Pearl - ＂Cheating Is Different For Men And Women＂ Pearl On Brett Cooper's Attack On FreshAndFit

00:00:00.000 All right, here we go. Now again, I like Brett, not an attack on Brett. I actually think out of

00:00:05.680 all the tradcon women, she's the least like, um, feminist-y. I don't, I don't catch it as much

00:00:13.700 with her. I catch it much more from Sydney Watson, Lauren Southern. Her, it's like a rarity, but,

00:00:20.000 but I'm going to point it out in this video. Okay. Welcome back to the comment section.

00:00:27.740 so loud okay hold on oh you're gonna turn down on that end

00:00:37.180 red cooper so i am sure you all know you can turn it up a little bit

00:00:42.380 out the red pill bro manosphere culture whatever you want to call it these are people online

00:00:48.380 mainly on twitter and on their own podcasts who claim that women are unredeemable marriage is a 0.88

00:00:53.340 a sham. There's no good reason for a man to get married. Okay. See, she's already starting by 0.51

00:00:57.600 mischaracterizing what the red pill says. You know, the core red pill, it's amoral.

00:01:05.180 So it would be, okay, I'm going to use it from the woman's point of view. It would be like if 0.97

00:01:09.460 women compared notes and said, hey, you can get a better guy if you get a boob job. 1.00

00:01:14.740 now what you do with that information it's up to you right but you know and some would say oh no

00:01:25.260 boob jobs are terrible but it's not a moral thing so you know marriage is a sham that that's 1.00

00:01:35.020 that's a statement based on fact and i don't know why trad cons

00:01:40.380 they they'll see all these facts and say okay this is this is great facts don't care about

00:01:48.920 your feelings but whenever we get facts that show that you know 90 percent of women get alimony

00:01:56.020 women get custody 90 percent of the time um 0.98

00:02:00.240 women are the ones awarded child support the average marriage is seven to eight years you know 0.79

00:02:09.800 these are these are hard numbers and you know the trad cons will just wave them away and say oh but

00:02:16.480 pray every day that'll stop her from leaving is that real actionable advice that'll help men

00:02:22.840 really okay 2024 they give men a terrible advice now brett this is this is my thing

00:02:30.240 what as women now a lot of people give me the criticism that i give advice i i really unless 0.98

00:02:36.400 they're pushing me into a corner in a podcast which they do sometimes give advice give advice

00:02:41.100 give advice advice isn't really my thing i'm not out here telling guys what to do because

00:02:46.660 i've never courted a woman i've never taken a chick on a date i don't know anything about

00:02:52.500 seducing a chick that's not my area right what do you know about good and bad dating advice 1.00

00:02:59.260 like genuinely what what do you know about it have you dated women i don't think so

00:03:05.740 And many women will say, well, it's because I'm a woman.

00:03:11.160 Well, if women gave good advice to men for dating, then I think, no, women give the opposite, opposite advice of what you should do. 1.00

00:03:24.220 That's the problem.

00:03:25.260 Women will say things like bring a girl flowers. 1.00

00:03:29.540 That doesn't really work in 2024.

00:03:32.020 Okay.

00:03:32.180 Special advice on how to be masculine and alpha.

00:03:34.740 Newsflash.

00:03:35.220 okay so then right there it's the same feminist tactic she's like taunting them oh they're you 1.00

00:03:41.620 know they're saying to be masculine and alpha it's like it's it's like she's starting to and

00:03:47.940 i'm not saying it's intentional but i'm saying it's already a mischaracterization of the argument

00:03:53.380 i don't think she's really done her homework as to what the red pill really is and then and now

00:03:59.140 here's the the taunting and the left feminists do this all the time you know so men most of that 1.00

00:04:07.580 advice would give normal women the ick you will know david what and my question is brett specifically

00:04:12.540 what advice and what what again what credibility do you have seducing women you know anyway one of 1.00

00:04:23.400 the biggest podcasts in this space is called fresh and fit i'm sure you guys have heard of it

00:04:27.560 It predates the whatever podcast, I believe, but it has a similar format where a bunch of women will come on. 1.00

00:04:32.920 They will talk to and get critiqued by the two hosts whose names are Walter and Myron.

00:04:37.360 I think Myron actually has a different name, but he goes by Myron.

00:04:40.620 They also go by Fresh and Fit, respectively.

00:04:43.380 The guy's got three names. I don't get it. Whatever. Do your thing.

00:04:45.820 And all of this is done under the guise of male improvement.

00:04:48.600 And considering the struggles that men are very obviously facing in today's culture,

00:04:51.920 You would hope that these incredibly influential, popular alpha bros giving advice would be good.

00:04:57.540 Okay, but did you even look at the advice they give?

00:05:00.500 They give fitness advice.

00:05:01.860 They give financial advice.

00:05:03.200 There's men that have called into their show and said they've become millionaires based on their advice, Brett.

00:05:09.460 And you're doing a hit piece style format where you're taking a couple clips out of context

00:05:16.160 and painting this picture for your audience

00:05:19.500 of genuinely a podcast

00:05:22.180 that actually probably helps more men 1.00

00:05:24.800 than all of the hosts of The Daily Wire combined

00:05:27.180 when it comes to dating and relationships especially

00:05:30.120 because all of those guys have no idea

00:05:32.420 what's going on in the market now.

00:05:34.980 Right?

00:05:35.660 We would hope that.

00:05:36.520 We would assume that wrong.

00:05:38.160 Before we get into this,

00:05:38.800 make sure that you like this video.

00:05:39.860 Right, so watch some of their popular viral videos.

00:05:43.060 Yeah, you got your money up, man.

00:05:43.960 If your dad cheated on your mom, how would you feel?

00:05:47.480 I'd applaud him. I'd be like, yeah, you got your money up, man.

00:05:49.980 How do you think mom would feel?

00:05:51.680 You know what? She wouldn't leave. She would be like, damn, okay.

00:05:55.100 If it was continuous? 0.99

00:05:56.380 She wouldn't leave.

00:05:57.520 Do you think she'd be happy with the dynamics of that relationship, though?

00:06:00.140 She knows how it is.

00:06:02.980 So, one, you know, that was in a date format.

00:06:05.960 So they're kind of joking around.

00:06:07.480 It's not really supposed to be the most serious thing.

00:06:09.800 He's kind of trolling her.

00:06:10.720 And the second thing we're going to talk about is, you know, cheating is different for men and for women.

00:06:16.820 It just is it. And I'm going to I'm going to go through this on the whiteboard in a second.

00:06:21.320 Hold on. Being this man's mother and hearing him talk about you this way on his podcast.

00:06:27.880 Oh, I want to applaud my dad if he cheats on my mom. OK, great.

00:06:30.600 We're starting off real strong here with this one. So glad that we are.

00:06:33.540 OK, so I want to I want to show the difference in I can bring I can unplug this now, right?

00:06:40.720 Or should I unplug it here or just take out the headphones?

00:06:44.780 Okay, fine.

00:06:46.860 Okay, guys.

00:06:47.520 So we're going to the whiteboard today.

00:06:56.020 All right, guys.

00:06:56.960 So what, I'm going to bring this to Brett.

00:07:02.860 What is cheating?

00:07:04.540 Okay, what is cheating?

00:07:06.540 Women and what, actually, let me start with this. 1.00

00:07:08.680 What is monogamy? 0.99

00:07:10.720 Monogamy is two people getting together, one person for a lifetime.

00:07:19.900 Like a nice heart there.

00:07:21.540 Wow, amazing.

00:07:23.700 You cannot see on this, can you?

00:07:25.480 Let me try the pink one.

00:07:29.660 Well, we'll see if this works.

00:07:34.280 Anyways, now, when do women have the choice to be monogamous? 1.00

00:07:39.640 this. Women at 22 years old have the choice to sleep with one man for a lifetime. And 1.00

00:07:53.140 we know that the average body count is well above, we're going to be, we're going to be,

00:08:01.800 it's well above five. We know this because if you ask men what would be an acceptable 0.78

00:08:06.640 body count to you, they think five is damn near a virgin. So in 2024, let's just say five plus,

00:08:14.400 all right? So when women, so this is the girl size, say, no, I don't want to be monogamous, 0.98

00:08:23.700 and I don't want to get married, because the average age of first marriage is like 32, or

00:08:28.300 I think it's like 30 now for women. Women are not shamed for this. Now, men get the opportunity

00:08:35.700 to be, to have sexual choice, let's just say, around 35.

00:08:40.900 That's their peak.

00:08:42.840 And most men actually still do pick monogamy

00:08:45.980 because they choose to get married before that.

00:08:48.780 This is the men.

00:09:01.020 And the differences,

00:09:04.860 and they also are not picking monogamy.

00:09:07.420 Let's just say in this case, because it's Myron.

00:09:10.280 So I want to show you the difference in how you treat men and women.

00:09:14.480 When the woman doesn't pick monogamy here, 1.00

00:09:19.160 the Daily Wire gives her a podcast and a show as long as she says, sorry.

00:09:23.820 But Myron is honest, which he is,

00:09:28.800 he says he's honest on all the shows to the women he's with.

00:09:31.540 He's honest, he's not monogamous.

00:09:32.980 then he's shamed. He's the bad guy. Now, I don't say this to say I'm for cheating. Okay, I'm not

00:09:41.040 for it. But the problem is, okay, I'm going to go back to this whiteboard.

00:09:50.400 Here's the issue. And dating app data, we'll back this up, all right. We have, let's just say,

00:09:56.780 ten chicks. Boom, boom. Actually I don't feel like drawing ten so I'm gonna use

00:10:03.400 five and we're just gonna go with that.

00:10:13.020 Boom, these are the men. And pretend that the ones at the top are the most

00:10:18.460 attractive, the ones at the bottom are the least attractive. What we have

00:10:24.340 is all these women sleeping with the same men.

00:10:33.520 So who's not picking, could you take down the bottom thing so you can see a little better?

00:10:38.180 Who's not picking monogamy, men or women? 1.00

00:10:42.700 Women could choose, we could choose to just go here. 1.00

00:10:48.380 Blessing, are we choosing that?

00:10:49.940 and so if we're not choosing that what I don't like is the best of both worlds

00:10:58.900 and I'm not talking about you Brett I'm talking about women in general right because she got 1.00

00:11:04.300 married young obviously no one's talking about her but we can't ask for the cream of the crop men 1.00

00:11:11.640 get married at 30

00:11:15.140 and also expect monogamy

00:11:19.220 I mean this isn't like make a wish

00:11:21.480 you know

00:11:22.140 so

00:11:25.420 that's my

00:11:28.060 my two cents

00:11:29.600 I'm going to come back to the whiteboard

00:11:31.080 hold on

00:11:34.860 so I would argue

00:11:37.220 I would argue that if men said tomorrow

00:11:39.460 if all the men got together and said

00:11:41.300 we will only be with one woman for a lifetime. Do you know who would argue first? Women. Women 1.00

00:11:48.460 love being side chicks. They'll fight to be side chicks. And we know this based on dating app data.

00:11:55.860 Now, a lot of times the trad cons will come in and say, my church is special or different.

00:12:00.680 But no, it's not. I've seen churches all across the country. I get the same complaints from people

00:12:07.020 no matter where they're from or what church they're in.

00:12:10.120 Women sleep with the same men in church, too. 1.00

00:12:13.580 It's very common to have a pastor, maybe a guy in the band, whatever it is.

00:12:18.680 That's just, or the attractive guy, that's the Christian, 1.00

00:12:22.460 a guy that leads the studies or whatever.

00:12:25.700 All the women go towards that guy. 1.00

00:12:30.180 So who's picking non-monogamy, men or women?

00:12:35.300 Women. 0.81

00:12:35.820 And so my thing is, for us women, if we pick a guy that could cheat, I mean, we could have dated the cashier at Wendy's. 1.00

00:12:46.760 But if we're not picking it, please stop crying to me.

00:12:51.580 Pick what you want. I don't care.

00:12:53.860 But if you want monogamy, the guy at Wendy's is waiting.

00:12:57.600 And if you say, well, I want it all, then cry me a river.

Pearl - April 16, 2024

＂Cheating Is Different For Men And Women＂ Pearl On Brett Cooper's Attack On FreshAndFit

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