JustPearlyThings - June 08, 2023


Zuby's Message To Modern Women


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

183.53287

Word count

1,625

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

sentences flagged

Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the concept of settling and how to deal with it and why it s a bad thing to settle. We also discuss the problem with women settling and why you should never settle unless you have a guy in your life that makes 6 figures a month.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 guys think of women that say never settle you know i want to hear from the guys first
00:00:10.240 that means that men have settled zuby why don't you start i'll start yeah um they're gonna end
00:00:15.120 up very lonely for a long time um it's it's not realistic look the truth is everyone there's
00:00:23.800 always some degree of settling it's a bit it's a little bit of a weird term like i know what
00:00:29.140 people mean when they say never settle but if you were to take that literally nobody is perfect
00:00:34.920 you're not going to find anyone who takes absolutely every single box and never annoys
00:00:41.900 you and doesn't have little habits and quirks and personality traits that bother you at times
00:00:47.080 that's just the reality we have this with our own friendships we have this with our own families
00:00:50.880 right um so i think it's good not to settle on your non-negotiables right if you've got certain
00:01:00.160 deal breakers or there are certain red flags and i don't recommend settling on a massive red flag or
00:01:06.600 something that just is not going to work but when it comes to the smaller minor stuff if someone still
00:01:12.060 has that never settle mentality then you're never going to you're not going to be happy with anybody
00:01:16.140 in any relationship for a long period of time because they're always going to do certain things
00:01:20.200 that annoy you and there's going to be stuff you're not totally happy about so yeah it's like a polite
00:01:25.540 it's like a polite way of saying die alone yeah there's cats sometimes dogs but cats seem to be
00:01:36.100 the preferred nowadays you got only fans as well don't forget that yeah that's only going to work
00:01:41.120 for a couple years as well you'd better you'd better be young and you'd better be hot
00:01:44.540 okay
00:01:46.460 invest in cat food
00:01:48.800 hey there's stocks in petco all of that bro because at the end of the day all this never
00:01:54.800 settle and all of this like bro like you're just going to be old on your own drinking wine yeah like
00:02:00.800 eating ice cream and bro like you're going to lose bro simple like all these girls need to understand 0.97
00:02:06.800 because it's like what i said earlier yeah a lot of these girls get older they collect baggage and 1.00
00:02:11.480 they think their value goes up or it stays the same no it don't as you get older yeah the guys on
00:02:17.300 your level especially if you make a lot of money because of hypergamy you're going to want to date up 0.52
00:02:21.440 a lot of them guys on your level or higher are going to want younger women bruv yeah so understand
00:02:26.840 this thing like bro like all this never settle thing everybody settles bro it's and it's the same for
00:02:31.900 guys as well like you might be a guy that oh yeah i just want to get with big tits and a big bum bro 1.00
00:02:36.620 like and then down the line you see them with a girl that's flat you know what i'm saying like flat
00:02:40.980 like pancakes and fried eggs like that that's like bro like no but it's real though like even some
00:02:46.020 certain times you see rappers like you see rappers you look at their wife and you think rah like
00:02:51.140 you're a rapper you're whoever and then your wife is like kind of plain because he's settled and
00:02:56.400 and bro like bill gates like all these kind of people mark zuckerberg you see their girlfriends
00:03:01.220 they're not bad bitches like that do you get what i'm saying so everybody settles but the problem 1.00
00:03:06.140 is with a lot of these girls who make bare money and all of this i'm not gonna settle until i get 1.00
00:03:10.100 this guy that makes six figures a year and or six figures a month yeah bro like i'm sorry it don't
00:03:15.520 go like that and there's always new 18 year olds that come out every fucking year bro so stop 0.99
00:03:20.960 chatting shit or you can be on your own and yeah as i said invest in pet food bruv pet stocks get me
00:03:27.960 they're going up still some women built up a delusional mindset because they spend a lot of 1.00
00:03:34.980 their time banging the one percent of guys that will bang them anyway because that's what guys do
00:03:41.600 pump and dump it's cool pump and dump my bro and then they think because they're banged with these 0.59
00:03:45.720 guys in the top one percent that they should be able to settle i have a question for the guys
00:03:51.500 have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with
00:03:55.600 have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with multiple times
00:04:10.000 do you know what you know what it is because what women don't understand here that for men 0.95
00:04:19.760 it's just a nut have you have you ever had a long-term situationship with a girl you would
00:04:24.860 never be seen in public you know what you know why they maintain because they stay stay in that
00:04:31.580 that lane like they know what you don't want to be seen with them and they just they just come to
00:04:37.880 the crib and kick they're happy to be around high energy they're happy to be around high energy so
00:04:52.760 they're thinking i'm not going to get a guy like this in my life so i'm going to stay around him
00:04:55.880 and smash him i'm happy to be around him that's good and us man like you just said the people
00:05:00.280 they normally are like it's not on the level not on the same and they're not on the level as a man
00:05:04.760 you want to bust your nut and go listen it's a certain thing and this is a a odd term it's called a
00:05:12.360 human jerk off don't worry sometimes you don't want to masturbate it's a lot listen i said this to 0.92
00:05:24.680 my friend today i was like you've been in a situation where you've been done having sex and 0.70
00:05:34.360 you go to the bathroom and you look at yourself in the mirror and you go i'm not coming back here
00:05:38.920 and then you find yourself back there on tuesday wednesday thursday
00:05:54.600 hey because they wasn't answering the phone and they told you to wait for some you gotta wait for me
00:06:00.600 you gotta wait for this you wait i'm gonna go fuck this fat bitch right now wait wait say that 1.00
00:06:05.240 say that in the mic you got it you say oh you gotta wait you gotta wait i'm waiting i'm you
00:06:09.320 gonna we're gonna go on a couple more dates cool i'm gonna go fuck this fat bitch uh and then you 1.00
00:06:15.320 get your dick in somebody's sink like an and you're just washing yourself like why am i and you talking 0.98
00:06:21.320 you know what i'm talking about you having this prep talk like i'm not gonna do it i'm not gonna do this no more
00:06:25.480 it's called cls consequential loan of standards i call it pnc pulse nut clarity
00:06:45.960 forget the one where you're looking in the mirror
00:06:47.320 you know how the one like bro you've done your deed and that but bro you've gone to the edge of the
00:06:53.160 bed and you just put your hand in your head and you're thinking yes do it
00:06:56.120 do it
00:06:58.120 do it
00:07:00.120 you're doing your thing you're like what am i doing
00:07:03.800 me sure why am i here help help somebody i need help i need jesus
00:07:11.640 you guys you guys need to stop settling
00:07:13.480 it definitely sounds like you guys might say oh wait wait wait can i say something on the
00:07:18.600 ghost team after wait hold on hold on wait what'd you say you guys you guys need to stop
00:07:22.680 settling stop settling wait how do you 27 27 that's why because
00:07:29.480 that's when i was 27 i was like if you think i'm about to settle for you but do you see how fine
00:07:33.000 i am absolutely not as soon as i hit 30 i was like who want it who where i'm tired
00:07:37.880 i don't have time to be doing this so your standards went lower oh my god absolutely my
00:07:44.440 standards went lower i was like i'm trying to come i don't have time for this i don't have time to know
00:07:47.720 your name what is your name stop telling me your name let's go dude okay so it's bad to like your
00:07:52.920 mid-20s absolutely yeah i'm yeah i'm black you're just admitting hell no because i'm black and well
00:07:57.720 yeah but i'm american my life rate is my ability to die is a lot sooner so i was like well i got to get
00:08:05.960 this in i don't have time to be doing this i have to do it i gotta hurry up and get these nuts in
00:08:12.120 because i'm about to die any day now this is police or somebody no but just to end it to be serious to
00:08:17.560 be very serious it is a very serious thing where as a as a guy i always say i wish there was an
00:08:23.320 invention that would allow men and women to switch bodies for like 24 hours and you could understand
00:08:30.040 like the difference but there's self-control my penis doesn't but you say that's what i mean 0.74
00:08:35.480 so you say self-control because you don't you're a human being because we don't know each other's
00:08:41.080 biology and you're right there is self-control but it's to a limit of can i tell you a secret
00:08:46.280 you can't compare yourself to a man and a man can't compare himself to a woman 1.00