Pearl - September 25, 2026


“Dating in Your 30s Gets BRUTAL for Women” @JustPearlyThings

Mentioned
Camilla
The Life of a Real Ninja “Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

2 minutes

Words per minute

186.77

Word count

416

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Toxicity

1

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Hate speech

2

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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 it is very difficult to date as a person and it's not and this is what this is what i mean when i
00:00:06.080 say women we're just so lazy i just can't stand how lazy we are all right what do you guys rate 1.00
00:00:11.440 her five say let's say five still gonna get thousands of matches on the apps maybe if she's 0.99
00:00:16.000 chubby let's say she's even a four still you can date black men latino men they'll do it so get
00:00:20.640 you on the app and um set up six dates a week and like it's not hard it's not difficult uh you might
00:00:27.920 want not feel like it and that's fine i'm not saying you have to but just stop saying it's hard
00:00:32.800 it's not it's not hard and you're matt you're one of the biggest cities in the world there's so much
00:00:37.280 choice there 30s i feel like most of what i see is really young people who are still in the process
00:00:45.680 of figuring out their life which no problem about that i remember when i was that age and i was
00:00:51.920 doing the same thing um but obviously i do not want to be mommy i want to find an equal
00:00:57.920 or you have much older people who are out of marriages with baggage and i'll never change
00:01:08.360 potentially don't want to have a family because they already had a family with somebody or people
00:01:13.740 who maybe didn't do that but never grew up like why are you in your 40s and you still don't have
00:01:20.760 the emotional togetherness that you would expect from someone that age so I've just been having
00:01:26.320 such a hard time I'm like smack tap in the middle of it all and you might think Camilla well why
00:01:32.140 aren't you dating someone your age because my roster at the moment is negative but it's because
00:01:38.640 I think most people my age who have it together are already in relationships long-term relationships
00:01:47.240 or dating with intention or in their first marriage and haven't yet gotten to their second
00:01:53.960 marriage so i'm just anyway i'm having a hard time but if you all know any eligible contenders
00:02:02.120 okay so you said that you had a roster and you want people to set you up with people he said
00:02:07.000 i'm 40 and don't worry it gets worse before it gets worse live in new york city and you
00:02:11.400 think that they would be yeah okay let's keep going