Pearl - May 27, 2026


Crowder Tries To Give Redpill Advice!


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14 minutes

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2,371

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76

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13

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In this episode, we talk about the dangers of feminism and how to deal with it from both a male and female perspective. We talk about why it s a bad idea to be a feminist and why we need to stop buying into it.

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00:00:00.000 Here's a litmus test, because I also understand as Christians, we believe that people can be
00:00:03.660 redeemed and we want people to be redeemed, right? You see the same rash of former porn stars who
00:00:08.140 once they start aging out or once they become less popular, all of a sudden starting up ministries.
00:00:14.020 It doesn't mean-
00:00:15.260 What ministry should I start? I didn't do porn. I didn't do porn, but I'm getting close to the age.
00:00:22.500 What should I start? What church should I? Who will have me?
00:00:28.240 mean that it can't be genuine um but they needn't be given a platform it doesn't mean
00:00:40.520 that these women in those cases most of them are not but these women can't be genuine and maybe
00:00:47.020 their their conversion but they yeah what's my cult name if i started a cult you know 0.61
00:00:55.200 just give me some options you know they needn't be granted a marriage certificate
00:01:02.020 here's how i think you might want to approach both from a male perspective and a female
00:01:10.140 perspective in self-examination assuming that you are a man who wants a marriage who wants a family
00:01:15.600 a traditional one and assuming that you are a woman who wants those things now
00:01:21.460 look for listen for asks and me meaning someone saying yeah i uh went to college
00:01:31.360 and i did all these things but then i realized that i don't really want to be working and i
00:01:35.600 actually would really like to be a mom and actually that does sound better right being at
00:01:40.380 home and taking care of a family um that would be that that would be preferable now so i was wrong 1.00
00:01:45.760 and what I thought I wanted those are all asks and usually it's married with but whatever women 1.00
00:01:53.960 want to do of course they can just do that versus I made mistakes following the feminist lie 1.00
00:02:02.600 I bought into it that is the worst look Crowder that's bullshit because saying you bought into 0.99
00:02:13.760 the feminist lie. It's bullshit. Look, I was selfish and I did what I wanted would be far 1.00
00:02:26.040 more accountability taking bought into the blame. Like I just are clavicular's girlfriends,
00:02:35.020 whatever bullshit story they tell their future husbands. Are they 0.99
00:02:39.240 would it be accountability to say hey you know shiny object syndrome I was dating the cool guy
00:02:51.660 at the time it was fun it was what I wanted but it had consequences and now it's on the internet
00:02:56.580 forever um I regret it now like that would be a more honest um you know you want the cult of
00:03:05.180 pearl sonality that's funny yeah because remember buying into the lie or whatever
00:03:11.020 you have to ask what negative trait about yourself made you believe quote unquote believe the lie in
00:03:19.720 the first place it's kind of like men that in a way blame women for everything it's like well 0.80
00:03:25.820 there had to be a negative trait about you that allowed a woman like that into your life you know
00:03:31.480 you probably gave in way too much and you were just weak as a man a week for women because you 1.00
00:03:39.080 you know you haven't gotten a lot of women before so you folded women it's like well
00:03:44.380 like it's way easy for me to say um
00:03:49.180 you know I was tricked into feminism that's why I went to college that's why I played volleyball
00:03:56.560 for all those years instead of getting married, right? But I think, you know, if I'm going to use
00:04:02.400 me as an example, it's like, well, it was what I wanted to do. And I wanted to waste my time doing
00:04:09.560 stupid stuff rather than get married, even though I didn't think that's what I wanted at the time, 0.99
00:04:14.980 right? I didn't think so. But then I looked back and I'm like, well, that's what I chose to do. 1.00
00:04:22.080 I guess I didn't want it as much as I thought. I wanted to spend, I was selfish, right?
00:04:26.560 doing what I wanted to do, you know, and it's far easier to say feminism tricked me than accept
00:04:34.560 a negative personality trait to say I was selfish. I wanted to do other things. Do you know what I'm
00:04:42.880 saying? Like that would mean, yeah, accepting accountability, right? Like that's, it's way
00:04:49.060 easier to just say, well, feminism tricked me into going to college. No, I went to college
00:04:54.180 because it sounded fun.
00:05:00.260 Right?
00:05:00.840 I wanted fun.
00:05:04.100 That's why most people go to college. 1.00
00:05:06.460 Feminism tricked me?
00:05:07.840 No, I wasn't tricked into anything.
00:05:10.400 You know? 0.85
00:05:11.120 I mean, it's just silly.
00:05:13.440 So they say, Pearl, what about you?
00:05:14.880 Well, I was selfish.
00:05:15.920 That's true.
00:05:16.800 And, you know, you can lie to other people, right?
00:05:19.860 But you can't really lie to yourself.
00:05:23.220 So...
00:05:24.180 And in buying into it, I did irreparable damage, and I want to right those wrongs and advise young women to not do the same. 0.99
00:05:35.960 No, I would believe it more if they shut up forever. 1.00
00:05:42.440 Yeah, feminism only tricked you because you wanted to do those things. 1.00
00:05:46.020 I want to make sure that we teach our children that everything is a trade-off.
00:05:51.320 I want to make sure that if we have a daughter, she knows that, you know, if you don't start focusing on this very young, when you have that biological window and start planning for your life, you may find yourself very likely find yourself in this situation with regrets like I.
00:06:11.360 but here here's the thing you can't control kids you can't you can raise them right you can give
00:06:17.360 them the right information but what they do with it is up to you and if you force them to get married
00:06:22.160 young or do something they don't want to do they'll resent you for it forever yeah so i did
00:06:27.840 do not do it the way that i did you can choose to be a professional during your your fertile
00:06:35.360 your formative years, or you can choose to pursue a priority of a family. And then you could go be
00:06:41.820 a professional after that. But you do have to make a choice as to your priorities. It's a trade-off.
00:06:48.840 On the flip side, men don't get a trade-off, just so you know. Here's the advice to young men.
00:06:53.120 Hey, do you want to get married? You better work. And if you never want to get married, 0.74
00:06:57.540 you still have to work. Well, there's some men finding their way around it these days. You can
00:07:03.720 get you uh you can marry an only fans girl and take half there are some options like there are
00:07:11.740 if you want to live off women um now a lot of people come back at me and they say but pearl
00:07:17.500 but pearl that's like not natural for a man to like you know then the woman's gonna cheat at
00:07:22.700 work but you know the woman's gonna cheat anyway oh but pearl not all women cheat well women cheat
00:07:28.120 a lot. So you might as well get a bag out of it. I knew a guy in London. The way he viewed it is 1.00
00:07:36.720 he would date these high earning women. And the way he viewed it, it's like if they cheated at
00:07:41.420 work, he didn't care because they were kind of too ugly for him anyway. If they proved themselves
00:07:46.140 to be loyal, then he would stick around. But he would live with them, get the rent. And then if
00:07:51.960 they became too insufferable, then he would just leave. And in a way, like, okay, if a woman's 0.99
00:07:57.560 giving her paycheck to the guy. It's almost better because then the kid doesn't have to 0.55
00:08:04.900 be tortured by the mother. Father gets to make all financial decisions. Now I know nobody's
00:08:10.580 going to be with me on this. They're going to say, but Pearl, but Pearl, like she's going to
00:08:14.520 be thinking she's better and disrespecting. And then like, well, fine. Now he's got the leverage
00:08:19.820 in family court. He could put her on alimony. I don't think, look, I'm not saying to do that.
00:08:26.520 all i'm saying is in a way because the laws aren't gendered if the women work and the 1.00
00:08:31.300 husband stays home he can take half her shit you know what i mean where if you have her stay home 0.99
00:08:38.380 i mean honestly no matter how you spin it legally that is the worst thing you can do to yourself 0.99
00:08:43.920 legally like that is the worst there's no better way to give a 0.58
00:08:49.660 a woman leverage than to stay home oh but pearl but pearl but pearl um 1.00
00:08:56.520 pearl you know she's gonna disrespect him well the women are all disrespecting him 1.00
00:09:04.400 oh but pearl she's gonna cheat at work they're doing that anyway get your bag like then he 1.00
00:09:12.000 could manage your career right and then if again if she leaves he could take half 1.00
00:09:16.200 i'm just saying that's the way the laws the women set up those laws 1.00
00:09:20.540 women set those laws up so now the man can take the leverage i don't know i saw a couple guys
00:09:29.220 with this dynamic and everyone was like everyone was clouding the guys saying he wasn't a real man
00:09:34.940 and i think it's because men want their money to matter to women oh she'll disrespect him later i'm
00:09:40.140 like i don't know some of these guys have just mastered female psychology maybe i haven't been
00:09:46.960 around long enough to see how it plays out so i guess i guess we'll see how it goes in the future
00:09:51.520 but i'm like in a way if if she like he says look at i'm really hot the only way we're gonna do this
00:09:59.080 is if you give me your paycheck and i'll decide i'll make all the choices what to do with it 0.88
00:10:03.940 if you want to leave totally fine um but then she can he can go to court anyways
00:10:11.760 Just an idea.
00:10:12.740 I mean, you guys could take this or leave it, right? 0.59
00:10:15.880 Oh, but I found that special girl.
00:10:17.960 Are most men going to find a special girl? 1.00
00:10:20.700 She's too busy to cheat. 0.99
00:10:22.680 Yeah, the clown world. 0.97
00:10:23.640 It takes less than five minutes. 0.83
00:10:25.440 Yeah, I know.
00:10:26.400 Hey, I mean, look, I'm not saying to do that.
00:10:28.680 I'm just saying it's an option.
00:10:29.880 And I've seen, yeah, I thought I found the special girl. 1.00
00:10:35.080 She cheated.
00:10:36.520 Right, and so the way this guy viewed it was, okay, if she leaves, 0.98
00:10:40.860 that's fine i'll just save money and then i'll meet my wife and then if i meet a woman that
00:10:47.340 proves to me to be loyal like i mean now i have a wife and if she leaves well i'll see you
00:10:56.460 so look for is this person now selfishly for lack of a better word describing what they want
00:11:04.300 is it a wish list and the wish list has just changed from i want to be independent i want
00:11:09.260 to have my own money i want to do it my own way i don't want to be tied down to a man to you know
00:11:15.180 what now i'm ready to settle down that sound i'm with dame dave ramsey if you're married there's
00:11:20.540 no his or her money you're now a team and it belongs to both well that means it belongs to
00:11:24.780 her because we all know women spend more so that's like it's not a fair comparison it's not a fair 0.58
00:11:30.780 because then she's just going to spend more than you and now you're enslaved even if a man gets 1.00
00:11:35.580 money from her, what will happen in the divorce? Well, he'll be sad. But I'm just saying legally,
00:11:41.220 the laws are not gendered. So you could apply the laws. Now, I think there's been an increase 0.96
00:11:50.540 in alimony. I think more men should take child support and alimony because a lot of men will
00:11:55.740 shame men for doing it. But honestly, if you feel guilty about it, if you feel guilty about it,
00:12:01.800 It's okay because if you really feel bad, you can save her money for later.
00:12:13.520 You know what I mean?
00:12:13.940 Like take that $2,000, $500 for the kid, $500 for you.
00:12:18.160 You can even give her half back later.
00:12:20.540 It's kind of like savings for a kid.
00:12:22.480 I'm not saying she deserves that, but, you know.
00:12:26.000 Sounds good for me.
00:12:27.460 or is it someone just like anyone else who's made a serious mistake take a drug addict
00:12:33.220 take someone who for example maybe was preaching what they now know to be a false religion you
00:12:40.060 have those people those conversion stories saying hey hey let me warn you don't do what i did
00:12:46.220 it doesn't end well and it is all wrong that's important because you know what else meant here
00:12:53.600 and i'm telling you pearl's gonna have some gorgeous babies look i'm mid my kids are gonna be mid 0.93
00:13:00.000 i just like to be accurate on this channel this women this is for the women you know what men
00:13:12.400 hear when they go yeah well then i do eventually want to be like a stay-at-home mom but before then
00:13:16.640 i want to i want to work a job and by the way that's that makes sense you can plan your life
00:13:21.880 that way a lot of people get married before they have kids they both work but establishing that as
00:13:27.780 a prerequisite is to tell the man yeah then I'll prioritize kids I'm going to prioritize myself
00:13:34.320 and then children at no point will it be support for you and men are going I'm kind of okay by
00:13:41.740 myself I would really only bring someone on if they're a teammate and not just a teammate to
00:13:48.220 the kids but yeah a teammate i mean but it can't be a teammate that's egalitarian it's got to be
00:13:55.740 subordinate a teammate that a team we're equal but a teammate to me you comment below if that
00:14:07.140 helps you and makes sense if someone has a conversion story it can't just be a wish list
00:14:12.860 it has to be a how they are going to prevent other people from making the same mistakes
00:14:19.780 that's the accountability