JustPearlyThings - June 25, 2023


You Won't BELIEVE This Level Of DELUSION


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

195.04086

Word count

1,623

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

sentences flagged

Hate speech

5

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Summary

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In this episode, we have our first transgender guest on the show, who is a Muslim convert to the LGBTQ+ community. We discuss a variety of topics such as gender dysphoria, gender identity, and gender identity issues, as well as the importance of living your truth.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 next question is oh yeah go ahead go ahead okay so um i have a question if if our bones are dug up
00:00:08.640 2 000 years from now what gender would you be identified with and if the answer is binary
00:00:14.720 why should we make laws to accommodate you cannot accurately tell can i can i can i
00:00:21.920 it's not accurate 100 of the time there's like a 30 40 deviance already okay male and female
00:00:29.120 have different um pelvic structures because that's right that's right okay no no it's not
00:00:35.920 right you should actually google and do some research onto this because you're just completely
00:00:40.240 wrong and should read some books on archaeology because you can't always tell that easily there
00:00:45.360 are women with smaller hips but you're arguing you're arguing for exceptions rather no this is 1.00
00:00:50.560 not an exception i know the okay so what i'm gonna say to you if i can answer your question yeah it's
00:00:55.760 not a surefire thing honestly yeah like if you're if your bones are dug up yeah you're probably going
00:01:01.200 to be classified by your gender but in my opinion yeah all that matters is the quality of life when
00:01:07.200 you're here yeah there's people that are miserable yeah there's people that kill themselves they're
00:01:12.000 depressed they don't want to live their truth there's people like yourself they're not scared
00:01:16.800 to make their opinions knowing how much they're going to be hated you're like i think people need
00:01:22.400 to be celebrated people that live their truth no matter how much they're going to be knocked and
00:01:28.000 torn down they need to be celebrated because it's not easy and when i die when i'm dead i'm gonna
00:01:34.640 i don't know what happens but let's say there's an afterlife i'm gonna tell you after i'm gonna say
00:01:39.120 you know what i've done my best here on earth i've done my best here on earth monologues when he's
00:01:43.520 asking you're not answering his question but that's even a good point i've answered your question
00:01:47.840 problem with what you just said the reality is there is a there is almost like a facade behind
00:01:54.720 this whole transgender thing changing your gender with surgeries doesn't necessarily guarantee you a
00:01:59.760 better life in fact if you look at the statistics more people suffer after surgeries than before so
00:02:07.120 it's not like you they make it seem like when you change your gender then you automatically accept
00:02:11.120 yourself and then you're going to be comfortable with your skin in fact you actually especially for
00:02:15.600 the male to female transition you you probably have a worse life expectancy afterwards i honestly
00:02:22.640 haven't done any research about transgender people all i all i have is my own personal experiences
00:02:28.720 i can't even say i've got many uh any friends yeah um that are transgender actually yeah so like
00:02:34.240 honestly all i can go on is my own personal experience but you know i just think the quality of life
00:02:39.440 is so important we're only here for a certain amount of time and i just think it's really
00:02:42.880 important for everyone to just be happy and whatever way that means obviously you can't be
00:02:47.200 like you know doing like killing people just because it makes you happy but i think changing your body 0.77
00:02:52.400 and your physique things that are personal to yourself i don't think why it should be seen as such a big
00:02:56.960 problem some people are going to regret it right what what what if i want to be black what if should i do
00:03:01.840 that it makes me happy i should paint i mean white people suntan they go on you know sunbeds 0.90
00:03:06.960 they use sun cream i'm asking me should i do that if it makes you happy yes go ahead go ahead but i
00:03:12.880 can i just answer your question so when i die and my bones are like in the ground and whatnot i know
00:03:19.120 that i'm gonna be my bones are gonna come out as a woman because i identify as a woman and a woman
00:03:25.040 only that's not how it works i don't identify as anything else that's my answer and the only one
00:03:31.200 that has ever read into this is clear there is a certain amount of deviance we don't we don't
00:03:36.000 care we don't we don't care we don't we don't care all right go ahead it's pretty straightforward
00:03:40.880 you know there's like a pelvic difference between a man that isn't consistent and look you can look
00:03:45.040 it up but you keep making assumptions and i actually know it's the fact that you're going off on
00:03:50.000 exceptions when literally it's like deviance is not an exception that's a fair amount what's the
00:03:55.680 majority 60 okay all right all right no that's 30 that's not your show okay thank you go ahead
00:04:06.240 you've talked a lot let her talk i don't know i don't know i don't know where to go from like you
00:04:13.360 know but um i had one question um it was for tas so um when you mentioned how um so you mentioned
00:04:22.000 you're muslim has being transgender like is it like a challenge for you like to be muslim and transgender
00:04:30.000 at the same time has it been it's not a challenge for me no so like say for example so um do you visit
00:04:36.720 like the mosque like i go to an inclusive mosque or i'll just pray at home okay fine um so like
00:04:43.200 you don't feel any sort of you know like going into a mosque any type of discomfort like if if if
00:04:51.680 now i decided to go to a mosque like i wouldn't go to the masjid that i went to when i was younger
00:04:57.440 but partly i didn't feel comfortable in that masjid anyway because i was in the women's section and i
00:05:02.160 felt like i was being disrespectful to to to the cis women in there knowing that i like and this is 0.96
00:05:08.240 before i even read like had the term for it like i just didn't feel comfortable i feel like i was being
00:05:12.880 disrespectful to them was it like in your like you're very um very much i am a man and i just
00:05:19.200 feel disrespectful by even being around all these women it's not even that i am a man it's just that 0.99
00:05:24.320 i am not wholly who and what they are okay like i feel like if if you take it from the point of view
00:05:31.120 yeah that for example the women women who cover their hair in masjid quite often have decided that
00:05:38.080 that is for them yeah the hijab or the niqab is for them yeah they will only take off the hijab or 0.96
00:05:45.760 niqab if they are around male family members yeah of the immediate family yeah right now i don't feel
00:05:54.160 wholly female i don't feel wholly male i felt like i was being disrespectful because i was seeing hair
00:06:01.840 that was not meant for me not meant for my eyes yeah only meant for the eyes of sisters
00:06:08.080 or their immediate male family members but do you not think that you know obviously if god made you
00:06:13.840 female does like because i don't think personally like speaking i don't think god makes any mistakes
00:06:20.880 and if i don't think god makes mistakes either i fully agree with that i believe in like with
00:06:26.160 spirituality i sometimes i believe in like you know past lives past life karma also believe in you
00:06:31.680 know lessons that we our spirit has to go through and soul lessons and things like that so sometimes i
00:06:37.680 wonder to myself you know why you know i always like i said to you was a boy i always knew i was a
00:06:46.320 little boy so sometimes as an adult now i think to myself what type of past life karma am i paying off
00:06:52.000 while i was born in a female body this time you know so we all believe in different things so i
00:06:57.440 actually have a question that kind of goes off of that a little bit you always believed you're a boy
00:07:01.760 do you think that social media can ever brainwash kids into thinking that they're trans yeah yeah 0.99
00:07:07.920 i think social media is extremely powerful and i think that it can brainwash anyone to do a lot of
00:07:13.840 things maybe so you would agree yeah what about you sure i think yeah occultist attitudes can exist
00:07:19.520 anywhere i don't know if transgender people are the biggest issue but it can happen i can see i
00:07:24.160 can imagine it happening okay what do you think i feel like anyone like anyone anyone vulnerably
00:07:30.160 vulnerable enough to anything can be swayed to anything i think social media especially for young
00:07:34.880 people can can sway it's way young people to do a lot like there's there's a like i remember the
00:07:41.040 happy slapping generation of our time yeah that says it all like you've got kids out there that you
00:07:47.360 know they were raised right they know they're not supposed to put their hands on anyone they know
00:07:51.440 that they're supposed to you know do this be right for each other you know you've got your
00:07:54.640 ten commandments this is christian country and you were taught them from young yeah but then
00:07:59.680 suddenly they've got a camera phone in there out here slapping god knows who on the bus or
00:08:03.440 like walking past some random unknown person slapping them social media can can cause so many
00:08:09.040 things it can tell someone you know it can it can sway someone or make someone think that something is
00:08:14.000 okay when it's not