Pearl - May 26, 2025
"Why Women Shouldn’t Rely on a Man for Everything" w⧸ @emilysavesamerica
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the topic of women being trapped by men in the 21st century and how to deal with it. We discuss the benefits and negatives of being trapped in a relationship with a man, and why women should have some sort of hobby or hobby so they are not trapped by a man.
Transcript
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nothing in life ever works out the way we think it's going to my life hasn't no one's life they've
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been like had a map and it worked out perfectly so i said maybe it's good to find a hobby or
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something you like so you're not trapped by a man i don't mean all men trap women but i live in los
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angeles you think i've never seen a woman been trapped financially i've had many boyfriends
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that have given me lifestyles i could never have on my own and they knew that so then what do they
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do start treating you a little shitty she's gonna leave like this is look at the life well that's
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that's the part i didn't really agree with because you said trapped how there's no woman in 2025
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that's trapped trapped in like a cage yeah but even i'm like you just like you can't expect a
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guy to pay for your lifestyle and not expect to abide by his rules right obviously yeah yeah but
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i was like i don't i don't know if that's trapped that's just i want you know what it is i want a
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lot of money and i don't want to know what comes with it no it's like one of those things where
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it's like i just said trap because it's like i'm just trying to get a point across yeah people took
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that one word yeah and then ran with it when it's like dude you're not looking at the common sense
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thing that I'm saying you're not looking at the bigger picture guys know like you they have
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unlimited options and money and they're chilling so if they replace you they're good but it you
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know you're not gonna do as well and that's kind of common sense so they treat you a little shitty
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and then most of the time they'll cheat on you but you stick around because you're like well
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fuck how else am I gonna get this lifestyle I can't attain it on my own so maybe trap wasn't
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the right word but what I'm saying is like literal truth well they have the leverage right
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in that situation which it's not it takes a particular woman with like a particular demeanor
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and especially in 2025 it's not common i don't know if i would say like i don't know if i
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personally would say i wouldn't recommend it i think it for like i would say it depends on the
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girl's demeanor right there's some women that are like more you could say stereotypically submissive
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you know easy by nature you know they don't really like some women just don't get jealous
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and they don't care about cheating you know but um yeah they're like I like this lifestyle he can
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do whatever he wants I'm chilling I'm sure you've seen that in LA right of course yeah and that's
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fine they would they like what comes along with it and they're fine there's positive and negatives
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to everything and they're kind of just chilling with that obviously like that's not me but what
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do I give a shit if that's what makes those girls happy yeah but so are you saying that like it's
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bad to do that or I just wanted to clarify what you meant in the video I mean at the end of the
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day, I literally don't give a shit what anyone does. So that's, uh, something that no one can
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figure out. No, I just said, I think women should have some sort of hobby. I'm not saying everyone's
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like, Oh, you said they should work. So they should be in an office being a slave all day.
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I'm like, Jesus, leave some room for nuance. You guys are so extreme. And then you wonder why you
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lose elections because of shit like this and shit like abortion. But it's like, no, what I'm saying
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is like how awesome to be a stay at home wife, husband supported, but then do a hobby that
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stimulates you, makes you happy and generates some income because I'm like,
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it's just common sense that like sometimes things don't work out.