JustPearlyThings - Women Learn This When It's Too Late

00:00:00.000 to answer that and the funny thing is as well now when it gets hard they're

00:00:03.760 running away so you get married back in the days they will work and work and

00:00:08.400 work until we can make it and that's why women bring less to the table because 1.00

00:00:12.540 that used to be the thing that the man got even if she wasn't a virgin he's 0.99

00:00:16.140 like you know if we get married she cannot leave me but now 80% of women 1.00

00:00:20.160 are 80% of women half of marriages end in divorce and women leave 80% of the 0.60

00:00:26.040 children with them and they take the kids and their money so that's why we

00:00:30.300 see less and less men getting married today but we also have to look at why

00:00:33.800 is the generation society also teaching you in schools what are they teaching

00:00:39.420 what they're not teaching you how to how to how to wash how to sew how to do all

00:00:43.500 of these things as a woman so when you come out of school you don't know what

00:00:46.920 you're doing your mom and your dad's not together do you know I mean I think I

00:00:50.880 think there's an agenda right but but it still doesn't change the product yeah

00:00:55.540 and and the truth is the product of women as a whole I was just worse than 0.76

00:00:59.680 ever before no I agree and also factor in the fact that everything is very

00:01:02.980 convenient so like you've got a dishwasher you've got you can just go up the road

00:01:07.120 everything has changed you don't even have to have those skills anymore because

00:01:10.480 it's not it's not a necessity but then it was a necessity to have these skills

00:01:14.200 yeah but the problem is like what kind of I disagree with it and I wish it was like

00:01:17.040 that that's the thing I'm actually super old-school in so many ways like I wish so

00:01:20.920 many of the habits we had today would just come back to how it was I don't

00:01:24.700 actually like the way things are going I don't so but I just have to also be

00:01:29.460 aware of what what we have right now and also to answer your question about

00:01:33.760 whether it was created I don't think it was something that was created I think

00:01:36.920 it's something that's just natural and just work I think what was created was

00:01:40.520 the idea to actually go against it and go against the family structure I think

00:01:44.320 yes what has been that's what's happened and I feel like if we go back to

00:01:47.600 like just statistics if we look at modern society today and you know how that

00:01:52.020 divorce rates are skyrocketing what has that done to society like society is 0.96

00:01:56.780 literally falling apart do you go I mean so I feel like it's something that's

00:02:00.360 natural and it's something that works and it's definitely not something that

00:02:03.300 just we just decided let's just create it that's all been done for a reason

00:02:08.280 exactly because your kids are getting taken away from you from young for a

00:02:11.780 reason there's a reason why dishwashers and all of these things have been

00:02:15.360 created is to split up the families so that they can take you on board and they can 0.97

00:02:21.220 raise you to what they want you to be do you get what I'm saying so now you're

00:02:24.580 not with your husband and your and your children raising them how you want

00:02:27.880 they're gonna take them from young yeah for me I think you don't get to be a

00:02:31.780 traditional woman yeah I think no I think women choose not to be 1.00

00:02:35.440 traditional women that is true but it's also a bit of both no I think women kind 1.00

00:02:40.960 of use excuses for yeah yeah yeah yeah like okay I'll give you an example one in

00:02:44.620 three women have had an abortion do traditional women go abort their children 1.00

00:02:48.980 wouldn't have done that no and so it's like those those are like we constantly

00:02:52.220 make choice after choice after choice that makes us less all by yourself even

00:02:55.820 if you're you get out in the world at 18 there's nothing stopping you from

00:02:58.700 learning how to cook learning how to clean so you know studying what men want

00:03:02.600 then study what women want all the time there's a million self-improvement 1.00

00:03:06.440 things for guys there's a million dating courses for guys all the women 1.00

00:03:10.740 dating like self-help shit it's literally just reaffirming women there's no 1.00

00:03:14.780 actual actionable steps it's just like be confident yeah and society can lead you

00:03:19.580 to be exactly what I just said but then on the other hand is what you just said

00:03:22.900 it's for you to fight for what's right you can either go down the easy path or the

00:03:27.620 hard path it's up to you and what you choose to do as a woman I think like

00:03:32.280 feminist what is it called feminism has ruined a lot of like traditional 1.00

00:03:37.820 women and as has ruined us as well I'll give an example even like working I'll give an 1.00

00:03:42.900 example working now I'm working as them as a mom and you're working as a dad

00:03:49.060 sorry I don't take care of the kids and not yeah exactly now someone else gonna

00:03:52.660 program our children and not just that I'm paying tax and he's paying tax it's

00:03:57.660 it's we're trapped it's it's not supposed to right that's why I think being like a 1.00

00:04:02.340 housewife when you have kids is actually essential like I think that is so

00:04:06.120 important to just be with your kids during those at least during those first

00:04:10.080 like very incremental years of their lives like I'm not saying it just for

00:04:13.800 sure I'm saying because I actually want to look after you my kids

00:04:16.380 the thing is women have always worked they just worked in the home true and the 0.99

00:04:21.240 man pay a lot of things like they think they're just gonna do nothing as a house

00:04:25.120 but it's so true you know what our grandmothers great-grandmothers had to

00:04:30.320 maybe great great grandmothers great great like they worked on the farm yeah I

00:04:34.000 want an allotment I want like all of this when I am a house I'm not here you're gonna be

00:04:38.260 sitting listen I don't even do that now I don't sit on my ass that's the thing so 0.86

00:04:41.860 I know what I bring to the table I cater to my man literally in this day and age

00:04:46.600 you have social media as well so if you're sitting at home as a as a you know

00:04:50.560 stay-at-home mom yeah you can also have your own business you can there's so many

00:04:54.880 things that you can do how do you how do you cater to your man if you don't care

00:04:58.540 what men want because I don't care what other men want I care what he wants better

00:05:04.300 the same well he's not I have a question for you if you think you're an average

00:05:10.180 woman why wouldn't you date an average man like a bus driver that's an average 1.00

00:05:14.200 man the reason why is because I don't aspire to stay average that's why that's

00:05:20.000 why I am I want to become an above average person so if I just date an

00:05:23.980 average man more than likely we are going to stay on that level yeah but how old

00:05:27.320 are you you're 23 23 yeah you're only gonna get less average from now you're not

00:05:31.720 gonna get better do you think so no you're I mean women fertility you're 1.00

00:05:36.100 just gonna get less and less fertile the older you get it's like women like if 1.00

00:05:40.780 you look at women on dating apps like half of your options are gone by 30 like 0.93

00:05:44.440 half of options you have at like 21 or 22 if you look at like men from the ages

00:05:49.300 of 20 to 80 they asked them what age they find women the most attractive it's 0.89

00:05:52.420 like 22 23 and some say 18 some say lower than 18 if you don't tell them the age

00:05:59.440 but like actually yeah it's just gonna get worse like you you have the most

00:06:03.160 value you're ever gonna have about now yeah I mean personally I feel like I'm

00:06:06.880 doing that work right now it's not a thing where I'm just sitting on my bum

00:06:09.940 just doing nothing not trying to manage myself I'm definitely doing the work now

00:06:13.760 and I'm hopeful of the fact that I will actually find someone because yeah that's

00:06:19.060 what I definitely feel like I will find someone before that time I'm not like a

00:06:21.960 silly girl that just sits down and does nothing I'm realistic I know the 1.00

00:06:25.560 actionable steps that I need to take I'm taking those steps and there's

00:06:28.940 definitely working for me and I'm curious what steps are you taking so one

00:06:33.600 thing I'm definitely trying to do is lose weight I definitely want to get in

00:06:36.340 shape another thing I'm trying to do is I want to learn how to cook especially

00:06:39.920 traditional food another thing I'm trying to do is grow closer with God as

00:06:43.760 well I feel like you know when you're closer to God that's when you actually

00:06:47.300 reach your peak of femininity and what else how much weight do you want to lose I 0.99

00:06:52.580 will I'm a size 12 right now I want to be a size 10 size 10 yeah okay and like how

00:06:57.560 much do you cook in a week how much I cook I cook once a week only because I

00:07:01.220 work from no yeah I cook once a week yeah it's not like my cooking skills are bad I

00:07:06.680 just want to my cooking skills aren't you good when would you like to have lost

00:07:09.500 the weight by I want to lose it by the end of this year okay well you can come

00:07:13.760 back end of this year yeah I'll be skinny size then come back we do we're pro self

00:07:19.340 improvement here so no I think that's great but I just think a lot of times

00:07:23.420 like like women we always think we're gonna get better tomorrow and when like 1.00

00:07:27.360 honestly it's better to cash out when you're young I think that's what I'm doing

00:07:31.400 yeah I think that's what I'm doing do you mean like if you find somebody just hold on to

00:07:35.600 them yeah yeah yeah I would agree yeah cuz the other thing let's let's show can we

00:07:40.280 bring up the same video same video of the girl I just want to point something out

JustPearlyThings - August 24, 2023

Women Learn This When It's Too Late

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript