JustPearlyThings - April 11, 2023


You Won't BELIEVE What He Said


Episode Stats

Length

18 minutes

Words per Minute

185.87201

Word Count

3,468

Sentence Count

462

Misogynist Sentences

27

Hate Speech Sentences

12


Summary

In this episode, we discuss deal breakers, deal breakups, and how to know if someone is a good or bad deal breaker. We also talk about how to deal with all the baggage that comes with being a virgin.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 It's your turn, go ahead.
00:00:02.320 Someone who smokes, just because-
00:00:05.020 That's a good deal breaker, yeah, yeah.
00:00:07.240 Just makes me nauseous.
00:00:08.860 Someone who's not Christian and someone who has a temper.
00:00:12.280 Okay, what about, he's perfect, but he's barely been to church.
00:00:18.280 Ooh, I think that's the topic for discussion.
00:00:22.120 No, I'm just curious, you personally.
00:00:24.800 Probably not.
00:00:25.640 No, no.
00:00:26.480 Have you ever dated a non-Christian before?
00:00:29.480 No worries.
00:00:30.480 Okay.
00:00:31.480 What about you?
00:00:33.480 A deal breaker.
00:00:36.480 Mine would be aggressive, if they come across quite aggressive.
00:00:42.480 If they can't communicate, addiction, et cetera.
00:00:49.480 Okay.
00:00:50.480 Yeah.
00:00:51.480 Okay, go ahead.
00:00:52.480 I would say lack of self-respect, and also, I just might come across a bit lousy,
00:00:59.480 high body count.
00:01:00.480 I think a woman has got, like, excessive sexual parts.
00:01:02.480 It's kind of hard to-
00:01:03.480 How would you tell?
00:01:04.480 Psychologically to-
00:01:05.480 I mean, if she tells me, if I don't know, then I'll-
00:01:07.480 If I know, then I'll-
00:01:08.480 Do you think you can generally tell when a woman has a high body count?
00:01:12.480 I don't think so, no.
00:01:13.480 I don't think so, no.
00:01:14.480 You don't think you can tell?
00:01:15.480 I mean, by just looking at her?
00:01:16.480 No, just by dating her.
00:01:18.480 Probably could, yeah.
00:01:19.480 Eventually.
00:01:20.480 Eventually.
00:01:21.480 How high is too high for you?
00:01:23.480 It's a bit kind of-
00:01:25.480 No, no, no.
00:01:26.480 I just want to pin you down.
00:01:29.480 Well, it depends how old she is.
00:01:32.480 Okay, let's do 25, 30.
00:01:35.480 Let's do 25-
00:01:37.480 No, let's do 20, 25, and 30.
00:01:39.480 20?
00:01:40.480 Yeah.
00:01:41.480 I think 20 probably, like, 2?
00:01:43.480 Okay, 2 at 20, too high.
00:01:45.480 Alright.
00:01:46.480 No, not too high.
00:01:47.480 2 at 20, I could deal with.
00:01:48.480 Okay.
00:01:49.480 4, 5, 20, it's like, okay.
00:01:50.480 Okay, now 25.
00:01:52.480 25 is like, 8, 9.
00:01:56.480 Okay.
00:01:57.480 8 or 9, too much.
00:01:59.480 Yeah.
00:02:00.480 Alright, 30.
00:02:01.480 Ooh.
00:02:02.480 Okay.
00:02:03.480 Probably the same for 25.
00:02:04.480 Something like 25, you should have been in a serious relationship for at least 2, 3 years.
00:02:08.480 You should have just stayed with someone for a while.
00:02:11.480 That's the most common answer I get is 10.
00:02:14.480 Like, roughly 10, right?
00:02:16.480 Yeah, that's the most common answer I get from guys.
00:02:18.480 It's funny, though.
00:02:19.480 I feel like the same way, like, alright, women will give me a number for income, but they really mean like 20% less.
00:02:26.480 I feel like when men say 10, they really mean 15.
00:02:30.480 If she's hot enough.
00:02:33.480 I mean, it's nothing about that with me.
00:02:35.480 It's just I feel like women with high body count kind of like, because I'm a guy and I'm thinking even me as a man, so many flashbacks got to deal with.
00:02:44.480 How do you even, like, even if you find a person for you, like your soulmate, you still got to deal with all the sexual encounters you've actually been through, all the experiences.
00:02:52.480 Right.
00:02:53.480 All the sobering and all the connection you've had with so many different people.
00:02:56.480 How do you then just settle one person?
00:02:58.480 Yeah, you can.
00:02:59.480 You could be with them because you like them, but there's still so many things dragging you around.
00:03:03.480 Okay, question.
00:03:04.480 She slept with three men, but one is Drake.
00:03:09.480 I really don't care about that.
00:03:11.480 And then, okay, the guy doesn't matter.
00:03:13.480 Yeah, it doesn't really matter.
00:03:14.480 Okay, so if he was a loser or the best guy ever.
00:03:17.480 I mean, I think I'd rather Drake, because to me, that's like, oh, shit.
00:03:21.480 Okay.
00:03:22.480 Yeah, I feel like, yeah, both people are losers.
00:03:24.480 So the celebrities would be like a better.
00:03:27.480 Yeah, I mean, better, I mean, yeah, but someone is, I feel like, okay, cool.
00:03:31.480 Like, hey, shoot.
00:03:32.480 Okay.
00:03:33.480 You're short rather than some guy thinking you didn't have any self value.
00:03:37.480 Okay.
00:03:38.480 Do you agree with that?
00:03:40.480 With what?
00:03:41.480 With his opinion.
00:03:42.480 Like, you know.
00:03:43.480 Of which part?
00:03:44.480 Like, of the, you know, sleeping with Drake is that I don't care about all that.
00:03:46.480 Do you feel like that's a problem?
00:03:48.480 I don't know.
00:03:49.480 The type of gal that's going to sleep with Drake.
00:03:51.480 It's like, I mean.
00:03:52.480 Yeah.
00:03:53.480 I mean, I don't.
00:03:54.480 Like.
00:03:55.480 I mean, like.
00:03:56.480 She slept with three guys and one of them is Drake.
00:03:58.480 Yeah.
00:03:59.480 I mean, I think most guys will take three though.
00:04:02.480 They're like, all right.
00:04:03.480 That's like damn near, that's damn near a virgin nowadays.
00:04:06.480 They're like.
00:04:07.480 So it's okay, yeah?
00:04:08.480 It's okay.
00:04:09.480 No, I didn't say okay.
00:04:10.480 Actually, I think it depends on what relationship she had with Drake though.
00:04:15.480 And how Drake sees her.
00:04:18.480 Is it that as well or no?
00:04:19.480 But if she didn't date Drake, then she's cancelled excommunicado.
00:04:23.480 Yeah, but there's still three though.
00:04:25.480 There are some girls dating uncle, whatever, anyone can hit it.
00:04:29.480 So if it's Drake, I don't know.
00:04:30.480 It doesn't matter if she was Drake's stylist or whoever she was.
00:04:33.480 The point is like, if she's a girl that has ever slept with a guy for money or clout or any of that crap.
00:04:40.480 It doesn't matter if it's Drake or if he's like uncle down the road.
00:04:43.480 Yeah.
00:04:44.480 But what I'm saying is.
00:04:45.480 Uncle down the road.
00:04:46.480 If she is 30, let's say 25 and the body count is free and one of them girls with Drake.
00:04:50.480 Personally, I would not trip her by that.
00:04:53.480 Yeah, I get what you're saying.
00:04:54.480 But I'm saying.
00:04:55.480 I'm not even going to ask her.
00:04:56.480 I'm saying if she was the type of girl that was like a groupie bruv.
00:04:59.480 Oh, okay.
00:05:00.480 But if she's a groupie, then I'm sure her body count would be higher.
00:05:02.480 Because Drake's not the only celebrity.
00:05:03.480 So that means she does smash some of the other celebrities as well.
00:05:06.480 So I guess to me, the body count is what I'm looking at.
00:05:09.480 Life is free and Drake is in there.
00:05:11.480 Probably Drake probably saw their dreams.
00:05:12.480 She probably just.
00:05:13.480 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:14.480 Like, oh yeah, it's Drake.
00:05:15.480 And yeah.
00:05:16.480 Melissa don't know who Drake is.
00:05:17.480 See?
00:05:18.480 Now that's how you know.
00:05:19.480 I'm the only person in the world who doesn't know who Drake is.
00:05:21.480 No, it's good.
00:05:22.480 It's good.
00:05:23.480 You're setting an example.
00:05:24.480 Not everyone is in the life that everyone thinks that everyone's in.
00:05:26.480 Does this make sense?
00:05:27.480 Yeah.
00:05:28.480 She's a sex worker.
00:05:29.480 That's literally the lie.
00:05:30.480 I'm not trying to be rude.
00:05:32.480 No.
00:05:33.480 Even.
00:05:34.480 She don't know who Drake is.
00:05:35.480 I can't.
00:05:36.480 Alright.
00:05:37.480 Alright.
00:05:38.480 Alright.
00:05:39.480 Ask most guys.
00:05:40.480 Sex worker but doesn't know who Drake is.
00:05:41.480 Like.
00:05:42.480 Yeah.
00:05:43.480 Is that confusing?
00:05:44.480 It's another world.
00:05:45.480 No, no, no.
00:05:46.480 Okay.
00:05:47.480 So deal breakers for you.
00:05:49.480 I think someone who's not very educated.
00:05:54.480 I don't really like people that are not.
00:05:57.480 So a plumber.
00:05:59.480 High school diploma.
00:06:01.480 Plumber.
00:06:02.480 Um.
00:06:03.480 In terms of career, I'm not really bothered.
00:06:06.480 As long as you like.
00:06:07.480 No, you said educated.
00:06:08.480 So I'm saying high school diploma but plumber.
00:06:11.480 Um.
00:06:12.480 Yeah.
00:06:13.480 Alright.
00:06:14.480 I would say alright then to correct what I'm saying then.
00:06:16.480 Someone who can't communicate.
00:06:18.480 Yeah like someone who has literally no communication skills.
00:06:25.480 Okay.
00:06:26.480 Is that it?
00:06:27.480 Any other deal breakers?
00:06:29.480 Um.
00:06:30.480 So he communicates and you're good.
00:06:32.480 That's it.
00:06:33.480 Um.
00:06:34.480 Yeah.
00:06:35.480 Because if you can communicate then you can write problems out.
00:06:36.480 So he's 300 pounds, 5'4", but he can't communicate.
00:06:40.480 Um.
00:06:41.480 I.
00:06:42.480 I don't know.
00:06:43.480 I'm just asking like what are your deal breakers?
00:06:46.480 So if he's obese, deal breaker yes or no?
00:06:48.480 Oh yeah.
00:06:49.480 That would be a deal breaker.
00:06:50.480 Okay.
00:06:51.480 Deal breaker if he's obese.
00:06:52.480 What else?
00:06:53.480 Um.
00:06:54.480 Aggressive.
00:06:55.480 Aggressive.
00:06:56.480 What's with the.
00:06:57.480 Okay.
00:06:58.480 You guys just.
00:06:59.480 You just changed abusive to aggressive.
00:07:01.480 I didn't call you out.
00:07:02.480 I let you go.
00:07:03.480 When it was aimed at me.
00:07:05.480 Like.
00:07:06.480 You both.
00:07:07.480 It's like why abusive?
00:07:08.480 You on the men's side didn't it?
00:07:10.480 I'm not on anyone's side.
00:07:12.480 I'm on reality's side.
00:07:14.480 Like that's the side I'm on.
00:07:17.480 Um.
00:07:18.480 Okay.
00:07:19.480 So no obese.
00:07:20.480 How much money?
00:07:21.480 Um.
00:07:22.480 I don't know.
00:07:23.480 Just so long as you can like feed yourself.
00:07:26.480 Close yourself.
00:07:27.480 Run a house.
00:07:28.480 Um.
00:07:29.480 Get the necessities.
00:07:30.480 Etc.
00:07:31.480 Like.
00:07:32.480 Oh no.
00:07:33.480 I'm not really that hooked up in money.
00:07:36.480 Okay.
00:07:37.480 So 20.
00:07:38.480 20,000 pounds?
00:07:39.480 It's average.
00:07:40.480 Yes or no?
00:07:41.480 20,000 pounds would you date?
00:07:44.480 Yeah.
00:07:45.480 Okay.
00:07:46.480 Okay.
00:07:47.480 So 15,000 pounds would you date?
00:07:49.480 I'm not gonna really like date a guy because of what he's got.
00:07:52.480 Cause I can look after myself.
00:07:54.480 Mm-hmm.
00:07:55.480 But, but we all agree.
00:07:56.480 There's, there's a number that's too low.
00:07:58.480 Like 12, like 10 pounds an hour.
00:08:01.480 Are you dating?
00:08:04.480 What if that's all the job that he can do and he gets 10 pounds an hour?
00:08:07.480 At least he's trying.
00:08:08.480 Like why not a man that's trying?
00:08:10.480 Some guys, that's probably the only job that he can get.
00:08:12.480 So what?
00:08:13.480 Is he less valuable?
00:08:14.480 Oh.
00:08:15.480 Okay.
00:08:16.480 If that's what you want to date, I'm just asking.
00:08:18.480 I'm not saying that's a guy with a date.
00:08:19.480 I'm unemployed.
00:08:20.480 But what if there's guys out there like that are trying to do something?
00:08:23.480 Okay.
00:08:24.480 But we're not, we're not talking about the exception.
00:08:25.480 We're talking about the rule.
00:08:26.480 So I'm asking on average how much does this guy-
00:08:28.480 Unemployable is not really desirable though, is it really?
00:08:30.480 It's not desirable.
00:08:31.480 I'm not shaming anyone for wanting a man with a job.
00:08:34.480 I think we should pursue men with jobs.
00:08:36.480 I'm trying to figure out what your floor is.
00:08:38.480 I'm not really bothered about what a guy earns.
00:08:41.480 Okay.
00:08:42.480 But I need a number from you.
00:08:44.480 Jobless.
00:08:45.480 So unemployed, there's a homeless shelter down the street.
00:08:48.480 Are you dating them?
00:08:50.480 Clearly not.
00:08:51.480 Okay.
00:08:52.480 Okay.
00:08:53.480 Right.
00:08:54.480 So what's the minimum?
00:08:56.480 Why is it so hard to answer these questions?
00:08:59.480 I have a very interesting theory.
00:09:01.480 I actually think women really don't care about money.
00:09:04.480 Like in the way that a lot of men think.
00:09:07.480 The reality is women just care about shiny things.
00:09:10.480 So if a man is able to present that facade of,
00:09:13.480 Oh, I have shiny things.
00:09:15.480 I can do this.
00:09:16.480 I can do that.
00:09:17.480 Women will go for it.
00:09:18.480 And they really don't understand the concept of,
00:09:20.480 Okay.
00:09:21.480 Money here.
00:09:22.480 And you need to use it to do this when it comes to men.
00:09:25.480 Obviously when it comes to them and buying their things,
00:09:27.480 they understand money.
00:09:28.480 But when it comes to men,
00:09:29.480 it's all about the shiny things.
00:09:31.480 I disagree though.
00:09:32.480 I think women just want security,
00:09:33.480 not the shiny things.
00:09:34.480 Maybe the shiny things might symbolize that.
00:09:36.480 Okay.
00:09:37.480 He has money.
00:09:38.480 The one actually is someone who will give them secure.
00:09:41.480 Amen.
00:09:42.480 I'm talking about what they actually respond to in real life.
00:09:45.480 Look, a wise man once said,
00:09:48.480 Don't listen to what women say.
00:09:50.480 Watch what they do.
00:09:51.480 So the woman can come and tell you,
00:09:53.480 Oh yeah.
00:09:54.480 I love this.
00:09:55.480 Bruh.
00:09:56.480 Watch what she does.
00:09:57.480 I get what you're saying now.
00:09:58.480 I get what you're saying.
00:09:59.480 Because in a nutshell,
00:10:00.480 it's not the flashy things that they're attracted to.
00:10:01.480 It's the skew to the thing that the flashy things may bring.
00:10:04.480 That's what I'm trying to get.
00:10:05.480 I agree.
00:10:06.480 Because I've met some women who actually don't like guys who are flashy.
00:10:08.480 Who they think,
00:10:09.480 Oh, this guy's too loud.
00:10:10.480 So what about those women?
00:10:11.480 They look at guys with all that.
00:10:13.480 What are we talking about?
00:10:14.480 The role or the exception?
00:10:16.480 I'm just answering this question.
00:10:17.480 No, but you're bringing up the exceptions.
00:10:19.480 No, but even,
00:10:20.480 I would argue that even the guys that you claim are not flashy,
00:10:23.480 they are still flashy in the ways women would respond to in terms of like their status.
00:10:28.480 Yeah, but it's not shiny.
00:10:29.480 It is shiny.
00:10:30.480 Status is a shiny thing, bro.
00:10:31.480 How many people have status?
00:10:32.480 I agree with me.
00:10:33.480 It's bright in the eyes of women.
00:10:35.480 I get what you mean.
00:10:36.480 I mean, I get what you're saying.
00:10:38.480 I think the word shiny kind of took me over,
00:10:40.480 but you just mean like just credible.
00:10:42.480 I mean, I'm a philosopher at the end of the day.
00:10:44.480 Come on.
00:10:45.480 You're a philosopher.
00:10:46.480 Yeah.
00:10:47.480 I get what you're saying, but I still feel like women are attracted to security.
00:10:50.480 It's just like you said,
00:10:51.480 it's just in a biological nature to draw to these things.
00:10:54.480 Yeah.
00:10:55.480 All right.
00:10:56.480 Then direct is to the point then.
00:10:58.480 I would say like, if you're going to have a household,
00:11:03.480 at least 25K because that's what it takes to run the house.
00:11:07.480 Okay.
00:11:08.480 Thank you.
00:11:09.480 Go ahead.
00:11:10.480 What are your deal breakers?
00:11:11.480 So my, the deal breaker is not passing my interrogation process.
00:11:18.480 Okay.
00:11:19.480 Oh, that's what you, you, you had, you wanted to do an interrogation show, didn't you?
00:11:24.480 Yes.
00:11:25.480 Okay.
00:11:26.480 What's your interrogation process?
00:11:27.480 Um, so there's a series of five questions.
00:11:30.480 I have my personal five questions that I actually use in my own day in life.
00:11:34.480 Okay.
00:11:35.480 My personal thing in life.
00:11:36.480 Okay.
00:11:37.480 My five questions are, the first one is do you drive?
00:11:41.480 It sounds very basic, but yeah.
00:11:43.480 Do you drive?
00:11:44.480 Um, do you have any past traumas?
00:11:46.480 And if so, and what are you doing to resolve them?
00:11:50.480 How many baby mothers do you have?
00:11:52.480 What guys are we going on dates with?
00:11:57.480 Is this like, is this a problem that we run into multiple baby moms?
00:12:04.480 Yes.
00:12:05.480 Oh yeah.
00:12:06.480 Okay.
00:12:07.480 A lot of some guys, they have children.
00:12:09.480 Okay.
00:12:10.480 Okay.
00:12:11.480 How many baby moms is too many?
00:12:12.480 Well, that's a trick question.
00:12:14.480 You see, cause if they actually say they have a baby mother, then I know what time of day
00:12:18.480 is if they don't respond to the question as my child's mother, then I understand what the
00:12:23.480 dynamic in the situation is.
00:12:24.480 So that's actually a trick question.
00:12:26.480 Okay.
00:12:27.480 Okay.
00:12:28.480 But I'd like to hear zero.
00:12:30.480 Would you, would you deal with one?
00:12:33.480 I would have to compromise.
00:12:36.480 I'll be compromising if I did.
00:12:37.480 Okay.
00:12:38.480 Two?
00:12:39.480 No.
00:12:40.480 Okay.
00:12:41.480 So what other questions do you ask?
00:12:42.480 How many streams of income?
00:12:44.480 Um, so if he says he's a plumber, no other, his one stream of income.
00:12:50.480 Is that okay?
00:12:52.480 That's fine.
00:12:53.480 Electrician.
00:12:54.480 Electrician.
00:12:55.480 We could, we could do bus driver.
00:12:58.480 I just pick a trade.
00:12:59.480 Bus drivers are making a lot of money.
00:13:01.480 That's what I'm asking.
00:13:02.480 No, they all do all the trades.
00:13:04.480 I mean, my questions are not wrong and right.
00:13:07.480 It's just for me to understand the individual.
00:13:09.480 And if he said three, then I know I have a bonus there.
00:13:12.480 If he says zero, I know I have a problem.
00:13:14.480 If he says one or two, then I just understand his work effort and where he would like to go.
00:13:20.480 So the last question that I normally ask is what is a male's purpose in four words?
00:13:25.480 Wow.
00:13:26.480 And these questions, it sounds very military as I'm saying it, but I slide in the conversation.
00:13:31.480 It's a way how I do it.
00:13:32.480 Yeah.
00:13:33.480 They failed those five questions.
00:13:35.480 Yeah.
00:13:36.480 Deal breaker.
00:13:37.480 Okay.
00:13:38.480 So I'm just curious.
00:13:40.480 One stream of income, deal breaker or no?
00:13:43.480 Not a deal breaker.
00:13:44.480 No.
00:13:45.480 Okay.
00:13:46.480 Past that question.
00:13:47.480 And the trauma.
00:13:48.480 You think men want to be questioned about their like past trauma?
00:13:51.480 That's how they respond to the question actually.
00:13:53.480 Okay.
00:13:54.480 So what's.
00:13:55.480 All right.
00:13:56.480 Ask.
00:13:57.480 Ask him.
00:13:58.480 Here are your questions.
00:13:59.480 I want to see if he passes or not.
00:14:00.480 Are you ready for this?
00:14:01.480 Do I guess, huh?
00:14:02.480 Let's go.
00:14:03.480 Yeah.
00:14:04.480 So do you have any past traumas?
00:14:06.480 And if so, what are you doing to resolve them?
00:14:08.480 Yeah.
00:14:09.480 I went to therapy actually.
00:14:10.480 Yeah.
00:14:11.480 And that helped me a lot.
00:14:12.480 It was because I was raised by my grandparents and kind of like being raised by my mom, kind
00:14:16.480 of had a little like, you know, but now me and my mom are cool.
00:14:19.480 Like me and my mom are like best friends.
00:14:20.480 I speak to my mom like every day.
00:14:22.480 And it's just been very, brought a lot of healing to me.
00:14:26.480 So yeah, it's been good.
00:14:27.480 And actually I will urge every guy out there to, if you've got any sort of, you know, disruption
00:14:33.480 with your parents, whether your father or mom, just deal with it.
00:14:36.480 Cause yeah.
00:14:37.480 You have to, man.
00:14:38.480 They're here.
00:14:39.480 What are you going to do?
00:14:40.480 You just have to deal with them and love them and receive the love that they give you.
00:14:45.480 Thank you for answering.
00:14:46.480 Was that a good answer?
00:14:47.480 The way how he answered gave me a lot of information about him.
00:14:51.480 Just then and there.
00:14:52.480 And it also let me know that he actually did.
00:14:55.480 He has, he has a past trauma and he actually done something to resolve it.
00:14:58.480 I'm more for the end result.
00:15:00.480 And the fact that he actually did something rather than sit down and feel safe for himself.
00:15:04.480 He passed the question.
00:15:05.480 Yeah.
00:15:06.480 Ask another one.
00:15:07.480 I want to, I want to see how he does.
00:15:09.480 I want to see.
00:15:10.480 Keep going.
00:15:11.480 This is fun.
00:15:12.480 Okay.
00:15:13.480 Um, okay.
00:15:14.480 What is Amal's purpose in four words?
00:15:16.480 I think it's to provide, protect, and to provide, protect, and also to live out his divine purpose.
00:15:26.480 That's to protect, provide, bear children, so reproduce, and to live his dreams.
00:15:33.480 So whatever gift that God has given you, you have to make sure that you manifest that in life before you die, before you leave this planet.
00:15:41.480 So live his dreams in one word.
00:15:43.480 What does that mean?
00:15:44.480 Um, to give out wherever, to give out, to live, to live out his gifts.
00:15:48.480 So whatever gift that he's got is to bring it into fruition.
00:15:53.480 So if you can put that in one word, what would that one word be?
00:15:57.480 To be alive.
00:15:59.480 So that's three words.
00:16:02.480 Fulfillment?
00:16:03.480 Yes.
00:16:04.480 That's it.
00:16:05.480 Can I date you?
00:16:06.480 You sound pretty good.
00:16:07.480 Yeah, that's it.
00:16:08.480 Actually, that's it.
00:16:09.480 Are you two going to get together now?
00:16:10.480 Because I'd love them.
00:16:11.480 Yeah, that's it.
00:16:12.480 Well, they've gone shy.
00:16:13.480 What did you think of that answer?
00:16:17.480 Naheem, it's 50%.
00:16:18.480 What was wrong with the answer?
00:16:20.480 Protect and provide is definitely the two words.
00:16:25.480 Again, like I said, there isn't any wrong or right answers, but the four words that I'm looking for is protect, provide, hunt, and lead.
00:16:32.480 Okay.
00:16:33.480 He's got to say hunt?
00:16:34.480 Yeah.
00:16:35.480 I mean, we live in London.
00:16:39.480 We live in London.
00:16:40.480 I'm like, wait, you're actually not the first girl that's come on the show and said she wants a guy to like kill an animal.
00:16:48.480 But I'm like, we live in London.
00:16:50.480 You know what I mean?
00:16:51.480 Like, where is he going to go hunting?
00:16:54.480 I mean, hunt in terms of...
00:16:56.480 Do you pick berries?
00:16:58.480 But modern daily, obviously, we don't do hunting.
00:17:01.480 Yeah.
00:17:02.480 Living in, like you said, London, 21st century.
00:17:05.480 So a man's hunting now is going to Sainsbury's and buying the food or providing the money to buy the food.
00:17:11.480 Is that another thing that's what I said?
00:17:12.480 To provide?
00:17:13.480 Yeah, exactly.
00:17:14.480 Yeah.
00:17:15.480 But that's what men have to...
00:17:16.480 What I'm saying is from...
00:17:17.480 I don't know her name.
00:17:18.480 But anyway, like she said, hunting.
00:17:20.480 But that's what she kind of means.
00:17:22.480 But obviously, you can't go and shoot a deer or whatever.
00:17:25.480 So you have to go to Sainsbury's and buy steak.
00:17:28.480 I want to hear from the guys.
00:17:31.480 These questions, would these be like a red flag or a green flag?
00:17:35.480 Massive red flag, bro.
00:17:37.480 Really?
00:17:38.480 Personally, I feel like she's on a mission.
00:17:40.480 I feel like she's looking for love.
00:17:42.480 Like she's here, which is a good thing.
00:17:44.480 But then if I'm not really on that kind of vibe...
00:17:46.480 Then you're trying to...
00:17:47.480 I would just like, okay.
00:17:48.480 Why do you say it's a red flag, King?
00:17:50.480 Because when it comes to like relationships,
00:17:53.480 the same way women expect men to be tact...
00:17:58.480 be tactful about how they approach them,
00:18:00.480 how they ask them certain questions.
00:18:02.480 I expect a woman of intelligence to do the same thing.
00:18:06.480 You can't just be asking me direct questions
00:18:08.480 as if we're like in an interrogation.
00:18:10.480 It doesn't make any sense.
00:18:11.480 Yeah, but she said she doesn't do it like how she...
00:18:14.480 Yeah, those five questions lasted
00:18:16.480 within a two hour conversation.
00:18:17.480 You won't even realise I'm asking these questions
00:18:19.480 for that purpose.
00:18:20.480 Because it's a two hour conversation.
00:18:21.480 No, but what I'm saying is if you deliver it
00:18:23.480 exactly the way you delivered it,
00:18:24.480 it's not just going to be a waste of time.
00:18:26.480 Of course, that won't be genuine
00:18:27.480 and anyone will turn off
00:18:28.480 and not even answer that, to be honest.
00:18:30.480 Of course.
00:18:31.480 Speaking of how I should...
00:18:32.480 Okay, better...
00:18:33.480 It's unimportant.
00:18:36.480 When my brain gets me Saripat and me.
00:18:38.480 Just give it a moment.