Pearl - Average Women Are Living Better Lives Than Queens and Celebrities and Are Still Not Happy

00:00:00.000 of a dozen women being asked the following question do we need men most answered very 0.96

00:00:07.040 quickly no because men are useless i mean this headline from the hill it caught my eye

00:00:14.240 most young men are single most young women are not young men have fallen faster than 0.98

00:00:19.280 any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different world now like we don't need men

00:00:24.000 the way that they used to the future is female men and women are drifting further apart and 0.75

00:00:32.880 society is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage

00:00:38.960 you've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing this men's rights crowd that sometimes just

00:00:43.680 goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually

00:00:48.560 become men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's a machine designed to extract resources 1.00

00:00:54.560 from you now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that is bad for men to get married

00:01:00.080 hannah pearl davis or just pearly things one of the most controversial faces in all of the

00:01:06.720 internet she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men because if me and you were

00:01:11.040 in a business contract you would never sign a contract where i am paid to leave gee what could

00:01:15.840 could go wrong there. 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. Men have everything to 0.99

00:01:22.180 lose, primarily their own children. Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. I had no idea

00:01:27.840 that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law. Because in family court, you

00:01:32.860 don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse. You need no evidence. When you guys say get married

00:01:37.420 young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for, and you're not going to be there

00:01:41.060 when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:43.180 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:45.400 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:48.020 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:50.180 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:52.540 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:53.960 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:55.860 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:58.280 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 0.99

00:02:00.220 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:02:02.560 Family is a foundation of society.

00:02:04.160 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:07.480 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole 1.00

00:02:09.920 of happiness endless happiness feminism's biggest failures is it lies to women we tell women to date 1.00

00:02:14.480 as many guys as possible we tell them to put off family into marriage you are allowed to leave

00:02:18.880 your perfect husband you are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend oh 0.98

00:02:24.560 freeze your eggs i have an abortion what you're evil i don't think there's anything else in life 0.99

00:02:28.800 that we actually ever go into preparing to fail right like if you have the mentality of this is 0.97

00:02:33.360 going to go wrong and be pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to

00:02:37.440 fail anyway it's self-sabotage that's the thing like women are so willing to leave marriages 1.00

00:02:41.840 because they're not happy this is not about happiness the most important thing is the

00:02:46.400 children and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me me me my feelings leave

00:02:51.760 when i feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids this myth that we live in an age of

00:02:57.840 male privilege where's my male privilege they think well men have all the rights they have all

00:03:01.520 the power privilege patriarchal system that we have why doesn't our society care about men's rights 0.71

00:03:07.120 i have no friends no wife and no social life men are alone in this situation men are homeless

00:03:13.200 men are thinking about eating guns i've seen so many men on on the brink of suicide and they

00:03:18.160 didn't do anything wrong how are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to

00:03:23.920 defend the country the men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure women are 1.00

00:03:29.840 helplessly dependent upon men the so-called deaths of despair from suicide overdose to alcohol three

00:03:36.000 times higher among men than among women culture is telling men you are no good you got to get

00:03:40.980 your act together i think men have failed themselves what kind of a man are you what

00:03:44.780 kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble so are women everybody knows this 0.98

00:03:49.900 is a huge problem but nobody wants to admit it every single woman at the table said they wanted 1.00

00:03:54.920 a man 500k 500k 300k 200k am i crazy everything is really set up against you to fail as a man

00:04:00.460 if men make less than women women don't want to marry them so you know who wants more economically 1.00

00:04:05.760 and emotionally viable men women i don't want to be an independent woman anymore i don't want to be

00:04:12.560 a strong independent woman i'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men

00:04:17.600 that don't stop i can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you pearl 1.00

00:04:22.400 you simply no i think i think you said for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff but 1.00

00:04:26.720 pearl is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just 0.99

00:04:31.040 hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women 1.00

00:04:35.120 and can't find a husband. The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future. We go

00:04:40.580 into population decline and our economy goes into decline. Civilization will crumble. The

00:04:46.220 American story does not end well. This is an existential crisis failing young men. 0.95

00:04:57.860 What is up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network. Thank

00:05:04.620 you guys for tuning in. You guys could tune in anywhere and you choose to tune in here.

00:05:09.860 So I want to first start with saying thank you for the other donations on the GoFundMe. As you

00:05:16.600 guys know, we are looking to raise $100,000 for this divorce documentary. A lot of you guys have

00:05:25.060 asked where you can donate. So there's GoFundMe here. And all you do is you click donate now.

00:05:29.960 thank you to Robert, who just donated $5. Josh, who also donated anonymous and anonymous. So thank

00:05:37.960 you guys. We are at $38,050. The goal is to get to 100K. So yeah, if you guys want, I think we

00:05:46.020 might be able to get it done with 50 though. We'll see. We'll try to lobe all these people. 0.83

00:05:52.220 I don't know. Okay. So, all right, guys. Today, we're going to have a little update from last

00:05:59.380 show so as you guys know we had sadia khan on the podcast and it's really interesting because i

00:06:07.220 chose to not have her back on and she kind of went on all these shows and she started saying it was

00:06:12.980 because uh she cooked me or whatever um i didn't really know who she was when she came on my show 0.99

00:06:20.260 i just kind of had the recruiters do it at the time and what actually happened was she was really

00:06:26.740 rude to one of my employees I think she called one of my employees broke and I just couldn't

00:06:33.140 believe that this type broad had that attitude yeah it was it was king she she said some super 0.71

00:06:40.420 disrespectful stuff to him at the time one of my old producers in England um

00:06:45.440 so this is all coming out now that she's like a crash out or whatever

00:06:52.420 and I'm not really that shocked so let me play this video. Sadia Khan is crashing the hell out

00:07:00.100 right now while more and more about her life is being exposed and I got to personally talk to her

00:07:06.400 about it. Let's get into it. So to start who is Sadia Khan or as people are now calling her 0.72

00:07:13.320 Sadia Khan? I understand that it sounds like I'm just saying the same things twice. This is really

00:07:19.800 more of one of those things where you have to see it spelled. It's kind of like saying tomato

00:07:24.160 tomato through text. Anyway, Sadia Khan is a woman who has been described as a psychologist,

00:07:30.540 a psychotherapist, and a relationship expert. She first gained fame in 2023 after appearing on the

00:07:37.760 School of Greatness podcast with Lewis Howes. Here she really won people over with her beauty 0.52

00:07:43.780 and elegant, articulate way of speaking. She described her impressive educational background

00:07:49.800 and made clear that her goal with social media was to make online therapy more accessible.

00:07:56.220 She blew up and started getting hundreds of millions of views almost overnight. I believe

00:08:02.280 I learned about Sadia Khan sometime earlier this year, probably around the same time she was on

00:08:07.900 the Jay Shetty show. Just like about everyone else, I thought she was extremely charming and

00:08:13.240 the bits and pieces that i did hear her speak on i found myself really agreeing with and when you

00:08:18.200 look at a woman like sadia khan you see someone so graceful so almost flawless that it seems almost

00:08:26.200 impossible to imagine i mean she kind of just looked like your standard instagram girl to me

00:08:31.080 but okay that behind that silky hair and high fashion there could be someone so snake-like 1.00

00:08:44.280 and nasty and vindictive that they would tell a woman that she could easily suck her husband's 1.00

00:08:51.800 dick and yet here we are for myself and a lot of the internet the great unraveling of sadia khan 1.00

00:09:00.500 actually being potentially one of the shrillest hag ravens to ever cosplay as a decent human being 0.99

00:09:07.460 began in August of 2025 from a user who goes by Goob. Goob is known for exposing influencers who

00:09:15.360 photoshop their photos and videos. And I'm not just talking a filter here and there, I mean taking

00:09:21.340 entire inches off their waist. Usually taking a bit of the background with them, giving Goob

00:09:28.920 just enough rope to hang them by. Goob doesn't only cover fitness influencers, though. If you

00:09:35.240 are any kind of influencer who claims that you're healed and able to help other people through your

00:09:41.440 coaching, Goob believes that it is intellectually dishonest to say so while still photoshopping your

00:09:48.120 own photos. And that is how the worlds of Goob and Sadia Khan unite. Motivational speaking man coach

00:09:56.600 that's supposed to she is bigger in person 0.99

00:09:59.080 i mean people say that about me too so i'm not really trying to do but

00:10:06.040 it doesn't surprise me that she uses the filters and the whatnot 0.56

00:10:10.620 show you how to be a confident successful man in dating relationships

00:10:15.340 editing her own photos and videos sadia khan welcome to the show this is sadia khan 741 000

00:10:24.300 followers you can book a call with her she promises that for just a few thousand dollars you're going

00:10:28.960 to be able to master yourself master women and master relationships she wants to make sure that 0.95

00:10:33.000 you're confident emotionally strong free from baggage don't worry guys the program's not too

00:10:38.420 much to develop all this confidence from sadia just a paltry 6 000 gbp which in freedom bucks is

00:10:44.320 like 6 500 just a few months of rent for the average american no problem at all here's a good

00:10:49.520 clip that sadia posted about facing your own realities and truths thing to sell to women

00:10:54.800 because it's but it's the reality i'm majority of men's not their dream girl it's not the another

00:11:00.000 world with that but it's it takes a self-esteem to understand here's the thing people who have

00:11:04.000 high self-esteem attached to truths they enjoy truths truth means something to them truth means

00:11:09.760 something to them huh let's take a look at this clip all right guys now just keep in mind she's 0.99

00:11:13.920 a high confidence woman truth means something to her why is there a waste filter on this 0.52

00:11:19.280 public speaking engagement video of you sadia what is going on here what like look it's just

00:11:25.120 bending warping getting disintegrated my enemies always take themselves out

00:11:30.820 truly if you look at this photo of just her full body you see there's a waste filter here and it's 1.00

00:11:37.300 not attached to the shadow big miss there sadia i have a better offer for you than this six

00:11:42.760 thousand dollars somebody could pay you to be a man i'm currently hosting my very own

00:11:47.140 you get it i respect guys like goob because i feel like a lot of us miss that kind of thing

00:11:53.060 i wouldn't have noticed i would not have noticed like i would probably never notice that but goob

00:12:00.740 is an actual physical trainer so i've got to imagine a lot of this fake unattainable body

00:12:06.580 image stuff makes his job a lot harder anyway given our history of sadia khan university trained

00:12:14.020 analytical elegant respected how do you think how did she get on all these podcasts 0.53

00:12:20.820 when it turns out she's not even a real psychologist she's gonna go into that she

00:12:24.580 responded do you think she a ignored the criticism not giving it any attention b admitted to

00:12:32.180 photoshopping and moved on or c crashed out and started throwing a well-documented adult temper

00:12:39.780 tantrum online i fear we all know where this is going sadia khan respond it really doesn't

00:12:46.020 surprise me because i saw how she responded to my employees and i'm like they just put you in this

00:12:51.900 studio and we're super accommodating to you and you you're gonna crash out on him really 0.99

00:13:00.060 he allowed you to do your job that's what a lot of women do they shit on the men that allows them 1.00

00:13:05.040 to do their job. This is to Goob's video and a comment on her own personal account that reads 0.99

00:13:11.080 5'1 porn addict mad at women who exposed their addictions and inability to get women. Shock!

00:13:20.280 To which Goob simply creates a montage of himself with his, if I may say, exceedingly hot partner

00:13:28.360 of several years. Not much research went into that comeback, I'm afraid. But that's not all

00:13:34.860 what sadia khan would continue to do next would change a lot of people's opinion about her okay 1.00

00:13:40.700 so this story is getting very bizarre this is sadia khan the online influencer psychologist

00:13:47.180 that promises she can show you how to attract women be a better man and fix your relationship 1.00

00:13:52.620 i did a story on her the other day because she edits her videos and i thought it was very funny

00:13:56.460 i criticized her in the video because it was very obvious that she puts waste filters on 0.99

00:14:00.220 any video where her full body is shown and in a lot of the videos she's talking about

00:14:04.060 how much self-confidence she has and how she knows what she is blah blah blah blah blah and 0.93

00:14:08.700 that's what's necessary to attract the partner etc etc but when i called her out she lost her 1.00

00:14:14.480 goddamn mind now i've been about 48 hours and she has spent the last two days accusing my followers 0.98

00:14:20.000 of let's read some of these comments the saudia psychology says karen with a full face filter 1.00

00:14:26.040 and yeast infection telling me about my why is a 35 year old woman going back and forth 1.00

00:14:34.460 with strangers in the comment section

00:14:40.380 just can't imagine spending my day like this myself girl you need my videos to know why your 0.99

00:14:45.820 man keeps cheating boy you know you're a porn addict and you have to pay to see we both know 1.00

00:14:53.020 this about you midget you look like you are into animal porn this is all wildly specific too specific 1.00

00:15:03.020 being animal porn addicts being cheaters being prostitutes and everything in between but today 0.99

00:15:09.100 she started a new trend these are videos that my followers sent me this person left a comment on 0.98

00:15:14.940 her page and she tried to call them times and then when they wouldn't pick up she left the 0.99

00:15:20.220 threatening message that you'll see scroll by that's crazy here pick up bitch or i'm gonna 1.00

00:15:25.900 to post your address online and here's another one from another one of my followers don't act 0.99

00:15:31.480 brave this is sadia's husband pick up come on oh my gosh on don't be scared now you want to speak

00:15:43.920 to my wife pick up don't be scared pick up pick up don't be scared don't be scared pick up calling

00:15:52.800 over and over and over and over again more threats this is a person that sells one-on-one 0.84

00:15:59.800 phone call coaching bullshits should i buy it

00:16:04.040 for 6 000 gbp which i understand now is 8 000 usd on how to be a high value man but hey guys i can 0.92

00:16:14.980 save you the 6 000 gbp if you want to call for free from sadia just leave a troll comment on her 0.68

00:16:21.240 page she'll try to call you over and over and over yeah women go on the internet and can't take it 1.00

00:16:26.940 when the internet internet's i mean it's the internet you know what i mean free of charge

00:16:31.700 that many voice calls is crazy and y'all really think it was the husband or and like goob points

00:16:39.480 out this really deprecates the value of her one-on-one calls for eight thousand dollars

00:16:46.540 like myself at this point a lot of people started switching up on sadia some comments read i used

00:16:53.480 to think she was calm soft-spoken and reserved did not expect that juvenile response from her

00:16:59.820 wow meanwhile others have been waiting for the other shoe to drop with her for a while now 0.66

00:17:05.480 this woman writes i've realized that about her she was someone i used to look up to thinking

00:17:10.420 she was different from the others on social media boy was i wrong and then this user writes

00:17:16.260 this is who she is and has been the whole time. Glad to see people waking up. Now that last

00:17:23.420 commenter, Dr. Taylor Burroughs, is a creator who has had a long-standing beef with Sadia Khan

00:17:29.400 since 2024, but we'll get down that rabbit hole in just a minute. Before we do, Goob dropped one

00:17:35.640 more video about Sadia Khan after much buildup in anticipation. Text overlay reads, this is a

00:17:42.200 recorded conversation between sadia khan after she was discovered to be the side piece of an

00:17:47.140 engaged man his fiancee confronted her the following screenshots are texts that sadia

00:17:54.140 and the cheating fiancee shared what are you gonna do about it i'll stop it and i can do it today if

00:18:00.580 i want to go on your wedding day okay well we'll see i've been in situations where he's been with

00:18:07.240 The only question is, is this AI? 1.00

00:18:11.220 Because that's the only, like, we all want to jump on the woman who shit on my employee for no reason. 1.00

00:18:20.740 But that's my question. 0.99

00:18:22.080 It could be AI.

00:18:23.880 He'll call me after.

00:18:25.740 This is the biggest scandal that Sadia Khan doesn't want you to know about her.

00:18:30.280 She preaches on her page and on her content that she's a high-value woman.

00:18:35.140 She can teach you how to attract... 1.00

00:18:36.460 Whores being whores. Next. Do you know what I mean? It's like, it's so typical. So typical. 1.00

00:18:48.400 Okay. So today I'm going to do a different kind of show a little bit.

00:18:52.400 I actually want to read you guys something I wrote.

00:18:55.740 and what I was thinking is I would tell you I was basically writing about if I was going to

00:19:08.620 describe to someone from a hundred years ago what's going on today okay I wanted to think

00:19:17.720 about how I would tell someone from a hundred years ago or even older people like my dad who

00:19:24.360 aren't really on social media or at the events or in these cities. What's going on amongst young 0.92

00:19:30.300 people? There is a certain cadence talking to an older person. They just don't get it. Why don't

00:19:35.980 you get married like your parents did? Gen Z and millennials tell their parents it's not that 0.98

00:19:40.560 simple because again, boomers just don't get it. Modern women have been awarded the lives of 0.97

00:19:47.520 celebrities and still are not happy. A few things to understand about female nature. 1.00

00:19:53.940 Women have an undying need for attention. 1.00

00:19:56.600 Women love excitement. 1.00

00:19:57.760 Women hate feeling left out. 1.00

00:19:59.860 Women always want to feel like they are dating the best guy that they can, and women are 1.00

00:20:04.260 selfish. 0.95

00:20:05.380 Here's the problem.

00:20:06.300 We have an entire social infrastructure built around making women happy who can never be 1.00

00:20:11.980 happy.

00:20:13.600 On top of that, women make 80% of consumer buying decisions, even though they do not 1.00

00:20:20.660 make the majority of the income. This makes corporations and men in particular enslaved

00:20:29.920 to appeasing women who, again, cannot be happy. Now on our social media. Social media gives women 0.99

00:20:38.620 the ability to monetize their looks. A female doctor who has been practicing for a year can 1.00

00:20:43.240 build a bigger following than a neurosurgeon who has been practicing for a decade because she is

00:20:48.260 pretty. Social media has given women the ability to put very little effort into dating, making 1.00

00:20:54.020 money, and accessing community, but still get huge results. These are some of the trends that I'm

00:21:00.780 seeing. Trends in dating. Women are moving to major cities to be side chicks to top men and 0.63

00:21:08.380 have sugar daddies pay for their lifestyle. An example is something I saw on Twitter,

00:21:13.980 which is a woman talking about her life in new york let me share this

00:21:22.160 let me do exactly that influencers record a day in the life they usually pick their busy

00:21:31.080 stay to show you exactly what they're doing let me do exactly that welcome to a day in my life

00:21:34.660 started off the morning with some morning sunshine got a little bloom energy drink in me and then

00:21:38.040 headed over to hot pilates i go to practice room my favorite studio i go almost every single day

00:21:42.120 have to work out in the morning it has to be part of my routine i don't like feel right if i don't

00:21:45.320 so usually i do run practice room or lift weights in the morning i also like didn't really record

00:21:48.920 this class because i feel bad recording in studios that people pay for this i kind of want to like

00:21:52.120 record them you know what i mean and i immediately went to go get a post-workout smoothie protein

00:21:56.360 shake so good then i had therapy for an hour yes hot girls do go to therapy i had to get ready really 1.00

00:22:01.160 quickly because i booked a studio on pure space in brooklyn so i had to go grab matcha honestly i

00:22:05.080 don't usually go to blank space what blank space okay taylor swift blank street but like it was

00:22:10.440 just right next to the subway like i don't really like it that much i'm gonna be honest studio i was

00:22:13.960 going to shoot for one brand but then i found out i had to actually shoot for two brands so

00:22:17.560 i was trying to like game plan because i only had two hours in the studio and if i stayed over then

00:22:21.160 i get to pay overtime so i kind of just was being sporadic for two hours i blacked out i don't really

00:22:25.240 remember what i did and then left went to sushi counter immediately because i was starving regular

00:22:29.960 there but you would never know because i don't have my punch card ever so i'm never getting put 0.87

00:22:33.080 on the damn wall another coffee shop because oh my god how many drinks can izzy have in one day 1.00

00:22:36.440 i don't know don't stay home at all during the work week i just like like to be out of the house 0.99

00:22:40.040 at all times so i always do my editing out of the house then i realized it was 7 p.m because the

00:22:43.880 coffee shop it closed so i went to go grab some groceries came home i made this little like

00:22:48.360 watermelon salad situation and then was editing and then love island reunion turned on and i was

00:22:53.400 like i got i gotta watch did you guys see that did i share my screen

00:23:04.280 Average women are dating celebrities. 0.99

00:23:26.460 Women used to marry their high school sweetheart, and that was enough. 1.00

00:23:30.980 But why would women settle for their college love when they could shoot for the stars and try to marry or even just sleep with celebrities? 1.00

00:23:40.280 I really see three types of women in dating. 1.00

00:23:43.120 There's the clueless versus the clued in women. 1.00

00:23:46.420 Clueless women are generally less attractive or socially awkward, but not in a cute way. 1.00

00:23:51.980 They pacify their need to interact with men for sex and use hobby communities to take place of family and intimacy. 0.87

00:23:59.480 um what they are into is their safety blanket clueless women may not get a chance with 1.00

00:24:07.920 celebrities but usually feel superior at their job which gives which is generally given to them

00:24:12.760 because they are a woman they're unable to have sex um but they will try to use purity 0.99

00:24:19.020 as a reason to claim superiority over normal functioning women 1.00

00:24:22.780 um i think of riley when not that she was claiming purity but when i think of the socially awkward

00:24:33.020 woman i think of here this girl 0.99

00:24:38.860 riley i'm 24 i'm from houston texas

00:24:46.460 do men deserve to be lonely that was the center of the okay

00:24:54.140 then there's the clued in women these are the women running circles around men they have figured 1.00

00:25:08.640 out the game and learned to play it better than other women they get the benefits of men's time 1.00

00:25:13.520 and resources with minimal sexual output the caveat they do put out to guys they deem attractive

00:25:19.840 for free but these are the women with sugar daddies and that are experts at getting time 1.00

00:25:25.440 attention and resources from them these women will often have a sugar daddy a sneaky link and 1.00

00:25:30.800 a guy that pays for their dinner and simp orbiters an example um these are maybe they'll use it to

00:25:38.560 start in only fans let's see so like these are kind of the archetype of the women that have 0.97

00:25:44.000 figured out they're in these big cities i don't want to play the music these are the girls in 1.00

00:25:49.920 the bop house they go to these big cities and they just run circles around them either it's through 0.96

00:25:55.920 only fans um sugar daddies whatever

00:26:04.720 these were the women that used to be married to the jock on the football team in high school 0.57

00:26:11.520 but now they're on only fans or chasing celebrity and a lifestyle that is unattainable

00:26:18.620 then there's the women that have opted out these are the women that have gone through trauma and

00:26:23.700 have opted out of the dating market some have a sneaky link that they'll go to every month or so

00:26:29.420 or a couple of months. But these are the women that can't take an L. They had something bad 1.00

00:26:36.160 happen to them or maybe made a bad choice and have stopped trying. A lot of these women get fat, 1.00

00:26:45.160 stop accepting dates, and simply do not date for years. Many of them replaced their boyfriend with

00:26:54.240 their friend group. Men are having a harder and harder time getting women's attention. Every year,

00:26:59.960 the difference between the men that have and the have-nots is getting bigger. Learning to simply 0.68

00:27:04.700 entertain women has become a part-time job for men. So unfortunately, a lot of men that do the

00:27:09.420 hard jobs in society do not get women because they simply do not have time to entertain these broads. 1.00

00:27:15.620 There's a few reasons for this. One, there are more celebrities and average women are dating them. 1.00

00:27:20.680 Because of social media, it's allowed more men to be famous while not really doing a hard job.

00:27:28.580 And more women are chasing those celebrities. 1.00

00:27:33.580 Average men are not only competing with celebrities, but women's attention being elsewhere.

00:27:42.700 There are events, clubs, and other things that entertain the women on the weekends. 0.99

00:27:49.460 women are treated like celebrities and invited to events that treat them like celebrities 0.99

00:27:54.480 they're either treated like a celebrity on social media at random events or getting

00:27:59.620 attractive from young men in hobby groups this adds a ego that men have no idea what to do with

00:28:09.180 don't watch this short so yeah that's

00:28:19.460 How is a man supposed to entertain a woman like that and have her be happy with just 1.00

00:28:37.040 an average life with an average guy when she's been on yachts, on boats, and at parties

00:28:42.800 with celebrities streamers and some of the most successful people on the planet

00:28:53.680 the other problem is we all know that the more partners a woman has the less ability she has to 1.00

00:28:58.400 bond women have the ability to sleep around anonymously through travel and dating apps 1.00

00:29:03.600 women have taken the power and enough women have been forced publicly that women's past 1.00

00:29:08.160 is not as damaging in the sexual marketplace as it used to be. We're in a society of open

00:29:13.180 whoredom. It's harder for women to hide their past because there are cameras everywhere. 1.00

00:29:18.000 Texts will be sent. Nudes are sent. However, women have so much power that they don't even 1.00

00:29:23.760 need the ability to be young and pure to enter marriage, with the average marriage being

00:29:29.520 30 years old and rising. Men get really upset, talking about a woman's body count, of course, 0.86

00:29:35.820 in the beginning but eventually most do adapt and accept it now let's talk about the workforce

00:29:42.780 what i'm seeing in the workforce is men being robbed in real time working trends women are 0.99

00:29:49.260 working useless jobs in marketing project management human resources social media

00:29:55.180 usually the women at work have the men do the work for them so here the girls 1.00

00:30:01.500 she will maybe go back i'll show you actually some of the examples at the end i'm going to read

00:30:07.800 through it another way women are working is social media conservative women are using their 1.00

00:30:21.500 husbands and their relationships to build their brands and make money to further have independence 0.59

00:30:26.860 from their husbands while claiming that they are not. It's the ultimate form of gaslighting.

00:30:33.760 Women have more power with social media because they can ruin a man's reputation, but 1.00

00:30:38.560 that is going to cause a problem. The men that don't adapt will be left behind. I'm not sure

00:30:47.480 if infrastructure jobs will have public social media profiles, but I've seen an influx of men

00:30:53.780 with real jobs starting channels like lawyers, pilots, etc. I don't know if that means the

00:30:59.420 future everyone will have to have a personal brand or how this will pay out, but it seems like the

00:31:04.180 men that opt out of social media do get left behind, whether it's at work, in the sexual

00:31:09.080 marketplace, or other. I wonder if the entertainer class will out-earn the infrastructure class

00:31:15.900 forever, because it seems like it's going that way right now. Conservative commentator women 0.93

00:31:21.620 have their husbands take the risk that generally men would take nick fuentes took the risk and he

00:31:27.700 is the one who took the consequences of freedom of speech but we have women like candace owens 1.00

00:31:32.340 brett cooper admitting that their husbands took that consequence that's what you see a lot in

00:31:37.620 social media a lot of women taking the risk for freedom of speech or making content and they're 1.00

00:31:42.980 men picking up the pieces they're men having to clean up the mess corporate america many women 0.98

00:31:50.420 have useless jobs in corporate america the men do the the men at work do most of the work while 0.90

00:31:56.100 the women gossip by the water cooler and oftentimes they use the men to solve their problems the men 0.97

00:32:01.460 are not unhappy per se to help them men are helpful beings but they tend to be but women 1.00

00:32:07.060 tend to be a distraction at the workplace and the real ego hit comes when the male employees 0.99

00:32:12.260 do their bosses jobs and get paid less i see average women replacing men's jobs and being 1.00

00:32:18.660 given positions they don't deserve and speaking with authority they don't have. Being on camera

00:32:23.500 used to have a high barrier of entry and now every other woman is doing it and speaking in front of 1.00

00:32:28.160 people. Here is an example of a woman I see doing that all the time. I'll show you guys quick. 1.00

00:32:40.520 We have entered the era that I call the death of the modern day girl boss. Hear me out, when you 1.00

00:32:46.140 picture a girl boss you picture a girl walking around in a pantsuit stressed out her calendar 0.97

00:32:51.040 stacked she walks in a room she's working with all guys and just overall in her masculine very 0.95

00:32:56.100 stressed out right well this is just simply not the case see your modern day girl boss 0.99

00:33:00.720 she's walking around at 2 p.m on a tuesday just got out of pilates not only

00:33:05.000 are women taking men's money but they're also throwing it in their face drives a nice car 1.00

00:33:13.340 makes a lot of money but somehow does it online and you're like how does this girl live such an 1.00

00:33:18.360 amazing life she's not really that stressed out like her work-life balance is insane this is just

00:33:23.060 simply the reality of a lot of the women that are making money nowadays yes they're in their girl 1.00

00:33:27.700 boss masculine when they're working but they work so they can build their soft life around their

00:33:33.140 work-life balance but the key is like they're giving their lifestyle to themselves because

00:33:37.380 they work so hard and they don't go in the office they don't have a boss they're just like vibing

00:33:41.780 you're like what the hell is it i full-heartedly believe that high ticket sales is bringing about

00:33:51.300 it's not necessarily that these women are doing anything wrong 1.00

00:33:54.820 but we're in a society where women speak with authority over men without the skills to back it up 1.00

00:34:05.140 in a way men are modern day slaves because no matter what they do women rob them they get a 0.99

00:34:10.660 a lower paycheck in corporate america and have to do the woman's work men get robbed in divorce if 1.00

00:34:16.420 they fail in love men get robbed through their taxes here are some society trends that i see

00:34:23.220 i see online communities being more consistent than real life communities i personally have

00:34:28.180 never had a community where i lived till after middle school i personally have never had a

00:34:34.820 of community where I live since middle school. It seems like mean girls will stay forever. When I 1.00

00:34:41.360 was in middle school, I remember the catastrophic effect it had on my life after social media was

00:34:46.720 introduced. I got a Facebook and realized I was not invited to a lot of things the

00:34:51.140 quote-unquote popular girls were going to, but I was never bothered because I had no idea.

00:34:58.600 However, kid me was very devastated to find out I wasn't invited to a lot of stuff.

00:35:04.820 it seems like that is going to continue into adulthood with women i see women posting their 0.94

00:35:10.680 hangouts and get togethers in a way social media has continued high school forever with women 1.00

00:35:16.340 always looking for communities where in high in well women are always looking for communities 0.99

00:35:25.780 where in the social hierarchy they can be the popular girl keeping up with the joneses used 1.00

00:35:30.860 to be confined to your neighborhood. Now it's global. I see women do, the next trend I see is 1.00

00:35:39.260 I see women in the middle class and even lower class doing things that were meant for upper class 1.00

00:35:45.220 people or high class people 10 years ago. And I have seen an uptick in higher class people opting

00:35:50.880 out of those things. The first thing I see is eating at restaurants. When I was a kid, my family

00:35:55.900 did not even eat out because we were one of 10 and it was too expensive. Pretty much nobody I knew

00:36:01.720 ate out on a regular basis. Now I see women eating out probably every other day. Concerts used to be 1.00

00:36:10.160 for rich people. Meeting celebrities used to be for rich people. International travel used to be

00:36:15.320 for rich people. Name brands used to be for rich people. Being a homeowner used to be for rich

00:36:22.660 people. Sports cars used to be for rich people. Now women can get a sugar daddy to pay for it 1.00

00:36:28.400 or run it out. Super fashionable clothing used to be for rich people. Society has become a

00:36:34.300 popularity contest that no one has time for and only women can afford because they're stealing 1.00

00:36:40.140 men's money. Privacy has now become a thing of the past because women have brought cameras into 1.00

00:36:45.340 everything and use those cameras to bring their, to build their personal brand. Female gossip is 1.00

00:36:52.180 not new. In small towns, it's known that grandmas knew all of the gossip. However, social media has 0.99

00:36:59.660 given women so much power that they have a list of pretty much, they can have a list of pretty 1.00

00:37:05.960 much every person you know and can upload information about men. Where does this end?

00:37:11.540 Families are not the norm anymore and are pretty much going to be gone forever. Women are going to 1.00

00:37:18.660 thirst trap forever. Single motherhood is skyrocketing and it's going to keep going up. 0.99

00:37:24.800 Prostitution is going to be out in the open. The birth rate will keep dropping and marriage is 0.90

00:37:29.120 dead. Women are going to have kids older and older, leading to more kids being special needs. 1.00

00:37:35.500 The end game for women in our society is divorce. If the woman is still married, generally the woman 1.00

00:37:42.040 is overweight overweight in a sexless marriage and half the time they are separated

00:37:46.520 or never married you're going to see an influx of older women living together in apartments or 1.00

00:37:53.240 living communities nursing homes and retirement communities women now can live the life of a 0.99

00:37:59.400 celebrity even as a sex worker playboy has turned into extreme sex acts on only fans it could be

00:38:09.640 And marriage is a death trap for many men.

00:38:18.060 So I'm going to show some videos which can show you some of the trends that I'm seeing.

00:38:26.540 Let me do this one actually.

00:38:39.640 Oh, wait. Okay. Actually, I'm going to pause that because we have a special guest coming on.

00:38:46.720 We have a special guest, the man, the myth, the legend, Cappy.

00:38:55.500 Hey, how you doing? Can you hear me all right?

00:38:58.220 I can hear you. Perfect.

00:39:01.800 Okay, cool. Because you're coming in robotic-y, so I don't know if it's me or you,

00:39:05.840 but I am traveling, so there's a good chance it's me.

00:39:09.640 I can hear you fine. Maybe we'll ask the chat. So I was doing a show on societal trends, guys, and I wanted Cappy to come on and tell me how many women are engaging in sex work. Because I've tried to calculate the number myself, and they keep telling me it's too high. And I'm not the best at math, so I'm like, I very well could be wrong.

00:39:34.300 well let's let's first not worry about the math because it's going to be simple division but what

00:39:40.180 is your methodology let's start with that and we'll we'll see if that has veracity we'll go

00:39:44.960 from there do you know what i think at the time there was a tiktok i did and i was on the show

00:39:50.840 and i just calculated the number of women that were in gen z and then the number i then i looked 0.89

00:39:57.680 at the number of only fans workers and i asked what percent were under 25 and it was like 80 percent

00:40:04.300 and then i took that and i was like we divide that by the number of women that are in gen z

00:40:09.500 and that was and i got like i got like that was how i did it and that was just only fans

00:40:14.940 um that and i did it live on the show but i can't remember somebody told me i was wrong

00:40:21.180 and so i was like let me just bring capi on he's smarter than me

00:40:25.260 so what i like your uh the logic in it but what percent of only fans women are americans 1.00

00:40:33.660 versus globally oh i looked at that's gonna be the hard one oh okay so you did a conference so we're

00:40:38.540 looking yeah so we're looking at american only fans girls yes divided by the gen z population

00:40:45.420 that's that's pretty good um i would say only fans isn't relegated to uh under 25 but i mean that's

00:40:53.580 it's a pretty good start so do you remember what your numbers were hold on i don't off the top of

00:40:58.380 of my head but i can get 1.4 million on only fans because i think that was the number oh here this

00:41:05.900 is the reel that went viral they put like some someone put some music in the background so it

00:41:12.020 made it more dramatic okay wait was it the sad music yeah they did they did million women in 1.00

00:41:21.120 America do OnlyFans. 1.2 million is between 18 and 24. What percent of women, how many women in 1.00

00:41:28.980 America are between 18 to 24? I find out roughly 10 million women. So just on OnlyFans alone, 1.00

00:41:40.900 10% of women in that age group are on OnlyFans. So there's only 10 million women between 18 to 25.

00:41:48.600 Then I decided to think more about the consumers.

00:41:52.520 Who is consuming OnlyFans?

00:41:55.700 And I found out that 82 million American men subscribe to OnlyFans.

00:42:03.220 So that was how I did the math.

00:42:06.040 Okay, so let's just assume intellectual honesty, your numbers are correct,

00:42:10.680 like you didn't have any ulterior motives, and you're coming in around 10%.

00:42:15.860 I just Googled it.

00:42:17.680 so it very well could have been maybe the number i don't know but yeah that's what i did so now if

00:42:25.280 do you remember the guy who did a similar such study i think his methodology was a little

00:42:29.760 different it was like four or five years ago and he estimated that 10 of all college girls

00:42:34.480 are on only fans or some kind of uh gratuitous site like that do you remember that at all

00:42:40.160 okay so the point is he came up with a 10 figure too i'd have to double check and look at it but

00:42:47.880 if i recall correctly it's 10 so now you got two data points with you know some rough math pointing

00:42:53.560 at 10 in other words it corroborates what you came up with on your own vindicated 0.97

00:43:00.180 well i know you're 100 vindicated because you know there's statistics and then there's damn

00:43:07.280 lies, but when you come up with these ballpark figures, and we could say, oh, well, not every 0.75

00:43:17.700 woman on OnlyFans is between this and that. You already accounted for that because you said 80% 1.00

00:43:22.120 were under 25 or something like that. We could say, well, it's more like maybe 8%. All right,

00:43:28.280 let's just err on the side of caution and say 5%. One in 20 women are on OnlyFans of a dating 1.00

00:43:35.840 courtship marrying age 18 to 35 let's just say you're you're definitely between five and ten percent

00:43:41.760 now so because i was trying to figure out how could you calculate what percent of women have

00:43:51.200 done soft prostitution because it's like only fans is one thing and i couldn't figure out how 1.00

00:43:58.080 would figure out what percent of women um have done like on instagram there's a lot of soft 1.00

00:44:06.320 prostitution but it's not public right so you can't get that and then my other question what

00:44:11.840 about sugar dating like in these major cities they post their lifestyles and i'm like how are

00:44:17.040 you paying and i look at their tick tocks i i've been on tick tock before they kicked me

00:44:22.960 and i wasn't making more than five grand a month and i had a million followers on there so i'm

00:44:27.840 i'm like they can't be making that much money unless they're selling something else um how much

00:44:34.780 me i don't know go ahead right here here's what always helps if you're going to try and tackle

00:44:41.400 these kind of socioeconomic statistics which aren't hard and fast science and math like

00:44:46.680 engineering you really got to define your terms so what what would qualify as prostitution right 0.99

00:44:54.120 I know paying someone to have sex, that's obviously prostitution. 1.00

00:44:59.660 Are foodie dates prostitution? 0.99

00:45:01.920 Is digital pictures through OnlyFans, is that considered prostitution?

00:45:10.200 Is a sugar cell?

00:45:13.360 Am I coming in all right?

00:45:15.660 You're breaking up a little bit, but right now I can still.

00:45:18.900 It seems like a connection issue.

00:45:20.840 but it's still it's still let me let me turn off the camera okay go ahead

00:45:25.880 so it let's define our terms all right if you want to go and get the actual percent of

00:45:35.160 women who engage in actual legally defined prostitution you could probably go 1.00

00:45:41.380 do some research on police reports or the fbi crime statistics and all that i think for the

00:45:49.700 purposes of the conversation, we need to define what prostitution is, where it's a transactional 1.00

00:45:54.500 relationship, where someone pays someone else for, would you consider romance and affection

00:46:00.200 prostitution? You're so funny. Let me ask you this. Do you remember there were dime dates or

00:46:07.320 dime dances? Do you remember dime dances? I mean, you weren't around. Do you remember dime dances

00:46:11.980 where you paid a woman a dime and she danced with you? This is back in the 1920s. No, I did

00:46:16.860 not know about that well you know and is a foodie date prostitution so i mean me i'll be perfectly

00:46:25.720 honest uh every transaction every relationship is transactional whether it's labor work friends

00:46:34.580 or all that and i applied the same uh standard to romantic and sexual relationships yes both

00:46:42.120 people have to commit their time let's remove the time and look what's happening between money and

00:46:46.180 services. Usually, almost always, it's the men paying for women for some form of affection,

00:46:52.380 doesn't even have to be sex. It could just be attention, affection, or whatever. And when you

00:46:58.840 look at that, that is a transactional relationship. And unless you actually find people who are

00:47:03.980 genuinely in love, where the woman just adores the guy, it's almost invariably transactional.

00:47:10.440 And so I would say, and I've said it before, nearly every guy in the United States is a John,

00:47:15.100 and nearly every woman in the United States is the lady of the evening,

00:47:18.520 if you want to call it that.

00:47:20.640 But is that so wrong?

00:47:23.160 Because in the olden days, I get a kick out of people. 0.99

00:47:26.680 Let's say I go pay a girl $500 to have sex with me. 1.00

00:47:29.420 Oh, man, Erin, you're a loser. 1.00

00:47:30.960 You're a scumbag. 1.00

00:47:32.100 You couldn't get it. 1.00

00:47:33.600 But if I pay a woman a $10,000 wedding ring, 0.99

00:47:36.780 and then I give her alimony and settlement and all that, 0.63

00:47:39.180 and she has sex with me for $20,000, oh, well, that's love. 1.00

00:47:41.440 See, that's love. 0.99

00:47:43.020 That's romance, see?

00:47:44.240 okay i'll tell you i'll tell you what so for me it's just a little weird how embracing we're

00:47:51.880 starting to get of open sex workers i understand that like okay you could argue that marriage is 0.87

00:48:00.020 the same thing when women rob the men and they're kind of paying for i i get the argument but for 0.51

00:48:05.980 me there's just something weird about like having a woman running for congress that used to have

00:48:10.760 like an open cam site i don't know why it feels different maybe it's the woman in me where i'm

00:48:15.980 like this just feels different but it's just it's like strange well it is different i mean it's

00:48:22.720 great i mean but you know go back 50 years you didn't have digital stuff right yeah but is is

00:48:29.900 it not you know and what are men paying for men are usually paying for some either sex outright

00:48:34.420 or a derivation of sex or derivative of sex it could be attention uh it could be nudes or whatever

00:48:42.660 um it's up to the i guess the individual was that really classical prostitution i i think you missed

00:48:49.380 the more philosophical point do men pay for women i don't mean like taking care of them but do you

00:48:55.540 pay to have women spend time with you whether that's romance sex digital pictures and all that 0.97

00:49:02.980 so i i what what is the what is the are you trying to say this is the percentage of women who like 1.00

00:49:08.660 strippers there's another perfect example yeah is that prostitution or what i would like to 1.00

00:49:13.940 simplify it and just say are men paying for some kind of sexual service and the vast majority of

00:49:20.900 instances the answer is yes and the vast majority of women are providing those things yeah so my 1.00

00:49:27.860 general point was that i just see a societal trend of sex workers used to be more taboo

00:49:35.860 and now they're being accepted into public offices and positions where like um there's a tennis

00:49:43.300 player who just dropped in only fans and she's like actively competing with us like new selling 0.95

00:49:48.740 nudes and i grew up in the sports community and like that wasn't really you could you just couldn't

00:49:55.060 do that when i was growing up but now it's like okay so i'm just wondering if it's getting accepted

00:50:01.540 and normalized it makes me wonder what percent of women are participating in some way that it's 1.00

00:50:07.140 gotten to that point outside of i wouldn't really put marriage in the same category even though

00:50:13.380 philosophically like you could argue it is yeah that's that's more of my questions because i i

00:50:20.500 I think, obviously, it's more because there's more avenues, more venues.

00:50:24.380 It's also more socially accepted.

00:50:26.800 Yeah.

00:50:27.280 I would say no more, no less.

00:50:30.560 It's always been this way between the sexes. 0.65

00:50:34.160 But in terms of what you're trying to find now, like, is it becoming more socially acceptable?

00:50:38.400 Yes.

00:50:39.640 I would almost say it's kind of – it's always been that way.

00:50:44.780 It's just that we're more forthright about it.

00:50:48.060 And accepting, I don't know.

00:50:49.320 i'm sure most fathers would prefer to keep their daughters off the stripper pole uh but you're 1.00

00:50:53.880 you're absolutely right it is there are more ways for you to safely become a sex worker because

00:51:01.860 digitally you're not meeting these people uh it is becoming more accepted just because the internet

00:51:07.120 alone is how a lot of people socialize internet uh uh pornography uh is been universal since what

00:51:15.140 25 years ago or so. So I, I don't even know if it's necessarily bad.

00:51:19.680 It maybe is just America or different countries in the West and maybe the

00:51:24.740 world saying, yeah, this happens. Yeah. We got to pay for this. Yeah.

00:51:28.740 You know, guys paying for, paying for Playboy,

00:51:31.520 I would say is on par with guys paying for OnlyFans.

00:51:35.280 So I don't know if it's bad. I know you probably don't want to,

00:51:40.420 unless women come with a heavy dose of financial management courses where they know to save the 1.00

00:51:46.620 money while they're making it, that'd be okay. Like, okay, at least make some money and save

00:51:51.240 because your youth is going to go away. And then maybe you have yourself a good degree in

00:51:55.800 accounting on the side. So when you get older, it's relatively new simply because the internet,

00:52:03.940 generationally speaking, is relatively new. So there might be some problems where your reputation,

00:52:09.760 it's definitely going to hurt marriage like what you're an only fans girl no you get out of here 0.97

00:52:13.440 but i i don't know i think it's always kind of been there and now the internet and society culture

00:52:18.800 have kind of you know at one time it was it was shameful to be gay and now most everybody is kind

00:52:24.880 of accepting of gay people so i think it's this is just accepting i guess women's nature and men's

00:52:29.760 nature more do you know what i actually don't think only fans is going to be a deterrent unless

00:52:35.120 they had sex on camera i don't it's weird and the reason i say this is because when i was at the ufc

00:52:42.960 gym like interviewing guys there now you could argue this is because they're entered like they're

00:52:47.840 kind of in a weird industry right that's not really like normal people but i was asking the

00:52:53.120 guys there if they would date a girl with an only fans if it was five years ago and it was just nudes 0.99

00:52:58.160 and the majority said yeah and i was like holy these are guys with like choice you know like

00:53:04.800 it's not their only choice that if they're accepting it and i think it's because most

00:53:10.240 only fans girls fail so it's not like you know what i mean there's so much stuff on the internet

00:53:17.520 right and

00:53:20.880 it is a trend it is happening we could talk about the efficacy and whether it's a viable alternative

00:53:25.840 to traditionalism like getting married or even just getting a job but it's not it just isn't

00:53:30.480 most of you OnlyFans fans, you fail. You're just not going to make the money. And I also think

00:53:35.660 men's expectations have changed because like, yeah, I'll take an OnlyFans girl because we kind

00:53:40.620 of grew up with it. And what else am I going to choose? I mean, let's also admit OnlyFans girls 0.97

00:53:44.660 tend to be, tend to be hotter. And I will say this, yeah, the quality and caliber of women in 1.00

00:53:52.600 terms of marriage has just gone to piss. That is true. But maybe society right now doesn't want 0.85

00:53:59.560 marriage women certainly don't want it men are kind of backing away from it as well because they

00:54:05.080 look at the quality and the caliber so it it may be that yeah this definitely ruins and like let's

00:54:10.700 say there is a girl i did only fans once or it's like all right so you're willing to do that right

00:54:15.540 it already is kind of like ah like it's so but if you look at the market of women that men have

00:54:21.940 available to them uh you only did it once it was five years ago okay i guess or you were a stripper

00:54:27.200 but you gave that up. Okay. I guess, uh, it's, it's not necessarily, um, it's, it's trending to

00:54:36.800 be more accepted, but that doesn't mean it doesn't have a negative effect on the traditional getting

00:54:42.980 married, nuclear family, that kind of thing. So how many women, um, are making, have you ever 0.97

00:54:50.460 of looked into how much money women are making on social media in general because i i see this 1.00

00:54:56.600 trend of women quitting their jobs to be social media influencers and that sort of thing and i 0.98

00:55:02.740 just wonder are they just prostitutes or are they actually making money have you looked well i mean

00:55:07.680 i i know uh only as a while ago i think the average girl makes 180 a month on only fans

00:55:14.720 uh which is not to live off of uh but when you say social media like somebody who just has a

00:55:21.100 channel like god bless you if you can i mean that's kind of how we make our living uh it

00:55:25.700 doesn't necessarily have to be uh sexual um but the percentage of women i don't know how much of 1.00

00:55:30.920 that is you see influencers regardless of whether it's only fans or not and they make money like oh

00:55:37.800 my god if they can do it i can do it i would also question how many of these women are giving up 1.00

00:55:42.300 jobs that were fake and BS anyway. If you go from, oh, I'm a dog walker, I'm an assistant HR

00:55:48.460 director or recruiter, and I became an influencer, it's like, well, that was kind of one shit job 0.99

00:55:52.940 for another one. So I think there's probably, and you could do them both concurrently. You could go

00:55:59.920 ahead, be an influencer and have a job. So it's relatively new. So yeah, you're going to see a

00:56:04.780 migration from traditional forms of employment for both men and women going from traditional

00:56:10.580 employment to online influencers but i don't i think the fact because it is online and influencing

00:56:16.740 it seems like it's a larger trend than it actually is yeah i still think the majority yeah the

00:56:20.980 majority of men and women are working crap jobs they don't want to work and and just like only 0.99

00:56:26.660 fans your pro it's probably in conjunction with you being a nurse or a teacher or something else 0.93

00:56:32.660 yeah you're right it says uh this is like 45 do you see this chart make kind of 15 000

00:56:40.580 So, it looks like around a little less than 10% make $15,000 to $25,000 a year.

00:56:50.220 That looks probably like 7% make $25,000 to $30,000.

00:56:55.360 The only, the biggest, actually, it looks 12% make $50,000 to $75,000.

00:57:04.580 These aren't insignificant figures.

00:57:06.700 If I look at this, what's that top one, less than $15,000?

00:57:10.580 Here, I'll put the thing in the chat so you can see it. Yeah, around 45%. I can't see the exact

00:57:19.480 number, but it says around 45% make less than $15,000. Okay, but if we look at those income

00:57:25.960 trenches, a good third of the people make a living wage off of it. Yeah. Yeah, I can't fault

00:57:32.820 them. And not all TikTok women are showing their boobs either. I'm sure they're talking about 0.90

00:57:38.360 whatever it is that they talk about i mean i'm very pro people going online becoming an influencer

00:57:43.440 if you can't because yeah it's a great gig it's easy and corporate employment sucks uh but that's

00:57:49.140 kind of impressive so it might actually be a little bit i mean here it is yeah we'd have yeah

00:57:53.540 we'd have to do some research to get to do it but this looks like yeah it's it's a it's a it's not

00:57:58.460 an unviable option to go and become an influencer it seems 48 earned less than 15 000 9 earned

00:58:06.980 between $15,000 and $25,000. 7% earned between $25,000 and $35,000. 5% earned $35,000 to $50,000.

00:58:16.420 11% earned between $50,000 and $75,000. 5% earned between $75,000 and $100,000. 6% earned between

00:58:25.260 $100,000 and $150,000 and 7% earned more than $200,000. Based on the numbers, the median salary

00:58:32.360 is somewhere between 15 and 25 000. so roughly 30 percent of people on tick tock make a living wage

00:58:40.360 yeah yeah i can't blame them it's uh i and i again depending on okay is it is it uh

00:58:51.880 is it lewd is it rated x material or not i think that's almost irrelevant it's that you get paid

00:58:57.160 to do that uh and and in some cases you get paid a hell of a lot more than what you do with your

00:59:03.080 college degree so it's it's an option for many women and many men to do this yeah it seems like 0.99

00:59:10.200 that's kind of where things are going where i just wonder if people that don't have an online brand

00:59:15.560 will they be left behind in some way whether it's like romantically um financially etc like networking

00:59:24.040 if um boy that's a good question if you have a good skill or a trade again why i always emphasize

00:59:30.600 getting good a good degree no you know you know who doesn't worry about this surgeons surgeons

00:59:36.840 don't worry about this nurse practitioners don't worry about this engineers don't worry about this

00:59:41.320 tradesmen and tradeswomen the few women that do go into trades don't worry about it 1.00

00:59:45.560 uh but yeah it may be going in well here's the other thing i don't think white collar work in

00:59:51.880 general going forward is going to be viable for most people it's just it's just not worth it going

00:59:55.880 to get the education required the pay isn't there they're trying to outsource everything overseas

01:00:00.760 and try and replace everything with ai already beforehand it wasn't acceptable um so yeah for

01:00:07.080 young people especially i've talked about this with gen z you either need an unassailable trade

01:00:12.680 or skill or you're going to have to become self-employed and since the majority of commerce

01:00:17.320 is now being done online yeah you might as well start with your own personal brand you might as

01:00:22.680 well start i mean not everyone i did the math i think the united states economy can support

01:00:27.240 2.2 million full-time content creators based on ad revenue and super chats and donations and all that

01:00:34.040 um that's not everybody so only a select few are going to be lucky enough to to make a living like

01:00:39.800 that but yeah going down the road and you better be careful what you put on your websites and your

01:00:45.640 your social media early on if you want to become an influencer yeah it's almost like you're going

01:00:49.240 to need a digital reputation uh or even a brand so that you are simply known it's like oh yeah

01:00:57.000 i heard it you stand a better shot of getting a job or contract having a youtube channel where

01:01:02.600 you got your network established than you would sending a resume because your resume is it's just

01:01:07.400 lost to the sea of resumes but if you you have like you know you're a regular commenter on a

01:01:12.440 channel you have your own channel you have your own social media i think that yeah you're not wrong

01:01:16.180 about that so the other thing i was wondering i think that's going to mean privacy is going to be

01:01:21.320 a thing of the past because even if i go to like an event there's cameras everywhere

01:01:27.280 you know there's they throw they're taking pictures of you cameras like not even because

01:01:33.400 of my youtube so just because they want to market the events and stuff and i'm like so if this

01:01:39.420 becomes a significant portion of people which are already kind of is that are making money off of

01:01:44.540 tiktok and instagram and all that stuff like i just wonder how we're going to interact in like

01:01:51.260 five years you know like in a personal level or um i'll try to explain this like if you go to any

01:02:00.120 party with people under 35 let's say all of the okay they bring out drinks all the girls have 1.00

01:02:07.460 their phones out right they're all recording the drinks coming out the boyfriend has to take a

01:02:12.660 picture of the girl on like you know you know how they make fun of the boyfriends that take the new

01:02:18.320 marketing for the new boyfriend you know like they take picture of the date not the guy and I was

01:02:24.940 just wondering if more people are start to become employed by this I just wonder if there's gonna be

01:02:32.400 some sort of difference in social interaction that maybe I don't see coming that I don't see

01:02:37.260 you know you know what i think it's going to be it's going to be like theater or acting the

01:02:43.500 everyone's on a stage it just happens to be the theater is the internet and then behind the scenes

01:02:48.780 you're going to meet different people through your social media activities behind the scenes

01:02:53.260 at your job that you actually like and date and i you you kind of mentioned it already how many

01:02:58.780 female influencers already are married or have a boyfriend and they have their act in their show 1.00

01:03:04.700 now they now obviously their main marketing shtick is that they want men to think that

01:03:09.020 they're single so they get super chats and they buy things and stuff like that but i think just

01:03:13.500 like theater or acting you're doing a performance but it is an industry it actually is an industry

01:03:20.620 and thank god it's mostly self-employed industry because you can date like right now if i wanted

01:03:24.700 to go date some cutesy female influencer she does the production work for somebody i know 1.00

01:03:31.500 i can do it because there's no hr director we don't work for a corporation uh and i think just

01:03:37.340 like any other industry or profession you're going to meet people that you like so behind

01:03:41.980 the scenes you will i don't think for the influencer community it's going to really

01:03:48.540 have an effect where i do think it's going to have an effect are the normies who have a regular job

01:03:53.820 and they just got like whatever their token instagram account and they have now a track

01:03:58.060 record of them acting like a girl boss circa 2022 that might have a negative effect but for the

01:04:03.360 people who are like pros and and that's their job yeah i i think if anything it introduces you to

01:04:09.140 way more interesting people no i i totally agree but what i'm thinking is okay this is this is what

01:04:15.620 i'm thinking is the new relationships are just going to be like brand building and i think rollo

01:04:20.580 talks about this a little bit but like because now like if a woman's employed on social media 0.99

01:04:26.860 And now the husband has to like be her marketing, not has to, but like, she's just going to

01:04:31.980 torture him with all the Tik TOK trends and stuff. 0.73

01:04:35.700 Unless you know, like, unless she's not okay.

01:04:37.820 As long now we got to talk about what type of content we're creating.

01:04:41.320 If it's X rated content.

01:04:43.280 Yeah.

01:04:44.020 That's going to probably cause.

01:04:45.440 No, not, not X.

01:04:46.380 So on Tik TOK, it's mostly lifestyle content.

01:04:49.420 Like that's normally that's women talking on their phones. 1.00

01:04:52.500 This is what I eat in a day.

01:04:53.960 and i was thinking about how like the future is going to be men sacrificing privacy to date the

01:05:00.540 women employed on tiktok because it's a mostly women female app and i think it's mostly attractive 0.97

01:05:06.360 women making the money i could be wrong this is just where my brain i'm like this is where i see

01:05:10.800 this is going yeah but i don't i don't see that that necessarily would ruin the relationship

01:05:17.380 because let's let's be perfectly honest um let's say you're a very you're one of these successful

01:05:22.500 tick tock influencers or youtube if you are successful you cannot do it without a brain

01:05:28.980 you are a professional let's remove for the sake of simplicity uh sexual content all right so you

01:05:36.100 are a micro internet celebrity you're making good money and you talk about whatever oh look my i

01:05:42.900 took the sushi and i went on this thing a day in the life of i don't see how that makes a husband

01:05:49.220 or a significant other i don't see how it makes their lives hell like you your wife is a performer 0.74

01:05:55.220 to a certain extent and okay maybe you got to help her with the marketing or the idea or maybe not

01:06:00.500 i i don't see why if you had a woman who was a who was a successful tick tocker why does that 1.00

01:06:07.140 prevent the guy from being whatever an account you haven't spent a lot of time on tick tock

01:06:11.460 have you no i try to avoid it because it looks like i think you would know what i'm talking

01:06:17.300 about it you spent more time you do not need a brain to get good at tick tock youtube's a

01:06:22.680 different animal i think you need i've done both i had a million on both but i'll i'll tell you

01:06:28.960 tick tock like you can make okay you know i'm gonna show you one of the top tick tockers in the

01:06:34.580 world okay well while you look at that up let me let me ask you this so um oh dan is his name

01:06:44.600 men need to be heard you know his channel um i don't think so but sometimes i've seen and i

01:06:52.200 forget the name go ahead it was there was this psychopathic crazy eye gal who said that um 1.00

01:06:59.040 if we had matriarchy then women would give men sex and it was such an obvious troll job but she 1.00

01:07:05.660 went viral it was covered then you find out she's got a husband and all that of course 0.99

01:07:10.200 now that was tick tock and it was toxic and it was all a lie but i guess what you're asking is

01:07:16.440 is it possible for someone to have a healthy relationship with someone who writes for a

01:07:19.900 tabloid because that's all tick tock kind of is i know it's it's looking into the abyss i know it's

01:07:25.060 just some atrocious catty horrific uh behavior but if you know it's all theater and performance

01:07:32.460 like at the end of the day what does it matter well yeah i just what i foresee is women using 1.00

01:07:41.320 the followings to attack the men they date like when it goes south i've already seen it i mean

01:07:47.600 there's like breakup videos on tiktok sandwich thank you for the ten dollar but i'm just going

01:07:53.160 to show you this is like the top girl on tiktok on the right okay this is this is what they would

01:07:58.180 post that girl i'm telling you so i i met her when i was in when i was on tick tock and she

01:08:07.060 got offered a hundred thousand dollars to follow someone back on instagram and said no because she 0.94

01:08:13.540 was making so much money right okay but yeah go ahead sorry so okay i know i know this is horrible

01:08:23.140 this is horrible she can't be dumb right she's got to know that this the the video quality was good

01:08:31.620 she knows how to market it right um no you think okay so you're you've been in the field i have 0.99

01:08:40.100 are they are they just pretty dumb girls and they're annoying as no it's not that like what it 1.00

01:08:46.740 is is the thing is so because it's marketed to women right okay women don't like to see overly 0.99

01:08:57.160 attractive women on screen and women like women that are relatable not competent because when 1.00

01:09:02.740 women pick content like that's why all our movies suck now like because they're marketed to women 1.00

01:09:08.120 right you you are not wrong but go on yes so what happens is all these average women get gassed up 1.00

01:09:15.220 on social media and they can make all this money like doing doing pretty much nothing

01:09:21.940 and so you don't have to be that good because if you're too good the girls aren't going to like you

01:09:27.820 they're not going to watch it's a mostly female app so you're what you're saying then is the allure 0.95

01:09:37.320 of social media,

01:09:40.320 making it on social media.

01:09:43.740 And because,

01:09:45.880 at least as it pertains to TikTok,

01:09:47.700 women do not like 1.00

01:09:48.600 exceptionally attractive women 1.00

01:09:50.020 or exceptionally intelligent women. 0.99

01:09:53.020 Yes.

01:09:54.380 That, one,

01:09:57.100 the social media influencing environment

01:09:59.900 becomes bad for the women 0.99

01:10:03.740 to consume it

01:10:04.700 as it pertains to their potential

01:10:06.340 for current and future relationships and also the women it attracts to become influencers 1.00

01:10:12.720 themselves are also then there's a selection bias that they are dumb and t he and isn't this popular 1.00

01:10:23.380 but then it reinforces it to they actually maybe believe their own bullshit and then that has a 1.00

01:10:29.720 okay but then what guy is going to stick with that like for a while for a long time like my 0.96

01:10:35.080 In other words, both scenarios we're painting are possible.

01:10:37.840 They're not mutually exclusive.

01:10:38.680 I think there are very intelligent, savvy women who they could even do sex work online who are very market savvy and they have a relationship with a husband. 1.00

01:10:49.280 But you're saying that this almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy where the social media turns women into even worse, undateable, unmarriageable type of women. 0.99

01:11:04.760 it's everyone is attracted to it that is what's going to it's going to turn yes i think it's

01:11:10.200 going to get worse because i think women are going to start making good money and it's like then now 1.00

01:11:16.600 like i have to show you some of these but a lot of these things they do with their boyfriends

01:11:20.760 are just like humiliation rituals for the boyfriend wait couples tick tock like it's just

01:11:28.120 it's like the woman uh i'd have to find a couple's tick tock trend but it's like but is it real

01:11:36.040 well but that's the problem when is it so maybe it's not like there's like an on camera and off

01:11:44.940 camera but when the camera's in your home and like that's the thing like some of the women 1.00

01:11:49.780 when they break up with the guys they have to make him an abusive guy or whatever

01:11:54.420 and that pays them too like when zach bryan and brianna chicken fry broke up because he dated a 0.59

01:12:01.200 tiktoker and she was like this big she's at barstool sports she's like a big name there 0.98

01:12:05.680 and when they broke up she did this whole campaign about how abusive he was and it was such bullshit

01:12:12.280 i mean you know the and so i was just thinking i'm like because that's now they can't look like 0.94

01:12:18.320 a bad person to their audience so they gotta they gotta be the victim obviously and then all the

01:12:23.660 women that are also got dumped because like they spend a lot of time on tick tock so yeah that's 1.00

01:12:29.440 just how i see it going i could be wrong but i i'll tell you this social media definitely is

01:12:34.480 worsening uh women for marriage material if that's what they're interested in this is not good for 1.00

01:12:40.640 the nuclear family it's not good for tradition it's not good for the economy it's not good for 0.99

01:12:44.400 society um but i don't i don't

01:12:50.880 i'm what i'm i'm trying to figure out what i'm trying to say they one what are you going to do

01:12:58.080 about it two it might have already already been there and three if no one is that interested

01:13:03.760 in getting married and tradition and all that anyway does it really matter

01:13:08.000 i it's not to say it's good or bad i'm just interested in how it's going to change the

01:13:18.160 dynamics in the next five years because i wonder if a significant portion of the female population 1.00

01:13:24.960 will be employed by tick tock i actually would be curious to see what percent are employed now

01:13:30.720 or even forget employed they just have an account well i'll tell you right now

01:13:35.040 you know i'm an old man and ha ha ha boomer but these tick tock videos i you know i don't watch

01:13:44.080 them anymore because i realized they were all bs these provocative agiprop we're like oh my god

01:13:50.000 the guy didn't open the door that kind of thing um i want i don't believe them uh about 85 of the

01:13:56.960 time i think they're just doing it to provoke and be a dog whistle to get clicks and rage bait

01:14:02.080 but even if they were doing that consciously and no i didn't really believe anything i said i'd be

01:14:07.480 like you're so degrading you're so unethical you would do this it would be like you wrote for one 0.78

01:14:14.160 of them you know those those uh girly filth magazines back in the day like uh like uh glamour

01:14:21.260 or teen beat and uh almost like what's her name um you ever hear of e-gene

01:14:27.880 she's she's old she's suing donald trump for um forcible bedroom not fun time i don't know how 1.00

01:14:35.760 that lawsuit is going but she wrote these okay let me rephrase it she claimed people would write 0.99

01:14:41.480 in called dear e gene this horrible statistically impossible thing happened to me how do i solve it 0.98

01:14:48.820 and you you listen to a handful of these you realize no this is bullshit they didn't write 0.56

01:14:53.020 in this is dear penthouse forum so it's misleading but if there's so much money to be made 0.97

01:14:57.780 or there's enough of a promise of a hope of money to be made that women engage in this, 1.00

01:15:03.060 that's indicative of a bad person. That's really bad. That's where you actually do become a

01:15:11.500 grifter. And I'm going to lie and engage in professional wrestling theater just so I can

01:15:18.560 make money. And usually it's probably going to be about dating and the sexes so that when a guy

01:15:23.500 all of a sudden finds out oh yeah you were a tick tock girl yes i agree with you it is going to 0.96

01:15:27.180 lessen uh it's going to harm women's abilities in general but especially those who engage in this 1.00

01:15:32.940 action this behavior it is going to harm their ability to find a quality guy in the future i

01:15:38.860 think that is 100 true and you don't even have to like show your boobies on the internet it's just

01:15:43.340 it's it's it's kind of shameful behavior you're lying yeah i'm gonna read super chats really

01:15:50.620 quick. Clovey clowns has low value clown here. Clank, clank, the little battle bitch. Okay. 1.00

01:15:58.060 Pearl Reed, sweet black pill, nothing. Sandwich, super sticker. Pearl, what do I think about the

01:16:04.520 Sadia Khan news? I kind of saw that coming. My enemies always tend to take themselves out. 0.99

01:16:11.860 So I never really have to do anything. You know, it's just, they're kind of,

01:16:15.720 she kind of went off on one of my employees and i didn't like that at the time i just thought i

01:16:22.080 thought it was so rude i'm like you're gonna go off and call my employee names and he just like

01:16:26.800 made your microphone and did all this stuff okay um and then you know this comes out so i'm not

01:16:34.760 overly shocked we'll see if it's true because i think the recording could have been ai i don't

01:16:40.740 really care because i wouldn't pay her six grand for an hour so i don't know who's paying her but

01:16:46.240 um she got caught having an affair with a married man and knew he was married and she was fine with

01:16:51.600 being a side piece okay yeah i don't know i did hear about that do you mind if i bring on um doug

01:16:59.340 mpa he's a fan of yours he's my co-host well of course bring him on it's your show because i got

01:17:04.900 to take off a little bit here soon anyway okay he just maybe had a question or two for you doug

01:17:09.780 mpa meet aaron mpa how's it going hey doug are you there yeah wait can you hear me yeah i can

01:17:20.980 hear you fine yeah i'm here how's it going buddy good good did you have any questions you wanted

01:17:28.340 to ask him about the conversation doug mpa no so it's just good how you help pearl confirm

01:17:35.620 all the numbers there are people in the chat and people on the desk on the audacity chat talking

01:17:41.360 about how bleak the future is so what would you say to people because numbers are harsh

01:17:47.780 and so what would you say to people that say conversations like this and the numbers

01:17:53.320 are are making the future look bleak what would you say to them

01:17:57.400 i i didn't hear anything i think my internet went down or his went down but pearl can you recap

01:18:05.860 he just asked he said a lot of people hear the numbers and think things look bleak and so he

01:18:12.820 he asked what you would say to people that hear you know us talk about the prostitution numbers

01:18:17.700 or some of this stuff and just think the future looks bleak i'm gonna i'm gonna send you something

01:18:26.020 in the private chat let me if you guys can give me a second i'm i'm losing my internet

01:18:35.060 This has been a great conversation, by the way.

01:19:02.900 This has been great.

01:19:03.620 can you hear me okay pearly i can hear you fine i think it's on his end i love having capiani so

01:19:10.860 smart yeah yeah this is great i learned so much and the best part about experts like him is you

01:19:20.940 think this stuff but then he he makes it actually these ideas that you have but he makes them

01:19:27.240 actually tangible in a way that you can understand this has been great the tick tock um

01:19:36.360 the it was funny what he was like he's like those girls have to be smart and i'm like oh no

01:19:47.000 girls have herpes brands on there 1.00

01:19:49.000 that's funny yeah that um i might have to do a uh a show recap of that show with sadia khan

01:20:00.440 on there for not knowing who she was you actually did pretty good i remember that show

01:20:05.340 because china was on that show yeah i remember it i remember that whole thing you remember these

01:20:10.540 shows better than i do i remember every single one of them

01:20:14.780 guys if you haven't already liked the video subscribe but thank you for all the super chats

01:20:21.440 we really appreciate it and thanks for all the youtube regulars and thank you for all the people

01:20:25.840 in the audacity chat we really appreciate it are there any girl reads no there isn't but um

01:20:37.140 oh is he there i don't know the numbers are what they are they are bleak they are bleak

01:20:47.060 here i can hear you guys now oh cool are you guys there can you hear me i'm sorry this is uh i'm in

01:20:53.800 montana so i was you guys can hear me then yeah yeah i can hear you i don't okay uh i would say

01:21:03.880 that the the numbers are bleak because that's what they are um and it's you know i saw this in

01:21:10.520 economics all the time like this is these are bad numbers you got to accept the fact that that's

01:21:14.880 real that these are numbers um and and you know this is assuming that there's honesty and integrity

01:21:20.400 that went into researching and compiling those numbers uh the worst thing you can do though is

01:21:25.600 say no i don't believe them i won't incorporate them into my thoughts or my opinions or my actions

01:21:30.400 and then you just get you just get sucker punched by reality um so i you know the the world is not

01:21:37.880 meant to be great all the time it doesn't work that way and i will say because i think i'm the

01:21:42.740 oldest one here if you're wondering like this isn't normal it shouldn't be this way yeah you're

01:21:48.840 right there's never been a situation like this in the world in the history of the world where

01:21:52.800 there has been such disinterest from one sex to the other um one sex turned against the other

01:21:59.560 there's never been a sex war like and it is not normal uh but it is what it is you you stand

01:22:06.020 a much worse chance though like oh i'm gonna go get married and i'm gonna work and i'll pay for

01:22:11.040 this and i'll pay for that at least um the young generation of people today know uh you know that

01:22:18.100 that this is this is the reality whereas in times past you had my generation and baby boomers they 0.98

01:22:23.260 just like well just keep on doing traditionalism and ignore the numbers so yeah it sucks and yeah

01:22:28.740 we're definitely in unique times and technology is in part to to blame for that um but yeah it's

01:22:35.860 i would if there's a little bit of hope what i would say is do not assume the horrific you see

01:22:41.940 on tick tock and the internet reflects women everywhere i would say it reflects it about 80 0.98

01:22:47.300 85 percent of the time things are bad no it's true but they're not not women are out there to hate 0.99

01:22:54.420 you uh you're so uh but but yeah it's the the other alternative is to keep your head in the

01:23:03.300 in the sand and and get screwed over but um yeah i try to be an empiricist i don't try to be a

01:23:09.860 propaganda he said they're true 80 to 85 percent yeah i would say 85 what do you think of this

01:23:17.700 saying i'm gonna ask you two questions especially with everything that you know um i heard a quote

01:23:23.540 where this person said that the 20th century was women rewriting the social and intersexual

01:23:30.660 dynamics between men and women and the 21st century is going to be men responding to it 0.55

01:23:35.460 what do you think about that oh yeah that's very accurate almost almost timed within a couple of

01:23:40.660 years um men we we've been very kind and understanding and logical yes women should

01:23:46.580 be treated equally and da da da da da and uh we've seen how women have used that and apparently 1.00

01:23:53.140 And I'm simplifying a lot. Many of them, if not most of them, have been using it as a supremacy movement or a victimhood, kind of racked it to get preferential treatment.

01:24:03.620 And at the end of the day, it's not an acceptable offer or position or situation for men.

01:24:09.980 And so men are already responding in the 21st century in non-participation.

01:24:15.480 You know, we're not going to go to war. We're not going to go and start beating people.

01:24:19.920 But you are seeing men like, wow, you know, the Internet has really exposed this and you believe this.

01:24:26.000 And you could even say that maybe it's not deep down in women's nature, what feminist, you know, 60s feminists did to them and told them what to say. 0.62

01:24:35.880 And we can split those hairs, but it's moot. It's like, OK, these are the behaviors.

01:24:40.700 These are the behaviors you women have done for most of your youthful lives, which is when we are primarily interested in you. 1.00

01:24:48.080 And now that, you know, it's you've made it untenable, not possible to interact with you, have sex, have families, fall in love, blah, blah, blah.

01:25:00.080 So almost to the point you're saying you don't want us like, OK, fine, we're going to leave you alone now.

01:25:05.280 And so that that pendulum is definitely swinging back.

01:25:08.180 It's a lot of people are expecting the pendulum swinging back some kind of violence or war or, OK, we're going to launch our missiles.

01:25:14.800 i think it's abandoned apathy yeah yes apathy and abandonment guys just like we don't give a 0.97

01:25:21.840 shit and so that that uh pendulum swinging back is very silent but yes it it is happening men are 0.97

01:25:28.980 reacting because they have to we we can't afford to do all this stuff and pay the taxes and go to 1.00

01:25:36.020 school and make six fags and bo and you can have sex with other no no no men are just tapping out 0.98

01:25:40.860 So that, but yes, it is going to be the 21st century for men reacting. 0.98

01:25:44.720 What do you predict for the next, like, let's say 20 years?

01:25:49.620 Are there any societal trends that you see changing or do you think we'll just keep going

01:25:55.940 down the same way we're going?

01:25:58.020 Well, yeah, we'll keep going down the same way.

01:26:01.540 I mean, I can't forecast what technology is going to be there and changes, but yeah, I

01:26:06.660 think you're going to see men continue to withdraw from women.

01:26:08.920 i think you're going to see men uh just as we did in the 80s and 90s we export our industry

01:26:14.220 overseas we're going men are going to go overseas if they want to get married they're going to

01:26:17.820 we're going to have to uh i think women are slowly getting the message especially gen z girls i think 1.00

01:26:23.600 they're slowly waking up there's signs like with sydney sweeney you know being put on a gene ad

01:26:29.280 that's indicative of of some change uh but i think it's it took us 60 years to get here at

01:26:35.800 a glacially slow speed is going to take us 60 years to get out. So, um, I think there's still

01:26:40.980 going to be declining birth rates. There's still going to be declining marriage rates. Um, if you

01:26:46.240 look at polling for women, uh, they, they went left generally, I'm not saying endorsing Democrats

01:26:51.700 or Republicans, I'm just saying they generally went pro-government anti-family. Um, so I don't

01:26:56.800 see it really a big chance. I just see like hints, anecdotal evidence of it. But I think

01:27:05.000 Gen Alpha and maybe younger Gen Z, I think in say 20 years time, the internet has been a very 0.99

01:27:13.680 powerful tool showing younger people how the older people are stupid and have no idea what 1.00

01:27:20.340 they're talking about. And so in addition to, no, we're not going to college. No, we're not 1.00

01:27:25.420 accepting jobs that don't accept pay a fair wage um no i don't have to go into debt to get a

01:27:30.260 ferrari i think people are going to start to realize no i don't have to get married no i don't

01:27:34.140 have to do that and they're going to start to say hmm maybe maybe it's all right to have an

01:27:39.840 attractive spouse maybe it's all right to have maybe it's okay if i don't get a tattoo so it'll

01:27:44.820 be gradual but by the time i'm 70 i think there's a there's a chance things might be better than

01:27:53.100 moving back towards a more traditional, natural human way, but I'm not, I wouldn't hold my breath

01:27:59.600 for it. And what will happen when the birth rate, I know you talked about this last time you were on

01:28:05.200 my show, but you said the birth rate falling isn't as big of a deal as conservatives make it out to

01:28:10.800 be. No, it is a big of a deal for anyone that has a welfare state and especially a social security

01:28:18.660 program because the welfare state, but particularly social security, requires young people's tax

01:28:26.020 contributions to make good on the old people's social security recipients. The United States

01:28:31.900 is not the only country that has that. Japan and pretty much every first world country has it.

01:28:36.060 That's why having more kids in the future or growing population at least matters. If you got

01:28:43.160 rid of it or reformed it then populations don't matter if you don't have a system that requires

01:28:48.660 the money of young people your population doesn't matter right yeah so in a way it's almost like

01:28:54.340 boycotting a messed up system right because why are we paying like why are we paying for that

01:29:00.440 well you pay 15.3 percent uh 15.6 percent um your your uh social security medicare taxes

01:29:07.600 to older people do you think um that will be reformed in our lifetime

01:29:12.340 no we're gonna we're gonna turn off money and we're gonna now there is some good news on that

01:29:21.240 because the baby boomers are like the largest of the populations and so right now as we talk

01:29:28.160 they're in their thick of the retirement so the collections are very high as they die out um then

01:29:34.180 demand on the social security system will go lower because relative to the population will

01:29:38.660 be less older people than there currently is now but no you you need reform and people like 0.95

01:29:43.260 the free shit too much it just isn't going to happen i have a question okay so how men used 0.97

01:29:49.920 to traditionally make money and spend money on women and children we've established on the show 0.99

01:29:55.440 that i mean modern women are all about prostitutes i mean men have to pay no matter what when dealing 0.89

01:30:03.500 with women i think more more men are unplugging from that yet we still see men making more money 0.52

01:30:09.860 than women even with the ecology i in my lifetime women are not going to make more than men they're 1.00

01:30:15.880 not going to be more successful than men so how do you see because you come from the generation 0.98

01:30:22.160 where a man would still buy a house get a wife and put a family in it how do you see men's spending

01:30:29.180 habits and economic activity changing when they stop spending their money on on women oh it goes 0.98

01:30:37.020 everywhere else uh most notably and i know this is anecdotal but um i've seen clients who if you

01:30:43.740 don't get married you don't have kids surprise the money adds up so i have a lot of 30 something

01:30:49.820 clients who when they're in their 20s contacted me and now their question is well i got a house

01:30:53.900 paid off and i i got a quarter million cash and then i have no debt what do i do i'm like i don't

01:30:58.300 know buddy you're doing better than me so i'm gonna go have some fun i guess um so then yeah i

01:31:04.060 mean it's it's it goes towards you so i think a lot of men are choosing leisure they're not working

01:31:09.420 as much because if you don't have to support a family or kids you could you can get by on like

01:31:13.260 25 of what what would normally take so that meme going around you know men think it's okay to live

01:31:18.620 like this where it's a air mattress and a tv with a playstation's like yeah yeah no i was there we

01:31:24.220 we can live like that so um yeah men are gonna and you see it in labor force participation you

01:31:30.620 see it in hours work so men are just going to generally retreat from work and the money they 0.55

01:31:35.420 have they will spend it on themselves or invest because there's nothing else to really do um so

01:31:41.740 that's that's true uh the same thing though however is happening to women because without 1.00

01:31:45.980 men around and all that now women have slightly different finances they start off with a lot more 1.00

01:31:50.060 debt early on because they major in dumb yeah uh then they also water lesbian uh well sure right 0.96

01:31:57.340 but then they also tend to travel men make a mistake buying cars they shouldn't afford but um 0.96

01:32:03.580 the women are not okay being minimalist whereas i think men are so down the road that that might

01:32:10.860 you see pronounced a difference um but generally no men to this day continue to major in fields

01:32:16.940 that pay more uh they don't work as many hours as they used to women are still majoring in the same 1.00

01:32:23.260 percentages as they were before in dumb stuff so i don't see that changing at least in 10 years

01:32:28.300 so there will continue to be a wage gap although there was data coming out that if women major in 0.90

01:32:33.580 the right thing they not only close the gap but sometimes make more so there is there is hope

01:32:39.820 uh as there always was we have to make the right choices it is one so i saw this the other day

01:32:46.460 so 74 of women work so about 26 of women don't work right but the the male participate the male

01:32:56.540 workforce participation rate is at 90 whereas it was at 98 in 1965 and all of a sudden there's a

01:33:05.180 crisis of men not working in a crisis and the whole world's gonna end and we need to get more 0.75

01:33:11.500 men to work and they they paint men's response to not spending on women and focusing on themselves

01:33:21.580 and leisure as some type of crisis oh my goodness do you see more of that happening

01:33:28.460 that that is happening but you see that in the media now the number is even worse than

01:33:31.900 what you said before in the 1940s and 50s i believe it was a 88 or 90 something percent

01:33:38.140 labor force participation rate of men i believe now it's 67 percent oh women have women have

01:33:45.260 never uh their labor force participation rate was like 30 percent back in the day of course they

01:33:51.040 were staying at home and taking care of kids then it got up to a peak of around 62 and i believe

01:33:56.960 women are down to 58 now okay i have the numbers wrong but but yes the what concerns that what 1.00

01:34:03.360 you're talking about there is the economists and people were focusing on young men labor force

01:34:08.120 participation rate and there's about 7 million men missing from the labor force right now

01:34:13.480 yeah and yes and now now all of a sudden it's a crisis um but it it it's get back on the plantation

01:34:23.120 what what do you mean you're lying around dude what do you what are you talking about yeah so

01:34:26.640 they they're scared so i think some of the economists and government and all that started 0.99

01:34:31.120 saying oh shit if men don't get to work some da da da da da da and they're just at the discovery 0.99

01:34:37.660 phase. They're just starting to realize it. They're not at the solution phase. They'll never 1.00

01:34:42.760 get to a solution because they don't want to admit what the solution is. So they're going to have a

01:34:47.560 lot of CNBC and, and, and CNN, and they're going to interview a lot of professors. They're going

01:34:52.800 to, Oh, it just, it's toxic masculinity culture. And we got to get programs or whatever. Uh, but 1.00

01:34:58.500 they're never, ever once going to go and ask young men what they want. So, but that is very real.

01:35:03.400 that the they are aware that men are dropping out of labor force young men in particular what um

01:35:08.120 do you think that society will ever let women be homeless because i just wonder what is the end

01:35:13.680 game for women that have a ton of debt and don't get married yeah even if they have kids it doesn't 1.00

01:35:20.860 seem like they can pay for their lifestyles so no if you look at studies and research women 1.00

01:35:26.720 are net tax consumers um over the course of not a lot of that in fairness is because they live

01:35:33.000 longer than men and they collect more social security. But no, they, I don't mean to be so 0.99

01:35:38.260 technical or actually, but there are homeless women. They're less than men, but there are 1.00

01:35:44.100 homeless women. You can exhaust all the government and nonprofit money that is made available to both 1.00

01:35:52.720 men and women, but disproportionately women. And you can get drug addiction or just make

01:35:57.000 tremendously stupid decisions and end up homeless. So it's always possible. Society will let some 1.00

01:36:02.140 women but they will let they will generally if women start becoming homeless they'll be oh my 0.99

01:36:07.000 god it's a crisis about uh it's all men's fault too that they're homeless well we don't even have

01:36:13.540 to yeah yeah exactly but no they the what's going to probably happen more is they don't want anyone

01:36:21.340 to be homeless uh at least i think everybody regardless of your politics you're generally

01:36:27.500 against people being homeless and i don't think they're going to quote unquote let women get home

01:36:33.100 and say oh we'll provide this we'll provide that what they're unaware of is that providing all this

01:36:38.620 free for all these people is going to cause inflation and what you're going to do is that's

01:36:45.100 what's really going to make people homeless male or female because right now as many young people

01:36:49.660 know housing is incredibly expensive well we have way too many college graduates and not enough

01:36:54.220 carpenters oh and then by the way we printed off like eight times the money supply since obama so

01:37:01.500 it i think the inflation is what's going to make people homeless whether people want to

01:37:06.140 interject or intervene or not um because that that is really what's uh driving everyone's costs up so

01:37:12.700 it government policies can do what they want uh but until there's more houses built you know you

01:37:20.140 you can have all the programs in the world and issue all the government checks and all the

01:37:23.740 nonprofits, but there ain't more housing, there ain't no more housing. So, um, but I, I'm not

01:37:29.920 worried just yet that there's going to be millions of homeless women, um, hitting the streets anytime 1.00

01:37:37.260 soon. I just wonder how it's going to, like, what's going to, I just wonder what's going to

01:37:44.020 happen with like the millennial women, like especially older millennial women, you're kind 1.00

01:37:49.020 aging out of the dating marketplace with a bunch of do you want to know what's going to happen to 0.69

01:37:52.540 them go ahead we'll look at baby boomer women there you go they're pissed off they're miserable 1.00

01:37:58.620 they're divorced they're poor i mean i this it's you know look at gen x women it's if they're gonna 1.00

01:38:04.460 it's gonna be they're gonna go that way they're not gonna have grandchildren they're nanas they're

01:38:07.820 not grandmas they're party grandmas they're not even grandmas because the kids aren't around no

01:38:13.100 it's it's going to be saying is thank you for being a friend yeah it's golden girls yeah

01:38:24.220 so but that's that's where they'll end up i'm pretty sure i have one more question for you so

01:38:29.900 we covered this pastor mary because we're talking about sex work with this past on yesterday's show

01:38:37.660 this pastor married a former corn star right and she got to achieve because on on pearl channel

01:38:45.420 she says that the church is the last stop on the horror train last stop right so they

01:38:53.740 they had this interview where the pastor was talking about how he saw all this good

01:38:58.940 in this corn star and she would put in stuff and he's pretty much making the case

01:39:03.260 let's say you saw a guy and he was watching this pastor try to say that you should marry a

01:39:12.320 reformed corn star what would you say to this guy why he shouldn't do that like why should you not

01:39:22.920 why should you not take it seriously because there's going to be so many sex workers on the 0.98

01:39:28.780 market now, what would you say? I mean, you shouldn't have to convince, but let's say you

01:39:35.140 had to convince a regular guy not to do that. I would explain it. It's like Nala Ray, Nala Ray,

01:39:42.480 Nala Ray, whatever her name is, or anyone who goes to the church as a last resort.

01:39:49.480 They go to the church, not because they actually are repentant or they believe in God or anything

01:39:54.760 like that they go there because they can have influence they can get food clothing and shelter

01:40:00.140 there's a community and they know in particular with christianity you are forgiven and i would

01:40:06.700 explain because i actually have on my channel i have guys write in real dating christian stories

01:40:11.240 because i think christian men are taken advantage of because they they are blinded kind of in part

01:40:15.660 by their faith if they truly believe it um but i would try and explain to them that is not an

01:40:22.720 honest person they are coming here because this is their last resort they are not real christians 1.00

01:40:29.440 uh they they are doing this for either money or food or clothing or shelter all the above

01:40:35.040 and that you have to understand uh and and fine you know what maybe she might be reformed but you 0.91

01:40:41.680 can't take that statistical chance you you just can't and so you should probably find a girl who's

01:40:47.040 been going to church the entire time or is a minor man or decountant or actually has a real job

01:40:52.080 um but yes and you're right i think you and pearl both right that's going to happen

01:40:56.240 you think the born again christian fad was a thing before holy cow wait for five to ten years

01:41:02.720 uh but yes that'll be uh a problem that young christian men face now you're going to continue 0.59

01:41:08.960 to face that in the future awesome awesome pearl you got anything else because we're

01:41:15.520 We're going to go play some billiards.

01:41:17.500 Oh, no.

01:41:17.980 Have fun, Aaron.

01:41:19.300 Thank you so much for calling in.

01:41:21.300 Yeah, thanks for having me on.

01:41:23.340 Yeah, thanks for having me on.

01:41:24.660 I appreciate it, and it's nice to meet you guys.

01:41:26.560 All right?

01:41:27.800 Have a good one.

01:41:28.420 All right, see you.

01:41:29.180 See you.

01:41:32.100 There are just some genuinely smart people out there.

01:41:35.200 He's one of them. 0.99

01:41:36.680 Holy crap. 0.99

01:41:37.420 Oh, he's so smart. 1.00

01:41:38.900 Oh, my goodness.

01:41:39.700 He's one of my favorite.

01:41:41.540 He's probably top three favorite guests I've ever had on.

01:41:45.520 yeah that is a smart man right there i learned so much this episode

01:41:50.080 yeah i didn't even know what to ask him first you're like do you have any questions i'm like oh

01:41:56.140 wait do i even where do i even want to start i know i could i could pick his i have picked his

01:42:01.740 brain for hours that i could do it again man wow he's great yeah have him on again wow yeah

01:42:09.540 yeah i think that's pretty much it for tonight maybe tomorrow we could

01:42:17.000 i think we kind of went through everything um what are your final thoughts doug mpa

01:42:25.360 the numbers do look bleak you know the men we're just gonna have to disengage because

01:42:32.480 everything as you listen you're talking about sex work but the number of sex workers what it costs

01:42:37.540 for men what it costs for men to interact with women in the workplace and dating and stuff and

01:42:44.020 here's the thing about men see women have to uh before they leave a situation they have to let it

01:42:52.420 be known i'm i'm i'm leaving and if i leave now i'm never coming back and you guys are gonna

01:42:58.740 regret it and blah blah blah they go on on social media and have to let what they're doing be known

01:43:04.340 see men we don't do that we just disengage like you'll just we'll just all be gone one day and

01:43:09.540 that's exactly what's happening and i expect society and mainstream are going to use shame

01:43:16.260 insult guilt and the need to be right to try to shame men into doing what men are the pastor doing

01:43:21.120 but they're not going to pass for doing but they're not going to fall for it so um i think

01:43:26.380 most women get upset at men because they change the rules and they're not happy with how men are

01:43:32.600 responding to it so well i think that it's going to be a world weird time in the future

01:43:39.620 and according to his numbers by the time it gets better i'll be 50

01:43:44.720 so i'm not really going to wait around for that yeah i hear you cool all right well um thanks for

01:43:56.080 coming on doug mpa everybody thank you for watching like the video subscribe and if there's

01:44:01.280 anyone else you want me to bring on the channel let me know and i will see you guys uh tomorrow

01:44:06.580 bye have a good one

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Average Women Are Living Better Lives Than Queens and Celebrities and Are Still Not Happy

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