Pearl - 304s and Girlbosses of The 'Gram

00:00:00.000 malik what's your first heart truth i feel like it's socially acceptable for women to be losers

00:00:04.320 yes all right what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are doing instagram

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00:00:15.600 and some of them are pretty funny so anyways today we are reacting um to all these reels

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00:00:35.840 yeah i hate working with women man i hate working with women i fight it man oh my god dude they 1.00

00:00:42.560 always starting from on the job especially in construction if anybody worked with women in 1.00

00:00:48.640 construction they know what i'm talking about these hoes always starting drama they always 1.00

00:00:54.400 on some bush yeah women just cannot um we do this everywhere it's not just construction 0.99

00:00:59.660 but imagine like the girls he works with are like watching the video being like hey 0.96

00:01:05.040 they be trying to get in there when they don't get their way they be trying to foods to get to 0.99

00:01:10.300 get they to women become them and they want to marry so if they have a type they join that job

00:01:13.900 usually i like a sweet talker you know what i mean so i need the mic up if they about to get 1.00

00:01:19.480 fired they start trying to holler at the superintendent i mean these hoes to host for 1.00

00:01:24.560 bitches be wanting to have equality them hoes try to use they plot them hoes be trying to use they 1.00

00:01:29.440 put to get they way a whole lot you see what i'm saying i do not like working with women at all 1.00

00:01:35.860 never i never like working with women ever stay the away from me yeah try to get me fired the 0.71

00:01:43.160 other day my whole she tried to get my company fired i guess because she know i'm getting that 1.00

00:01:47.860 money out here on my own shit she found out and she she went up to the front of the security place 0.94

00:01:54.520 and the dude stopped me going through that he's like hey bro let me holler at you and i'm like 0.99

00:01:58.940 what's up bro he was like he said man old girl that other safety lady that worked for the other

00:02:04.000 company came over here and started asking me questions about you trying to get your personal

00:02:08.660 information and i'm like what she's trying to get my personal info he's like yeah man

00:02:14.100 so i said what he said yeah look at the comments even men do this too we got men that want to gang

00:02:20.200 up to you and sabotage you in jobs it's we all know it's not the same stop with this eternal

00:02:25.040 he thought man she's weird she keeps coming asking about you and i told her i can't give her

00:02:30.180 no information about nobody because it's it's a security breach and i said okay bet so i go to

00:02:36.700 her superintendent and i tell him i said hey man you need to tell old girl that's you know that's

00:02:42.300 messed up he say what she did what you know and he said i'm gonna talk to her so he called the 0.99

00:02:47.680 company she worked for and told her to stop you know to told her because she put on a witch hunt

00:02:54.100 trying to just i don't know what the that she's trying to do so uh so i told him and he told her 1.00

00:03:01.680 to stop well she keep doing it women don't know when to stop she'll keep doing it to make herself

00:03:07.480 right like she'll keep doing until she gets fired bro doing it to make us all right let's move on 0.99

00:03:13.320 to the next person i get i get you my guy i get you all right signal and pregnant let's talk about

00:03:19.660 it oh what an l and you're putting that in it's open about how i'm doing this pregnancy without

00:03:25.200 a partner and i'm doing this in a non-traditional way but 99.9 of the time i'm fine like i'm fine

00:03:33.580 i don't need a partner i'm like i have so much support with my friends and family but yeah that's

00:03:40.220 why you're telling us all this right i'd be lying if i said there weren't moments that i do wish i

00:03:47.160 had a partner like of course i wish like i when i was doing my entire baby shower i wish i had

00:03:53.900 someone to share that with or you know as i'm like decorating the nursery i wish i had somebody to

00:03:59.680 share that with. And there's going to be moments throughout this journey that I'm sure I will wish

00:04:05.280 that I had someone to share these moments with. And the reason why I'm sharing this is because

00:04:11.280 you are going to have those moments. Like eventually, I mean, listen, maybe not everyone,

00:04:17.060 but it is normal to have those moments. So although I am so strong and I know I'm strong

00:04:21.360 and like, again, almost... Women are never as strong as they say. 100% of the time. 1.00

00:04:24.700 but like i like how she's making herself the hero in this we gotta stop celebrating bad choices just

00:04:30.960 eat that owl so totally fine i do naturally have those moments where i'm like oh like it's like

00:04:36.120 that the wound gets picked on like somebody's picking up my wound so if you're watching this

00:04:41.680 and you were going through the pregnancy in a way that you just didn't imagine for yourself

00:04:45.940 whatever that looks like just remember that you are going to have moments sometimes where

00:04:51.140 you do wish you had it in the way that you wanted in the way that you deserved obviously if you

00:04:58.440 deserved it you would have got it that's that's the biggest cope so give yourself grace when that

00:05:04.720 wave comes because all right i'm gonna give you no grace and move on to the next video

00:05:08.920 the divorce statistic women need to see 20 year study from kingston university tracked 10 000

00:05:17.560 people through divorce and the finding was that women are broke after even with child support

00:05:23.160 the divorced women didn't just become happier than they were during the marriage they became 0.97

00:05:28.320 happier than they'd been in their entire yeah because women love whoring so like if they get 0.99

00:05:33.540 the money to whore they're happy with it but they definitely i think at some point it's got to catch 0.99

00:05:38.160 up to them adult lives still think divorce ruins women a 20-year study from king depends how broke 0.99

00:05:46.660 they are and if they have a new man to bail them out and what type of guys they get to whore around 0.98

00:05:50.740 with uh but it's like easier to live by yourself than with pete stop girls from being losers 0.95

00:05:55.300 welcome back to another hard truth for the girlies but today we have malik l malik what's 0.90

00:06:00.020 your first hard truth i feel like it's socially acceptable for women to be losers yes i think 0.99

00:06:05.540 y'all need to stop because it's it's it's making the world a worse place so how how can they stop 0.96

00:06:11.220 It's a self-sustaining ecosystem of a girl being a loser and then her homegirls being like, as you should, and then the distant friends being like, yes, queen, and then the girl continues being a loser. 0.90

00:06:23.080 It's like, you know, no girl over the age of 30 should have a bed on the floor or a dirty room. 0.62

00:06:30.000 And that is my truth, and I'm sticking to it. 1.00

00:06:32.820 How can girls? 0.54

00:06:33.800 Oh, that's so funny. 1.00

00:06:35.040 yes that's so true because women will have a dirty room put it on instagram and then everyone 1.00

00:06:39.120 will be like yes queen that's okay it just is like women will celebrate being terrible parents 0.99

00:06:44.480 big slut fat yeah i stay single because i'm not interested in surface level connections i want 0.99

00:06:51.280 real understanding what the hell is depth mean i think depth is just men having to talk to you 0.99

00:06:55.920 about that they don't care and i have two kids my time and energy matter and if someone can't

00:07:01.920 respect that it's just not for me and yet it gets lonely sometimes i'm human but i don't fold on

00:07:08.080 myself i love myself enough to wait because when the right man comes he's not taking from me he's

00:07:14.320 adding to a life yeah i want i want a slave i already love all right let's go to the next one 0.81

00:07:21.280 i want to step on the scale of the doctors i say oh oh you are so fat oh my god like 1.00

00:07:27.280 disclaimer loser like that should be when you see a woman like this there should be a 1.00

00:07:31.520 a disclaimer, like disclaimer, this woman is a loser. I don't want to be weighed today. You got 1.00

00:07:35.680 to grow up. If I don't want to talk about my fatness at the doctor, I say, Oh, I'm not here

00:07:40.060 to talk about my weight. I'm here to talk about fill in the blank, whatever the issue is. Yeah.

00:07:43.980 But the issue is always caused by your weight. If they refuse to test me for certain things

00:07:48.220 because of my fatness, I say, I would like it noted in my chart that you were refusing to test

00:07:53.460 me for X, Y, and Z. If they push and insist on me getting on the scale and I don't want to,

00:07:59.180 i say if this was a visit with an anesthesiologist or you're prescribing me meds that are dosed by

00:08:04.480 weight then i would but otherwise it's not relevant to what we're here to discuss this

00:08:08.720 is the biggest discuss so i'm not going to do that today i'm kemi orange i'm a boundary

00:08:13.060 oh my god a boundary coach oh no okay let's see if you've been following me you would know that

00:08:21.440 for the last five years i've been in the spicy content world and even though there's been paying

00:08:27.140 to see that i'm not extremely proud of having gone down that route i'm extremely grateful for

00:08:32.020 the experience of knowing what it feels like to live a life that i don't want and so what up guys 0.98

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00:09:19.400 journey with me as I leave behind a world that I once knew my main source of income even still to

00:09:27.460 this day my main source of income for a life that I am more proud of and in aligned with in my 0.99

00:09:35.440 purpose all right well um you should just I don't know once you're a hooker I'd just say keep going 1.00

00:09:41.660 at this point there's men that need sex I would just go further down the hooker rabbit hole you're 1.00

00:09:46.660 you're obviously don't have what it takes to work a real job girls stand up what are you doing did 1.00

00:09:51.640 you just get married to be his sex his slave plus sex for looking for a man doing his chore yeah 1.00

00:09:57.680 because okay when women like a guy they do stuff for him and so it's like a trade-off he can do 0.99

00:10:03.020 stuff for me and then i don't like him or i like him and then i do stuff for him his laundry

00:10:07.620 are you his maid did you marry that guy to be his maid to be his chef you immediately became

00:10:14.960 his emotional support so now you're his therapist like girl what is going on why did you get married

00:10:22.200 just to be a slave girls just for research purposes is anyone actually in a healthy

00:10:27.580 relationship where your man is not lusting over other women he actually this is a controlling

00:10:32.520 woman that wants to control who he thinks is hot he wants to make your life easier isn't in the

00:10:38.020 comments i do they exist um i found my husband right when i was about to quit on men forever

00:10:43.540 He's kind. He appreciates me so much. It just means I married a simp. Try looking for a husband

00:10:49.120 instead of a partner. You're welcome, Doug M.P.A. says. Liking thirst traps of girls on Instagram

00:10:53.360 has never once even micro cheated on you, has never made you question your self-worth or given

00:10:58.240 Yeah. So again, women, she's looking for a simp. Anxiety about the relationship as a whole. Does 1.00

00:11:04.380 anyone have a genuine, solid partner? Because I'm starting to think that me expecting that

00:11:10.780 is too much yeah it is too much um because you're i mean here's what's gonna happen you're gonna

00:11:17.120 find that and then cheat on him so good luck okay we always always told give him a chance he's so

00:11:26.300 nice the attract i don't think you should give nice guy or quote unquote i don't think you should

00:11:29.940 give guys you're not attracted to chances i mean that's how we end up in sexless marriages action

00:11:35.260 will develop you'll hear men say i wore her down and now we're married you never hear about

00:11:41.580 yeah because she didn't like her or she didn't like him men dating a woman that he's not attracted

00:11:47.500 to and that attraction grew down yeah they just don't talk about it they don't embarrass the

00:11:51.260 woman publicly but yeah no men men end up dating women that they weren't that attracted to all the

00:11:55.980 time on the line so why is it such a like taboo situation for women to be like no i don't want 0.95

00:12:01.980 to date that guy because i don't feel an attraction why do i have to wait and see if track if attraction

00:12:07.500 bloomed why do we accept the phrase he's nice as a persuasive means i would hope that they're nice

00:12:14.140 well and i think that's why so many women settle because you're like okay he's the nice guy let me

00:12:20.940 just date him even though i don't feel anything and then and then it's like i don't even think

00:12:26.220 that you develop an attraction i think it's just like a okay well we've created this connection

00:12:31.580 might as well just settle down and marry this guy you can't sit here and tell me that and they get

00:12:35.820 fat in a relationship so then they're like i don't want to go back when you first met this guy and

00:12:40.540 you were like that's gonna change that's not gonna change you can lie to yourself all day

00:12:45.580 and this might make me sound like a i don't care because it's like why are we doing this as women

00:12:52.060 when we don't have the same expectations with men oh just date her she's nice i hope they're not they 1.00

00:12:58.700 they do that all the time they get they get they get um they learn their lesson with the hot women 0.85

00:13:03.340 and then go for mids later okay let's see this woman my biggest pet peeve as a single mom is 0.55

00:13:09.740 when people are like you picked him you picked him to be your children yeah because that's all 0.97

00:13:16.060 you know how many many men change once you get pregnant with their child no how many women it's

00:13:20.940 projection because women change out or once you have their child do you know how many men change

00:13:26.700 once you leave them and decide that you don't want to be in a bad situation anymore have you

00:13:31.660 ever heard of a narcissist how they can portray to be this sweet caring person and then once you

00:13:37.860 are in their control they're not the same person i think we need to stop shaming women so much of

00:13:42.820 being like oh you knew who he was i had no idea he was actually the most loving person when i first

00:13:49.000 got with him so if you think that i willingly just was like i'm gonna pick a horrible child

00:13:53.640 for my children or someone like it's delusion stop blaming single mom so much of like that's

00:14:00.520 who you picked people change a lot of people change especially once men get control of you

00:14:06.120 once you get pregnant with their children once you leave things change people change 0.71

00:14:10.760 let's stop knocking people do change but you got to eat this out you know um men don't women are

00:14:16.600 really the ones that change a lot men because we have different stages we go through in life

00:14:20.620 Tomasi talks about it where men really are a lot more consistent. So anyways, all right, guys,

00:14:26.700 I love you. Thank you so much for watching. Um, if you can like the video on your way out,

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Pearl - July 09, 2026

304s and Girlbosses of The 'Gram

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