Pearl - Send Your Daughters to Find a Boyfriend

00:00:00.000 There's this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.

00:00:10.460 Do we need men?

00:00:12.840 Most answered very quickly, no.

00:00:15.660 Because men are useless.

00:00:18.540 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye.

00:00:21.380 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:24.400 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:28.980 It's a different world now.

00:00:30.120 Like, we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:32.140 Nobody needs men!

00:00:33.380 The future is female.

00:00:36.460 Men and women are drifting further apart,

00:00:39.900 and society is crumbling because of it.

00:00:43.000 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:46.220 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:48.920 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:52.480 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:56.600 Marriage is a bond, and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:59.200 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:01:02.220 Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position

00:01:04.280 that it's bad for men to get married.

00:01:07.200 Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.

00:01:10.780 One of the most controversial faces in all of the Internet.

00:01:14.480 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:17.320 Because if me and you were in a business contract,

00:01:19.320 you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:22.540 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:24.640 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.

00:01:28.260 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.

00:01:31.120 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.

00:01:33.820 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:38.800 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:41.980 You need no evidence.

00:01:43.100 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:01:46.700 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:50.160 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:52.680 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:55.000 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:57.160 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:59.500 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:02:00.940 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:02:02.840 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.

00:02:05.260 Wives are taught to leave their husbands.

00:02:07.200 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:09.540 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:11.260 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.

00:02:14.240 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.

00:02:18.740 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.

00:02:20.640 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:22.540 We tell them to put off family and a marriage.

00:02:24.440 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:27.080 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:31.500 Oh, freeze your ex. Have an abortion.

00:02:33.280 What? You're evil.

00:02:34.540 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:02:38.400 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:02:42.500 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:45.240 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:46.160 That's the thing.

00:02:46.700 Like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:02:49.660 this is not about happiness the most important thing is the children and the problem is we have

00:02:55.040 a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it instead of doing what's

00:03:00.720 best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of male privilege where's my male privilege

00:03:06.220 they think well men have all the rights they have all the power privilege patriarchal system that

00:03:11.000 we have why doesn't our society care about men's rights i have no friends no wife and no social life

00:03:17.160 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:19.220 Men are homeless.

00:03:20.200 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:21.960 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide,

00:03:24.700 and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:26.380 How are you equal if the men are the ones

00:03:29.300 that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:31.800 The men are the ones that build and maintain

00:03:34.140 all the infrastructure.

00:03:35.680 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:03:38.280 The so-called deaths of despair,

00:03:39.940 from suicide, overdose, or alcohol,

00:03:42.300 three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:45.160 Culture is telling men, you are no good

00:03:47.160 You gotta get your act together

00:03:48.300 I think men have failed themselves

00:03:49.900 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:51.320 What kind of a woman are you going to attract?

00:03:53.300 If men are in trouble, so are women

00:03:55.740 Everybody knows this is a huge problem

00:03:57.660 But nobody wants to admit it

00:03:59.520 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man

00:04:01.820 500k, 500k, 300k, 200k

00:04:04.320 Am I crazy?

00:04:05.100 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man

00:04:07.160 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them

00:04:10.800 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:14.180 women i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a strong independent

00:04:20.220 woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that don't stop i

00:04:25.160 can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you pearl you simp for no i

00:04:29.760 think i think you simp for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff but pearl is right about

00:04:34.160 this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just hookup culture is

00:04:38.480 going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband

00:04:42.540 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:47.000 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:50.860 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:52.660 The American story does not end well.

00:04:55.220 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:05:12.540 Thank you.

00:05:42.540 This clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question.

00:06:08.480 Do we need men?

00:06:09.960 most answered very quickly no because men are useless

00:06:15.360 this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not

00:06:22.880 young men i have fallen fast is it working now chat is it working now

00:06:30.560 is it working oh you're gonna make a woman joke on me right now

00:06:38.840 okay it's a woman that's funny that's hilarious everybody I'm sorry guys I filmed

00:06:48.920 like six hours of content we can hear now okay I filmed like I'm sorry I'm late today but you

00:06:55.760 have to understand I filmed like six hours of content and I was just wiped it's for the paywall

00:07:01.600 um and Doug MPA I've been hearing the school link is it in the chat I don't know if you're here

00:07:07.680 because it's late. Doug MPA is the, he's the hardest working, I think top, like two hardest

00:07:14.840 working people I've ever met in my life. The only reason I'm not saying one is because my dad's

00:07:20.400 pretty hard to, I'm sorry, Doug MPA very apologize. Um, but I, yeah, if you're in the chat, he might

00:07:28.260 be because it's been a long day, but if you could put the school link, but I feel I basically brought

00:07:36.300 in the best, one of the best PUA's. I never want to say the best because then other people get

00:07:43.280 offended that I'm not calling them the best, but PUA that I know. I saw this dude take home three

00:07:50.740 girls in a weekend and he's just, he's just good at what he does. He loves seducing the women. He's

00:07:56.580 great at it. And I thought, I have some guys in my chat that want to get laid, I think. So we spent

00:08:03.000 like six hours today filming content and just by the end I was like fried but I missed you guys

00:08:09.860 do you know what I mean I kind of I missed you guys so um I still did want to do a show but I

00:08:18.140 was like this is gonna be late yeah no Doug MP such a hard-working such a hard-working guy

00:08:25.340 that man does not slip I can't I don't want to look at I can't I always got to be careful on

00:08:31.840 these shows because I never want to put out too much in I never want to dox anybody on acts but

00:08:36.140 I'll just say this I need a sound engineer we're going to talk more about this chant the the chain

00:08:44.760 we're going to have some changes coming up life updates in general I'm going to give you guys but

00:08:50.920 I need like a week to figure some things out so

00:08:54.620 um yeah but basically I got this guy in and it's part of the school group and he's really

00:09:06.840 going to give you guys step-by-step um stuff on how to get laid essentially so I I obviously

00:09:13.220 can't teach you guys how to screw women right you guys got to go to that from like a professional

00:09:18.700 somebody that just you know loves to bang some hoes do you know what I mean like somebody that's

00:09:24.400 really in it for the love of the game. Like, what could I tell you? Right. I could say, uh,

00:09:29.320 I could tell you my general knowledge, but when it comes to like seduction,

00:09:34.020 I mean, obviously I'm not going to be able to help you with that.

00:09:39.580 Um, the same way you guys can't really help seducing like a man, right?

00:09:46.160 Um, anyways, no echo. Okay, great. I'm self-producing tonight. So you guys gotta,

00:09:53.880 I'm going to try to do a call-in show, but I'd like to give, I'd like to manage your expectations

00:09:59.640 that, you know, oh my gosh, no, that I am, it's going to be a learning curve with the tech

00:10:10.200 and I'm getting better, I think, but I, it's just a weakness of my, you know,

00:10:16.100 but I do, I think I'd be able to stream more if I could just do it on my own instead of just being

00:10:23.080 a baby. So I'm just trying to, I'm trying to increase. No, he's not an incel. Who's

00:10:30.880 putting incel in the chat? No, I mean, this guy, I've seen him take home three girls in

00:10:35.640 a weekend. And I'm like, you know, I think if you guys want to learn from him, there's

00:10:39.600 a school group. He might even, if you, there's the demand, maybe we can bring him in like

00:10:43.680 once a month or something. Um, yeah, one second. I don't know why. So it's interesting. I, me and

00:11:01.460 Doug MPA, we often like come up with shows together, you know, like we kind of, we have

00:11:07.300 like, we spit ball about what kind of shows we're going to do. And I had this thought,

00:11:12.300 Okay. A couple of weeks ago, fathers, if I was, uh, had a daughter in 2025, what would I tell

00:11:22.420 her? Because traditional dating advice is going to leave you screwed both men and women. You guys

00:11:29.840 don't want to hear this, but traditional dating advice does not work for women either. Okay.

00:11:35.760 Because essentially there's two types of guys, right? There's guys that get it and guys that

00:11:40.860 don't. And I don't know which guy you are, right? It's guys that have the ability to replace you

00:11:46.140 and guys who don't. So women are only attracted to men that have the ability to replace you.

00:11:54.380 This is not women's fault. We cannot blame women for that. Women like men that have other women

00:12:01.920 or the ability to get other women. We can't blame women for this. We can't hate on women for that.

00:12:06.580 this is just one of those, it is what it is. And so I really had the thought,

00:12:14.900 your daughter is going to screw somebody in the nicest way I can say this.

00:12:21.640 Women have been throwing it back for like all millennium and your daughter is going to screw

00:12:27.900 somebody. And you guys don't want to hear this, right? But the idea that you, if you guys think

00:12:33.360 you have a daughter that's 16 and hasn't done anything? You might, but by 18 guarantee, she's

00:12:40.200 going to do something or will do something. So what environment, and I had this thought,

00:12:46.900 a lot of people kind of hate on me because of the interracial like dating or what, you know, I mean,

00:12:52.760 and I thought about it and it's pretty normal for women in like sports to go that route. And I think

00:12:59.400 it's because um interracial tends to be at the top of that like hierarchy so i mean you see that

00:13:06.060 a lot like the athletes with the snow bunny i mean that's just not now and it's normal because

00:13:10.680 in sports like let's be like the those guys are kind of at the top right and i thought about this

00:13:19.440 women that like go into say you know because on twitter there's all these groipers and i got

00:13:25.620 nothing against Nick, but they're just kind of on one sometimes, just freaking out. And, um,

00:13:35.080 you know, like a girl might go into tech and then date Indian guys, you know, that's where

00:13:42.920 you kind of see this. And I thought if a dad's smart, he's good. He really should encourage his

00:13:48.780 daughter to be in environments with the type of men that he wants her to date.

00:13:56.120 And I thought about something smart in high school that a lot of people did, but I didn't

00:14:03.320 clock onto it at the time.

00:14:05.020 Now, where is a great place to meet a husband?

00:14:08.440 A golf course.

00:14:11.200 So I had this thought, and there's a lot of girls in high school that over the summer,

00:14:15.840 they would go work at this like rich golf course.

00:14:18.780 and a lot of them would come back with boyfriends, and a couple years later, they would come back

00:14:23.380 with husbands, and I really thought back, and I thought, do you know what? I bet the parents were

00:14:30.340 smart and did that on purpose. I bet, because, you know, who's the type of guy to golf course?

00:14:38.080 Probably got his stuff together. He's at the golf course, not the club. I know you can get some dime

00:14:43.060 pieces there, obviously, but at least it's like better than the club. Like you, you don't want

00:14:49.640 as a dad, your, your daughter with the club guy. And so I was trying to be pragmatic the other day

00:14:56.960 and I thought, where would you send your daughter to find a husband? Because the lack of fathers

00:15:05.660 really, it's having a detrimental effect on society. You know, most people with problems,

00:15:10.740 it can be traced to a single mother home. And, you know, one of the tenants of the red pill space

00:15:17.260 is that fathers are essential really to the development of a child, especially when it

00:15:21.880 comes to daughters. Fathers are the ones that keep daughters off the stripper poles and off

00:15:26.100 of sex work. Although if the daughter really wants to do it, there's nothing you can do.

00:15:29.920 Fathers, you're not, you're responsible maybe if you did a shitty job, but if you did a good job

00:15:34.480 and she did it, she just wants to do it. Fathers are the ones that show daughters the type of man

00:15:40.000 she should be looking for when it comes to marriage and having a family. Fathers have wisdom

00:15:44.760 that's essential for a daughter, especially when navigating the modern world. And in other countries

00:15:49.260 besides the West, fathers play an active role in finding a husband for their daughters. In the West,

00:15:54.960 it's not the case. And the dating marketplace is so screwed up right now that, you know, good

00:16:01.700 fathers, they're not even like, they're not even in it. Like they can't even actively vet the men

00:16:08.680 because it's like a dating app school like fathers are not vetting son-in-laws anymore

00:16:14.180 and it's unfortunate because fathers do a good job they can look at a young man his confidence

00:16:19.160 his work ethic and you know they get to see if he's a good fit for his daughter and if the young

00:16:24.200 man isn't a good enough you know the father used to dismiss him but this got me thinking if we

00:16:30.300 could snap our fingers, um, and return like, you know, the practice of fathers finding husbands for

00:16:39.140 their daughters, or at least putting the daughters in environments where they can meet a husband,

00:16:43.340 where would you send your daughter to meet a husband? That's the question. And I really want

00:16:51.240 you guys to not just think simp traits, because here's the challenge. If you guys send your

00:16:57.520 daughters. Like here's the, so there's two sides of hypergamy, right? There's alpha fucks and beta

00:17:06.120 bucks. And the alpha fucks is like the guy at the foam cannon party. She's banging. It's the

00:17:12.980 personal trainer. It's the guy that's really hot, but he might be too risky. And then there's beta

00:17:18.300 bucks, money, provisioning long-term. Obviously women want both, but it's tough to get both.

00:17:23.820 but the challenge is what you have the way you have a lot of dads nowadays you know the men they

00:17:29.200 encourage their daughters to marry are full beta bucks but women don't need money anymore so you're

00:17:34.860 in a way you're setting your daughter up for failure by giving her someone that's beta bucks

00:17:40.180 because she'll just divorce him later right she'll she'll just pull the plug so a lot of fathers you

00:17:47.560 know they think that um their daughters like the best way to do it is to you know put her with the

00:17:58.880 provider but I mean is that really a good solution you give her a provider she'll divorce him at 37

00:18:05.180 it's like now she's in the same spot so I'm gonna read an article now

00:18:13.020 do you know what i might just skip to the call and

00:18:20.840 okay this one is asking i'm gonna i might read this let's see i'm convinced um this is an article

00:18:28.960 asking how can i help my daughter marry well i'm convinced that one of the most crucial questions

00:18:36.380 I face is whom should my daughter marry? Notice I did not say will, but should. Far too often we

00:18:43.480 think of marriages. We think about the marriages of our daughters, like a pagan mystic. We close

00:18:49.580 our eyes, think real hard and just hope against hope against hope that stars will, the stars will

00:18:55.580 align and the right man will come along. And I think this is a mistake. The issue of whom our

00:19:00.260 daughters will marry is far too important to be approached in this unbiblical fashion. Yeah.

00:19:04.700 so a lot of times the dad can be a simp so he just finds a simp husband now I'm not I really

00:19:10.920 hoping you guys are like you guys are two steps ahead of this and we're thinking where can the

00:19:15.580 daughter find a husband like it I think the golf course was very smart guy at a golf course you'd

00:19:23.820 think he'd have some options it's not like he's anti-social he's not like a dork but you generally

00:19:30.760 they're not going to be complete pushovers. Daniel says, dads are better than moms at raising kids.

00:19:36.460 The science is clear. Dealing with the family court system is what broke me. Joke is on you.

00:19:40.460 I'm 100% disabled now because of this BS. How did that happen? That sounds like a crazy story.

00:19:46.660 I believe God has spoken rather decisively in his word about what our daughter should look for.

00:19:54.160 Moreover, I believe that there are some non-negotiables that our daughter must be

00:19:57.700 looking for. There are some things a man simply must be before he is qualified to assume the role

00:20:04.400 of a Christian husband. For instance, he must be a Christian. He must be committed to a biblical.

00:20:09.480 He must welcome children. He must be a suitable priest, prophet, protector, and provider.

00:20:15.160 Yeah, they never say he must be capable of cheating. I didn't say he would cheat. They

00:20:20.760 didn't say capable. Now you might think, well, my daughter, I raised her better than that. The

00:20:25.580 Simp dads always do.

00:20:26.940 They always think their daughter is immune to throwing it back.

00:20:30.600 Always.

00:20:33.080 That could never happen to my daughter.

00:20:35.320 I'm like, yeah.

00:20:41.980 Moreover, as a father, it is my responsibility to teach my daughter

00:20:46.180 what these requirements are.

00:20:47.540 Encourage her to not...

00:20:48.660 Oh, you're going to encourage your daughter to not settle for less.

00:20:55.580 Like that's a good idea. Okay. Um, and walk her through the process of eventually

00:21:02.040 evaluating potential suitors. Of course, these ideas come in as a shock into the contemporary

00:21:08.040 Christian circles. Um, however, I found that there was a growing discontentment among young

00:21:12.780 women today. They're tired of being thrown to the wolves. They're also tired of feeling like

00:21:16.620 they have to settle for less than God's best. I, my question is why should that look? The only

00:21:22.240 thing you can do, in my opinion, for your daughter is teach her how to compete because

00:21:26.120 arranged marriage is dead. Um, these men, there's no incentive for them to be godly.

00:21:33.140 And if you tell her to compete in a religious context and a non-religious society,

00:21:38.260 you're setting her up for a failure. Now I'm not talking about an unreasonable standard. In fact,

00:21:43.600 if what you think, um, aforementioned listed as unreasonable, I recommend you look at it again.

00:21:49.260 We're not talking about a man requiring a man to be six feet tall or have a six figure

00:21:54.600 income, a college degree or a two car garage.

00:21:56.840 We're talking about basic biblical requirements.

00:21:59.560 And if God, and if we desire to see God's favor in generations to come, we have better

00:22:04.260 be committed to upholding his standards when it comes to giving our daughters marriage.

00:22:09.260 So fathers have a role to play in marriage.

00:22:12.040 I believe that fathers have a God given responsibility to see that it is their daughter to marry

00:22:16.260 well and that their sons become worthy husbands as such. I believe it is necessary for fathers

00:22:24.220 to mold biblical manhood, teach biblical manhood and fight and hunt for biblical manhood on behalf

00:22:33.600 of the daughters. I believe fathers with sons have the responsibilities to prepare their sons

00:22:38.760 for marriage. Now you got to prepare your sons for these hoes. Yeah, prepare him for marriage.

00:22:44.220 he's got to get laid first all the things to work all the things all as things begin to work

00:22:55.160 themselves out and the dust begins to settle we talked about our children about the pain and the

00:22:59.900 high cost of divorce as we took advantage of the most teachable moment jasmine said something i'll

00:23:05.960 never forget she looked at me shook her head and said daddy i'm glad i've got you to pick my husband

00:23:11.840 she was dead serious. Yeah, she means that now. Wait till she's 16 and you see the Christian

00:23:18.800 dorks they try to throw on these women. They're not going to want them. Now I'm not saying that's

00:23:24.320 right. I'm just saying this is what it is. She had just witnessed the consequence that

00:23:29.980 often accompany a decision to marry an unworthy man. And although she wasn't old enough to

00:23:36.380 understand it. She did understand that her father would protect her. No, the father won't protect

00:23:42.380 her from shit. These women get dating apps, they go to school, nothing. You can look, they teach

00:23:50.160 the daughter to compete or she gets left behind. Dealing with the family court is worse than being

00:23:54.520 in a fire, a firefighter. It's that must up right now. That's what broke me. Okay. So, I mean,

00:24:01.220 this is just kind of like an article glamorizing the past. Now here's a clip talking about a

00:24:10.740 daughter gets healthy affection from her father. Who has healthy affection from her father,

00:24:22.480 not only feels more loved and more secure and more valuable, she also then learns how to expect

00:24:31.040 to be treated by a boyfriend and a husband so if she's used to being hugged and touched in a healthy

00:24:38.760 way from her father and she goes out and dates somebody that hits her that won't touch her that

00:24:46.040 touches her inappropriately she's gone because dad didn't do that yeah that's why pastors daughters

00:24:55.280 do so much better than the rest of the world dad respected her dad loved her it's critically

00:25:02.540 important that daughters understand what healthy male love is about and healthy male love gives

00:25:12.340 you affection and it gives you attention and it gives you affirmation and it gives you a sense

00:25:20.020 that of value, that you are worth something.

00:25:26.580 Okay.

00:25:30.180 All right.

00:25:30.880 Father says what a daughter should be looking for in a man.

00:25:34.220 Father explains to daughter what qualities to look for in a future husband.

00:25:38.560 It doesn't matter what the daughter tells her.

00:25:41.720 Sorry.

00:25:42.540 It doesn't matter what the father tells the daughter.

00:25:44.940 The women are going to get go banged out by.

00:25:47.360 Look at the women are going to get banged out by somebody.

00:25:49.720 it's the chat at college the chat at the golf course what chat are you sending your daughter

00:25:54.780 to that's my question i want to know where are you sending them and oh my daughter won't date chads

00:26:01.660 i i look at i need people calling into the show that live in the real world

00:26:08.520 the real world where are you sending your daughter

00:26:11.900 so when you're looking for that special when you look for your special person right

00:26:18.100 you should always look for the four p's the first one is provision provision a man should always be

00:26:24.180 willing to provide for his household now mind you it's a tag team effort and you should bring

00:26:29.100 something to the table so you shouldn't solely depend on him but a man that's willing to provide

00:26:33.600 that shows a good quality body the next one is patience a man should always be patient with him

00:26:40.120 understand that you're not perfect understand that y'all learning and y'all will come across

00:26:44.060 some bumps along the road the next one is protection a man needs to be willing to protect

00:26:50.140 you as your father i protect you so a man should always be willing to protect his household and

00:26:56.440 the last one this is the most powerfulest one is prayer a man should be willing to pray for you

00:27:01.500 with you and on behalf of you a man that recognizes that it's not just two people in

00:27:06.080 relationship but it's three you him and god that's the perfect man for you y'all be blessed

00:27:11.440 yeah she'll still go get banged out by by tyrone okay so i want to know where are you guys sending

00:27:21.280 your daughters to find husbands and what traits should she be looking for and don't say provider

00:27:30.340 okay because women are going to divorce the straight providers anyway so i'm about to put

00:27:38.680 the link in the chat. I pray to God I figure this out. I may, I may not. So I'm going to put the link

00:27:51.760 in the chat. I want you guys to tell me what you think, where they should go. I'm going to play my

00:27:56.760 commercial. Sorry. I'm going to play my commercial while I go get this zoom link. This clip going

00:28:04.640 viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question do we need men most answered

00:28:12.320 very quickly no because men are useless i mean this headline from the hill it caught my eye

00:28:19.760 most young men are single most young women are not young men have fallen faster than any

00:28:25.040 demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different world now like we don't need

00:28:29.360 men the way that they used to the future is female men and women are drifting further apart

00:28:38.320 and society is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate has broken out about the

00:28:43.680 value of marriage you've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that

00:28:48.640 sometimes just goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and

00:28:53.920 actually become men. Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond. It's a machine designed to extract

00:28:59.600 resources from you. Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to

00:29:03.640 get married. Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things. One of the most controversial faces in

00:29:11.740 all of the internet. She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men. Because

00:29:15.980 if me and you were in a business contract you would never sign a contract where I am paid to

00:29:20.540 leave. Gee, what could go wrong there? 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. Men

00:29:26.840 have everything to lose, primarily their own children. Men get killed by the courts and by

00:29:31.660 divorce laws. I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:29:37.240 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse. You need no evidence.

00:29:41.580 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,

00:29:45.160 and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart. I interviewed them

00:29:49.400 on the other side. I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old. How much did you spend

00:29:54.480 trying to get him back? The legal fees alone was about $200,000. Before you know it, you're

00:29:58.840 homeless. You're literally just thrown out onto the street. We absolutely reinforce bad behavior

00:30:03.040 from women. Wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without

00:30:07.080 their fathers. Family is the foundation of society. Every problem in society comes from

00:30:11.860 single mother homes. A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness,

00:30:16.120 endless happiness. Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. We tell women to date as many

00:30:20.280 guys as possible. We tell them to put off family into marriage. You are allowed to leave your

00:30:24.580 perfect husband. You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:30:29.940 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion. What? You're evil. I don't think there's anything else in life

00:30:34.300 that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. Like if you have the mentality of this is going

00:30:38.940 to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail

00:30:43.160 anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages because

00:30:47.460 they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the children and the

00:30:52.760 problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave when i feel like it

00:30:58.220 instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of male privilege

00:31:03.700 where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all the power

00:31:07.420 privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about men's rights

00:31:12.260 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:31:15.780 Men are alone in this situation.

00:31:17.700 Men are homeless.

00:31:18.660 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:31:20.420 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:31:24.860 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:31:30.260 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:31:34.140 Women are helplessly dependent upon that.

00:31:36.420 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher.

00:31:42.260 among men than among women culture is telling men you are no good you got to get your act together

00:31:46.820 i think men have failed themselves what kind of a man are you what kind of a woman are you

00:31:50.740 going to attract if men are in trouble so are women everybody knows this is a huge problem

00:31:56.260 but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said they wanted a man 500k 500k

00:32:01.780 300k am i crazy everything is really set up against you to fail as a man if men make less

00:32:06.900 than women women don't want to marry them so you know who wants more economically and emotionally

00:32:11.700 viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be a strong

00:32:18.140 independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that

00:32:22.840 don't stop i can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you pearl

00:32:27.440 you sent for me i think i think you sent for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff

00:32:31.580 but pearl is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet

00:32:35.500 now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife

00:32:39.500 and women can't find a husband the future if everybody follows your path is there is no future

00:32:45.380 we go into population decline and our economy goes into decline civilization will crumble

00:32:50.860 the american story does not end well this is an existential crisis failing young men

00:32:56.660 what up guys so the time has come where we are finally doing this divorce documentary

00:33:07.840 it's by all right guys I put the link in the chat

00:33:14.880 I'm still trying to figure out one thing but we're gonna work with this today

00:33:23.540 if you don't have patience today you got to go to a different show it just is what it is

00:33:31.540 I wish I was better but I just you know but I've been really frustrated on this topic because

00:33:37.820 Because the Christian men are the worst with this topic.

00:33:42.700 They all think they're special.

00:33:46.340 And they raise their daughters to not do that.

00:33:50.700 I know a lot of holy men and good dads.

00:33:55.160 It says you can't join the...

00:33:57.420 Okay, I'll check.

00:33:58.720 That their daughters got banged out by Tyrone too.

00:34:02.360 So you might as well pick the Tyrone, the Chad.

00:34:05.580 Thank you, FM Wood.

00:34:06.640 you might as well put him in an environment where it's at least a higher quality chad she has a

00:34:11.580 chance of locking down but i just i need some realism from you guys okay i'm gonna make you

00:34:23.280 guys listen to my mixtape while i figure this out i'm sorry i'm sorry i wish i was better but

00:34:29.640 um i'm gonna look at who's in the zoom link i might have to walk back and forth the producer

00:34:35.540 stations over that way. Um, you were concerned. I was crashed in a ditch. Nope. I'm here. So

00:34:44.900 we're going to, I'm going to make you listen to my, my mixtape. Here's my new one. This

00:34:48.320 one's with Sabo. Can you guys hear it?

00:35:18.320 And I find myself calling you

00:35:23.160 Saying, babe, come over, let's do this over

00:35:26.940 Come beat my shoulder to cry on

00:35:29.560 Life really ain't been the same since you've been gone

00:35:34.580 Cause you're addictive

00:35:36.060 Side effects include missing you

00:35:40.280 Loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues

00:35:46.180 You're high risk

00:35:48.820 I'm a love addict

00:35:51.060 This feeling is fatal

00:35:54.820 Mentally unstable

00:35:57.200 You should've come

00:35:59.280 With a warning label

00:36:03.360 You should've come

00:36:05.100 With a warning label

00:36:09.020 You should've come

00:36:10.720 With a warning label

00:36:14.660 You should have come with a warning label

00:36:20.340 You're in bed with someone else, saying you miss me

00:36:25.620 And I'm crying on the bathroom floor, wishing I didn't leave

00:36:31.440 This love is expired, but I still desire a refill

00:36:38.600 A refill

00:36:41.420 Cause you're addictive, side effects include missing you

00:36:48.000 Loss of appetite, sleepless nights and trust issues

00:36:53.800 You're high risk, I'm a love addict

00:36:58.860 This feeling is fatal, mentally unstable

00:37:04.960 You should've come with a warning label

00:37:11.080 You should have come with a warning label

00:37:16.760 You should have come with a warning label

00:37:22.440 You should have come

00:37:24.180 All right, that was my mixtape from 2016.

00:37:28.860 I'm going to see if I can hear this.

00:37:31.840 We're going to test one, too.

00:37:36.200 Sejianas, can you hear me?

00:37:37.720 doesn't matter i can't hear you it says he's not muted my mic is going

00:37:46.840 i don't think i can hear him

00:37:50.620 is that copyright i don't think so because if i can't get the zoom work and i'm just gonna have

00:37:59.200 to spitball and tell you my ideas due to feminism many modern women in first world countries run on

00:38:04.740 the three M's, which are my mind and mine, this selfish, destructive and delusional mentality

00:38:09.900 will unfortunately continue until some kind of calamity makes takes place. Um, a good woman is

00:38:17.420 rarer than someone who owns gold in the West, less than 5% of some of, um, 5% own gold or some

00:38:24.600 other jewelry. It's rare to find a decent girl. That's worth anything. I cannot hear you. Let me

00:38:33.920 get up. Can you hear me? Can you nod? Do you hear me? Can you thumbs up if you can hear me?

00:38:42.400 You can't, I can't hear you. Let me go fix an audio setting. You're going to have to,

00:38:47.140 I don't, I think, Oh, I can't hear you, but it very well could be my audio.

00:38:58.820 I'm going to see if it's me. I'm going to check it. Oh, he's, he said one second.

00:39:03.920 we'll see

00:39:05.060 but I like can't hear anything

00:39:08.940 through these headphones right now

00:39:10.460 hold on guys

00:39:12.560 give me a second

00:39:13.300 you're in bed with someone else

00:39:17.600 same as me

00:39:19.400 I'm crying

00:39:20.960 all the bad

00:39:21.620 No, no, no.

00:39:51.620 Okay. That's what it's plugged into. Okay. Let me see the output.

00:40:18.620 Select a microphone so they can hear me.

00:40:27.300 Okay.

00:40:28.140 Okay.

00:40:33.440 All right.

00:40:37.160 Talk again.

00:40:37.960 Can you hear me?

00:40:39.940 I might just quit this.

00:40:42.060 What the hell is it?

00:40:44.600 I can hear you.

00:40:46.140 It might be you, sir.

00:40:47.300 I'm going to try the next caller.

00:40:48.620 yeah I can't hear you

00:40:51.160 I'm going to try that it might not be

00:40:53.200 but I don't know

00:40:53.960 oh my god I hate tech

00:40:56.980 remove

00:41:04.860 okay

00:41:23.460 we're getting a lot of super chats tonight thank you guys you guys are too nice

00:41:31.600 this is such a I feel bad I wish I could get this zoom to work man due to feminism oh wait I read

00:41:39.440 that one already um oh wait I read that already okay where are the tech bros at yo if I could

00:41:46.080 tell you guys what I've been through nothing nothing compared to a lot of you you guys go

00:41:51.620 through more um I just don't know why I can't hear this that's what's throwing me right now

00:42:00.460 I can hear my laptop.

00:42:05.740 Why can I hear my laptop here, but I can't hear the zoom?

00:42:12.100 That is what's driving me nuts.

00:42:16.200 Well, I guess I'm just going to spitball and I'll try again tomorrow.

00:42:30.460 i'm gonna call try creating a new zoom link yeah

00:42:35.500 what the hell is this zoom

00:42:39.760 let's see it says on the zoom that they can hear me why can't i hear them that's my question

00:42:54.520 Well, my opinion

00:42:56.960 Reboot

00:42:59.440 No, that's not going to fix it

00:43:00.640 Trust, trust

00:43:01.820 My opinion

00:43:03.900 These are the ideas I thought of

00:43:06.140 Shiv thought of coffee and cars

00:43:09.120 I was like, that's a good place to go

00:43:10.960 Cornelium

00:43:14.740 Can you try to talk?

00:43:16.120 I want to see if this works

00:43:18.700 No

00:43:23.600 I'll tell you the challenges. I got too good of equipment. I used to be able to do it fine when I

00:43:30.140 had like OBS. Yeah. Stream. Yeah. But my last producer convinced me to get the super nice

00:43:36.760 equipment said we needed it and now I can barely use it. That's where I'm at. So no, I'm not flat

00:43:45.460 earth. It's an audio issue, not the link. It says I can hold on. The challenge is the computer is

00:43:55.640 there and I'm here. So I have no way to test the audio and listen from here. When I'm there is the

00:44:05.740 challenge I get. Zoom has audio. Yeah, I know I need to choose the correct listening device. But

00:44:14.400 If you saw it, there's like 20.

00:44:17.080 Actually, let me see if my sister can come here.

00:44:22.080 Let me see if she's busy.

00:44:23.600 She's actually home.

00:44:25.220 One of the few women in my family that doesn't hate what I do.

00:44:33.520 I'm in the car with me.

00:44:34.720 What's up?

00:44:36.060 Oh, I was wondering if you could come to the studio for a second.

00:44:40.420 Why?

00:44:40.820 I just, I need to fix something, but I need someone sitting there while they test it to fix it.

00:44:48.660 Well, I am not even home right now.

00:44:50.960 Oh, if you're not home, it's okay. I was just, if you were home.

00:44:53.020 Although, dad's in the shed, so you can call him.

00:44:56.860 Okay.

00:44:58.000 He's fixing his truck.

00:44:59.300 Okay, bye.

00:45:10.820 well i tried i really wanted to do a show tonight it's just this freaking zoom and i

00:45:34.040 know i'm so close to figure i'm going to try one more all right no one's answering

00:45:38.000 Okay.

00:46:08.000 All right.

00:46:32.380 I'm going to try this one more time before I give up.

00:46:35.320 if you can hear me say something but

00:46:39.280 otherwise I think I'm just gonna spitball and maybe go off of what we think in the chat

00:46:49.480 ah such an L I live in Canada and recently was at a grocery store a young woman was having a

00:46:57.980 carrying a case of water to a car I ignored her however some men went right away and helped her

00:47:03.200 and gave me shit for not helping her.

00:47:04.920 LOL.

00:47:26.040 What the hell?

00:47:33.200 I know you guys can hear me.

00:47:46.280 Okay, but you know what?

00:47:47.640 I'll just spitball.

00:47:48.840 I'll just be a looty, want to join my gardening team.

00:47:51.900 I can't.

00:47:52.240 Do I look like a bitch who gardens?

00:47:55.400 Truly.

00:47:56.360 I mean, I know the trad.

00:47:58.000 What's the?

00:47:59.740 I know the trad like dream is this gardening woman.

00:48:03.020 but like do you really need a chick who gardens can we just so because my question really is for

00:48:10.920 the fathers what is your plan if you have a daughter to get your daughter married

00:48:15.460 because really the plans they stick daughters with nowadays is like

00:48:20.660 send her to college and figure it out well what colleges don't send your daughters to college

00:48:28.720 Okay, that's what Gabe says. Gabe, where are you sending them?

00:48:35.660 Zoom off my laptop. Well, the audio hooks up to the computer over there somehow. I don't really

00:48:42.980 get it, but I know in cooks and clean. Well, I'm telling you guys, any dating coach that's worked

00:48:52.400 with a lot of men. The gardening isn't really what the dudes are selecting for. Um, I'm not

00:48:59.300 saying I'm just saying in 2025, like men under 35, they don't have houses. It's not really like

00:49:05.500 pragmatic in the day. They might think later, right? But men are, but women are the ones

00:49:12.660 buying houses they can't afford. The single men, they aren't. So like, what's your step-by-step

00:49:19.520 plan. So if it were me, right, I think the golf course, the girls in my high school that for that

00:49:26.880 did that really smart, uh, sports, the athletes, they could be kind of players. I don't know if

00:49:34.360 I'd send, I do think athletics does build character, but that is send it to my, yeah,

00:49:43.440 yeah, Steve, I'm true. I, you know, like, I think a lot of the boomer men just kind of,

00:49:47.640 you guys are not up with the times. I'm like, these guys, I've never heard a guy

00:49:51.620 say you want to garden it, maybe over 40, right? Or 50

00:49:55.820 sports and music. There you go. Okay. What are musicians going to be the type to

00:50:04.220 take her seriously? What kind of music?

00:50:11.480 You know, so that's the question I have for the men. Like, what is your,

00:50:15.340 what's your plan, right?

00:50:24.400 Golfers are players too. Well, yeah, but the daughter is only going to like players.

00:50:30.720 Oh, but my daughter's different. Uh-huh. I've seen your daughters on my show. Okay. I've seen a lot

00:50:37.720 of this stuff. So that's really my question for you guys. If you guys can put it in the

00:50:48.880 chat, it would really help me spitball here. I really would love to bring you guys up,

00:50:53.900 but unfortunately the tech just isn't going my way today for whatever reason.

00:51:01.480 and the the challenge is when it's just me I can't test it here I can't so I kind of have

00:51:11.880 to go live to figure out I don't know why I'm explaining this to you guys you guys deserve

00:51:16.660 better you don't care but there's no hope well I mean you guys you can either accept women as they

00:51:25.080 are, or make women into something we're not, or cope that we're something we're not. Women are

00:51:32.120 not these sweet, innocent creatures that just like good men. We don't. We like criminals. We like

00:51:37.300 bad boys. We like men that have options. And you might not like it, but that's the way that women

00:51:43.600 are. Um, now you might say that's immoral and you know, morality aside, at some point you got to ask

00:51:55.160 the question, your daughter is going to screw somebody. You got to send her somewhere. It's

00:52:00.620 not realistic that any of these guys are going to do a traditional courting. Like I don't know a

00:52:05.500 single couple that's married that was traditionally courted. They met on dating apps at college and

00:52:10.280 at bars. That's where I've seen couples get married. Now, I told my daughter from a young

00:52:17.000 age, you're lucky if I let you, if I let you get to hold this hat. When she was 40, I told her she

00:52:23.220 could date. She has 15, very clean mindset. I don't care who your daughter is in 15. When you

00:52:29.000 send her to school, she's on her own. So what's your plan? What is your plan? And if you say,

00:52:38.080 just wait till marriage 2% of women are doing that so if you think your daughter is going to

00:52:44.520 be the 1% or the 2% that's great but you're just as delusional as the women saying they're going

00:52:51.100 to get a 1% guy so what's your where are you sending her I'm a first nation I do not believe

00:52:56.240 in marriage also if I had a daughter I would teach her how to cook clean wilderness survival

00:53:00.160 and some boxing I would never send her to college or give her a cell phone okay where would I mean

00:53:05.700 that sounds like you're in the stone age. That's fine. But when, remember, she's 18. She gets to

00:53:13.440 make her own choices. So let's say she says, Dad, I want to go to college. I'm going to take out a

00:53:17.540 load. I'm going, what school are you sending her to? What majors are you looking for? Where are you

00:53:22.980 telling her to meet men? See this? This is how you guys' daughters end up getting ran through.

00:53:29.520 no real life. No, I'm not Gen Z. My daughter is marrying a Japanese man. That's great. Where'd

00:53:44.560 she meet him? Do you approve? Do you approve? Meet a man in church, the men in church. I'm sorry.

00:53:54.880 generally the way i've seen church things go there's one or two chads and tyrones there's

00:54:02.620 one or two men that you can compete for before 25 that the whole all the women in church are

00:54:08.460 competing for what are you doing to prepare your daughter to compete and win for those men

00:54:14.700 does a good wife need to have a degree no but she has to be in the room

00:54:25.060 Doesn't she?

00:54:27.060 Where is she going to meet him?

00:54:29.480 You guys have nothing.

00:54:31.160 Nothing I'm here.

00:54:33.020 You can't base your entire life around marriage.

00:54:35.500 That's fine.

00:54:36.260 I mean, give her to the wolves.

00:54:41.680 Pearl just wants to blame everyone but women for daughters getting married.

00:54:45.520 I'm not.

00:54:45.920 It's completely the daughter's fault.

00:54:47.300 But what tools are you giving your daughters?

00:54:50.260 That's the question I have.

00:54:51.680 What are the actual tools?

00:54:54.240 okay easy we are too soft and pay for we need to stop paying for it okay this is a great time to

00:55:03.440 stream i mean this is probably the worst stream i've ever done and you guys are super chatting

00:55:06.940 like crazy i don't know why if you guys like to see me struggle i don't know this is this is rough

00:55:15.200 but you know what i'll show up and if it's not good i'll i'll ask my guy tomorrow and see what

00:55:19.920 I did wrong. Pearl's blackpilled. Yeah, true. I like to think realistic. You guys have given me

00:55:34.960 nothing. Daughters can find plenty of tools in college. Yeah, tools about how to gluck gluck,

00:55:44.460 how to throw it back, how to ride.

00:55:48.980 Those are the tools.

00:55:52.420 I think I'm becoming black-pilled because of you.

00:55:55.480 I'm glad.

00:56:00.660 Pearl turns that cope into hope.

00:56:03.700 It's not cope. I'm just asking.

00:56:08.680 It's Friday night and none of us are getting laid.

00:56:11.900 Stop saying that.

00:56:13.020 you're you're feeding into this incel thing that everyone's telling me

00:56:18.060 jessica b teacher to listen and submit how do you teach her that

00:56:23.220 go ahead do you think men can change or is it women are both nobody's going to change people

00:56:30.160 are going to do exactly what who they are that's it the i say if i had a daughter but

00:56:37.520 i did not want children because of feminism

00:56:39.620 self-improvement meetup groups fire me okay which ones give me specifics

00:56:51.060 women should good meet matt should meet men in their community what community

00:57:01.200 like do you guys live in this nobody has community i lived in london i did not know my neighbors

00:57:06.820 what community where

00:57:10.300 you can teach your daughter to be modest to value herself are men selecting for modesty nowadays

00:57:18.540 you guys set yourself

00:57:21.000 meet at work okay what jobs what what jobs are you and how are you gonna how is she gonna overcome

00:57:31.320 men's apprehension for dating at work

00:57:36.820 I have three daughters, I'm 28, then giving them hope for the future.

00:57:54.200 Oh, hope, that's a plan. What's the plan? You know, that's what I keep asking.

00:57:59.480 I live in a community where nobody talks to each other. Exactly.

00:58:06.820 Sean, the call-in is my own fault.

00:58:20.080 There's some issue with the audio,

00:58:21.640 and I don't feel like messing around with it on live

00:58:24.540 until I figure it out.

00:58:26.800 I'm just going to ask my producer tomorrow.

00:58:28.820 you're going to teach her to be a stripper I mean that's a better

00:58:37.980 is there a wife school where

00:58:41.040 women in the military that's at least a good plan women in the military do get ran through

00:58:48.320 they're kind of known for that but hey who are you telling her to go for in the military which

00:58:54.900 Which types of guys?

00:59:01.180 Pearl, in my case, it was a self-improvement discord.

00:59:04.620 I was running for tribe of men.

00:59:05.860 She got in there looking for the guy she wanted to be with.

00:59:08.760 We got married and have a kid now.

00:59:10.000 Okay, so you tell her to go the digital route and digitally go find men that you were interested in.

00:59:15.300 Okay, that's a better plan.

00:59:24.900 Yeah, so what I've gotten from this live is that you guys got nothing.

00:59:49.620 Good. Well, so Ray is the next generation of 304s.

00:59:58.000 That's fine. Just don't have kids. That's fine.

01:00:03.340 Let me see.

01:00:07.380 A plan for...

01:00:10.840 Let's see if any father out there is a U-T...

01:00:14.620 All right. 10 questions to ask your daughter's boyfriend.

01:00:17.700 Let's see how good this is.

01:00:19.620 if I have children and they ever find me and any of them are girls I will teach them to have high

01:00:27.720 standards oh yeah you see what I mean the dads are really almost like the culprit yeah because

01:00:35.660 the daughters need to have high standards that's gonna stop Chad and Tyrone you you can tell that

01:00:42.540 a lot of men both young and old never really plan or think about the possible daughter's future and

01:00:47.420 think that they know best and their daughter will be different. I think I've seen this film before

01:00:56.180 and I didn't like the end. Yeah, because this is what they do. They all think their daughter

01:01:01.560 is the special one that won't do any of those things. They have no plan, none. They haven't

01:01:09.180 thought about it. And it's fine. I mean, what, what, like I'll give you, you know, even my dad,

01:01:17.160 like he didn't know he married the first woman he dated and he stayed with her forever. Problem

01:01:22.180 solved the dad, the generation before us, but you know, at least the next generation of men having

01:01:28.220 kids, you know, it's fucked. So how are you going to teach your kids to do it? Let's see. Let's see

01:01:34.840 10 questions to ask your daughter's boyfriend. Let's see.

01:01:41.580 Yeah, this is the most outdated shit

01:02:10.900 I've ever seen. Okay. Let me get this straight. People are meeting on dating apps and at school.

01:02:15.840 So this is, this is step one, right? The people that dated, I'm going to tell you how I've seen

01:02:21.820 couples meet, get on a dating app, get to know each other, have sex for a period of time, get

01:02:31.020 into a relationship. Some women try to get the relationship first. Usually doesn't work unless

01:02:36.680 the guy's desperate other way around college they would meet at a party hook up keep hooking up

01:02:42.800 getting to and that's how it's going some people go slower through friends

01:02:48.780 but you're telling me so after this dude's banged your daughter on a dating app or at college

01:02:56.860 now you get to oh why do you want to date my daughter like that's gonna affect anything like

01:03:05.360 you guys gotta not you have to but if I had a daughter I would prepare her for the real world

01:03:11.860 and be like look I I gotta be honest with you I gotta talk about what works not necessarily what's

01:03:18.380 moral but what works I'd say look sex is important to men if you like him you're gonna have to have

01:03:24.660 sex with him you can make him wait to see if he like likes you or whatever and then once you have

01:03:31.840 sex you can see if he actually wants to stick around that's it you're cooked oh but my daughter

01:03:40.000 is so great she'll be able to i hate you guys college stem field tom thank you you send her

01:03:53.160 to the engineering building that's at least a good plan dating apps are shallow well well i would send

01:04:02.380 my daughter to meet men a different way really your daughter's going to meet a man men in a

01:04:06.520 different way than her entire generation is meeting men the most unrealistic i mean the

01:04:13.500 way you guys are talking this is so delusional

01:04:15.800 we're going to keep going

01:04:22.840 put him on the spot put him on the spot the right way and get a sense of what he wants with your

01:04:33.480 precious little angel do you guys see how this like this equates to the women we have today

01:04:42.320 it's the simp dads. What do you like to do for fun? Okay. Give him a chance, give him a chance

01:04:59.180 to talk about his interests and you'll learn something about him. Okay. That's fine.

01:05:03.620 She married an engineer and he wasn't now. And what would you tell her? Would you tell her to

01:05:09.060 smash fast wait a month like what are you gonna

01:05:12.700 I hope you're not saying wait till marriage because that's the dumbest advice I've ever

01:05:21.760 heard in my life in 2025 that's how that would be ideal but unless you're facilitating that

01:05:30.920 like you found the guy that also wants to do it you are just getting her cooked

01:05:35.920 what did my dad do with me

01:05:38.540 nothing

01:05:40.180 they gave me nothing

01:05:41.460 why do you think I'm interested in this stuff

01:05:43.760 because it was very confusing

01:05:46.080 I was told wait till marriage

01:05:47.220 that was like the worst advice ever

01:05:49.000 and the women I know

01:05:54.100 like trust

01:05:55.660 trust

01:05:57.520 yeah chat is peak delusion

01:06:05.920 get your daughter on the pill when she's 15 okay too many dads doing the princess treatment i know

01:06:15.120 i know

01:06:19.320 she didn't listen i don't know if you're talking about me i tried trust i tried

01:06:26.140 yeah my dad's so disappointed no my dad's actually quite proud of me to be honest but

01:06:37.500 what's my number zero zero

01:06:56.140 Oh my gosh. The chat says, you think Chad and Tyrone aren't in the building trying to get that

01:07:01.100 Python C plus glut glut? Yeah. Are you religious? Do you have a job? Okay, fine. I'm just going to

01:07:22.100 go through these. I don't want to want to get copier. Where do you see yourself in five years?

01:07:32.900 Yeah, the trad men are like the most delusional there are. What are your parents like? And you're

01:07:39.520 going to say, Oh, be different than the culture. Like why do trads assume that they're different?

01:07:46.680 That's the dumbest assumption ever.

01:07:52.100 set up a fake dating profile for your daughter and store it by PhD and introduce her to the sub

01:08:00.780 five, 10 medical doctors from Tinder when she's 18 to 20 Linus. That's the best. That is the best

01:08:08.700 plan. Oh, sorry. I'm so sorry. That is the best plan that I've heard so far. You guys have given

01:08:16.440 me nothing. Linus, you set up the Tinder dates, you find the pro, you find the guys,

01:08:25.780 send her on the dates. That is the best plan out of the whole chat.

01:08:36.840 Most dads, these are more like interview questions. What's up with the BS video? Well,

01:08:46.440 that is the best that's the best one all you all you guys have given me is i'm gonna raise

01:08:58.280 her to be different yeah that's how to get let down that's how to get let down

01:09:03.740 what are your parents like yeah this

01:09:16.440 what's the craziest thing he's ever done you know men are smart they're not going to fall

01:09:31.420 into that trap only women will do you parents have any dating rules that we should know

01:09:38.460 like

01:09:41.400 it says you speak highly of your father. Well, my father is amazing. My father is the best. And I

01:09:55.100 tell him this all the time. He's the best person I've ever met in my life point. I've never met

01:09:59.240 a better person, but the more controlling the dad is, the more likely she'll betray. Well,

01:10:08.580 that's true. And I didn't say to be controlling. I said, what's your, what are your tools to give

01:10:14.100 her? You know, like, okay, if you have a daughter, she's got to find source dates somehow. So where

01:10:22.400 is she going to go on the dates? Is it dating apps? Is it, do you say you're on your own? Good

01:10:27.780 luck. Hey, that's at least honest, right? Do you say, Hey, go to the golf course, flirt with some

01:10:34.800 guys do you tell her when to sleep with a guy i know you guys are all gonna say marriage

01:10:47.680 without having a good mother it's impossible can she make a pie crust these guys aren't

01:10:53.040 vetting for pie crusts most do they don't have houses

01:10:59.520 they're just hoping she doesn't have a lot of debt or an std

01:11:04.800 the mall. Okay. What's okay. You send her to the mall or grocery store. What's the opener?

01:11:16.620 What if your daughter is an orchestra or a band and keep her there? Then she's around

01:11:21.060 prestigious. Okay. An orchestra. That's actually a deal. Okay. What's your opener? What's step one

01:11:26.800 and reality? There's nothing that can be done from preventing feminism to brainwash your daughter.

01:11:34.800 anyways guys

01:11:37.300 I'm so sorry for the low quality

01:11:40.040 I guess tonight

01:11:40.860 you guys are awesome though

01:11:43.640 and somebody signed up for my website

01:11:45.460 from this

01:11:46.300 have her watch anime

01:11:48.580 they have to meet in high school or college

01:11:56.040 okay where what club

01:11:57.520 how should she approach

01:11:59.180 nothing

01:12:08.340 what do I think of like the horse riding crowd

01:12:15.020 I don't know anything about that

01:12:16.840 band camp was a score fest when I was in high school

01:12:27.580 Hey, look, and I'm not against it being a score fest, right?

01:12:31.800 Your daughter's going to get banged out by somebody, okay, when she's of age, right?

01:12:37.420 It might as well be a guy you approve of.

01:12:40.220 And that's this, like, this whole idea, oh, don't, like, you know, somebody's going to

01:12:48.300 do it.

01:12:48.800 You might as well put her in a position or give her the tools or tell her, sex is a need.

01:12:55.740 And the problem with conservatives, they have a tendency to think sex is not a need and to just

01:13:01.800 ignore your biological drives and their daughters will be different and wait till marriage. But

01:13:07.120 unless you're facilitating choices of husbands young, it's not going to happen.

01:13:17.780 God damn it, Pearl. I don't want to think about this shit. Well,

01:13:20.640 then your daughter will be the same. So it's not like, it's not necessarily that's wrong that she

01:13:26.220 hooks up with somebody, but can she keep them? Have you given her the tools to keep them?

01:13:31.700 Are she going to get passed like the other girls?

01:13:37.580 What's too high risk, right?

01:13:44.900 Have her an arranged marriage. Oh yeah. Okay. Who's going to agree to that? What

01:13:49.360 what remember she she's her own person she when she's 18 she has the right to do whatever she

01:13:57.040 wants she has to choose not you you can't arrange marriage she has authority when she's 18

01:14:02.540 anyways guys I'm a little frustrated with the zoom call but I'm gonna ask tomorrow what the

01:14:11.560 issue was and hopefully I can stream tomorrow night um if you guys could like the video on

01:14:18.600 your way out, but you, you, I'm kind of disappointed in the chat, but I want to redo this show and

01:14:26.560 we're going to do a real call in and conversation about this. But I want you guys to really think

01:14:31.960 of like a step one, step two, step three. It's not hard to vet a man. Come on now. Well, it's

01:14:38.720 not hard to vet a man, but it's hard to teach your daughter how to get a man. The guy has to like

01:14:44.320 your daughter. And you have to raise her to want to be that. Did your dad pick your boyfriends? No.

01:14:53.980 He didn't know any, like, I love my father to death, but he didn't know what was going on out

01:14:58.360 here. He's like the loads of kids stay celibate. Okay. What percent of people are waiting till

01:15:03.760 marriage? It's like for religious reasons, it's roughly 2%. People are not virgins on their

01:15:10.220 wedding days that ship has sailed it's gone it's done and telling your kids to do that is putting

01:15:17.940 them at a severe disadvantage I'm telling you it's gone it's done people aren't doing I'm not telling

01:15:25.020 you change the system tell them to go against the grain because it would just be dishonest and

01:15:29.620 unrealistic I'm asking what's your plan to navigate what we have now

01:15:35.140 yeah she has to like him first you teach her to like good things and not felons and assholes

01:15:51.420 you can't teach that you're saying don't be a woman

01:15:56.520 honest waiting until marriage is a good idea well

01:16:05.140 good luck finding people that want to do that. Okay. And this is where I get, I get so

01:16:12.100 caught up because if you want to do that, what's your plan to do it?

01:16:23.300 I know I'm gonna, it is a great question. What's your plan? Like, cause you have no authority.

01:16:28.420 You have no authority over who she marries. It's gotta be in 2025. It is her choice.

01:16:34.160 so women don't make good choices but what can you equip her with to make better choices

01:16:39.900 she lives at home under her father until he approves of her husband that's biblical

01:16:46.520 god damn it do you guys not live in 2025 she can go take out a loan be in debt forever to get to a

01:16:53.660 school has anyone ever noticed that a lot of people nowadays do not like to think or even

01:16:58.700 ponder about things in the future it used to be normal to do that back in the day to critically

01:17:02.860 think. We need a plan. No one has a plan. Every guy here thinks their daughter is going

01:17:16.940 to be special. They always do. Anyways, guys, I'm kind of disappointed in you. I'm a little

01:17:32.660 bit, but I actually want to redo this conversation on a day I can figure out the Zoom.

01:17:39.020 You know, it just is what it is.

01:17:41.100 I'm going to have some Zoom calls going up.

01:17:45.520 Or not some Zoom, some one-on-ones going up, but I just wanted to go live tonight.

01:17:49.900 Thanks for all the donations.

01:17:51.440 I'm like flabbergasted.

01:17:53.020 This is like the nicest thing ever.

01:17:57.200 Why would you marry a non-virgin woman?

01:17:59.300 MGTOW by logic.

01:18:00.420 What age are you in?

01:18:02.660 men are married men all of the people getting married aren't virgins

01:18:08.400 why would you

01:18:13.300 okay i'm sorry i'm being a bitch sorry disappointed i just mean like i just want to have a pragmatic

01:18:25.220 step-by-step conversation not like oh why would anyone marry a non-virgin

01:18:31.260 what they're doing it all the time, all the time. So it's not why it's like people are.

01:18:46.640 And so that's what I, that's what I'm getting to. I get frustrated when I'm like,

01:18:50.120 we got to have a real conversation.

01:18:54.940 My, okay, then this is where I get these specific people.

01:19:01.260 that I know this one person, I know this one person that did it the trad way.

01:19:10.500 Okay. I'm really glad that they figured that out, but that's not normal.

01:19:16.000 I know Nala says she's a virgin. Start. Okay. We're getting closer. Start early.

01:19:21.800 Who her friends are in private school, meet her friends, families, and start by eight year olds.

01:19:27.240 No kidding. Eight years old. Oh, okay. So you're going to, let me get this straight.

01:19:31.260 you're going to sign your kid up to private school and you're going to be

01:19:34.580 able to interview all the people that kid interacts with.

01:19:49.500 And that case you pit, you have to, you just have to pick the best.

01:19:52.700 You can find a good prenup, except that it might end in divorce.

01:19:55.540 No big deal.

01:19:56.780 Well, I I'm saying from the daughter's point of view, where are you sending

01:19:59.940 um, anyways, guys, thanks for watching. I'm so sorry about the, the streaming today.

01:20:08.380 I have some updates that we're going to go through in the next probably like week,

01:20:13.000 but I gotta like, you know, get some stuff figured out in my life. So I love you guys so much. Thank

01:20:21.080 you so much for watching. Please like the video, please subscribe to the channel and ring that

01:20:24.540 notification bell. And I'm going to see you guys tomorrow. Um, $10. I think the whole world needs

01:20:29.860 to go back to the stone age that is not a real step-by-step before we destroy ourselves you guys

01:20:36.040 are you guys are funny today all right good night everybody

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Send Your Daughters to Find a Boyfriend ｜ Pearl Daily

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