JustPearlyThings - March 13, 2023


Women Should Be JUDGED For THIS


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Length

10 minutes

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180.67188

Word count

1,963

Sentence count

197

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Misogyny

35

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Hate speech

28

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and talk about their opinions on the recent cheating scandal involving Cardi B and Tristan Thompson. They also discuss public shaming women for sleeping around and the impact it has on the culture.

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00:00:00.000 Should, would you be okay with your brother dating a woman that has been publicly linked
00:00:06.780 to rappers, entertainers, and ballers for the last decade?
00:00:17.120 Dating, it depends on what concept was.
00:00:20.240 She's been known to date multiple different...
00:00:22.320 You know, like she dated Kanye, Future, um, I don't know.
00:00:27.460 The rappers, maybe Eminem, maybe, you know, Tristan Thompson, you know, the rappers, the entertainers.
00:00:36.680 Ten years.
00:00:38.260 Because it's public knowledge, it probably would bother me.
00:00:41.180 However, if she wasn't famous, she could have done the same thing.
00:00:44.120 I just wouldn't know about it because she's not in the limelight.
00:00:46.320 But if you found out she was doing that in your town, would you be okay with it?
00:00:50.420 Maybe they're not the famous ones, but like the town rapper, the town baller.
00:00:55.360 Probably not.
00:00:56.060 I probably wouldn't like it, no.
00:00:56.820 You wouldn't like it, what about you?
00:00:58.000 No, I wouldn't like it.
00:00:59.120 I wouldn't like my brother dating someone knowing that she's basically been around.
00:01:04.280 Yeah, no.
00:01:06.940 It's a choice.
00:01:08.280 I wouldn't like it, I wouldn't say them, but it's down to me a minute.
00:01:11.360 Do you think we should judge women for sleeping around? 1.00
00:01:14.780 If it depends, I feel like you shouldn't judge anyone based on anything.
00:01:24.140 If it's their decision, that's what they, that's what they want to do.
00:01:27.960 Um, again, if it's to, if it's to a crazy magnitude, then everyone's going to have an opinion on it.
00:01:34.200 But I don't think it's anyone's business who anyone sleeps with, to be honest.
00:01:38.360 Okay, go ahead.
00:01:42.180 Yeah, I agree.
00:01:43.740 Because it's not, I don't feel like it's not nice to judge people, to be fair.
00:01:49.620 Especially based on how many people they've slept with and whatever they're doing is their business.
00:01:53.880 So I don't really feel like it's something that we should be judging them on.
00:01:57.580 Yeah, obviously we should, we shouldn't judge, but we are humans and we always have opinions and says and stuff like that.
00:02:04.820 So, it's what it is.
00:02:08.440 I'm a human, I would judge.
00:02:11.420 I would judge.
00:02:12.760 Even if I try not to judge, I know that I would judge.
00:02:15.960 Do you think that shaming women would lead to better outcomes?
00:02:18.740 Like if women shamed each other more, like if we said strippers are whores, you know, I'm not gonna, you know, strippers are whores. 1.00
00:02:27.400 If you sleep around, you're a whore. 1.00
00:02:29.520 Do you think if we said that publicly, if the older generation said that to us, if everyone was saying that, do you think women would act differently or just be quieter about it?
00:02:38.320 No, because it happens on a daily basis.
00:02:39.940 And if anything, I think it makes women rebel even more. 1.00
00:02:42.960 Oh, come on. 0.87
00:02:45.180 You think in this culture, women are shamed for sleeping around? 1.00
00:02:49.500 Yeah, and I think that's what's made things like OnlyFans and things like this become such a rife thing because it's like women are taking it as like, no, to some women they're empowering themselves by doing this. 0.99
00:03:00.280 I think the more you shame someone and the more you try and say something's wrong is the more people want to prove you different.
00:03:06.840 But don't you think that OnlyFans is a reward in a way?
00:03:09.720 Like, how are they shamed if they're getting millions of dollars a month?
00:03:13.420 I mean, I know a lot of girls are bad at OnlyFans. 1.00
00:03:16.300 I know they're not all making that, but you see what I'm saying?
00:03:18.780 Yeah, no, 100%.
00:03:19.560 But it still means that there's still some people that will see that content or will know about it and go on their social media and speak about it and judge someone based on it.
00:03:30.540 So it's always whether what you get paid and what you get what someone says to you is two different things.
00:03:36.320 Okay.
00:03:36.640 What do you think?
00:03:37.200 I feel like in this day and age and in this society, I just feel like people are very sensitive to comments and, you know, judging people.
00:03:45.700 So if someone was to shame you and if more people were to shame women on that, I definitely feel like it would, it would, it would stop or decrease in general.
00:03:56.780 Women would stop. 1.00
00:03:56.800 Yeah.
00:03:57.840 What about you?
00:03:58.480 Yeah, I think definitely if we were just a little bit more vocal and had that old school mentality about women respecting themselves and cherishing themselves and sex being a little bit more sacred.
00:04:10.200 Definitely.
00:04:11.360 What do you think, Ante?
00:04:12.440 Public shaming.
00:04:14.860 Billboard type shaming.
00:04:16.080 I think that's what it's going to take.
00:04:18.600 And for, and for, like, single mothers of multiple baby fathers.
00:04:23.100 I think there should be posters.
00:04:24.580 There should be posters.
00:04:25.680 Yeah.
00:04:26.380 Nowadays, they've got, if you go in certain shops and you steal, they've got, like, special websites and that, and, like, post, billboards and newspapers and milk bottles.
00:04:35.420 Shame them all on there. 0.84
00:04:36.340 Put them all on there.
00:04:37.000 If you know a girl that's got a high body count and she can prove it, put her on a shamer. 1.00
00:04:41.120 Put her picture up on the milk bottles and stuff.
00:04:43.200 I think it should be everywhere.
00:04:44.300 This girl's a whore. 1.00
00:04:45.400 You drive past on the bus.
00:04:46.480 Do you know this whore? 1.00
00:04:47.500 That's what you should have.
00:04:48.680 Or do you know this three or four?
00:04:49.840 Or are you the father of one of these children?
00:04:52.260 You know, with a mother of, like, ten different children.
00:04:54.760 I think it should be shamed.
00:04:56.680 Publicly.
00:04:57.080 Because they're doing everything publicly.
00:04:58.540 So why not shame them publicly?
00:05:00.460 Is it men's fault that women sleep around? 1.00
00:05:03.280 Um, oh, it's a good question.
00:05:09.540 Um, yes and no.
00:05:14.440 Um, because you've got two sides to a coin.
00:05:16.680 So you've got, some men will say that women are frigid or aren't sexually open because they withhold having sex from someone.
00:05:24.460 Which then could make someone say, oh, okay, so in order for me to prove affection to someone, I must now mean that I have to sleep with people.
00:05:32.500 So, it's got two sides to a coin, but I think it does have an impact, yeah.
00:05:37.780 So, can I get a yes or no?
00:05:39.540 Is it men's fault? 0.59
00:05:40.300 Yes or no?
00:05:41.520 I don't think it's fair to say it's their fault entirely.
00:05:43.980 Whose fault is it more?
00:05:45.060 Is it the women or the men? 0.94
00:05:45.720 Yeah, I would say men's fault. 1.00
00:05:47.600 It's more men's fault? 1.00
00:05:49.540 Yeah, I think so.
00:05:50.380 That women sleep around? 1.00
00:05:51.880 Yeah.
00:05:52.740 Okay, go ahead.
00:05:54.960 Hmm, I'm 50-50.
00:05:57.100 Now we've got to pick one.
00:05:58.240 Whose fault is it that the women are sleeping around? 1.00
00:06:00.340 Because I feel like, like, we are in control of our own actions, so, like, as a woman.
00:06:07.080 Are you sure?
00:06:08.120 She thinks the men are in control of our actions.
00:06:11.560 No, but I just feel like you yourself, you're in control of your own actions, so you can't really blame someone else for doing the actions that you're wanting to doing.
00:06:20.960 So, I can't really say it's men's fault, but at the same time, just the way society is and how everything has become so sexualized and, like, men like to push women.
00:06:37.500 And I just do feel like, yeah.
00:06:40.640 Whose fault?
00:06:41.460 I can't.
00:06:42.580 Is that what you call it a 360?
00:06:43.980 We gotta, yeah.
00:06:45.420 She started with women. 1.00
00:06:47.820 She's handed it back on women. 1.00
00:06:50.160 Whose fault is it?
00:06:53.580 Uh.
00:06:56.140 Hmm.
00:06:57.300 I wouldn't say it's men's fault.
00:06:59.920 It's women's fault? 1.00
00:07:00.800 No.
00:07:00.940 I need you.
00:07:02.360 It's men's fault. 1.00
00:07:03.260 It's men's fault. 1.00
00:07:04.460 Okay, what about you?
00:07:05.880 I'm 50-50, but if I had to pick, it'll be, it's the woman's fault. 1.00
00:07:08.880 It's free will.
00:07:09.720 Okay.
00:07:10.220 Yeah.
00:07:11.040 What do you think, Auntie?
00:07:12.140 It's the woman.
00:07:13.180 Because the man can't have sex unless she opens her legs. 1.00
00:07:15.400 End of.
00:07:16.760 Is it?
00:07:17.320 Okay, so if you hooked up with Drake, whose fault would it be?
00:07:19.940 Would it be Drake's fault or your fault?
00:07:21.840 That's a black and white question, though, because it's not just as plain and simple.
00:07:25.040 That's mixed race. 0.58
00:07:26.640 Sorry.
00:07:27.080 It's not just as plain and simple as saying, if because you did it, it's your fault.
00:07:32.980 There's different aspects to it.
00:07:35.060 And then there's the emotional capability of everything.
00:07:38.180 I need you to pick one.
00:07:39.000 I don't think it's as simple as that.
00:07:39.480 I need you to pick one.
00:07:41.420 Your fault or Drake's fault?
00:07:43.320 It's a mutual decision.
00:07:44.080 We both had sex. 0.68
00:07:45.040 50-50.
00:07:45.720 Whose fault?
00:07:46.720 There is no one's fault in that situation.
00:07:48.640 If you want to be black and white with it, it's no one's fault.
00:07:50.820 Who is in control of sex? 0.79
00:07:53.880 We both are.
00:07:54.600 You both are.
00:07:55.120 Who has to say yes to sex? 0.66
00:07:57.300 Both do.
00:07:57.920 Both have to consent.
00:07:59.100 Okay.
00:07:59.480 What do you, if you hook up with Drake, whose fault is it?
00:08:03.140 It's your own fault.
00:08:04.500 You decided to do what you wanted to do with Drake.
00:08:06.920 So that's your own fault.
00:08:07.960 Oh, we got her.
00:08:09.200 So now you're on, you're on the other.
00:08:10.840 It's the women's fault. 1.00
00:08:13.180 That's why I can't say 50-50 because it's just hard to say.
00:08:17.120 But yeah, if you want to sleep or drink, then yeah, that's your own fault.
00:08:21.500 Yeah.
00:08:21.760 I think, I think that it's 100% the women's fault. 1.00
00:08:25.940 100% because it's like, all right, all right.
00:08:29.600 You put a piece of meat in front of a tiger.
00:08:32.340 You can't be mad.
00:08:33.160 He ate it.
00:08:33.960 You put the piece of meat right in front of him.
00:08:35.760 Now, I know everyone will say, Pearl, don't control, compare women to meat. 1.00
00:08:41.460 But I will.
00:08:42.820 I just did.
00:08:44.840 Now, yeah, because men are in control of relationships. 0.92
00:08:47.880 Women are in control of sex. 1.00
00:08:49.020 So we pick who we sleep with. 0.91
00:08:50.120 Men who pick who they wife. 0.98
00:08:52.600 Do you think that's true?
00:08:53.620 False?
00:08:54.100 I think it's true.
00:08:54.820 I think it's true.
00:08:55.480 For the majority, I think that's true.
00:08:56.840 Oh, so do we switch teams?
00:08:58.820 You're back on my side.
00:08:59.640 It's the women's fault. 1.00
00:09:00.500 No, I don't switch teams.
00:09:03.060 But that particular statement, I do agree with.
00:09:06.600 Okay.
00:09:08.300 What percent of men do you think are having sex? 0.70
00:09:12.900 That are sexually active.
00:09:16.680 It's got to be high.
00:09:19.420 At least 90%.
00:09:20.980 90%?
00:09:21.960 75?
00:09:23.300 75%.
00:09:23.980 7A.
00:09:25.860 40?
00:09:26.800 40.
00:09:27.300 40.
00:09:27.360 What if I told you one in three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year?
00:09:32.680 But bruffles.
00:09:33.660 I always think about bruffles.
00:09:36.020 Oh.
00:09:36.820 No, I think they just do the corn thing.
00:09:39.560 What's the corn thing?
00:09:40.540 The corn.
00:09:40.960 Like, I can't say that on YouTube.
00:09:44.420 Oh.
00:09:45.660 Okay.
00:09:46.700 Who's saying?
00:09:47.200 Oh.
00:09:47.700 Me.
00:09:48.040 I feel sad.
00:09:49.300 Because men have got high sex drive and they're not getting it.
00:09:52.340 I mean, that must be hard for them.
00:09:53.660 Because the women are free and up to the wrong people. 1.00
00:09:55.660 Yeah, but I was thinking that a lot of men go to, like, brothels and stuff. 1.00
00:09:59.640 Like, pay for it these days.
00:10:01.040 Some people ain't got the guts.
00:10:02.480 They just stay at home.
00:10:03.580 Be miserable.
00:10:04.520 Have a wank.
00:10:05.180 Yeah.
00:10:05.640 Well, it's like, why do you think women hate men?
00:10:07.720 We're all sleeping with the same ones.
00:10:09.660 What percent of men do you think are over six foot? 0.99
00:10:12.600 No, that's not high at all.
00:10:14.020 I think it's like 20?
00:10:15.860 30.
00:10:16.640 30%.
00:10:17.600 15.
00:10:18.840 Wow.
00:10:20.560 See, that's my heart.
00:10:21.480 That means if you want a black one that's tall and that's earning a certain amount of money, 0.96
00:10:26.300 that's got to be, like, 0.5.
00:10:28.420 Idris Elba, basically.
00:10:30.380 I don't find him sexy as well.
00:10:33.760 Okay.
00:10:34.440 Do you guys think that men...
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