Pearl - Blued Pilled Men Discover Women Ain't Sh＊＊＊＊

00:00:00.000 Holes are gone 1.00

00:00:29.060 ho. Keep it on the low. Hoes are gonna ho. Keep it on the low. Hoes are gonna ho. Everybody 0.98

00:00:49.020 Everybody knows hoes are gonna hoe 1.00

00:01:13.860 Everybody knows hoes are going to hoe. 1.00

00:01:19.860 Everybody knows hoes are going to hoe. 1.00

00:01:24.860 I don't know where I'm going. 1.00

00:01:30.860 But I know they're my true colors showing.

00:01:35.860 Recongeal, meant to be under the old oak tree 1.00

00:01:41.860 Hoes are gonna hoe, keep it on the low 1.00

00:01:52.040 Hoes are gonna hoe, everybody knows 1.00

00:01:57.480 Oh, blue pill men are kind of simps 1.00

00:02:02.900 those ninjas wish that they could pimp but they can't so they got foul wives back home 0.84

00:02:12.820 telling these boys not to be alone but they don't know what their women did when they were long gone 1.00

00:02:20.480 hoes are gonna hoe keep it on the low hoes are gonna hoe everybody knows hoes are gonna hoe 1.00

00:02:32.380 Gen Z says 1.00

00:02:51.160 Relationships ain't for me 0.97

00:02:54.120 Boomer men say 0.96

00:02:57.620 What the hell, baby 1.00

00:02:59.320 Hoes are gonna ho 1.00

00:03:14.080 Keep it on the low 1.00

00:03:17.000 Hoes are gonna ho 1.00

00:03:19.500 Don't let nobody know 1.00

00:03:21.600 Don't let nobody know 1.00

00:03:22.940 Yeah, hoes are gonna ho 1.00

00:03:24.860 Keep it on the low 1.00

00:03:27.000 Keep it on the low

00:03:28.460 Okay, I'll actually give you a real song I'm making.

00:03:40.420 I'll give you a real one.

00:03:41.560 Hold up.

00:03:42.060 Hold up.

00:03:48.660 Let's see.

00:03:51.720 I was going to do this song in an open mic, but I didn't have time, so I'm going to have

00:03:56.120 you guys listen.

00:03:58.460 okay

00:04:16.140 here we go here we go okay it's e a major b major okay

00:04:28.460 i always thought i couldn't be bored at least that's what i was taught

00:04:45.420 i make my own money i do my own thing

00:04:50.300 i never want i'm supposed to a major and then b major sorry guys i never want

00:05:02.620 it's that okay i think i never wanted a ring

00:05:13.200 Strong and independent

00:05:17.340 I don't need no man

00:05:20.500 Oh my gosh 0.99

00:05:23.000 Jet set lifestyle Instagram

00:05:26.160 But then I met you and things started to change

00:05:33.820 Maybe I don't need my last name

00:05:38.240 Now I'm back in the kitchen, kitchen, baking his favorite blueberry pies, back in the kitchen, thinking one day maybe I'll be his wife.

00:06:03.500 Yeah, I never wanted the white picket fence, but maybe with you it makes sense, back in the kitchen.

00:06:17.600 And sometimes we're up, sometimes we're down

00:06:26.480 But I know I'll always be around

00:06:30.980 Cause I'm dancing in the kitchen

00:06:38.620 Baking his favorite blueberry pie back in the kitchen

00:06:44.240 thinking one day maybe i'll be his wife and i never wanted the white picket fence

00:06:52.620 baby with you it makes sense back in the kitchen sort of i you know what's got me

00:06:59.740 sometimes it's like a chord i have trouble

00:07:02.460 We'll be right back.

00:07:32.460 I don't fit in wherever I go.

00:07:56.620 Don't pray enough for the Jesus folk. 0.99

00:08:00.680 I don't fit in wherever I go

00:08:06.320 I'm playing for the Jesus folk 1.00

00:08:10.580 I don't know where I'm going 0.99

00:08:14.400 But I know my color's showing

00:08:16.860 I don't know where you've been

00:08:19.500 But I know you'll be my friend

00:08:21.980 I don't know where we're going

00:08:25.280 I don't know. I'm just kind of messing. I'm just kind of messing. I like it. It relaxes me.

00:08:40.620 If you put in a random word in the chat, if I see it, I will play it.

00:08:55.280 I want to go here, I think.

00:09:21.440 bell pepper skyfall jesus freaks the ninjas over there they're jesus freaks talking about how the

00:09:31.100 skies fall in take a ranch and a good bell pepper i know that you'll stay together

00:09:37.400 i wear orange i'm a father's daughter i know that i'm friends i'm too proud to be in i'm too proud

00:09:51.120 to be a bother i know that maybe it's kind of weird watching me all over here salmonella

00:10:08.160 i like a little bit of vanilla unfortunately i got salmonella

00:10:15.920 First light, first fight, always wanting to be right

00:10:23.000 A little bit of vanilla

00:10:25.920 Yeah, I'm not a lover, I'm a fighter

00:10:39.840 I'm not a lover, I'm a fighter, ain't got time to die

00:10:44.400 Arthritis will be my why

00:10:48.640 Black cat on a roller coaster

00:10:56.700 I know that I am

00:10:58.400 Oh my gosh

00:10:59.220 Okay, I'm done

00:11:00.580 I'm done, I'm done, I'm done

00:11:01.640 These are getting too random

00:11:03.080 I'm messing

00:11:05.920 I'm messing

00:11:07.460 Brad

00:11:09.720 Well, maybe not

00:11:11.100 Hold on

00:11:11.720 Okay, I'm gonna go

00:11:12.500 I'm gonna go longer

00:11:14.040 I'm going to go longer.

00:11:15.180 I can't stop it.

00:11:17.000 Do you know what I did, though?

00:11:17.880 The problem is I took the YouTube app off my phone because I'm like, I'm going to meditate more.

00:11:24.040 This is the problem.

00:11:24.880 This is the problem in modernity.

00:11:26.900 You'll be like, oh, I am going to improve my life by meditating and having silence and doing all that cool stuff.

00:11:37.200 And then you do it, and then you can't do things.

00:11:40.380 You see what I'm saying?

00:11:41.200 Okay, you want the father's daughter song. Actually, my sister requested this song the

00:12:11.180 you taught me to shoot my first basket

00:12:17.820 you taught me to shoot i think it's here

00:12:25.160 oh no it's here i remember sorry i forget the chord progression i write songs in

00:12:33.020 You taught me to shoot my first basket You made us fifth grade conference jams

00:12:41.980 I never cared about the fans I just loved seeing you in the stands

00:12:49.260 Long talks on the ride home I miss them when we're on the phone

00:12:56.240 Cause not all girls get a dad like you

00:13:01.000 And I'm so lucky that I have you Oh, there's no way I could ever thank you

00:13:10.920 For all of the things you helped me to do I'm so happy blood's thicker than water 0.89

00:13:20.400 Cause dammit, I'm so proud to be your daughter 0.96

00:13:26.220 I used to hate green eyes, I wanted blue 0.99

00:13:29.940 But now I love them cause I look like you

00:13:34.900 They say I ain't pretty but I don't care

00:13:39.260 Cause I got your smile and red hair

00:13:41.760 When I look in the mirror I see you

00:13:45.100 Oh cause not all girls get a dad like you

00:13:50.700 And I'm so lucky that I have you

00:13:54.860 Oh, there's no way I could ever thank you

00:14:00.360 For all of the things you helped me to do

00:14:04.900 I'm so happy blood's thicker than water 0.97

00:14:09.540 Cause damn it, I'm so proud to be your daughter 0.98

00:14:14.340 I'm so happy blood's thicker than water 1.00

00:14:20.580 Cause damn it, I'm so proud to be your daughter 0.98

00:14:24.240 When I grow up, I want to be like you 0.99

00:14:29.040 Even if I'm half as good as you

00:14:34.040 You're the man I've always looked up to

00:14:38.720 When I grow up, I want to be like you

00:14:43.560 I never cared about the money or fame

00:14:49.700 I'm just proud that I have your last name

00:14:53.200 because not all girls get a dad like you and i'm so lucky that i have you

00:15:03.680 oh there's no way i could ever thank you for all of the things you helped me to do 0.94

00:15:14.560 i'm so happy blood's thicker than water cause damn it i'm so proud to be your daughter 0.66

00:15:23.200 I'm so happy blood's thicker than water 0.99

00:15:27.640 Cause I'm so damn proud to be your daughter

00:15:32.780 I just thought of a lyric I could have

00:15:36.880 Instead of

00:15:37.760 Instead of

00:15:39.820 They say I'm not pretty but I don't care

00:15:45.900 Cause I got your smile and red hair

00:15:48.320 I can make it more specific

00:15:49.900 They say I got a big no

00:15:51.920 because i said my dad's nose say i got a big nose but i don't care no maybe not

00:15:59.860 i don't know i think i don't think

00:16:21.920 okay i'll show you another song i wrote f it the only problem is i get stuck in this chord pattern

00:16:31.800 because it's so much easier for me to remember uh so this one i want to write right but put in

00:16:36.980 a different key all right here we you know what i'm gonna find it i have these in my notes i've

00:16:44.020 written so many songs over the years ellie stop licking me you can be pet though you can be pet

00:16:49.600 Trying to remember what chord pattern I did this one in.

00:17:19.600 I'm trying to hold back for now, I'm trying to hold back for now

00:17:29.600 Cause I've never felt like this before, your tune, your tune

00:17:38.600 I'm trying to hold back for now, cause I've never felt like this before

00:17:48.600 You're too good for me, that's for sure

00:18:00.600 Oh, this love is so divine You make me want to take my time

00:18:10.600 A guy like you who is hard to fight, you've got the upper hand and I can't hide it, I'm falling for you but trying to deny it, oh deny it, deny it, cause that's a lot of power to give someone, and I'm afraid you'll up and run.

00:18:37.080 I feel like I'm drunk when I'm so sober If I fall in love with you, it's over 0.98

00:18:45.880 You're the one I'll never get over I could fall in love, but damn, I shouldn't 0.97

00:18:56.460 I could give you my heart, but I wish I wouldn't 0.83

00:19:02.340 Maybe I'm too closed off, but is the risk worth the cost?

00:19:08.360 You've got the upper hand and I can't fight it

00:19:12.320 Cause that's a lot of power to give someone

00:19:16.540 And I'm afraid you'll up and run

00:19:19.300 Feel like I'm drunk when I'm so sober

00:19:23.040 If I fall in love with you, it's over

00:19:28.320 you're the one i'll never get over thank you thank you stop it encore encore stop it you guys

00:19:39.680 stop it stop are you doing tomatoes all right that's extreme

00:19:45.120 oh my gosh really let's see okay why don't you guys show me show me what you can do

00:19:57.260 Why don't you go out there and show me what you can do?

00:20:03.980 I can't even believe that.

00:20:05.640 Oh, my God.

00:20:06.340 They're throwing more tomatoes.

00:20:08.780 Oh, my God.

00:20:12.320 Do you know what I would do?

00:20:13.580 I would throw the tomatoes back.

00:20:15.240 Yeah, throwing it back.

00:20:19.300 Yeah, let's see your.

00:20:22.160 Oh, no.

00:20:24.980 Oh, no.

00:20:27.260 they're doing it more. Oh my gosh. Let's see. Let's see your original songs. Let's see your

00:20:39.820 original, whatever. I'm going to still do it next show. I don't care. I care a lot. It's okay. Next

00:20:45.900 show. I'm doing it. It's going to happen every show. So I'm going to come to the next show with

00:20:55.080 some tomatoes because i actually have a tomato plant and i swear i swear on my life i got i just

00:21:00.660 got a tomato and i'll bring it to throw right back yeah yeah that's what i thought that's what i

00:21:14.560 thought that's what i thought all right guys um i do beg for money on this show so please send me

00:21:24.100 your money um obviously you don't have to but um there's a lot of costs that are associated with

00:21:30.600 the channel so if you do enjoy the show you get joy out of this um it's better me than only fans

00:21:37.500 horse that's what i'm saying you know what i mean okay all right guys um

00:21:47.300 thank you for being here um i really appreciate you guys uh we start off by doing my music for

00:21:57.440 those of you that are new to the show um then oh my gosh do you see this why does this happen

00:22:03.940 when i play guitar let me know in the chat um then we go through twitter um i deleted all the

00:22:13.340 apps off my phone so there's probably going to be less tweets today but heck let's check out the

00:22:20.140 news cycle what's going on on twitter i whenever i can't sleep and i'm like do you know what i 0.65

00:22:27.060 just i can't sleep because i just i just had to um i had to tweet oh yeah women always can never 0.76

00:22:40.420 have something fun so i decided um i decided that i was gonna roast some e-girls and really i think 0.90

00:22:50.820 i was doing them a favor by roasting them now i know what you're thinking pearl that's so mean 0.96

00:22:55.620 but these women i want you to know they've all made videos on me for years i promise to god they 1.00

00:23:02.020 all started it all of them and i'm petty um and i wanted to so i thought it would be funny to roast 0.99

00:23:08.820 them and um chen 1.00

00:23:13.140 it's it's a total victim move every now and then pearl randomly sends a bunch of women on here 1.00

00:23:20.080 including me mean dms it's like she'll go on podcast talk talk trash about me which i again

00:23:26.760 i don't really i i don't mind i'm on the internet this is this is fun for me um and then say oh no

00:23:32.580 pearls being so mean to me pearls being so mean i enjoyed your song but only a little not too much

00:23:40.500 thank you ten dollars thank you 0.80

00:23:42.600 hold on i don't want to show other people's but this is the thing about e-girls they can never

00:23:49.680 let the group chat be the group chat it's like ladies i thought we had something fun going 1.00

00:23:54.660 i thought we had something fun going and then she has to leak the dms

00:23:59.260 lauren chen uh welcome to the chat um are you done trad baiting on the timeline i didn't believe the 1.00

00:24:10.120 one baby wipe and it's over thing until i saw you who babysat the kids while the feds grilled you

00:24:15.620 for funneling russian money the hubby i guess seeing as he has nothing else going on because 1.00

00:24:20.620 here's the thing here's of these women yeah um yeah i really just wanted to i remembered ashley

00:24:28.840 say claire was going viral for her like interviews and i'm like i'm in a group chat i can contact her 1.00

00:24:34.360 which by the way these ladies started the group chat which okay whatever but

00:24:39.460 um so then i put in savannah hernandez she says based on this man's alone i can tell he

00:24:48.620 regularly doesn't eat meat and i just thought well um what the these are not did she cut off

00:24:56.700 half the oh my god she cut off half the dms okay i can't put all of the

00:25:02.940 i'll read them from my phone i'll read them from my phone because i'm not trying to

00:25:09.540 if i know the app is gone this is what i get 1.00

00:25:13.980 then she puts um a thing where she you know these women are so racist i had a black ex-boyfriend 1.00

00:25:26.680 we fell in love we broke up he was a great guy didn't work out and then um you know they just 0.98

00:25:33.640 make fun of me because they're racist right and um i'm a little racist but i'm like fun racist i

00:25:39.460 don't have any hatred in my heart you know um then so i respond to her and i said because she cut off 0.98

00:25:48.280 my response i'm like lauren you didn't lose your virginity to liam you're racist some christian 0.99

00:25:55.140 you are birmingham young university's own russian comfort woman and now that you're done lying you 0.99

00:26:01.780 can retract your lie to apologize to crowder yeah because crowder is um

00:26:09.060 yeah my racism is based on hilarity not actually hatred

00:26:16.800 oh I can read my computer if I don't share the screen thank you for the problem solving thank

00:26:28.020 you um yeah I just really wanted to I don't know I just I thought it was funny and 1.00

00:26:35.740 but these ladies are so uptight it's like well 1.00

00:26:41.180 oh okay i'll read all my roasts back to back i said hello ladies i see ashley took my advice 1.00

00:26:54.240 i also see i'm the only one in here with a boyfriend with a six-pack 1.00

00:26:58.180 ashley since you don't mind being part of elon's harem why don't you be a good woman and recruit

00:27:03.420 some more lauren after the destiny divorce you should apply lauren chen welcome to the chat 0.97

00:27:08.440 are you done trad baiting on the timeline i didn't believe the one baby wipe and it's over thing 0.97

00:27:13.500 until i saw you who babysat the kids while the feds grilled you for russian money the hubby i

00:27:18.940 guess seeing as he had nothing going on then i put in based on this man's arm alone i can tell 0.99

00:27:25.180 he doesn't regularly eat meat so i i decided you know same energy and based on your lack of ass 0.79

00:27:31.240 quad and honestly everything i can tell you don't work out or anything how are you supposed to find 1.00

00:27:36.280 a husband when you have no ass. And then I responded to her last video or her last chat 0.99

00:27:43.200 to me, which was like saying she'll pray for me, Savannah. And when women tell me they

00:27:47.800 want to pray for me, I really like to tell them to take their prayers and shove them 1.00

00:27:53.820 up their ass. So I said, you should pray harder because it doesn't work. Then Lauren comes 1.00

00:27:58.220 in. She says, Southern, loving that this is back. Savannah, so true queen. So going to

00:28:05.160 get a bbl in the morning so i can get a husband pearl davis is undefeated with her again the 0.97

00:28:09.480 racism mud shark dating advice thank you uh maybe if we go together they'll give us a discount 1.00

00:28:15.660 lauren southern comes in crashing out under zero pressure is incredible pearl big fan savannah the

00:28:22.140 fact that you revived this chat after an entire year sees how badly you needed content are you

00:28:27.940 good fam so then i respond and i say not as big of a fan as i am for you to reclaim your love

00:28:35.140 with steven aka destiny keep trying learn from ashley st claire surely one of you baby mothers

00:28:43.220 will land yourself a leftist streamer we're gonna have so much fun in our debate i love you

00:28:48.900 that's lauren as long as you get someone to babysit your ex's kid seeing as you took him

00:28:53.780 away from the dad so he can't do it um chen doesn't understand the baby wipe um the baby 0.99

00:29:02.820 wipe uh confront like the like because she wears a lot of makeup she wears a lot of makeup

00:29:13.060 and she does this tradlark but i'm like how can you do a tradlark 1.00

00:29:17.220 and wear a pound of makeup those those are antithetical 1.00

00:29:25.060 antithetical okay

00:29:26.500 it means stop jailbaiting chen bet

00:29:32.300 i bet you didn't know what it meant when they told you to take this absurd amount of money to 0.99

00:29:41.480 be a whore for the kremlin either then she said oh to think i was worried about offending you 1.00

00:29:49.700 and then i said the mixed chinese woman advocating for communist china from canada is trying to fuck 1.00

00:30:00.060 with american issues after funneling money from the russian government when they're done with 1.00

00:30:05.480 hamass piker they need to subpoena you too jail is full of black people the same way 0.55

00:30:10.620 birmingham was full of white people that needed you as a comfort woman what a good christian you 0.95

00:30:17.940 are. Did you lose your virginity to Liam? Yeah. You know, I just, I was bored. I'm going to be 0.98

00:30:28.500 honest. I was bored and I thought it was funny. I was bored and I thought it was funny. That's all

00:30:36.060 i got but i got no sympathy i got no sympathy for these ladies uh these ladies have been slinging 1.00

00:30:50.980 mud at me for years years that last line was fire i know it's because here's the thing right 0.99

00:30:58.660 these ladies um they sling mud because my ex-boyfriend he was actually a very successful

00:31:04.440 tick tocker right um was very good to me at the time we broke up it didn't work out whatever um

00:31:12.040 none of you guys are virgins when you met your husband who did you guys date

00:31:19.640 it's like you know i mean they're pretty mean to this this guy you know anyways um

00:31:34.440 so yeah i was bored it was funny the end okay um and i i just wanted to

00:31:49.560 let's see what else oh my gosh i saw this f round and find out thing

00:31:54.120 so this girl asked her boyfriend if she could kiss this other guy 0.62

00:32:00.980 And then the guy said yes 0.89

00:32:03.680 And then he crashed out

00:32:04.980 There you go

00:32:09.340 Why? 1.00

00:32:11.500 I'm confused as fuck dog 0.99

00:32:13.320 Why not apparently 1.00

00:32:17.840 What the fuck 0.99

00:32:19.080 Also made out of goo 1.00

00:32:21.300 Yeah I make out with guys and shit 1.00

00:32:24.160 What the fuck 1.00

00:32:26.620 Wow really? 1.00

00:32:27.820 I feel like I'm in the middle 1.00

00:32:30.220 wait you really like you literally just said holy fuck you literally just said you were 1.00

00:32:35.100 fine with it and now you're putting my sit up uh sit up yes you're getting the fuck 1.00

00:32:41.600 out of my rv right now are you fucking seriously why why get the fuck out of my fucking rv wait 1.00

00:32:50.040 why though can i get out get away okay why what the fuck is wrong with you get away get 1.00

00:32:58.440 away from me stop crying bitch get out get out get out get out leave right now leave right now 1.00

00:33:13.120 leave leave good for you my ninja finally oh my god i've been waiting for men to have self-respect 1.00

00:33:20.900 oh i've been waiting i've been waiting leave leave minette oh my god the actual fuck is wrong with 0.99

00:33:29.760 nothing i just want you to get out of my fucking rv right now you're not allowed to be in here 1.00

00:33:33.840 get away what is wrong get away don't cry on my face no y'all you gotta never do anything get out 1.00

00:33:41.520 leave leave get out i'm just stuck in the middle get the fuck out and you too get the fuck i was 1.00

00:33:46.340 in the middle yeah no get out get out oh you said it was fine and then now you're pissed 1.00

00:33:50.360 Yeah, yeah, because I bet you I mean he was just seeing he's like, okay, do it

00:34:14.000 Young men

00:34:20.360 What's actually wrong with you? 1.00

00:34:22.440 What the fuck is that? 1.00

00:34:23.460 Leave! 1.00

00:34:24.260 No! 1.00

00:34:25.180 Sit the fuck down and talk to me now! 1.00

00:34:27.640 Get the fuck away! 1.00

00:34:28.920 Leave! 1.00

00:34:29.780 Get out! 1.00

00:34:30.640 Get out! 1.00

00:34:31.680 Get out! 1.00

00:34:32.640 Leave!

00:34:33.040 Bro, what did I do?

00:34:34.160 Leave! 1.00

00:34:35.180 I don't want you here, bitch! 1.00

00:34:36.980 He asked him. 1.00

00:34:38.180 And then we got these boomer men.

00:34:41.480 Gen Z.

00:34:41.940 Why are Gen Z men not dating? 0.99

00:34:45.720 Get out! 1.00

00:34:47.380 He asked him if he could kiss me.

00:34:49.060 You see the man he's like, okay. Yeah, all right. I'm leaving. I'm leaving. He's not. He's not

00:35:13.740 arguing but the woman crash out crash out she asked if she if she asked if she should kiss me

00:35:28.940 and then he said yes and then she kissed me and then after she kissed me he flipped out

00:35:35.480 you literally said follow fights yeah that's amazing oh i posted some of my whiteboard

00:35:43.880 videos on here oh this was so funny oh my gosh look at this

00:35:50.520 Hello ma'am. Hey, good morning. I'm Leverry Casale with the Pumper's County Sheriff's Office.

00:36:06.680 This is why you're being pulled over. The city of Legworth today we're doing an operation for

00:36:09.820 distracted driver. You drove past me holding the phone with your right hand manipulating that phone.

00:36:13.980 I mean, I saw you in the front of your hand. So obviously not. So you want to just call this a

00:36:20.020 day i don't want to call a day you had a hand up when you just said my right hand well i thought

00:36:24.580 i told you right hand the right hand i saw you manipulate it with the right hand perhaps not

00:36:30.820 right you didn't see me with my right hand so are you saying that you saw me with i know what

00:36:35.300 i just said i know what i just said i'm asking you now did you think you're not having fun on

00:36:38.900 your hand you did not have you funny hand to god you don't have one hand to god the other hand

00:36:44.820 i can't believe like did you see he still gave her a ticket the ego on this cop oh my gosh

00:36:58.260 oh wait here this is her part two oh my gosh so funny

00:37:04.260 oh wait

00:37:07.460 we're driving with the device in our right hand but um they just sent me the body cam footage so

00:37:13.140 I thought you guys might like a little treat before tomorrow.

00:37:28.660 Hello, ma'am. Hey, good morning. I'm Debra Rico Salah with the Pompers County Sheriff's Office.

00:37:32.420 This is why you're being pulled over. The City of Labor today we're doing an operation for

00:37:35.620 distracted driving. You drove past me holding the phone with your right hand manipulating that phone.

00:37:39.700 i mean i saw you obviously not so you want to just call this a day i don't want to call it

00:37:47.220 okay it's the same one hilarious um 0.96

00:37:55.140 uh ashley st claire is making her rounds in all these podcasts

00:37:58.980 um all right let's react to this this is going to be a shorter show today because i think i'm

00:38:10.260 going to do a third one this weekend because i'm going to put out the street interview from sunday

00:38:15.220 um probably today or tomorrow and then i want to review it so i'll probably review it either

00:38:20.580 saturday night or sunday maybe we'll see when we get it out

00:38:24.660 going on with young men gen z specifically 60 of them under 30 are not even dating by the way 62

00:38:34.100 percent of them are not even wanting to date gen z men this is a high of 2019 when it was 51

00:38:40.740 so even though they're getting older the older they get they're like i'm not even interested

00:38:44.180 in dating why not you know what the average cost of a date is for gen z today when they go out

00:38:48.260 two hundred and five dollars who's expected to pay for it of course men millennials average

00:38:52.580 cost for dinner is 252. gen z is 205 the national average is 189. we need more gen z dating because

00:38:59.380 we need more babies especially with our birth rate dropping i'm going to share with you if you're

00:39:02.740 watching this as a young man same path what can i do to succeed in a market because i'm looking

00:39:08.980 for girls i'm going to give you certain tips that helped me when i was 23. yeah this guy is going to

00:39:15.220 gonna give the worst tips ever i just can't imagine anything of value he's gonna add hopefully it'll

00:39:20.640 help you out as well so if you value out of this video give it a thumbs up and subscribe to the

00:39:26.580 channel specifically the 51 of you that consume the content on a weekly basis but you still

00:39:31.560 haven't subscribed we're on our way to get to 10 million subscribers we're less than 3 million

00:39:35.980 subscribers away from getting there it would mean a lot to us if you take a moment and smash that

00:39:39.900 subscribe button. Having said that, let's get right into it. Okay. Crisis by the numbers. We

00:39:45.220 already know 60% of young men are not dating. 62% are not even trying to date up from 51% compared

00:39:51.200 to just 34% for women. So women are like, no, no, I want to date. I want to go out there and meet 0.99

00:39:55.520 people. Young men are like, no, no, no, I'm leaving the marketplace. Yeah. But it's because

00:39:59.560 women are insufferable. Young women have insufferable attitudes. It's not even just the 1.00

00:40:05.860 body count although that's one thing but it's you know when i do um street interviews it's like okay

00:40:12.660 i'll i'll ask you want to do the question of the day or whatever and the most people just 0.98

00:40:18.400 politely say no and the young women like snicker at you it's like damn ninja 0.92

00:40:23.080 it's like all right just say no keep going but they're you know place i don't want to do this 0.96

00:40:33.800 apps like Tinder are heavily skewed towards male users.

00:40:37.780 76% of Tinder users are men.

00:40:40.200 So guess what? 0.82

00:40:41.100 It's like going to a nightclub and it's not ladies night.

00:40:44.020 You're going to a nightclub and everybody there 0.92

00:40:46.260 is a bunch of men at a nightclub. 1.00

00:40:48.140 Your options are you wanna go to a place where women are there. 0.99

00:40:50.560 We're gonna talk about that here in a minute. 1.00

00:40:52.380 Studies suggest roughly 80% of men

00:40:55.780 are rated as below average in attractiveness

00:40:59.160 leading many to feel inadequate or ignored.

00:41:02.140 You know what's the interesting thing? 0.96

00:41:03.400 Okay, you go to the women.

00:41:04.520 Do you want to date a guy you're not attracted to?

00:41:06.500 No.

00:41:07.860 Same problem. 1.00

00:41:08.740 Women will always share men. 1.00

00:41:10.620 Are we taking away women's choice? 0.97

00:41:12.200 No.

00:41:12.720 Same problem.

00:41:13.740 It's a circle of life.

00:41:15.000 Today I came back from speaking at the school, and there's all these kids in this classroom,

00:41:18.660 and I go up on the board, and I write these numbers down.

00:41:21.840 I write 14, and I write 3.

00:41:24.940 I said, can I ask you guys a question?

00:41:26.320 Can anybody tell me what this 14-3 means?

00:41:28.220 One girl's like, that's a date according to a European calendar, and they're going through

00:41:33.140 this other stuff so let me tell you what this means i walk into this classroom there was 14

00:41:38.020 girls to three boys and i sat there and i'm like wait a minute these are great ratios one of the

00:41:44.260 guys that's a boy is my son so i'm like hey son you listen you got a lot of good options you're

00:41:47.860 right these are these are the types of ratios you want so now if you're watching and saying

00:41:51.460 how do i put myself in a position to have more options so when they say 80 of its attractiveness 1.00

00:41:57.700 all this other stuff look at some of the most beautiful women in the world are they all married

00:42:01.780 to attractive men not necessarily so what did these men have that these girls dated and chose 0.68

00:42:06.560 to go with them there's a reason for that we're going to talk about that so now biggest dating

00:42:10.240 fears pervasive fear of being perceived as creepy or toxic oh my god you're too much this is too

00:42:17.160 much this is too pushy so approach anxiety a growing fear of being viewed as disrespectful

00:42:22.440 well the problem is they've a lot of young guys have seen their male friends have real consequences

00:42:28.640 is for approaching in public. I mean, I'd still recommend to do it, to be honest, but

00:42:34.680 you know, it's not really going to change what it is. Polygamy is the best option, 1.00

00:42:42.400 seeing as how women want masculine men and too many men refuse to become masculine. That's true. 1.00

00:42:47.780 That's true. You know, polygamy, it's not something I'd really,

00:42:51.300 i don't want to put it i don't want to say i'm pushing it but i just can't deny that it logically 0.62

00:42:59.340 makes sense i saw these polygamy channels they're like bring her to the polygamy conference i'm like

00:43:04.360 look i'm not i'm not that deep with it i just you know i think logically it does make sense

00:43:10.500 even though i think it would be difficult for me personally to accept you know

00:43:14.680 who's watching the kid me lol that is the answer love you pearl

00:43:19.900 intrusive or contributing to toxic masculinity has caused many young men to stop approaching

00:43:27.520 women in real life which by the way young men if you're listening to this you're creating this

00:43:31.800 imagination this doesn't exist by the way this has been around for a long time you know you know

00:43:35.900 what the hardest thing is today there was a video the other day with charlise theron the actress

00:43:40.100 that's been a lot of different movies devil's advocate a lot of different movies this is

00:43:43.600 supposed to be one of the most beautiful women in the world i think she was also in that movie

00:43:46.840 with golfing legends of bagger vans with matt damon if i'm not mistaken can you verify this 0.99

00:43:51.720 the girl's asking her so how many men approach you she says you'd be amazed nobody it's like wait 0.91

00:43:57.320 what you're this beautiful no one's no one's approaching me why not i don't know well she's 0.92

00:44:02.040 old now they're scared guys are scared so you really think if 34 of women are out there that

00:44:08.840 are off the market but 61 maybe men are just giving up and they're getting a little bit scared

00:44:14.360 because the reality of it is women what the right ones want you to approach them and a lot of

00:44:19.080 but here's the issue is that even the top approach like men always will look at things as an roi 0.99

00:44:25.720 so the top approach artists let's say they have like a 10 success rate which would be

00:44:32.600 uh pretty like 10 date rate and then let's say they sleep with like five out of a hundred

00:44:37.480 that's so much time that you have to put in to get good at approaching women

00:44:43.520 and then they have to ask themselves what do i get out of this maybe sex but for how long

00:44:55.440 how good is the sex risk of stds you know men just do the cost benefit analysis and they're 0.66

00:45:01.700 like okay i know a few guys that have gotten completely screwed by hooking up with the wrong 0.90

00:45:05.440 girl you know it's not even i don't even think it's just um the sex for men it's just the constant 0.52

00:45:14.240 problems that come with dating a woman guys are getting out of the market this is kind of like

00:45:19.260 when 2008 happened you know what happened to realtors overnight we had some 600 000 realtors

00:45:25.200 in america in 2006 2007 overnight 40 didn't renew their licenses 240 000 left the real estate

00:45:32.560 industry because it was so difficult so it's like oh my god it's so hard to be in real estate yes but

00:45:37.280 if you're good the market's going to come back to you and have an option because you have more

00:45:41.000 homeowners that are looking for fewer realtors so you can look at that as an edge now let's look at

00:45:45.220 this because some of this is valid some young men are really going through it as a matter of fact

00:45:49.020 what's so funny about this topic is this was the conversation we were having this last saturday

00:45:53.360 night when we're out with the family it was about dating when my 14 year old 12 year old and my

00:45:57.000 family was sitting there we're going through it barriers to dating survey shows that the biggest

00:46:00.720 barrier to gen z dating is not having money 52 of survey agree watch this not enough time because

00:46:06.880 of career so there's a guy on twitter maury hill he actually ran a cost per nut hold on

00:46:19.440 with his friends i guess here let's see

00:46:21.600 see where is it okay he compiled data from him and his friends last 100 hinge dates looks range

00:46:35.100 from 5.5 to 7.8 beautiful mid um 27 out of 100 dates led to hooking up total spent across all

00:46:43.520 100 dates, 11,842. Breakdown, 7,300 drinks. And drinks average is 73 per date, $1,800 for dinners

00:46:56.580 in the app, 742 random coffee, walks, ice cream, et cetera. Cost per nut is $354 because most took

00:47:06.700 until the date third date to hook up um the most efficient pipeline two drinks back to a apartment

00:47:14.460 87 dollars cost per nut worst performer took did five dates a thousand one hundred and twenty two

00:47:21.880 dollars spent and got and i think we're better as friends text on date six um so you know with

00:47:28.800 these numbers you have to think if it's taking guys three dates to hook up with a girl that

00:47:33.720 means that most of them are dealing with girls hooking up with someone else that don't like them

00:47:37.980 that much. I'm 42 and these needs to, dude, and these dudes need to step it up. The Juco rocks.

00:47:47.160 For your education priorities. I'm so busy. I'm just trying to get my career going. I'm

00:47:51.200 going to school. I don't have the time to date. Great. Men agree. Women agree. Blue is men. Don't

00:47:56.500 want to commit long-term. So they're afraid of long-term commitment. Okay. Bad dating experience

00:48:01.400 in the past. You know who's had it? Every single one of us. Either you were the bad experience or

00:48:05.980 the girl was the bad experience, but we've all been part of that experience. Most of us lack

00:48:10.400 confidence. I'm worried. I don't have the confidence. We can work on this. Not enough

00:48:15.020 money for dating activities. We can also work on that, which we'll talk about here in a minute.

00:48:19.540 So when we go lower and we're looking at the dating cost, it leads us to this, okay? Dating,

00:48:24.520 marriage, skills, gap. Desire and attitude are not the problem. They want to build connections

00:48:29.880 explore long-term partner this is young men young adults need dating skills yeah the issue um

00:48:38.520 the issue is a lot of things women require like women want you to be popular and it's so much 0.90

00:48:43.160 money in the cities to be a popular person and then people leave they come back it's like

00:48:50.280 yeah and chad hooks up for free so lack of i would think more men want long-term relationships

00:48:57.160 some women experience social and emotional confidence stretch develop social skills struggle

00:49:01.560 to express interest in dating partner struggle to communicate on a date less than four in 10 37

00:49:07.080 said they trusted their judgment when it comes to choosing a dating partner there's a book i read

00:49:14.200 which my assistant many many years ago told me about i said listen i just made a decision i'm

00:49:18.280 never getting married i enjoy my own company she says yeah yeah whatever i said i'm telling you i

00:49:22.440 i'll go to movies by myself i'll go to dinner by myself i enjoy my own company she says before you

00:49:26.920 decide to be single single the rest of your life this morning i was listening to this christian

00:49:31.240 radio channel and this guy was talking about a book called 101 questions to ask before you get

00:49:35.400 engaged so she says you should go by so i'll buy the book it sits on my desk i do nothing with it

00:49:39.960 i'm thinking i don't have time to go through a book i open it up it's literally a question

00:49:44.600 and an answer you write the answer it's blank so i went and started answering all the questions

00:49:49.320 some of the questions were not in i think 54 of them were important to me by the time it was done

00:49:53.880 And I'm like, all this time, I thought I knew what I was looking for for a woman.

00:49:58.120 I was looking for this.

00:49:59.860 That's crazy. 0.81

00:50:00.900 And then I wrote out exactly what I want her to look like physically, literally. 0.93

00:50:04.880 Height, personality, temperament, because I wanted to see how she was going to be my kids.

00:50:09.340 My personality is here. 1.00

00:50:10.700 I can't date a girl like this. 0.99

00:50:11.940 When I did, we almost killed each other. 0.77

00:50:13.560 It was like World War III.

00:50:15.120 So I had to kind of find a way for temperament, right?

00:50:17.140 I'm thinking family, kids, long term.

00:50:19.380 And when my wife and I went on our first date.

00:50:21.380 Pearl, as a woman, why watch this? 0.87

00:50:23.880 ninja why are you here you're here to nag me about the video i choose to watch 1.00

00:50:30.240 you paid me to nag me why are you watching this what are you a woman 0.99

00:50:36.840 i'll take the two dollars but get out of here you know what i told her i said i'm not here 1.00

00:50:43.060 to hook up with you i said i'm looking for a wife i took her to borders i bought the book for her

00:50:48.060 101 questions to ask before you get engaged i said if this freaks you out i'm super comfortable

00:50:52.560 with that if you're just thinking i want to go out and have fun that's not this guy there's plenty

00:50:56.720 of guys out there i managed the expectations right there and i made sure she know i'm okay if i lose 1.00

00:51:03.440 her yeah you can't lead with long term now that's kind of women women's like um we love taming the

00:51:11.540 bad boy you know so i i i really don't recommend men okay you can't tell women your intentions 0.86

00:51:20.540 I think it's actually kind of low IQ to just and I don't think he's a low IQ guy obviously he's very 0.50

00:51:26.820 smart but just are you gonna like tell the enemy what you're gonna do women are the enemy like 1.00

00:51:33.000 that's that's treating her as if she's a good person women aren't good people right so you tell 1.00

00:51:38.740 her oh I want something long term now she's gonna not tell you about all the whoring she did she's 0.98

00:51:44.440 gonna assume you have no choice because it's like imagine what kind of guy's gonna say that a guy 0.99

00:51:53.120 with no bitches that's just how our hard wiring goes so i always see on dating apps men put like

00:51:58.440 looking for marriage it's like um like why would why would men put that since the beginning of time 1.00

00:52:06.700 women have always been monetized nothing is free fellas that's life

00:52:10.320 too many times if you're kind of like well but what if i lose her that's a turnoff no this is 0.99

00:52:23.500 my standards this is what i'm looking forward to this is what i'm going to do with my life

00:52:28.640 if you value that let's go if not i totally get it if you if your approach isn't that way and the

00:52:34.840 girl's looking at you saying why is this guy so insecure about his position and his situation

00:52:38.280 where he said, this is where I'm at. This is what I want to do in my life. And remember,

00:52:41.900 that wasn't the case with me in 2002 when I was 24 years old, 23 years old. I was, oh my God,

00:52:48.660 I got to get this. But I had to shift my mindset because I had to increase my what? What was the

00:52:53.200 confidence here? Some words says confidence. I had to increase this. So when it says 37%

00:52:57.960 questioning their judgment, why? Because you're second guessing yourself. You don't believe in

00:53:02.320 what you're doing. Decision making with the business is the same exact way. Raising your

00:53:06.000 kids it's the same exact way you know what i don't know if i'm a right 100 but this is what

00:53:09.900 we're going to be i actually think this is why successful men struggle in love because they go

00:53:15.400 at it from like a business transaction and women are based on feelings at least i'm leading to

00:53:20.860 people i'm working with so stay with me here because i got some notes i wrote on the side

00:53:24.380 that i'm going to go through with you as well so i want you to think about a couple things here

00:53:27.980 remember i told you to charlize their own story remember i told you which is like boys are not

00:53:32.880 approaching me okay so guys don't talk to her is it on her that guys are not talking to her 0.98

00:53:39.640 is she too you know masculine and girl guys the one masculine girl so maybe it's an unattractive

00:53:47.040 that you're too masculine so some of the ladies watching this i'm a girl boss i'm a this i'm a

00:53:51.480 that the other day i was watching a podcast with joe button i learned a lot about women i think i

00:53:55.740 learned exactly how the fall of man occurred in the garden of eden adam and eve were in the garden

00:54:00.880 of eden and adam said one day wow eve here we are one with nature one with god we'll never age we'll

00:54:05.600 never die and all our dreams come true the instant that we have them and he said yeah it's just not

00:54:12.140 enough is it that's not funny i was just waiting for more that's hilarious well that was kind of

00:54:30.300 his point she says i don't get it i didn't think that was a big deal joe says the guy just made

00:54:42.180 his point because no one can make you happy so but those are not the girls to pursue because

00:54:48.620 you're never going to make them happy you'll be miserable if you're pursuing those girls so if

00:54:52.820 you're watching this you're like hey i'm that girl well good luck to you i don't know what

00:54:56.020 kind of a guy you're going to find but you're going to make us happy because we don't want

00:54:59.560 to date a masculine girl so maybe she's the problem maybe maybe it's on the guys that are

00:55:04.700 scared saying well she's too pretty she would never be interested in me maybe she would be

00:55:07.940 maybe you ought to take the risk maybe it's 50 50 maybe it's five percent is it worth taking the

00:55:12.580 risk sure what's the worst thing she's gonna say not interested okay great and you move on right

00:55:17.040 and then maybe it's you know sex is too ill so it's kind of like well i don't know about that

00:55:24.040 i'm just gonna go swipe right and you know a couple of our guests when we're on the road and

00:55:27.700 We're doing interviews.

00:55:28.480 One of our guys, I won't say his name, we're in LA.

00:55:30.820 And he's like, yeah, I'm going to see what the LA market's like.

00:55:32.900 I said, what the hell does it look like?

00:55:35.260 Long time fan, first time donor. 1.00

00:55:36.960 Can you do a whiteboard on overweight women coping?

00:55:39.800 I absolutely can. 0.88

00:55:41.600 Doug MPA, if you could just put that in our whiteboard videos, I'll add it to the list for next one.

00:55:46.480 What does this mean?

00:55:46.820 I've been married for 16, 17 years.

00:55:48.640 I've been in the same relationship since December 29th of 2017.

00:55:51.940 So I'm going to swipe right to see what the LA market looks like.

00:55:54.100 I don't know if you remember this or not.

00:55:56.180 I wasn't.

00:55:57.100 I was actually disappointed.

00:55:58.060 The next time, I'm like, that's it?

00:55:59.740 Here's that, that's it.

00:56:00.900 So you swipe right and you went and, yeah.

00:56:03.860 So it's become so transactional.

00:56:05.820 Why would I flirt with her?

00:56:07.620 I already got what I wanted.

00:56:09.360 So now you may say, Pat, that's not me.

00:56:10.980 I want something serious, fair.

00:56:12.320 Let's talk about that.

00:56:13.640 So what is the purpose of dating somebody? 1.00

00:56:16.340 What is the purpose of dating the opposite sex? 0.99

00:56:18.940 Is it a fling? 0.99

00:56:20.980 Like, I just want to go out there and have fun.

00:56:22.560 Great.

00:56:22.980 So your outcome is different.

00:56:24.060 Go swipe right.

00:56:25.180 If your outcome is this, go learn how to DM.

00:56:28.420 Go improve your DM game.

00:56:30.760 Go improve how to...

00:56:31.940 Oh, no.

00:56:33.040 I didn't mean to do that.

00:56:34.140 Sorry, guys.

00:56:38.160 Oh, here we go.

00:56:51.400 You know what I'm talking about?

00:56:52.820 That's the wrong approach.

00:56:53.760 maybe okay so i actually agree with him there because the red pill does have answers

00:56:58.380 you don't know the emoji game maybe you need to get a little bit better in the texting part

00:57:07.020 right because we used to make phone calls now people are texting but if this is the world

00:57:10.800 you're solving for it's a transactional world today we have to how do you solve for okay you

00:57:16.820 have this woman on a date that did sex work years ago and there's no evidence

00:57:20.600 like that you know that's a real problem for gen z as you find out the girl you're in love with

00:57:26.580 does only fan go pursue it today's transactional maybe you want to have kids i want to have kids

00:57:32.000 i don't really care who the wife is i just want to have kids maybe you're lonely and you want

00:57:36.160 some attention friday night you're sick and tired of going to the clubs you would rather go out with

00:57:40.460 somebody have a companion conversation your day ends you come to your apartment you're sitting

00:57:44.500 there watching esps sports center and honestly your girlfriends become one of these guys on

00:57:49.180 you spend that you watch every night or you watch a movie or networks or documentary i just want to

00:57:52.980 talk to somebody i want to have somebody great that's what you're solving for maybe you just

00:57:56.980 want to be cool right and you're kind of like man i got a girlfriend buddy look at her she's a little

00:58:01.960 hottie because i'm cool i got a girl or maybe you want a spouse if you're watching and saying i want

00:58:07.740 a wife and you want to have a family you have to be selective and your approach has to be clear

00:58:15.080 And even if this turns them off, turns them off.

00:58:18.880 So then this leads me to the last one.

00:58:20.580 It really sounds like dating advice my dad would give.

00:58:24.300 Because this is a smart guy, right?

00:58:26.600 And he's just like, logically, just, you know, who cares if they don't like you?

00:58:32.300 On to the next, on to the next.

00:58:33.660 I'm like, dad, you don't understand.

00:58:36.460 You don't know what it's like out there in these trenches.

00:58:39.740 You have no idea.

00:58:42.420 They don't get it. 0.96

00:58:44.880 What leverage do you have in getting girls to come to you? 0.91

00:58:48.380 What's your leverage? 1.00

00:58:49.860 Everybody has to have leverage.

00:58:51.840 Everybody.

00:58:52.840 You ever see these?

00:58:54.080 I'm sorry.

00:58:54.860 I can't watch the end of this.

00:58:56.380 I'm getting bored.

00:58:59.260 I'm like, all right, I want to, it isn't a skill issue, brother.

00:59:03.740 It's a motivation issue.

00:59:05.380 The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

00:59:07.600 Help me when I was 23.

00:59:09.540 Bruh, I'm already checked out.

00:59:11.040 I think he doesn't really understand how the dating market is now.

00:59:14.260 came for the comments was not disappointment pbd should take a read through no words on the

00:59:19.520 dangers of divorce like this video is delusional divorce will destroy your life and this guy just 0.98

00:59:23.680 ignores it totally unacceptable a four out of ten woman has more dating options than

00:59:28.220 hemsworth could fathom let that think let that sink in um there's a reason i would never take

00:59:36.720 dating advice from married people they dated in a world that no longer exists and where the rules

00:59:41.360 no longer apply. Us men don't care anymore. What's the point if they're just going to ghost us

00:59:48.360 and find someone better as soon as they feel bored? Hard to take advice from an older married 1.00

00:59:53.180 man who has not been in the landscape for 20 years. Women used to date the average man who 0.99

00:59:58.080 had a regular job. Social media changed everything. Now social media, now women compare the average to 0.96

01:00:04.080 all the top guys in the world. So what's the point of even trying? Yeah. No, and that's so true 1.00

01:00:09.020 because do you know what you never like when i do street interviews

01:00:17.180 you start to realize how good looking the men around you are because you do street interviews

01:00:24.940 and you see how like normal people look and it's like i'll forget that being in a city there's so

01:00:30.040 many attractive people around me like all the time it's almost a bubble you know um and just

01:00:36.480 working in social media like most people are attractive to some degree let's see

01:00:46.640 pbd understands the current business climate because he is in the game and he's out of touch

01:00:50.720 with the current dating market because he hasn't participated in it for two decades

01:00:55.600 marriage is an insurance policy on a woman's rapidly depreciating market value does anyone

01:01:01.280 else feel like his advice is not applicable to how he actually got here it's a good video but it

01:01:05.200 it doesn't apply very well. What did you expect? I'm a millennial and I'm aware of this for 20

01:01:11.100 years. Late Gen X male here, learn not to become a retirement plan for people who hate me. It's not

01:01:18.020 just Gen Z, man. The thing you're missing is we're not looking to date. My life has become so much 0.93

01:01:22.940 more. The thing you're missing is simply we're not looking to date. My life has become so much

01:01:28.380 more peaceful since I decided to stop pursuing a relationship. The men who get along best with

01:01:33.980 women can get along best without them. The data is out there and the argument has been settled. 1.00

01:01:38.660 It's not men's fault. Dating is completely broken. Once the men become used to not being with women,

01:01:44.280 it won't be desirable. The crazy part is women really think men can't be alone, been celibate 1.00

01:01:50.420 two years, not even a care. I'll die with a smile on my face before I tolerate an egotistical woman. 1.00

01:01:56.880 The reason I admire Rolo Tomasi is because he has a wife and a daughter and is not a coward to speak 0.53

01:02:02.020 the unflattering truth that 98% of influencers are scared to address. The truth is unignorable

01:02:07.660 in any individual human that pretends to ignore it. Yeah, too many channels are scared to speak

01:02:12.260 the whole truth. Anyone who's been married or in a relationship prior to 2020 take their

01:02:20.440 relationship advice with a grain of salt. Adam was right about the current dating scene and that

01:02:28.460 heated debate with PBD. Okay, let's see. I want to see that. I'm getting bored of this because

01:02:35.420 I'm just like, he doesn't know what he's talking about. Adam, PBD, debate. Dating market.

01:02:46.580 let's see he doesn't like this i'm just i'm just he doesn't like what like my mindset

01:03:04.420 only because we live different lives i one day i want to get to a point where i have a

01:03:10.980 20 million dollar house with four kids that's amazing i strive for that i know you're frustrated

01:03:16.180 i take the uber what have you i'm projecting a little bit no not at all but what i'm saying is

01:03:20.180 we had a very uh direct conversation last night i i think that may apply for somebody that's living

01:03:27.380 a selfish life just for them i get that and a lot of people do today more than ever before

01:03:33.780 what is the whole purpose why kids are having people are having fewer kids we're becoming

01:03:37.140 more selfish yes yeah i mean it's it's simple we're becoming a more selfish society and that's

01:03:44.260 That's why it's like, why would I want to have kids?

01:03:45.760 I'm going to lose my freedom.

01:03:46.920 I'm going to lose my sleep.

01:03:47.960 I'm going to lose my this.

01:03:49.020 I'm going to lose my that.

01:03:50.020 You know, all those things are going to be in place when you're going through that.

01:03:55.520 But the greatest things in life, the greatest things in life are on the opposite side of selfishness.

01:04:01.680 The greatest experiences in life are on the complete opposite side of that.

01:04:05.720 And it's not even close, by the way.

01:04:07.360 When I tell you not even close, it's not two to one.

01:04:09.680 It's not three to one.

01:04:10.400 It's ten to one.

01:04:11.080 everybody is trying to sell you right now on why get married so much responsibility marriage has

01:04:17.140 a lot of risk we talked about a bunch of the risks about marriage last night it's a lot of them

01:04:20.820 that it has having kids it's a lot of burden and risk and you lose a lot of things yes

01:04:26.560 running a business you have no life when you when you run a business people will forget that

01:04:31.400 when you start a business you're working god knows guy said something the nvidia ceo the other day

01:04:36.340 Did you hear what he said, the NVIDIA CEO?

01:04:37.980 Jensen Wang.

01:04:38.880 Yeah, he typed this up to see if he can find it.

01:04:41.200 He said such an interesting thing.

01:04:43.360 NVIDIA CEO said, CEO, work.

01:04:48.080 You'll find a clip where he says, here it is.

01:04:51.780 I found a clip.

01:04:52.860 Don't work as well.

01:04:55.360 He explains the breakdown of work.

01:04:57.980 He says, when I'm not working, I'm working.

01:05:00.260 He says, on Sundays, I'm thinking about working.

01:05:02.880 When I'm doing this, I'm thinking about.

01:05:04.060 and most people will listen to that and they'll say what who the hell wants this life right is

01:05:09.100 that the one rob about work zoom in a little bit to see if that's the one go up a little bit i

01:05:13.880 do my resume condition my best work in that condition i don't know if that's the one rob

01:05:19.720 look at the one i just texted you right now see if this is the one it could be it may not be because

01:05:23.740 i'm not even listening to it uh i just text you the one but what's the point so having a startup

01:05:29.480 a lot of risk running a company a lot of risk moving to a state you know nobody a lot no but

01:05:34.980 again it's way more in your control than when another person um it's just not the same because 0.67

01:05:42.500 in a startup um you can figure out why you failed and improve where a woman i mean you can't help

01:05:48.040 who she banged when she was 19 and misses and it's not you you can't what can you do about that

01:05:53.060 you know you man so i understand what you're saying all i'm saying to you is

01:06:00.160 a person watching this has to realize which life you want to live the life that's all about you

01:06:07.820 i painted a picture to you guys last night you and your friend right the two of you guys that

01:06:11.180 were there at the cigar lounge we left at 11 30 okay yeah thinnies and thickies but we were sitting

01:06:15.740 there we're we're talking about all these different stories one of the things i said is the following

01:06:20.680 Okay.

01:06:21.680 Is this a rob or no?

01:06:22.720 Can you tell me if this is it?

01:06:23.600 Because I hear audio somewhere.

01:06:25.340 I don't believe that's it.

01:06:26.500 Okay, then don't worry about it.

01:06:27.540 So I said, you're 80 years old.

01:06:30.760 What's your life look like?

01:06:31.800 Go to your 80 years old.

01:06:33.960 You're 80 years old.

01:06:34.760 What does it look like?

01:06:36.260 You want to be, when you're 80 years old, you think you and I are sitting there thinking,

01:06:40.520 you know, look how many cars I got?

01:06:44.340 You're not thinking that.

01:06:45.440 At 80 years old, you think your joy comes from your collections of money you have in

01:06:49.920 a bank?

01:06:50.280 probably not is it the art collection maybe you appreciate it where there's a story behind it you

01:06:54.440 probably like stories and experiences but what do you think you value at 80 years old yeah but

01:06:59.320 you know the woman will be there and then she'll ruin your life so

01:07:05.560 i don't know is there any better at the part of this debate i'm getting bored

01:07:12.520 sound like a victim the wall street journal story oh my god this is too long

01:07:17.560 it can be like a five minute clip stop milking me stop milking me you're taking the exception

01:07:25.200 and making that the majority no but that is what is becoming more common no it's not about being

01:07:29.460 more common adam oh here we go so for you when you how old are you right now bro i'm 45 45 years

01:07:36.380 old this is how you're speaking about this yes so you because this is how they talk so what's

01:07:42.540 your criticism with me this is what this is what this is what's going out there in society

01:07:47.140 of this for who though thank you this is all right let's let's let's go here as 51.4 percent

01:07:53.620 of women 18 to 40 were single here we go in 2023 damn did you guys pay attention vinnie and adam

01:08:01.140 you guys pay attention to this part 51.4 percent of women ages 18 to 40 were single in 2023 okay 0.68

01:08:10.820 so 51.4 right there in 2023 all right just 23 years ago was only 41.8 damn exactly that it went

01:08:20.420 from 41.8 to 51.4 18 to 40 single surveys show shifting attitudes with a 2024 aei poll finding

01:08:30.500 over half of single women said they believed they were happier than their married counterparts

01:08:36.340 yeah so again there's no you have to understand marriage means giving up um 0.86

01:08:46.260 the way women view marriage is they're giving up their time and things of themselves so you have 0.96

01:08:51.060 to look at this from the woman's point of view right she could give up her freedom right and

01:08:56.420 a lot of the anti like they think that's an over exaggeration it's like no you do give up freedom

01:09:02.820 when you get married because you know if you're in a traditional relationship you gotta live where

01:09:08.100 he wants it it's usually vice versa to be fair but how do i put it i'm trying to explain it like

01:09:15.160 the average woman is going to see it as she has to give up her time um energy into a relationship

01:09:23.220 and with technology the sexes just don't need each other anymore 1.00

01:09:27.360 renting as possible you can live in an apartment 1.00

01:09:31.080 there's no incentive to get married um you know because one way you can do whatever you want the 1.00

01:09:42.440 other way you have to check in with another person oh man so you know women aren't going 0.54

01:09:49.480 to want to do it not an incentive not an incentive it's versus just over a third of

01:09:55.480 survey single men a 2022 pew survey revealing only 34 percent of single women were looking for

01:10:01.480 romance compared to 54 percent of single men that's not a good matchup no vinnie your thoughts

01:10:07.280 on this since you wanted you don't no incentive then why do you have an incentive well you don't 1.00

01:10:14.060 that's that's the whole point the sexes don't need each other anymore i mean really women's 1.00

01:10:19.120 incentive to get married is um it would be to give up authority um over the terrible decisions you 1.00

01:10:24.940 make in your life and give it to someone else. So then you can make terrible, less terrible

01:10:28.740 decisions. But women would rather just keep making terrible decisions over and over again. 1.00

01:10:34.360 And that's accurate. Marriage is unity. Two souls become one. It's just not true anymore. 1.00

01:10:43.200 Two souls don't become one. So, you know.

01:10:51.520 a lot of research on this what do you want to say about the story um i don't know i'm just uh

01:10:58.960 i think just with uh especially when you have girls like the rachel zegler that their attitude

01:11:03.860 is guys pursuing you know girls it's stalker mentality and i just think i just i don't know

01:11:10.100 i just just me as a single guy right now i mean i have i have pat i went from military to no birds

01:11:15.160 and the bees talk with my dad never i don't know if you did your dad ever give you the talk okay

01:11:19.060 yeah so i went from military not knowing anything he would just call me and leave a message in the

01:11:24.500 army and i would say uh tico okay he would send me condoms as gifts when i was in the army

01:11:35.700 seriously 100 we all know my dad would send me boxes of condom for when i was in the army i love

01:11:41.940 gabriel my guess that's a father whether there's an incentive it depends on perspective and mindset

01:11:48.340 not really because we're women we'll have one mindset one day another mindset another day you

01:11:54.340 know even the conversation my dad not mentioned it once so then i went from not knowing look at 0.59

01:11:59.940 situationships are the new relationships

01:12:05.060 and subscriptions we're in a subscription economy relationships are subscriptions

01:12:10.580 there used to be a small subscription period um now it's like none you know

01:12:15.620 to military you know about that and then to hollywood and then it just ruined everything

01:12:22.820 but i think just the sentiment now the the i think it's a mind shift and it's a culture shift

01:12:27.640 because at the end of the day you know we're made to put put here to do what multiply and

01:12:33.160 procreate and and do it and i mean listen it's i'm i'm i'm in line and i'm just you know i'm

01:12:40.840 biding my time i'm praying to god and it's gonna happen i'd love to hear tom's opinion then i can

01:12:44.180 Maybe back clean up here.

01:12:45.960 Well, first of all, Adam's going to clean up, guys.

01:12:48.720 He's going to clean up.

01:12:49.360 He's going to clean up.

01:12:50.300 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.

01:12:51.360 He's going to clean up on aisle seven.

01:12:53.580 Adam would be ninth place.

01:12:55.580 Like, what do you call it?

01:12:56.960 Pitchers.

01:12:57.540 Go ahead.

01:12:58.240 Go ahead.

01:12:59.100 Unfortunately, these numbers, unfortunately, the numbers were real. 0.99

01:13:02.540 Starting with the number of women that are in college versus men that are in college.

01:13:07.480 There are shifts that are happening all over the place.

01:13:10.220 And, you know, we could do a case study on this, but there has been the emergence of the, and it's over, I think it's 18 years, because that goes back to 07, the emergence of the hookup culture.

01:13:26.140 And so the hookup culture and temporary relationships, the changing demographic of who's in college and women, but there are other, so all that's very real. I'm not going to say that's not real, but there are other stats out there that talk about satisfaction, having children with a married partner.

01:13:43.140 They talk about that the truth, that there is happiness and satisfaction.

01:13:47.340 Is it challenging?

01:13:48.360 Yes.

01:13:48.740 They'll drive you nuts some weekends.

01:13:50.400 Yes.

01:13:50.920 But is there an ultimate joy in knowing that you're building citizens of the future and

01:13:55.720 you're building this person of quality?

01:13:57.460 And the answer is yes.

01:13:58.980 And so for every article that talks about one side of it, there's a lot of other data

01:14:03.640 that talks about the other side.

01:14:05.000 But unfortunately, a lot of the things they're talking about are very real.

01:14:08.740 And today's single people are having greater challenges than ever before, finding people that think and feel the same way they do, that they feel that they could trust, trust and build a big relationship with.

01:14:20.780 Adam, clean up. Come on.

01:14:22.420 Clean up in our seven.

01:14:23.440 Hit it.

01:14:23.740 So Chelsea Handler, it's all your fault. 1.00

01:14:27.100 American women are giving up on marriage.

01:14:29.660 You know, when Chelsea Handler, my ex, you know, when we had that internet beef three years ago, it's because I was citing a report from Morgan Stanley called the she economy, not the economy, but the she economy.

01:14:43.460 And basically saying by 2025, which the year we're in now, they anticipate that 45% of working women between 18 and 40 will be childless, no married, no kids.

01:14:57.920 well the report was wrong because they said 45 percent tom you're a numbers guy what number is

01:15:03.180 it now 41.8 according to the no that's what it was thank you very much for the new membership i

01:15:09.800 love you guys thank you in 2000 tom not sure why i called 51.4 51 percent according to the

01:15:16.580 american enterprise institute thank you tom you had one job you got the stat wrong i love you

01:15:20.680 anyway. However, 51% of women have nothing going on, no marriage, no kids, no nothing. That's up

01:15:29.360 literally 10% since 2000. So Chelsea Handler, you might want this no kid, all drugs, all sex toy 1.00

01:15:38.180 thing going on in your life. And that's great because you're famous and you're a feminist 1.00

01:15:41.980 and you got millions in the bank. But my question is this, for the 38 year old woman who's making 1.00

01:15:47.920 60 grand a year working as whatever job for the 34 year old woman who's basically focused on her

01:15:54.080 job and not a family for the 44 year old woman who's now considering having a baby with herself 1.00

01:16:01.680 did modern feminism work out for you so i would argue that chelsea handler has been the poster 1.00

01:16:08.240 child for what is wrong in america for focusing on yourself rather than a family a woman has one 1.00

01:16:16.480 job that she can do better than a man only one birthing wrong and that's birthing oh that's it

01:16:22.720 okay fine it's not working it's not i was like it's not parenting king it's not fighting it's

01:16:28.560 not hustling it ain't rebounding what's her face in the wnba that's going on strike it is

01:16:34.640 birthing or whatever angel reeves so there's been this conflation of that men are women and women

01:16:39.760 are men there's no difference men and women are not equal why because equal means the same we're

01:16:45.360 not the same you have this magical amazing ability to have children and give birth and you're giving

01:16:53.040 it all up to do what make a couple extra bucks and then here's the funniest thing is they say

01:16:59.280 things like you know i don't want no man telling me what to do listen you don't

01:17:04.560 want your husband telling you what to do but you'll have a random boss telling you what to do

01:17:10.480 so that's the thing there's no authority given to husbands and even if men are not

01:17:14.960 because i don't think he's like a traditionalist type of guy i just my vibe on him um

01:17:22.000 even if they're not a traditionalist they still can feel it like men can feel when something's

01:17:28.640 a bad deal it doesn't make any sense to me the happiest in my opinion that women were

01:17:34.080 was when they were focusing on family having kids they didn't have to stress about women are never

01:17:39.840 happy no matter what so i know women that focused on having kids and they weren't happy either um

01:17:46.000 the the problem is believing that women are happy ever especially it's such a cope because it's

01:17:52.880 like okay how are you so confident women were happy in a time you weren't even alive

01:17:58.400 there have been writings for since the dawn of eve wasn't happy oh let's go back to the 1950s

01:18:05.680 okay women would have bitched about something else you know i'm not saying that they shouldn't work

01:18:12.000 but prioritize kids and family vinnie's 58 years old he could still impregnate a woman today yeah

01:18:20.240 you go meet a 58 year old woman she ain't doing nothing honestly with the way you your take i'm

01:18:26.240 surprised you're single not married so i'm actually very surprised i have a news flash

01:18:30.880 We're not going to play this game

01:18:33.380 because I was married 10 years ago

01:18:34.880 to a woman, very

01:18:37.420 lovely girl. To a woman, okay. To a woman. 1.00

01:18:39.680 That's right. Tom, you've been with one in your life.

01:18:41.440 You understand. And she

01:18:43.300 wasn't a wife. She wanted 1.00

01:18:45.360 to get married, but she wasn't willing to be a 1.00

01:18:47.420 wife. So I sent her back out 1.00

01:18:49.520 to the pasture.

01:18:51.820 Figure it out. And now here's

01:18:53.460 the biggest problem. We can make fun of us all this one.

01:18:55.940 There's a lot of hoes out there. 1.00

01:18:57.780 There's a lot of girlfriends out there. 1.00

01:18:59.360 there's a lot of girls that you would date 1.00

01:19:01.100 there's not a lot of good wives out there 1.00

01:19:03.580 you know we're talking about inflation 0.99

01:19:05.660 in America today are you familiar

01:19:07.560 with another term called hoflation

01:19:09.680 familiar with this

01:19:11.620 term Vinny I just heard it right now the price you

01:19:13.560 pay for an average wife for a woman 0.97

01:19:15.700 who used to be a wife is much 0.96

01:19:17.720 greater than it has ever been

01:19:19.320 the concept of men having to work

01:19:21.120 20 times harder than their

01:19:23.500 grandfathers for women 1.00

01:19:25.520 that are 20% worse than 0.98

01:19:27.520 their grandmothers

01:19:28.100 that's urban dictionary got it dictionary but now you're starting to see things like

01:19:33.940 did you know who um this is a weird thing we were talking about i was actually talking about

01:19:37.840 with andrew tate do you know who riley reed is no okay she's a famous porn star don't google

01:19:44.240 it don't google it don't google it you could just maybe hit an image and uh hit a blur 0.83

01:19:48.340 okay there she is this is a woman think about this for a second what she is no i mean i mean 0.68

01:19:55.400 guys i get it you're going to pervert i'm saying she looks like she's just been google riley we

01:20:00.760 read wedding so she recently got married okay to a guy i think he's famous for doing parkour 0.69

01:20:10.360 um this is a this is a adorable little girl who has okay go to that image right there so you can

01:20:16.840 i don't think i can show no no no you can show okay i don't show this in the back okay gotcha

01:20:21.560 all right that's her maybe you don't show that that's her after being there's no one to show

01:20:26.920 that that's her after being with let's just say the starting five for the lakers and um 0.79

01:20:36.680 then juxtapose that with getting married to some dude and then women in the 70s did this too you

01:20:42.840 guys just didn't see it it's a throne in men's faces and men have a visceral they can't even 0.61

01:20:47.720 healthy a visceral repulsion to other men ladies lie sell them a dream i'm telling you 0.74

01:20:55.720 sell them a dream says hey guys internet by the way she's all over the internet

01:21:01.400 hey guys would you please um respect the fact that i'm married now and maybe delete

01:21:06.440 all the scenes i've done on the internet because i've grown now and i want to be respected 0.88

01:21:12.440 so here's this cock marrying a literal porn star and basically saying don't worry about your past 0.98

01:21:20.960 babe it's okay that you've been um filled more times than an exon gas pump okay so that is the 1.00

01:21:29.340 problem with women this is hoflation that is who men are choosing to marry that's a wife 1.00

01:21:33.540 that's who you're going to choose to have hey mom i want you to introduce you to my new girlfriend 1.00

01:21:37.560 the problem is thin women or so i mean they're both degenerates i mean the the whore men and 1.00

01:21:45.220 the whore women just find each other and that's a conventionally attractive guy you know their 1.00

01:21:48.940 choices he read unbelievable so who's the one that we talked about you had sex with 100 guys 0.99

01:21:54.760 like your chance to vent because you're done okay so we got it i mean i'm done he's been living in 0.66

01:22:00.520 miami too long yeah like i'm good you've been speaking plenty of time we'll move on so but

01:22:05.220 but you do notice what's happening in society adam i got your point yeah but he like he doesn't

01:22:11.140 he doesn't get it because he's in a bubble high status uh people are married they're

01:22:16.180 like the only ones married left it's high status people

01:22:23.380 you're you're in this life so the only people you're ever with is with nightlife you're absolutely

01:22:28.500 wrong i you're out it's so not true i'll tell you am i absolutely wrong yeah i'll tell you

01:22:32.500 you okay so go ahead tell us because it's not it's not i'm in this life yeah every man who's

01:22:37.100 single is in this life yeah i get that you're happily married you have no no that's not no

01:22:40.700 that's amazing no that is the point no that's not the point of course it's the point for the point

01:22:44.560 is you don't know what it's like to be single out there and see yeah he has no idea half the girls

01:22:49.620 you meet are doing only fans where are you looking for these people i'm not even saying me no but

01:22:54.660 that's that's the point though where are you don't worry about me how is the cope there is

01:22:59.020 like it's just where you're looking half the time you find only fans girls in church

01:23:04.760 you know no i'm talking about the rest of you're speaking from your perspective no

01:23:10.140 you're speaking who do you think has more credibility on this topic me or you you're 0.98

01:23:13.620 to being around hoes you yeah i agree you're you're around this that's that's your market 0.98

01:23:17.880 but also but but but if you're asking me who has more credibility you do in this area but also i 0.99

01:23:25.420 I don't hang out with this girl. 1.00

01:23:26.840 I also hang out with normal women.

01:23:28.980 I'm saying the challenge that young men are facing.

01:23:32.500 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

01:23:34.200 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

01:23:35.280 It got canceled because I don't know for whatever reason.

01:23:36.760 When's the last time you did SauceCast?

01:23:38.120 It's been a while.

01:23:38.840 Why do you think you stopped doing SauceCast? 1.00

01:23:40.540 Because I stopped talking about money because someone encouraged me to start talking about the hoes. 1.00

01:23:44.300 Who did? 1.00

01:23:45.320 Some gentleman that maybe works here. 1.00

01:23:47.480 Someone told you to talk about hoes. 1.00

01:23:49.260 No, I didn't say that. 1.00

01:23:50.320 Who?

01:23:51.100 I don't know.

01:23:51.660 Who?

01:23:51.940 Tell us who.

01:23:53.520 Go ahead.

01:23:53.960 Tell you who was.

01:23:54.600 Go ahead.

01:23:54.820 Tell us who. 1.00

01:23:55.420 saying what someone told you to talk about hoes talk about relationships and and lifestyle 0.95

01:24:01.780 oh okay okay so you so for you when you how old are you right now bro i'm 45 45 years old this 0.95

01:24:10.060 is how you're speaking about this yes so you because this is how they talk so what's your

01:24:16.000 criticism with me this is what this is what this is what's going out there in society at this point

01:24:21.100 for who though in what for every man out there yeah he has no idea what he's talking about

01:24:28.940 these boomers man it's such a generational divide like he doesn't know it's normal women

01:24:36.300 men will go on dates with normal women and find out things about their past that are crazy 0.70

01:24:42.700 this is not just women in the club you know all the women at festivals and in the club

01:24:47.020 at some point they stop going they get older not true though yes that is true that is not true

01:24:52.460 though it's what you know what percentage of women did only fans 20 years ago do you know what

01:24:57.180 percentage of women did only been 20 years ago do you know how long comedy do you know how long

01:25:01.500 prostitution has been around it's the oldest profession how long has prostitution been around

01:25:05.420 forever okay then so go to how long that's been around the the trait of prostitution or whatever

01:25:10.620 you want to talk about it 10 seconds after the invention of how long have drugs been around how

01:25:15.100 long has but you know what you sound like to me you sound like a little victim is what you sound

01:25:21.900 like what you sound like oh my gosh oh that's the most out of pocket thing i've seen this dude about

01:25:30.700 me and i'm making this about society no no no because so go ahead wait a minute go ahead wait

01:25:35.020 a minute any guy who listens to this and buys into the rhetoric that's being sold remember thank you

01:25:42.780 you look ladies we have we're not wives the amount of inner work you have to do to even become close

01:25:51.240 to one when you're raised in this society we've all had terrible mothers that did not listen to

01:25:55.600 our fathers most of us did not have mothers that were respectful of our fathers um the arrogance

01:26:01.280 of pbd is staggering and it's like do we even know that he runs his household because a lot

01:26:06.480 of these guys don't doesn't matter if they have money hear them out but if you buy it you sound

01:26:15.600 like a victim that's what you sound like when somebody talks like that everybody's this and

01:26:22.060 everybody's that and everybody said you sound defeated you sound like a victim you sound weak

01:26:26.320 a guy you know what it's like it's like when i ran an insurance business for longest time

01:26:30.120 my guys would come to me monday morning and it would say you know what it is all these guys

01:26:35.340 with leads and insurance there are no more people that want to buy life insurance haven't you seen

01:26:39.660 the stats and they're just life insurance has been declining you know when i started life insurance

01:26:43.500 company in 2009 do you know what was going on in 2009 do you know what was happening with

01:26:48.940 insurance companies like aig what was going on with aig in 2009 aig is about to go out of business

01:26:53.740 tarp recession that's trouble do you know what data came out saying that the life insurance

01:26:58.220 industry went from 500 000 agents to 174 000 agents life insurance is a dying industry you

01:27:03.180 You know why? 1.00

01:27:04.120 Because the old timers that made a lot of money, 0.71

01:27:05.980 guess what they're not doing?

01:27:06.740 They're no longer training new people.

01:27:08.680 And that's what they're doing.

01:27:09.560 They're no longer training any money.

01:27:10.700 Guess what?

01:27:11.680 And I said, you know what? 1.00

01:27:12.640 What percentage of agents are women? 1.00

01:27:15.120 17%. 1.00

01:27:15.480 You're never going to be able to get women to sell insurance. 1.00

01:27:17.620 Oh, really? 1.00

01:27:18.060 Yeah, okay.

01:27:18.920 Well, look, I saw how buyers and customers 0.60

01:27:23.300 will receive the sale coming from a woman versus a man.

01:27:27.580 And I think there's a lot of money.

01:27:28.640 If there's 174,000 agents right now,

01:27:31.120 we used to have a half a million more.

01:27:32.160 so he's benefits from feminism high status men benefit from feminine feminism so remember he

01:27:39.460 probably took all those women like the same problem that that other guy is complaining

01:27:45.420 about that adam like sauce cast is complaining about he's a part of it because you hired all 0.94

01:27:49.820 the women right and you know now the women are doing that instead of i'm getting married so

01:27:56.940 got to be a major demand for insurance because i looked at the data and i said that's what we're

01:28:03.120 going to build an insurance company while my competitors were saying there's no more market

01:28:07.700 for life insurance we licensed 50 000 people and sold the business for a quarter of a billion

01:28:12.280 dollars while i'm around people that sound like you talking about insurance and there's no more

01:28:17.240 need for it what's the point is what you're saying with tinder with all these dating apps

01:28:23.560 making it tougher for guys to find girls because they're easier you don't know how many people

01:28:28.920 they've been with oh yes is it tougher if i go on a date right now with tinder and the script is

01:28:34.160 you know you know you're the first guy i've gone on a date with tinder you think i believe that

01:28:38.300 of course not but where am i looking versus if i'm really interested in wanting to get married

01:28:44.820 guess who i'm talking to the people around me i'm getting in different communities i'm going

01:28:49.960 different markets just like if an inch you're gonna have the same problems look it's been weird

01:28:55.160 watching me and my friends become statistics it's i always say if i cover something on the show

01:29:02.520 it's always two years till it hits my real life i covered antidepressants i don't know like four

01:29:07.880 years ago uh two really good friends both on them another girl i know is on ozempic it's they always 0.82

01:29:15.240 hit my real life this is the market doors a lot of girls that were thin when i was younger are 1.00

01:29:21.800 now fat if you want to sell a 20 million dollar life insurance policy and you want to go to people 1.00

01:29:26.760 that are rich do you think you're going to find them at a nightclub or do you think you're going

01:29:30.600 to find them at a country club do you think you're going to find a 20 million dollar life insurance

01:29:34.840 policy going to a starbucks or do you think you're going to find it going to the hotel we were at

01:29:40.120 which was whatever that hotel was if we go to four seasons or if i go to networking at mar-a-lago if

01:29:45.000 if I go, where do you think I'm going to find these types of clients?

01:29:47.160 You think having lunch at Mar-a-Lago, maybe

01:29:49.020 I'm going to be around some clients that can do some premium

01:29:50.840 financing? Yes. It's where

01:29:52.740 you go to look for them. So your

01:29:54.880 points you're making, although

01:29:56.900 they may be valid because accessibility

01:29:58.960 is more prevalent today.

01:30:02.140 So disappointed.

01:30:03.300 Adam's been flopping for months. He finally

01:30:05.020 has a chance for redemption by cooking

01:30:06.780 Pat and he's flopping again. Cook that

01:30:08.940 ninja. I mean, it's a tough dynamic. That's

01:30:10.980 still his boss, you know?

01:30:13.300 Than ever before.

01:30:14.420 for prostitution and all this stuff has been around for a very very long time

01:30:18.400 to sound like a victim and revert back to the yeah but it's worse now it's absolutely worse now

01:30:24.360 because it's way easier to become a prostitute it's like no work you just start an only fans

01:30:30.120 account that's like the easiest you don't even have to put out that's the easiest prostitution 0.99

01:30:34.400 sauce talk talking point that you had 24 7 of course you ain't gonna get married and that's

01:30:40.160 Okay, by the way, I don't care if you never get married,

01:30:43.660 but the idea of playing the position of,

01:30:45.660 I wanna have a family and then you talk like this.

01:30:48.840 I wanna have a family and then you talk like this.

01:30:50.260 Who are you, like, you know,

01:30:51.980 we had this conversation a year and a half ago

01:30:54.540 when I said the following, it's so hard to do,

01:30:57.140 it's so hard to do this message here.

01:31:01.440 Whenever you give a message and you watch,

01:31:05.820 like we're in a room and I'm talking to my guys,

01:31:10.160 And they're saying to me, well, Pat, we don't think we should have a full-timers meeting on the 1st of January.

01:31:17.020 I don't know why you do that every year.

01:31:19.680 Every year on January 1st, I would host a full-timers meeting on the 1st at 8 a.m.

01:31:25.380 And I'm running an office sales agents that are mainly in their mid to late 20s, some of the early 30s. 0.96

01:31:32.340 Who the hell in their 20s wants to go to a manager's meeting with a freaking crazy guy named Patrick Beddavid January 1st at 8 a.m.? 0.80

01:31:39.680 Who do you think wants to go to? 0.99

01:31:40.580 Nobody.

01:31:41.100 Nobody does.

01:31:42.900 Nobody does.

01:31:43.700 You know, he's saying, I am awesome.

01:31:45.620 But that was my way of lowering the number of DUIs my guys would get.

01:31:48.920 Because I know what happens on December 31st.

01:31:50.400 Because I used to party a lot back in the days.

01:31:52.260 So, you know, when we're having a conversation, you know what the conversation will be like.

01:31:54.600 So, what time do you think we should have this meeting?

01:31:57.060 I think we should start it at 11 a.m.

01:32:00.000 I think we should do barbecue and start it at 10 a.m.

01:32:02.820 I think we should do it.

01:32:03.720 What's going on, guys?

01:32:04.680 What is that?

01:32:05.280 No, it's something else.

01:32:06.480 Our notes from today.

01:32:07.500 Yeah, I think we should play that new one

01:32:10.140 and do barbecue for everybody.

01:32:12.360 And then you know how many people in the room

01:32:13.460 would agree that we should do it at 8 a.m.?

01:32:15.140 Less than 5%.

01:32:16.020 And guess what I'm doing a meeting at?

01:32:18.640 I'm doing it at 8 a.m.

01:32:20.320 95% of people hated me for it.

01:32:22.680 I'm still hosting a meeting.

01:32:24.660 And I wasn't married.

01:32:26.020 I didn't have kids.

01:32:27.720 Oh, my gosh.

01:32:28.640 Okay, I'm done.

01:32:29.660 I'm done.

01:32:30.100 I can't watch this anymore.

01:32:32.840 Yeah, he just doesn't get it.

01:32:37.500 um guys it's kind of a short show today because

01:32:46.580 I wanted this video out before and I wanted to do a different kind of topic but

01:32:51.000 um here's the thing the world is going to change forever and it's not going to go back

01:32:58.800 and I as a commentator cannot sell you hope I just can't um marriage is really just going to

01:33:06.440 be for high status people and it's going to be more about brand building really than it is about

01:33:11.420 love or anything like that. So anyways, um, you guys can just leave a comment. Um, I think today

01:33:19.800 we're going to put out the street interview hopefully tonight. So I'm going to call them now

01:33:24.260 and anyways, like the video guys subscribe to the channel. Thanks for watching and I'll see

01:33:36.420 you next time.

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