Pearl - Are MODERN WOMEN Headed For A Life Of LONELINESS And REGRET？｜ Pearl Daily

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily I am

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00:01:38.380 when we talk about modern women and modern problems and the direction that society is going

00:01:45.980 that I'm not necessarily ascribing morality to it. I'm not trying to communicate one way is right 0.82

00:01:53.180 and one way is wrong but life has choices and trade-offs and it's important that we see

00:02:01.500 what the necessary end of debt. I see many women complaining about how they're in a ton of debt 1.00

00:02:07.740 and you ask yourself with all of the ways that we can monetize beauty how many high paying jobs that 0.99

00:02:14.940 we are able to get as women you know you can get a sales job and make very good money in sales

00:02:20.780 why are we in a ton of debt and i decided to get to the bottom of this problem but that is not the

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00:03:48.700 I was thinking about how the level of debt we're in as women is going to pan out. We own 80% of 0.79

00:04:01.240 the world's debt, even though we make less money. And I did some research and according to a survey

00:04:07.920 by Northwestern Mutual, the average American believes they need around 1.46 million to retire

00:04:14.440 comfortably, which represents a significant increase from previous years due to a cost of

00:04:20.580 living. However, the average retirement savings account is around $88,400. The average retirement

00:04:28.420 account retirement expenses is $835,000, $453 for 25 years and about a million for 30 years.

00:04:40.600 So where does that leave us as a society? Why are we in debt? So I started looking into our

00:04:49.140 expenses as women. What are we spending our money on? And you look at the media, we're constantly 1.00

00:04:56.680 being sold anything that makes us look young forever and feel young. And when I think about

00:05:04.500 feeling young, what I think about is concerts and events that make us feel like we're still in high

00:05:12.000 school, still in college, and we can prolong that as long as possible. So I see an increase in the

00:05:18.580 number of women getting degrees in their mid-20s and late 20s. I see an increase in the plastic 0.98

00:05:26.140 surgery that we're getting, the nails that we're getting, the Botox, boob jobs. I see all of this

00:05:33.480 going up even though we make less money. So I looked it up and I want everyone to guess in the

00:05:40.660 chat what women spend a year on makeup. How much do you guys think makeup costs? I'm about to read

00:05:48.480 in the chat what you think you think 6 000 yeah that's that's oh shoot hold on let's set the sound

00:05:57.260 off 6 000 um oh it says the audio is cutting on the chat i don't know if that's um can you guys

00:06:08.880 hear me now okay okay fine um Shanice you got it um six thousand is a little high but we spend an

00:06:22.160 average of one thousand seven hundred fifty four dollars on makeup alone but that's just makeup

00:06:27.600 women are also traveling more than men 64 percent of travelers are female and I want us to guess in 0.91

00:06:38.700 the chat for a week. What does that cost us? I forgot to put in this. I want us to guess in the

00:06:48.180 chat. Oh yeah, my fault. Sorry. The makeup. No. Yeah, guys, guess. $50 a year? No, no, no. Guess.

00:07:02.600 So a one-week vacation, what does that cost?

00:07:10.920 $2,000 for a week vacation. 1.00

00:07:14.120 So when men, if you see a girl on Instagram traveling every week, unless she's making stupid money, she may be. 1.00

00:07:24.720 No, every week is two grand on average. 0.98

00:07:30.380 We're also living alone.

00:07:32.600 and guess what our health spending is per year

00:07:36.900 I want everyone to guess in the chat what do you think we spend a year on health

00:07:46.320 oh where did this

00:07:48.000 does that include nails eyelashes hair dyeing

00:08:02.600 This is what I was looking for, yeah this article, $5,227 per year, $714 on personal

00:08:20.760 care.

00:08:21.760 Yup, I'm going to read an article from the Louisiana Federal Credit Union talking about

00:08:27.560 the difference in spending between men and women.

00:08:31.520 How do men and women stack up against each other in the money management arena?

00:08:36.480 We pulled together two dozen studies to see where the differences lie.

00:08:40.240 A study by the Wharton School of Business titled Men Buy, Women Shop found that women are more likely to view shopping as a recreational activity while men just want to make their purchases and get out.

00:08:54.060 Because of this, women may be quicker to spot a deal. 0.50

00:08:58.720 Spending habits. 1.00

00:08:59.740 Overall spending. 0.67

00:09:00.660 Single men outspent women, but only by a slight margin, right? Here's the catch.

00:09:06.060 Men spent an average of $35,000 a year while women spent $33,000 a year. It's important to note

00:09:13.020 that men earned roughly $10,000 more per year than women. Single men spent $4,000 annually on grub,

00:09:22.660 were single women spent $3,680. Men also spent more than double on alcohol than women at 537

00:09:31.180 versus 234. Clothing. Women take this category and spending $1,140 on apparel while men spend

00:09:40.460 813. Interestingly, men and women spend the same amount on shoes a year at 190.

00:09:47.180 D. Men outdrove women in this category, spending a total of $5,507 a year on personal transportation

00:09:56.220 compared to women's $4,273. However, women spent nearly twice as much on car insurance as their

00:10:05.700 male counterparts, shelling out $1,000 per year while men spent $500. Health care. Women tend to

00:10:13.240 spend slightly more across health care categories the largest being drugs and medical services with

00:10:19.400 women spending more than two hundred dollars more per year on things like x-rays and doctor's

00:10:25.320 appointments women spend just over 200 per year more than men in those two items and health care

00:10:31.160 kind of makes sense when we think about the things we're marketed it's always marketing that

00:10:37.320 everything's toxic for us everything's going to kill us and they're trying to sell us some solution

00:10:43.240 Personal care. Ladies vastly outspend men on personal care products and services. On average, 1.00

00:10:49.560 women were willing to pay around $714 a year on self-care, where men spent closer to $297.

00:10:57.200 It's not just the spending numbers that set men and women apart. There were multiple studies that

00:11:01.720 suggest women are more price-conscious shoppers than men. 71% of women say the last item they

00:11:08.200 bought online was on sale compared to 57% of men. Additionally, 74% of millennial women say they

00:11:15.500 look for coupons while shopping online compared to 65% of millennial men. When it comes to saving

00:11:21.960 up, men and women have different priorities. A recent survey by the Motley Fool found that men

00:11:28.280 were most likely to view saving for a vacation as their top financial goal, followed closely by

00:11:35.160 paying off credit and card debt. 0.97

00:11:37.700 Women had identical goals but named debt repayment as a bigger priority.

00:11:42.100 Although men and women have similar financial goals, there's a vast difference between how 0.96

00:11:46.080 much money each gender sets aside for those goals. 0.80

00:11:51.060 Financial technology or Milo Financial Technologies found that men set aside nearly twice as much

00:11:56.480 money for their long-term financial goals as women.

00:12:00.260 women retiring age have an average of $81,000 in retirement funds while their male counterparts

00:12:08.340 have $118,400. However, if you look at the percentage they save from their paychecks,

00:12:18.260 women come in first place. A recent Vanguard study found that women are more likely to 0.99

00:12:23.380 participate in workplace retirement plans that and that they put up an eight percent of their

00:12:29.620 pre-tax earnings in those plans than men in the same earnings bucket the discrepancy between the

00:12:36.020 dollar amount saved and the percentage of incomes earmarked for savings can be attributed to the

00:12:42.340 reality that the average woman is still earning less than the average man the gender pay gap is

00:12:47.620 by far the worst in the gender pay gap louisiana is by far the worst in the nation with a 31

00:12:54.180 percent difference according to the data by the census bureau meaning women working full-time

00:13:00.660 in the pelican state only makes 69 of what the average full-time male earns okay

00:13:08.020 uh let me go down to investing men seem to take more of an interest in investing 70 of millennial

00:13:14.900 men enjoy managing their savings compared to just 36% of millennial women.

00:13:22.640 Because of this, men tend to feel confident in their financial knowledge and are more

00:13:26.360 open to risky investments. 0.86

00:13:28.840 Women tend to be more cautious, patient investors. 0.88

00:13:32.500 Interestingly enough, while females are more likely to admit they know little about investing,

00:13:36.900 the conservative approach puts them slightly ahead of men in the long term because they

00:13:41.280 produce smaller games and also have less losses okay so what does this mean for the future to be

00:13:50.560 fair it's not just women men and women are both having financial difficulties but the reason i

00:13:58.000 see it as a little bit different is i don't see women as being able to work into an extremely old

00:14:04.800 age like men can. Men can just work for a lifetime. They just get on with it. I don't

00:14:10.360 really see us having the same grit and ability. You know, I see older people at Walmart working 1.00

00:14:20.880 it all the time. And the, from my personal experience, and the women just seem to have 1.00

00:14:27.140 a much more difficult time with it. Our strength goes, we become a little bit more frail.

00:14:32.880 so what does all of this mean the economy is suffering because we cannot save because we

00:14:45.480 used to get married young and have two incomes now we have one and it really begs the question

00:14:51.860 why are we not getting married why are we choosing to have a singles economy rather than a

00:14:59.200 couples economy. Now, you may say the men just aren't marrying, but to me, that doesn't really

00:15:05.920 paint a full picture. We all know that men tend to pick for fertility, beauty, and youth.

00:15:12.500 Those three things are what men pick for, but the average age of first marriage is

00:15:19.340 around 30 years old, and it keeps going up and up and up based on the generation.

00:15:24.700 So what does this mean? That means men, when they're in their sexual peak, is around 35 to 40 years old, and they tend to cash out of the sexual marketplace earlier than we do, because when we're at our peak, we don't have a tendency to marry.

00:15:43.800 Now, we want to ask, why is that? So we're going to go through the 10 unexpected reasons women are choosing to stay single. 0.81

00:15:52.940 Far from something to dread, lots of women are choosing a single life. 0.99

00:15:57.980 It's no longer simply about meeting the right one. 1.00

00:16:01.060 The truth is going in it alone can bring much more fun and freedom. 1.00

00:16:07.260 Why do women prefer to be single? 1.00

00:16:09.700 The answer is plenty of reasons. 1.00

00:16:12.080 Number one, they're no longer buying into the fairy tale.

00:16:16.740 Sorry, Prince Charming, but you were a little bit late, so I went and saved myself.

00:16:21.700 The happily ever after narrative is starting to feel pretty outdated.

00:16:26.480 Stories we grew up on about women being rescued by men

00:16:30.600 no longer ring true as the 21st century years.

00:16:34.640 What's more, a lot are sounding pretty sketchy.

00:16:38.600 Sleeping Beauty was awoken by a kiss when she was unconscious.

00:16:42.500 Er, I'm sorry, but I think Prince needs a lesson in consent. 0.66

00:16:47.100 Luckily, these days, a lot of women see the fantasy for what it is. 0.61

00:16:51.700 just an illusion this that's not to put a downer on relationships but real life is never so easy 0.97

00:16:59.260 and neither are real relationships they're a lot of work and understandably not all women 0.99

00:17:05.300 want to make it so what is the first reason we don't want to do work

00:17:10.840 i don't know what to tell you guys number two they're no longer

00:17:21.700 Let me see.

00:17:26.520 I saved myself. 0.88

00:17:28.200 I know, isn't this ridiculous?

00:17:29.840 Relationships are hard work.

00:17:31.800 Far from magically fixing everything in your life, relationships take time and energy. 0.96

00:17:38.920 There's also evidence to suggest that women may have to contribute more of that energy into a relationship. 1.00

00:17:45.520 For starters, the burden of emotional support can fall disproportionately on women. 0.99

00:17:50.940 according to a harvard business review we can blame stuttered stubborn gender stereotypes for 0.99

00:17:58.360 this women are often expected to be communal which is typically reflected in caring and nurturing for 1.00

00:18:05.800 others there is more pressure on them to be kin keepers who manage relationships within the family

00:18:12.920 and community my first question guys is what family and what community are we are we blind

00:18:19.380 are we like what it's not really a thing um all right men are traditionally expected to be more

00:18:27.060 agentic from a young age rational strategic and assertive even if the results this results in

00:18:34.820 being less cooperative and considerate and it's not just emotional work studies have shown that

00:18:39.920 women spend double the amount of time compared to men caretaking tackling chores and doing housework

00:18:45.980 researchers looked at 19 studies that use data from 70 000 individuals all over the world they

00:18:53.180 concluded that women are far more out spend far more hours on unpaid labor in a relationship 0.95

00:18:59.900 that has a negative impact on their mental health no wonder that the single women may be healthier 0.72

00:19:08.740 okay guys so we got number one we are not buying into the fairy tale number two hard work 0.97

00:19:16.980 three it's better for your health yep that's right being single could be a lifestyle choice

00:19:24.120 that offers perks as well as having strong social networks there's evidence that single folks

00:19:29.880 may be physically fitter too you know what i would believe that and the reason i'd believe it 1.00

00:19:36.160 i mean the moms don't have time to spend four hours taking selfies in the gym 1.00

00:19:41.980 i mean they don't have time for that they might just have to eat less you know what i mean

00:19:48.800 it turns out the idea of letting yourself go when you were coupled up might not be so far

00:19:53.660 off the mark researchers looked at the health habits of 13 000 men and women between the ages

00:19:58.820 of 18 and 64 what they discovered is that single people who had never married worked out far more

00:20:05.480 often each week. Yep. Meanwhile, another study found that people weighed on average five pounds

00:20:11.340 less than their married counterparts have lower BMIs. Why? Well, it probably has something to do

00:20:21.160 that when you're single, you have more time for yourself. Number four reason why modern women are 1.00

00:20:27.480 single. We are, they're enjoying their freedom. Casual dating can be great fun. It's a great, 1.00

00:20:34.960 it's a chance to connect without getting tied down or making a commitment more women are taking this 1.00

00:20:41.360 opportunity to simply see what's out there apps provide us easy access to a whole host of potential 0.97

00:20:48.240 students at the swipe of a screen of course plenty of women choose not to date at all and they find

00:20:55.280 they have perfectly full lives without romantic partners on the scenes in fact studies have shown

00:21:00.640 that women lead busier lives than single men do they do more activities and have more friends yes

00:21:07.360 and the reason being for this is because life you have to understand a lot of times conservatives

00:21:14.640 try to sell that women are somehow tricked into not having children that that women are just

00:21:22.960 coerced feminism brainwashed guys if you if the roles were reversed and men could download a

00:21:31.460 dating app and get 5 000 matches 5 000 do you think it would be a little bit difficult to get

00:21:39.760 them to settle down if men could remember average women can get flown out by top 10 men

00:21:47.180 do you think if men could get access easily to all of the most attractive women that they know

00:21:55.260 do you think it would be a little bit difficult to get them to settle down

00:22:00.860 that's what's going on or if men they're they tend to be i don't want to say that because

00:22:10.220 around YouTube I'll say that on the network but if if men got jobs that were pretty simple

00:22:18.900 didn't have to do a ton of work and had a good work life balance work from home do you think

00:22:24.860 it'd be kind of hard to get them to settle down do you think it'd be difficult okay in short they 0.93

00:22:31.100 have a lot going on and aren't looking to fill any kind of void single women get a lot more time to 0.82

00:22:36.460 focus on their own interests education career and life goals than women in relationships they 0.92

00:22:41.680 value their independence and want to make themselves the main focus and priority in 0.91

00:22:46.580 their lives so many women needs no longer are fulfilled exclusively by a relationship including

00:22:53.700 the next on our list sex and relationships no longer go hand in hand sure for some people

00:23:00.700 sex out of a relationship is taboo but for many more it's not sexual freedom has increased in

00:23:07.160 large parts of the world and sex can be enjoyed outside of relationship with far less stigma

00:23:12.560 hookup culture lets ladies get certain itches scratched without committing after all having

00:23:19.600 sex isn't just about making babies many women myself included have decided that kids just aren't 1.00

00:23:25.600 part of the life plan. Who says women who don't want to sow their wild oats to? That's exactly 1.00

00:23:31.780 what some women are choosing to do. Don't they get lonely? There's a world of difference between 1.00

00:23:38.000 being alone and being lonely. And mind you guys, I never say that this has no consequences. I don't

00:23:44.860 say that. But what I am saying is nobody's brainwashed. Nobody's tricked. All this is, is

00:23:53.640 people are doing the easy thing and the fun thing. It's the same thing when you get really

00:24:00.200 drunk and you're hungover. That's the consequence. What we have now is we are being given

00:24:06.940 so much power with the internet, power to make money, power to get access to high-level

00:24:15.080 celebrities, power to be at the coolest social events if you're attractive enough. 1.00

00:24:19.840 all of this is fun and exciting and most women don't want to be hunkered down that's how that's

00:24:26.880 how they see it right horse's mouth by an average guy they don't want to give up this exciting

00:24:32.780 lifestyle for an average man that's why when you see 1.00

00:24:38.460 that's why um you don't see women settling down until that lifestyle starts to go away they age 0.99

00:24:51.040 out of being a bottle girl we age out of the dating apps right where you don't get as much

00:24:57.320 attention as you used to that's when you see but the issue is now there's so much technology

00:25:02.940 that is prolonging this so there's technology to you know make your teeth whiter there's technology

00:25:12.100 to make people look younger boob jaw all of them all of this stuff right okay so they prefer

00:25:21.220 solitude I'm currently in a relationship but hands down one of the most difficult adjustments

00:25:26.680 was losing a lot of peace and quiet I'd grown accustomed to you see I am one of the many women

00:25:31.940 out there who genuinely enjoys and values alone time it doesn't make me sad I'm not bored I feel

00:25:38.700 deep contentment spending time by myself so rather than longing for a man in my home I took great

00:25:44.560 pleasure in having a space that was my own we're all built differently some of us like solitude

00:25:49.480 and aren't in a hurry to give it up seven they get their self-esteem from within or too many of us

00:25:56.980 are still defining ourselves and our self-worth based on relationships but it's much easier to

00:26:03.000 be single when you don't look for someone else for your happiness far from making you weird in

00:26:08.840 many ways choosing to be single is a reflection of strength okay next they won't settle for less

00:26:16.640 than they deserve right so this number eight is gonna be delusion delusion for the win

00:26:23.900 okay some people feel so lost being single that any relationship will do so they bounce from

00:26:32.300 disaster to disaster wondering why it never works for them so what is this again dating apps have

00:26:38.160 given us as women access to men that never in our lives we would have access to you know a woman

00:26:44.800 from a small town used to go marry her high school sweetheart now the most beautiful woman in a small

00:26:50.100 town can be flown out by Andrew Tate, Channing Tatum, or really any high-level celebrity that 1.00

00:26:58.000 wants a different girl every week. This access has made us think we're more attractive and special

00:27:05.320 and awesome than we are. Of course, there's a difference between high standards and impossible

00:27:10.800 standards, but having a healthy and fulfilling relationship should be everyone's baseline.

00:27:15.200 women who feel confident and content as single girls aren't frantically looking for anyone to 0.80

00:27:20.760 fill in the vacancy if they do want a partner they are prepared to wait to find a person and

00:27:28.700 situation that does well for them that may take time but luckily there's no rush they don't feel

00:27:34.920 the same urgency to settle down the average age for getting all of that grown-up stuff is rising

00:27:39.980 we're putting off relationships marriage kids and mortgages until later in life and again guys

00:27:44.640 why is this it's because as women they want to make us feel young forever and that is what

00:27:51.680 they're selling they're always selling that we are going to be young forever attractive forever 0.99

00:27:56.780 and anything that makes us feel young according to the conversation today the single the number

00:28:02.920 of single adults in the U.S. and many other nations across the world is unprecedented

00:28:07.580 and the numbers don't say and the numbers don't just say people are staying single longer before

00:28:14.480 settling down more people are staying single for life we have hit certain milestones in increasing

00:28:21.100 perhaps that's down to the fact that what it's considered old is also changing right

00:28:26.940 so now again she's doing it she's saying what's old is changing you know 30 35 that's being near

00:28:36.660 middle-aged. It really is. You're not a kid. You're an adult. But now they're trying to

00:28:43.800 prolong that as long as possible. While your grandma may have been married and pregnant by

00:28:49.720 your age, you may still be dragging your butt home from the club at 4 a.m. Women are enjoying 1.00

00:28:56.740 active and youthful feelings for much longer. Again, same thing I'm showing you guys. It's no

00:29:03.640 longer socially unacceptable. And that's the last stage of all of this. They always try to

00:29:08.900 normalize anything. The other show when we were talking about STDs and there was the young woman 1.00

00:29:16.060 who had herpes, one of the things they were saying is that it's not abnormal and that everybody has

00:29:21.820 it. So again, that's what they try to do. Something that's abnormal, they try to make normal. And I

00:29:29.380 hate to say it guys it kind of works because many things are considered normal today that would have 0.82

00:29:35.400 been crazy like 20 30 years ago okay women words we used for single women like spinster didn't

00:29:44.500 exactly have positive non-connotations it made you feel sexy and unwanted while the male version

00:29:50.760 bachelor was far cooler and brought to mind james bonds bonds of the world who admiredly have

00:29:56.720 avoided being tied down by a woman i'm not suggesting patriarchal notions don't exist

00:30:02.240 but they have eased off name says normal everyone has it no they don't i know i know they don't but

00:30:09.760 i'm telling you that's what they try to do is they make things normal like now it's normal it's not

00:30:16.000 good but i see fat fat people all the time and if you look at a picture from 50 years ago you didn't 0.98

00:30:22.640 see any right it's those kind of things that become more normal women are choosing to stay 0.97

00:30:30.020 single simply because they can nowadays okay so I'd like to say this is from the horse's mouth

00:30:37.340 nobody was tricked I need to stop hearing that we were tricked we were brainwashed

00:30:43.880 guys when you put yourself in the female lens it makes perfect sense it makes complete sense

00:30:51.100 because most guys and I know you guys are all going to say you wouldn't most men if they had

00:31:00.520 access to 5,000 women from an app what do you think that men would do they would same thing

00:31:07.920 now I'm not saying this is good or bad but if I had to predict if men had access to 5,000 women

00:31:17.540 and it was easy it would be pretty difficult to get them to settle down right now we're seeing 0.82

00:31:23.600 the reverse okay exactly no one was tricked women just took full advantage of not being judged and

00:31:31.460 shamed Robinson the writer will regret it 20 years from now when she'll be completely alone

00:31:39.120 with her cat yes I'm not saying this is without consequences and we're going to get to this

00:31:44.760 so what does this mean so we're in more debt we're staying single longer we're pushing off

00:31:52.580 children the one trend that we're going to see is we're going to see the average age of first

00:31:58.240 child keep going up and up they will develop technology that increases this I have seen

00:32:06.460 studies saying they're trying to reverse menopause now can technology do that

00:32:13.940 I'm a little skeptical but they've essentially expanded fertility another 10 years now is this

00:32:22.880 system perfect no but I was looking at the fertility numbers of IVF I have to double

00:32:30.720 check it so don't quote me on this but it over 50 percent of IVF works now that's not all it's not

00:32:38.160 even there's still a significant portion that it doesn't work for it's very expensive but to me

00:32:43.920 the fact that we're getting to the point that we've extended fertility by like 15 years is

00:32:49.500 actually incredible. It's actually crazy. So they are going to keep making technology to make women

00:32:57.700 look younger and feel young forever. Now, obviously there's limits on this. Like Kim Kardashian

00:33:05.020 has probably spent more money in beauty than any other woman. And she does look younger than she 0.58

00:33:11.540 is I would say however there's obviously limits and she does not look like a young woman so there's

00:33:20.020 only so much that technology can do okay so where does this leave us next so first of all first of 0.89

00:33:29.340 all I'm done hearing about that women are tricked and I'm done hearing about how feminism just

00:33:35.780 brainwashed us guys it makes perfect sense you said it's like giving women a million dollars

00:33:41.420 putting us in a mansion and getting surprised when we partied what did you think was gonna happen

00:33:46.900 nobody tricked them it's just they were like oh this is way more fun than watching those kids

00:33:53.540 you want me to go ahead that that that is way more entertaining duh okay um someone said did

00:34:02.400 you forget to clean your computer? All right. I did. You know what? Yeah, I did. I did. I did.

00:34:08.380 Sue me. Sue me. All right. Okay. So what does this lead to? The first thing that this leads to,

00:34:17.780 and I noticed this when I was interviewing women in London, if you guys didn't know,

00:34:21.900 I interviewed a thousand women in a year and it showed me the dark realities of what is going on

00:34:29.080 during this year I saw women leave their husbands over no reason I saw women that had children go

00:34:35.260 out every night of the week and the most depressing part was the was how common prostitution has

00:34:43.540 has become so if women are in debt we're not getting high income skills and then

00:34:52.360 then where does this leave us? Well, prostitution. We are going to see a crazy surge in prostitution 1.00

00:35:04.980 in the next 10 years. I would not be surprised if it gets legalized in all the major cities.

00:35:11.380 This is not what I hope for. This is not what I wish for. But that is what I would predict.

00:35:16.900 because from what I have seen we will pick prostitution over a family I'm not saying that's 0.89

00:35:24.240 good but we're seeing a huge surgence of OnlyFans models of women when they're 18 19 20 21 years old

00:35:33.920 women at that age have the option to get married and they are choosing prostitution 0.56

00:35:38.840 why are they doing that well you see them going on Aiden Ross's stream you see them getting invited

00:35:46.360 to all the hot parties again that's more fun and exciting to many women than a family again

00:35:53.560 this is not me saying that's good but I'm explaining it because what tends to happen is

00:35:59.180 we tend to get plausible deniability until the cows come home it's so crazy and if you see all

00:36:05.580 the traditional conserve it drives me nuts but it's every benefit of the doubt that we're just

00:36:10.980 getting tricked into this stuff we're lost no no no no no it's fun that's that's why they do it

00:36:18.120 they do it because they enjoy it and it's fun okay number two the male sex drive is strong

00:36:27.060 and as women are going to be mating with a smaller and smaller percentage of men 0.63

00:36:32.080 the government is not going to know what to do with all of these older women 0.98

00:36:36.660 we're going to have women that are 40 50 60 70 years old without a husband and the government 1.00

00:36:44.000 does not know what to do with them so we're going to see relationships like this and we're already 0.55

00:36:50.200 starting to see it marketed to young men they are going to keep trying to convince young men to

00:36:57.780 lower their standards. It's why you see women trying to normalize STDs. It's why you see 1.00

00:37:07.860 people trying to normalize dating overweight women. The next trend is going to be old women, 1.00

00:37:16.500 young men and old women. Let me show you guys the video. 0.97

00:37:27.780 That's my mom right there. 0.99

00:37:31.920 Oh, my God.

00:37:35.040 I just saw straight to Jose's eyes

00:37:37.460 and just stay there for a couple of seconds

00:37:40.120 and say, what is this?

00:37:43.420 I am really confused right now.

00:37:45.380 What is really happening here?

00:37:47.120 Wait, that's my mom right there?

00:37:49.220 This can't be going on.

00:37:50.440 I'm, like, completely shocked.

00:37:51.860 I see my son back there,

00:37:53.260 and it's like, who are all these guys?

00:37:55.360 so we're supposed to date other moms uh you're here that's so weird yeah that is so weird

00:38:05.960 i knew my son gabriel was going to be in mexico with me i thought he was going to be on a separate

00:38:13.420 dating retreat but he's in my dating pool and i'm gonna have to see my son date these moms

00:38:19.740 This is crazy. I'm feeling very overwhelmed and a little scared seeing my son standing in that line

00:38:31.400 made me feel very awkward because they're my son's age. Let's go. We're going to see this in movies

00:38:39.620 as well. You're going to keep seeing and it's going to be more common in couples. Again, the

00:38:43.540 male sex drive is strong. And if women get together and say we're not going to be thin, 0.98

00:38:48.480 we're all going to get big men start to date bigger women if the women get together and say 0.94

00:38:54.060 we're not going to marry young we're going to marry old men say you know what we're going to 0.74

00:38:58.600 date the old women if women get together and they say well we're not going to we're not going to 0.98

00:39:05.900 come as virgins we're not going to come pure anymore the men will adapt again a hundred years 0.80

00:39:10.500 ago, men got like a 22-year-old virgin wife who stayed with him for a lifetime. And yet you still 0.81

00:39:19.700 see guys signing up even though the value is way, way lower. Granted, many men are walking away from

00:39:26.360 dating and you're going to see that too. But we've talked about this on the show. There is always a

00:39:32.880 what simp there's always a guy that'll do it so you're gonna keep seeing you know the point was

00:39:40.720 not about the mother son they both signed up for a dating show to date older women younger men

00:39:45.580 the point is that that's what they're marketing this will be the future of relationships that

00:39:53.540 they try to sell so um what are we gonna see we're gonna see prostitution becoming more

00:40:02.680 normalized. I would predict it will become legal. You're going to see older women with younger men

00:40:10.100 and also older men with younger women, right? You're going to see women mating with a smaller 0.98

00:40:15.900 and smaller percentage of men. It's going to become more pronounced. And you're going to see 0.98

00:40:21.580 the birth rate decline and the average age of first marriage go up and the average age of first 0.97

00:40:26.840 child increase you are going to keep seeing older and older moms as long as there's money 1.00

00:40:34.200 in making the technology to facilitate this you're gonna see more of our sexual issues being 0.99

00:40:44.680 dissolved in a way they're almost coming they're almost curing herpes right and it's because all

00:40:50.280 this promiscuity there's too much money in solving it there's too much if you're a guy and you think 0.86

00:40:56.200 how do I make money oh all I have to do is either solve women's fertility problem solve women's 0.77

00:41:03.120 youth problem or make women feel young forever there is always somebody that is going to figure

00:41:08.780 this out the same way there is so much money in selling stuff to lonely guys like only fans

00:41:15.680 prostitution that sort of thing you are going to see the money in that is there so people are going

00:41:22.880 to keep doing it now I'm not saying this is good I'd like to I'd like to reiterate this is not I'm

00:41:30.840 not saying it's good but I don't think shouting on a podcast about degeneracy is really going to

00:41:37.760 solve the issue I think people do what's easy generally speaking and that's just what's going

00:41:44.300 to happen lol marriage and child birth rate has collapsed yeah but it's going to keep going

00:41:50.260 it's literally going to keep going okay now where does this end oh that was where I put it earlier

00:41:59.000 okay yeah so single parents marriage is going down two parent families are going down and if

00:42:07.020 we look at this chart we're going to keep seeing single parents go up there's going to be a little

00:42:12.960 bit of a decrease because again there's less people that can be single parents because we're

00:42:19.060 reproducing with a smaller percentage of men but overall we are going to see single parents in the

00:42:26.280 future that's going to be the new norm it already kind of is but it's going to become more and more 0.50

00:42:31.160 normal it says Eve was deceived not Adam or maybe was it a choice was she deceived or was it a choice

00:42:41.180 I think Eve pretended to be deceived I think because it got her I get out of jail free card

00:42:47.080 from Adam I think that was the first sin was Adam believing Eve you know what I mean anyways sorry

00:42:55.000 so okay I'm not I'm not a um I'm not a bible scholar please don't take that

00:43:00.280 please don't take that and run with it chat okay now finally

00:43:05.420 where does this play out and I just I think it's more powerful when we see the actual face and like

00:43:14.760 the actual stories of how this is going to play out. Heartbroken elderly woman faces eviction

00:43:20.820 from the home where she lived 20 years ago in a Democrat state where lawmakers want to give

00:43:25.500 migrants $150,000 to buy homes. A 96-year-old woman is facing eviction from her 22 years where

00:43:34.380 she says she invested her entire savings in a Democrat state where lawmakers give migrants

00:43:40.180 $150,000 to buy loans. Jean Jack West was given a three-day eviction notice from the Pacific Grove

00:43:47.440 Living Facility located in the picturesque Monterey County in California.

00:43:55.120 The notice came to Jack's who maxed out her savings on the home. She signed a contract

00:44:00.720 stipulating that she would be taken care of for life. Whether she outlived her nest egg,

00:44:05.640 i'm not going they'll have to bury me i have no place to go jack had what jack west told the news

00:44:12.680 outfit outlet they have all my money her investments included a 250 000 down payment

00:44:20.380 and 5 000 per month in rent until she can no longer afford it pacifica senior living which 0.95

00:44:27.400 served an eviction notice acquired the facility in 2022 with an expectation that contracts like

00:44:33.840 jack wets would be honored according to ksbw the president of the pacific grove senior living

00:44:41.100 residents association bob sandler told the outlet that lifetime care contracts were considered

00:44:46.500 unconstitutional evictions were not issued to people who outlived their savings because some

00:44:51.940 residents die before their contracts end she's devoted all of her life savings and money to this

00:44:56.800 place i don't care what legal ramifications are here here this is morally unthinkable

00:45:01.820 on wednesday state lawmakers approved the california dream for all shared appreciation

00:45:07.900 loans which would provide no interest homes loans up to 150 000 to illegal migrants used

00:45:15.860 on their own down payments and fees it's now headed to the california governor gavin newsom's

00:45:21.820 desk for final approval the program was launched last year and has already provided thousands of

00:45:27.800 first time home buyers with up to 20% of a house's purchasing price. So this woman likely voted

00:45:36.860 Democrat for a lifetime. And guys, I just went to a Kamala rally yesterday. That's why I didn't do

00:45:42.000 a show. And I'm going to release the interview probably next week. But I saw firsthand, firsthand

00:45:49.600 why people are voting Democrat. There's three reasons. And while this is not a political show,

00:45:54.320 sometimes relationships and politics intertwine and this is how we can see it the number three

00:46:02.440 reasons I got for voting for Kamala was I hate Trump Trump is going to be a dictator king if he

00:46:09.280 wins an abortion those were the most would you was there anything I missed those are the top three

00:46:14.880 right no there's more I mean those are my top three you can text it to me oh that was it okay

00:46:21.580 yeah those were the i got like a couple environmental ones but i mean guys let's 0.97

00:46:28.500 just be objective those are dumb reasons those are the dumbest reasons i've ever heard in my life 0.97

00:46:33.340 i mean ladies we're gonna get to abort forever i promise to god we are i i promise they will 0.98

00:46:40.160 not take that away i wish they would i really i wish they would but

00:46:46.260 good luck good luck with that so worst case you have to drive to another state i don't know maybe 0.96

00:46:55.340 be a little more responsible a little bit more so now this woman is getting evicted at 90 years old 1.00

00:47:01.360 because she didn't have savings she likely voted democrat and what is going to be her only way she 1.00

00:47:07.600 can make money prostitution i mean what what skills is a 90 something year old woman going to 1.00

00:47:14.320 do. She's either going to be a homeless or be a prostitute. So what is the government going to do 1.00

00:47:20.320 with all of these older single women? Now, one hypothesis is they might bail us out. 1.00

00:47:26.460 They might come up with some program, but I do think in my lifetime, we're going to see some of

00:47:32.200 these programs dry up. And that's why they're going to try to convince the men to marry the 0.99

00:47:38.900 older women they're going to try to convince the men to date the older women because some 0.89

00:47:45.600 there just has to be a bailout plan because the government does not know what to do 1.00

00:47:52.980 with all of these old single women they don't know what to do with it 1.00

00:47:56.580 and we're seeing this right here I found like three articles that had the same thing I'm running 1.00

00:48:02.820 a little short on time today so I can't I don't think I'm going to have time to go through them

00:48:07.140 but this is the future this is the future this is what's coming so as a guy don't get don't get

00:48:16.740 duped into thinking that we're just brainwashed we're just um tricked by feminism yada yada yada

00:48:26.660 no no no no they gave us a million dollars put us in a mansion and a lot of us chose to party

00:48:32.740 and go crazy and then we want then we have a ton of debt going into a relationship we don't have

00:48:39.300 any relationship skills and a lot of times we're looking for a get out of jail free card and

00:48:45.300 society shames men into accepting this they say you're not a real man you're not a real man

00:48:51.940 unless you provide for a woman even if that woman has had a ton of debt and has a decade to save

00:48:57.460 money for a family and children she's had a decade to save no they say you're not a real man if you

00:49:07.860 don't get married and they shame men for picking to be bachelors why

00:49:16.340 i i don't remember the verse but i know there's a verse that says

00:49:21.380 there's nothing worse than being with a quarrelsome wife something like that so 1.00

00:49:25.460 So if the majority of women are overweight, have debt, high body counts, how can you blame 0.74

00:49:32.440 men if they choose to just go the bachelor life? 0.97

00:49:35.600 I'm not saying one is right or one is wrong, but my point is one is shamed.

00:49:40.180 They're saying one is bad.

00:49:43.540 Okay.

00:49:45.480 The rest of the article says, once again, California has chosen to prioritize illegal

00:49:50.900 immigration and fiscal irresponsibility over the needs of its citizens.

00:49:55.460 It's banning the program to include illegal immigrants is not just another handout. 0.89

00:50:00.740 It's a massive overreach that shifts the financial burden to law abiding taxpayers.

00:50:06.420 Meanwhile, Golden State residents and others took to social media to brand the plan nonsense evil.

00:50:11.800 One critic called for the taxpayer revolt in which, while another said the funds should be instead go to homeless veterans.

00:50:19.880 and you know partially you have empathy for these older women that are out on their own

00:50:28.240 but at the end of the day life is about choices and trade-offs and many of them

00:50:33.320 made irresponsible choices they voted democrat they chose not to get married

00:50:40.400 and I'm not saying this is her by the way I don't know her personal story but

00:50:45.200 what I'm saying is this is going to be common and I don't think sympathy is warranted because

00:50:51.880 many made poor choices financially. Many voted Democrat. Many were not nice to men

00:50:58.360 in their youth. They weren't even polite. They said they hated men. I've even seen the hashtag

00:51:05.300 kill all men. Men are trash. And they expect some sort of sympathy when there are consequences to 1.00

00:51:14.040 these decisions there is no right or wrong but life is about choices and trade-offs and what

00:51:21.380 I don't like is when people make certain choices and they complain about the consequence of them

00:51:27.240 so that's my show today guys that's all I got make sure you like the video and subscribe to

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Pearl - October 18, 2024

Are MODERN WOMEN Headed For A Life Of LONELINESS And REGRET？｜ Pearl Daily

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Pearl - October 18, 2024

Are MODERN WOMEN Headed For A Life Of LONELINESS And REGRET？ ｜ Pearl Daily

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Are MODERN WOMEN Headed For A Life Of LONELINESS And REGRET？｜ Pearl Daily