JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023


WOMEN are SEXIST

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Rachel Dolezal Rachel Rachel Caitlyn Jenner
NO Guy Wants To Be Just FRIENDS She SCHOOLED This Modern Woman@MelanieKing1

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

161.16

Word count

1,733

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Toxicity

17

sentences flagged

Hate speech

22

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss sexism, racism, and the double standard in society, and why it's okay to be racist when it's OK to be misandrist. We also discuss whether or not it's ever okay to change your race.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
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00:00:00.040 yeah why do you think it's okay for women to be sexist but not racist well
00:00:06.300 it's not just the question needs to change that either it's more like how
00:00:11.240 women can be sexist and black and black people can be racist in in this I think 1.00
00:00:15.080 that's a better equivalent so I think it's a better equivalence is like how 0.98
00:00:19.800 women can be allowed to be sexist the same way black people are allowed to be 1.00
00:00:23.580 racist okay for women to be sexist and not racist because it's it's just common 1.00
00:00:38.460 right it's so it's so like misandry is so common I hear it every day but nobody
00:00:43.140 bats an eye so if but if we switched it to race they would so is it sexist then
00:00:48.780 the example you gave of basically telling a woman you know a man is
00:00:53.400 different from you you should have some level of genuine fear like you can't
00:00:57.280 just walk into a man's house that you don't know off no man think he's just
00:01:01.440 another girl you can't treat a man like a woman right but I'm saying you should 1.00
00:01:06.020 walk into anyone's house you don't know I'm not I'm not walking into whale's
00:01:10.320 houses did your parents have to tell you that no some girls literally fit like I 1.00
00:01:22.320 personally have seen some girls feel too comfortable around men and I'm just like
00:01:26.760 hose I don't like to use that word jezebels there you go yes some girls just 1.00
00:01:37.980 feel very comfortable and I feel like it just comes from a lack of or even
00:01:41.460 hitting a man it comes from a lack of fear of that man because like you have
00:01:45.660 no fear within you that knows that oh he's different if he slaps me once I
00:01:50.340 could die like you literally don't have that in you and I think that I wouldn't
00:01:54.600 say teaching someone to in quote-unquote have this kind of fit I'm not saying be
00:01:59.780 afraid like never talk to men again but have a fear of genuinely he can take my
00:02:04.860 life if he wanted to I don't even know I don't think that's sexist it's common
00:02:09.900 sense not even here it's common sense a man has testosterone testosterone makes
00:02:17.820 you strong and if someone has more testosterone you then they're gonna be
00:02:22.680 stronger than you you shouldn't put yourself in that situation but but the
00:02:26.460 point is they're they're they're discriminating against the whole group I
00:02:30.240 think they are racist towards some races though women well and it's a very
00:02:35.000 acceptable like with Indian men you know yeah it's become a joke now how men slide 1.00
00:02:40.620 into your DMS yeah but that's that's sexual preference yeah do you think like
00:02:47.040 you could say the same thing with short guys it is I think it is I agree with you
00:02:50.940 I agree with you but now with Indian men it's become a joke like if you keep 1.00
00:03:00.820 hearing how Indian men slide into yeah yeah DMS and they make fun of them and 0.53
00:03:05.340 it's it is sort of okay but I think probably your your point is on a higher
00:03:10.680 level I think and I think it's about the the double standard that we have in
00:03:16.680 society that why is it okay to be racist when it's okay to be misandrist and I
00:03:24.520 think you mentioned it earlier you answered your own question where you said
00:03:28.860 that men are expendable we've been living through decades of men being told and
00:03:37.300 women being told that men should be disrespected in the home men should be
00:03:42.800 their value is really nothing other than the check and the seed and men have 1.00
00:03:50.640 been portrayed as bumbling idiots when actually what men do is very productive to 0.99
00:03:58.480 society and required and necessary not just for young boys but also for girls you 1.00
00:04:03.640 know what I've noticed if you watch ads on TV these days the man is always the 0.97
00:04:08.700 dumbass and the woman comes to the rescue fixing whatever it is have you noticed 0.98
00:04:13.140 that 70 to 80% of consumer buying decisions are made by women so they're 1.00
00:04:17.460 always marketing to women I have an accident I have a question for you Pro
00:04:21.780 okay I don't know if anybody else knows this that you may know it but are the
00:04:27.280 stats the same because nowadays we have another sector of sexuality trans men and
00:04:35.200 trans women are the stats the same if a woman is know if a man is now with a 0.86
00:04:44.620 trans woman or vice versa would those stats be the same I don't know okay I was 0.80
00:04:50.920 interested probably too soon because to me it's just like they're still a dude you
00:04:55.960 can dress like a dude it doesn't make you call them trannies you know it was just 1.00
00:05:01.660 accepted that there would be one dude among a group that likes to dress in
00:05:06.280 women's clothes why is it okay to be trans someone asked us in the chat why is it
00:05:11.440 okay to like change your sex but you can't change your race I think I think 1.00
00:05:16.900 Rachel Rachel does all that she should be allowed change your race if you if you
00:05:24.580 want to change your race like do you know is it actually a free world it's not 1.00
00:05:28.900 that yeah let me let me just kill me just zoning on this sorry if I if I Jesus if I 0.93
00:05:41.800 really wanted to be black yeah I could just I could just go go tanning let's 0.96
00:05:46.900 black face and yeah and yeah and just get I don't know and dress I think the idea
00:05:55.720 that no no no I could dress I could dress in African clothes no I'm so surprised 0.97
00:06:03.280 that you just said that this lady she works to help let's let's say let's say if I'm
00:06:16.880 by the next two years I started an orphanage in Africa I'm just asking I'm
00:06:22.520 just asking then I come back would that win me would I could I change my race the 0.97
00:06:27.500 way I actually see it no no I just need a yes or no I just need of course not
00:06:31.520 I don't actually agree with Rachel Dolezal doing that what I'm saying is actually trying to help black people 0.96
00:06:37.520 she said yes I'm like wait okay can I give a different perspective
00:06:43.160 I want your answer I want your guys one at a time wait guys say the question again
00:06:47.780 one at a time oh sorry go ahead wonderful say wait so you're asking me if it's okay for you to change
00:06:53.900 your race I think you can change your race in your own little self but don't expect me to call you 1.00
00:06:59.300 black or give you a pass to say the n-word but you just said no no no I said I said yeah do if 1.00
00:07:06.980 you want to identify as a goddamn table be a table for all I care just don't force me to them put my 0.99
00:07:13.220 a cop on you and pretend you're a table see here the thing this is the thing right this is this is 0.99
00:07:20.300 where it starts we start by allowing people to do it in their own and then those people get entitled
00:07:26.360 in the I do know what yeah no that's true you're right it's a slippery slope because I mean if we
00:07:32.300 told Caitlyn freaking Jenner that she couldn't have the female courage award like seven years ago where
00:07:37.640 we beat today and then we now we got that freaking that dude someone in the girls division and taking 1.00
00:07:47.360 our titles taking the same award when there's people women women their whole lives and done 0.99
00:07:55.160 things that's just how good men all I'm sorry no I'm not even I'm not talking about
00:07:59.180 completely disagreeing with everybody but I actually don't disagree like I agree with all
00:08:10.400 of you but just a different perspective someone who's grown up in the music business especially
00:08:15.980 jazz jazz has taught me a lot of things about the world and culture that the rest of the world didn't
00:08:21.080 teach me jazz taught me that I could be black but can I ask you a question what does it mean to be
00:08:26.900 black okay to have soul are you black no but but it's so in spite it it showed you how to be black 1.00
00:08:35.000 in America maybe but what about black people in Africa and Nigeria or explain that why did you 0.91
00:08:40.820 explain that more well there may be some people who disagree with me but I believe that in a large
00:08:48.200 part the American art form as jazz of jazz is very much a black art form it's not only black
00:08:56.660 agreeable there there's a whole movement out there that's pushing black American music and
00:09:01.400 trying to call jazz black American music I disagree wholeheartedly because that eliminates the Latin
00:09:07.740 American influence that eliminates all the other influences that have made jazz what it is today
00:09:13.260 but anybody who plays jazz anybody who loves jazz can not self-respectingly say that it's not a black
00:09:22.620 music so when I play with black musicians my biggest compliment is when you got the 75 year old bass 0.54
00:09:31.260 player that's in there watching you like who the hell is this mother who just walked up to the stage 0.70
00:09:36.800 thing and he knows what he's doing and he you play a little bit and you look back did I do okay and
00:09:42.800 he just goes
00:09:43.300 but how does how does that how does that make you black okay okay so that that that's one degree of
00:09:57.180 the acceptance uh-huh over the years I've had many musicians tell me oh yeah you're on where you're
00:10:03.060 black you're straight now okay okay okay that's that's important because now I'm not saying that I'm
00:10:09.360 black I get what I understand you understand what black music is and what makes music that that culture I
00:10:17.760 understand where gospel comes from I understand where slavery led to the roots of what became jazz I
00:10:25.680 understand how pain produces art I get that that doesn't mean that I'm black I'm saying that black
00:10:33.600 people have over the years in my in my business have made me feel accepted into their community 0.95
00:10:39.720 yeah and have many times told me straight up you're the you're the blackest brown guy I know 0.97