Pearl - Dating When Broke, WOMEN PAY FOR ONCE!？

00:00:00.000 and if you can't afford it and then i want to pay and then that's an issue and then i'm going to do

00:00:04.000 without you because you can't afford it then that's a what up guys welcome to my reaction series

00:00:09.280 as you guys know women are terrible with money and even though dating generally costs women nothing 1.00

00:00:14.800 women are complaining about dating while broke although one thing that's interesting is i went

00:00:19.280 to a restaurant the other day and i asked the waitress what percent of like the men pay on

00:00:24.480 dates and she said it's mostly women that pay and i was like is this becoming a thing are women 1.00

00:00:30.000 starting to pay for dates but anyways leave you can't date or you should not really date

00:00:36.800 i don't know this was in a specific area that was pretty nice so i don't know maybe it was like an

00:00:41.280 area where mostly women lived so i don't know if any of you seen that put in the comments financially

00:00:46.080 stable anytime you go into something and you're not good on your own whether it's even emotionally

00:00:51.200 but financially it's like a girl you get into a relationship with a guy he moves in with you you're

00:00:56.720 not financially stable enough to leave him now because you need him to live with you so you can

00:01:00.720 afford your rent yeah but the thing is if you're a likable woman all you got to do is move home for 1.00

00:01:05.840 six months go on dates if you're good at being a girlfriend and you're good at that role you'll

00:01:10.240 find a new taker you will then you're you know you wouldn't have that problem if you were already

00:01:15.760 settled on your own yeah and then on the other hand dating a guy who doesn't have who's not

00:01:20.080 financially stable suddenly you can't go out like don't get in a relationship if you can't afford to

00:01:25.440 do basic activities because now what we're both supposed to stay home because you can't afford it

00:01:31.360 because everything we're going to translation i like spending money my boyfriend likes to save

00:01:35.840 money and i resent him because i want to spend money he wants to save it and i want to go to

00:01:43.120 all these new places and he doesn't care about that it's going to be an issue it's going to be

00:01:46.800 you fight and if you can't afford it and then i want to pay and then that's an issue and then 0.97

00:01:51.180 i'm gonna do it without you because you can't afford it then that's a fucking issue i truly 0.99

00:01:54.960 yeah i i don't think the men make it an issue like honestly i think most guys if a girl says 0.97

00:02:00.720 she wants to do something he's like all right see i'll have fun at the house i'll play my video games

00:02:05.600 what do you guys think about women dating when they don't have their life together

00:02:09.920 and when do women ever have their life together i went back on my hinge i've had it for a while 0.98

00:02:15.960 it's always been popping but i just hate dating because i'm a very honest woman and explaining my

00:02:23.240 life and all that fun stuff is like a lot okay it's a lot for me to open up because i have so

00:02:30.360 many layers but i'm 29 i want a baby at least one and i want a husband that loves me and cherishes

00:02:39.560 me and I decided hey like if I'm honest what's the worst that can happen right so I opened it up I

00:02:47.720 was dating this one guy you could call it that whatever horrible horrible horrible like embarrassing

00:02:54.500 it couldn't have been that embarrassing if you were banging him I mean he 0.61

00:02:57.940 like women say that but sometimes it's usually like he was clouded but ugly or like good looking 0.89

00:03:03.980 but broke or rich but ugly emotionally unstable but hot like something i went on a date with a

00:03:11.220 guy a couple weeks ago great guy but i just wasn't feeling him and she banged the other one not the 0.65

00:03:17.400 great guy and i went on a date today and it went really really well and i was honest and i told him

00:03:22.940 where i'm at and guess what he said i don't care like you're clearly a woman who wants to go 1.00

00:03:28.660 somewhere wants to be more than where you're at right now you have the drive like you have the

00:03:33.860 vision you're smart my job as a man is to support you be that shoulder for you to cry on and lean on

00:03:40.300 if you need it support you where you need support it at and possibly invest in you like if i see

00:03:46.880 that vision and i i agree with it and it's so rare for like to hear that come out of a man's

00:03:54.960 mouth nowadays because they really do think that they're the prize like it's really crazy but yeah

00:04:00.380 like what do you guys think about that do you think women should be dating while they have 13 0.99

00:04:05.420 dollars in their account like i mean if they're young and plus sugar dating is so big now 1.00

00:04:11.420 women just find sugar daddies it's incredible okay let's do this like has to be 10 times worse 1.00

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00:07:30.480 shit right away there was no other choice as i'm scrolling through his instagram i see pictures of 0.87

00:07:35.840 porsches and rolexes so i'm like oh okay this man has a bag so when he asked me out to go out for 0.97

00:07:43.280 dinner of course i had to say yes no matter if the date would go well or not you know she was

00:07:50.000 gonna hit either way sometimes a girl just needs a free meal but woman to woman we know when we see 0.99

00:07:55.680 men like that nothing really is free so a week goes by and during this entire week up to the date

00:08:03.280 this man is messaging me constantly like oh baby girl you're so beautiful i'm so excited to take

00:08:10.000 you out i'm gonna shoot you so yeah right yada yada and normally this type of would give me 0.70

00:08:17.440 the ick right but you know after seeing all his rolexes his porsche his bougie lifestyle i i just 0.98

00:08:24.880 let it slide so i'm getting ready for the day i have my thrifted red dress on little kitten heels

00:08:30.800 looking cute ready to go out he picks me up in his porsche at 7 30 p.m sharp i'm thinking all

00:08:38.560 right this is already gonna be a good ass date he opens the car door i sit in and as we start 0.74

00:08:46.880 driving he tells me we are going to nobu i'm just thinking nobu on a first date the man must really

00:08:54.800 like me or something because he is shelling okay it's either it's either he's gonna make her pay 0.79

00:09:00.400 or or he does this to all his girls like look men make systems so usually it's like their first date

00:09:07.120 like system out and i've been wanting to go to nobu since i was a child from that first

00:09:13.200 episode they showed it on keeping up with the kardashians so as we're driving you know he

00:09:18.720 does the classic move like one hand on the steering wheel the other hand slowly placed

00:09:25.120 on the thigh normally i'd be like panties kind of getting wet type of thing when this happens

00:09:31.300 but the way that man did this was in the creepiest way ever that i had to just move my legs and

00:09:40.440 scooch towards the window you know you know when you do when your man's a little bit mad at you 0.80

00:09:45.360 like body turned away because i did not want him touching me it felt fucking weird in how did you 0.93

00:09:51.900 grab it i should have known that this was a sign of what was about to go okay what's gonna happen

00:10:00.060 down we get to nobu and honestly i am just so excited to be there that i forgot about that

00:10:06.380 whole situation in the car right that creepy ass situation boom out of my mind because i was just 0.60

00:10:12.540 ready to order my dream meal i was so excited but girl it didn't go down the way i expected

00:10:19.820 so as we're sitting down i am replaying my order in my mind like i'm gonna get the hamachi the

00:10:26.140 wagyu tacos the the miso glazed mackerel right but as soon as the waitress comes over and i'm

00:10:33.100 about to order because you know the girl always goes first he jumps in and starts ordering

00:10:39.660 everything oh no he's gonna leave her with the bill for me i was like what the 0.99

00:10:45.100 fuck like when men do that i they are on some different type of shit because you just don't do 0.99

00:10:51.200 that for a woman you let them order you let them get what the fuck they want so again i let this 1.00

00:10:57.560 slide because you know i'm i'm on a first date i don't want the man to think i'm i'm some crazy 0.98

00:11:03.520 girl and i also just don't want to cause a scene so i let this slide too but anyways the date

00:11:09.320 that's incredible if he paid like what do you mean let it slide he took you he starts to go

00:11:13.480 really well surprisingly like the conversation flow and we actually have some stuff in common

00:11:17.960 until he starts giving me some signs that he's kind of expecting something from me so he starts

00:11:27.100 putting his moves on me right it was the creepiest thing i've ever experienced like even

00:11:33.620 still thinking about that date it gives me the chills because i was so uncomfortable

00:11:38.200 he starts trying to like reach for my shoulder put his like hand on my hand trying to play footsie 0.92

00:11:45.400 on the table i'm like what the fuck are you doing at this point i have no interest of doing 0.99

00:11:54.020 any sort of physical activity with this man afterwards because he was just a big walking 0.99

00:12:02.100 ick plus like a just this creepy vibe I can't even describe at this point he starts alluding

00:12:08.980 to me that like you know I took you out on such a nice day I'm gonna pay for this expensive meal

00:12:15.560 I gave you something you should probably give something back and in my mind I'm like oh that's

00:12:22.100 such bad I mean this is why drinks are nothing it should just be drinks drinks coffee a walk

00:12:30.000 nothing expensive there is no fucking way i am doing this with this man on the first day and i 0.94

00:12:35.920 get it some girls will i all power to you but for me that is just not my vibe so when the waiter 1.00

00:12:41.240 comes back at the end of the meal and it's like oh do you want some dessert you have room for

00:12:45.520 anything yummy i say no check please right away and they're like okay do you want to split or 0.97

00:12:50.800 together immediately split no time to let that man think but this is where i fucked up okay 0.97

00:12:58.880 because as soon as the waiter brings the bill and I see the price of the meal that that man 0.92

00:13:06.820 ordered for me I couldn't believe it it was literally $200 plus tip I was not prepared

00:13:16.720 to be spending no food prices tonight so I made some random excuse like I need to go

00:13:22.780 powder my nose or something like that I'll be back really quick so I book it to the bathroom 0.99

00:13:27.340 As soon as I get to the bathroom, I lock myself in that little stall, park my ass on the toilet seat. 0.97

00:13:34.820 I am checking my phone, PayPal, Venmo, my bank account. 0.99

00:13:41.360 Your girl has the total of $47.

00:13:46.820 Gotta put her in my credit card.

00:13:48.960 In my credit card?

00:13:50.220 I see this app that I downloaded like months ago but totally forgot about.

00:13:54.600 It's called PayMe.

00:13:55.400 and pretty much what it is is like you fill out a few forms and it matches you to these class

00:14:00.640 action lawsuits against these big companies that already owe you money so you get like your portion

00:14:06.140 from it i'm like yes perfect i fill out the form it takes me literally 10 minutes okay this man

00:14:11.480 can take i think i'm taking a shit or something i don't care fill it out the deposit hits by paypal 0.84

00:14:16.920 185 hits my account go back to the table slap my card on there boom dinner's paid without having 1.00

00:14:24.240 to do any funny business with this man after that i did not say shit to this man walk my broke ass 0.99

00:14:30.960 home because you know what i i am not i am not taking any more shit from any man with red flags 0.99

00:14:38.800 even if they look like disco lines yeah i mean this is why i just think it's best cheap first 0.96

00:14:47.100 dates see if we vibe if we vibe you know we vibe so anyways that's how i feel about it let me know

00:14:54.060 what you guys think in the comments, like the video and subscribe to the channel. I love you

00:14:57.560 guys and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - February 27, 2026

Dating When Broke, WOMEN PAY FOR ONCE!？

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