Pearl - 40⧸yo Childless Woman Copes Online

00:00:00.000 And women biologically are predispositioned to reproduce with the top men. And if women are 1.00

00:00:05.240 given the choice, they would rather have no offspring than offspring of an average guy. 1.00

00:00:09.220 All right. What's up, guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today, we are reacting to a woman talking

00:00:14.040 about being over 40 with no kids and if she regrets it or not. Now, look, I'm not black and

00:00:19.460 white on this channel because, you know, I've met some women that just on God's green earth were not

00:00:25.060 meant to be mothers. Like they're so irresponsible with their personal life. I pray to God they don't 1.00

00:00:29.400 of kids. So I don't think every woman's meant to be a mom. Some women, I think they regret it. 1.00

00:00:34.520 Some don't. And some pretend they don't, but they do. So let's see what camp she's in. 1.00

00:00:39.080 Welcome back to Wandering with Jenny. Today, we're going to talk something more on the personal side

00:00:46.060 of things. So one thing that I get asked all the time is, do I regret some of the choices that I

00:00:53.440 made in life. Not getting married and not having kids and being over the age of 40. Do I have

00:01:01.360 regrets? Let's talk about it. So do I have regrets? No, I don't have any regrets. Yeah. A lot of women

00:01:11.540 are just too selfish of kids. I mean, we've grown up in a society and culture and religion that 1.00

00:01:19.200 tells us that we have to have kids by the age of 20 or 25 and be married and you know we grew up

00:01:28.460 with snow white and cinderella and always trying to find that prince charming dating scene is a

00:01:35.260 little bit harder and i've tried it and i don't know i'm just not most people don't change and

00:01:42.300 if you weren't like if you don't have the personality to be obedient and submissive

00:01:47.220 um it's very difficult to learn it's a lot of work and if you don't want to do it it's just

00:01:53.300 you know some women look at are not meant to be moms for online dating or anything like that

00:01:59.740 maybe i'll meet someone one day but right now i'm actually extremely happy with my life i have been

00:02:06.820 able to focus on myself focus on my own mental health and i'm i'm happy with it so when it comes

00:02:13.680 to regrets on not being married right now I don't have regrets now when it comes to kids I I think

00:02:21.060 everybody men and women want someone that they can raise and teach and show them all that I think

00:02:29.900 men are more nurturing than women I think more men regret not having kids than women do because

00:02:35.120 more men I think more men have that paternal inch like men just get joy from teaching kids 0.61

00:02:41.160 like I just have never I in my opinion the men that I know that are the most fulfilled at work

00:02:47.120 get to like teach and coach other men like men just get a joy from it I don't see that with

00:02:51.420 women I don't different things in this life in my 20s I was dead set I was not having kids 0.99

00:02:58.820 I worked with kids and as much as I love them I just couldn't see myself raising a child

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00:04:15.440 I met someone we tried and unfortunately it was unsuccessful, but, um, no, I don't regret

00:04:23.620 not having kids, you know, who knows, you know, maybe I will adopt in time. Uh, I still feel like

00:04:31.400 I'm still young, that I can still do something like that. The one thing that I have so much

00:04:36.060 respect for, for the generations that are coming up is they're not rushing into that stuff. They're

00:04:41.900 not rushing to settle down. They're, you know, focusing on their careers. I think she might

00:04:46.340 regret it more because she's still kind of cute. So she could still do decent in dating, but in 0.99

00:04:51.660 another 10 years, she's going to be kind of cooked. Focusing on themselves. I think where it gets hard

00:04:57.240 for women is when they start getting sick. So before they have health issues, but I don't know, 0.98

00:05:03.560 the one thing about life is that over a certain age, there's so many mothers that basically are

00:05:08.660 like, didn't have kids because their kids hate them. Because they're such terrible moms.

00:05:14.580 I truly admire that the kids are not following the social norms anymore. And it's incredible to see

00:05:23.700 that you know as a society we're changing and I think that's one thing actually that does need to

00:05:30.640 change. I also think that as a society the one thing that we have not learned yet is that when

00:05:38.840 we meet someone that is still single and doesn't have kids we always feel the need to ask why like

00:05:47.520 aren't you like lonely? Or, you know, are you missing out on things in life? Or, you know,

00:05:54.920 I, my goal here today is for the people who feel the need to ask those questions. I mean, truly

00:06:04.120 one, I don't really think it's anyone's business, but at the same time, you know, I'm sure there 0.98

00:06:10.520 are women out there. She couldn't secure a guy that was good enough in her eyes for her to 0.67

00:06:15.340 reproduce with. That's what happened. And women biologically are predispositioned to reproduce 0.99

00:06:20.880 with the top men. And if women are given the choice, they would rather have no offspring than 0.99

00:06:25.580 offspring of an average guy. That's the way we're designed. That's where we're built. You can hate 0.89

00:06:31.540 on it, but that's just how it is. Who are single, who don't want to be, and they just have not found

00:06:37.580 that right person. And there are women out there and men out there, whatever, who want to have a

00:06:43.800 family. And unfortunately for certain circumstances, they're not able to. So I think when people

00:06:51.860 approach this subject, I think it is like every other touchy subject out there. You have to

00:06:58.340 approach it in a more respectful manner. We can't just keep making people feel guilty about...

00:07:05.800 Again, she's saying, you know, they can make me feel guilty. Nobody can make you feel anything.

00:07:11.160 nobody you know that shame comes from within so it's either something the devil's making you feel

00:07:16.760 um like it's something that's in you so you can't be mad if somebody else brings it out of you okay

00:07:22.160 oh it's not having kids or not finding their their perfect soul mate or i think the other

00:07:29.100 thing that we have to remember too is things that women are putting above having kids travel

00:07:33.020 gluck gluck 9 000 sex work literally anything else again when you when you see do women want 1.00

00:07:40.520 to have children. What do women do when given the choice? Women kill their kids when given the 0.98

00:07:45.040 choice. Women almost kill more kids than we have. So that's a good question. Have more kids been 1.00

00:07:50.760 born or been killed by mothers in the last 10 years? If you count abortion, I might look that 0.94

00:07:56.040 up. Not everybody who is single or without kids is career driven because I wasn't and I'm not.

00:08:06.500 I mean, for me, I have a job. I have a 40 hour a week plus week job and it's not a career. It's

00:08:16.260 just a job and I'm happy and I'm content with it. And I think that's another thing that we are

00:08:22.160 missing is that we're so caught up in. Okay. So in the last 10 years, 73 million per year,

00:08:29.800 over 10 years that's 730 million and live births um over 10 years okay 1.35 billion um have been

00:08:40.720 born to 730 killed million killed so what if we did okay what about the last five years let's see 0.50

00:08:50.260 okay i guess i guess uh five years 670 all right all right two to one i'm just saying we kill like

00:08:57.000 a third of the kids that's not good and what society tells us that we need to have or need to

00:09:02.420 do now society tells women um okay uh society tells women to not have kids so i don't know

00:09:09.740 this is kind of co-op saying that society tells us to have kids society says to do whatever you

00:09:13.600 want queen that we forget what like the most important thing and that is yourself and you

00:09:22.220 know, it's, it's so hard to see people coming out. I mean, 20 years ago, and I, I am going to do a

00:09:29.160 video on anxiety and depression and mental health. It's nice to see that people are starting to come

00:09:35.040 out, but it's so scary to see the amount of people in droves that are coming out with depression and

00:09:41.640 anxiety. And I think, okay. Again, like women, what women want to do is women want to do their

00:09:48.380 own thing and not of children um what's good for women isn't necessarily what we want to do 0.98

00:09:53.420 and that's kind of the channel that's the empaths we're at is that women don't want to be mothers

00:09:58.660 and don't want routine and want to be spontaneous and travel the world and do all this stuff

00:10:02.460 uh but um what makes us happy in the long term is routine so anyways all right guys let me know

00:10:10.140 what you think in the comments um if you can like the video on your way out and subscribe

00:10:13.300 to the channel i love you thanks for watching i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 20, 2026

40⧸yo Childless Woman Copes Online

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