JustPearlyThings - Women DON'T KNOW this ABOUT MEN

00:00:00.080 can i play devil's advocate what if we can just say like sex is just physical right i know we're

00:00:05.040 going to talk about like intimacy and emotional and for men it's just if you let me if you're

00:00:09.280 letting me before these nine months you do me do my thing you got nine months gone then but you're

00:00:16.160 not gonna let me do my thing so it's like now it's different isn't it for men for men it's just

00:00:20.480 physical but i swear men can just soldier on though well what what why are you shaking your

00:00:25.920 head he's saying for men it's it's like not emotional it's just physical yeah women can be

00:00:32.480 exactly the same i have been that person i have been that person where i have gone and done what

00:00:38.000 i felt like i needed to do and have no emotional connection i just wanted to have that one

00:00:43.760 experience or what didn't you say by and large though women attach more emotion to sex because 1.00

00:00:50.480 we release a hormone that men don't during sex yeah so there's like a bonding hormone

00:00:55.680 and it's the more partners you sleep with the less you release that hormone so a lot of times

00:00:59.920 like when girls say that it's like they they had a lot of partners so they don't release the hormone 1.00

00:01:05.200 as much anymore yeah that's probably where i'm at wow oh you didn't know that that makes so much sense

00:01:11.760 yeah particularly like very i don't like have loads of sexual partners so i'm really careful because i

00:01:19.520 know i can get emotionally attached so i prefer to do it in a relationship or get pissed off if i'm

00:01:25.360 in a situation ship it's happening it's not worked out so that makes so much sense i didn't know that

00:01:29.920 well and that's why like um a lot of times they say a girl can't fall in love unless she's had the

00:01:35.280 best sex of her life because it's like that's how girls bond is like through when when they that makes 1.00

00:01:40.000 yeah when they orgasm yeah so it's like um it's different but men on the other hand they can have

00:01:45.040 sex with a hole in the wall and they'll be fine 0.97

00:01:50.400 i feel like a lot of men though i mean i i asked majority of men like i've asked this question

00:01:55.360 like have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with 100 all men have

00:01:59.680 done that yeah 99 of men but but that's kind of the problem with the sexual marketplace because 0.80

00:02:05.600 essentially like the small percentage of men are sleeping with all the girls and so then like girls

00:02:10.720 think they're on that level but they're not yeah because like your level is what you can get to take

00:02:14.880 you out in public basically okay yeah that's a fact there's a lot of girls men wouldn't be seen with

00:02:20.640 that they've oh can i say that wait no you can i'd say that's it there's a lot of girls that men 1.00

00:02:27.040 wouldn't be seen with in public that they've had sexual relations with yeah yeah yeah i mean it's

00:02:32.320 similar to when you have a date you have a blind date and he turns up and you're like oh dear i can't

00:02:38.720 go anywhere that i was planning on going and now i need to hide yeah so it's it works both ways but

00:02:44.400 maybe the sex doesn't happen that's a bit different you get a date and you'll get a food

00:02:51.040 and you're gonna fuck off and not see that guy again yeah that guy is suffering let me say that 0.84

00:02:55.440 story i mean this whole situation is kind of unfortunate because uh i think i've actually been

00:03:02.240 that person oh so there was like um i did this like american girl she's cali like light blue hair 1.00

00:03:08.880 really into like every sexual thing you could imagine was this like left crazy liberals you can

00:03:14.000 identify as as like a man but but it's heterosexual but also is a lesbian she had all the tags and 0.81

00:03:22.640 we're messing around and one of her her last guy was like when we hung out she really liked this guy

00:03:29.760 like she really cherished the friendship and she told me that yeah we we spent a night together and

00:03:33.360 it was trash like like the d was trash but like the the love between them like she really cherishes this

00:03:39.760 guy um so yeah and i was there like i mean you're you know you're finding that it's unfortunate i just

00:03:52.080 think i find it really bizarre that a woman or a man can have sex with someone that they're

00:03:57.360 i don't know not attracted to like that or they don't feel something for i find that really bizarre

00:04:06.720 well it's it's because there's got to have there's got to be connection if i've got no connection with

00:04:10.720 you there's no way it's gonna work i could it's just right but you're thinking from a woman's point 0.87

00:04:16.480 of view yeah so from from like the typical woman's point of view like we're thinking how on earth could

00:04:21.280 you have sex with someone like guys will have sex with girls they hate yeah yeah you know it is

00:04:26.640 though for guys yeah i can't speak for every guy but it's that it's that post you know i don't know

00:04:31.920 what it was yeah but it's like close not clarity it hits you listen i'm i'm not gonna lie like oh

00:04:37.760 shit you i've spoke to like demand them and and i've asked them like questions like that like have you 0.88

00:04:43.680 ever i didn't know a lot of guys do is after the mission complete yeah they're like i should have

00:04:50.240 aborted this mission beforehand but you don't see that reality until like only a very disciplined

00:04:56.000 and aware man and very like yeah it's not the i'll feel that majority can definitely sleep with

00:05:01.760 someone and not feel nothing for them i ain't here for a relationship is that yeah i have a lot

00:05:08.560 mates that say oh yeah i slept with this girl but i don't fancy her i don't i don't like her and 1.00

00:05:15.440 i'm like what what why did he let we there in the first place like there is no way but why'd she 0.93

00:05:22.000 sleep with him you know because most girls you kind of know what a guy's after like a lot of times 1.00

00:05:26.720 girls we pretend we don't know we kind of like act like because we want the attention from the guy but 0.76

00:05:32.240 we know you know which guys actually like us and which ones are just oh yeah we're just pretending

00:05:36.880 sometimes i'm saying no i don't i don't know then yeah but yeah as a woman you you already know you

00:05:42.400 already know if he's going to be a prick or not yeah straight away yeah but but it's crazy though

00:05:47.840 because a lot of times the same girls will cry later and say men are trash but how can you say

00:05:51.760 men are trash when you picked them yeah it's all the same don't cry now no i don't agree with that

00:06:00.080 yeah you know why not though because men lie yeah cool not no no definitely it's not personal

00:06:10.560 no no no no no i agree okay so people aren't clear people aren't fully honest yeah right so

00:06:19.280 someone will tell you everything you want to hear in order to get what they want 100 right

00:06:25.600 and then when they get what they want they might think oh you know what i like that i want that

00:06:29.520 again i'm gonna keep lying they're gonna get that again so now the female is sitting there thinking 1.00

00:06:35.840 oh this guy's amazing but it's all based on a lie i've i found more that get what girls will do

00:06:43.280 is the guy will be broad and say oh i'm i'm looking you know he might not say specifically what he's

00:06:48.720 looking for but if you say are you looking for a relationship specifically like they they usually tell you

00:06:53.840 the truth yeah yes or no like no they might say no no no i don't think they do if i come i think

00:07:01.840 there's a good 20 of people that lie the right guys the right guys a scumbag will no i don't want to say

00:07:07.760 it's not even about a guy that doesn't get a lot of girls will do i don't think it's just that though

00:07:12.320 or a guy that's not confident in himself will tell you what you want to hear but a guy that knows what

00:07:16.320 he wants will tell you exactly nice do you know it is i feel like guys like because it's so easy

00:07:20.560 a guy that knows what he wants will just tell you like the kind of guy i am if i wasn't with

00:07:26.800 my girl knows this as well i don't beat around the bush if i'm trying to a girl i'll just let you

00:07:32.320 know straight up listen i'm trying to hit what you're saying and if it's not that and to get

00:07:36.560 it's not just a random girl either it's a girl that i would have interacted with before obviously

00:07:40.640 you don't just go to random guys i'm trying to hit what you're saying but you'll get hit this is what i'm

00:07:44.880 saying more time you have to just be open and just i don't want to waste no one's time i wouldn't

00:07:49.680 waste no one's time i wouldn't want someone wasting my time either so if that's the direction i'm trying

00:07:53.200 to go with that girl i'll let it know i'll let it be known from the start i'm not trying to waste

00:07:58.160 my time all your time now where are we going with this

JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023

Women DON'T KNOW this ABOUT MEN

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