JustPearlyThings - May 24, 2023


You Won't BELIEVE What This Cornstar Said About Her BoyFriend


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405

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In this episode of Behind The Bum, I sit down with porn star Kiana Kamani to talk about the perils of dating someone with a phone on a first date, and how she dealt with it.

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, I'm okay with it too. I mean, I've just found that the relationships that I have pursued and the people that I'm like really interested in are really open-minded and really not judgmental and don't. Yeah. And I mean, so it really hasn't, I don't know, maybe I'm delusional, but it hasn't affected me negatively.
00:00:17.720 Um, but I also came into this like way before it was like the fucking cool thing to do. Like I started doing OnlyFans like, like 2016, 17. So I, you know, it was a lot more difficult for me in the beginning when people are like, what? Now people, you know, now they feel like it's actually become more accepted. So maybe for me, I'm just used to more harsher judgment and it feels less, less so.
00:00:39.420 All right. Rock and roll. Okay. So I got some specific questions for each of you individually. So I have a note here from Kiana. Uh, you had an interesting first date anecdote, something with a guy with a phone.
00:00:52.960 Yeah. So I went on, when I first fully got into, um, porn, I was still, or no, I had moved here. I had moved back. So I'm originally from LA, but I had moved back to LA.
00:01:05.880 And that's when like, one of the first videos I did was one of the biggest videos I did. It was a bang bus video, which gets, oh, everyone knows what the bang bus is. That was my first video I ever filmed.
00:01:17.880 What's that? I don't know what that is.
00:01:19.900 It's a bus and they bang.
00:01:21.460 Yeah. So you pretty much have sex in a bus. Um, but it's like very notorious and like.
00:01:28.320 Is it a bus or more of a van?
00:01:29.960 It's a, it's kind of a van, isn't it?
00:01:31.660 It's a van.
00:01:32.020 It's not really a bus.
00:01:32.880 It's a van. It's very uncomfortable to film in.
00:01:35.700 Is it just you and one other person or is there like.
00:01:37.880 Every, every porn. Yeah. So it's you, the person, uh, you're filming with and then the person that's filming and the person that's driving.
00:01:46.420 Okay. So your first date, go ahead.
00:01:48.380 So the first date I went on, he, it was, I was like very new in the industry. So I really didn't think that people knew me.
00:01:55.040 Um, so I told him, he told me that he like didn't watch porn. He wasn't in to any of it. I told him that I did OnlyFans.
00:02:03.100 And then literally in the middle, I was like about to hook up with this person and like he opened his phone and his phone search history was looked up and it was just Kiana Kamani porn.
00:02:15.500 And it was like 10 search histories of my name. I was very scared.
00:02:20.860 You were scared.
00:02:22.880 Yeah. I mean, I was alone with this person. I was terrified because he swore up and down. He didn't know me. And like the whole date was, it was great until I literally my, cause I told him my real name.
00:02:32.680 So he found me, it was like my Instagram that is like my personal Instagram. And so I really like didn't think that he knew me at all. And then it was, yeah.
00:02:42.420 So you mentioned it on the date though. You, you mentioned, I told him I did, I told him I did OnlyFans, but like,
00:02:46.960 I looked prior to meeting him prior or it was during, so do you think he might've like went to the bathroom and looked it up to go see it and then tried to like search for it?
00:02:56.700 I looked at the timestamps and it was like, Oh shit. How did, how did you see his phone?
00:03:01.380 Wait, you saw the timestamps and it was like, it was like before, like he's been doing research. Cause it's like, you know, when it says today and then like yesterday when, in your search history.
00:03:10.900 Wait, why were you on his phone?
00:03:12.280 How much time did you have to look at his phone?
00:03:13.780 He opened his phone in front of me and I saw my name from the side of my eye and I was like, what is that?
00:03:20.780 What's this? Hold on. Somebody.
00:03:22.240 That's underscore X donating $199.
00:03:26.120 Thank you.
00:03:26.700 Almost all the women on the panel are so out of touch of reality. 1.00
00:03:30.160 Oh, they're roasting you guys tonight.
00:03:32.300 How can you be so casual about your debauchery, nasty MFS?
00:03:36.580 I'm not a man of God, but I'll pray for you all.
00:03:40.060 Thank you for praying.
00:03:41.740 Thank you. Thank you, Victor, for praying. Appreciate it.
00:03:44.560 I don't know if you're just tuning in, but it's been an absolute shit show, Victor.
00:03:50.080 Thank you, man. Appreciate it.
00:03:51.620 Okay. Not, not just like for technical reasons, not. Okay.
00:03:54.360 So, okay. You're about to hook up with a dude. You see on his phone.
00:03:57.920 He was Googling your Bang Bus video. Yeah. And it was like.
00:04:01.640 Blacked, was your Blacked video also?
00:04:03.200 I have not filmed on Blacked. It's just, I've only filmed with Bang Bros, Team Skeet.
00:04:09.400 Team Skeet?
00:04:10.160 Team Skeet. Okay.
00:04:11.500 They asked me to, never mind.
00:04:14.220 Okay.
00:04:15.000 Yeah.
00:04:15.580 But, um.
00:04:16.740 What's like the most like, what's the term for bad repute?
00:04:22.460 Like the just most shit company that you, I don't know if you want to blast them, but.
00:04:28.820 Vixen? Is Vixen good?
00:04:31.740 Vixen's good.
00:04:32.540 Is that like the one with the, I don't know.
00:04:34.620 Okay.
00:04:35.420 Vixen's a good company.
00:04:36.540 I'm exposing myself right now.
00:04:38.060 Vixen's a good company.
00:04:40.060 Put the shovel down over there.
00:04:41.180 Um, I honestly think it does depend.
00:04:43.520 Like the, I don't know if it's the CEO or the CFO of Bang Bros is a piece of shit.
00:04:49.280 Um, the way that they run their company is, uh, not the best.
00:04:53.700 Um, but Team Skeet has definitely asked me things that I have not been the most, um, okay with.
00:05:02.560 Like they'll ask me to film certain things.
00:05:03.940 Fair enough.
00:05:04.560 Okay.
00:05:04.800 But so you see the shit on your phone.
00:05:08.040 On his phone.
00:05:08.320 On his phone.
00:05:09.180 See it on his phone.
00:05:09.840 So he opened it, yeah.
00:05:10.540 And I was like, let me see.
00:05:12.320 I was like, are you looking me up?
00:05:13.740 I asked him at first.
00:05:14.760 And then he was like, no, no, no, it's not you.
00:05:16.280 And I was like, I literally just saw like my name, my poor name pop up.
00:05:20.800 And it, I scrolled through and it was like days of history of him looking my name up.
00:05:25.520 Damn!
00:05:26.440 But did it, but did it start?
00:05:29.920 Did it start from when you matched with him?
00:05:31.740 I didn't look that far back because we had been talking on and off for a while.
00:05:36.300 For a while.
00:05:36.960 Okay.
00:05:37.340 But so you see it, then what happens?
00:05:39.820 I ran out of there.
00:05:41.920 You ran, you did?
00:05:42.900 I ran.
00:05:43.920 You did?
00:05:44.240 You didn't, you didn't, you didn't matter.
00:05:46.040 No, hey.
00:05:46.600 Wait.
00:05:47.640 Hold on, one at a time, one at a time.
00:05:51.320 Go ahead.
00:05:51.960 I, I ran out of there as fast as I possibly could.
00:05:55.200 Because listen, I, I have dated people that have looked me up.
00:05:58.240 Like, and, but they're open with the fact of, yes, I've watched your videos and I'm, I'm
00:06:04.360 fine with it.
00:06:05.300 I don't mind it.
00:06:06.240 But if you're hiding that you don't know who I am and it's days of search history of my
00:06:11.660 videos.
00:06:11.760 I don't think it's that bad.
00:06:13.020 I think that's, I think.
00:06:13.800 That's a possible stalker situation.
00:06:15.220 Yeah.
00:06:15.480 That's like a stalker situation.
00:06:17.200 So I ran out of there.
00:06:18.660 No, that's valid.
00:06:19.400 That's valid.
00:06:20.000 But like, he probably determined that somehow that you were in the industry or something.
00:06:24.780 He started crying when I ran out.
00:06:26.340 He cried?
00:06:27.080 What the fuck?
00:06:27.720 He was like, no, no, no, I can't explain.
00:06:29.740 And he just started crying.
00:06:30.580 And I was like, this is really weird.
00:06:31.980 No, I'm going to head out of here.
00:06:33.640 Okay.
00:06:34.020 So that's good times.
00:06:37.200 All right.
00:06:38.920 Good to know.
00:06:39.800 Good to know.
00:06:41.020 Because I mean, you know, maybe he's seen.
00:06:43.280 Listen, I love, like, I love when guys have watched my videos.
00:06:47.340 Like, I think it's like the guy that I'm kind of talking to right now has like, after we
00:06:51.640 started talking.
00:06:52.120 The guy who has you knocked up currently.
00:06:53.960 Correct.
00:06:54.320 He has a look.
00:06:54.960 FYI, she's pregnant, by the way. 1.00
00:06:56.880 Thanks.
00:06:57.280 Just reminding you guys.
00:06:59.700 Yeah.
00:06:59.960 My baby daddy has watched my videos.
00:07:03.580 And like, I don't mind.
00:07:04.700 Like, he's.
00:07:05.460 He watches your videos?
00:07:06.720 He's watched my videos.
00:07:08.000 That's an L. 1.00
00:07:09.320 That's an L. 1.00
00:07:10.320 Because you don't like, he's not the guy you're fucking on camera, right?
00:07:13.860 But the thing is, is the videos are very, very fake.
00:07:16.840 And they're very not me at all.
00:07:18.560 Like the videos that I filmed.
00:07:19.880 Johnny Sins?
00:07:21.000 I've never filmed with him.
00:07:22.300 I was supposed to, but I didn't.
00:07:23.520 Okay.
00:07:24.240 Um, so the videos that I have filmed is very, very fake and it's not me.
00:07:29.120 And like, you can even hear it.
00:07:30.540 But it's you getting fucked.
00:07:31.740 Yeah.
00:07:31.880 But it's still, my bones are fake.
00:07:33.080 It's not like, I see sex very differently from on set and like my personal life.
00:07:38.060 Like my personal life is, I see it as a soul tie connection.
00:07:41.240 It's very intimate.
00:07:42.120 It's very personal.
00:07:42.880 It's who I am.
00:07:44.340 And on set, I turn into Kiana Kumani.
00:07:47.160 Actress.
00:07:47.720 Yeah.
00:07:48.100 Kiana Kumani.
00:07:49.540 Like a persona type thing.
00:07:50.700 How can you hold those two at the same time?
00:07:52.940 I'm genuinely curious.
00:07:54.720 It messed me up very badly.
00:07:56.100 And that's why I don't do mainstream videos anymore, because for me right now, I still
00:08:02.080 will film, but I would like to film for my OnlyFans with my partner or who I'm with.
00:08:09.280 Because I am, I see sex very differently now.
00:08:14.240 And I want to have that soul tie and that genuine connection with the person that I am
00:08:19.460 sleeping with.
00:08:20.040 Because it does, it does mess with your head a lot.
00:08:23.080 Like the industry definitely does, whether people want to admit it or not.
00:08:27.960 Okay.
00:08:28.340 But in any case, your current guy who is the, he's your baby daddy.
00:08:33.460 He watches videos of you getting fucked by other guys.
00:08:36.700 He's watched them like once or twice.
00:08:38.660 See for me, like as a dude, like I would, no, there's no way I'm looking at the video
00:08:43.680 of my girl getting fucked by another dude. 0.68
00:08:45.780 I feel like it's, he was very aware of what I did.
00:08:50.100 Teach their own.
00:08:50.900 Teach their own.
00:08:51.520 Did he know?
00:08:52.120 Do you know what I did?
00:08:53.360 Oh yeah, for sure.
00:08:54.240 It was one of the first things I said to him when he walked outside.
00:08:56.560 Oh, you guys know, you know.
00:08:57.880 Oh, we live together.
00:08:58.860 She introduced me to him.
00:09:00.460 All four of us live together.
00:09:01.640 All four of us all live together.
00:09:03.180 Oh shit.
00:09:03.800 Okay.
00:09:04.180 Yeah.
00:09:04.940 Yeah.
00:09:05.320 All right.
00:09:05.800 Good times.
00:09:06.760 Okay.
00:09:07.820 It's a pretty fun house.
00:09:09.100 Yeah.
00:09:09.760 It's a pretty fun house.
00:09:11.320 All right.
00:09:11.340 I got a question for you.
00:09:12.560 So your, your core name is Kiana, Kiana Kumani.
00:09:17.940 Like come on me.
00:09:18.980 Yeah.
00:09:21.980 I get it.
00:09:23.780 That's where the name comes from.
00:09:25.020 Yo, question.
00:09:25.500 Would you be down to, this is a whatever exclusive.
00:09:29.340 Do any porn stars ever like have a middle initial?
00:09:33.240 No.
00:09:33.800 Do you think you could like put another K in there? 0.51
00:09:35.980 Oh, see, the thing is, is my real name, my real name is spelled, my real name is with
00:09:47.680 a K as, so Kiana is my real name, but I just spell it differently.
00:09:50.700 So it's K and then my last name also starts with a K.
00:09:53.660 Okay.
00:09:54.160 Yeah.
00:09:54.600 Got it.
00:09:55.020 Okay.
00:09:55.220 I have some more notes here for, for some of you guys.
00:09:57.240 Okay.
00:09:57.680 So CJ photo booth X, um, what is Taurus rising into the mic?
00:10:04.700 Please.
00:10:06.120 Um, honestly, I just didn't really know what to put my bio as.
00:10:09.720 So like your rising sign, it's like something from astrology.
00:10:13.360 Are you Taurus?
00:10:14.200 I am not a Taurus sun.
00:10:15.600 Oh, but you're a Taurus rising.
00:10:17.480 I'm a Taurus rising.
00:10:17.940 All right.
00:10:18.160 Just show of hands.
00:10:19.040 Who here believes in astrology?
00:10:20.900 Kind of.
00:10:21.780 Show of hands.
00:10:22.880 All right.
00:10:23.120 That shit's bullshit.
00:10:23.780 Okay.
00:10:24.760 Um, you're a dancer stripper. 1.00
00:10:28.060 Okay.
00:10:28.540 We already, we already figured that out.
00:10:30.180 Um, are you wearing your cross necklace by the way?
00:10:32.940 No.
00:10:33.600 Okay.
00:10:35.320 She purposely took that off before the show because she didn't want you to mention it.
00:10:40.580 She didn't want me to what?
00:10:41.700 She literally took it.
00:10:42.740 She literally took it.
00:10:42.760 She literally took it.
00:10:42.780 She took it off before we gave it. 0.88
00:10:45.200 Literally right before we gave it.
00:10:46.800 Is it in your purse?
00:10:48.100 All right.
00:10:48.860 It's in her purse.
00:10:50.080 What's wrong?
00:10:51.140 Is it a special cross necklace?
00:10:52.920 I don't get it.
00:10:53.320 It's like a, she texted in the group chat before we started the podcast.
00:10:58.220 She was like, I literally just took off my cross necklace.
00:11:00.060 Yo, should I get rid of the cross necklace for you?
00:11:01.960 That's actually like creepy.
00:11:03.260 Like who said that?
00:11:05.020 Well, I, I, I reviewed your guys' Instagrams before and.
00:11:08.400 So he was looking for that necklace.
00:11:09.580 To get some turd. 0.97
00:11:10.260 He just noticed that I wear it a lot.
00:11:12.320 And I saw like every photo you're wearing a cross thing and I'm like, okay. 1.00
00:11:17.120 Damn, that's hilarious.
00:11:18.520 Cause she mentioned that to us.
00:11:20.220 She mentioned it in the group chat.
00:11:21.740 Oh yeah.
00:11:22.160 I literally texted her.
00:11:23.120 Here, go get it.
00:11:23.760 Put it on.
00:11:25.660 So I can roast you for it.
00:11:27.840 That's hilarious.
00:11:28.620 All right.
00:11:28.960 We have, uh, Elmarie baby. 0.92
00:11:31.500 Hello.
00:11:32.180 Um, wait, actually, wait, I'm coming.
00:11:35.300 Wait, you say in your profile, something about the law of attraction.
00:11:39.720 What, what are you talking about?
00:11:42.400 Um, the law of attraction, just like meaning that I think I said like something along the
00:11:47.740 lines of like the law of attraction is a powerful thing.
00:11:49.520 Is that what I said on my bio?
00:11:50.860 I don't know.
00:11:51.260 I don't know.
00:11:51.740 Anyway.
00:11:52.380 So, um, you believe in the law of attraction.
00:11:54.860 Yeah.
00:11:55.020 I believe you attract what you put out and I believe in good karma and bad karma.
00:11:59.220 And I think that if you like, if you go, if you go to people and you speak to them and
00:12:06.820 treat them with kindness and respect and dignity, despite disagreements or having difference
00:12:12.620 of opinion, then that, that good karma comes back to you eventually.
00:12:17.080 And that's important.
00:12:18.140 So like, if I attract, if I put that out, then I attract that.
00:12:21.300 And that's, that's the law of attraction.
00:12:23.420 That's what I think at least.
00:12:24.560 Okay.
00:12:25.780 All right.
00:12:26.120 I'm not going to get, don't get me started on the law of attraction.
00:12:28.820 That sounds, I feel like when people say the law of attraction, this is what I hear.
00:12:33.000 I hear, I want to just do nothing and have everything come to me and just be like, yeah, just be like,
00:12:38.360 you know, polite to people.
00:12:40.380 And yeah.
00:12:40.640 No, I mean, I definitely, I definitely don't think of it in that sense.
00:12:45.240 I don't think that I'm just like doing nothing.
00:12:48.020 Like, I think that, I think that being kind to others is like the least.
00:12:51.920 How much charity work have you done last month?
00:12:55.740 No, I'm just saying like, I need metrics to like quantify.
00:13:00.100 I mean, charity work, like you mean like, like going in like, like, what the fuck is the word?
00:13:06.780 I'm not, I'm not saying, I'm not saying this like, like I expect that you've done charity
00:13:11.300 work this month.
00:13:12.080 It's just like, we'll say, oh, I think being nice and being kind.
00:13:14.980 And whenever we like quantify it, there's never anything that we can quantify it.
00:13:19.000 Yeah.
00:13:19.320 Okay.
00:13:19.760 Well, I just mean in the sense of like, a lot of people go throughout their day, just being
00:13:25.500 disrespectful and ignorant and mean to other people for absolutely no fucking reason. 0.93
00:13:29.740 So, to me, I think that that, I think that that way of life is not going to get those
00:13:36.180 people very far.
00:13:37.540 So, I don't know.
00:13:38.820 All right.
00:13:39.860 Good times.
00:13:40.600 Okay.
00:13:40.800 Law of attraction.
00:13:41.640 Okay.
00:13:42.380 So, really quick, I want to go back to OF.
00:13:44.600 So, just show of hands again, who here has an OF or had an OF?
00:13:49.620 One, two, three, four, five.
00:13:51.400 Okay.
00:13:52.020 And then not her.
00:13:53.240 Okay.
00:13:55.580 If you guys are comfortable sharing, how much do you guys make on OF?
00:13:59.740 We'll start with you.
00:14:01.460 Go ahead.
00:14:01.800 I just started making about $20,000 to $30,000 a month.
00:14:05.340 Okay.
00:14:06.500 I'm not comfortable sharing.
00:14:07.760 Six figures?
00:14:09.120 I'm not comfortable sharing.
00:14:10.320 Seven figures.
00:14:12.320 Okay.
00:14:12.680 Fair enough.
00:14:13.020 What about you?
00:14:13.580 To be completely honest, I don't know.
00:14:15.660 I don't ever use it.
00:14:16.820 Oh, right.
00:14:17.220 You're kind of not really using it.
00:14:18.400 What about dancing?
00:14:19.460 How much do you make per night?
00:14:20.800 Oh, gosh.
00:14:21.660 Average.
00:14:22.100 That's a loaded question.
00:14:24.200 It could be really anything.
00:14:26.500 I've had nights where I've taken home five grand.
00:14:28.900 I've had nights where I've taken home nothing.
00:14:31.260 And most of her dancing was in Ohio in a small town as well.
00:14:34.060 Columbus.
00:14:34.360 Oh, whoa.
00:14:35.000 No?
00:14:35.440 Columbus isn't a small town.
00:14:37.040 Well, we also danced in Dayton.
00:14:40.360 So Dayton is smaller.
00:14:41.860 Yeah.
00:14:42.200 Okay.
00:14:43.700 Can I have a question about dancing?
00:14:45.440 Yeah.
00:14:46.280 Would you say that you make more from talking to the guys or from dancing to the guys?
00:14:51.060 Straight into the mic, please.
00:14:52.120 Would you say you make more from talking to guys and kind of having more of like an intimate
00:14:56.280 conversation or more of an intimate dance?
00:14:59.320 I'd say talking for sure.
00:15:01.420 100%.
00:15:01.860 That's always a bad stripper. 1.00
00:15:03.020 I hated talking to them.
00:15:04.040 I make about $70,000.
00:15:05.580 Hold on.
00:15:06.340 Go ahead.
00:15:06.780 I make about $70,000 a month.
00:15:08.560 All right.
00:15:09.140 And then, Zoe, when you were active, how much were you making?
00:15:13.100 What?
00:15:13.360 Stripping or?
00:15:14.520 Oh, yeah.
00:15:15.040 Break it down between stripping and the OF.
00:15:16.680 Oh, man.
00:15:16.980 When I was stripping, I was like 22.
00:15:18.440 I'm 27 now.
00:15:19.640 So, I mean, honestly, literally the most money I made by luck was three grand because
00:15:23.320 I hate, I just, I was a great dancer, but talking wise, I cannot stroke a man's ego
00:15:27.780 that easy.
00:15:28.620 And it, I can't stand it.
00:15:30.540 But, OF, I make about five figures a month.
00:15:32.820 Five figures a month.
00:15:34.000 Mid, low, high?
00:15:35.280 Mid.
00:15:35.740 Mid?
00:15:36.180 Yeah.
00:15:36.320 Okay.
00:15:37.580 Don't say that about Kiki.
00:15:39.000 Okay.
00:15:39.600 Skip me.
00:15:40.080 What?
00:15:40.460 Fuck me.
00:15:41.020 Oh, sorry.
00:15:41.620 Go ahead.
00:15:42.040 Go ahead.
00:15:42.660 No.
00:15:43.240 Go ahead.
00:15:43.700 Go ahead.
00:15:44.860 So, when I danced, I did travel a lot.
00:15:47.860 I went to different countries.
00:15:48.660 The most, or different, not different countries, different states.
00:15:51.020 And the most I made when I was, when I was in New York.
00:15:53.720 And that was like literally a 20K night.
00:15:56.200 That was an insane full day excursion.
00:15:58.740 From dancing.
00:15:59.500 Yeah.
00:15:59.780 From dancing alone.
00:16:01.240 Okay.
00:16:01.920 Um, and then the, but like I would average at like Ohio, like most, at most was about
00:16:08.760 5Ks, but.
00:16:10.380 Damn.
00:16:10.860 I'm so shocked.
00:16:11.780 70K.
00:16:12.300 Wow.
00:16:13.800 Yeah, I know.
00:16:15.120 I know.
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