Pearl - May 26, 202540% of Women Under 30 Have Done THIS？!
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sex work, sugar dating, online dating, sex workers, and sex workers. We also talk about the dangers of online dating and sex work in the 21st century, and how it s becoming more and more common.
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this thing i say is uh every girl's just except my mother and my sister what do you think about um
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a pi came on and he said that he would guess what was oh my god i can't remember the number off the
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top of my head he thinks that up to it was roughly 40 of women under 30 that are not fat have done
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some sort of sex work if you include things like sugar dating occasionally having sex for rent
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only fans selling nudes on instagram do you think that is accurate or do you think he's kind of
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overblowing it i think it's overblowing it okay the thing with these studies that i'll say well he's
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he didn't have a study it was just just a thing like because he vets his job was to vet girls
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to marry them okay yeah so like it's like if you had a girl you wanted to marry you bring him to
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him and he says so what i would say is that trends move fast and societal norms move fast as well
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right where at it wasn't accepted five ten years ago to post a nude online right everybody freaked
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out about nudes now they're selling it for three dollars right do you know it's crazy too i was
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just at like um a ufc like jim doing some interviews there and they were telling me like i was asking the
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guys would you date a girl with like an only fan like if she had one before and i couldn't believe how
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many of the guys said they would and i'm like don't you guys have like other like choices you
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also got to realize that and i'm like it could just be entertainment because i know in entertainment
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it's like a little different but i'm like really you didn't realize though you didn't realize guys
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who fight they they're not the most normal guys they're not no they're totally not but i just kind
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of was thinking i'm like you guys have the ring girls throwing i'm like i'm not dumb like and you
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guys have why would you yeah they're like yeah as long as she deleted it i'm just gonna believe it
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like it's gotten normalized so fast but like they're like as long as she didn't have like actual sex on
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camera so i'm like jesus christ they're okay with it and so that's okay but like they would accept if
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you're you know they would accept it it's just it's just becoming a norm yeah and so that's what i mean
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where it's like if he's vetting these girls i think it's moving so fast and technology moves so
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fast right the innovation levels and that and i think side norms go with it right the good and the
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bad and so what you see is is these things becoming more common and because they're more common what
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guys end up feeling like is like if i don't accept it i'm not going to get anyone so i should come to
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terms with it oh yeah you know and do you think there's some truth to that i think there's some truth
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to it right you look at back in the day what was back in the day well i don't want my girl to work
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a corporate job she should be a stay-at-home mom but societal norms catch up it's like oh maybe it's
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okay for her to to work right and so that's what we're seeing but it's getting worse i think as guys
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i think i do think it's their job to put a stop to be like no i'm not okay with that yeah i need to
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stop feeding that machine and i think it comes down to the simps and i think they're the problem i think you
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made a video about it yeah they are so wait what do you what do you guys request the most
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in terms of like the types of girls they want they want they just want a good girl with yeah with
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decent head on her shoulders um as far as like body count all that type of stuff they want single
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digit body count yeah they're like and not just single digit but they can't how would you even verify
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that so you can but before i go into that they want single digit body count and they want the uh the
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single digits to come from long-term relationships yeah not just the hookup yeah um and it's really
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bad because girls don't count the hookups oh they only count the guys that they dated that they
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stuck with they don't count like anally they're the christian girls yeah yeah they don't count it
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so going back to your question is like how do you verify that and i think this is where guys go wrong
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is if you make her feel judged in any way shape or form she's not going to be her true self yeah
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right so you've got to come in and even though it bugs you you've got to learn to have a poker face
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i had a show called men's like what's the craziest thing a girl said to you and you would keep the
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poker face yeah it was a call-in show yeah and so that's what happens is uh they have to learn to
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keep that poker face so they could learn the truth about the girl yeah and that happens just when you're
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trying to learn the truth about anything right the cia probably does this when they're trying to learn
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the truth about other you know nations or whatever and spies i think when you make her feel
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comfortable and like you're not judgmental and open-minded she will tell you a lot more than
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you don't yeah but women are smart like you know well yeah but you know what they are smart but what
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i will say is most guys cannot keep that poker face so when they do find a guy that keeps it it's
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like oh like i finally could talk about it with a guy and then they get that's true they get excited
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about it yeah but that's that's why it's so rare for a guy to be not judgmental i keep a poker face
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so guys need to learn to do that if you don't want to play yourself right and then obviously private
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investigator of your eye are looking for like marriage and stuff but even the pi said there's some
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stuff like you can't you i mean you can't know the only way to do it is but i mean like single digit
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like there's um a phrase that they have that it's like assume all women are but don't obsess there's
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a yeah because it's like how would you it's the saying i say is uh every girl's just except my mother
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and my sister so it's like it's it's funny right um but in hindsight you have to make her feel so
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comfortable yeah because then she's going to open up to you i've tech girls right that i've talked to that
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just out of curiosity they're bottle girls or they work in the industry and they feel so comfortable
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around me right and i'm like yo just out of curiosity like like you have to work up to it
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right would you sleep yeah yeah yeah no way how many have you slept with right but they feel so
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comfortable around me like i'm never gonna judge them right uh probably like 70 or 80. no way that's
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super dope right in my mind i'm like crazy yeah but once they feel comfortable about it like this
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if you were her gay best friend yeah she would open up to you correct yeah right so they have
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there has to be a level of comfort to get the actual truth from these women