Pearl - August 31, 2025


As Much As I Hate To Say It： Virginity Is No Longer An Option For Modern Men

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In this episode, I sit down with author, author, speaker, and author of the book "The Virgin Bride" to talk about his new book, "The Best Girl in the Church" and why you should be a virgin.

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00:00:00.000 and so the virgin women go into these churches if they try to date normal guys the guys are like i'm 0.98
00:00:05.680 not i'm not waiting for marriage i don't even know if you're a virgin right yeah and the problem with
00:00:10.640 the guys in the church is most of them don't have a ton of experience with women so they don't know
00:00:16.000 how to hold frame in a relationship they don't know how to tell women no and they automatically 0.99
00:00:22.000 default to the woman um i mean when i was in the church i mean i would say the majority of even
00:00:29.040 couples in churches the woman still runs the relationship uh oh my gosh there's a lot of
00:00:36.400 simping in the church like they the pastors will go on stage and say oh like they'll they'll do like
00:00:42.880 a monologue not dedicated to god but to their wife it never ends and it makes sense but like you said
00:00:49.360 it's 2025 and there's no virgin women anymore and a virgin man is going to get taken advantage of
00:00:56.480 so like yeah it is ideal to wait till marriage but it's kind of not an option i think you're 0.98
00:01:01.840 gonna get screwed over i'm 30 now i caught up for lost times i went out there and had some sex but uh 0.89
00:01:12.080 but like there's no other i didn't i didn't even want to i wanted to wait till marriage but i was like 0.98
00:01:17.120 it's gonna up my life to do that uh so anyways i see you get that question from christians a lot
00:01:23.280 yeah and i agree with you i think you're right and this is uh christians i think are coping and 0.93
00:01:29.200 tell us to the muslims give me the shit about that all of the all the religions of the book give me 1.00
00:01:33.440 shit about this you know and i grew up in a muslim household so they're for them they're like this is 1.00
00:01:36.880 like oh you know 100 lashes worthy like you this is bad but like i tell them all the time like dude 0.99
00:01:42.240 look if you can be a virgin and find a virgin wife do it like go for it but it's just not feasible 1.00
00:01:47.680 advice for me to give that advice to men in 2025 knowing what's out there like guys i've seen
00:01:53.760 unspeakable foddery that i can never recover from and just knowing what i know it would be evil for
00:01:59.760 me to tell you guys to just stay a virgin and go get these like and go deal with these women dude it's 1.00
00:02:04.560 like i've seen girls do evil fucking shit tell a guy that they're a virgin make them pay uh 50 000 for 1.00
00:02:10.080 their virginity when they're not or lie to a guy and tell them that i did xyz get a hymen surgery to make 1.00
00:02:15.040 it look like they're still virgins or only do anal or whatever like i've seen horrible things so in 0.93
00:02:20.960 good faith of me knowing how women move and dealing with the women i've interviewed like 4 000 girls 0.91
00:02:25.680 been with a bunch of girls i cannot in good faith lie to the men like i'm gonna tell you what's out
00:02:31.120 there this is how i think you can deal with the problem you don't have to take my advice but i'm
00:02:35.120 not gonna lie to you guys and tell you like be a virgin be a good christian and you're gonna find a 0.99
00:02:39.440 wife that's setting you up that's a cruising for a fucking bruising man and then the scariest part 1.00
00:02:44.560 with the way the family courts are like not only will you get your heart broken you're gonna get 0.99
00:02:49.280 poor you're gonna live out your fucking car she's gonna take you to the cleaners a lot of times and 1.00
00:02:52.480 she's gonna take your kids so it's like i can't good faith tell any man that even if you know you're 1.00
00:02:58.080 the most religious guy i need to at least arm you with the information so you know what you're walking
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00:04:15.120 you get that uh question yeah i get a lot dude yeah yeah absolutely and i understand the people asking
00:04:20.160 that i even agree it is ideal to be a virgin uh it's just yeah but you're gonna get cooked i don't
00:04:26.240 know a single virgin guy i actually know i know one there's always one or two chads in the church
00:04:33.040 that take the virgin chick and they take the best girl in the church all the all the girls are after 1.00
00:04:39.200 him and then they get married and live happily ever after but the rest of them cooked they're so and
00:04:45.440 that's that's the thing you know a lot of people i don't know how to put it they think i'm you know
00:04:53.600 promoting degeneracy but i'm just saying you know i don't see virginity really for either gender being
00:05:01.920 effective like i i've seen women in those churches wait till marriage and they can't figure out why 1.00
00:05:08.560 they don't like the men there um and it's really because all the men are just trained to be simps
00:05:14.640 that worship women and so the virgin women go into these churches if they try to date normal guys 0.99
00:05:20.960 the guys are like i'm not i'm not waiting for marriage i don't even know if you're a virgin
00:05:24.960 right and then they date the guys in the church and a lot of these guys are just super simps you know
00:05:31.280 but then the men that are virgins in the church i mean they get either born again virgins or um
00:05:37.760 they just don't know how to lead a relationship or they get a a you know a nala ray um and and i
00:05:45.680 that's why it's tough because there is a part of me that you know i have a catholic upbringing and i think
00:05:52.560 well um
00:05:58.720 you know you don't want to promote degeneracy and a lot of they don't like when i say this i don't see it
00:06:04.240 working out for women either i've met 30 year old virgin women and the they're so controlling and 1.00
00:06:12.240 anxious about sex like they just think they're gonna die if they have sex and there's so much
00:06:18.480 pressure on whoever they lose their virginity to it's like the guy can't live up to it um and they
00:06:24.960 they die alone too you guys um i i always i get a lot of pushback for this opinion but
00:06:35.120 i've seen it i've seen the 30 year old women who think none of the guys are godly enough because 0.89
00:06:39.760 they want to have sex um and it they'll shoot themselves in the foot with what would have been 0.99
00:06:46.560 a good relationship because they're just so anxious about it um it's not that's just not how it goes
00:06:53.840 anymore yeah and marriages are optimal like if the woman's the virgin or has like less than five body 1.00
00:06:58.400 count like you know those have the highest uh marriage rates especially if she's a virgin but 1.00
00:07:02.480 dude just nowadays it's like damn near impossible man it's just like and you know the scary part is
00:07:07.920 like i've noticed this trend as i've like been interviewing girls on my show girls are losing
00:07:11.680 their virginity younger and younger and younger man like the guys are still losing their virginies like
00:07:16.560 between 21 to somewhere in their mid-20s like 18 okay so what i see again is i see a bigger difference
00:07:25.200 in women it's either the clueless women or the women playing the game the women playing the game 1.00
00:07:31.200 i see them losing their virginities younger and younger the clueless women i see them actually 1.00
00:07:36.880 losing their virginities older but the problem is they are so unlikable and clueless to what men want
00:07:45.360 because they they spend no time with the guy and again i think i set out a show that for certain women 1.00
00:07:53.600 a slut phase will get them married and i get a lot of pushback for that but you don't know how far 0.96
00:08:01.760 behind like i just think some of you guys have never met these extremely socially awkward extremely 0.99
00:08:09.920 unlikable women that really they're not going to learn until they get pumped and dumped once or twice 1.00
00:08:17.440 because what happens is a pump and dump humbles a woman right that's how a lot of get women get 1.00
00:08:25.680 married they get pumped and dumped and then they're like oh and then they you know you kind of go to your
00:08:31.280 league but these women they get a big ego because they've never played the game they've never they 1.00
00:08:38.640 just get these huge egos they think you know they're god's gift to the earth even though because
00:08:44.240 you know they're pure but really it's just they're really unlikable so what happens is
00:08:50.160 they like the longer they go without having interactions with men or getting some experience
00:08:58.720 the weirder they get that that's what i've seen between the two like if i had to categorize
00:09:06.720 the women i've met um you know because how do i put it like there's a difference between women that 1.00
00:09:17.280 were raised to be wives waiting so women that wait till marriage but their mother taught them how to be a 1.00
00:09:25.600 good wife they're a different category and there's the women that were not and the women that were not 0.68
00:09:33.760 taught how to do that have a very difficult time waiting till marriage because they weren't taught
00:09:39.200 how to defer to a man they weren't taught like they weren't taught any of these basic things so
00:09:47.680 they're like i guess purity or whatever it's not it doesn't help because they have to learn
00:09:53.280 to be more likable and how to be in a relationship does that make sense guys um
00:09:59.120 and if you haven't been in some of these churches like anybody that's been in these churches
00:10:04.480 knows the women i'm talking about yeah you just know