You won't believe the man they chose to date
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a Muslim in the modern world and how to be faithful to your wife. We also discuss the differences between women and men when it comes to being faithful to their wives and the pressures of having multiple wives.
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more men than women so technically like there's less yeah sorry so they have to double up yeah
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reproduce with more women i think historically 80 of 80 of women have reproduced historically
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where only 40 of men have i think sometimes i think sometimes you find out who's who when you
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go to funerals and you find out who's that that's uncle but it's true and that's when you find out
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sometimes that the man had a whole family that nobody knew about and i'm not saying it's right
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i'm just saying that's how the world's always been like i can't i can't change the world i think it
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happens more with people older than me than than now it seems to be like for the old people i'll say
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like 60 and 70 you always know somebody and like they have somebody down the road they got a whole
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other family oh this oh this is sorry go ahead go ahead no worries um i think men are women god has
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made us differently right let me be speaking to the mic um so in islam men can have up to four wives
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because god know who he's who he's created men men they're not they're not like us you know we're
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maternal we're more loyal you know that's what we want from a relationship and that's what we bring
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to a relationship whereas for men they're more protectors providers they're more um you know go
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out there and do the hard jobs that type of thing so for them what they want is to spread
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to put it bluntly spread their seed and have as many kids as they can and have as many families as
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they can and i'm i mean i i think that's fine because i just think that he can love talking to you
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yeah he can sorry do you think that he can love all his wives equally well yeah i mean i mean that's
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one of the constraints of in in islam if you're getting married to more than one wife you must treat
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her both of them or four of them all four of them equally so if you buy this one a car you need to get
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four cars yes so if you can't if you're not that top guy that can do that you settle and you stay
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loyal to your one woman because when they say i think people get mixed up when they saw so you can have
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four wives you have to be able to afford four wives yes that's why it's a different yeah you
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need to treat and the people the men that i've known that've got other families they both have
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nobody's suffering they all and you find that the reason why they don't want to leave the wife is
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because they've been together years and pension houses and children and college and everything
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grandchildren but i've known people have a secret family tucked away and nobody suffers because
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exactly what those kids are getting is exactly what those kids are getting oh actually actually i have a
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question oh this is this is a good question okay wait wait blessing blessing can you pull something
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okay um google just go to google and put in um put an average guy the first thing that comes up it's like
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a guy in a blue shirt don't put it on the screen until i'll show you i'll tell you what it is i can see
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the screen the left on the left yeah yeah i have zoom in
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okay and then put put um what's what's that girl's husband's name um the blake lively's husband uh
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ryan reynolds yeah put ryan reynolds on the screen who is that
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i'm just curious i'm just curious the answer to this question um okay so you get you guys get
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two options two options um yeah put him on the screen then put the other one tell me when you're ready
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wow this is a lot different than the last show i did i know i feel so nice as it chilled out
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oh my god chilled out this is like dead compared to the other oh my god this one's what you said
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dead compared to the other oh my god that's annoying no that's a compliment oh that's why she asked me
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if i'm gonna stay because i didn't i didn't last time i left oh wow i wish that could have left
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i just got up and i thought you know i was like let me come with her let me come
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okay are you ready okay so guy on the left you can be faithful with him and have a family
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or guy on the right you can be one of his four wives who are you picking me though no you don't
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get to pick neither you have to pick one i'm there i'm sorry okay okay i'm just curious who who's
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picking who's picking guy on the guy on the left who's picking him me all right one two one two three
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and you guys two i mean i'm gonna i'm gonna pick ryan reynolds
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he's more attractive i don't think everybody's gonna chase him in it who wants a man that everybody
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else is gonna want it's like you know i'm not gonna be attracted to the other guy it can be
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improved because looks fade you know not everyone's gonna be pretty forever some looks that his looks
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will improve they can't get no worse yeah i could i could share a house with like lively
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no i can't share and also that's another ick of mine i can't if someone if everyone wants you i
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do not want you you can be for everyone like yeah yeah stay safe i hear that and i don't share either
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i can't i don't get that whole concept of like what is it called when people are in those open
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relationships yeah there's like a word for it polygamy yeah i respect it but i can't be involved in
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that i don't share my cookies earlier they need to stay with the people that agree with that and
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they need to stay with their people yeah i completely agree with that okay i'm gonna
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take a second and read super chats guys thank you for all the super chats this show um also
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going to be the show schedule moving forward um the only exception to that is the last weekend of
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sentience men are required to be gentle with women because they're not the same well the current western
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ideology ideologues disagree with transformers children making those self-sterilizing decisions
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and let's not forget forget women demanding men read their minds um daxtonomy long-term watcher i'm
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gonna have to wait until i'm at work later to watch and listen but i love you pearl and auntie jenny
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willful cooperation aka submission comes from a position of power which most women don't realize so
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when they didn't want you in their prime don't save them in their decline support their independence
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and remember paying for safety is a heavy price both in freedom and money sentience um modern women
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will deny their hot girl summer is limited not by not only by virtue of them aging but also due to
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due to world events when hard times come equality and feminism female theme feminine
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oh feminine oppression ism goes out the window which kevin samuels predicted gus love language are
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long love languages are for women and weak beta men um sean looking good pearl um gus our dating
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strategies are not the same men want quantity over quality you're not special there are millions of
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beautiful women but not many attractive men if you can't keep the men you want you're the problem see
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dumbeldorf a whole flock of single mothers saying they wouldn't accept a man with a second wife he's
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already accepting that he'd be your second husband whether you were married before or not delusional
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gus you're you're saying you won't be feminine until someone brings that out of you it's like saying
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that i'm going to wear a dress and makeup until i find someone that brings out my masculine side how
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delusional can you be see dumbeldorf for a good man to take care of you did you ever consider that you
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must be take care of take care of a bull the definition of modern woman is zero self-reflection
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um sweet potato mama pearl you pearl you look beautiful i love your hair and outfit today wonderful
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show as always glad to see auntie back you've helped me see the men's point of view and i'm so grateful
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um i think that's all of them i'm going to refresh the supers really quick just to make sure i didn't
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question um could you guys respect a man that you make more money than starting here and then go
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around and when and just just uh just okay and just to give a little preface that means if he says
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quit quit quit quit your job tomorrow i have a plan that you'd listen go ahead um i wouldn't respect a
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man that i make more money than um but if i had a man that makes more money than me and is you know
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well put together um i can see that i can trust his judgment and i know that you know he's got good
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morals he's um he's got good faith yes if he says stop working that's what i want i want to sit at
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home i want to paint my toes i want to look cute i want to you know drive a nice car and um have maids
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and all of that and if he's going to provide that for me and all i've got to do is pop a couple of
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youths out see at home why not why not i don't think that's the typical stay-at-home mom's experience
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it's a lot of work a lot of work are you a stay-at-home mom yeah i am i am now is that what your
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life is like no i'm talking about you know the the dream the dream yeah the ideal um but if we're
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talking about you could still be a stay-at-home wife on a more normal salary it just means cutting off
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like going down if he can if he can pay our rent and put food on the table and do everything that
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you know i would be working to provide half of absolutely fine i can do without the maid i can
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do without you know all of that let me just focus on our home you bring the money in and i'll make
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our home a home and that way i will be more happier because to be honest you know i am a working woman
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and i've got a child it's stressful you know that morning rush to get that little four-year-old ready
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and she don't understand why i'm rushing and she's you know money money money and i've got a
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rush i get in the car drop her off i've done a whole shift before i've gone to work and then
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i've got to deal with people that i work with and then you know hard stop five o'clock i need to stop
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this meeting i need to rush out so you know to my colleagues you know i might look like you know oh
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don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock because you know she's a single mom and
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there's that stigma that you've got to deal with so the short answer yeah as many of you know i was
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