Pearl - December 24, 2025Dating Divorced Men
Episode Stats
Length
1 hour and 40 minutes
Words per Minute
120.10846
Summary
I m in a tank top, it s 80 in Chicago, but it s warm in Texas, and I want to brag a little bit about it. I hope you re having a bad day, but I m having a good one!
Transcript
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making my way downtown walking fast and I'm homebound hold on guys one second
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welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network guess what guess what hold
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on it is christmas eve and i'm in texas this year and in chicago it's freezing but in texas
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it is warm i hope all of you midwesterners are having a terrible time because i moved to texas
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and I was miserable in the summers. But right now it's 80. It's 80. I hope you guys are having
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a terrible day. I was just, I'm in a tank top. I'm in a tank top because I'm warm.
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I forgot to turn on my piano before the stream.
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And I know, I think as your host, I should be telling you to have a great day, right?
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I mean, you guys are my supporters, my followers.
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So I went live and I decided I'm going to rub it in.
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i hope you're having a terrible day because i'm pretty warm in texas today oh
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thank you thank you did i um the scale went up actually the scale kind of did go up
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thanks for rubbing it in. Well, it went down from yesterday. I don't know how.
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So I did kind of an extreme fast like two weeks ago.
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A little too extreme, but I was like, I was kind of experimenting here.
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And then the weight went up because I told you I drank. And then yesterday I went to order,
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I ordered like takeout from a restaurant and I accidentally ordered it from like a really
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expensive restaurant I was like I got a huge bill because I called and I didn't look and I was like
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oh wow but it was it was a pretty good steak so um so I thought I was going to be fat today
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because I ate a lot of the bread that it came with it was so good and I'm at 162 this morning
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so i'm like i'm really trying to get to 155 that's my goal but i i kind of messed it up this
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week a little bit do any other ladies in the chat like check your weight every day you know
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men think about money and sex every day women think about our weight every day you think
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you're it's kind of surprising considering the obesity in america
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but we do think about it a lot and i'm really tired stop telling me not to lose any more weight
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i'm gonna lose more weight like i'm gonna get to 145 whether it's the last thing i do
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whether it's the last um thing i do and then do you know what i'll do
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there's no way i'm 162 do you think i'm fatter or thinner
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Are you saying I'm fatter or thinner? I have a very athletic background. Like I think I have muscle, right? I mean, I've been working out since I was 16. But I want to get to, I should tone up. All right. All right. Do you know what? This is why, this is why I don't want to include you guys in my journey. I'm doing the best I can.
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um but I want to get to 145 um I'm six feet I want to get to 145 just to see what I look like
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and then if I fat like I used to be 200 plus pounds
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so like I can just gain it back it's like not that bad do you know what I mean I'm just I'm
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tired of people telling me not to lose weight it's like oh I'm gonna lose I'm gonna lose it
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so hard it just takes me i'm one of those people it takes me forever i mean this took me
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years to get this thin i started this like five years ago and i was like 10 pounds a year
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ineffective way to do it like i would not i could tell you how i did it
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but you guys are men and i think men would want a faster way
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50 super william you shouldn't have is this because i'm thin do 150 and call it good
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i don't think i'll look sick at 145 my aunt's 145 and she looks good
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because i'm here in texas and i'm tanning today i hope that you are cool wait i hope i hope that
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you are cold because I am gonna be that bold every oh my god that was bad everything is better in
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Texas is that good or bad was that bad sometimes I really try to go for it
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i need a vocal coach i guess you guys could be my coach you know everything is better in texas
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look i've only been here six months but i do like it
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you want me to play the dad song you know it's crazy my dad still hasn't heard it
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you taught me to shoot my first basket you made us fifth grade conference champions
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i never cared about the fans i just loved seeing you in the stands long walks on the ride home
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wait no long talks on the ride home i miss them when we're on the phone
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Cause damn it, I'm so proud to be your daughter
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i used to hate green eyes i wanted blue but now i love them cause i look like you
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they say i ain't pretty but i don't care cause i got your smile and red hair when i look in the
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mirror i see you oh not all girls get a dad like you and i'm so lucky that i have you
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Cause damn it, I'm so proud to be your daughter
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whoo you know stop it stop the applause is crazy
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stop if you guys put up a song in the chat i can freestyle though to it
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and i actually have a song if one day i get married probably not right i don't know if
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in the cards for me with this choppedness but you never know the the idea would be
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i always loved my last name davis it gives me part of the fame
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cause it reminds me of you like something this is
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i'm this is rough but i i think the storyline first and then i think of like um
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Um, then I kind of, I get the lyrics better, but the idea would be, I always loved my last name.
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It kind of brought something about fame, small town in our small town. Yeah, it's kind of famous.
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And then it would be, the idea would be, and I never, like, I never thought I would give up my
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last name. But you make me want to take yours. And it's like a romance. You see the love.
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Do you see what I'm saying? I always loved my last name.
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But sometimes you, I don't know. I don't know. This is just a song idea I have. But I'm like,
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I want it to be, the first verses would be, I love being a Davis. Something about how we're,
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and then the like before would say, and I never wanted to give up my last name
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until I heard yours and then it would be a love song. I haven't really, I haven't put it together
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yet. I'm, this is going to be a music studio in the next few months. So it's going to be kind of
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exciting because when you think about it, marriage is a bad investment. I know. I think the most
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romantic thing that's why i like the song i wrote that's like i always thought i always i always
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thought i couldn't i always thought i couldn't be bought at least that's what i was taught
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i make my own money i do my own thing i never wanted ring ring
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strong and independent i don't need no man jet set lifestyle instagram
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but then i met you things started to change maybe i don't need my last name
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so i like this song because it's more romantic if you don't go into a relationship wanting
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anything you know i'm saying like like it's i actually think it's more romantic
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to put a modern woman back in the kitchen like a liberal like i a guy told me a story about how he
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took a a vegan girl on a date and got her to drink bone broth the first date that's kind of romantic
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you know but saying like intentional dating that's not really romantic that's saying i
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want to get something out of this i'm gonna hold on i wrote the lyrics on my phone let me
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let me do the rest you said you got tears well that's kind of simpy i mean it's not that good
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I'm going to be streaming more and it's going to be, oh, here we go. Here's the chorus.
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I used to have my own dreams and things that I wanted. Ever since I met you, my life's been
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haunted. Two kids on the back porch with you and me. Loving you is my wildest dream.
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piano volume's got to be higher i don't know if it goes higher
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through these I understand my piano is not good
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Oh, do you know what's another good one? Hold on.
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I wonder if this is still on YouTube anywhere. Oh, here we go.
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what the heck okay can someone explain this is not my youtube channel
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um i don't know who made this but this is songs that i've put on spotify
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which is kind of crazy okay i'll show you my thought why not f it today's kind of like a
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i've been shaking every day since i had to leave
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it's not what i wanted but sure and hope good for me
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Life really ain't been the same since you've been gone
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loss of appetite sleepless nights and trust issues you're high risk i'm a love addict
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this feeling is fatal mentally unstable you should have come with a warning label
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Okay. That is so clever. And we just need, this is too long of a song. If I had to do it,
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I wish I made it shorter. I did this a few years ago.
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Cause you're addictive side effects include missing you loss of appetite, sleepless nights
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and trust issues. That is so clever. You're high risk. And I'm a love addict. This feeling is
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fatal, mentally unstable, you should have come with a warning label. That's so clever.
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Addictive warning label. Oh my God. Like this was one of the most clever things I ever made.
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It was after a break. I won't lie. I won't lie. It was after I took an L. I wrote this song.
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I wrote, am I going to show you guys my whole album today? Fuck it. Fuck it. Fuck it. You know
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what i mean this is my stuff i'm actually most excited about but i understand i'm like a subpar
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musician so i get a little nervous to show people because i am very proud of the things i made
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and i don't want to be roasted for eternity do you know what i mean that's the tough thing
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love is expired but i still desire a refill a refill and by the way that was i wish i'm
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gonna rewrite if i ever rerecord this and make it better i will rewrite that lyric that's not my
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favorite it's not my favorite because you're addictive side effects include missing you
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loss of appetite sleepless nights and trust issues you're high risk thank you for the
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thank you for the supers guys i don't know i feel like i should pay you for listening to my mixtape
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today that's how i feel i'm like if you guys are nice enough to listen to this stuff i love
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a love addict this feeling is fatal mentally unstable you should have come
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with a warning label you should have come with a warning label you should have come
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Had a woman holding me down like she was my only hope
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Now maybe there's a path that we walk in passing
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withholding passion frightened of addiction to one another withhold attraction you don't let
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yourself fall you fight your feelings like southpaw and even the words we share with each
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other don't ever sound wrong and maybe repeat the cycle like this ain't my only feature recovery
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time and meetings don't make me the only speaker put my best foot forward always gave you my best
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first you could be the reason i'm forever buried in step work and that's a risk i'm down to take
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because i've taken it many times you could read me this warning label is fatal for either side
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is that a sucker okay was that not clever his his verse hit so hard it hits so hard
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that's savo i'm like i think this could be such a good song if i had the right tools
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um i would need to shorten it i think i think i need to shorten it
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years now and i'm married with a diamond ring you're with some random girl but still in love
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with me i won't admit it but i see you in my dreams i wonder are you the one who's supposed
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to be next to me you should have come with the warning label you should have come with
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I mean, look, I know some people are saying they enjoy this more than my normal podcasts.
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I mean, I, again, I think I should be paying you to listen to this, but I'm very proud of these.
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So, but it's hard, you know, sometimes you show something to the internet you're proud of and
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they just make fun of you forever. And it's like, oh, I was kind of proud of it. I got an album,
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actually, this, this ex wrote an album about me and I, um, it's too bad. It got, I think he took
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it down it's like you know it's over but we should let the art be art you know sing the commandment
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song by miss bashful i i'm actually okay so the other songs i did this one i did with bryson gray
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and the thought process behind it um was my my war with the church right because i always felt like
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i've always felt like i could be a religious person but yeah i mean i don't think there's
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a lot of money in music so i don't know if that'll um and so i wanted to talk about how i felt about
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like god because i do pray and i do believe in god but i don't really think i'm that good of a person
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You found God at the bottom of a bottle You were out, living life full throttle
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I found God at the end of a heartbreak I didn't think there was much more I could take
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I'm a sinner, this I know The Bible thumpers tell me so
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never did fit in with the Jesus phone they don't listen they just like two-toe but I believe in
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better days I believe that Jesus saves God please show me the way that's why I
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pray so there'll be better days maybe I won't be a sinner always that's why I
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That's why I pray. God lead the way. Maybe one day I won't be so afraid. That's why I pray.
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Say you looking for better days. You need to change from the old you to better ways.
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Cause God was calling your name, but you ran away
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Then decided to blame the church cause you was led astray
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Psalm 1-1, but they'll close their eyes to miss it
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Cause I'm being tricked by all these feminist witches
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baby one day i won't be so afraid i'm a sinner this i know the bible thumpers tell me so
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i wonder who made this youtube channel because i did not make this one i mean i appreciate it
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you know what I mean? Okay, this one I wrote about, I'm going to send you guys like a dollar
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on Cash App for listening to me. This one I wrote about how I did not grow up, I grew up when social
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media happened. So I remember in eighth grade, I got my first smartphone. And when I was in eighth
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grade, I realized that people were hanging out without me. I couldn't believe it. I had these
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two best friends, or I thought we were best friends, and it turns out they hated me.
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But I didn't know before because, you know, I didn't know I wasn't invited to all this stuff.
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So I always wondered, ever since I've been alive, I've always, when I go to a party or something,
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I've always had to have that thought in the back of my head that someone can record me. Like,
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no keg stands for pearl no twerking for pearl um no getting i mean i'll still get you know
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occasionally i do get you know but even like this sunday i told you guys i got pretty drunk
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the first time in a while and i had to think well if there's a video that comes out of me
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doing god knows what or someone says they saw me or i don't know i just wanted to kind of say hey
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um and i wouldn't in the old days there would be no phone so i wouldn't have to do that
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and so i've always wondered what would life be like if you could party
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like um in 1992 which is before i was born i bet it was really fun
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women getting drunk is gross not if you're the one getting drunk with us
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yeah um so here we go party like we used to take me back to 1992
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everybody's acting brand new we're not looking across the room
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now the whole night's on record i used to know who my neighbor was now we really don't do that
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stuff we used to go out and ding dong ditch now that ring cam is the biggest snitch now okay that
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was so clever and i wrote that myself we used to go out and ding dong ditch now that ring cam is
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the biggest snitch. If I don't know what's clever, if I, that is clever. That is clever.
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so put your hands up everybody's walking put your phone down and get on the dance floor
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shake that booty like you never did before look real silly yeah raise your hands
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take that shot baby get your move on be like stella and get your groove on
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They, 15, I don't know how I'm getting super chatted today.
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This is, I, again, I think I should be paying you guys.
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um but i am aware that it's a very competitive industry and um conservative media is less
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competitive i won't lie to you but um this one i think is on spotify if you look it up if you're
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really i mean some of these are on i think all of these are on spotify if you look up like
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either hannah pearl davis or i mean just put it in spotify it's on there
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the room yeah so those are my songs that one i got done in england i'm trying to think so there
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is another song that i wrote and i wish i still had blessing here blessing i miss you blessing
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who remembers blessing one in the chat if you remember blessing i remember blessing we love you
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we miss you but i had another song i think i think i'm just gonna force you to listen to my
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mixtape today. Yep. And I will do my monologue about divorced men. That is going to happen.
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That is, I do have some funny things to say about dating divorced men.
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But, you know, since we're on the topic, I might as well.
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Let me find it. Let me find it. So I had a different song that was
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what was it about you ever okay ladies in the chat you ever go on a date with a guy and you think
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holy shit this guy has got everything like this guy is perfect this is everything i want
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and if it doesn't I don't almost want to fall for him because if I fall like I am going to not
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recover like I'm just not gonna you know it's just gonna be really really bad
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chicks date divorced men for the same reason they dig felons we both got out of prison no
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No, no, that's not going to be, my monologue's going to come later after I force you to listen
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to my mixtape. Yep. I mean, you guys don't, sorry, you don't get the luxury of forcing me
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to stick to the topic. You don't. I am going to make you listen to all of it. So
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I'm trying to hold back for now. Cause I never felt like this before. I wish I could remember
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how to play it on the piano but i'll give you a i'll give you an idea i remember blessing used
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to play this i'm trying to hold back for now because i've never felt like this before
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i feel like i'm drunk but i'm so sober if i fall in love with you it's over
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if i do you see how clever that is i'm trying to hold back for now because i've never felt
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like this before you're too good for me that's for sure
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I'm falling for you, but I'm trying to deny it.
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I mean, if that's not poetry, I don't know what is.
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I got to remember, I wrote these lyrics in my phone.
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It's tough because when women feel this way about you, we will crash out.
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So it's like men want a chill girl, but the chill girl doesn't like you that much.
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But if you want a girl that really likes you, there will be a crash out if it goes bad.
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I gotta, let me look up the lyrics in my phone.
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oh here it is okay did i write the chords that i wrote this to
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i could fall in love but damn i shouldn't i'd give you my heart but i wish i wouldn't
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maybe i am too close wait what did i do but is the risk worth the cost
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i wish i could play these better but i just want you guys to see the vision i can't really i'm like
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an amateur pianist because that's a lot of power to give someone i'm afraid you'll up and run i
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feel like i'm drunk but i'm so sober if i fall in love with you it's over
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I think I really want to pay the people to be here, to be honest.
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thank you guys thank you do you know what i mean i mean i think some of these are clever
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i'm trying to see what else i had i've had a lot of clever ones over the years to be honest
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I am going to get a prime rib that's going to be here soon.
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now here's the women nagging me in the chat they say pearl you're no better than other woman i know
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i wanted to drop the n-word but i fell in love with that too
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you know i mean look there's women in all of us women okay let's see what else do i got
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Oh, there's one I wrote about hate being closer to love, where it's like, we both know, let
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And I hate the way you know you can mess me up.
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something like that you see because i was thinking about how if you hate them that's
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that's who's dangerous whoever the heck you hate oh i gotta take off my headphones in case they get
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yeah so what i want to do is upstairs i have the this is my streaming station and i want to turn
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this into a music studio which will be pretty cool um and then i can like easily i'd ideally
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it'd be really cool to get someone who i could pay to help me like produce and stuff that has
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like experience in this kind of stuff. Brianna wants to nag me today. Nagging her boyfriend
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was not enough. So do you know what that gets you? Banned. Banned. Look, you don't have
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to be here, I promise. Yeah, you know, it's like the black woman comes in here and is a bitch.
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it's like shocker she says pearl why don't you tell us how you really feel about black people
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i did i'm fatigued i love black people if i'm being honest i think they're fun i i like i think
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i could go to a cookout and fit in i always talk to black people but i just wish they would just
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stop doing certain things you know what i mean that's how i feel i'm very honest about this
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i wish they would stop calling you racist whenever they could you know that would be amazing
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i mean i can even freestyle can i freestyle for you guys should i freestyle
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all right one in the chat if you want to hear me freestyle two of two in the chat if and then you
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guys could put words in the chat and i'll freestyle to a beat who wants to hear me one if you want to
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hear it too. If you want me to shut the fuck up. Oh, I mean, hell no. I understand if you,
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if you want me to shut up, I do understand that my address is confusing. How is it confusing?
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um it's just crazy sometimes uber like delivery drivers it's like
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it's like i know it's not confusing because there's been 10 other
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delivery drivers and none have this problem you see what i'm saying like i'm like the problem it
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might be you. What? Okay. What is confusing? But I think it would be cool. Like imagine
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if I could start my shows with you guys and I could record a song easily every single
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day, even a rap and just put it on Spotify easily. Like I just want, I don't know if
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I need to learn this stuff if it's easy or what, but there is a prime rib here. Oh, I'm at your
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door. Okay. I don't want you guys seeing how short this dress is. I'm going to be honest.
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So we're going to play a commercial. This is, it was warm out. It was just today.
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this clip going viral online of a dozen women being asked the following question
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do we need men most answered very quickly no because men are useless
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this headline from the hill it caught my eye most young men are single most young women are not
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young men have fallen faster than any demographic in america over the last 40 years it's a different
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world now like we don't need men the way that they used to the future is female men and women
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are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it a fascinating debate
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has broken out about the value of marriage you've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing
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this men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way you need to stop acting like
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grown boys and infants and actually become men marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond it's a
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machine designed to extract resources from you now many of the red-pilled have taken the position
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that it's bad for men to get married hannah pearl davis or just pearly things one of the most
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controversial faces in all of the internet she goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal
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for men because if me and you were in a business contract you would never sign a contract where i
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am paid to leave. Gee, what could go wrong there? 74% or something of divorces are initiated by
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women. Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. Men get killed by the courts
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and by divorce laws. I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of
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law. Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse. You need
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no evidence. When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing
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up for, and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart. I interviewed them
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on the other side i didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old how much did you spend trying
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to get him back on legal fees alone was about 200 000 before you know it you're homeless you're
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literally just thrown out onto the street we absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women
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wives are taught to leave their husbands and then daughters grow up without their fathers
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family is a foundation of society every problem in society comes from single mother homes a lot
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of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness endless happiness feminism's
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biggest failures is it lies to women we tell women to date as many guys as possible we tell
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them to put off family into marriage you are allowed to leave your perfect husband you are
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allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend oh freeze your ex have an abortion
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what you're evil i don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into
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preparing to fail right like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be
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pessimistic naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway it's self-sabotage
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And that's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave
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when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man.
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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women I don't want to be an independent woman anymore I don't want to be a strong independent
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woman I'm over it when is it going to be my turn where are we meeting the men that don't stop I
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can't keep having these same conversations the only simp here is you Pearl you simp for men
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I think I think you simp for women she's a provocateur she says stupid stuff but Pearl
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is right about this it's already happening it's just not out in the open yet now it's just hook
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up culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want a wife and women can't
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husband the future if everybody follows your path is there is no future going to population decline
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and our economy goes into decline civilization will crumble the american story does not end
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well this is an existential crisis failing young men what up guys all right so if anyone feels like
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donating um the link to that is at the gofundme in the description i just need like 200k to finish it
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um so yeah if you have that feel free to just skirt you know what i mean like
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feel free you know what i mean okay freestyling we're gonna freestyle huh
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freestyle beat and you guys can put words in the chat i haven't done it in a while um
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i think there's more people that want me to embarrass myself
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so i mean i don't know what to tell you guys there's expenses here you know it's like i was
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monetize for two years i know exactly where the money will go if i get it but i just can't and
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i understand you you guys have real jobs you don't want to donate i mean i i get it it's just uh um
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it's just tough like it's kind of just a tough situation you know because
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i even have really big distribution places like um uh like i talked i was in talks with tucker's
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team but about distributing it on his platform the challenge is um the challenge is um that
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like a lot of people just don't want to fund to get it like made and it's expensive
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um and i like i have expenses that um yeah so like you know the editors and whatnot
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okay but let's go to freestyling um freestyle be chill maybe okay let's see
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all right put in a thing in the chat i'll see how good i can do
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Put a word in the chat and I'll see what I can make.
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Sing a version of Everyone Has AIDS from Team America.
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I've been texting for the girls, you know, so I see a lot of folks saying those, you
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I know how it is, I know what is meant to be, I know it and I love it, I'm know it and I love it, I shouldn't have such a struggle, it's too loud, I got that yell in a brand new nation, yell, it's too loud, alright, what do you want me to do?
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Um, all right, let's see can you hear me now is it better you still can't hear it.
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I'm not very confident in my rapping, but I know I'm okay for a girl.
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i talk a lot about red pill i talk a lot about prescription pills i talk a lot about dr phil
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I'm kind of afraid of sharks, and I know that that's kind of dark, but it's not just a walk
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in the park, trying to swim it makes me feel dark, and look it.
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Shark juice, calibration, the best in the whole damn nation.
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We're talking about red pill and Dr. Phil, he's got a blue pill, and I don't like it,
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But I'm a white chick, and I don't really understand how we keep riding, and I don't
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Now, baby reindeer is just something your mama tells you when you live in fear.
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Now I come from a place that there's not a lot of violence, but we feed the momentum.
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I come from a place that there's not a lot of violence, but we go speedy into the island.
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I know that I'm talking with a lot of momentum.
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I know that I'm talking with a lot of pretend-im.
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well what is your rate freestyle rappers I asked my parents for a lot of
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presence but all i wanted was their presence that's kind of clever right
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i asked my parents for a lot of presents but all i really wanted was their presence
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please come home and stay with me that's really how i feel now it's all love not hate i'm the best
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in the gate he's talking how he's gonna take me off the market you got to stop him and bark it
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okay let's see the next one i'll do one more and then i might monologue in the topic
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Chat says I'm dumb because I like to rap, but I don't bitch about how you like to throw
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it back that says i'm dumb because i got black fatigue and it's the woman in me yeah i'm kind
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of tired of this ghetto shit but i still love um yeah i'm kind of tired of this ghetto shit
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but all these bitches come at me and they want to get hit i know that this is kind of weird and
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slowly i know that this is kind of weird and silly uh uh okay okay let's talk about how these
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but really that man was really from the hood got a gingerbread snowman and i don't really get it but
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i'm the type of girl where you can't forget it uh maybe this ain't great but i'm the type of girl
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that's gonna roller skate and i keep on going i guess i got it like all these girls they keep on
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bottom don't stay obey doctor dls disrespect okay i know that i'm not second best i know i'm
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different than the rest because i'm the best youtuber in the whole damn nation i went to
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chicago and took a vacation i talk about parental alienation and talk about satan i know that i
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can't keep going like this i'm in the rap game and i'm talking about this this is left right
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not bad for a white girl not bad for a right girl not bad for a white girl now they're saying it i'm
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getting better and i think i am baby can you hold my hand lol go go go i guess i'm gonna put on a
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show hey tic-tac-toe row row row I get kind of nervous and I'm sorry about that but I'm over
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here just spitting these facts and maybe I got talent maybe I don't but I'll tell you what I
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ain't gonna do this black shit ghetto shit no I can't do it any more I can't deal with these
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weeds and all these fat bitches that really believe they're 10 and they're not. They're just
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a bunch of fat thoughts and I just can't get it and I don't understand. But there's always going
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to be a man that's going to hit her from behind and we know what they're going to do. And I'm
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tired of pew, pew, pew on the South side of Chicago. They keep on fighting. And I tell you,
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Why don't you keep on whiten and it would be better than you manifest it.
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On the monopoeia, O-N-O-M-A-T-O-P-O-E-I-A, on the monopoeia, that's what my second grade
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spelling teacher told me to spell, and to this day I still can't spell it.
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I know I'm going to tell you my audience and tell it.
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Please keep it on the low, low, low, because these women will come and nag me to death.
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I already know you come here to nag when I'm just here trying to get this bag.
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I keep talking and I'm walking and you're over here stalking.
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now they say i'm dumb because i like the freestyle and i do it every once in a while
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and i didn't mean to do it like this i didn't mean to be that i didn't mean to be that chick
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I can drink wine, and I can show up to my show on time, but you're here in my chat.
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do i keep going are you guys bored all right we're gonna i'll let you guys decide one in
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the chat if i keep going two if you're bored and i can go into my monologue
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All right. We got one, one, two, one. Lindsay, no one cares. You're a woman. No, you're about
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i'll do one more i'll do one more half it and then and then i'll move on
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They say- wait, hold on, hold on, let me- I want this one, actually.
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Acoustic. Oh, everybody has AIDS. Everybody has AIDS. Everybody gets paid. I'm in the
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gayborhood and everybody really has AIDS. There's signs everywhere talking about the medications
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fair i guess they can live a long time but if i had aids i'd drink wine and i'm not judging you
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know i mean gay people are kind of hosed but you see what they do one two three me
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okay i think that's all the freestyle i got today i don't i'll look that up for next show
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but thank you for the supers lindsey says she'll pray for my soul well then i'm gonna
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pray that i never speak to you again because your personality is so bad see band forever
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band forever i mean it's it's so great because i really don't have to listen
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i mean it's just so easy to not nag i get it i understand
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So, all right, all right, all right, all right, let's talk, everybody.
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i had noticed a trend with divorced men and i want to talk about the pros and cons of dating
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divorced men for the women in the chat because there's some women that i think have have it in
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them to date a divorced guy and there's some women that don't now what i found in particular is men
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that were once divorced very much wanted to believe that it's not all women are like that
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and they just picked the wrong woman i mean that was kind of the phrase that you would hear from
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especially Christian divorced guys, they really want to believe it was just I picked the wrong
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woman. And they're very willing to do it again. You would think that getting robbed and your kids
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stolen from you would make men not want to get married anymore. And maybe it doesn't. I don't
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know. I can just speak to my experience. Those are the guys that want to marry you immediately.
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So for the ladies, dating divorced men, if they're dumb enough to do it once,
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they're dumb enough to do it again. They are dumb enough to do it twice.
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I'm going to eat these chips and it's going to be annoying and I don't care. I don't.
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I think after the second divorce, men are debilitated and have given up on love. But
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if anything, I found that divorced men were actually very hopeful. They're very hopeful
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that love is in the air and that it wasn't their, it was just a bad wife. And they're
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very hopeful for you to be better. The other great thing about dating divorced men is that
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But generally speaking, it's very easy to exceed their expectations.
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Like imagine you go into a job and you say, I'm applying for this job.
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There's an open position and they say, well, my last employee robbed me.
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My last employee actually robbed me, stole from me for years, and made my life hell.
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If all you have to do, if all you have to do is show up, not be fat, and have sex, like
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really. Divorced men, the bar is like here. It's so easy to exceed their expectations.
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They're really willing to do it again. They'll marry you. I mean, I can't remember what percent
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to men, remarry, but it's a very high percentage. The majority are dumb enough to do it twice.
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And so what happens is, this previous employee was terrible, god awful. And you come in and
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You're just not fat, has sex, maybe cooks every once in a while.
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You're always going to be hotter than the ex because you're probably 10 years younger.
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the other great thing about dating divorced men is there's something fun about a guy that
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has nothing to lose men with a lot to lose just are not fun you ever wonder how do these bouncers
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these club promoters um how do they get these hot bitches how do you get like the hottest
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bitches around like you'll see these men and they have nothing they're sleeping like you know they
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say women care about money and i just don't think that's true if anything i think fathers care about
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money but if women um women might try to take your money but when it comes to love i mean every
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romantic story ever is women picking hot guy over love i mean think of titanic right
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i mean jack had nothing he's at the bottom of the ship and he's talking rose out of her knickers
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she's cheating with jack the guy who was nothing and her family saying go with the rich guy
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I think dads care more about, fathers care more about money than daughters.
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And come on, ladies in the chat, how many times has your father said, why are you dating
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because when women date rich men it's more of a transaction it's not like
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those aren't the men we'll crawl through broken glass for and do anything for right
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i mean you know the notebook it's the same thing she has the rich husband and cheats with the broke
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um i don't think he was broke with the broker guy from high school
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Zubia knows what I'm talking about. She knows. Now, how does this relate to rich men? Sorry,
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not rich men, divorced men. Well, divorced men usually have nothing. They're broke.
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They might be, a lot of times, they're really smart and really intelligent because women only
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rob intelligent smart men. I mean, you know, you're going to rob, I don't remember the other
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guy but not jack obviously the other guy you rob but there's something about having nothing to
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lose and i think you guys have kind of seen this transition for me i think i'm a little bit more
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fun now i lost everything when it comes to my youtube career i mean i have hit pieces completely
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disparaging to disparaging me. I mean, I became all the things that I talked about, right? I'm
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not that feminine. I'm obviously not married. I don't have kids. And it's embarrassing, right?
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It's very embarrassing to become the thing that you never thought you would be. And I think a lot
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of divorced men are in this situation because married men are extremely arrogant. Like there
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was a guy yesterday that came on my show telling me that he his his wife was special and different
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and you guys saw Crowder before he got divorced he was very arrogant that he found this Christian
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trad wife and whatever and then you go through humiliation a failed relationship
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and divorced men have gone through usually the ringer a very failed relationship where a lot of
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times they were very arrogant about that it was going to work out and so when they go through
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the divorce their ego is gone and there's something I think you can feel it when somebody's
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ego is gone when somebody's been through the ringer and it was kind of similar to me you know
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the hit pieces came. They took my channel. My friends turned on me. And in a way, I got zeroed
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out. I mean, not like men do, right? I'm not trying to compare. Obviously, I suck. And I would
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say after I lost everything, you become a lot more grateful for the things you do have, and you
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become a happier person. When you're on the top, there's a lot of pressure. There's a lot of stress.
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and I would say that's the same thing with a marriage right when you're responsible for a
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whole household that's a lot of pressure and stress a lot of times they had a good job during
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the marriage which a lot of times you know they they might lose it or get a demotion because
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they're just so um held back by the stress of it
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and so when you date a divorced man you almost get the same vibe as the bartender
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the bout like the reason women love bartenders bouncers athletes whatever
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um partially the status right but also because they're men that got nothing to lose when men
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have nothing they don't act like they have things to lose you know you ever been around a really
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high stress guy you know 20 my dad actually had a lot to lose but he wasn't like this you know he
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might as an exception where he he really is a fun guy and even though he he had 10 kids a big
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business etc he never really acted like he had a lot to lose um
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to be fair this isn't all of them but a lot of men i mean they almost have to learn to be fun
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because they're very serious when they're young and they take everything seriously like you go
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on a date and you feel like you're on an interview with a guy looking for his first wife what are
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your politics? What are they? What are that? And you're like, I'm just trying to drink and have
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fun. The divorced man, they already found their special someone and it didn't work out. Now
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they're here to just have fun. They don't have anything to lose anymore. And that's the best
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version of a man. Men with a lot to lose, they're always afraid you're going to take stuff from
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them and they treat you as a terrorist as they should right I mean I think I've covered for years
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how I've covered for years how women are terrorists I don't necessarily blame them
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but there's something I envy a little bit about men um that just have no fear in them and I think
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everybody sort of um envies this and I think that's why like they become the main characters
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You know, there's something about the people in the spotlight or the people may, I don't know how to describe, I'm trying to describe it in a different way.
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You know, Leonardo DiCaprio is the main character, right?
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I mean, I've heard he like puts music on to have sex with them.
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does not care and there's something about you know the person that approaches the girl with
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no fear the person that goes for the promotion with no fear I think we envy people or we look
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up to people that can just go through life with no fear Trump right I mean that's a guy that lived
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life he got he got married and divorced three times he lived it he ran for president he like
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you could just tell what like even scott adams scott adams right now is dying he is he is literally
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facing death at his door and every day this gangster guy i mean i think he's gangster every
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day he comes up and says i don't care i am gonna do my show i love my show
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there's something about the guy um you know that everybody says you have to apologize for this and
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that. And he says, fuck them. You know, there's just something about, that's why people love Nick
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F, right? Nick F has no fear. He says the N word. He goes up against conservative media.
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There's something about a person that lives life with no fear. And divorced men,
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they they can live life with zero fear because the worst already happened
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there's a sense of peace that comes when the worst and you know i kind of felt like that which by the
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way i'm not comparing my i'm only gonna say this story because i relate to it in a way
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but my story is nowhere near men's men have it way worse but there's a situation that i could
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relate to you know when i lost my youtube channel for two years what what can i fear i am now
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unemployed i have now ruined my reputation online because i i'm unhirable
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this is a lot of drama in any any guy I date's life
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and I thought to myself I thought this the worst just happened like the worst I mean
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in my head right obviously Sneeko got his channel deleted there's
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i nick f was on the no fly list but in my head the worst happened i had to move home this is
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all humiliating i'm kind of fat now like i've gained all this weight because i didn't have
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time the last few years and to me it felt like the worst happened and sometimes when
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the worst happens you have a sense of peace because nobody can do anything to you anymore
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and you start moving differently you don't care
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you know and it's why i came on here now and i think you guys can feel it a little bit
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on on sunday i came on i said look guys i got hammered i did
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do you know what i failed in a lot of ways i did
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A lot of things I thought I was going to do, I didn't do.
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A lot of things I thought were going to work out, didn't.
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i don't have the same fear of my reputation as i used to
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because i really used to it was almost dehubility like it was almost um when you're debating a lot
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of these topics people think they kind of put you on a pedestal that you can't live up to
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and I hated being on that pedestal I felt like I was enslaved to the pedestal
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and I think that is what divorced men feel like they put marriage up on a pedestal and it's gone
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A lot of them are still dumb enough to do it again. I won't lie. I mean, they'll just keep
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letting women rob them. It's like they just want to make money for women to take it. I don't really
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get it, but it's fine. But divorced men have a sense of freedom that's fun and women love
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it. They're the guys with the mattress on the floor. They have no money. And the only thing
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they have is who they are as a person. And it's usually smart, intelligent, competent men.
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And now that all of their accomplishments are taken from them, their money's taken,
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their house is taken, raising good kids, that's taken. Everything's gone.
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the nagging is gone they no longer are being henpecked by their wife and they feel this new
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sense of freedom where they can just say and do whatever they want a freedom a lot of them never
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experienced a lot of men were in their mom's house till they were 18 and a few years later found
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their wife. And, and you, men speak differently when they're free from women. It's kind of like
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how you know, like Pierce Morgan, the way he speaks, you just know he's being nagged and his
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wife is in his ear. Because the men, it's like they almost just talk in this way that's, it's
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such wife guy talk. And you guys know what I'm talking about. And the wife stops nagging and
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now they can live in with no fear. Like imagine if she took, imagine if she ruined his reputation,
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if Pierce Morgan, let's, let's God forbid, but let's imagine he's a wife guy. Let's say she robs
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him, steals his kids, ruins his reputation, whatever. And I think it happened to him once,
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but some men, they just need to learn like three times, two, three times, whatever.
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you could men pierce would not be a fun person to date you can just tell
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and crowder might need two but you guys see the difference right crowder lost everything
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his reputation his money his wife his kids he lost everything
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and you can see his ego dying in a way he does not have the same ego he had before
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um he's still blue-pilled yeah i know still blue-pilled but
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do you see what i'm saying though there's like an ego that's gone
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and that's what's great about dating divorced men they got nothing to lose
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a lot of times they're really smart and intelligent because women don't
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and they have a lot of relationship skills they know how to live with a woman
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they're you know a lot of times if you're an older woman they're easier to date because
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they don't they have more of a normal life they don't really want to go to bars
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and so in a way you can out compete the younger women because the younger women just have a
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lifestyle. That's just not, like if a guy has kids, it's just a lot more difficult to date a
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woman without kids that's under a certain age because they just want to go out and party.
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If you're a woman with kids, they're more likely to accept that because you at least understand
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the lifestyle i know a divorced guy that looked for a single mother because he felt like a single
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mother was the only one who would give up her career to watch the kids his or his kids he
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already had and they didn't even have more kids she just he married her and she watched all four
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They probably don't have a lot of sexual partners in terms of, like, historically.
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I would say they're probably less likely, anecdotally, to have an STD.
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They have the benefits of being a paternal father without the responsibility of the kids a lot of the time because she stole them.
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So they're really only there every other weekend.
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this is also the phase in life a lot of these men get into hobbies that they can bring you into
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um you know this is kind of when the guys rediscover themselves and that's like a fun
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part of their life you know rebuild you know that's exciting for a woman to be well
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be there while you rebuild yourself with knowing that he has the track record of building himself
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but divorced men there's a lot of pros ladies so if you're if you got kids
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if you're an older woman i really recommend going down that route um
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um you just got to make sure they want more kids
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