JustPearlyThings - Women CAN'T HANDLE The TRUTH

00:00:00.000 you think you want to know you don't no do you know what i can handle the truth i never ask

00:00:05.040 questions if i can't handle the answer like i will be ignorant i would happily live ignorantly

00:00:09.760 but i would ask a question when i know that i can handle the truth and i think it doesn't

00:00:13.840 matter what it is it doesn't matter how bad it is please always tell me the truth yeah i don't

00:00:18.400 care how bad it is yeah yeah it's easier just to be truthful waste like don't waste anybody's time

00:00:23.440 and i hate it when men are like oh you can't handle the truth and it's like no i can handle

00:00:26.800 the truth a lot better than you lying i think some women can handle the truth though i think 1.00

00:00:31.440 sometimes we i think sometimes women say you can handle the truth but you actually can't because 1.00

00:00:36.720 i think and i think that's why a lot of guys would then lie even after you tell them because

00:00:41.200 a lot of women would like you know just tell me and we'll talk about it but when he then tells you 1.00

00:00:45.360 the truth it's now a whole argument it's a whole thing you can't you don't you don't have a proper

00:00:48.960 conversation about it which is why i love them lie about it you know where a lot of girls go wrong 1.00

00:00:53.040 men will test whether they can be truthful with you throughout the relationship yeah and you don't

00:00:56.800 clock those little tests where you might say something and see how you respond to it it might

00:00:59.760 not be a big thing but that response tells us a lot about how you behave yeah so when it comes to the

00:01:03.600 big things there's no way they're going to tell you anything no but you know what it is the response

00:01:06.800 she gives you when she first finds out when she says she can handle the truth is going to be far

00:01:11.120 better than when she finds out you've lied to her because that's when she's vandalizing your car do you

00:01:15.600 get what i mean if he gets caught if he gets caught the reactions are far worse so even if she says she

00:01:20.800 she can handle it and she reacts it's going to be a lot more better than when she finds out that

00:01:25.440 you've lied on top of that i've seen women with the same energy can't never lie to you i'm like i

00:01:30.640 i get why the guy the guy was scared well you should cheat in the first place definitely that's the

00:01:34.720 biggest lesson even more though huh i don't think guys can handle the truth any better no they can't

00:01:39.120 their egos get so bruised my immune system will shut down if we told you the truth about all the

00:01:48.240 things that like we thought when you asked for our opinion where dead yeah i'm honest i'll die

00:01:53.520 don't do it i'll go i'll end up in hospital i'm glad that you admit that 100 egos fragile serious

00:02:00.480 what what about you auntie yeah a few times a few times i can think of two two different times

00:02:11.360 and once boyfriend at the time was supposed to be supposed to go out he didn't turn up so

00:02:17.680 i went to his house and young lady answered at all oh wow yeah that's rich

00:02:22.240 i just said hi and i asked for him i asked for him and i said you know and she goes oh he's upstairs

00:02:31.120 i said oh i'll come up and he was in bed he's saying freezing and he just looked like freezing we

00:02:39.600 guys have a heart attack like you just see all the color just drained out of his face and i just said

00:02:45.440 hi and she said would you like a cup of coffee i said yes please she went downstairs to get the

00:02:52.400 coffee and he looked at me and i said what you want to say do you want to freak out i said no i'm not

00:02:58.720 gonna do that i said the poor girl i said she don't know any different and she's come up and she was 0.60

00:03:02.880 just like hi and she's trying to cuddle him in bed because they were in bed and he's sort of like and i'm

00:03:08.720 saying is that your man and she said yeah i said hug him up girl so were you the main chick or the 0.99

00:03:16.720 side chick i'm not i was the main you were the main yeah but that was it but i just after that

00:03:21.280 i just terrorized him nicely who did she think you did the right thing to tell me i was his friend 0.99

00:03:30.480 because i've got a lot of male friends and she always saw us with a lot of men together but obviously

00:03:35.600 the energy you came with as well wouldn't be someone that you would assume was a big guy

00:03:39.840 because you're very calm and collective it's not awful no but i should say most girls the instant 0.91

00:03:44.160 response you can run upstairs they've been trying to grab a grab a plate and do something i was like

00:03:49.440 hi i'm here i'm coming you wanted to talk to him you wanted to talk to him yeah as you should like

00:03:54.000 listen right as far as she was concerned i was his friend i became her friend too oh

00:04:00.240 i'd pop around there like when i was talking to the guys because we'd all hang out around there so i'd pop

00:04:04.320 around she said oh he's not in you know i'm just cooking i've got to pop around to the shop to get

00:04:08.480 some out phone i said this is what you're having for dinner right this is what you're having for dinner

00:04:14.000 yeah he used to want to play at parties for me and then he wouldn't invite her i'm like what do

00:04:18.320 you mean you're not coming tell him i invited you it's my party he's playing that and then no and then i

00:04:25.680 just left it at that but i don't know i think he cheated on her because another time i just saw

00:04:30.560 all of his car had all paint all over it oh wow and i was just like what happened to your car

00:04:37.040 like it wasn't me that became a drama yeah i wouldn't do that i wouldn't do that i wouldn't

00:04:41.120 it's not worth it yeah what am i going to argue with us what was i supposed to do it's not her fault

00:04:45.920 so moral of the story is pull up no don't ever come to the house and catch him out saying to like

00:04:53.840 torture him over like time then just like go ham on them because you could have easily just taken

00:04:58.800 their jaw off and then that'd be it over done with no do you know who's taking those jaw off 1.00

00:05:02.720 who's the guys not the girls because she didn't know take his jaw off and then walk out and forget

00:05:07.440 about it i hurt my hands i could never hit a man because if he hit me back it'll hurt so i agree with

00:05:15.040 that if i hit a man i'd expect him to hit me but that's what i'm saying that's why i don't hit men

00:05:19.120 man's not stupid i'm not gonna hit a man and knowing that he's gonna hit me back

00:05:22.400 no way angry because i believe that if you hit somebody they gotta hit you back i'm not hitting

00:05:28.320 anyone yeah and another time i got cheated on um i was a supervisor in a bus garage and i got a phone

00:05:36.000 call my boyfriend was a night bus driver and i got a phone call and they passed a message on to this

00:05:42.320 person and i said yeah can i ask you to speak and she said his girlfriend i said okay then and i'd

00:05:48.160 seen him for a couple of years and um when he was on his break i said oh can i have a word he said

00:05:53.040 yeah no problem i said your girlfriend found she wants you to phone her back he flipped out i was

00:05:59.280 so calm he freaked out i said to the manager i said you're gonna need a new driver in a couple of months

00:06:04.640 within a couple of months he was gone that was it because and that was one and the thing is i made

00:06:11.200 him we had like this relationship contract that i'd signed and laminated and got him to sign

00:06:15.920 then it was like you're telling me because if i find that you cheat that's it yeah no i hear that

00:06:20.720 so he just flicked out it's in a personal contract you wrote up yeah i typed it and everything

00:06:26.000 oh wow laminated it go to sign it of what i expected and you break any one of them that's it

00:06:33.040 no but i feel that i needed it to do with it with him yeah i feel like i can start doing that

00:06:37.760 why didn't you freak out like so many girls when that happens um like i think a lot of times we have

00:06:43.200 a hard time like remaining calm how were you able to control your emotions i didn't take it personally

00:06:48.320 he's just a man and he just it was there available and he just it happens in it take notes so you know

00:06:54.080 i didn't take it personally i mean i didn't think yeah oh my god she's sexier than me or she can do 1.00

00:06:58.720 this i just thought the opportunity came up because as far as i'm concerned you've got a few more

00:07:03.440 friends go ahead because it could be a female friend you're going to sleep with it could be a woman 1.00

00:07:07.120 down the road that you meet up so it don't really matter so i'm not going to say you can't have female

00:07:11.040 friends so he had female friends and that was one of them so um did you break up with him after that

00:07:16.800 instantly he knew it was over because he signed the contract yeah and what about the other one

00:07:21.280 instantly instantly yeah what do you think of girls that stay in those situations do you think that's 0.98

00:07:26.320 good or bad then they're going to start talking about trauma after that it's up to them but whatever

00:07:33.840 you get i mean if it can happen once i mean you can accept it if you want to accept it but

00:07:37.760 if you accept it then put up with it in it don't say nothing yeah because a lot of times like we

00:07:44.160 accept it and then complain about trauma later but yeah we accepted it yeah we put ourselves through

00:07:49.120 it yeah i mean you gotta think to yourself what value you're putting on yourself that you're staying

00:07:54.320 i think a lot of um women stay with men i think young like when i was younger i was like no i'd never

00:07:59.840 tolerate a man cheating or whatever but it's harder when you're in a relationship especially when you're

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JustPearlyThings - June 07, 2023

Women CAN'T HANDLE The TRUTH

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