Women CAN'T HANDLE The TRUTH
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Summary
In this episode we discuss the importance of telling the truth to your partner and how important it is to always tell them the truth. We talk about cheating, lying and lying to our partners and how to deal with it.
Transcript
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you think you want to know you don't no do you know what i can handle the truth i never ask
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questions if i can't handle the answer like i will be ignorant i would happily live ignorantly
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but i would ask a question when i know that i can handle the truth and i think it doesn't
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matter what it is it doesn't matter how bad it is please always tell me the truth yeah i don't
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care how bad it is yeah yeah it's easier just to be truthful waste like don't waste anybody's time
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and i hate it when men are like oh you can't handle the truth and it's like no i can handle
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the truth a lot better than you lying i think some women can handle the truth though i think
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sometimes we i think sometimes women say you can handle the truth but you actually can't because
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i think and i think that's why a lot of guys would then lie even after you tell them because
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a lot of women would like you know just tell me and we'll talk about it but when he then tells you
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the truth it's now a whole argument it's a whole thing you can't you don't you don't have a proper
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conversation about it which is why i love them lie about it you know where a lot of girls go wrong
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men will test whether they can be truthful with you throughout the relationship yeah and you don't
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clock those little tests where you might say something and see how you respond to it it might
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not be a big thing but that response tells us a lot about how you behave yeah so when it comes to the
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big things there's no way they're going to tell you anything no but you know what it is the response
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she gives you when she first finds out when she says she can handle the truth is going to be far
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better than when she finds out you've lied to her because that's when she's vandalizing your car do you
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get what i mean if he gets caught if he gets caught the reactions are far worse so even if she says she
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she can handle it and she reacts it's going to be a lot more better than when she finds out that
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you've lied on top of that i've seen women with the same energy can't never lie to you i'm like i
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i get why the guy the guy was scared well you should cheat in the first place definitely that's the
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biggest lesson even more though huh i don't think guys can handle the truth any better no they can't
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their egos get so bruised my immune system will shut down if we told you the truth about all the
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things that like we thought when you asked for our opinion where dead yeah i'm honest i'll die
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don't do it i'll go i'll end up in hospital i'm glad that you admit that 100 egos fragile serious
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what what about you auntie yeah a few times a few times i can think of two two different times
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and once boyfriend at the time was supposed to be supposed to go out he didn't turn up so
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i went to his house and young lady answered at all oh wow yeah that's rich
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i just said hi and i asked for him i asked for him and i said you know and she goes oh he's upstairs
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i said oh i'll come up and he was in bed he's saying freezing and he just looked like freezing we
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guys have a heart attack like you just see all the color just drained out of his face and i just said
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hi and she said would you like a cup of coffee i said yes please she went downstairs to get the
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coffee and he looked at me and i said what you want to say do you want to freak out i said no i'm not
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gonna do that i said the poor girl i said she don't know any different and she's come up and she was
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just like hi and she's trying to cuddle him in bed because they were in bed and he's sort of like and i'm
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saying is that your man and she said yeah i said hug him up girl so were you the main chick or the
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side chick i'm not i was the main you were the main yeah but that was it but i just after that
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i just terrorized him nicely who did she think you did the right thing to tell me i was his friend
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because i've got a lot of male friends and she always saw us with a lot of men together but obviously
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the energy you came with as well wouldn't be someone that you would assume was a big guy
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because you're very calm and collective it's not awful no but i should say most girls the instant
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response you can run upstairs they've been trying to grab a grab a plate and do something i was like
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hi i'm here i'm coming you wanted to talk to him you wanted to talk to him yeah as you should like
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listen right as far as she was concerned i was his friend i became her friend too oh
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i'd pop around there like when i was talking to the guys because we'd all hang out around there so i'd pop
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around she said oh he's not in you know i'm just cooking i've got to pop around to the shop to get
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some out phone i said this is what you're having for dinner right this is what you're having for dinner
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yeah he used to want to play at parties for me and then he wouldn't invite her i'm like what do
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you mean you're not coming tell him i invited you it's my party he's playing that and then no and then i
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just left it at that but i don't know i think he cheated on her because another time i just saw
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all of his car had all paint all over it oh wow and i was just like what happened to your car
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like it wasn't me that became a drama yeah i wouldn't do that i wouldn't do that i wouldn't
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it's not worth it yeah what am i going to argue with us what was i supposed to do it's not her fault
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so moral of the story is pull up no don't ever come to the house and catch him out saying to like
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torture him over like time then just like go ham on them because you could have easily just taken
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their jaw off and then that'd be it over done with no do you know who's taking those jaw off
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who's the guys not the girls because she didn't know take his jaw off and then walk out and forget
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about it i hurt my hands i could never hit a man because if he hit me back it'll hurt so i agree with
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that if i hit a man i'd expect him to hit me but that's what i'm saying that's why i don't hit men
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man's not stupid i'm not gonna hit a man and knowing that he's gonna hit me back
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no way angry because i believe that if you hit somebody they gotta hit you back i'm not hitting
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anyone yeah and another time i got cheated on um i was a supervisor in a bus garage and i got a phone
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call my boyfriend was a night bus driver and i got a phone call and they passed a message on to this
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person and i said yeah can i ask you to speak and she said his girlfriend i said okay then and i'd
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seen him for a couple of years and um when he was on his break i said oh can i have a word he said
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yeah no problem i said your girlfriend found she wants you to phone her back he flipped out i was
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so calm he freaked out i said to the manager i said you're gonna need a new driver in a couple of months
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within a couple of months he was gone that was it because and that was one and the thing is i made
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him we had like this relationship contract that i'd signed and laminated and got him to sign
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then it was like you're telling me because if i find that you cheat that's it yeah no i hear that
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so he just flicked out it's in a personal contract you wrote up yeah i typed it and everything
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oh wow laminated it go to sign it of what i expected and you break any one of them that's it
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no but i feel that i needed it to do with it with him yeah i feel like i can start doing that
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why didn't you freak out like so many girls when that happens um like i think a lot of times we have
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a hard time like remaining calm how were you able to control your emotions i didn't take it personally
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he's just a man and he just it was there available and he just it happens in it take notes so you know
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i didn't take it personally i mean i didn't think yeah oh my god she's sexier than me or she can do
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this i just thought the opportunity came up because as far as i'm concerned you've got a few more
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friends go ahead because it could be a female friend you're going to sleep with it could be a woman
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down the road that you meet up so it don't really matter so i'm not going to say you can't have female
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friends so he had female friends and that was one of them so um did you break up with him after that
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instantly he knew it was over because he signed the contract yeah and what about the other one
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instantly instantly yeah what do you think of girls that stay in those situations do you think that's
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good or bad then they're going to start talking about trauma after that it's up to them but whatever
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you get i mean if it can happen once i mean you can accept it if you want to accept it but
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if you accept it then put up with it in it don't say nothing yeah because a lot of times like we
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accept it and then complain about trauma later but yeah we accepted it yeah we put ourselves through
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it yeah i mean you gotta think to yourself what value you're putting on yourself that you're staying
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i think a lot of um women stay with men i think young like when i was younger i was like no i'd never
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tolerate a man cheating or whatever but it's harder when you're in a relationship especially when you're
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emotionally involved as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a
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