Pearl - ＂Why Women Shouldn’t Rely on a Man for Everything＂ w⧸ @emilysavesamerica

00:00:00.000 nothing in life ever works out the way we think it's going to my life hasn't no one's life they've

00:00:04.960 been like had a map and it worked out perfectly so i said maybe it's good to find a hobby or

00:00:09.600 something you like so you're not trapped by a man i don't mean all men trap women but i live in los

00:00:14.480 angeles you think i've never seen a woman been trapped financially i've had many boyfriends

00:00:18.960 that have given me lifestyles i could never have on my own and they knew that so then what do they

00:00:25.280 do start treating you a little shitty she's gonna leave like this is look at the life well that's 0.96

00:00:29.760 that's the part i didn't really agree with because you said trapped how there's no woman in 2025

00:00:35.000 that's trapped trapped in like a cage yeah but even i'm like you just like you can't expect a

00:00:41.180 guy to pay for your lifestyle and not expect to abide by his rules right obviously yeah yeah but

00:00:47.000 i was like i don't i don't know if that's trapped that's just i want you know what it is i want a

00:00:51.160 lot of money and i don't want to know what comes with it no it's like one of those things where

00:00:54.740 it's like i just said trap because it's like i'm just trying to get a point across yeah people took

00:00:59.040 that one word yeah and then ran with it when it's like dude you're not looking at the common sense

00:01:04.260 thing that I'm saying you're not looking at the bigger picture guys know like you they have

00:01:09.500 unlimited options and money and they're chilling so if they replace you they're good but it you

00:01:14.200 know you're not gonna do as well and that's kind of common sense so they treat you a little shitty

00:01:17.720 and then most of the time they'll cheat on you but you stick around because you're like well

00:01:20.440 fuck how else am I gonna get this lifestyle I can't attain it on my own so maybe trap wasn't

00:01:24.460 the right word but what I'm saying is like literal truth well they have the leverage right

00:01:28.860 in that situation which it's not it takes a particular woman with like a particular demeanor 1.00

00:01:34.700 and especially in 2025 it's not common i don't know if i would say like i don't know if i

00:01:40.460 personally would say i wouldn't recommend it i think it for like i would say it depends on the

00:01:45.080 girl's demeanor right there's some women that are like more you could say stereotypically submissive 1.00

00:01:50.520 you know easy by nature you know they don't really like some women just don't get jealous 1.00

00:01:55.180 and they don't care about cheating you know but um yeah they're like I like this lifestyle he can

00:02:00.320 do whatever he wants I'm chilling I'm sure you've seen that in LA right of course yeah and that's

00:02:05.180 fine they would they like what comes along with it and they're fine there's positive and negatives

00:02:10.520 to everything and they're kind of just chilling with that obviously like that's not me but what

00:02:14.720 do I give a shit if that's what makes those girls happy yeah but so are you saying that like it's

00:02:19.500 bad to do that or I just wanted to clarify what you meant in the video I mean at the end of the

00:02:24.220 day, I literally don't give a shit what anyone does. So that's, uh, something that no one can

00:02:29.220 figure out. No, I just said, I think women should have some sort of hobby. I'm not saying everyone's 0.98

00:02:33.940 like, Oh, you said they should work. So they should be in an office being a slave all day.

00:02:37.700 I'm like, Jesus, leave some room for nuance. You guys are so extreme. And then you wonder why you

00:02:42.860 lose elections because of shit like this and shit like abortion. But it's like, no, what I'm saying

00:02:47.300 is like how awesome to be a stay at home wife, husband supported, but then do a hobby that

00:02:52.500 stimulates you, makes you happy and generates some income because I'm like,

00:02:56.760 it's just common sense that like sometimes things don't work out.

Pearl - May 26, 2025