JustPearlyThings - March 24, 2023


You won't believe the man they chose to date


Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

181.836

Word count

2,165

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Hate speech

8

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a Muslim in the modern world and how to be faithful to your wife. We also discuss the differences between women and men when it comes to being faithful to their wives and the pressures of having multiple wives.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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00:00:00.000 more men than women so technically like there's less yeah sorry so they have to double up yeah 0.96
00:00:06.480 reproduce with more women i think historically 80 of 80 of women have reproduced historically
00:00:12.840 where only 40 of men have i think sometimes i think sometimes you find out who's who when you
00:00:17.660 go to funerals and you find out who's that that's uncle but it's true and that's when you find out 0.95
00:00:22.540 sometimes that the man had a whole family that nobody knew about and i'm not saying it's right
00:00:26.880 i'm just saying that's how the world's always been like i can't i can't change the world i think it
00:00:31.400 happens more with people older than me than than now it seems to be like for the old people i'll say
00:00:38.460 like 60 and 70 you always know somebody and like they have somebody down the road they got a whole
00:00:43.600 other family oh this oh this is sorry go ahead go ahead no worries um i think men are women god has
00:00:51.500 made us differently right let me be speaking to the mic um so in islam men can have up to four wives 0.94
00:00:59.740 because god know who he's who he's created men men they're not they're not like us you know we're
00:01:09.300 maternal we're more loyal you know that's what we want from a relationship and that's what we bring
00:01:15.220 to a relationship whereas for men they're more protectors providers they're more um you know go
00:01:22.440 out there and do the hard jobs that type of thing so for them what they want is to spread
00:01:28.220 to put it bluntly spread their seed and have as many kids as they can and have as many families as
00:01:34.980 they can and i'm i mean i i think that's fine because i just think that he can love talking to you
00:01:41.140 yeah he can sorry do you think that he can love all his wives equally well yeah i mean i mean that's
00:01:47.220 one of the constraints of in in islam if you're getting married to more than one wife you must treat 0.96
00:01:52.560 her both of them or four of them all four of them equally so if you buy this one a car you need to get
00:01:57.980 four cars yes so if you can't if you're not that top guy that can do that you settle and you stay
00:02:04.800 loyal to your one woman because when they say i think people get mixed up when they saw so you can have
00:02:10.280 four wives you have to be able to afford four wives yes that's why it's a different yeah you 0.98
00:02:14.600 need to treat and the people the men that i've known that've got other families they both have
00:02:19.700 nobody's suffering they all and you find that the reason why they don't want to leave the wife is
00:02:24.940 because they've been together years and pension houses and children and college and everything
00:02:28.260 grandchildren but i've known people have a secret family tucked away and nobody suffers because
00:02:34.140 exactly what those kids are getting is exactly what those kids are getting oh actually actually i have a
00:02:39.900 question oh this is this is a good question okay wait wait blessing blessing can you pull something
00:02:45.980 on the screen are you able to do that okay
00:02:48.560 okay um google just go to google and put in um put an average guy the first thing that comes up it's like
00:02:57.580 a guy in a blue shirt don't put it on the screen until i'll show you i'll tell you what it is i can see
00:03:02.480 the screen the left on the left yeah yeah i have zoom in
00:03:10.240 okay and then put put um what's what's that girl's husband's name um the blake lively's husband uh
00:03:22.400 ryan reynolds yeah put ryan reynolds on the screen who is that
00:03:25.420 i'm just curious i'm just curious the answer to this question um okay so you get you guys get
00:03:33.580 two options two options um yeah put him on the screen then put the other one tell me when you're ready
00:03:41.100 wow this is a lot different than the last show i did i know i feel so nice as it chilled out
00:03:55.420 oh my god chilled out this is like dead compared to the other oh my god this one's what you said
00:04:02.540 dead compared to the other oh my god that's annoying no that's a compliment oh that's why she asked me
00:04:12.460 if i'm gonna stay because i didn't i didn't last time i left oh wow i wish that could have left
00:04:17.900 i just got up and i thought you know i was like let me come with her let me come
00:04:23.580 okay are you ready okay so guy on the left you can be faithful with him and have a family
00:04:28.380 or guy on the right you can be one of his four wives who are you picking me though no you don't 1.00
00:04:34.540 get to pick neither you have to pick one i'm there i'm sorry okay okay i'm just curious who who's
00:04:39.420 picking who's picking guy on the guy on the left who's picking him me all right one two one two three
00:04:45.420 four five okay and who's picking ryan reynolds
00:04:48.060 and you guys two i mean i'm gonna i'm gonna pick ryan reynolds
00:04:58.060 he's more attractive i don't think everybody's gonna chase him in it who wants a man that everybody
00:05:01.660 else is gonna want it's like you know i'm not gonna be attracted to the other guy it can be
00:05:05.180 improved because looks fade you know not everyone's gonna be pretty forever some looks that his looks
00:05:09.980 will improve they can't get no worse yeah i could i could share a house with like lively
00:05:14.860 no i can't share and also that's another ick of mine i can't if someone if everyone wants you i
00:05:23.420 do not want you you can be for everyone like yeah yeah stay safe i hear that and i don't share either
00:05:29.820 i can't i don't get that whole concept of like what is it called when people are in those open
00:05:34.780 relationships yeah there's like a word for it polygamy yeah i respect it but i can't be involved in
00:05:42.460 that i don't share my cookies earlier they need to stay with the people that agree with that and
00:05:47.500 they need to stay with their people yeah i completely agree with that okay i'm gonna
00:05:51.580 take a second and read super chats guys thank you for all the super chats this show um also
00:05:57.500 um a little announcement we are doing the new show schedule is thursdays and saturdays so that is
00:06:03.100 going to be the show schedule moving forward um the only exception to that is the last weekend of
00:06:08.460 this month so i believe the 25th um i'm gonna have a volleyball game so i'll probably do friday
00:06:14.060 of that week um also all super chats are going to be read over um what should we do over ten dollars
00:06:21.260 over ten dollars today so if you have something you want to read me to read um yeah sunday okay
00:06:27.340 sentience men are required to be gentle with women because they're not the same well the current western 0.95
00:06:32.780 ideology ideologues disagree with transformers children making those self-sterilizing decisions 1.00
00:06:39.580 and let's not forget forget women demanding men read their minds um daxtonomy long-term watcher i'm
00:06:45.660 gonna have to wait until i'm at work later to watch and listen but i love you pearl and auntie jenny
00:06:50.620 um zenty it's a hundred dollar super chat
00:06:55.180 willful cooperation aka submission comes from a position of power which most women don't realize so 1.00
00:07:02.060 when they didn't want you in their prime don't save them in their decline support their independence
00:07:06.940 and remember paying for safety is a heavy price both in freedom and money sentience um modern women 0.97
00:07:14.220 will deny their hot girl summer is limited not by not only by virtue of them aging but also due to
00:07:20.060 due to world events when hard times come equality and feminism female theme feminine 0.58
00:07:27.500 oh feminine oppression ism goes out the window which kevin samuels predicted gus love language are 0.99
00:07:35.820 long love languages are for women and weak beta men um sean looking good pearl um gus our dating
00:07:44.300 strategies are not the same men want quantity over quality you're not special there are millions of
00:07:48.860 beautiful women but not many attractive men if you can't keep the men you want you're the problem see 1.00
00:07:54.460 dumbeldorf a whole flock of single mothers saying they wouldn't accept a man with a second wife he's
00:07:59.660 already accepting that he'd be your second husband whether you were married before or not delusional
00:08:05.020 gus you're you're saying you won't be feminine until someone brings that out of you it's like saying
00:08:09.500 that i'm going to wear a dress and makeup until i find someone that brings out my masculine side how
00:08:13.900 delusional can you be see dumbeldorf for a good man to take care of you did you ever consider that you
00:08:19.180 must be take care of take care of a bull the definition of modern woman is zero self-reflection 0.78
00:08:24.940 um sweet potato mama pearl you pearl you look beautiful i love your hair and outfit today wonderful
00:08:30.460 show as always glad to see auntie back you've helped me see the men's point of view and i'm so grateful
00:08:35.420 um i think that's all of them i'm going to refresh the supers really quick just to make sure i didn't
00:08:40.700 miss any any also guys like the video while you're waiting subscribe to the channel we also have two
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00:08:55.180 question um could you guys respect a man that you make more money than starting here and then go
00:09:04.380 around and when and just just uh just okay and just to give a little preface that means if he says
00:09:13.660 quit quit quit quit your job tomorrow i have a plan that you'd listen go ahead um i wouldn't respect a
00:09:22.940 man that i make more money than um but if i had a man that makes more money than me and is you know
00:09:33.100 well put together um i can see that i can trust his judgment and i know that you know he's got good
00:09:39.660 morals he's um he's got good faith yes if he says stop working that's what i want i want to sit at
00:09:46.620 home i want to paint my toes i want to look cute i want to you know drive a nice car and um have maids
00:09:54.380 and all of that and if he's going to provide that for me and all i've got to do is pop a couple of
00:09:58.060 youths out see at home why not why not i don't think that's the typical stay-at-home mom's experience
00:10:08.620 it's a lot of work a lot of work are you a stay-at-home mom yeah i am i am now is that what your
00:10:15.660 life is like no i'm talking about you know the the dream the dream yeah the ideal um but if we're
00:10:27.900 talking about you could still be a stay-at-home wife on a more normal salary it just means cutting off 0.71
00:10:33.180 like going down if he can if he can pay our rent and put food on the table and do everything that
00:10:39.820 you know i would be working to provide half of absolutely fine i can do without the maid i can 0.98
00:10:46.380 do without you know all of that let me just focus on our home you bring the money in and i'll make
00:10:53.260 our home a home and that way i will be more happier because to be honest you know i am a working woman
00:10:58.940 and i've got a child it's stressful you know that morning rush to get that little four-year-old ready
00:11:05.500 and she don't understand why i'm rushing and she's you know money money money and i've got a
00:11:09.900 rush i get in the car drop her off i've done a whole shift before i've gone to work and then
00:11:15.020 i've got to deal with people that i work with and then you know hard stop five o'clock i need to stop
00:11:20.700 this meeting i need to rush out so you know to my colleagues you know i might look like you know oh
00:11:25.580 don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock because you know she's a single mom and
00:11:29.500 there's that stigma that you've got to deal with so the short answer yeah as many of you know i was
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