a relationship, but you're thinking, hmm, over there.
00:06:28.140 So, when you said that you're with Drake, et cetera, but there's a man, or if someone
00:06:34.720 more rich and more successful comes along, would you go?
00:06:38.460 I think, and correct me if I'm wrong, ladies, I think women monkey branch more so than men 1.00
00:06:44.460 do.
00:06:44.800 No.
00:06:44.900 Oh, men do it in the dark.
00:06:46.620 Oh, they do it. 0.53
00:06:47.480 Do you know what?
00:06:47.880 Men are some gold diggers, man.
00:06:49.700 Oh.
00:06:50.520 Do you know, say if I've got something good, stable, good money, treats me good, da, da,
00:06:54.660 da, da, da.
00:06:55.080 Now, I meet someone, I think the connection's better or the money's better.
00:06:58.160 Whatever.
00:06:58.660 Something's better.
00:06:59.260 But if I leave what I've got, that might collapse and I've got nothing.
00:07:03.700 I'll tell you why.
00:07:04.340 Because you know what hypergamy is, right?
00:07:06.020 Yeah.
00:07:06.200 So, hypergamy is that women want to date, are constantly trying to date up. 1.00
00:07:12.200 No, no, no.
00:07:13.000 Hang on, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:07:14.720 Women are constantly trying to date up. 1.00
00:07:16.780 They're trying to get the best deal that they can get.
00:07:20.240 Men, men will get a deal and be like, you know what?
00:07:23.400 I'm actually quite happy with this.
00:07:24.900 And hang on, let me finish.
00:07:26.560 Men will get a deal. 0.99
00:07:27.740 They will get a woman who's a six out of 10. 1.00
00:07:30.360 She ticks all the boxes and they will coast for the rest of their life.
00:07:33.700 Can I tell you why?
00:07:34.320 Hang on, wait, wait, wait.
00:07:36.340 So, women are always looking for that level up, right? 1.00
00:07:41.540 Which is why, which is why if I was to ask all of you women here right now, 1.00
00:07:45.460 the types of men that you want, you would probably list a man in the top 20% of men, right?
00:07:52.000 But if you're listing a man that's in the top 20% of men,
00:07:54.720 what's going to happen is, what if a man comes up, he's in the top 15%?
00:07:58.440 What if a man that comes up, he's in the top 10%?
00:08:00.340 I can't, I'd be dating by me.
00:08:01.860 No, no, no, but listen.
00:08:02.760 No, no, no, you just show me.
00:08:05.460 You just show me his picture.
00:08:06.780 You just show me his picture.
00:08:08.460 He's top 20% of men.
00:08:09.800 Do I be dating by me nuggers? 0.98
00:08:10.280 Yeah.
00:08:11.100 We don't have the same type.
00:08:12.260 But it doesn't not go down to, like, for example,
00:08:16.480 there's just a traditional way of a man needing to provide for a woman.
00:08:20.020 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:08:20.720 Our positions in life, even to do with tradition and culture,
00:08:23.620 does that not know?
00:08:24.200 It fools too when you, exactly.
00:08:25.960 No.
00:08:26.220 Because when he's talking about women trying to get the highest caliber and trying to go, like, 0.89
00:08:34.040 from hair to hair, career-wise, money-wise, home, family, for example.
00:08:38.080 So, exactly, that's what you boy do.
00:08:39.500 I'll tell you why.
00:08:40.680 Take Kim Kardashian for an example, right?
00:08:43.540 Kim Kardashian started out with Ray J, right?
00:08:46.480 Yeah.
00:08:46.620 Then she went to Reggie Miller, who was an NFL football player, right?
00:08:50.660 And then there was an, I think there was another NFL football player that she went with, right?
00:08:54.640 And then she found Kanye.
00:08:56.600 But she went down after Kanye. 0.97
00:08:57.480 Hang on, but Kanye was the pinnacle of Kim Kardashian's, the man that she could find, right?
00:09:04.100 So, what she done, so, no, what she done, hang on, but what she done,
00:09:08.680 she started to breed with, because in her heart and her mind, she was like,
00:09:12.960 this is top, this is top level.
00:09:14.100 So, she's now got four children for Kanye, right?
00:09:18.120 Hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on, hang on, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, let's wait, wait.
00:09:20.740 She's got four children for Kanye, right?
00:09:23.100 She felt like she found the pinnacle.
00:09:24.600 He's a billionaire.
00:09:25.620 She's a multi-millionaire. 1.00
00:09:27.480 She felt like that was her level.
00:09:29.320 After that, she divorced Kanye.
00:09:31.560 Where's she gone to?
00:09:33.060 Do you know what?
00:09:33.520 That's true.
00:09:33.880 Pete Davidson, right?
00:09:35.240 Do you know why?
00:09:36.020 Because after having four children.
00:09:38.580 She already hit the peak.
00:09:39.420 She hit her peak.
00:09:40.280 She hit her peak.
00:09:40.940 So, after Kanye West, from here on out, it's downhill for Kim Kardashian, because she's
00:09:46.840 got four children.
00:09:47.780 Well, and let's not, let's not, let's not, let's not, let's not.
00:09:49.860 She's going to be downhill.
00:09:50.780 It's downhill for me.
00:09:51.440 Let's not, let's not, let's not, let's not, let's not cap, though, as girls.
00:09:54.180 Like, of course you want to, of course, wait, of course you want to reproduce with the 0.97
00:09:57.900 best guy you can.
00:09:58.920 No, of course.
00:09:59.340 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on
00:10:06.940 this platform.
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