Pearl - Brett Cooper Has Gone FULL FEMINIST

00:00:00.000 can't help it we have to we have to eat out we have to go to the phone restaurants we have to

00:00:05.540 party it's like women do the responsible thing or the irresponsible thing all right what's up guys

00:00:11.940 um after giving middle of the road takes uh with general conservative talking points for years

00:00:17.300 brett cooper uh you know nothing against her i think she's what the brett what are you doing

00:00:23.660 with this top i thought you were a mother oh my god this is so low cut okay that's crazy you know

00:00:31.900 they call me a degenerate but they wear sluttier things than i do all right whatever whatever okay

00:00:36.700 so she's been doing middle of the road takes for years right and um she's definitely anti-masculinity

00:00:43.500 um and she has protected women for years never really doing any um certain takes or anything

00:00:50.140 that makes women look bad but recently it's gotten so bad in society like we have only fans workers

00:00:55.100 out in public that the daily wire of the x employees the trad cons are finally saying okay

00:01:00.300 women are big fat so now um brad is finding out that women are not nurturing and we're not good

00:01:07.100 parents and um men are better people and women don't want to be mothers he just went viral on

00:01:12.380 x because it found that 75 of americans want adults only dining and the assumption obviously

00:01:18.060 online was that you know this huge percentage was all of these bitter childless people in the child

00:01:22.780 free reddit that don't want our heathens our little crotch goblins ruining their night but no

00:01:27.900 actually that's not the case it's actually parents leading the charge and listen yeah there's so many

00:01:33.580 mothers who wish they didn't have you know it's so crazy my mom used to tell me not to have kids

00:01:38.780 young i'm like mom did you not enjoy having us i am a new mom i have a little baby i would love

00:01:46.540 a quiet peaceful dinner but obviously in my opinion not enough to ban children to get one

00:01:51.740 but what i think is important to talk about is that this fight isn't really about banning

00:01:55.580 children versus yeah so again you know she saw instagram like what it was like for instagram to

00:02:00.060 have a kid um and all this propaganda you know kind of right-wing propaganda she had her kid

00:02:05.420 she's not gonna have more than two women are lazy she wants her career more than having a kid the

00:02:12.140 attention from the internet is way better than anything her husband or kids could give her

00:02:16.540 So run feral in every single environment, whether it is, you know, a nice restaurant and Applebee's

00:02:22.060 club, whatever it is, it is really about whether in our society, we still know how to share a room

00:02:27.020 with other people and how to prepare your children to do just that. Now, before I tell you guys what

00:02:31.460 Alex and I are doing to try to prepare our family for this, before we dive into the story, I want

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00:02:49.520 this survey which went viral a few weeks ago on x is from a company called lightspeed commerce and

00:02:54.320 they surveyed a thousand adults so just keep that in mind it's a you know small sample but it's worth

00:02:58.480 talking about but they found that 75 want some form of adults only dining and 79 of those people

00:03:06.000 are parents 49 want kids restricted during late night evening hours 46 want designated adults

00:03:11.520 only sections. 46% say that romantic settings should be child-free. But here is the nuance

00:03:16.980 that all of these headlines skipped. Only 20% actually want fully, totally child-free restaurants.

00:03:23.200 And the other half said that it really depends on the setting. So most people, even though this was

00:03:27.980 not the viral thing that got everybody talking, most people are not saying we want to ban children

00:03:33.500 outright. They are saying, give me the option of maybe a quiet table sometimes. And again,

00:03:37.840 i'm a parent i get it like that is totally reasonable if you are going to a steakhouse

00:03:42.000 with a bunch of colleagues men in suits they want to have a serious dinner at 8 30 p.m at bourbon

00:03:47.000 steak in nashville if you and your spouse are finally getting a night away from the kids you

00:03:50.640 want to have a romantic little quiet dinner that makes sense however the caveat is if you are

00:03:55.840 wanting a quiet adult only dinner and you go to applebee's if you want a quiet adult only dinner

00:04:01.920 canoodle this is what she never okay she never says anything of substance or to makes a take

00:04:06.940 that makes women look bad i'll tell you what women women are the consumer so the only people

00:04:12.720 polled that matter what do women want women want to be able to be single mothers or married and

00:04:20.100 still behaving like a single woman like brett and be able to bring their kid if they want

00:04:24.860 um and so what's going to actually happen i would predict is there's gonna i bet there's

00:04:31.520 going to be daycares at clubs there you already see them at gyms but i wouldn't be shocked if like

00:04:36.160 there was daycares at like fine dining restaurants and stuff so Bobby could go

00:04:40.320 whore and come back which is kind of like you know Brett when she dropped off her kid and went

00:04:44.960 and like saw clavicular at the fashion show your spouse and you go to a brewery that serves up

00:04:50.840 artisanal pizzas on a patio you're not gonna get it sorry like that is a totally different

00:04:56.660 conversation like that is the unreasonable version from this child free movement the people who think

00:05:00.860 that a child should not exist in their eyeline at all because of their decision not to have

00:05:05.780 children and so wanting an adult only space and wanting no children around are two completely

00:05:10.420 different things but i do want to address both of these so i want to start with us though the

00:05:14.340 parents because half of this conversation in my opinion is a parenting problem and we should not

00:05:18.580 pretend that it is not because there is a difference between you know a kid just being

00:05:22.660 a kid out in public and a kid being undisciplined like obviously a baby gets fussy a baby cries you

00:05:30.900 might have to see a mom breastfeeding in public so sorry why are we breastfeeding in public you

00:05:35.460 you better cover that. I am not with this, I am not with this movement that women can just whip

00:05:41.300 out their boobs in public to feed their kids. Ma'am, either go home or go to the bathroom. I am

00:05:46.880 not with that. Call me antinatalist or whatever. I don't want to see your tits in public.

00:05:53.020 And throw a crayon off the table. Like that's just a small human being, a small human trying

00:05:56.740 to figure out the world around him. But you know, a four-year-old doing laps around that steakhouse

00:06:01.040 at 9 p.m. at night, disrupting the serious businessmen in suits that are trying to eat

00:06:04.700 their filet mignons while the mom sits back at the table scrolling on her phone or talking to

00:06:08.160 her friends totally ignoring the kid like that is a totally different problem that's not just a kid

00:06:11.960 being a kid that is you and the fix for that is not some outright ban on kids it's not some you

00:06:16.840 know city ordinance it is better parenting which thankfully when this story was going viral two

00:06:20.800 weeks ago a lot of people brought up one thing that i would add to this conversation that i did

00:06:24.300 not see as much was that yes it is better parenting but it is also common sense it is also

00:06:29.600 situational awareness because as a parent in my opinion again my son is nine months old so maybe

00:06:34.220 i'll change my mind on this later but i do feel like this is common sense but as a parent you

00:06:37.900 should be thoughtful about where you take your kids and how it is going to this is such a middle

00:06:41.900 of the road take with no point not the experience not okay here's my point guys women are whores

00:06:47.020 and we're gonna whore no matter what uh make sure we're whoring for you and um also women

00:06:53.180 will whore at the expense of their kids um even the right-wing e-girls so for the people around

00:06:58.220 you who are also paying customers but also for you and your kids because you want them to happy

00:07:02.620 because I guarantee, let's just go back

00:07:04.140 to the four-year-old doing laps around the steakhouse.

00:07:06.180 I guarantee that your four-year-old

00:07:07.620 is not going to enjoy some highbrow, tiny French bistro

00:07:11.520 where couples go out for romantic date night.

00:07:13.400 And you should not demand that your four-year-old son

00:07:15.860 enjoys it or that he conforms to sit

00:07:18.140 in the tiny little bistro chair

00:07:19.380 and behaves for the three-hour, six-course meal.

00:07:22.140 Like it is literally just common sense.

00:07:23.840 And it is also, especially for new families,

00:07:26.340 young families, it's trial and error.

00:07:28.000 Like now that Alex and I have a baby,

00:07:30.080 I keep a list of restaurants in my phone.

00:07:32.360 it is called my happy baby list and it's all the places that we love taking our son in nashville

00:07:37.080 it's places with patios specifically patios with heaters in the winter and big tables spots that

00:07:41.800 are you know already a little bit loud somewhere where i can easily get up take him outside walk

00:07:45.720 around go to a quiet space if he's losing his mind like again it is trial and error we have

00:07:50.120 like had to figure that out over the last nine months it is also just situational awareness

00:07:54.120 sitting down somewhere and going oh this is terrible i'm so uncomfortable i feel like i

00:07:57.560 can't even like move around my diaper bag is hitting somebody like they're already you know

00:08:01.640 shooting looks at me because i brought my child into here like maybe this is not the best place

00:08:05.640 for us because it's going to annoy other people but also it's going to make the experience stressful

00:08:09.400 for you which is then going to stress out your child and then nobody's happy so why don't women

00:08:13.240 just stay home you know what i mean this is we can't help it we have to we have to eat out we

00:08:19.480 have to go to the phone restaurants we have to party it's it's like women do the responsible

00:08:25.320 thing or the irresponsible thing i'm not saying never go out to eat but like when i was a kid

00:08:30.200 that was a luxury you did not do that on a regular basis you did not why try to shove the square peg

00:08:38.200 into a round hole and again that might be common sense but you do kind of have to figure it out

00:08:41.800 like when we first became parents we did try to do that like i was saying we tried the nicer places

00:08:46.280 we were trying to you know fit our baby into our exact old life with the later dinners and the

00:08:51.400 quaint restaurants that we loved going to date nights on before we had him and sometimes it

00:08:55.640 worked sometimes those were you know happy surprises like oh good we can take him to this

00:08:58.840 favorite spot of ours sometimes it absolutely did not unfortunately we have not been back to those

00:09:02.600 restaurants in months hopefully we will soon but when it didn't work we just like got through the

00:09:07.480 dinner we made it fast we apologized to people around us most people were totally accommodating

00:09:12.120 and sweet we were even at a restaurant now so it's so funny because half of women's talking is

00:09:18.440 just us talking about how awesome we are so now she's going to talk about how she's special and

00:09:23.240 different and not like the others on vacation before christmas and this woman saw that we were

00:09:27.240 were struggling oh my god i'm even gonna tear up just because it's like so sweet but she saw that

00:09:30.380 we were struggling and she was like can i just do want me to walk around and i'll carry your baby

00:09:33.620 and i think some people would be like oh my god i'm never gonna like hand my child to a stranger

00:09:36.980 but she was this you know sweet woman she's like i'm mom and we did and we were able to like sit

00:09:40.680 there and enjoy our lunch in peace on our first ever trip we took with our son and she just walked

00:09:45.300 around the restaurant with him so a lot of people outside of social media and these surveys are

00:09:50.180 more accommodating probably than you would think and are nicer you do just have to read the room

00:09:54.760 try to yeah to your face remember social media is how people really feel so it's how they talk

00:09:59.880 behind your back so people are accommodating but they still are annoyed to pick the right

00:10:05.320 room and if you get it wrong you just handle it and hopefully people are nice about it and if

00:10:09.160 they're not that's okay that is not child-free oppression that's just a learning experience it

00:10:13.320 is being a considerate adult who happens to have a child here is now where the conversation goes to

00:10:18.280 the other party because that street runs both ways so to the child free complainers this is

00:10:24.520 such common sense as well but you do not get to live in a world without other people's children

00:10:28.680 that is not a thing that exists kids are in grocery stores they are on the plane they're

00:10:32.520 at the table next to you that is called living in a healthy hopefully thriving growing society

00:10:38.040 and if you do not want to hear a tiny baby get uncomfortable on a plane when its ears are popping

00:10:43.000 and it doesn't know what's going on if it can't sleep because its nap schedule is all screwed up

00:10:46.840 or if the ac is not working on a plane which i feel like it never does and it's crying and it's

00:10:51.400 hot and that ruins your day so much to the point that you are posting about it if it bothers you

00:10:55.800 that much save up for private jet seriously genuinely yo that is the brattiest take i've

00:11:02.840 ever heard if your kid's crying on the plane it is really annoying that's what i mean the problem

00:11:06.920 isn't the people in the restaurants flying is supposed to be for single people and working men

00:11:12.760 that's that's who it's for it's not for the mothers that's the problem that's what you're

00:11:17.400 missing brett the mothers are supposed to be home the streets are for the people street in

00:11:25.480 the what the husbands to find their side chicks you know save up for a private jet and i guarantee

00:11:30.760 just so you know that the parents feel just as awful with the addition restaurants again that's

00:11:34.760 supposed to be for single people dates you know maybe an occasional date night but like for what

00:11:39.720 of crippling embarrassment and guilt because they know that you are upset so your anger

00:11:45.460 posting about it crap talking them on the plane it does not help anyway anyway back to this viral

00:11:50.300 story sorry i got off on a tangent there you do need to see the most insane part of this study

00:11:54.380 because while some people just wanted to ban kids outright they were totally okay with something

00:11:57.940 else and this goes back to the child break complainer so the survey reads at the same time

00:12:01.940 restaurants are becoming increasingly dog friendly nearly half of consumers 45 percent support

00:12:06.820 allowing dogs at restaurants in some capacity i am not for that keep your at home the including

00:12:12.020 16 yeah because women are having dogs instead of kids said who are comfortable with dogs both

00:12:17.280 indoors and outdoors and 29 who support outdoor only spaces and this is growing among gen z

00:12:21.940 consumer support rises sharply to 64 compared to 35 of baby boomers so tldr while this whole debate

00:12:28.840 is happening with the child free people and the conservative christian family oriented people all

00:12:33.700 of that stuff there is a growing desire to have more dogs in restaurants and it's not just this

00:12:38.340 study the prioritization of dogs has been wildly increasing over the last women are ruining

00:12:42.820 everything this decade i would say and i say this as somebody with four dogs so obviously i love

00:12:47.600 dogs but people have noticed this as you can see look at these reddit posts like here's one

00:12:52.460 headline from 2019 it reads puppuccinos fraternity leave and more millennials pampered pets are like

00:12:59.560 children yes they are and no fraternity leave was not a joke this article reads corporate america is

00:13:04.200 responding by offering pet perks such as veterinary insurance as an employee benefit take your dog to

00:13:08.760 work days and in some cases paternity leave and fraternity leave which is paid time off for newly

00:13:13.960 adopted pets okay this is just kind of a tangent and i made a tick tock about this but i didn't

00:13:18.760 intend to talk about it in this episode but it's just so perfect and it really ties in with the

00:13:22.360 people treating their animals as children while simultaneously being pissed at people who do

00:13:25.960 actually have human baby children. But I was scrolling on Facebook, you know, browsing

00:13:29.680 marketplace, keeping tabs on all the groups that I'm in. And a post in the Franklin, Tennessee,

00:13:34.240 Facebook group literally stopped me in my tracks. This woman posted and she said, I'm looking for

00:13:38.760 a luxury residential interior designer to design a suite for my son. I was like, oh, you know,

00:13:45.100 whatever. I keep scrolling. I see a picture of a cat. I'm like, wait, wait, wait, let me, let me

00:13:48.300 scroll back up. Her son. I'm not kidding, guys. She said my son. And she was like, yes. And my

00:13:54.560 son, by the way, is a Maine Coon cat. And then she goes on paragraphs, paragraphs saying, you know,

00:13:59.440 I want him to have a cat tower. You want to build out this room. I want to source a beautiful

00:14:03.660 marble slab for his bathroom that has room for his robo litter box. She's hiring a luxury

00:14:10.800 residential designer for a glorified cat nursery for a cat that she just adopted. Like, obviously,

00:14:16.300 I'm not like pissed about that. I was more so just a guest, but that is just an example of the

00:14:20.500 prioritization of pets over children and what people are now doing for their pets. We'll sign

00:14:24.540 simultaneously you know wagging because women would rather have dogs than an average guy's kid

00:14:30.700 figure at people with children that are simply being children in public anyway moving on from

00:14:34.540 that back to the whole point more specifically with restaurants i'm sure that everybody has

00:14:38.400 seen this but people will also use you know emotional support as a way to get their dogs

00:14:42.360 and pets i have never done such a thing dining spaces grocery stores coffee shops planes you

00:14:48.460 name it we've all seen it like these dogs are about as portable as an inflate iq tire inflator

00:14:52.800 I had to do that. I'll tell you why. To get my dog from England. Oh my God. That was such a process

00:14:59.300 because she was too fat to go in the cabin. And two, she had a snout. No, she couldn't go in the

00:15:05.060 car. I had no other choice. No other choice. Okay, wait. These folks, the dog-friendly,

00:15:12.560 child-free crowd, what they are saying is that they will happily share their dinner with some

00:15:17.280 random person's golden doodle that they assure you is super well-tried. But the golden doodle

00:15:21.640 is you know begging occasionally barking yanking on the leash like that's totally fine but a baby

00:15:26.960 in a high chair three tables over is just a bridge too far so my response to these people would be

00:15:31.920 you bring your dog everywhere I have to live with your dog I wave at your dog I give it a little pat

00:15:37.460 so you also have to live with my child that is the deal of existing around other people

00:15:42.720 no I don't think it's the same because again the kids are supposed to be inside the dogs can go

00:15:47.980 outside but modern woman we all are very selfish creatures so anyways guys let me know what you

00:15:54.780 think of the comments i love you thank you for watching um brett cooper is gonna have to start

00:15:59.940 acknowledging soon that women are terrible because i'm on her ass so like the video subscribe to the

00:16:04.240 channel i'll see you next time

Pearl - July 24, 2026

Brett Cooper Has Gone FULL FEMINIST

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