Pearl - 26 Mins of Gen Z Women Taking Ls in Society

00:00:00.000 kind of like fat women getting like losing weight you kind of expect it to come back except me damn 1.00

00:00:04.680 it what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to modern women being 0.99

00:00:10.440 addicted to phones so gen z women um and i would even say millennial women um even boomer moms 0.95

00:00:17.600 with facebook have just a terrible phone addictions uh to the point that i would say

00:00:22.880 social media is far worse for women than corn is for men um women are getting on tiktok and 0.93

00:00:29.540 divorcing their husbands. Women are getting on Instagram, finding a side dude. It just is what 1.00

00:00:34.860 it is. I don't vape, but I do kind of use my phone like a vape. I just watched a video of

00:00:42.200 talking about how he fixed his phone addiction and it was honestly very real and honestly a

00:00:50.720 little validating. So again, it's because we're kind of lonely as women by choice, right? But

00:00:57.180 we're choosing to use our phones instead of being in real life i really if you want to overcome a

00:01:01.360 phone addiction in all honesty because i would say i have i have a bit of one being in this industry

00:01:06.080 be in a city because you have more access to real life like i know there's this like trad fantasy

00:01:13.200 online we're living in the country you'll just have this community non-2025 and i've lived it

00:01:19.680 i've you know when i was in my parents house i was like an hour from the city and like i was bored

00:01:26.720 you know 10 hours of screen time a day and that's normal so mind you if she's left you unread

00:01:34.260 i got bad news for you king and a family history of addiction

00:01:41.440 and um i will like hit my phone like people would hit vape not my dog deciding to start

00:01:51.620 drinking water right now like i'll get off a stressful work call that's what i'm picking

00:01:56.180 up my phone i'm opening tiktok i start scrolling you know like whenever i'm stressed or bored or

00:02:06.100 don't want to think or i'm tired and don't want to get up or um pretty much any thing ever i am

00:02:17.920 picking up my phone and scrolling and kyle peru made the really good point of like what am i

00:02:25.020 hiding from and um because i can tell she has a lack of social skills i mean i'm not judging

00:02:32.460 don't we all you know what i'm talking about in therapy today anyway does anyone else feel like

00:02:39.020 that like you literally pick up your phone mindlessly and use it as like an instant

00:02:44.640 dopamine rush like i feel like it like it's like it's a literal drug anyway one of my goals every

00:02:52.260 day is no screen time for the first hour of the day and i'm gonna try it again tomorrow

00:03:00.420 haven't haven't done it any day this week or the week before that but uh today it's been okay let's

00:03:09.140 see the next woman that's addicted to her phones i mean these women when we start to mess up our 1.00

00:03:13.220 faces usually it's because we think the people we see in our phones um look like i get called ugly

00:03:19.540 on the internet i kind of lean into it right but a lot of people are very critical of the face like

00:03:24.340 my face could be it could be better you know uh but really i'm kind of a normal looking woman

00:03:29.460 like i'm really not that ugly i'm just kind of ugly for tv does that make sense like like

00:03:35.700 in real life i'm pretty normal like average i don't really like nobody looks at me and is like 0.96

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00:06:37.800 sound crazy that in 10 years people will be going to rehab for their phone when i was in rehab in

00:06:41.960 2006 i was at this place in arizona called the meadows and there was that'd be great i would

00:06:47.140 love a phone rehab that'd be awesome you know what's funny there's like fat camps like i think

00:06:53.240 even to lose the last 20 pounds i would love a fat camp i would really love it i like i think a fat

00:07:00.000 camp would be really fun i think of like just to see how long i could go without it i'm like put

00:07:06.020 me in this phone prison a girl that was there for phone addiction do people make fun of her or do 0.99

00:07:11.140 people just curious about it people were more curious i mean we're all in rehab like you're

00:07:14.820 not really making fun of other people right what are you gonna what are you gonna i actually love 0.98

00:07:20.580 when you're kind of in a place where nobody can have an ego because everybody's got shit that 0.90

00:07:26.280 would destroy them i mean i pray every there's some embarrassing things i've done in my life 0.95

00:07:30.720 that i pray to god every day don't make it to the internet i mean you know i haven't done anything

00:07:34.820 that crazy like no drugs other than weed but like barely barely you know i'm not gonna pretend i

00:07:42.020 didn't try it ever though um but you know there's some embarrassing things i've done in my life that

00:07:47.760 if they ever get on the internet i will be i will be embarrassed so but back to my point when you're

00:07:53.880 in a place where everybody's kind of like we all are trash here there's a very little judgment you

00:08:00.440 almost can make the best of friends. It's come to this. It was just a little curious because we were

00:08:05.880 like addicted to your phone. How? I mean, I just think having boundaries around your phone is

00:08:11.180 really important. Just like you would have boundaries in a relationship. Stay at home mom

00:08:14.820 or work from home mom who is distracted by her phone. You know, it's ruining your motherhood 1.00

00:08:18.080 experience. You're anxious, you're overwhelmed, but you're using your phone and scrolling to cope

00:08:21.860 with the stress. And you feel guilty because you know, you're distracted from motherhood. You know,

00:08:25.020 you're distracted from your children. You know that all they see is you looking at your phone

00:08:27.820 you're waiting for them to be distracted so that you can go kids are so boring like kids are not

00:08:32.620 these entertaining like we gotta we gotta stop saying motherhood is this special amazing thing

00:08:38.380 it's cool but i don't really see mothers being that excited to be mothers you know they're kind

00:08:43.940 of bored so your phone and scroll and then when they need something from you you become frustrated

00:08:48.960 that they need you their caretaker because you're so addicted to your phone if you're like oh my

00:08:53.160 gosh how does she know my life it's because that was me for a few months my phone addiction was

00:08:57.340 absolutely ruining my life and absolutely ruining my motherhood experience here's what i did i got

00:09:01.260 off social media for 30 days i use that time to reflect how much i'm really using my phone

00:09:05.020 doesn't feel good now she's back on tick tock it won't you know one of those moments where you're

00:09:09.500 like oh my gosh thank goodness kind of like fat women getting like losing weight you kind of 1.00

00:09:13.660 expect it to come back except me damn it um women on social media addiction yeah i mean she'll go 1.00

00:09:21.820 back. I took time away because this is actually repulsive and I'm wasting so much time on my phone. 0.97

00:09:27.720 Then what I did for the next 30 days was just trial what it would look like to be on my phone

00:09:31.660 only in the evenings or only during his nap time or only during lunchtime. And I came up with a

00:09:35.820 really good flow and boundaries for me and my phone. And I feel a million times better. I have

00:09:40.080 so much peace. I feel healthy. The best way I can describe it is I feel like I have a six pack when

00:09:45.400 it comes to like digital wellness though. I don't feel guilty, anxious, or overwhelmed during the

00:09:48.760 day or this desire to okay i'm moving on you're not that entertaining all right another one white 0.98

00:09:54.760 women i would say phone addiction is mostly for white women because again we're the ones doing 0.99

00:09:58.940 these messed up things that are marketed to us because we want it so it's our own fault but

00:10:03.440 like for example the trans stuff the mom's on the phone too much and the dad the conservatives will

00:10:09.920 say men just lead better it's like what the dad is supposed to watch his wife and what she consumes 0.96

00:10:15.900 on her phone all day doesn't he have better things to do you're an adult your problem i know there's

00:10:22.680 literally a direct correlation with me going on my phone when i wake up and having a bad day

00:10:27.460 and yet i still constantly do that this morning i got up and i went on my phone yeah i was

00:10:32.940 productive like i got dressed i went to class but i was sitting in chapel and i was talking to my

00:10:38.480 friend and i was like yeah there's this correlation that every time i go on my phone i have a bad day

00:10:43.720 and now i'm feeling like crap and then i came back to my dorm to change my outfit

00:10:48.100 haven't changed out of my outfit sitting in my bed

00:10:51.660 scrolling on my phone i'm realizing every day more and more i'm so addicted to my phone

00:11:01.520 and it's so normalized because everyone does it everyone does it

00:11:05.820 i don't know what to do anymore i don't know what to do i'm so addicted to my phone and it doesn't

00:11:14.820 even it doesn't make me feel good like when i'm on it yeah it's nice after i feel like crap every

00:11:19.740 time every time and yet i still go on my phone yeah and eight to twelve hours a day is not

00:11:28.600 abnormal i think the average let me look it up the average screen time for gen z women 1.00

00:11:37.000 six and a half hours a day and if it's self-reported it's probably higher it says gen

00:11:43.320 z men are an hour less but i don't really believe i don't know i i just have not seen gen z men

00:11:50.200 have the phone addiction that gen z women do but again that's a social life so again gen z is not 1.00

00:11:57.160 really going to have social lives uh you know they still will but it'll just be different i mean a

00:12:01.880 lot of my friends i've made online and i don't hate it like some of them are pretty cool so what

00:12:08.280 up guys welcome to my reaction series so gen z women the job market and the economy is really

00:12:13.240 hitting them and gen z women have a few options here they could get married um they could increase 1.00

00:12:20.680 their skill set uh they could move in with their parents or be hookers and you're really seeing 0.99

00:12:26.760 gen z women moving in with their parents and being hookers like that's really what they're picking 1.00

00:12:31.720 so we're gonna react to some gen z women i'm talking about moving in with their parents 1.00

00:12:37.320 come with me to move back in with my parents hi i'm jade i'm 28 i'm an actor who's currently

00:12:43.080 unemployed she looks good actually she looks good she could really get married and my boyfriend of 1.00

00:12:48.920 two years and i just broke up so i'm moving back into my childhood bedroom

00:12:58.040 so i packed up what was left at my boyfriend's and drove myself home

00:13:01.960 came home there's my dog and my room is purple my room is so purple it's always been purple it's

00:13:07.480 it's a purple room i call it the purple room that kind of looks like the average um 2000s room like

00:13:14.680 Like, all my friends and I's rooms all looked like that, like bright colors.

00:13:18.040 My parents, and I think they're happy to have me home, but I don't know.

00:13:21.280 We'll see.

00:13:21.780 I got ready for bed.

00:13:23.120 I did my skincare.

00:13:24.400 Yeah, and Gen Z women are going to be, like, they're not going to get married because they're 1.00

00:13:29.720 going to be simped out.

00:13:31.220 Like, it's going to be the parents that take care of them.

00:13:33.280 So if you have a daughter, I pray to God I only have sons. 0.52

00:13:38.000 God, please give me sons.

00:13:40.280 please Jesus Christ please do not give me a daughter if I have a daughter I'm gonna be

00:13:49.020 we're gonna have to take care of her till I'm dead give me a son give me a son and I'll I'll 1.00

00:13:57.400 make sure he's the best Chad ever I'll be like look these your girlfriend's a whore you need 1.00

00:14:02.940 dumper like i would be the best boy mom ever god i know i know how funny it would be i know how 0.99

00:14:10.680 funny it would be to torture me with the daughter i know it would be so hilarious if you were just

00:14:15.640 like torturing me and you're like you've been laughing at women your whole 20s let me let me

00:14:22.620 bless you with the daughter and you just know she'd get end up on only fans she would because

00:14:28.760 all of my enemies would just they'd be like oh what an amazing opportunity we have here 0.99

00:14:35.140 to um embarrass pearl she talks a lot of shit on the internet so let's pay her daughter a bajillion 1.00

00:14:42.320 dollars to do porn and i'm gonna be like oh no you could do the right thing and marry a a good 1.00

00:14:47.700 guy and my daughter's just gonna be like nah god god give me a son i can save my sons i i cannot

00:14:55.660 save a daughter yep and then i oh i took my hair out the way i do every night and then i went to

00:15:02.800 find my dog to get some comfort and cuddles and love but unfortunately he wants nothing to do

00:15:07.000 with me so um i just forced it upon him anyway and then i played animal crossing and i'm getting

00:15:11.860 the island all decorated for halloween look at that and then i stared into the mirror contemplating

00:15:15.640 life yeah notice how you could provide value at her parents house you know what i mean like cook 1.00

00:15:22.560 help out i read and but she's just showing being a burden to everyone it's just this idea that 0.98

00:15:29.520 women are like nurturing is such a i like don't even know how we got away with that lie for so 1.00

00:15:34.000 long you have the privilege to move back home and reset for a bit there is nothing to be embarrassed

00:15:39.040 about i moved back home to florida and moved in with my parents at 28 years old after living on

00:15:43.920 my own for two years in san diego i was so scared to make the move back home i was afraid of what

00:15:49.760 people were going to think of me i thought people were gonna think i was a failure and honestly for

00:15:54.080 the first couple of months i did feel like a failure i really struggled to adjust coming

00:15:58.560 back home and even though it was so hard to make that decision to come home it was the best thing

00:16:03.280 i ever did for myself because it's been almost a year and my life has completely changed i've been

00:16:09.040 able to lose 30 pounds i've paid over twenty thousand dollars of debt i am working my dream

00:16:14.960 job and i've also been able to grow my youtube channel and focus on my content creation i will

00:16:20.320 say moving home is not i i'm kind of making fun of them obviously but it's really not a bad idea

00:16:26.420 if you need to like fix your life a little bit i moved home when i was demonetized and when i quit

00:16:31.360 my sales job um to because it's a long story i was gonna go overseas to play volleyball

00:16:37.880 oh my gosh in England and then COVID canceled the season so I'd already quit my job because

00:16:45.640 the plan was I'd have like two months hanging out with the parents and then I'm gonna go overseas

00:16:49.180 I don't know when I'll see you guys next um and then and then COVID uh so I ended up at home for

00:16:56.500 like a year and like two months but my dad was so awesome he said if you want to try the YouTube

00:17:02.100 thing try it and i was like it dad let's let's it i genuinely could not be happier and more

00:17:10.720 fulfilled with myself and even though it was so difficult to start all over again and you know

00:17:16.880 it was definitely a hit to my ego after living on your own to then going ego hits are good though

00:17:22.080 i'm a way better person now i thought i was so awesome when i got all those subscribers and i

00:17:27.860 became this big youtuber i thought i was awesome and getting it taken away was kind of the best

00:17:32.400 thing that happened to me because i just i needed an ego hit i still think i'm awesome i won't lie

00:17:37.800 i know the internet hates me i know but i i do i am a little goaded like i i don't want to say i'm

00:17:45.320 the goat but like i mean would it be would it be the wrong word back home and living under your

00:17:52.720 parents' roof, like it is definitely an ego hit. But if that's what you need to do in order to

00:17:58.140 reset for a little bit and find stability or focus on yourself, on your goals, whatever it is that

00:18:02.940 you need to do, and you have the privilege to do so, there is nothing to be embarrassed about.

00:18:07.680 All right. I'm going to tell you guys right now, just move home. Just move back home. I'm 29 years

00:18:12.660 old. 29 years old. I just moved from living in the city by myself, Chicago, to the suburbs

00:18:19.480 in my parents house and my parents don't have a huge big fancy house you know we're not rich

00:18:25.100 or anything like that but to have the opportunity to live at home and not be so stressed out all

00:18:31.640 the time about paying two thousand dollars a month in rent it's priceless it's priceless do

00:18:38.240 you guys know how much money i have now how many things i can do okay i can go get botox anytime i

00:18:43.500 want i could buy a house in two years if i wanted it's not a bad look it's better than sex work but

00:18:51.340 i what i am showing you is that women would rather move home with their parents than be married

00:18:56.220 women like women really crave like basically living a lifestyle we can't pay for 1.00

00:19:03.740 i mean i know men crave it too but they can just like be happy but we just you know

00:19:07.820 okay i just woke up so ignore my bed head and i'm obviously wearing my grinch pjs and it's

00:19:13.880 november 3rd obviously naturally and if you've been following all along you guys know that i

00:19:19.080 just moved so this is quite literally the only piece of furniture that i currently own thankfully

00:19:24.100 a couch is being delivered in a couple days but i was just sitting here and i got the urge to come

00:19:29.980 on here and just chit chat and i kind of wanted to give you guys like an update on my life especially

00:19:35.520 the past couple months um and why this move happened and why i felt like it was the right

00:19:40.960 time so i for the summer moved into my parents place i had a couple trips not a couple i actually

00:19:48.720 had a lot of trips planned this summer i was also doing some house sitting for my parents for a

00:19:52.880 month so at the time the how it all worked out was i would have had one week to pack my old place

00:19:59.840 and then find a place to move into within one week and then go on holiday for the rest of

00:20:04.640 this summer, essentially. And my parents were like, Bailey, why don't you just put all your

00:20:09.080 stuff in storage, slow down, live your best life this summer, travel. You're going to be like house

00:20:14.520 slash dog sitting for us anyways. And then you could revisit where you want to move in the fall.

00:20:20.060 And I previously shared that I didn't really know where I wanted to be for this next chapter.

00:20:25.500 I didn't know if I wanted to move to Toronto. I didn't know if I wanted to do a New York moment.

00:20:30.140 I didn't know if I, I didn't know where I wanted to go. I even briefly considered London. So I was

00:20:37.140 kind of all over the map. So anyways, I was sitting here now that I am in my new apartment

00:20:43.360 and also some contacts. I have moved six times in five years. So it was really important to me to

00:20:48.740 take my time and find a spot that works best for me and Rufus and Scooter because they're literally

00:20:55.400 my world. Finally found the most perfect spot, which I have shared with you guys. And I'm so

00:20:59.720 excited to like, just, I don't know, be a little more maybe vulnerable or transparent, especially

00:21:05.100 on this platform and really just show you an insight to my life and, um, stuff that's like

00:21:11.280 less filtered, like currently the look that's going on right now. So anyways, I'm sitting here

00:21:16.460 having my morning coffee and I was just thinking to myself, I was like, you know what? I bet

00:21:20.640 there's a lot of other people that are maybe in like a really big transitional period in their

00:21:25.080 life they're going through it and have me thinking that i am so grateful that i got to

00:21:31.760 pause breathe and live with my parents and it's such a blessing and i really don't think that it

00:21:38.040 should be a taboo topic and it should be nothing that you are embarrassed yeah because usually

00:21:43.940 what happens when we move to the cities rack up debt from college and just overspending like

00:21:49.140 living beyond their means in the cities they want to go on trips they want to go to parties you know

00:21:54.180 they want to eat out all the time so they rack up a bunch of debt and then someone has to pay for it

00:21:59.060 it's not going to be us ever you know it's going to be a man so either their father or their

00:22:03.540 their simp or whatever about and it had me thinking you got to understand these decisions

00:22:10.440 are rewarded and from a female perspective um it's women's choice is to do sex work or sleep 1.00

00:22:18.080 with a man they're just not attracted to and they only we only want to do that if we're getting paid

00:22:23.460 you know man maybe I should have shared my process but I think at the time I myself was like

00:22:29.820 going through it and then Fred anyways I can't I can't shoot this girl's got to land the plane 1.00

00:22:34.640 but what up guys welcome to my reaction series so in Gen Z women we are seeing an increase in 1.00

00:22:41.220 women that have never had boyfriends at an older and older age and today we are going to hear from

00:22:46.760 a woman who claims that she is 25 and has never had a boy and she is going to explain it. So let's

00:22:53.640 go here. I'm turning 25 next week and I've never had a boyfriend. And I feel like with this British 1.00

00:22:57.980 Vogue article coming out, I have a lot to say. So often when I say I've never had a boyfriend.

00:23:01.900 The British Vogue article is saying is having a boyfriend embarrassing. So again,

00:23:06.860 we're going to get with her. She's a mid, not an upper mid. I'd put her at a low, 1.00

00:23:11.300 um i'd say a solid mid young mid um hoop earrings like she heavy makeup doesn't seem not like 1.00

00:23:19.860 promiscuous so let's let's see her explain it why and i get i think it's usually long-term

00:23:24.900 situationships and women don't need as much attention because we get the validation from 1.00

00:23:28.740 social media so we don't need it from like one man as much a sympathy card i get the how could

00:23:34.260 no one ever dated you like oh my god like that's so that sucks i bet she's gonna find a way to 1.00

00:23:39.220 to blame the men and say oh i don't want to date them which is true to some extent uh there are

00:23:44.100 tons of men i'm sure she's turning down however it doesn't change the fact that the men she wants

00:23:48.640 aren't picking her when really it's all about autonomy and having a choice like i could have

00:23:53.360 a boyfriend if i wanted no i'm not trying to be true no that's true she's 25 like i mean when

00:23:57.780 you're that age yeah go older and uglier they'll do it hockey but like i have said no to multiple

00:24:03.880 men in my life not to say i don't want one but on my totem pole of things that are most important

00:24:08.720 to me yeah gen z women rank men seventh in importance having a boyfriend has always come last 0.99

00:24:15.440 and some people may think this is untraditional actually a lot of people in my close life

00:24:19.200 look down upon me for this reason thinking when is she going to find a boyfriend when is she going 0.92

00:24:23.680 to settle down for me like 35 i mean that's when all women do it's always been i have the power 1.00

00:24:30.320 to do whatever i want and letting go of that freedom is scary to me yeah and that's and that's

00:24:35.680 what i try to explain it's not necessarily that women are bad people it's that we enjoy having 0.96

00:24:40.960 the freedom to do whatever we want because as a person people crave the like not being controlled

00:24:46.560 people don't like living with like a thumb over their head not saying men always do that but

00:24:50.880 that's like the perception right and when you marry somebody there is a level of freedom that

00:24:56.400 both parties are generally giving up um anyways long story short so now she's gonna um she's gonna 0.99

00:25:05.760 want to stay single and use her youth on herself and get into all the free parties all the free 0.98

00:25:10.480 events because there she's a certain level of attractiveness she's gonna get into a lot of doors 1.00

00:25:14.960 that she would have to turn down if she had a boyfriend and if it's the right person in the

00:25:18.240 right relationship you won't have to let go of that many freedoms but it's also about compromise

00:25:22.880 and like there are things you'd have to give up i can't just drop everything and leave the country

00:25:26.640 and it's like a time thing you know what if she wants to travel one weekend or spend it with her 0.86

00:25:30.880 friends relationships require a certain amount of time a week you're spending together drop of a hat

00:25:35.520 if i have someone else to consider and it might sound selfish but also i think it's okay to be

00:25:39.280 selfish when you're in your young years in your 20s like what if i want to be able to do whatever

00:25:44.400 i want to do god forbid i don't think it's lame to have never had a boyfriend and you know what

00:25:50.240 i actually don't have a problem i don't think it makes me right as long as you can pay for it but

00:25:53.920 usually our independence somebody else has to pay for and it's usually a simp the family um

00:26:01.680 the friend zone someone else is paying for this independence because most women are not 1.00

00:26:06.320 independent i think i've met like maybe one or two women that aren't reliant on the men in their

00:26:10.880 life less of a person sometimes i've gotten gotten comments like what do you know you've

00:26:15.120 the rebender relationship babe don't look down upon me because i've never been in a relationship

00:26:19.960 because you know how many friendships that have lasted since age of two for me yeah but it's

00:26:24.160 different and i'm sure i'd ask her what's your longest situation ship do you know how many boys

00:26:29.440 i have tried to date do you know how many times i've been burnt like i know a lot and i think i

00:26:35.420 got pumped and dumped she said because again sixes get ghosted the hardest i don't write the rules of

00:26:42.100 the game i just tell you what they are um okay that's the part that annoys me the most is people

00:26:46.620 looking down upon me for never having experienced a real boyfriend girlfriend relationship that

00:26:52.900 doesn't mean that i don't know the green and red flags to look for they're not mature at all and

00:26:56.220 then i haven't seen it all so if you're anything like me and i've never found love i also babes

00:27:01.680 like i'm a hopeless romantic just because i haven't found it doesn't mean i know and usually

00:27:04.760 what happens is the hopeless romantics watch too many like disney movies so they think you know

00:27:10.020 they think love in this relationship a lot of trad cons kind of like they paint it as this thing

00:27:14.420 that's going to change so much uh but really it doesn't you're the same person so if you're an

00:27:19.800 unhappy person single you're going to be unhappy in a relationship if you're a happy person single

00:27:24.660 you'll be happy in a relationship um assuming it's like the right one on it i just have to be

00:27:29.940 ready for it and that's something i'm working for looking towards in there you guys seen this trend

00:27:33.840 in gen z women um the younger ones uh pushing it off uh further and further and further if you have 0.98

00:27:39.960 put it in the comments um but yeah i just think there's a really bad stigma around like oh my god

00:27:45.120 you didn't write a boyfriend what's wrong with you i i think the stigma is going away i mean

00:27:49.480 i think every year like i didn't feel like i matured as a person until my mid to late 20s i

00:27:58.080 think a lot of life decisions for me like delayed things and i think gen z's it's gonna be even

00:28:05.080 later where um you know gen z's not moving out of their parents house they're not getting into real

00:28:09.940 relationships um they're not getting houses neither are millennials but i i would say young

00:28:17.420 millennials and gen z i'm two months away from gen z i'm barely a millennial and um i i think

00:28:24.340 our generation did not become adults um until late like i think millennials kind of did it in

00:28:30.780 their mid-30s early to mid-30s gen z i i think it's going to be mid-30s um because i think every

00:28:37.480 year marriage houses all the big stuff is just going to keep getting pushed off with every

00:28:42.200 generation i don't see any indication this trend is going to go a different way like why does

00:28:47.000 something why does something have to be wrong with me there doesn't have to be anything wrong

00:28:50.920 with me i don't know well because good products get bought so generally speaking either your

00:28:55.800 standards are too high or something's off you're crazy um and you can get a cute guy like i i'd

00:29:01.720 say she's cute enough to get a good guy so then they're going to be like what's wrong in the

00:29:06.200 inside um and you know there's stuff wrong with all of us uh but you know so it just is what it

00:29:12.920 is anyways guys can you let me know what you think in the comments have you seen this trend

00:29:16.920 of gen c women pushing off relationships and adulthood in general along with millennials 0.99

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Pearl - January 07, 2026

26 Mins of Gen Z Women Taking Ls in Society

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