Pearl - July 21, 2026


Childhood HORROR Stories of Mothers

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10 minutes

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208.72

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2,135

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

12

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, we re talking about a common phenomenon that has been gas lit in our society for a long time. Mother s hate their kids because they don t like the way their kids treat them and the way they treat their kids. In this episode we re listening to a woman talking about why her mother hates her and why she hates her mom.

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00:00:00.000 yeah mothers torment especially if their daughter's cute like she's cute they cannot stand the
00:00:04.800 daughter being the center of attention all right what's up guys welcome to my reaction series so
00:00:08.800 today we're talking about a common phenomenon um in our society we have this idea that mothers are
00:00:14.640 these special creatures that just really love their children and uh from what i've seen mothers
00:00:20.400 kind of treat kids like uh they just like having kids for the cloud of the kid they don't really 1.00
00:00:26.080 like the kid that much like i think if most women didn't post their kids on social media would they 1.00
00:00:32.080 really have a kid if they could have posted a wedding on instagram like would they even have
00:00:36.960 a wedding do they so uh but this isn't really talked about and it's been gas lit um by liberals
00:00:43.120 and conservatives forever calling women nurturing and all this stuff but now the kids are getting
00:00:47.600 old enough where the kids can talk and talk about other mothers were terrible so today we're
00:00:51.600 listening to this lady talking about why her mother hates her mom hates you because you made
00:00:56.720 it further in life than she did and not in the way that you think but in the way that you chose how
00:01:03.200 you were going to live your life you didn't do it yeah so a lot of mothers got married young my mom
00:01:08.880 oh my gosh my mom would in high school so crazy my mom got married young and had 10 kids married
00:01:14.720 do a multi-billionaire and still would about how um she would still tell me not to get married
00:01:22.400 young or have kids young and then if you ask her i never did that it's like circle gaslighting
00:01:29.120 she wanted you to she hates you because you figured out you don't need to be liked you don't
00:01:34.960 have to fit in you don't have to have the job that they want you to have you don't have his
00:01:40.000 mothers are very controlling now i i actually never experienced this with my mom but i know
00:01:43.920 a lot of people where their mother wanted them to be a doctor or a lawyer in a certain career
00:01:48.720 and when they told them no it was like hell on earth to look like you have it all together
00:01:54.880 she hates you because you can live in your truth every day because you are strong because you know
00:02:03.040 who you are because you love yourself because you don't have to wear a mask around everybody
00:02:07.120 and even more so you see her mask you know she's wearing a mask and that she
00:02:14.320 wishes she could live the life that you live where you didn't have to turn around and wonder 0.91
00:02:19.760 what somebody thought about you that's why your mama don't yeah okay let's see because mothers 0.61
00:02:25.200 are always really concerned about their reputation and they make it everybody's problem my mom did
00:02:30.080 growing up that made me think that she hated me number one i was literally forced to have these 0.99
00:02:33.840 fuck ass bangs until i was 16. they were so ugly and thick they looked so bad i'll insert a picture 0.99
00:02:38.880 and anytime i would ask her to like grow out my bangs before this she would be like no your 1.00
00:02:42.160 forehead's too big you're not gonna get a boyfriend they're gonna think your forehead's 1.00
00:02:44.960 ugly i'm not even kidding guys she would literally say that mothers are the first ones to make you
00:02:49.600 insecure they're the first ones to make a little comment about your appearance it's not gonna get 1.00
00:02:54.080 a boyfriend because of this big ass forehead luckily i've had the same boyfriend for the 0.92
00:02:57.200 last five years i don't really think this big forehead is bothering him but my mom sure thought 0.96
00:03:00.880 it was gonna affect me in the future the next one is my mom would low-key take away like everything
00:03:05.040 that i like and like i'm not even playing with y'all and i say that literally every single thing
00:03:08.640 that it felt like i really enjoyed or like i really had a passion for gone i'm not even saying
00:03:12.960 like she would ground them from me no she would literally like ban them from our house never
00:03:16.800 allowed to be seen again it's not even like she was trying to keep me safe there was literally a
00:03:20.160 couple of times where my mom was like you're being too annoying with this you're too obsessed with it
00:03:23.440 i think you need to take a break and then if she saw me doing it again she would be like okay you're
00:03:26.800 grounded from it forever then the last one that she would do is she would constantly come up to
00:03:30.320 to me and like accused me of being on like certain kinds of I remember one time she came up to me 0.65
00:03:35.180 because I was tired after school and she literally came up to me and she was like are you on speed
00:03:38.680 are you on speed first of all I didn't even know what that was at the time I literally told her I
00:03:42.820 was like why don't you just drug test me why don't you drug test me literally because I didn't even
00:03:46.340 know what that was and I was just tired of dealing with it because it was an all the time thing she
00:03:50.200 was constantly accusing me of being on like certain substances at the ripe age of like 16 0.95
00:03:54.880 yeah that was just a few more things for you yeah mother's torment especially if their daughter's
00:03:58.900 cute like she's cute they cannot stand the daughter being the center of attention how much
00:04:04.180 my mother hates me and how much my mother does not like me so there was this one time when i was in
00:04:08.800 high school and anytime that i would like a boy and like or invite him over to hang out or whatever
00:04:14.800 um she would make it a point to be like the utter center of attention it was absolutely disgusting
00:04:22.660 i was so embarrassed so then um come to find out any boy that i liked and told her that i liked 1.00
00:04:30.100 um she was getting their phone numbers and texting them inappropriate pictures behind my back thinking
00:04:35.620 i would never find out what the frick is wrong you know i've heard that story from so many guys 1.00
00:04:41.860 that the mother was would flirt with them and the daughters mind you this is a grown woman
00:04:47.140 grown woman because i was in high school so these are 16 17 18 year old boys okay
00:04:54.360 later on down the road whenever i met my husband who is now my husband been together and married
00:04:59.320 for 11 years now um we were out at a bar together and she had showed up well she was hanging all
00:05:07.000 over my husband and my husband looked at her and pushed her away and was like that's no you need
00:05:12.280 to back up and since that day she has never liked him so yeah but also um these trauma dumping
00:05:21.940 videos that i'm doing are absolutely freeing and the amount of women that i have in my comments
00:05:27.400 telling me the exact same thing has happened to them and they wish that they could share their 0.61
00:05:31.440 stories share them who's gonna stop you you're a grown ass woman you're a grown you know that's 0.51
00:05:37.900 crazy thing the family dynamic is like you know my mom used to get mad at me because i would talk 0.55
00:05:43.100 too highly of my father and i didn't talk about her it's like the family dynamic is always that
00:05:49.340 everybody's afraid to air out the mother and her reputation and the mother just tortures everybody
00:05:55.340 man now at this point who's going to stop you you're afraid of tearing apart the family what
00:06:00.220 family you already don't have anything to do with them share your stories what are they going to do
00:06:06.780 what are they going to do nothing and trust me when i say sharing all these videos and hoping
00:06:13.900 my mother finds them because she's not blocked on tick tock and she's on here yeah look at the
00:06:19.500 comments i was a freshman and had kidney surgery my first day home my boyfriend came to visit
00:06:23.980 i was pretty out of it and and he left i woke up the next morning to find him in bed with my mom
00:06:29.420 and god forbid you ever bring any of this up as an adult it's that never happened if it did it
00:06:33.580 wasn't that bad or i'm too sensitive or that i'm always the victim yeah that's the thing
00:06:38.380 dads will just admit they did that they were wrong and move on like they they're not going
00:06:43.020 to gaslight you when i was 12 my mom and her new husband bought a house and told me she didn't know
00:06:47.100 what i was going to do because there wasn't room for me i left my dad's and never looked back
00:06:51.100 my mother didn't do that but my mom is still an active addiction i do not talk to her my choice
00:06:56.860 because it's my fault for her addiction and now that i'm an adult i realize i'm not the reason
00:07:01.580 to her addiction sorry you had to go through that mama all right let's keep on going understand how
00:07:07.260 much it hurts me listening to you talk like this the only reason that i talk like this isn't because
00:07:13.420 of me there you go again i don't know how you have the nerve for years now i've just sat back and and
00:07:19.580 let you treat me like that like what go on then if you've got the nerve to sit and speak to me like
00:07:25.420 that do you realize how much damage you've caused do you realize how hard it's been to raise a child
00:07:34.860 like you you don't make it easy do you always going against me never giving a second thought
00:07:42.780 as to how it might make me feel that's all i ever do because it's always about how it makes you feel
00:07:48.060 of course because it's me that has to deal with you deal with i've only ever wanted to be loved
00:07:54.780 and to be listened i don't know how you dare you've just said that yourself i hope to god
00:08:01.500 you have a daughter just like you one day oh my god that's that that's what they always say 1.00
00:08:08.220 you'll understand one day it's like no i won't understand you being a cunt 1.00
00:08:13.180 so you might understand just why i hate you so much i'd never hate children 1.00
00:08:19.340 my words if you had one just like you you would 0.62
00:08:21.340 you happy now you've pushed me to say something like that i didn't do anything never do do you
00:08:31.200 yeah let's see the next one believes that your mother hates you no one ever believes that your
00:08:38.880 mother hates you i think that is probably true it's so true nobody believes you because they
00:08:44.460 work so hard to protect their reputation and they get so much social power and credit that
00:08:50.200 If you ever say anything, it's like they send all these people after you.
00:08:55.100 The thing I've had to overcome with being in contact with my mother, people just don't think mothers can hate their children.
00:09:00.600 And I really want people to deconstruct that.
00:09:03.540 I think that, like, you need to accept that it is a truth that a parent can just hate their child.
00:09:09.600 It is wrong.
00:09:11.240 It's not okay.
00:09:12.260 But if you can't, like, conceptualize that, you can't be an advocate for a child whose parents hate them.
00:09:17.340 Because you're ignoring a core issue. And so when you go into the situation, you're like, there's a lot of love here, but we don't know how to connect. Let's figure out how to love each other. This person hates that child. No one would cuss out a 12 year old that they've been caring for since birth. You don't cuss out children that you love, right?
00:09:39.660 like you don't like there's certain behaviors that if it's consistent with what you would do
00:09:45.280 to someone that you hate maybe they hate this child and if we can't like address the elephant
00:09:51.120 in the room it's really hard to be a proper advocate for a child in these situations no one 0.89
00:09:56.980 ever believed yeah i'm telling you mothers most mothers are terrible and they mentally torture 0.78
00:10:04.460 everybody so anyways all right guys i love you thanks so much for watching if you can like the 0.99
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