Pearl - April 16, 2024


＂Cheating Is Different For Men And Women＂ Pearl On Brett Cooper's Attack On FreshAndFit


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

151.52834

Word Count

1,973

Sentence Count

122

Misogynist Sentences

29

Hate Speech Sentences

14


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the Red Pill and how it applies to women in the modern culture. Is it a myth or is it a fact? What does it really mean and why does it matter? And what does it have to do with feminism?

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00:00:00.000 All right, here we go. Now again, I like Brett, not an attack on Brett. I actually think out of
00:00:05.680 all the tradcon women, she's the least like, um, feminist-y. I don't, I don't catch it as much
00:00:13.700 with her. I catch it much more from Sydney Watson, Lauren Southern. Her, it's like a rarity, but,
00:00:20.000 but I'm going to point it out in this video. Okay. Welcome back to the comment section.
00:00:27.740 so loud okay hold on oh you're gonna turn down on that end
00:00:37.180 red cooper so i am sure you all know you can turn it up a little bit
00:00:42.380 out the red pill bro manosphere culture whatever you want to call it these are people online
00:00:48.380 mainly on twitter and on their own podcasts who claim that women are unredeemable marriage is a
00:00:53.340 a sham. There's no good reason for a man to get married. Okay. See, she's already starting by
00:00:57.600 mischaracterizing what the red pill says. You know, the core red pill, it's amoral.
00:01:05.180 So it would be, okay, I'm going to use it from the woman's point of view. It would be like if
00:01:09.460 women compared notes and said, hey, you can get a better guy if you get a boob job.
00:01:14.740 now what you do with that information it's up to you right but you know and some would say oh no
00:01:25.260 boob jobs are terrible but it's not a moral thing so you know marriage is a sham that that's
00:01:35.020 that's a statement based on fact and i don't know why trad cons
00:01:40.380 they they'll see all these facts and say okay this is this is great facts don't care about
00:01:48.920 your feelings but whenever we get facts that show that you know 90 percent of women get alimony
00:01:56.020 women get custody 90 percent of the time um
00:02:00.240 women are the ones awarded child support the average marriage is seven to eight years you know
00:02:09.800 these are these are hard numbers and you know the trad cons will just wave them away and say oh but
00:02:16.480 pray every day that'll stop her from leaving is that real actionable advice that'll help men
00:02:22.840 really okay 2024 they give men a terrible advice now brett this is this is my thing
00:02:30.240 what as women now a lot of people give me the criticism that i give advice i i really unless
00:02:36.400 they're pushing me into a corner in a podcast which they do sometimes give advice give advice
00:02:41.100 give advice advice isn't really my thing i'm not out here telling guys what to do because
00:02:46.660 i've never courted a woman i've never taken a chick on a date i don't know anything about
00:02:52.500 seducing a chick that's not my area right what do you know about good and bad dating advice
00:02:59.260 like genuinely what what do you know about it have you dated women i don't think so
00:03:05.740 And many women will say, well, it's because I'm a woman.
00:03:11.160 Well, if women gave good advice to men for dating, then I think, no, women give the opposite, opposite advice of what you should do.
00:03:24.220 That's the problem.
00:03:25.260 Women will say things like bring a girl flowers.
00:03:29.540 That doesn't really work in 2024.
00:03:32.020 Okay.
00:03:32.180 Special advice on how to be masculine and alpha.
00:03:34.740 Newsflash.
00:03:35.220 okay so then right there it's the same feminist tactic she's like taunting them oh they're you
00:03:41.620 know they're saying to be masculine and alpha it's like it's it's like she's starting to and
00:03:47.940 i'm not saying it's intentional but i'm saying it's already a mischaracterization of the argument
00:03:53.380 i don't think she's really done her homework as to what the red pill really is and then and now
00:03:59.140 here's the the taunting and the left feminists do this all the time you know so men most of that
00:04:07.580 advice would give normal women the ick you will know david what and my question is brett specifically
00:04:12.540 what advice and what what again what credibility do you have seducing women you know anyway one of
00:04:23.400 the biggest podcasts in this space is called fresh and fit i'm sure you guys have heard of it
00:04:27.560 It predates the whatever podcast, I believe, but it has a similar format where a bunch of women will come on.
00:04:32.920 They will talk to and get critiqued by the two hosts whose names are Walter and Myron.
00:04:37.360 I think Myron actually has a different name, but he goes by Myron.
00:04:40.620 They also go by Fresh and Fit, respectively.
00:04:43.380 The guy's got three names. I don't get it. Whatever. Do your thing.
00:04:45.820 And all of this is done under the guise of male improvement.
00:04:48.600 And considering the struggles that men are very obviously facing in today's culture,
00:04:51.920 You would hope that these incredibly influential, popular alpha bros giving advice would be good.
00:04:57.540 Okay, but did you even look at the advice they give?
00:05:00.500 They give fitness advice.
00:05:01.860 They give financial advice.
00:05:03.200 There's men that have called into their show and said they've become millionaires based on their advice, Brett.
00:05:09.460 And you're doing a hit piece style format where you're taking a couple clips out of context
00:05:16.160 and painting this picture for your audience
00:05:19.500 of genuinely a podcast
00:05:22.180 that actually probably helps more men
00:05:24.800 than all of the hosts of The Daily Wire combined
00:05:27.180 when it comes to dating and relationships especially
00:05:30.120 because all of those guys have no idea
00:05:32.420 what's going on in the market now.
00:05:34.980 Right?
00:05:35.660 We would hope that.
00:05:36.520 We would assume that wrong.
00:05:38.160 Before we get into this,
00:05:38.800 make sure that you like this video.
00:05:39.860 Right, so watch some of their popular viral videos.
00:05:43.060 Yeah, you got your money up, man.
00:05:43.960 If your dad cheated on your mom, how would you feel?
00:05:47.480 I'd applaud him. I'd be like, yeah, you got your money up, man.
00:05:49.980 How do you think mom would feel?
00:05:51.680 You know what? She wouldn't leave. She would be like, damn, okay.
00:05:55.100 If it was continuous?
00:05:56.380 She wouldn't leave.
00:05:57.520 Do you think she'd be happy with the dynamics of that relationship, though?
00:06:00.140 She knows how it is.
00:06:02.980 So, one, you know, that was in a date format.
00:06:05.960 So they're kind of joking around.
00:06:07.480 It's not really supposed to be the most serious thing.
00:06:09.800 He's kind of trolling her.
00:06:10.720 And the second thing we're going to talk about is, you know, cheating is different for men and for women.
00:06:16.820 It just is it. And I'm going to I'm going to go through this on the whiteboard in a second.
00:06:21.320 Hold on. Being this man's mother and hearing him talk about you this way on his podcast.
00:06:27.880 Oh, I want to applaud my dad if he cheats on my mom. OK, great.
00:06:30.600 We're starting off real strong here with this one. So glad that we are.
00:06:33.540 OK, so I want to I want to show the difference in I can bring I can unplug this now, right?
00:06:40.720 Or should I unplug it here or just take out the headphones?
00:06:44.780 Okay, fine.
00:06:46.860 Okay, guys.
00:06:47.520 So we're going to the whiteboard today.
00:06:56.020 All right, guys.
00:06:56.960 So what, I'm going to bring this to Brett.
00:07:02.860 What is cheating?
00:07:04.540 Okay, what is cheating?
00:07:06.540 Women and what, actually, let me start with this.
00:07:08.680 What is monogamy?
00:07:10.720 Monogamy is two people getting together, one person for a lifetime.
00:07:19.900 Like a nice heart there.
00:07:21.540 Wow, amazing.
00:07:23.700 You cannot see on this, can you?
00:07:25.480 Let me try the pink one.
00:07:29.660 Well, we'll see if this works.
00:07:34.280 Anyways, now, when do women have the choice to be monogamous?
00:07:39.640 this. Women at 22 years old have the choice to sleep with one man for a lifetime. And
00:07:53.140 we know that the average body count is well above, we're going to be, we're going to be,
00:08:01.800 it's well above five. We know this because if you ask men what would be an acceptable
00:08:06.640 body count to you, they think five is damn near a virgin. So in 2024, let's just say five plus,
00:08:14.400 all right? So when women, so this is the girl size, say, no, I don't want to be monogamous,
00:08:23.700 and I don't want to get married, because the average age of first marriage is like 32, or
00:08:28.300 I think it's like 30 now for women. Women are not shamed for this. Now, men get the opportunity
00:08:35.700 to be, to have sexual choice, let's just say, around 35.
00:08:40.900 That's their peak.
00:08:42.840 And most men actually still do pick monogamy
00:08:45.980 because they choose to get married before that.
00:08:48.780 This is the men.
00:09:01.020 And the differences,
00:09:04.860 and they also are not picking monogamy.
00:09:07.420 Let's just say in this case, because it's Myron.
00:09:10.280 So I want to show you the difference in how you treat men and women.
00:09:14.480 When the woman doesn't pick monogamy here,
00:09:19.160 the Daily Wire gives her a podcast and a show as long as she says, sorry.
00:09:23.820 But Myron is honest, which he is,
00:09:28.800 he says he's honest on all the shows to the women he's with.
00:09:31.540 He's honest, he's not monogamous.
00:09:32.980 then he's shamed. He's the bad guy. Now, I don't say this to say I'm for cheating. Okay, I'm not
00:09:41.040 for it. But the problem is, okay, I'm going to go back to this whiteboard.
00:09:50.400 Here's the issue. And dating app data, we'll back this up, all right. We have, let's just say,
00:09:56.780 ten chicks. Boom, boom. Actually I don't feel like drawing ten so I'm gonna use
00:10:03.400 five and we're just gonna go with that.
00:10:13.020 Boom, these are the men. And pretend that the ones at the top are the most
00:10:18.460 attractive, the ones at the bottom are the least attractive. What we have
00:10:24.340 is all these women sleeping with the same men.
00:10:33.520 So who's not picking, could you take down the bottom thing so you can see a little better?
00:10:38.180 Who's not picking monogamy, men or women?
00:10:42.700 Women could choose, we could choose to just go here.
00:10:48.380 Blessing, are we choosing that?
00:10:49.940 and so if we're not choosing that what I don't like is the best of both worlds
00:10:58.900 and I'm not talking about you Brett I'm talking about women in general right because she got
00:11:04.300 married young obviously no one's talking about her but we can't ask for the cream of the crop men
00:11:11.640 get married at 30
00:11:15.140 and also expect monogamy
00:11:19.220 I mean this isn't like make a wish
00:11:21.480 you know
00:11:22.140 so
00:11:25.420 that's my
00:11:28.060 my two cents
00:11:29.600 I'm going to come back to the whiteboard
00:11:31.080 hold on
00:11:34.860 so I would argue
00:11:37.220 I would argue that if men said tomorrow
00:11:39.460 if all the men got together and said
00:11:41.300 we will only be with one woman for a lifetime. Do you know who would argue first? Women. Women
00:11:48.460 love being side chicks. They'll fight to be side chicks. And we know this based on dating app data.
00:11:55.860 Now, a lot of times the trad cons will come in and say, my church is special or different.
00:12:00.680 But no, it's not. I've seen churches all across the country. I get the same complaints from people
00:12:07.020 no matter where they're from or what church they're in.
00:12:10.120 Women sleep with the same men in church, too.
00:12:13.580 It's very common to have a pastor, maybe a guy in the band, whatever it is.
00:12:18.680 That's just, or the attractive guy, that's the Christian,
00:12:22.460 a guy that leads the studies or whatever.
00:12:25.700 All the women go towards that guy.
00:12:30.180 So who's picking non-monogamy, men or women?
00:12:35.300 Women.
00:12:35.820 And so my thing is, for us women, if we pick a guy that could cheat, I mean, we could have dated the cashier at Wendy's.
00:12:46.760 But if we're not picking it, please stop crying to me.
00:12:51.580 Pick what you want. I don't care.
00:12:53.860 But if you want monogamy, the guy at Wendy's is waiting.
00:12:57.600 And if you say, well, I want it all, then cry me a river.