Pearl - May 25, 2025


Modern Tradwives Are Just Cosplaying at This Point w⧸ @emilysavesamerica


Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

240.3272

Word count

617

Sentence count

21

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

6

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, I'm joined by social media influencer, author, and podcaster, Lila Rose, to discuss what it means to be a "traditional" wife. We talk about what it's like being a stay-at-home wife, what it really means to work a full-time job, and why it's okay to work part-time.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 if you're very if you're a traditional woman you don't think it's your place to tell men what to do
00:00:06.640 but yet they do and they yeah like they always nag uh men on like like because i'm in the more 0.98
00:00:13.360 the red pill side right yeah and like what they'll do is they'll nag men on like lila rose was on 1.00
00:00:19.680 justin waller and she was nagging him about like you know he he talks about stepping out or whatever
00:00:25.680 And I'm like, why is it your place to tell a guy how to run his household?
00:00:29.300 Doesn't that go against your own beliefs?
00:00:31.580 Exactly.
00:00:32.080 But also, I look at her profile, and I'm like, cool.
00:00:33.860 So you have almost a million followers, which means you do social media full-time.
00:00:36.660 You have a full-time show.
00:00:37.500 You also did a book.
00:00:38.280 You're probably doing a book tour.
00:00:41.020 Yeah, I know. 1.00
00:00:41.900 So you're all fucking hypocrites. 1.00
00:00:42.880 That's why when I was listening to the video, it's funny because I know both of you. 1.00
00:00:47.380 So I was like, I know what he's talking about, but I don't think you guys are talking about the same thing.
00:00:52.640 That's the thing.
00:00:53.040 also people are taking what I say and they're they're giving their own meaning and definition
00:00:57.200 where I'm like yeah but none of you like asked me to elaborate on like really my point of it like
00:01:01.280 if you've watched my content for five years I've never once said anything negative towards stay
00:01:06.640 at home wives because I'm like every single person somehow missed the entire point of that 0.84
00:01:10.980 it's okay for women to want to work and contribute it's okay to do both actually it really doesn't 0.99
00:01:15.740 affect any of these people's lives well and if you were a real trad wife you could actually make 1.00
00:01:20.000 like I mean how many people need to hire cooks clean you know what I mean like that's a skill
00:01:24.980 yeah and also it's like not all of us want to live the same lifestyle like that's great
00:01:29.060 uh like you can be 20 and like live in Arkansas and have six kids and you can you know your 0.89
00:01:34.200 husband can control every dollar every dollar you fucking spend that's not me and I'm like I hate it 0.98
00:01:39.760 at the end of the day I'm like I feel like a lot of you guys just kind of like envy my life I'm 0.97
00:01:42.880 like I make my own money I pay all my own bills and like at the end of the day I hate to say it
00:01:47.300 Like, say I'm trying to marry into someone
00:01:49.580 who comes from a ton of money, good traditional family,
00:01:52.300 very educated, do you think they're
00:01:53.960 going to be stoked when their son is like, hey,
00:01:56.240 I want you to meet this girl.
00:01:57.020 I want to marry her.
00:01:57.800 Oh, what does she do? 1.00
00:01:58.760 Nothing.
00:01:59.960 Oh, what does she do all day every day while you work? 1.00
00:02:02.540 Oh, she has my credit card.
00:02:04.760 OK, what's her education?
00:02:06.140 Zero.
00:02:06.920 Or are they going to want him to be with someone who's
00:02:09.080 at least somewhat educated and has some sort of skills,
00:02:12.560 maybe potentially intelligent, and does something that's
00:02:14.780 a skill, which doesn't mean you're going to do that forever.
00:02:17.240 but it's good to see that you're capable of that
00:02:19.700 and you do it at one point in time.
00:02:21.480 I'm fine with being a stay-at-home mom, that's great,
00:02:23.420 but I also might want to work as well.
00:02:24.840 And sometimes women have children 1.00
00:02:26.200 and then after they've all left the nest,
00:02:28.120 they go back to work and that's okay too.
00:02:30.140 But this whole thing of like, there's a definite answer?
00:02:33.220 No.