Pearl - December 23, 2025


Dating In 2022 vs 2025： Men Just Adapted


Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

198.23276

Word count

1,361

Sentence count

17

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

6

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Summary

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Today we re listening to a woman talk about the differences between dating in 2022 and 2025. She talks about how dating has changed since she was on hinge in the past and how dating is different in the present. She also talks about the cancelling epidemic going on in the dating world and how women complain online about it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 There was bad behavior, but it wasn't as rampant as it is now. I can't remember a single time where
00:00:05.120 I actually had a date cancel on me, let alone three in one week. What up guys? Welcome to my
00:00:12.140 reaction series. Today, we're listening to a woman talk. God help us, right? And you're listening to 1.00
00:00:18.240 me. It's like a double whammy. Now, she's talking about dating in 2022 versus 2025. So anybody
00:00:25.520 that's in like the city or like is kind of in the know and knows people actively dating knows
00:00:31.460 the men are getting tired of matching with fat chicks they're getting tired of they're getting 1.00
00:00:35.800 tired of the dates with the no sex they're paying for the dates they're giving attention they're 0.90
00:00:40.000 giving their time and they're getting nothing out of it so they're getting pissed and the women are 1.00
00:00:43.320 getting pissed uh because they're not getting commitment and they're getting less attention
00:00:48.560 um and now we're gonna listen to women complain online about it so let's hear
00:00:52.500 2022 i went on okay so she said in the beginning she said in 2022 she was on hinge and now it's
00:01:00.380 2025 so many dates i met so many new people i was active i was consistently matching with people
00:01:07.000 talking to people whatnot three years later the next time that i've been actively on hinge like
00:01:11.820 constantly checking the app every day every other day is currently in 2025 the way that the app and
00:01:17.940 the people's behavior on the app has changed so much is crazy to me made a video the other day
00:01:23.200 saying that i had three different dates set up last week every single one of them canceled so a
00:01:27.660 lot of women i wonder why they're canceling i wonder why and it got me thinking like do you
00:01:33.120 think it's a looks thing like she's catfishing maybe oh no i don't know if that's if that's her 1.00
00:01:37.980 avatar that she does not look like her avatar oh my god of how my experience in 2025 on hinge has
00:01:45.320 compared to my experience in 2022. I do want to say I do live in a different city. In 2022,
00:01:50.040 I lived in Seattle and now I live in London. However, I feel like the patterns that I've
00:01:54.540 been noticing and like the differences between 2022 and 2025 are more representative of the time
00:02:00.120 versus like a city comparison. 2022, I was easily able to set up one to two dates per week. No
00:02:05.800 problem. There was bad behavior, but it wasn't as rampant as it is now. Yeah. Cause a lot of
00:02:11.260 the strategies that women employ on men men have started employing on women so i i joined all the
00:02:17.300 are we dating the same guy groups for research purposes obviously and and i was just checking
00:02:23.340 you know i'm just kidding just kidding and um it's actually hilarious watching like what the
00:02:28.060 problems are in the dating market you know men are using photoshop now that's that's one of the new 0.67
00:02:33.200 like trends i've seen he doesn't actually look like that and the men are it's the men are using
00:02:38.220 filters too um probably not men have morals so they don't really like doing immoral things but
00:02:43.140 the women don't so it's kind of an unfair game but it's to get two mids on a date it's like the 1.00
00:02:47.920 woman has all these filters the men have all these filters now they meet and they're like 0.63
00:02:51.460 i'm disappointed i can't remember a single time where i actually had a date cancel on me let alone
00:02:58.280 three in one week he may realize that like bigger than just hinge bigger than just dating
00:03:02.600 relationships dating apps there is a canceling epidemic hinge is just one of the places that we
00:03:08.440 see this play out first time that i was seriously on hinge was in 2022 i went on so many dates i met
00:03:14.360 so many new people i was active i was consistently matching with people talking to people whatnot
00:03:19.560 three years later the next time that i've been actively on hinge like okay and they're gonna
00:03:24.200 be mad in the comments they say is it normal to date 12 men in a month now yeah it is actually
00:03:30.120 for women in the dating market i hate to say this i'm just being honest guys it you got to put
00:03:34.600 yourself in women's shoes we're trying to humanize us to some degree how many men would turn down 12 1.00
00:03:41.880 dates a month with beautiful women most men don't have that option that's why they're bitter and so
00:03:46.440 that's when when you see people applying morality it's generally um an indicator that they're not
00:03:52.840 sexually successful and it's because um because you know if if the mikey here is saying oh is 0.96
00:04:02.760 that normal to date 12 men a month men that are sexually successful no they're like oh yeah it is
00:04:07.540 these hoes run through constantly checking the app every day every other day is currently in 2025 1.00
00:04:13.320 the way that the app and the people's behavior on the app has changed so much is crazy to me
00:04:19.240 made a video the other day saying that i had three different dates set up last week every single one
00:04:23.260 of them canceled and it got me thinking of how my experience in 2025 on hinge has compared to my
00:04:29.840 experience in 2022 i do want to so the men are canceling on the women say i do live in a different
00:04:34.560 city in 2022 i lived in seattle and now i live in london however i feel like the patterns that
00:04:40.080 i've been noticing and like the differences between 2022 and 2025 are more representative
00:04:44.880 of the time versus like a city comparison 2022 i was easily able to set up one to two dates per
00:04:50.800 week no problem there was bad behavior but it wasn't as rampant as it is now i can't remember
00:04:56.360 a single time where i actually had a date cancel on me let alone three in one week he may realize
00:05:03.280 that like bigger than just hinge bigger than just dating relationships dating apps there is a
00:05:07.800 canceling epidemic hinge is just one of the places that we see this play out first time that i was
00:05:13.100 seriously on hinge was in 2022 i went on so many dates i met so many new people i was active i was
00:05:19.620 consistently matching with people talking to people whatnot three years later the next time
00:05:24.220 that i've been actively on hinge like constantly checking the app every day every other day
00:05:28.740 is currently in 2025 the way that the app and the people's behavior on the app has changed
00:05:34.440 so much is crazy to me made a video the other day saying that i had three different dates set up last
00:05:39.700 week every single one of them canceled and it got me thinking of how my experience in 2025 on hinge
00:05:46.260 has compared to my experience okay so again okay let's see what this woman i can't believe that 0.96
00:05:52.260 she says that's what she looks like are you guys seeing this profile oh my god that is such a bad
00:05:59.380 catfish bruh um let's see no women are not the problem let's talk about this article that i read 0.57
00:06:08.580 in the atlantic okay they probably found her social media that's why you're getting cancelled
00:06:12.660 on i don't know because i was like the last time i was dating i never got i'm like before men never
00:06:20.100 cancel before they've slept with you so i'm like you must have did something you must have did
00:06:25.780 something like before they've hit i mean they never cancel like ever they're like out no after
00:06:35.060 they've hit that's a different story right because then it's like god only knows anyways guys um let
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