Pearl - February 28, 2026


Peasant Women Are Living the Lives Of Queens

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Melanie Jolie
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10 minutes

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165.34

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1,786

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36

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34

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4

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In this episode I talk about why women don t cook or clean as much as their male counterparts, and why women should cook and clean. I also talk about the importance of women living the life of a queen and why they should be cooking and cleaning.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, I am never leaving the South because I'm sunbathing in February.
00:00:09.380 So I was thinking about, I'm going to put this, I'm going to put you guys, I'm going to put you guys here.
00:00:15.600 Okay, so I was thinking about how the higher status you go for, like, the men I know that are, like, richer, like, makeover, say, 250,000 a year, 300K.
00:00:30.000 or men that are like famous, right?
00:00:36.500 Because I've met a lot of guys that are famous over the years.
00:00:40.060 The less they really care if a woman cooks or cleans, right? 1.00
00:00:44.500 And it's kind of counterintuitive because you think, you know,
00:00:48.040 they could demand anything.
00:00:49.380 Don't they want a girl that cooks and cleans? 1.00
00:00:51.540 The thing is, men that are really competent,
00:00:54.240 by the time they hit their 30s,
00:00:56.260 there's one of two things that have happened.
00:00:57.980 they either learn to cook themselves so they have like food they just enjoy eating
00:01:05.420 and like they would rather just make it themselves because they know how to do it
00:01:10.540 um or they just eat out and they have their restaurants they go to maybe it'll change
00:01:14.860 when you have kids right but usually if you earn a lot of money um cooking especially like high
00:01:21.260 status men because they're in the cities more you know meal prep services have become really you know
00:01:26.380 know cheap so a lot of the things women could bring to the table um maybe 50 years ago they're 1.00
00:01:32.900 not as valuable anymore so i started looking into it more and i'm i was thinking about it
00:01:40.160 and i'm like the reason women don't cook and clean is because they're auditioning for um a queen 1.00
00:01:46.620 so historically like i was looking at the like what the day a day in the life of a queen would
00:01:52.760 be and it said in the morning they would get up and they would have servants that help them get
00:01:59.420 dressed and get ready and I was thinking today that's kind of happening because women have nail 1.00
00:02:05.740 salons they have hair salons like those are the equivalent of servants right that help them get 1.00
00:02:10.420 dressed there's laundry services um and usually the queens would change their outfit like two or 1.00
00:02:17.380 three times in the day where the shopkeeper's wife um and the like the peasants would wear like 1.00
00:02:25.380 very practical clothing every day oh do not do not kick my phone don't everyday clothing
00:02:31.860 so then the queen they would either have breakfast or lunch and they would have three meals a day and
00:02:39.580 it would be a lot of like sit down meals a lot of times with maybe world leaders or whatever
00:02:43.780 and they wouldn't cook they wouldn't clean and their job was to like man maybe etiquette or
00:02:50.520 managing relationships and I was thinking about it and I'm like it's kind of the same thing as
00:02:54.960 restaurants so you know you sit at a restaurant they bring you the food that's the equivalent of
00:02:59.960 servants and um on top of that it was you know their job was to like maintain the king's reputation
00:03:09.000 and again I was thinking about it and I'm like women have insane um like the people women know 1.00
00:03:18.320 because you know our currency is beauty is insane like women can get in contact with really high 1.00
00:03:24.000 status men um and you know it was kind of the same thing with queens but the difference is
00:03:31.560 peasants didn't get to live the life of queens you know the peasant women this idea that women 1.00
00:03:36.300 never worked. I don't know. I've looked into it historically. Now we work for other men, but
00:03:42.160 before we'd work for our husbands. But when I was looking, I'm not a historian, but when I was
00:03:47.600 looking it up, peasant women worked like 12 hour days in the fields. You know, it wasn't like they 1.00
00:03:52.320 just did nothing all day. So, or they would work in like their family's shop, whatever it was.
00:04:00.200 so essentially what we have in this society is when women are young they get to live the life 0.81
00:04:06.660 of queens you get your hair done you get your hair dyed do not do not do not lick my do not 0.65
00:04:12.860 you get your hair dyed right put this over here um okay we're gonna 0.56
00:04:21.540 move this way dog move this way this way okay thank you
00:04:27.260 whatever okay so young women get to live the life of queens queens would get to travel that 1.00
00:04:35.220 never happened for women that um like made under a certain amount of money or were from like a 1.00
00:04:42.820 peasant or a middle class family um on top of that queens would have all these different outfit 1.00
00:04:48.900 it changes and you see this on tiktok like all the women are basically playing dress up well 0.93
00:04:52.720 that's kind of what queens did um the women or the queens would be the ones that go to events 1.00
00:04:58.340 it was the servant's job to cook and clean so the reason partially because women are lazy right 1.00
00:05:05.660 but the reason women aren't cooking and cleaning and raising kids is because they're auditioning 1.00
00:05:12.440 for the job of a queen um a woman can learn to cook right but it's a way bigger better roi of 1.00
00:05:20.640 her for her to go to different events and travel to places where rich men you know make money um 1.00
00:05:26.960 or go you know get in the right circles that's a way more valuable skill and you really can't have
00:05:31.680 both right you can't because someone that's like learned to cook and clean and like i've actually
00:05:38.040 gotten pretty decent at it um you really can't get that good at it if you're not eating at home
00:05:45.180 but women eat in nice restaurants in order to attract the attention of a high status man because 1.00
00:05:52.060 beauty is our biggest currency um so a lot of women that are you know claiming they want 1.00
00:05:59.040 traditionalism they don't want to work well a traditional woman historically um she wouldn't 1.00
00:06:06.040 be playing dress up. She wouldn't be going to restaurants. She would be at home. Only queens 0.99
00:06:10.580 got to, you know, travel. Only queens got to have nannies and all these servants. Like a queen's 1.00
00:06:16.460 job was to manage servants. So now, and I was, again, I was looking into like some of the most
00:06:24.640 desirable men in the world and who they married. Do you think Angelina Jolie knew how to cook and 1.00
00:06:29.760 clean? No. Do you think Melania really knows how to cook and clean? I mean, just, do you think 1.00
00:06:35.820 that's like part of her day to day I was watching the um uh what's the the footballer's wife it's 0.99
00:06:43.300 like the really attractive footballer um he married the girl that works at the shoe store
00:06:49.920 or something I can't remember her name but I was watching the documentary of his wife and
00:06:55.360 his wife didn't cook and clean I mean she's on their private jet and they have servants bringing 0.99
00:07:01.660 them. But here's kind of what you miss. A lot of high status people, I think it kind of messes
00:07:10.040 them up having people wait on them all the time. I have no idea if like historically queens went 1.00
00:07:14.840 crazy or kings went crazy, like out of balance of probabilities. Maybe queens more than, I don't
00:07:21.960 know. But you kind of become like a useless person, right? You know, having people cut your 0.99
00:07:31.660 hair, do your nails, manage your garden, raise your kids, they just become like useless people 0.98
00:07:39.100 who don't know how to do anything. And I think a lot of times, people in the middle class live 0.93
00:07:45.260 better lives than these elite women. And you wouldn't think so on its like head, right? Because 1.00
00:07:51.480 obviously they live like georgina ronaldo georgina or whatever his wife obviously 1.00
00:07:57.900 lives an easy life she's in private jets she's on yachts uh you know but at the end of the day
00:08:04.760 like food is food so whether she's at a michelin star restaurant or in your house like you're still
00:08:09.340 eating the same um you know i i had people over for a get together yesterday are the people on
00:08:17.160 the yacht really that much better than the people that went to my apartment like the normal people
00:08:21.980 um no but the difference is the middle class people they adopt like skills um now I don't 1.00
00:08:30.080 think this translates to men completely because I I know men that earn a lot of money they don't
00:08:35.100 know how to do any basic like life skills cooking and cleaning and they're fine because they have
00:08:39.560 like you know men tend to if they're not devoting their time to learning one skill set it's to
00:08:46.080 another um so they have other competencies anyways um but I don't think elites live that
00:08:55.980 much better of lives than um like people with servants I really don't think they live better
00:09:02.140 lives than like normal Americans um because like think about that day you wake up you dress up you
00:09:11.840 get you know your hair appointments all that stuff your botox whatever then you go to lunch
00:09:18.580 then you go to dinner you're spending like half your day eating you're not doing anything you're
00:09:22.000 not learning anything and then a year like Georgiana or his wife I mean she's like 20 pounds
00:09:27.680 overweight she's still a good figure but like she's overweight now and what have you learned
00:09:32.700 by the end of the year um it just turns people into brats so I don't know if there's any history
00:09:38.360 buffs on here and this is kind of just something I'm spitballing but I don't know I think extreme
00:09:48.060 wealth will make people go crazy because they don't know how to do anything themselves
00:09:51.500 and as someone who as an adult learned a lot of basic life skills that I didn't know when
00:09:59.780 I was younger because I was playing sports so much um it's just a way better way to live when
00:10:06.860 you know how to do it you're you're in complete control the other thing too is that I think more
00:10:12.420 women are foregoing marriage for hobbies than um like I think it's partially a hoe phase but when 1.00
00:10:21.380 I look at most women's patterns right I think most women are picking like random hobbies over 1.00
00:10:28.920 marriage and kids so anyways that's another video but like the video subscribe and let me know if
00:10:37.200 you have any thoughts on peasant women are living like queens because I'm kind of you know I'm kind 0.97
00:10:45.100 of putting this together on the fly like the video I'll see you next time